Y’all I had quite the night. My server went down for nonpayment which is an auto pay on my PayPal account. Unfortunately when I tried to put up a donate button, Paypal changed my account to a Business account and shut down my personal account. I didn’t realize they were doing that and they didn’t transfer over my Amex or my bank accounts. So when the hosts sent their payment request there was no way to pay them.
It is still a clusterfuck that is not worked out but the site is up by the grace of the dutch boys until I can get this worked out. I’m am going to throw up now and go back to bed. #panicattackcity
Good luck dear Tamara.
Followed the drama on Twitter. Glad you are back up
This is why you should all follow me on Twitter. There are two things that give me anxiety. ANYTHING REGARDING MONEY. I have money to pay my bills. I have never been in debt. I pay my Amex balance off every month. I get nervous when I pay my tiny utility bills even though it takes five minutes or less on line and the money is there to cover everything. I have never had a service cut off until yesterday. I have the money I just don’t have a way to make the payment! Everything is all fucked up.
The other thing that terrifies me is not being about to talk to you guys. You are my family and I need you. Seeing the site go down yesterday was the worst thing that has ever happened to me and I have had many very bad things happen to me.
CLUTCH ME TO YOUR BOSUMS 🙂 I love you all.
Also, I was in the middle of writing an open forum when this happened yesterday. I included a word about the situation in the Roe v Wade thread. I am PROUD of us for our interactions with SD. I thought there was limited attacks and more debating two sides of a very controversial issue. SD is not banned because she has been posting here forever and is part of our tribe. She is allow to have differing opinions as is BeetsWhy (our cantankerous Auntie) and a few others here. Now if those posts had been her first posts. I probably would not have put them through. But once you get in the door you are stuck with us. And I am came for you on some issues especially with politics. But all of you are my tribe and I completely lost my shit when I could not come her to whine, (sorry) or laugh or cry or scream. I should be paying you guys you are the best therapy I have ever had.
Now raise your hand if you are fucking someone from Paypal. Come on someone has to be… 🙂 Or tell me who to fuck at Paypal and I’m literally on it. I mean I’m not even sure the lady garden still works and more and I would probably have to talk a shower. But, I would do it for y’all!
Maybe Kim Z’s daughter will blow someone at PayPal.
Well I’m sure my husband is fucking someone over at PayPal or at least trying to.
YES! And welcome back and I am so sorry BUT NOT SORRY, I please speak with your husband?
also can you please make the shack look like a normal person lives here? I’d ask for the Kardashian cookie jar but I have no counters.
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Missed you too ❤️
Consider yourself clutched!
I am having a full blown panic attack. @Paypal is not helpful in fixing this issue. There is some sort of hold on the business account that I did not want but apparently signed up for during the donate button fiasco wiping out all of my financials that i don’t even know how I set up in the first place. Now there is a “hold” of some sort on the new stupid account because I didn’t answer questions they need for a business account that ask for quantity of merchandise I have on hand before I can sell anything. I AM NOT SELLING ANYTHING! And they can’t revert my account until I answer questions I no longer have access too and I do not know the answer.
I can’t stop throwing up. I don’t know how to fix this or how long the dutch boys will give me to work this out.
Can I make a business suggestion? I know you are in full blown panic and anxiety mode. Get on the phone with PayPal. When they say “we need this information” say “ can you please connect me to the person who can retrieve my information or understands and can fix my mistake of switching to a business account”. When you get the next person, you say “I was told you can help me and I can stop having a heart attack”. If they are cold to you or not responsive, go back to the original statement.
You need to find that “gem” in the pack that will take the extra step to help you. I have had bigger messes and gotten assistance. You just have to be sickeningly sweet to the assholes that won’t help. And it’s going to take time. You’ll be on hold a lot.
These are my payment options
PayPal + Guest Credit Card Payments
WebMoney
Wire Bank Transfer (Wise recommended)
Bitcoin, Altcoins (Coingate, Bitpay, Coinpayments.net)
iDeal via Sisow
Alipay
WeChat
Unionpay
South Korea Credit Card
South Korea Internet Banking
Turkish Credit/Bank Card
OneCard
EPS
Bancontact
Multibanco
India UPI
India Credit Card
India Netbanking
Anyone have any of these? I see no hands. If I could figure out how to do a direct wire that would be great. What is Wise?
Do they do business with / accept Deutsche (wire transfer) If so Bank of America are US partners with Deutsche and have fairly simple transfers t
Wire transfers aren’t difficult. Just annoying. If you have a direct contact within the Dutch co, it can be fairly smooth.
You can also open your own bank account in Amsterdam? You just need a passport, but I am sure you have one
I’ll do your PayPal. Email me your number. I’ll call and then destroy the number.
Argh!!! I’m so sorry!!! What a nightmare!!
Whatever happens you’re never losing us. Breathe. You’ll be back in business in no time at all.
sorry for taking over the open forum with my own drama. But wait there is more. It’s Sunday (um, right?) and they are putting up roadwork signs on my street a 5 pm. While I would love to think they are FINALLY going to put in speed bumps, I suspect it is because they are filming in my neighborhood again. This time it is for some Hulu thing. Shouldn’t I get free Hulu for putting up with this nonsense AGAIN?
Someone once shared their Hulu account from me but Gmail keeps deleted my saved messages. Any way the hood a really going though some changes. The little 1950s houses are being bought up, torn down and replaced with REALLY pretty houses. I no lie get like ten offers to buy my house in my mailbox all the time. And that is what most of the spam calls are about. I know it is financially the time to sell but I have ten tons of shit in this house and I’m a mental mess. Anyway there will be filming her for about a week.
I don’t want to put up too much info because the Nashville rapist is always on this site stalking me. He was supposed to have a court date last Thursday and that got pushed back. THERE IS STILL NO TRIAL DATE! The trial has not even started. When it does, does anyone live in Nashville and want to go to the trial with me?Apparently, the snobby rich neighbors who barely thanked me for a $150 planter of hydrangeas that I sent them are having a party next door. Also everyone except me, the person who needs to do it the most take their babies and or mothers or husbands or some configuration of all of the above go for evening walks every night. I have a direct view of the street, side walk. It is very comforting. Tonight there was a whole group of new people (I am the Gladys Kravitz of this hood) walking by and one guy almost tripped because every was pointing to something in a part of my yard I can’t see. They were all smiling. So it wasn’t something bad. Maybe a bunny. The next group that went by did the same thing. I really wanted to know what was going on but not bad enough to GO OUT SIDE /shudder
Sorry for the long rant. I slept late and my meds are finally dealing with the anxiety. Between that and having my tribe back I am doing much better. Did I tell you I love you all?
Just a side bar. Last week a man here was sentenced to 100yrs for crimes against young girls. He posed as a piano teacher & photographer.
He had managed to delay his trial for nearly 20yrs.
UnFuckingBelievable
I’m going to take a shot in the dark and say, he was white.
As a snow storm.
Okay, it’s the film crew. There is no roadwork. But if that sign stops the drag racing I would pay them to leave it there forever. Or until we can get a speed bump.
Also there was nothing interesting happening in my yard but there were a couple of squirrels that were probably fucking. It’s about time for mating season for my huge Squirrel population to mate and soon there will be birds nests in my hedges. They already tried to build on inside my mailbox that is hard to close.
I am really sorry you are dealing with so much aggravation Tamara. I would clutch you to my bosom, but I’m afraid you’d suffocate! These things could be used as weapons. Instead, I’ll send positive thoughts and gentle hugs your way. 🖤
That works. 🙂 Thanks. I think Clutch me to your bosum is a phrase that was often used on a site many years ago. I have a weird sense of humor.
Lolol
That was cute!
So I had some weird dream last night. I blame Kentucky Derby day. I don’t drink liquor much but I always try to have a bourbon and coke on Derby day even though I missed watching one of the best derbys ever.
So my weird dream seemed to be about a guy I used to date in college. And by college and mean college/highschool because I was joint enrolled. I haven’t thought about him in years. In the dream I went to his house (he didn’t have a house when I knew him. He lived with his parents who once walked past the living room window when I was giving him a blow job on the couch, but that is another story.
Back to the dream I went to his house and a girl was there. I asked him what he had been up to, and she chimed in and says that he whisked her off to Yosemite. But she pronounced it wrong. We were all talking as if he wasn’t dating both of us. I was very calm, which as you know is not like me. Eventually I left the house and told him we were done. Still totally calm and nonchalant. The I turned to her and said, “By the way, it’s Yosemite, you dumb bitch!”
Is that a weird dream or what? I was emotionless the whole dream but she was very “chirppy” I hate chrippy people. LOL.
Oh she was fat! I was super young back then and had huge tits and an ass which wasn’t cool at the time. There was a song back then called Brick House and the perfect measurements where, 36-24-36. I was five nine and 36-26-36. I would KILL to have those measurements now, but at that time I was a teenager and thought I was FAT. My mother was slightly overweight when I was growing up. And I swore I would never let myself get to the point where my size was in double digits.
I am now fat as fuck. #Karma
You are Not fat!!! And I love your dream! I’m going to try and follow you on twitter-
Still blocked.
OMG, I had a decent body and huge boobs and a big ass back then too, and Brick House was my absolute theme song! I have asked that it be played at my wake, and all my friends are expecting it. They text me all the time to tell me they just heard it playing sonewhere 🍑
Yes!
“She’s mighty, mighty, lettin’ it all hang out”
Also, I just want to go back to bed, but I am going to try to set up for RHOA recap tonight. Don’t expect much . I’ll give it my best shot.
Well, I was going to be really productive this weekend, and my colitis decided against it. I get Remicade infusions every 8 weeks, and Tuesday is my treatment day. My colitis decided that it wanted to act up. It has barely done it this time around, and I am thankful for that because it is the end of the school year (so much going on there). I can still be frustrated, though. I am trying to change out to my summer wardrobe, but my body won’t let me. I will just have to get to it during the week. I will probably do it Tuesday or tomorrow night. I will just get my lesson plans finished tonight, and I can type my sub letter tomorrow at school.
I’m sorry about your Colitis acting up Niki. It sounds like you have a lot going on with end of school, hang in there. I hope tuesday goes well.
Thank you, Tennessee.
Still can’t believe Roe v Wade will be overturned.
Citing precedent from 1600s.
Wow. Anyone who thinks it begins and ends here is an idiot.
I have a quick question –
Who is planning on watching the Dubai franchise?
With their record on human / WOMEN’S rights ? WTF Bravo?? That shit will never be on my tv.
Am I the only one who feels like this ?
I can’t wait to watch it. However, none of the shows filmed for Bravo overseas ever seem to get traction. Bravo viewers in general are not interested in shows from other countries.
Also, the people who are filming are living there by choice. Dubai is totally on my bucket list. It’s a very safe city and I all have to do is dress conservatively and follow the laws. In particular, you cannot jay walk and can only cross the street when the Walk light is on even if no cars are around… no drinking in public etc.
I have been invited to Dubai several times. And offered a few business relationships. I just can’t. But I’ve been to other countries – My best friend is the daughter of a former Vice Prime Minister in that region. I know first hand what really goes on. With women and with the vast majority of the local population. Yes, they have made strides and yes the women are there by choice. And I LOVE Caroline. I just can’t, tho
Whoa, I’m having anxiety just reading this!!
You’ll get this resolved. You always do!