First the apology. I someone had asked to do the RHOA recap this week and I happily agreed. I was feeling very unwell and I haven’t even watched the show yet. I don’t know why I put up the reverse recap post other than the fact that I can’t remember shit lately. It’s becoming a problem. I am so very sorry to the kind person who offered to recap. I feel terrible about that.
Next, I got some test results back today that are rather scary. I’m not going into details here but I need to take a day or more off to deal with the new information. I am not sure when I will be back. Moderated comments will not be put through during this time. Emails will not be answered. Please, please do not call me. I just need some space.
I know all of this seems a bit dramatic, and it is. But, I need to find some big girl panties around here somewhere and put them on. I’ll miss you guys and hope to see you all very soon. I hope you guys will all keep commenting to each other and keep the site going. It’s just a bit much for me to handle. I hope to be back really soon.
Prayers being sent. 💕🙏
You got it Tamara! I will say a prayer for you and am sending love and good vibes💙💙💙
Positivity and Prayers!
Let us know how we can help okay you are surrounded by support
exactly my thoughts too. i have found brining a notebook to doc appts is helping in remembering all the info that seems to leave once you get home. just a thought that may help in the meantime take care rest/hydrate and we will see you soon
I actually started recording on my iphone now.. Tamara, get to the bottom of it and we are all pulling for you.
Hi TT,
I hope you’re feeling better VERY soon! Please let me know what you need for recaps. I’m watching anyway and you’ve been here for us for so long. I’m here. We’re here. Just lmk!
Angstyness
Information is power! Please take the time to rest, reflex, adapt, plan, accept and deal with your health. You are a strong woman and we will love and support you through whatever is happening! Let us know if there are ways we can be there for you.
I’m so sorry you received unsettling results from your medical tests. Take all the time you need.
Prayers and hugs! ❤️❤️
We love you! Sending you strength and hope and remember we are all here for you.
Honestly the recaps are secondary to why most of us come here. Rest and take care of yourself. If anyone feels like the “please don’t call me request” doesn’t apply to them well get over yourself and be respectful of her wishes
So true! Take care of yourself. We’ll be here when you get back.
Please find your big girl panties, and WEAR THEM! Always praying for your well being! Take care!
🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
Thinking of you…
I just read that Taylor Armstrong who was RHOBH is going to be on RHOOC! Will she be the first one to jump from one to another? I quite liked her and I will be happy to see her back. I hope it’s ok to share this.
I think this will be the first time! It will interesting to see how she vibes with Shannon and Heather. She just did RHUGT with Tamra so they seem fine together….for now!
I was glad to see her go the first time. She has issues that are not helped by being on RH.
In my opinion, these gals will chew her up and spit her out after awhile (starting with Erika and Lisa), which will make her more of a mess. Poor Kennedy has to go through this a second time.
Tamara, wishing you only the best. Be well.
You’re probably right but she’s going to OC, not BH. I’m looking forward to seeing Kennedy. Tamra posted nice things about her, so I’m guessing she’s being cast as Tamras offsider.
Sorry can’t stand Taylor. Won’t be watching OC anymore anyway. BUT, she’s a grifter from Oklahoma and Taylor is not even her real given name, ALLEGEDLY. But one might find picture(s) of her in the yearbook of Broken Arrow HS (Tulsa area) IIRC. In the late eighties or early nineties-can’t remember-with a different name. IJS. Housewives is the new true crime network imo. It’s gonna be another shitshow I predict. No thanks. Can’t line the pockets of the felons by bravo anymore. I’m sticking to recaps. Feel sorry for Kennedy and that Russell stuff was sus to me. Small towns talk A LOT.
Tell us more. If only someone can help her with those fake eyelashes.
Can’t stand her either. That stupid birthday party for Kennedy was vomit inducing.
Yes, I saw the yearbook pics and read about the name changes. There’s lots about her in the streets. She allegedly was the driving force behind Russell and allegedly used her maiden name, Ford, to allegedly scam investors. Just do a search asking if she is a grifter and you will get multiple multiple results showing the allegations. Just what Bravo prefers!
I wish Bravo would quit bringing back housewives they previously got rid of. They got rid of them for a reason.
I did think Andy was actually funny (for a change) when he announced Taylor coming back, but on OC not BH, that she now lives in OC. He was saying it’s the first time this has been done. Then, he said something like in other news Jill Zarin is buying properties in Potomac, Miami, New Jersey, ATL, OC, Beverly Hills, Salt Lake, and Dubai. He was being shady about how desperate she is to get back on RH.
Big healing hug and prayers to you TT
ditto.
No matter what, you’ve got us! 💕 We’ll be here when you are ready. Everybody else: let’s at least get TT some revenue by going back & reading some past posts. (For any newer people: there’s a lot of good & interesting reads!)
Sending virtual hugs and prayers! Love you! 🙏❤️
I will be shoring you up with prayers. This is a test I know you will pass. 💙
All my love, Jana
Prayers and Hugs TT!
We got this.
Stay strong and take all the time you need.
We’ll be waiting for you when you come back😘.
Prayers and blessings to you TT
Sending you positive vibes, love and prayers! ❤❤❤❤❤❤ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Take as much time as needed 🥰😃😘
Let us know how else we can help you. Hope you’ll be back in the swing of things soon!
Sending love and prayers. We’re here for you. ❤️🙏🏻
Sending you hugs prayers & love ❤️
I’m not going anywhere. Take care
Love you TT and praying for you! We can comment about shows on old posts, I know I’m going to have a lot to say after this week’s RHOBH.
Take all of the time you need, we will be here ❤️
Idk if I can take another week of it. RHOBH has really jumped the shark. I’ve gone from loving Kyle to can’t stand her and her hypocrisy. Garcelle & Sutton are the only two I like. Now, the streets are buzzing about Sheree, which she’s just a friend on RHOBH, but her comment to Sutton annoyed me last week anyway and now I’m seeing her on the gram asking people to sow seeds by sending her money like she’s some Joel Osteen wanna be.
She’s asking people for money? What? What is going on with all of the scammers on RHOBH?
Go look at her video and her post under it on the gram. Find the video on her account with Sheree in blue framed glasses and a blue dress or blouse that has pink, purple & yellow flowers on it. She is saying to sow seeds and lists her Cash App & Venmo info. It really reminds me of some of the tv televangelists.
what does sow seeds mean?
Give to receive. Televangelists get on tv and preach that you have to sow seeds in order to receive blessings. They want you to send them money and say that in return your blessings will be abundant. Sheree is doing a little preaching on videos on her Instagram and in her post under it she’s commenting about people needing to sow seeds and she has her Cash App and Venmo info for people to send her money.
Thanks for the clarification on sew seeds. Never heard that before. She sounds like a scammer especially after I read she’s being accused of selling counterfeit designer purses
if you, Tamara, are interested, I can recap My Big Fat Fabulous Life. starts on August 10, I think for the last season (season 10). should be lots of drama and the usual Quitney shit show. Let me know if this is something you would want.
In the past, for this site, I recapped teen Mom and A Celebtrity show with D list houseguests. Cant remember the name.
The second show I recapped was Marriage bootcamp. 2018
I love My Big Fat Fabulous Life! I’d be interstate in recaps. Whitney is such a mess.
Interested in recaps that is.
Isn’t she though. she tops herself every season by being extra special horrible. This season’s storyline has to do with her being her family’s savior or some shit like that.
I would love if BigFatFabulous Life was recapped here! Whitney Thore is someone I love to hate🤣
Sending positive vibes your way TT!
Sending you uplifting hands
of faith and love
🤲🏻🙌 🤲🏻🙌 🤲🏻🙌
I no longer watch the RH series. I do read the recaps, so I’m hoping folks who do watch will help us out with recaps! What I’ll really miss as TT takes her well-deserved break is her blinds and updates. The Purple Pen is my fave.
And TT, hope you get a plan going to get things back on track health-wise. I don’t think I ever left a condolence message for Banjo. I’m still reeling from the loss of my boy dog last November. (I still have a girl dog.) He was that pet-of-a-lifetime. I’m literally tearing up just typing about it. There’s a basket full of his stuffed animals (he loved them, treated them with such tenderness, despite him being a 65 pound frankendog) we haven’t been able to touch in a closet. I think that was what Banjo was to you. I know what that feels like. I wish I could say it gets easier. (Fucking tears. Dammit.) Anyway, I hope you are on the path to good health.
Step up, you Housewives-watchers!
Sending positive vibes and wishes for a speedy recovery. Admiration for facing whatever is and fighting!
🙏🏼❤️
sending love and hugs, TT, you take your time, we will be here.
Dear TT.
To start, I am glad you are stepping away to take care of yourself. But as far as looking for your big girl panties, you are already wearing them. You are recognizing that there is something amiss (no need for me to get dramatic) and are doing the prudent thing by stepping away to address it, that is what girls who are wearing the big panties do.
You are speaking kindly and matter of factly.
If you are doing your best, that is all that can be asked of you.
Like I told my best mate who is sick with cancer, take the little victories. Slowly but surely you will right your listed ship.
Be well and we hear from you when we hear from you!
Big girl Boxers, I believe…… ; )
TT called them “big girl panties”, just reiterating what she wrote. Thank you for that though. I do like the Big girl boxers!
Thinking of you and hoping for the absolute best to come out of these concerning test results. We’ll be here when you get back. Just take care of you – no matter what happens. It’s time for the focus to be on you and your health.
Hey TT. I’ve been gone for a moment but I’m so sad to see that you also have been doing bad. Persevere. Get thee to thy DOCTORS’ appointments post haste. You are very loved and needed no matter what you believe. Also, if I may be so bold, get an Aide, Certified Medical Assistant, Intern, Kiss Ass or Sycophant. You may need someone to help you a few hours a day w chores .n errands until you recuperate. Wishing you and All a Speedy Recovery and Peace and Tranquility.
Geez girl, my heart aches for you. I don’t respond much but you are in my prayers
Understandable you need time, no worries. We will hold down the fort for ya. Take care TT!
So I remember reading last week someone mentioned Billy Joel’s ex was the first of top chef host, Katie Lee. Well I don’t ever remember watching the first season so I started it again. I didn’t realize she was married to him back in the day. Ugh the fashion back then, like watching vintage OC and those satin tops, lol!!
Sky tops!
Healing takes courage and strength and often the help of others, and so I wish you courage and strength.
I have checked the site so many times today in hopes there would be a comment, any update at all, from Tamara. I hope she is leaning on someone while dealing with whatever is going on. She knows we are all here, but let’s face it, we can be a bit overwhelming at times. She has to rein us in every once in awhile.
Love you TT! ❤️😘🙏
Sending healing thoughts and prayers your way!
TT take all the time you need. Processing new medical information can be overwhelming and emotionally draining. Thanks for telling us what you need. a) Space b) people to keep commenting and clicking on the site.
This is TTs job yes she has support from everyone here but doesn’t need to worry about updating us any further she said she needs time and space no phone calls. She asked for that very nicely.
I’m just about to watch Below Deck Med. I’m already cringing in anticipation about poor chef. I feel for him. He is like the geeky kid who got the hot girl and now he doesn’t know how to keep it cool. It’s car crash TV but I’m rooting for him to slap himself and get it together. A sooky pining boy is not very attractive. Come on Chef.
I’ve been away. Was able to go see my sister in Texas. I have become quite the expert on looking up helpful information for us women if a certain age and available options in other states that can help with illnesses and proper legal forms, etc we should have on hand when dealing with major stiff by ourselves.
My point is, I can’t be with her (sister) all the time but I can research and write up very helpful, condensed notes. I’m offering this to you, Tamara. No advice, a resource.
I’m good at this. Managed to find available options the “care team” either didn’t know or didn’t tell. Navigating this stuff is overwhelming but … Not kidding, I’m like a savant. Lol. I have had to do this defending/representing myself in court, my son’s disability … and would be happy to help in any way without you having to recap and exhaust yourself, telling me your personal business. You have a group that wants to help and has varied skills. Use us. I’m that friend that shows up (via text, phone, email) and doesn’t ask questions or offer advice if you don’t want it. I don’t clean like Nancy or do dead rodents. Lol. But use us all.
Sending you love and good vibes.. on a lighter note, what do you guys think and you TT, always love you input, Taylor Armstrong moving to RHOC?? A didn’t like her on BH but actually think she’s perfect for the OC! A think gina and Emily are gone (or ate least demoted) unless they really bring it..
Always here for you! Take the time you need. Love and prayers being sent.
Tamara, take all the time you need to get yourself well. That’s your only priority. Sending best wishes and prayers for your speedy recovery. We’ll be here waiting for your happy return.
Be as well as you can TT! Take time to breath, cry, do whatever you need. Personally had w weird medical diagnosis in the past year…..took time to get head around. Still seems rando!
Sending you positive thoughts and prayers.
You have not been feeling well for a while Tamara and not knowing why. The good news is you are starting to get some answers, scary that they may be, but it is good to know what you are dealing with and act. Hope you get a good and supportive team of caregivers to help you navigate through it all.
glad you are getting medical help, sorry it’s needing the big girl panties to deal with it.
Sending you love, hugs and prayers. We will be here for you when you’re ready to come back. Take care of yourself. 💜💜
Wish I could share my falafel and stuffed grape leaves with you. Just want you to know you helped gorilla glue a broken heart that had been shattered and I love you.