I am FINE. I love you all for trying to help. And all of you who actually did. I am going to be fine. Please stop shouting to me about your diagnosis. I fell and hit myself really hard on a cast iron tub. I am fine. I don’t need eleventy billion medical professionals showing up now. It’s kind of late for that. I AM FINE. It’s no big deal. Also what I don’t need is my best friends cousin’s sister also fell and…. she died, or whatever bad news you want to tell me. IT’S NOT HELPFUL.
I can’t figure out how to block comments. But, please don’t. I am going to be fine. There is nothing to see here. I do no need any suggestions.
Tx so much for recommending Twitter over the years TT, I just love it here! I worked long crazy hours for years but have been off on suck leave since May (hip replacement) and just have enjoyed tv shows and Twitter so much. I recommend PERCOCET for the fall.
Lol … Sorry not sorry I couldn’t resist. Joking not joking.
Oh man, I’ve been away on the East Coast for 5 days and I missed some stuff here, it seems. So glad to know you’re fine Tamara. (But OUCH!) Cyber hug.
I am up if you want to talk. I can listen. I kinda want to talk also. I have no opinion or anything.
I meant to say I don’t have an opinion on your thing because I am not a nurse, or a doctor, so I have not commented because I have no knowledge about that. I do have experience in drunk conversations late. Love you and good luck.
Hey T
My hubbys a nurse in aged care, and deals with falls all the time … here if you ever have a question I can pass along to him and ask.
As for me I am no good with sick people just thinking about a paper cut makes me weak in the knees.
Hopefully your on the road to recovery shortly and you can regale us with some of your amazing stories soon.
❤
Sending positive and healing energy. Peace and Blessings.
On a very positive note have you had a chance to watch the new mafs? Also 90 day? See the line up for the new happy ever after? All good but I don’t know about mafs anymore. The last good one was with Woody and Amani! They are soo cute I am sure you seen their cute baby!!! Such a stunningly beautiful family. Was disappointed with Bennet and Amelia. Last season was blah too.
Who is watching Mama June and Sister wives? Both are good! I am surprised The one family is still being features on Sister wives. They murdered someone wtf.
For the serious audience Downton Abbey is an awesome series. I am 3/4 through season 2 and its good!
Please tell me it’s not the family who all sleep in the same bed, because I commented on Twitter (or Reddit, can’t remember which) after the second episode that whenever they’re on screen all I do is imagine them in the backyard or the woods with flashlights burying someone.
Marcus Epps they haven’t been featured but will allegedly.
Dax Shepard and Kristen Bell said their family all sleeps in the same room. But not the same bed. I cannot imagine that. My parents wanted their privacy from us! Which is a good thing.
Yeah, I know a few families who have had their kids sleep in their bed over the years, but this is just adults. 1 man and now 3 women. They don’t have kids.
This is literally the first email I have opened today. All I want to sleep. BUT ARE YOU TELLING ME THAT BENNETT AND AMELIA DID NOT MAKE IT? I may just go back to bed.
Oh noo! I am sorry to be the bearer of bad news yes they split. Allegedly Bennet cheated. Disappointed.
What do you mean they murdered someone on Sister Wives? I’m
Glad Christine got out of there.
I love 90 Days but am not looking forward to seeing Ed again.
Sorry Seeking Sister wives and yes.
Anyone following the Murdaugh murders? I am. It’s hard to believe people can be truly evil but, evil walks amongst us.
Mandy Matney has a terrific podcast – you can hear some of Alex’s prison calls, learn about his legal strategy (or lack thereof). Fascinating.
Fuck the good ole boys.
Sara – I am following the Murdaugh debacle! From the son boating under the influence and killing his childhood friend, all the way to now. I KNEW he killed them! I just knew it.
I am not podcast savvy, but will try to find it!
Belinda – I’m watching MAFS and MAFS Aussie. I follow Mama June’s hot mess on another site b/c I cannot watch it 😂😂. Sister Wives unnerves me out b/c I just don’t get it.
TT – No advice here. Just appreciating the site 💖💖.
Excellent choice of photo for this particular post TT. Spot On!
Dear Tamara:
Please please use that screenshot every chance you get. It literally makes me LOL!!!
Many thanks,
BSD!
Sorry I’m one who got carried away giving advice. I’ll try to control myself! Love this site and thanks for recapping some of the shows I cannot watch anymore. RHOBH for example. Every time I tune in and someone is ugly to Sutton I get mad and go to something else. Plus I love the comments and commenters. 😀
Good news that you all may already know due to a leak. TJ is back on the RHOC. Filming starts soon. The original OG is not coming back, she is sad, but I think it is only a matter of time before she comes back also. High drama here in the OC coming up. Watch out. Best to you T.
Jesus. I was bitchy last night. I almost (or maybe did ?) buy a very expensive thing from Tiffany. I BLAME Jenn she sent me wine and I haven’t had wine for months. I appreciate that you all cared enough to send suggestions. It’s just that I am going to be fine. Probably. maybe. 🙂 And I am just glad I didn’t hit my head.
Sounds like you and I may be having the same “fun”. I DID hit my head and do NOT recommend. Getting old is so fucked up.
Hang in there,
Heidi
OMG! I am so sorry, Heidi! falling sucks. I haven’t said this before but I’ve fallen twice since the first one. Once when I was on the phone so the whole damn fire department showed up. I THINK I AM over the whole falling stuff now and am more careful.
I also want to ask the other old people…. Do you still have hair on your legs? Because I don’t . And if the answer is of course you must be dying of cancer then please just STFU. LOL. Not really LOL.
My BP dropped twice last weekend and I had EM services twice. DEFINITELY had a concussion from the second one, I remember nothing for a huge block of time. Sigh.
I still have super hairy legs and I’d rather not, but I do have friends who have mysteriously stopped having hair growth and have been told it’s a menopause thing. I’m supposedly done with menopause though and this shit keeps growing.
CLUTCH ME TO YOUR BOSUM Heidi! I am ready to cover my tub and maybe all the floors with that pop paper you get packages in.
That’s not a bad idea. I have a fuckton of bubble wrap on hand (a result of another Amazon order gone horribly wrong) I’m laying it down like carpet on my VERY HARD hardwood floors.
I take solace that while the end of my 50’s SUCK, at least I can take solace in the fact that I survived the 80’s.
I can’t believe my liver survived the 80s and I am still trying to kill it! LOL. If any of you find me when I die, TAKE THE BRACELETS. I may or may not have bought one last night. I honesty do not know.
I was never super hairy on legs or arm pits either one. Since I hit menopause, I barely grow any hair in either place. I did not realize that was yet another gift of menopause until a nurse told me recently.
I keep thinking I should at least shave my legs if I am going to try to get to massage place if I am every awake during the day… and then I noticed.I have ZERO Hair there or on my arms but um I do still have it down there and and it is supposed to go gray? I have hair on my head that has not gone gray yet.
I have the same thing! As I’ve gotten older I have on armpit hair! Still have hair on my legs and other places. Not sure why but I haven’t had to shave under my arms in years. I wish this would happen with my legs! Maybe just aging?
I meant no hair.
I’m 59 and haven’t had hair on my legs for 20+ years (I make up for with a lovely mustache that must be waxed). Then I went for a check up last year and some snotty podiatrist told me it was circulation issues, but my sarcastic primary care (who I love) said my circulation was fine.
Yes, I have gray “there” too. Aging is NOT for faint of heart 😅.
THESE ARE THE THINGS WE NEED TO LET PEOPLE KNOW!
I feel like menopause should not be a mystery.
I had to stick my hand down my pants to see if I still had hair down there. If it is gray, I really do not want to know about it.
I just went to moderated comments and there is someone with I multitude of names who was calling me a whiney bitch. UM ARE YOU NEW HERE? This is not exactly breaking news. And they seem very angry that they are in WLS. So here is the thing. I have been a whiny bitch and may be so again. I did in fact ask for sympathy here and got more than I could ever have expected.
I apologize for this wine induced post. I was just trying to say I am improving every day. And I don’t need any more advice Also, there is a difference between advice and sympathy. So the reason that you keep coming here to complain about why I haven’t had tea for a while and you hate my site. That my dear is why I don’t put your nasty comment through and also why I will never see them again.
I’m not for everybody. FIND ANOTHER SITE.
Amen to this TT. Your site, your rules.
I’m glad you’re ok. Having had cancer twice, I know how you feel about well meaning friends descending and offering advice..or stories about someone just like you, who had exactly what you had/did, and the worst, also went to your doctor, and and now pushing up daisies. So, I’ll say I’m so glad you’re all good over there, and also is MAFS Aussi still on?
I heard it got cancelled in the US … the headline here (Aus) was ‘mafs cancelled’ I read the story and it was only cancelled on your end .. phew!! I love mafs so much even though I shouldn’t 😁
Thank you for confirming that, Scrappy. I’ve been looking for it and can’t find it. Did they say why? I can’t remember people’s names, so I can’t ask about the couples.
You can stream MAFS Australia on Lifetime. They removed it from their broadcast lineup but it is available on the website. They drop 2 episodes every Wednesday!
Thank you!!
Thanks Tam. Menopause is something no one talks about, not sure why.
I felt the same way! My mom passed away just before I went through the change and I felt loss. At least several times a day I said out loud to my empty house “nobody told me about THIS/that THIS would happen.” Really missed my mom during that time. Finally went on HRT, been easier.
Gawd I’ve been chatty on this site lately 😁
Me too! I think because it’s a safe place to comment and vent (within reason).
LOL Tam who thinks there is any sort of “reason” left in me.
I’m only up because I have weird headache (bracing for the stories about how I need to have that checked out immediately because my best friend’s sister in law ‘s friend just dropped dead of a headache). I am watching some of the hearing. I am over it at this point there are a billion reasons to LOCK HIM UP. Either do it or don’t but can we please stop talking about this fool???
OMG. I wanted my mama too! I ended up googling things to see if what i was going through was normal. I’m one of those that had a super heavy period after I got the vaccine. I mean, like 2 months straight. Sometimes so heavy I had to “change” every hour or so. I ended up at the doctor. That’s the trip that ended up costing me a couple thousand dollars. They just wouldn’t cop to it being a combo of nearly being in full blown menopause + vaccine kicking immune system into overdrive, due to my family history. I just saw an article the other day saying it’s officially linked now, particularly in older women. Still not scared of vaccine. It was just an awful side effect.
I have super patchy hair on my legs. Thought it was gone altogether until one day I crossed my legs in sunlight and was like, whoa! That shit is 2 inches long! Ha ha. I’ve never been hairly but i can feel the peach fuzz on my upper lip now. Lovely. I remember mama plucking hairs out of her chin and thinking is that coming for me? Oh yes. And the weird headaches. Lordy. My ears ring and head swims sometimes. Iron deficiency? Nutty old lady crap? Who knows? Iron does help, though, for real. Get Slow FE. It’s like 8 bucks at the walmarts and doesn’t stop you up.
And there’s my TMI for the day. You’re welcome everybody!.
I love and appreciate your comment. What I am about to say has nothing to do with you.
A long, long, long time ago I was active on a few websites and one was people I considered my (online friends). When I was setting up this site a guy friend said about this other site of assholes that just don’t make your site all about old lady problems. I MEAN WHY WOULD I DO THAT? I wasn’t even an old lady when all of this started. That other site was basically one post a day where most people talked about their doctor visits. I feel like we are going there and I STARTED IT! I need my mama to come slap the shit out of me! LOL She would tell me I am fine. I fell. I am getting better. But am eleventy billion years old and I still miss my mama. When you feel kind of weak… I guess everyone does. Whenever I went home from college anyone who may have been in my room was kicked out. There were always fresh sheet and if anything was growing there would be fresh flowers on the bedside table. I miss my mama.
Ha. Understood. Swapping ailments like a bunch of grannies. When did this happen? I used to do bad things all night!! With strange men! Oy vey.
And oh my yes. My mama. We had so much fun after I was grown and so thankful for that time with her. Shopping at thrift stores, eating fries dipped in chocolate shakes, giggling like fools. Now, she could bring me a plate of fried eggs on toast and grits with lots of butter and black pepper and it would just warm me to my toes. Or stick crappy Winn Dixie donuts in the oven late at night and eat them with black coffee. Suddenly they are delicious and who needs sleep? I’d argue with her to pay for everything then get home and find a hundred dollar bill stuck way down in my coat pocket or side of my purse. She KILLED me doing that. I miss her so much.
What sweet memories Sam! Your momma sounds like a lot of fun😊
Yay!! I want to fly you up here in my pp for a massage! If only! 😂 Yes! Shaving your legs will make the massage better for you and them. I don’t have to shave as much (or maybe I just don’t gaf), but I do like 2x week. I’m so happy you’re thinking of getting a massage!!! 🤸♀️ 🤸♀️ 🤸♀️
The people need to know about this shit. And I think they ruined my TV shows is to force the moron supporters to see the truth.
Also, I tried to email Jen and I could not find find her email and it is too late to call her. Also, I suck as a person. I love you JUSTJENN and thanks for all the food!
Hi!