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Open Forum: MY CURRENT MENTAL BREAKDOWN IS OVER!

May 10, 2022 by tamaratattles 37 Comments

Paypal finally got my account restored on the eleventy billionth phone call!!!! I was about to pay my hosting site!!!! The sun is shining and I can stop throwing up now!  Y’all know I an kind of a hermit, and I didn’t realize how much I rely on chatting with you guys here every day. I’m not really a phone person unless I am having a mental breakdown, or drinking too much. Or if one of you needs me. I don’t know what I would have done if I could not figure out a way to pay the dutch boys. They were MORE THAN KIND during my entire meltdown.

It’s a beautiful sunshiney day in the ATL. I may even go for a walk. Probably not. LOL. But at least it is a thought! I’m more likely to take a nap. Anxiety is exhausting.

Also, apologies to the lovely PCK for the delay on her recap. I was on the phone with PayPal for a long time trying to explain what happened. My Twitter account works now but it has apparently made some layout changes that will take this old lady some time to get used to.

What’s up with you guys? Tell me everything! 🙂

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  1. Ti Yershoo says

    May 10, 2022 at 4:13 pm

    EXCELLENT ! And congrats.
    Jesus. I’m the first to comment.
    It’s feels a wee bit stalkerish

    Reply
    • tamaratattles says

      May 10, 2022 at 4:15 pm

      You can stalk me anytime. xo~tt

      Reply
      • Ti Yershoo says

        May 10, 2022 at 4:24 pm

        Whatcha doin. Where ya goin. Whatja eat for lunch. How big are your socks. Do you lemons? I like lemons. Your hair smells great

        Reply
        • tamaratattles says

          May 10, 2022 at 4:27 pm

          I can assure you MY HAIR does not smell nice. If I weren’t so mentally exhausted I would CONSIDER a shower to wash it. But I am about to pass out. I need to do setups for whatever my recap is for tonight first though. UGH.

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          • Ti Yershoo says

            May 10, 2022 at 4:29 pm

            Take care of YOU first. No one is going anywhere

            Reply
  2. Melcle says

    May 10, 2022 at 4:16 pm

    Omg yay!!!! So happy for you!!!

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  3. PopCultureKelly says

    May 10, 2022 at 4:25 pm

    Whoooo hooooo! I’m so glad it’s resolved ❤️❤️

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  4. Ti Yershoo says

    May 10, 2022 at 4:28 pm

    SINCE ITS OPEN FORUM? Can I brag. Just for a second.
    I’ve pissed off the Editor in Chief of Epoch Times so badly he just followed me on Twitter and IG.
    My work on this planet is done.

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    • fixencase says

      May 10, 2022 at 6:09 pm

      Excellent work!!!!

      Reply
      • Ti Yershoo says

        May 10, 2022 at 6:34 pm

        I’M SO PROUD!!
        I blocked him on IG tho. Too much personal info
        Creeper
        🤣🤣

        Reply
  5. Laura Walker says

    May 10, 2022 at 5:06 pm

    I do not post often, but have been reading your site for many, many years. I am happy you are back in business!

    Reply
  6. JenKen says

    May 10, 2022 at 5:38 pm

    Congrats!! I would follow you on Twitter and do PayPal but I is so so old and my Walmart phone thinks I live in Hong Kong so I can’t download apps.

    Way to beat them into submission the old fashioned way – on the phone!

    Reply
  7. Judith Vance says

    May 10, 2022 at 6:23 pm

    atta girl!!

    Reply
    • Judith Vance says

      May 10, 2022 at 6:31 pm

      atta girl!!

      and in other news today i picked flowers out of my garden and put them on the graves at the two cemeteries of my people. my halo is glowing and my feet hurt and i used a half tank of gas to do it. sorry, not sorry.

      Reply
  8. Barbara R says

    May 10, 2022 at 7:19 pm

    I can’t find a donate button. Is there one?

    Reply
  9. Ingrid says

    May 10, 2022 at 8:01 pm

    woot woot!

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  10. KaraW says

    May 10, 2022 at 8:25 pm

    Yay! Happy for you! It has been cold & very windy in New England, so I’ve purchased a lot of flowers, but haven’t put them in the ground yet because it’s been weirdly miserable to be outside. I have this idea to line the edge of my yard with shade plants – hostas and flowers – along this path that leads back to the woods. Will be interesting to see if any of them take off or come back at all. I have mixed results with perennials. I have some golden alyssium and purple balloon flower doing very well in the sun. But I also love getting annuals because I love picking out the colors each year. I’m super picky and spend way too much time comparing colors and figuring out combinations, but I love the whole process.

    We didn’t know what to watch on TV tonight, so we’re watching Summer House from Season 1. Carl and Kyle look so young! Lindsey looks exactly the same, so good for her.

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    • tamaratattles says

      May 11, 2022 at 12:44 am

      Thank you for mentioning flowers. I am so a flower person. A friend sent me the most stunning arrangement of white flowers I have ever seen in my life. Also, my yellow Irises did great this year so I cut some of those since I rarely step out the front door to enjoy them.

      But, the reason I wanted to talk about flowers is that I had mentioned my entire forest in the back yard just completed the who SEA OF PURPLE. And it was gorgeous. It really makes me happy every year and my neighbors love it. HOWEVER! The reason for this comment was to tell whoever it was I suggested the purple money plant to needs to know that after all the beauty, all the weeds and everything else take over the back yard where grass does not grow. And you can’t do the semi-annual mowing because the seed pods (that look like silver dollars) have not dropped their seeds yet. You have to wait until the pods release the seeds or go out an manually open them by rubbing them between your fingers until you can mow. So right now my backyard is an overgrown mess.

      It’s a small price to pay for an ocean of purple for several months in Spring though.

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      • Mary says

        May 11, 2022 at 1:17 am

        Recovering from pulling weeds. Only real work out for me though.

        Reply
  11. JenuineJen says

    May 10, 2022 at 8:37 pm

    Im so glad you are feeling better. Im not wrll and geel silly and selfish for coming here for love. I have scheduled a vet to come tomorrow to put my sweet lover cat Dandilion to forever bed. I’m sock over it but know she is suffering more than my emotional pain. Thankyou Tamara for being a great friend.

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    • tamaratattles says

      May 11, 2022 at 12:58 am

      Oh my dear friend, I am so sorry. It’s such a hard choice but you are doing the right thing. I’m sorry I could not be there for you. I’m just mentally exhausted. I still need a moment.

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      • Jen says

        May 11, 2022 at 9:10 am

        Love you and you HAVE been there for me. It’s very hard to see so I don’t post often but so Greatful your here. Keep feeling better and share the secrets. I feel numb. Xo

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    • Mary says

      May 11, 2022 at 1:18 am

      I’m sorry, Jen.

      Reply
    • belladonna says

      May 11, 2022 at 3:40 am

      I’m so sorry Jen. Never feel silly for wanting support and understanding for your sorrow.

      Reply
  12. Carol says

    May 10, 2022 at 9:15 pm

    Love you TT! Wishing you all the best and glad you are feeling better!!!!

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  13. Bosandi says

    May 10, 2022 at 9:20 pm

    YAY!

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  14. Amy Kristen Suter says

    May 10, 2022 at 9:41 pm

    Current situation: lost my job, had a total panic attack, had to file unemployment, and just literally trying.

    Left my boyfriends apartment so I could go home to my mom because I need mom!

    Walked in the door, broke down crying.

    And I lost my job because my employer were a-holes to the biggest extent.

    I live in San Diego if anyone else does and knows if anyone is hiring admin staff.

    TT – you’ve been thru it more than most and I pray for you every day because of the joy you give me on this site going on many many years!!!

    Take care of yourself! WE LOVE YOU!

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    • tamaratattles says

      May 11, 2022 at 12:52 am

      I’m so sorry Amy. I had to quit my teaching job because I could not deal with all the stress caused my my asshole principal. I had no idea what I was going to do. But that turned into this site and my life is so much better.

      When you look back I promise that getting out of a miserable job will present you with new opportunities. And I wish I still had my mama at that time and I suggest you stay with yours for as long as it takes to find something that makes you happy. Don’t limit your options to your previous job. If you can live with your mom for a bit you can try all kinds of jobs. Or start your own business. The world is your oyster. And we are always here for you! xo~tt

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      • Amy Kristen Suter says

        May 11, 2022 at 3:24 am

        Thank you for the motivation! Love you always TT!

        I will be here for a bit to get my head back on straight. I need it. I can’t do anything for the love of my life and my friends, if I’m not ok!!!

        And I’m not ok.

        But I will be! ♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️

        Reply
  15. MelG says

    May 10, 2022 at 9:41 pm

    YAY!!!! 🎉Doing my happy dance! 💃

    Reply
  16. Hihokermit says

    May 10, 2022 at 11:33 pm

    I’m still struggling to keep my lips above the waterline. I’m happy to hear that you were able to resolve your PayPal issues. Keep on hanging on.

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    • tamaratattles says

      May 11, 2022 at 12:54 am

      It was such a relief, that I finally was able to stop throwing up and got some good sleep. It sucks that it was during the RHONJ reunion, but I was just racked with stress over the whole thing.

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  17. belladonna says

    May 11, 2022 at 4:00 am

    TT, I’m so happy that you got Paypal sorted. I’ve given up on planting a drought resistant tree in the corner of my yard. I think my neighbor did something to the soil to kill the tree that used to be there. She’s a bit nuts. It was a beautiful dwarf magnolia but it did hang over the fence. I had to pay to have it removed.

    My drought friendly ceanothus (California lilac) was so pretty, just full of cone shaped purple blooms. I should try to do a mini herb garden.

    I bought a bathing suit, and I’m determined to go out and wade in the ocean and probably have something sting me in my privates. I first should probably shave my legs.

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  18. NancyintheSmokies says

    May 11, 2022 at 10:39 am

    Yay!! Happy for you my friend! That must have been exhausting/mentally taxing. Take care of yourself, we are here for you- Is your front yard creeping phlox? I Love that ground cover, my favorite!

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  19. IJC says

    May 11, 2022 at 12:48 pm

    Idk if this will go through, but maybe it’ll at least get through as an email to you, Tamara. Something is going on with my comments lately because I’ve left several and realized that they never showed up ie I left one on this thread saying how sorry I was for all the cards you’ve been dealt lately and you are in my thoughts. But now I seem to be in moderation again and I haven’t used any banned words. It’s random; sometimes says moderation and sometimes just disappears completely after submitting? Sometimes shows up days later. Weird. Anyway, if you get this, I truly hope you are better. Hang in there! You are not alone. Hugs. xxoo

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    • tamaratattles says

      May 11, 2022 at 3:34 pm

      Thanks IJC I just went through moderated comments and there was one or two from you in there. Usually, for regular commenters that means that you misspelled something in you email address. Even accidentally using a capital letter can do it. Seems like you are good now.

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  20. LurkLady says

    May 11, 2022 at 8:19 pm

    So glad your PP issues are settled! That is SO stressful. Take a breath and relax now. I’m having a good day/bad day vibe going on. Just lost the last of my late mom’s friend group – the last living link to her. On the good side, I got to spend the day with several old (30 years+) wonderful friends of my own. Yay for good friends!

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