And I really do not care.
First, I feel like I might have let my anger at one person constantly nagging me to do the things a grown ass woman knows how to to affect others. I am not mad at anyone still here. I appreciate your concern for my health. I’m working on it. As most of you know by now, I have really bad anxiety leaving the house even to go to Publix is an issue. I’m sorry I got one Know It ALL get to me with the constant nagging. I didn’t mean to dismiss anyone else’s kind concern. There is A LOT going on over here. Who would think a virtual shut in was living in such interesting times. Oh and my Lawn Kid stories are about to change to Lawn Kid’s Baby Mama who was crying in my house yesterday. And she came by again today because he is MIA. And I am so over him.
Baby Mama can be some help to me. And she can’t work because she has no child care. And she said those words that a sloth like me hates to hear. “OH, I LOVE TO CLEAN IT’S LIKE MEDITATION AND SO CALMING.” Or some sort of bullshit. It annoys me and yet her stupid perky happy ass is probably what I need. She did bust out crying yesterday when she found out that I paid Lawn Kid in advance for some work. SHUT IT. I KNOW! The last time I saw Lawn Kid and I hugged him and feel like he is my son. We had such a great talk. le sigh.
Then, I remembered something that we did not talk about. I sent her a gift that was rather pricey for the baby. I gave it to Lawn Kid in the brown package. I joked to him to tell her not to sell it . That was stupid. I should have said it was a stupid little thing. She never mentioned it. I feel like she would have. I feel sure he sold it somewhere. My son is a HORRIBLE PERSON. I’m team Baby Mama now. She came today to see if I had heard from him, he is MIA. I am trying not to care.
There are a lot of you and I struggle to keep with who is who sometimes. I just talked to Baby Mama and she did get the silver spoon I sent. But, he didn’t say it was from me. He made up some story. She is also checking jails and hospitals. He’s just no where.
I’m going back to watching movies on E! I am a few hours behind due to some much needed phone calls. I was actually talking to someone and randomly interjected THERE IS FULL BLOW PORN ON MY TEEVEE! Apparently I am watching Bridesmaids. Another person sent ICY HOT. So back is feeling good. It’s unlikely I cracked a rib. SO YAY? And if I did there is really nothing to do about it.
Baby Mama should be here to help tomorrow. So the Lawn Kid baby mama drama shall be the sequel to Lawn Kid: How Tamara Got Fucked OVER. The new version Tamara Never Learns Her Lesson: Baby Mama Drama. What I really DO NOT NEED RIGHT NOW is y’all telling me I will get fucked over again.
I do not need you to tell me I need an antibiotic for a UTI. I am however going to need those of you who live near the border to traffic drugs for me. I am so very sorry I can’t remember the name of the person who sent the prednisone that kept Banjo alive for a few more months. But if any one is going to Mexico, I need some Cirpro. Or Cefdinir. To keep on hand. It cost me $300 to get it here. I’m SO VERY ANGRY ABOUT THAT.
Never a dull moment there. It would be great if she can help you clean your house. It’s sometimes nice to have another person around just to have someone to talk to.
You know if you like REAL LIFE PEOPLE. LOL. I much prefer y’all who I can chat with when I feel like it. In other news I have alerted the Nashville and ATL friends I have who are covering Tarek Issak Mentouri. I am trying to find people with Facebook who can alert Church people to him.
I work 4 days a week so I’m forced to be around real life people. Once I get home I want nothing to do with anyone but my dog.
I live in Nashville, and haven’t seen any updates on Tarek Mentouri in our local news since his June court appearance. He is like a horror movie monster who keeps resurfacing in the shadows.
If I have someone coming over, I clean. If someone helps, cleaner house.
Tamara, you have a kind heart. Maybe baby mama is worth more of your time? You’ve done so much for lawn boy. I feel like he takes advantage of you. A baby though, you help.
I thought I was helping the baby…. I was wrong. He just disappeared. Maybe he used the money for a bus ticket to somewhere? Last I heard baby mama hasn’t heard from him since either.
This makes me smile. Not the bad news just the part where our Tamara is back.
thank you my friend. I guess I am that friend who never learns… but I really need the help. And she really needs the money, I am fine with that.
l think it’s cool that baby mama is helping you, and you her. You both need that right now, so go for it. Is the baby with her when she’s at your house? That is also a bonus. Hope she’s a happy baby. (Do l know the baby is a she?)
I am also the friend that never, ever learns too. I still haven’t learned. I don’t even think I want to, but I’ve become a bit more selective. 🙂
I’m so glad baby-mama is helping you. As a teen I helped and/or cleaned for everyone it made me feel good. Let her do it all!! She’s young, motivated and has energy. Yay!! I barely remember energy.
So happy to hear you’re feeling a bit better.
Do you need any CBD oil or THC/CBD combo. It’s liquid. Called tincture. You put in under your tongue. It tastes a wee bit herb-y, and it crushes my anxiety. I haven’t had a full-on panic attack in a couple of years. I get it in Massachusetts — legally, and I may or may not have a history of sending to friends. Let me know!
xoxox
Sunshine
Yes! This is our safe place to comment. I think many of us were reacting to Roe vs Wade, Gun deaths, politics etc. Many of us got carried away. But I love all the comments about RH and other stupid stuff. Great escape when the real works gets to you. 😀
The real world that is.
Damn you have a lot going on!
I get UTIs on a regular basis and they suck. I did find out they are an actual virus and lives inside you or something like that.
I think Baby Momma sounds like a good addition to your house. She can clean your house and watch her child and keep you entertained.
I really think we need to plan a trip to Paris.
I AM TRYING REALLY REALLY HARD to stop going to Paris. It i lovely but I am old and have never been to South America. It TEN hours to Buenes Aires (is that the right city?) 9 to Paris. I think I can do it. Just not today.
I just need to spray my face with Evian, spritz with some Chanel No 5 and CARRY THE FUCK ON. 🙂
I love Chanel No 5, I feel like such a grown up when I wear it
I love this! I’ll remember these words and use them next time I’m in a crisis.
I like Baby Mama. I hope it helps both of you. ❤️
So Nancy came to help once. I smoke. She on the other hand kept repeating that she found a more lighters. I am currently looking for a lighter. I buy the occasional BIC but when I go but cartons they give me tons of cheap lighters that explode in your car. They are a last resort.. And now I HAVE NO LIGHTERS. In the hell hole that is currently my life, you opted to throw away lighters?
I hate my life. good thing I had a few in the freezer.
Or light it off the stove!
Been there, done that.
And the toaster =)
i used to buy matches in bulk at walmart but i don’t remember where walmart kept them. wasn’t where i would have put them.
I NEVER DID THE TOASTER!!!!!
Genius, baller move.
Hah! In the freezer!! I am sorry that lawn kid has disappointed you Again. I suck as a mom, I have a son who is doing God knows what after he and his girlfriend having a baby addicted to heroin, Thank God her brother and his wife have taken her in. Babies make everything better, you will be a great grandmother! Mine call me Mimi because I do not want to be a meemaw or granny or whatever. You can be Tamtam?
I would definitely have her come over and help you. It will help both of you. We worry about you. We love you.
I hope this is OK to ask here: Tamara, any scoop on Noella not returning to RHOC?
I know some were not crazy about her but I thought she would get a second season
Sorry. no idea I’ve been out of pocket for a bit. I am trying to get back on track.
No worries, we’ll look forward to any news or tidbits you have when timing is better for you! 🙂
She is NOT returning. Heather has pushed her out. WTH does BRAVO see in Heather? I’ll not watch because I literally cannot stand to look at Heather much less witness her flapping her arms around.
I liked Noella because she didn’t put up with Heather’s fakeness.
TT, dress up and spray on some Chanel and make yourself go out shopping, walking, etc. while
baby mama is cleaning your house and when you go home you’ll be so pleased to see a spanking clean house. It will be a feel-good moment that hopefully will last for a bit. Make an effort to have a positive, I love me attitude. We want you happy, healthy, and around for a longggggg time.
Noella was probably canned because she is the new “Ambassador” for some new slut dating site that caters to “Sugar Babies”, Not ready for primetime. Tamra and Alexis in talks. Alexis has a new family and is friends with Emily.
Same production company does “Botched”
It will be nice to have a baby to hold & rock to sleep while she cleans & gets everything back on track.
Yes! This!! I’m meeting my 2 week old nephew on Monday. I can’t wait to hold the little bundle. And they get cuter and cuter.. til they’re not anymore lol I haven’t reached that phase yet.
Noella and Dr. Jen are OUT at RHOC.
They needed to get rid of Emily and Gina!
I will email you to get your address. I got the goods for UTI. I think you have access to mine so feel free as well. And I am the same way. But I’d have baby mama living with me after lawn guy sold my house from under me. I get it.
In other news, heading to TX next week. Please pray I make it in time. I have a stop over in ATL on flight home. Just sayin, TT. You might have me and my lighters. Andy don’t clean and should be a basket case.
You sound a bit better and that makes my heart happy. ♥️
Dear god why would you want to come to TX? It’s literally been in the triple digits for weeks and the humidity is intolerable. Plus, you know, Texas. It says it’s supposed to rain next week but they lie… the rain never comes. Safe travels and bring tons of Evian spritzers in your checked luggage or else they’ll confiscate it from carry on. I can’t wait to move far away from here.
We spent the holiday weekend north of SA and it was hotter than Hades but the humidity wasn’t as bad as her in Ga. We had a blast 🙂
Wait, why would they take Evian from carry on? The whole point is spraying it on the plane!
Idk about the big size but the purse size is pressurized somehow but TSA Has confiscated it from both my daughters and myself because they said no Aresol allowed carry on only in checked bags. Then again they always take my good shit out of my purse for stupid reasons and I think it’s just them stealing my stuff. YMMV.
That is so weird.
You are allowed to bring a quart-sized bag of liquids, aerosols, gels, creams and pastes in your carry-on bag and through the checkpoint. These are limited to travel-sized containers that are 3.4 ounces (100 milliliters) or less per item.
My Evians are 1.7 ounces.
TEXAS AND DC because of course. All 3 of us basically have been pulled aside and fingered through our clothes at Reagan by same female TSA agent, whether traveling alone or together. And confiscation at both airports here because Texas. International flights no problem but domestic always a problem since pre covid. Wtf
It’s been almost ten years and I am still trying to get over this experience.
https://tamaratattles.com/2013/06/27/my-customs-interragation-story-aka-mia-airport-sucks-donkey-ass/
I would like to visit South America (even though I currently get to Publix) and I am trying not to have to ever go through MIA.
But if I don’t get my sanity back, none of that really matters.
Holy shit. I had completely forgotten about that post. At the time I had what was the absolute worst travel trauma EVER at MIA. And I was alone. It was very close to the time you had your customs/ Lesbian sex part and I couldn’t read your story then because traumatized. I still have told no one about it to this day. I just can’t. But I read yours this morning from the link. Oh my God. Awful. I refuse to go to MIA EVER AGAIN. And I used to go to the Bahamas every summer since a child as a family member used to have a place there who has since passed. Even chose the two day travel out of Charlotte to the West Indies rather than going through MIA. I’m convinced it stands for missing in airport. It is the ninth circle of hell. Thanks for the link and I am so sorry that happened. It’s like that old show locked up abroad. Still traumatized. I can’t.
This is why I only go there in the winter, lol!! My father tells me all the time, well the storm split and avoided us again, in central Tx. It’s funny it will be say 85 here, 38% and my husband complains, I tell him are you kidding me, when you get out of the shower, go outside and your dripping wet again, that’s humidity! Stay cool in the AC!
It’s 103 in San Antonio today and humid horrible.
Heat index in Htown was 112 today and gonna be hotter tomorrow. I only smoke on the balcony and I couldn’t handle it. Too brutal to smoke is where I draw the line, lol. And it’s only the first week of July. Make it stop! I need my Native American ex-FIL to come down and do a rain dance.
107 with a heat index of 110 right now where I live (and it is not even the hottest part of the day) and they have started water restrictions. Tomorrow is only supposed to be a chilly 102. Fetch my parka.
🤣 yeah I got the weather report from my dad, 110 in Marble Falls
Is anyone watching Real Housewives Girls Trip?
Dear God Dorinda is horrific.
She’s a nasty, self absorbed, mean drunk.
Yes dorinda is terrible.
She is truly insufferable and double downs on her insults. It should never have been filmed at Bluestone as she lords it over them.
So she didn’t learn anything from the last year she was on NY that her drinking made her unwatchable. What a shame! I’ll watch it when it airs in a few weeks on Bravo.
So glad to be reading posts from you again. But I didn’t want to bother you. I’m house sitting and dog sitting for my sister for the next ten days and I am so happy to be here. She has a big ass house and a little white mixed breed dog with wonky eyes. And she left me 3 boxes of wine and 3 packs of cigarettes. I hope the relationship with the baby momma is better than lawn kid. Did you ever get to watch BB?
I asked hubby what day it was today, too. Thought it was Saturday. I had a much needed week off. So glad to see TT back. I enjoy the posts and commentary. Dorinda is awful on RHUGT. Kyle was also horrible on RHOBH. Take care everyone!
I am not focusing or functioning since I moved & my ESA cat Mocha went missing. 🐾🕯🐱 in Anaheim.
On July 4, I had an accident w my car *driving 3 miles to have dinner with a friend*
REWARD for Mocha who is my ESA is now $300.00! I asked for help from my former complex but got crickets. She would not even send an Email for her former “valued resident”
I am devastated & 💔.
I have prayed & offered to pay for help with searching/finding her. I need her back desperately-
So sorry about kitty baby. Me and my little Lonzo will be praying for safe, quick return. 💙
Have you tried registering Mocha on Pawboost.com? They are very helpful in this area. I hope you find her.
Hi. Yes, thank you she is posted on Pawboost. Also, Craigslist & multiple other pet sites. Am doing everything I can to get her back. 🕯🐾 🐱
Have faith ❤️. I moved to a new home last fall and noticed a stray cat hanging around. He was very friendly and the more I watched him I realized he seemed lost. I took his picture and posted on our local FB lost pets page and within 30s his mom replied. Turns out he had been lost for 3 weeks from her friends who had been watching the cat while she moved 45 away. He was her ESA. I will never forge t the look he gave me as she walked away with him in her arms. I pray you are reunited with your Mocha soon.
Bless you for sharing that story with me❣ I want to be reunited with Mocha like that!! 💗🐾 Still trying to have faith in the kindness of strangers & praying-
Oh no! Debra Disney I am so hoping and praying you find your Mocha!
Can’t believe your former landlord! So much for being “valued.” She couldn’t be bothered to help with a simple email. What is wrong with people?!?
Please let us know any updates.
You and Mocha are In my thoughts.
I really appreciate that! Once I turned in all my keys & garage devices to my former bldg. They could not care less about Mocha being lost over there. I let security know & maintenance & housekeeping, since they are all On Property. It is a secure building. Gated all around. No predators because of All the people.
3 surrounding complexes are All pet-friendly. I can’t post fliers on private property.
Do u have access to neighborhood next door app for that area
Yes, Lisa. Thank you, I Did access NextDoor app. Anaheim but no Mocha on there.
Lawn Kid MIA so that even the Baby Momma doesn’t know where he is makes me think there may be another baby mama somewhere. I am glad you two have each other for support/help.This may be the beginning of a beautiful friendship! I am glad you are somewhat on the mend. You sound much better anyway, and for that we are grateful!
Aw man, Delete delete delete. I don’t even want that in the universe. I did not even think of that. Please god just Noe. That would really suck. Ughh
You have a big heart, that you like to hide 🙂
I think that its a positive for both of you.
You can pay her to get things done and give her mental support and guidance and
hopefully get some baby time.
Lawn kid is a boy that seems lost in so many ways and needs guidance, but as so many do, has
to learn things the hard way.
Hoping you have a good day Tamara.
PS. Glad Dr Jen is gone, just wish Gina went with her.
Wait. What! Dr jen is gone? I hope she gets busted soon! Still not watching the Dubrow show.
Well I don’t want advice either but it’s day 8 of migraine. It’s relegated to just waking me from sleep somewhere between 2-4am. By the time it gets somewhat tolerable, the construction starts next door at 6:30am. They were here for 12 hours yesterday shaking our entire building and making it hard to breathe with the dust bowl. And they showed back up today at 6:30am on a fucking Saturday. JFC. The ordinance says they can’t be here on weekends or before 7:30 during the week. I would go down to be a yelling Karen but I’m too lazy to make the trip and my Spanglish is awful. It’s got to be related to the headaches and why I’m here before 8am. FML. Please send relpax 40mg and muscle relaxers. I’ve used up my refills and personal favors from drs who have no chart for me anymore. TT can give my email for drugs. Thanks for listening.
Also this: FOR JUST JENN, in case you are lurking,
I have been watching for a comment from you but realize you might not want to share here. I just wanted to say to you that I somehow missed the shitty horse comments and I am so sorry that happened. I’m hoping things go your way with whatever it is that is happening in July and that you can feel comfortable dipping your toes back in here at some point. You have been missed and are in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you! Things got pushed back until fall. I appreciate you checking in ❤️
IJC, I want to second your comments. Here’s wishing Just Jenn all the best and hope that she finds peace soon.
IJC, I want to second your comments. Here’s wishing Just Jenn all the best and hope that she finds peace soon. Take care!
you can buy prednisone from CHEWY. many meds people take are exactly the same as pet meds. Amoxclin, for instance, can be bought off the shelf in farm stores. it’s called fish mox. I read prepper stuff periodically and that’s how many of them are able to stock up on meds.
Yep, I’ve taken extra antibiotics from my dogs before. Look I paid for them and she ended up getting a shot instead, she hates pills.
Came to say you can get lots of meds for fish with no script. Cats and dogs require a prescription but fish meds don’t. Just Google name of med you want and for fish and most of the time you can buy online.
You’re sweet to help the BM. And to get invested with lawn kid and not give up no matter all the drama he’s out you through. You are a mom to him. I hope you get to spend some time with your new grand baby!
Is anyone watching 90 day finance? I really need people to bitch with about how awful the people are this season. Not boring, though they are that, just incredibly awful humans.
I’m Babs, I’m a 90 day fiance addict✋
This season seems to have a VILLAIN in every couple. I’ve been watching since the first season and don’t ever recall intensely disliking someone from each couple so much!
Do whatever brings you joy. If that’s giving money to help out Baby Mama so be it. It’s your money.
My cheese has slid entirely off the cracker though, so I may not be someone to offer up any comments.
Tamara, I share many issues with you. I am also old, have many complicated health problems, because of that I mainly stay sheltered at home, especially with the new Covid variant. I live alone.
I have advice considering our fear of falling – get yourself an iwatch. What’s remarkable about it is if you do have a fall it knows. It works, as I have fallen a few times, luckily, not seriously. The watch will say, I see you had a fall, would you like to call 911. If you do not answer within a certain time it will presume you are unconscious and call 911 for you. It has given me much security. And the watch has many other cool features that I use daily.
How did I not know that Elon Musk is so……well….WEIRD!
https://pagesix.com/2022/07/09/meghan-mccain-slams-elon-musk-nick-cannon-over-back-to-back-babies/
Also, I miss Meghan McCain on the view. The republicans they keep trying out in her seat are like dishwater compared to Meghan. We need her to stir the pot. 🙂
IN OTHER NEWS, Quordle was fucking impossible today. Any get all four I only got two. All I had at the end was ONE A on the second one. No clue on the third one. I only got the top left and the bottom right. Are my brain cells all dead or was it super hard today?
All of the above? With all my love, a wink and a nod to you, peek a boo I am unglued.
I wonder if Elon Musk is the father of Amber Heard’s baby.
hmm possible I guess…
It was hard! I got 3 of the 4, missed top right but was close.
TT – I don’t have Cipro, but I do have a permanent prescription for Macrobid. LMK if you want to try that, and I will send it to you!
Hey there, Was wondering if you’re watching Big Brother this summer….
I am and I am about to post about the recapping schedule.