I have commenting rules for a reason. This site is a one woman show. It’s also a 24/7 job. I never feel like I should not be looking for thing to report. There has not been a single day in the last ten years where I didn’t get something up. I feel like I have collected a very nice community here. I speak my mind and you all know what I am thinking, or feeling all the time. Probably more than you want to hear. But this is my site. I decide what to post or what to say. I choose who gets to comment here. I pay thousands of dollars for this site. I’ve created a community here.
In doing that, there are always a few assholes. I’m growing weary of the assholes. I really am. Did a judge sentence you to reading here? Who thinks they can come into MY HOUSE and tell me what to do? Pay for your own site. Do your own thing. And thanks to those for sticking with me. And with that I am going back to bed..
Hear hear! Totally with you. Um, I should know this, but old and forget crap: what does GDIAF mean?
I had to Google it. Hadnt seen it in awhile
Go Die In A Fire
Oh my! Thank you. I automatically thought the F stood for fuck and was trying to puzzle it out. I guess I would suck at Wheel of Fortune.
Me too! If you rearrange it, it could be Do I give a F***, but it was both in the wrong order and needs some L’s for Do I Look Like I Give a F***? But that’s where my brain kept going.
I can never remember what NSFW or NFSW mean. Not Safe For Work and Not For Showing Wife. Either way, I know the intent, but can never puzzle out the words. I’ll know it now that I’ve typed it out here.
TT, I don’t know if this helps, but some of us listen to you. I started watching MAFS Australia and went and started watching MAFS NOLA on demand because of this site.
Maybe it should be GDIAFF! Go die in a FUCKING fire!
Says the Californian LOL. I laid off of GDIAF which is from like the beginning of the Internet when all the fires in California happened.
I am really trying to go back to bed.
My favorite is DILLIGAF…
Nanette, that acronym could also read go die in a flash flood. (Or fucking flood) Either way, too close to home for those of us in Hurricane Alley. Just like the fires in Cali. I’m thinking no one would use GDIAT (tornado), so indeed it might be good to retire these, EXCEPT when sparring with a climate denier. IJS
But I’m loving the Bless your heart ones, FWIW! Especially since you made it where it could be the nice way or the sarcastic way, LOL!
I’m a big fan of the standard GFY, myself. Plus Y’all are all so clever and creative, I’d like to see more of TT’s old lexicon here. I swear I haven’t seen “cuntsatchel” or some of the other older stuff used here in a long time! (Ah, the good old days)
I stopped trying to figure out all the new acronyms. People use so many these days I can barely understand WTF they’re actually trying to communicate anymore. SWIDT-ha! The ones that have historically been used on this site are sofa king funny though, they always makes me giggle.
Good For You is such a nice acronym :-):-):-)
Love it. You’re always spot on.
lmao I thought it was IDGAF and she got the letters mixed up
that was my first thought but then I thought “TT doesn’t make those mistakes” and was befuddled 🙂
oh right! havent heard that expression on this site in a while! You used to use the word “cunt” way more, too. I kinda miss it
I’d also like to ask for prayers, it you are the praying kind for JustJenn and her family today if anyone is so inclined.
Is just Jenn okay? I have her in my prayers
Those of us that have been with you since the beginning get it
We love you
Sending you love
Yes she is good and thanks to those who donated (kind of in the dark). The situation should have been resolved but due to the PANDEMIC …which is still a thing by the way, things have been delayed. And thanks Kate for the prayers.
Thanks for keeping track of those who love you!!! Hope JustJenn is doing better. Love you and the site. To the poop-sters who said dumb sh*t – as they say in NJ “go fuck yerself “. And to all a good night
Sending prayers, love and peace for JustJenn!
Same for Cheryl!
And for you too TT! Your site, your rules! You are awesome and give us readers so much on a daily basis. I honestly don’t know how you do it!
GDIAF sounds good to me. You are not responsible for our happiness. We do not pay you. The ONLY thing you ask of us is to follow the commenting rules. I have witnessed firsthand what you do, and IT IS A JOB. A JOB. Tamara does not do this for shits and giggles. (Well, sometimes.) READ THE COMMENTING RULES. I had to refresh myself on them myself last month, and I’ve been reading here for like 7-8 years? Please give Tamara a break.
I read the commenting rules when I first found the site and I can honestly say that as a first time reader, I was struck by some of the dialogue I had read and had some thoughts – which I kept to myself – because I didn’t know or understand the dynamics here but recognized that I chose to read here and if I didn’t like it, I could find another site; and just because I still occasionally read something that I find a bit harsh, well, I guess I figure we are mostly adults and if I don’t like it, I don’t have to continue to read NOR do I need to throw in my 2 cents (whatever happened to the cent symbol on a keyboard?!?!); that would be a bit like coming into your house and shitting on the carpet; I was (mostly) raised better than that.
Praying for JustJenn and her family.🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Keep up the good work Tamara!! You’re right it’s not a law that people have to get their RH fix from your site (but it should be). More readers, more problems. Thanks for everything you do.
I think you should start a NEW meme.
WBYH.
Well Bless Your Heart
If it’s a kind Bless Your Heart, then no W.
Me … I say Well Bless Your Fucking Heart, but being the season of sending good cheer and all…
Again, a Californian trying to pretend how to know how bless your heart works hear in the south.
Lol, I liked it. I commented upthread about it before I saw this. 🤣
And I’m from the South too. FTR
🤣🤣🤣 We Californians try. Bless our Hearts
Bless your heart is a saying from the south. A double edged sword. So to speak. I know you get it. I’m from Texas. I understand. I hear you.
Or 😇 🤡 🖤
❤❤❤
The only thing I want to GDIAF is Covid-19 and all the selfish people who refuse a vaccine!!! I’m mad as hell and I’m not going to take it anymore. It’s now fucked our Xmas plan for the second year in a row. I don’t get to see my kids AGAIN because of this and I’m SUPER PISSED. I just got officially notified.
My eldest is in medical school and all the students, interns, residents were sent home to quarantine as several tested positive from taking care of covid patients who are UNVACCINATED. The attending physicians were literally screaming at the patients coming in “GET FUCKING VACCINATED!”. The students are at home WITH ROOMMATES who work in different hospitals and now they’re exposed too- a small exposure turns into an outbreak in a matter of days. A few attending are hospitalized or at home extremely sick . They literally have not had a break or a weekend off since this whole thing started. None of them have had a break!!!
My youngest spent the night at her dads (my ex-husband fucktard anti vaxxer) because young and invincible and wanted to see her dad. Such the dad of the year to put his own kids at risk. While the kids are fully vaccinated and will most likely have mild symptoms, they are preparing themselves for the death of their father which is super sad for them and was completely avoidable. As much as I hate that fucker, he’s their dad and I don’t want them to have to deal with it. Since I’m immunocompromised, and my mom is old, now they can’t come AGAIN. I’ve busted my ass cleaning, decorating and hanging the stockings with care, and allowed myself to get excited. I’m so upset.
Life is unfair. I knew it was only a matter of time and I never should have gotten my hopes up. That’s a sad thing to say when you haven’t seen your babies for years or been able to spend a holiday with them. I’m just angry that the fucktards are having family gatherings and superspreader events, not masking, never even thinking about the families of those who will ultimately have to take care of them when they get sick. You will be judged and triaged where breakthrough cases are given priority over unvaccinated. THAT is already happening so odds are slimming further for the idiots.
And I’m ready for the providers to start denying care to the unvaccinated. Two years with zero breaks is taking a toll and it’s never going to end. People can’t expect them to continue this level of risk and working conditions indefinitely. So, if you are a fucktard anti vaxxer please, for the safety and sanity of the rest of the world, PLEASE GDIAF, along with the fucking virus itself.
Also, please everyone GET BOOSTER!
Rant not even close to over. SO UPSET.
IJC, I’m so sorry you’re going through that aggravation right now. The idiocy surrounding this pandemic just amazes me. It’s just a matter of time before all of the anti-vaxxers die because they want to prove a political point. I know too many of them. I hope you get to see your children soon.
Thanks Terri. What a difference a day makes. I’m afraid as the day went on things got worse.
Whoever originally said that there’s something in the water, or the stars or bad juju- whatever- but basically that many are noticing that a lot of folks are having a super tough time of it lately was spot on.
Lowering expectations seems to be the best approach imo. Even then, I am feeling disappointed, beaten down, helpless and more bad things I hadn’t even considered have happened. I’m so sad, heartbroken and it’s not just about not being able to hug my kids at Xmas. Again.
I don’t know how to prepare them for the loss of their father, grandfather, aunts, uncles, more-all at once. The selfish POS basically exposed his entire family. And my youngest tested positive from being around him & it was the day of her appointment for booster.. so she’s sick and alone and fairly young. The university doesn’t even have a mask or vaccine requirement much less any other mitigation efforts, so I’ve been worried about that kid anyway. FFS, the President of the university is a doctor! But it’s all because, Oklahoma- they grow idiots there. (My state of TX grows plenty of idiots, too) I’m sad for my baby. I want her to GTFO of there & have wanted that for a long time. She’s an adult (barely) and I can’t make her do anything. And I somehow know that they (Ex & family) will all be begging for financial assistance from me soon. I will reject the requests and be made out to be the selfish bitch. I have been too generous in the past.
I’m going to take a page from Tamara’s book & go back to bed. Only I might never come back out. My own living situation with my mom here is nothing to celebrate either.
Something’s gotta give because I’m nearing the end of my rope.
Also, sorry this long thing ended up as a reply to sweet Terri. I started to just type a thank you & it just kept going. I’m too spent to re-type it in the proper place or to hit the backspace button to erase my babbling.
Um, at least my house is clean? I’m just going to leave the tree and decorations up for eternity.
Apologies. And Happy Fucking Xmas to all.
Rant over and finally fizzling out.
I have 2 very close friends in the hospital with covid. Very ill. They’re both VACCINATED!
smh
Good thing your hospitalized friends are vaccinated because the probability is very high that if they got this sick vaccinated then they otherwise would be DEAD!
I couldn’t agree with you more even if I were your biological twin. I’m so sorry that you won’t be able to see your children, but I have no more fuxs to give for the unvaccinated. Of course I’m not talking about the very small percent that cannot be vaccinated for medical reasons…..but those other dumb arses can go straight to hades. They are selfish, entitled and unintelligent and I wish they weren’t even allowed to be admitted to the hospital. But there comeuppance is coming because as they healthcare workers start to contract this ridiculously transmittable Omicron mutation and have to isolate, there will be no one to take care of their stupid arses and they’re just going to die off own their own. Karma can’t come quick enough. Oh, and for those who will whine-ingly say (I know that’s not really a word but it’s super appropriate), “the vaccinated are being hospitalized too,” I will answer….but they’re NOT DYING…..and THAT’S the goal you ignoramuses. Anyway, I’m sorry to go off on a rant myself, but I work in the court system and we can’t do most of it via zoom and I have no choice but to subject myself to the ignorance of most of the pubic. So here’s a message for the unvaxxed: GDIAF because IDGAF.
I am aspiring to IDGAF. Getting pretty fucking close. I always wanted a twin, biological or otherwise.
I’m actually trying to go into your home and tell you what to do and ignore you my crabby snark in an attempt to be helpful… but literally not figuratively.
I say send them all to the WLS
TT, your site…YOUR rules! 100% agree. How about TYSE…take yourself somewhere else! I see people who are new (i assume) trying to argue about your post, and not just difference of opinion. My first thought is if it bothered you that much…take yourself somewhere else! Then again GDIAF is for the best, bring it back!
Thanks for keeping it real, sharing about Banjo (hugs) and creating this community. Prayers for Just Jen and Cheryl.
Update…my grandfather is up and about more. He’s still weakly but is now starting to insist on cleaning my grandmother’s potty chair. I will take every win possible. He’s 99 and after the scare of him almost dying from septic shock, I am thrilled how far he’s come.
This is his insisting on a little normalcy.
Just sending love, Tamara. My houseful of cats send purrs for Banjo 🙂 Oh, and I hope that the window-lickers of the world leave all of you alone. I am going to see my Mama on Christmas Day with my vaxxed and boosted husband and hope my brother can join us – he is still having the effects of long COVID (fatigue) but the others of us has avoided it 🙂
Prayers and well wishes to Just Jen and Cheryl♥️
We stopped?
Except for 12/17/21 and all the other days. But you do what you can as we all do.
Girl you be you. I have some fire PTSD going on as I damn near died in my car fire this summer but that is my issue not yours.