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RHOP Recap: Tossing Salad & Spilling Teabags

October 10, 2021 by tamaratattles 87 Comments

Tonight’s RHOP resumes during the “salad tossing.” Candiace Dilliard needs to be on some type of medication for whatever her mental problems are. Bravo made a mistake bringing her back this season. She’s a liability.

RHOP RecapCandiace Needs To Be Removed From The House

Well here we go. Candiace is busy tearing up the kitchen and breaking all the owner’s shit. Why people rent their homes to reality shows I will never know. Candiace is doing the angry cry while still screaming and throwing anything she can grab before the sane people move it all away from her. This is some low class behavior by the low budget wanna be singer. Gordon agrees to take Mia home. Mia has no time for this crap. Did Candiace just say that MIA was the one breaking all the things? The bitch is delusional. When will Bravo see that Candiace is the instigator of these type of ratchet behavior. Of course Candiace lies to Chris’s face and blames everything on Mia.

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Mia crying because she is worried that her mom seeing this crap that Candiace is about her could make her relapse. Candiace is mad that Mia called her video low budget. It was. Chris tries to teach Candiace how to behave. She just doesn’t get it.  Candiace clearly got ZERO home training from her mother. She can’t let the slightest thing go. So, she goes straight to violence every time. She trash talks EVERYONE and then gets infuriated when anyone calls out her lowlife ass. I have no idea why Chris stays with her. He has to give her some sort of parental lecture on every episode. Suddenly, Gordon admits that he used to pay $10,000 to sit in the club and “talk to” Mia.

RHOP RecapAll This Nonsense And We Haven’t Even Chosen Rooms?

So it’s time to pick rooms and the women in the cottage on the last trip get to pick first. I hope that means that Candiace and Chris have to sleep in the broom closet. Speaking of brooms, Chris sweeps up the kitchen floor. He also very sweetly compliments Ashley on the birth of his second child. Karen and Candiace are ready to go home an hour into the trip. Karen says she can toss her own salad at home. The younger girls laugh and explain to her what that means. Karen is getting quite the sexual education on this season.

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Mia’s husband Gordon has passed out before dinner. Karen and Askale both check to see how Candiace is doing. They should be ignoring her not coddling her. To add insult to injury, Gizelle and Robin have arrived. Gizelle has a broken toe or something and is in a boot. Why is someone always in a boot on these shows? Candiace tells a very warped version of the salad tossing. Even Gizelle is not buying Candiace’s story. Gizelle is pissed that she doesn’t have a private bathroom. Robin is on her period. Oh Lawdy! Ashley is upstairs too and offers to share her bathroom.

Will Dinner Be Another Food Fight?

Everyone goes to dinner in the van. Even Gordon wakes up for dinner. But he passed out in the van again. Gizelle realizes that all the guys are drunk and some of the women are too. They talk about dinner and it’s a seafood night. Chris points out that Candiace doesn’t like the oysters that look like gray vaginas. No one cares. Then Gizelle and Ashley explain to Karen what tea bagging is. What is wrong with these women?  Karen says in her confessions regarding tea bagging, “You know they do it!” As she sips her tea and plops the tea bag up and down. I know most of these people are not the refined wealthy people they proclaim to be. But they don’t even pretend to be civilized. Gordon wakes up long enough to reference his dick.

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Oh lord. There are actually other people in the restaurant. This will not go well. Wendy is being such a gracious hostess. Robin is on the phone looking for a hotel for her and Gizelle. I imagine Ashley will go with them since they are calling themselves a throuple this episode. Robin announces for the second time, THIS TIME AT THE DINNER TABLE, that she is on her period. There are four guys at a table on one side of them who bought all the ladies shots. Then, the four ladies at the other side of their table, call out, “What about your wives, do we not get shots?” Karen is praying the other housewives don’t get any more shots. Aren’t we all, Karen aren’t we all. She actually gets up to tell the guys to stop buying shots. Wendy buys shots for the wives table.

RHOP RecapSlurp Those Tiny Gray Vagina’s Candiace

Ashley brings up the brawl in the kitchen and asks the husbands what they were thinking when all of that happened. Chris says he took Candiace out back and explained to her what needs to happen. But of course she didn’t do any of that. Chris also says he wants to be in a better place with Michael. Ashley says that Chris has said a lot of negative things about Michael. Chris says that is false. Production rolls the tape to back up what Ashley said. Michael also has said a lot of crap as him.

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Candiace and Ashley get into it. Candiace trashes Michael on social media. Ashley talks about how Candiace always plays the victim in the situations that she actually instigates. This is why I like Ashley. She lives in reality. Candiace calls Ashley a “foul fucked up individual” regarding when Monique dragged her low-brow ass for filth last season. Once again, Candiace plays the victim. She screams her head off. The husband table and the wives table both look mortified.

RHOP RecapWho Is Robin Calling At The Dinner Table?

Chris tries to take Candiace out of the restaurant. But she is fighting him on that. Chris walks out of the restaurant by himself. Gizelle defends Ashley to a point as she tries to calm Candiace down. Candiace starts screaming for people to suck her dick. Askale asks her hot husband Dre to go outside and calm Chris down. Chris tells Dre that they are like this all the fucking time. He says the husbands become collateral damage. Chris needs a room at the hotel tonight too in my opinion.

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Meanwhile Candiace it telling MIA not to embarrass herself in front of her “benefactor.” Bitch everything you do is an embarrassment to your husband. EVERYTHING. From your low budget video he goes along with to having to go out in pubic with you! All the women (and I am sure the men) are FINALLY over Candice’s ratchet behavior. FINALLY. Are you listening production? My source doesn’t pay much attention to RHOP. So I am hoping I missed some big tea about her finally getting kicked off. I do know that on the previous season her pay was docked for a couple of episodes for trying to hold out for more money. She didn’t get it.

All of this happened before the entrees arrived.

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  1. Rhonda Aucock says

    October 10, 2021 at 9:38 pm

    They should have kept Monique and gave Candiace the boot. I can’t stand her. She need’s to be put in her place, once and for all.

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    • MelG says

      October 10, 2021 at 11:08 pm

      I AGREE! I really liked RHOP before Candiace. She’s too violent and that folded napkin she pokes her eyes with every time she plays victim after she has acted like a classless raging lunatic annoys the hell out of me. This is not entertaining. Please Bravo get rid of this bitch before yet another show tanks. Bravo really needs to do better when hiring these housewives. Why did they ever think Candiace would be a good addition????? I miss Monique, her husband and cute kids.

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      • The Shadiest Grove says

        October 10, 2021 at 11:38 pm

        MelG you’re saying Candiace is too violent but you’re caping for a violent lunaticwho threatened to kill a cast member while being recorded. Yeah, that makes complete sense ma’am.

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        • tamaratattles says

          October 10, 2021 at 11:45 pm

          Wait didn’t you just say if I stabbed you with a knife, you’d shoot me with a gun? Candiance came for Monique with a knife and got mowed down with a machine gun. So you are just like Monique right?

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        • Joey says

          October 11, 2021 at 9:19 am

          Candiace threw a knife at Ashley. Candiace touched Monique first in the argument last year. Candiace threw salad first at Mia. Candiace screams at people about putting their hand and fingers in her face, WHILE SHE IS IS POINTING HER FINGER IN THEIR FACE. Candiace calls children ugly. She throws out homophobic insults. She threatens violence on people. She wishes death on people who are terminally ill.

          Regardless who insinuates what….Candiace is the common denominator and she changes the narrative of the arguments because she can’t see herself as anything but right. She doesn’t take any responsibility for her actions when she repeats what happened during the arguments because she doesn’t think she did anything wrong. She said Chris “cussed her out”. CHRIS NEVER CUSSED HER OUT! She lives in a world of delusion because she is spoiled and has never, ever been told she is wrong. She will continue this behavior for the rest of her life because she continues to stay on the show, and is rewarded for bad behavior.

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      • Rhonda Aucock says

        October 11, 2021 at 11:07 pm

        As do I. Monique is way classier than Candiace. I really pray she doesn’t have children.

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    • toni says

      October 10, 2021 at 11:44 pm

      Monique would have slapped Mia by the 2nd episode. Especially when she put her fingers in your face like she did Wendy. Mia has gotten into it with all the ladies accept Karen and Ashley. Ashley is a instigator.

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  2. atdleft says

    October 10, 2021 at 9:39 pm

    Candiace is such a spoiled brat. She’s probably close to my age, yet she acts like she’s in kindergarten. She needs help.

    I think the “Watch What Crappens” guys said last week that Mia could misbehave as much as she wants, since Candiace will always end up behaving so much worse that we have to side with Mia by default. IMHO, these last couple episodes of RHOP prove their point.

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  3. Indywom says

    October 10, 2021 at 9:46 pm

    I can’t stand Candiace and I think she has some serious mental health issues. I hate that she is always calling Mia’s husband a pimp or benefactor. Is her mom not a benefactor if she is supporting Candiace and her husband? Isn’t that what benefactors do? Enough with shaming people for choices they make to survive. Mia didn’t kill anybody or steal so Candiace needs to stop with the stripper comments. Mia should be proud of what she has managed to accomplish. Too bad Candiace who was at least on second base has not accomplished half as Mia has.

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  4. Vera says

    October 10, 2021 at 9:57 pm

    I lived for your recap of tonight’s RHOP episode.

    Is Candiace so ‘tone deaf’ or ‘clueless’ that she doesn’t understand that no ‘reputable’ record company or label would sign her?? She is an embarrassment….

    I cringed at her behavior in the restaurant…just when you think the behavior bar can’t get any lower. Unbelievable..

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    • Shawn says

      October 10, 2021 at 11:38 pm

      I loathed her behaviour but the truth is still the truth the girl can sing. The album is real and it’s good. She even got good feedback from both Toni Braxton and Anita Baker. Bad attitude yes. Talent yes. And please stop giving Ashley a pass there was no reason for her to ring up that mess at dinner. She’s always throwing rocks and hiding her hand.

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      • Vera says

        October 11, 2021 at 3:55 am

        @Shawn says

        Just to clarify my comment about a ‘reputable’ record company/label signing her….I was speaking about her behavior not whether she has talent or not.

        Companies want people who present a ‘positive’ image not someone behaving as Candiace does on TV (in case I was misunderstood). They may weigh whether the person’s talent vs the person’s public image is worth the association. And yes, there is a monetary bottom line in business.

        Great…in your opinion along with others who like her music. I haven’t listened to her music nor do I plan to…personal choice. Her behavior is a ‘turn-0ff’ for me and I couldn’t support her because of her behavior…for me it’s not about talent.

        Talent is in the ‘eye of the beholder’… We can agree to disagree about Candiace or any of the other RHOP cast. We all have our personal opinions.

        RHOP is lighthearted entertainment on Sundays.

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        • Shawn says

          October 11, 2021 at 11:34 am

          Yes we all have our own opinions. And my comment was not ment as an attack, so I apologize if it was taken that way but there are people considered experts in every field an society tends to follow their lead. Also check out some of the headlines about some of today’s popular artist, no-one is checking for good behavior.

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          • Betty Write says

            October 11, 2021 at 11:40 am

            Yes and yes

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          • MelG says

            October 11, 2021 at 12:40 pm

            There’s a country artist in Nashville. He was drunk one night, was dropped off at his home, was yelling (playfully) back to his friend in the vehicle “take care of this pussyass (n-word).” It was caught on a doorbell camera. His record company suspended him. Radio stations quit playing his music. It’s a word that should not be in his vocabulary. IMO, some of the things Candiace has said are equally as foul – homophobic comments & wishing death on a terminally ill person. She takes things to a whole other level when going after someone’s appearance. I would think a record label would be concerned about her behavior.

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            • Vera says

              October 11, 2021 at 4:20 pm

              My point exactly….if she is serious about having a career in the music field.. Internet lasts forever

            • Vera says

              October 11, 2021 at 4:43 pm

              @MelG says

              My point exactly…. if she is serious about having a career in the music field.. Internet lasts forever

          • Vera says

            October 11, 2021 at 4:40 pm

            “Also check out some of the headlines about some of today’s popular artist, no-one is checking for good behavior.”

            Trust me, there are eyes and ears checking potential new talent and existing talent. No company wants the negative baggage associated with their brand. What’s done/said in or on Twitter, Instagram, TV lasts forever in the Internet sphere. There are some Internet sleuths out there capturing this information and sharing it with potential employers, companies, etc. Prime example – bad behaviors being captured on phones and being fired from jobs (granted this is a bit off topic).

            Professional athletes, entertainers, etc. have lost endorsements, deals, etc. because of bad behavior.

            Side Note: No apology necessary. We’re here to exchange ideas, opinions, etc. and to have fun!!

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          • Vera says

            October 11, 2021 at 4:42 pm

            @Shawn says

            “Also check out some of the headlines about some of today’s popular artist, no-one is checking for good behavior.”

            Trust me, there are eyes and ears checking potential new talent and existing talent. No company wants the negative baggage associated with their brand. What’s done/said in or on Twitter, Instagram, TV lasts forever in the Internet sphere. There are some Internet sleuths out there capturing this information and sharing it with potential employers, companies, etc. Prime example – bad behaviors being captured on phones and being fired from jobs (granted this is a bit off topic).

            Professional athletes, entertainers, etc. have lost endorsements, deals, etc. because of bad behavior.

            Side Note: No apology necessary. We’re here to exchange ideas, opinions, etc. and to have fun!!

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  5. SorryMsJackson says

    October 10, 2021 at 10:00 pm

    Candiace is vile. It’s not cute, funny, or entertaining. It’s not even shade (which if used intelligent can actually be pretty hilarious. But She’s got a trash bag for a mouth and goes straight for the jugular and one day it’s going to get her jumped……

    Oh wait, it already did. Clearly she hasn’t learned a thing. Gotta be hands down the worst housewife in housewife history.

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  6. Rmicu says

    October 10, 2021 at 10:43 pm

    The make up on these women is atrocious. The foundations not matching the nose makeup is distracting. I think it’s supposed to be contoured but it looks crazy.. Candiace has a personality disorder and was obviously overindulged as a child, no discipline.

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    • Shannon says

      October 12, 2021 at 9:02 am

      The makeup is bad in allot of the interviews. Mia, Robin, and Candiace almost never have matching faces and necks. Wendy sometimes too. I know the first season makeup is was tough but this is season 6 and they should look better.

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  7. The Shadiest Grove says

    October 10, 2021 at 10:53 pm

    So Candiace responding to Mia’s shade is vile and ratchet ? But Candiace was the only one who was actually kind to her while all the other women were making fun of her surgeries, former profession, age gap and not knowing her age. Let me quote Ashley, “her lips were loke sheets flapping in the wind” yet Mia chose to come for Candiace because she knew the hoodrats with a disdain for her would be elated. Don’t come for someone then tell them how to respond. EDITED TO REMOVE LIBELOUS COMMENT Y’all claim Candiace is the devil however she’s not the one who came for a woman that was having a mental breakdown, going through domestic abuse and custody issues as well as family issues…that was Ashley Darby when she tried to dismember Katie Rost in Anguilla.

    The people who recently started the show are evident by their warped perceptions of these ladies. Candiace is not innocent but she’s no instigator, knock on her door and the gwurl will answer. She’s not going anywhere, sorry TT. #RHOP is Candi at this point, she is that gurl, she is the moment.

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    • Rmicu says

      October 10, 2021 at 11:09 pm

      Interesting perspective. Candiace has a knack for consistently exceeding the limit.
      She has poor impulse control and her responses are typically beyond the degree necessary for the situation.

      I don’t know if her excessive behavior is for show or if she is this way in everyday life.

      None of the ladies are innocent and Candiace brings a gun to a knife fight. She never takes accountability for her part in the conflicts

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      • MelG says

        October 10, 2021 at 11:19 pm

        She’s just as horrible on social media as she is on the show.

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        • The Shadiest Grove says

          October 10, 2021 at 11:33 pm

          Lies you tell MelG, she’s a delight on social media LOL. Once again, she responds and knocks heads off shoulders. Don’t like her responses, stop trying the gwurl.

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          • MelG says

            October 11, 2021 at 1:06 am

            Not lies!!! “Queenie gay men irk me.” – THAT was Candiace. Wrote that she’s @[email protected] when men are too into fashion, makes her “think ‘gay.’” She wished “death” on a blogger. She has threatened people for asking “U mad?” This has been going on for years!!!!!! She needs help!

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          • Joey says

            October 11, 2021 at 9:35 am

            Hi Candiace. MelG, I am with you 100% and in agreement with everything you write.

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            • MelG says

              October 11, 2021 at 9:54 am

              Thank you! It’s not lies. It’s utterly disgusting the things Candiace has said. I agree with your other comment 100%. Wishing death on someone, the vile homophobic things she’s posted – she is vile.

      • The Shadiest Grove says

        October 10, 2021 at 11:32 pm

        But you missed my point beloved. You cannot try me then tell me my response to you is going beyond the degree required. The degree required is determined by me, so therefore if you take it to purgatory and I decide to descend to hell then so be it. Y’all trying to police someone’s response and measure their temperament to bullshit is ridiculous. If you stab me and I come back to shoot you, then you can’t say I went too far. I just think y’all are colorist and it shows not only on the show but anywhere #RHOP is referenced on social media, the double standards and hypocrisy are disturbing.

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        • tamaratattles says

          October 10, 2021 at 11:40 pm

          We’re the colorist? Candiace is middle of the pack skin tone wise, yet I had to edit your previous comments for making libelous statements Ashley, the lightest skin person on the show’s husband. No one had a bad word to say about Mia (other than you) or Askale or Wendy.

          Colorism works both ways, beloved.

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          • iv says

            October 11, 2021 at 3:53 am

            I think Candiance has hired a low budget PR person (maybe one of her Abbey Lee Miller student backup dancers from her music video that worked for free) to troll the blogs.

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            • Scrappy says

              October 11, 2021 at 9:13 am

              You don’t think this is C Dog herself?

          • Mizjanfen says

            October 11, 2021 at 5:16 am

            Sorry colorism by def could never go both ways…that’s not a thing

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      • Indywom says

        October 11, 2021 at 5:41 am

        Candiace is extremely immature and insecure. The fact that she has had no real career by her thirties is very telling. Her relationship with her mother is codependent and not in a good way. She might have talent but so does most members of any church choir in America. It takes a lot to be signed to record label and no one will risk liability with someone who can’t control their impulses.

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    • tamaratattles says

      October 10, 2021 at 11:30 pm

      I mean even Charles Manson and Nene Leakes and Donald Trump have fans that think they are the moment. I’m fine with adding Candiace to that list.

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      • The Shadiest Grove says

        October 10, 2021 at 11:34 pm

        Uh uh TT uh uh LOL. You on the wrong side of history on this one but I still love you LOL.

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    • Keisha says

      October 11, 2021 at 5:32 pm

      Let’s be clear calling somebody’s mammy a low budget is not the same of calling out the ‘n’ word. Plus his records sales increase after he was drop from radio stations. His racist supports stood by beside him

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      • MelG says

        October 11, 2021 at 6:57 pm

        I think you are referencing my comment above regarding the country singer who experienced cancel culture for his racial slur. YES, LET US BE CLEAR, I DID NOT compare ithe racial slur to Candiace’s comment about Mia’s mom. I DID compare it to other vile things she has said such as her homophobic comments on social media and her telling a terminally ill person to die. I feel they are vile comments, AND my comment was pointing out that singers/artists have faced repercussions by record companies for their behavior. My comment was a reply on that subject. Don’t twist it to fit some other narrative.

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  8. The Shadiest Grove says

    October 10, 2021 at 11:56 pm

    A libelous statement which was true, I should have added allegedly. It was on the show, it was discussed on the show and it was shown on the show. So where did I lie ? What bad word did I say about Mia other than what was said by he co-star which was far worse than anything Candiace said to her thus far IMO. On that point, review Ashley’s behaviour from her introduction and Candiace’s behaviour and there is no difference. I was responding to Rmicu so I don’t know why for some reason you seem to have a lot of energy towards me, beloved. Redirect it elsewhere because I always come here with respect and with the intention to engage in a shady, funny way but speaking my truth. If I can no longer do that then I can go elsewhere. All the best to you Tamara LOL.

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    • iv says

      October 11, 2021 at 3:43 am

      No difference in Ashley’s and Candiance’s behaviour? Uhhhh… Ashley has never gotten into a physical altercation. That’s BIG, HUGE!

      You would think Candiance would be on her best behaviour to redeem herself from the embarrassment of last season but here she is crossing the line, taking it down low and smack talking Mia’s mother (regardless if she knew or didn’t know her circumstances) and if that wasn’t enough, she now throwing things. BTW… I don’t recall Ashley ever throwing anything.

      Which brings me back to my first point … BIG. HUGE!

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      • iv says

        October 11, 2021 at 3:55 am

        But I do recall Canadiance throwing a knife in Ashley’s direction last season. Yeap… BIG. HUGE.

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        • Shawn says

          October 11, 2021 at 11:47 am

          2 or 3 seasons ago she thru a BUTTER knife at someone who refused to leave her home after being asked multiple times to do so. Please stop trying to use this incident to turn Candidates into a threat or Ashley into a victim.

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          • MelG says

            October 11, 2021 at 12:44 pm

            Her own mother has hit her. Her own husband has tried to get her to recognize her behavior. Candiace has problems.

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          • iv says

            October 11, 2021 at 12:58 pm

            You mean her momma’s house? Don’t matter if its a BUTTER knife or salad…As Kandi says… Don’t start none won’t be none.

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            • Shannon says

              October 12, 2021 at 9:10 am

              Whether it was her mother’s house or hers only, she lived there and it was her home. I lived in a house that was owned by my mother and her siblings, but everyone recognized that it was my home because I lived there and took care of it. If I told someone to get out and they didn’t, it would have been a problem especially when they aren’t family.

    • RubyLuby says

      October 11, 2021 at 7:49 am

      “If I can no longer do that then I can go elsewhere.”

      Please and thank you.

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      • Kelno19 says

        October 11, 2021 at 12:55 pm

        Yes, Candiance, go elsewhere (or her troll). Anyway, I do read the recaps of all the RH shows but stopped watching a few seasons ago because I cannot stand to watch grown women get paid to act the fool. But I do enjoy TT’s recaps and forums and all the comments!

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  9. Mrs. Joyce says

    October 11, 2021 at 12:13 am

    Guess what guys.”I MET KAREN TODAY”. We were having brunch in the Beverly Hills Four Seasons and my daughter spotted her. We asked the hostess was it Karen and she said, yes. I waited for her to come back and introduced myself and my daughter. She was super sweet. In person she is beautiful and very small. I told her to keep going after Gizelle, she says she wont disappoint…

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    • tamaratattles says

      October 11, 2021 at 2:05 am

      Congrats Mrs. Joyce! That must have been fun. I wonder what she was doing in LA.

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      • Mrs. Joyce says

        October 11, 2021 at 5:49 pm

        Right me too, she looked great.

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        • Elaine Walker says

          October 23, 2021 at 8:36 pm

          I just saw that the entire RHOP cast is hosting ‘The Real’ this week/week of October 25. Karen, Candiace, and Gizelle are all solo (Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, respectively) while I think it is Robin & Mia on Tuesday, with Wendy & Askale on Thursday.

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  10. Terri says

    October 11, 2021 at 12:13 am

    Good God, please let this be Candiace’s last season on this show. I love Chris, and the poor guy has his hands full with that out of control woman, but she really needs to go. Wendy wasn’t even sure if Gizelle and Robyn were coming on this trip so they shouldn’t complain about their rooms. Gizelle criticizing Wendy as a hostess after the stupid shade party she hosted was a joke.

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  11. Lise says

    October 11, 2021 at 1:26 am

    Please please let this be Candiace’s final season. She absolutely ruins this show. She’s way too young and immature for this group of women. She has nothing really in common and all her interactions end up in violence. She is not entertaining at all. I used to like this show but now have a headache from all the bs she sprouts. Come on Bravo get rid of her

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  12. CECELIA S HAILES says

    October 11, 2021 at 2:40 am

    Last year, I took up for Candiace because Monique resorted to violence, but THIS YEAR, I can better understand why she did. Heretofore, I have never had a problem with Candiace’s mouth (which I admittedly thought was delightfully slick), the fact that Ms. Dorothy funds or life, or any things of that nature. However, I’m somewhat flabbergasted at her behavior this year. She’s doubled down on and ratcheted up the nastiness when it appears as if her artist aspirations are coming together. Her ENTIRE album is a BOP and not even her awful behavior can change that, so kudos to her for that. I don’t know if she’s behaving even worse to help amp up the publicity for her album, or if the stress got to her and she’s had some type of breakdown, but she appears to be out of control and in need of help. Secondly, THERE IS NO COLORISM PROBLEM ON RHOP. The light skins behave badly and the brown skins behave equally badly at times. The bad behavior on this show is color-blind. I personally think that Candiace has gone too far in the “dragging” of Mia because that woman’s mother has NOTHING to do with the show and has done nothing to Candiace, but I can also see the other side that says that one cannot put parameters on how someone comes for you when you call them…. e.g. Mia calling Candiace’s video “low budget.” In any case, the way she treats Chris bothers me MORE than the way she carries on with the ladies. She’s SOOOOOOOOO DISRESPECTFUL to that man when he appears to just want to love and support her. I am embarrassed for him, and I don’t care if Ms. Dorothy and Candiace are paying his way through life, he still needs to leave her and gain some of his self-respect back because dealing with Ms. Dorothy’s disrespect AND his wife’s disrespect is too much for any decent person to deal with.

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    • MelG says

      October 11, 2021 at 10:05 am

      Sometimes it seems Chris thinks he can get through to her. I just don’t think he is ever going to say the magical words or strike a chord with her. She needs real professional help. This show is not helping her, or doing her any favors. She does not react in a healthy way to people who she disagrees with, or has issue with, and her behavior with Chris in national tv is abhorrent.

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      • Vera says

        October 11, 2021 at 10:23 am

        Ditto! Ditto! Ditto!

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  13. Lindsay Chandler says

    October 11, 2021 at 5:31 am

    I MISS MONIQUE

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  14. Joey says

    October 11, 2021 at 9:48 am

    Everything Candiace screams during her arguments are projection about her own insecurities and what is happening in her own life. Mia’s “benefactor” insult was really about her own mom being her benefactor. When she screams about other women’s mom’s, it is because she has major issues with Dorthy that are unresolved.

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    • Shellz says

      October 11, 2021 at 5:59 pm

      Why is it celebrated in other cultures for kids to stay with their parents until they get married and for their parents to give them loans for them to start a business or for them to take over the family business…..but because Candiace and her husband to live in a home that Candiace and her mother owned jointly is seen as a failure?

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      • tamaratattles says

        October 11, 2021 at 6:11 pm

        Because in the US, young adults are expected to fly the nest and make it on their own. And by the time they are adults they should be able to act like adults. Candiace has proven on national television time and time again that she is a mentally unstable spoiled brat. She’s also one of those people who think that her bad behavior is irrelevant as long as people are paying attention to her. Kinda like Erika Jayne. They both just want attention. Andy kind of attention.

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        • Shellz says

          October 11, 2021 at 7:18 pm

          I get what you are saying. No one batted and eye lash when the Manzo kids were all grown and still at home. And when the daughter was gifted the makeup store. This happened right here in the US. I disagree with the mentality unstable comments. You can’t poke a bear and expect him to respond with a tickle fight…..he’s gonna attack…that doesn’t make him mentally unstable…. Lol. Yes. Candiace is emotionally immature and goes for the jugular each and every time. She had to be able to see that, take accountability and change. It’s unfortunate that she cannot.

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          • tamaratattles says

            October 12, 2021 at 2:51 am

            She’s not a bear. She’s mentally ill. She should have been forced into anger management courses at the very least as a condition of returning for this season. It’s like they learned nothing with the Nene situation.

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        • Shellz says

          October 11, 2021 at 7:19 pm

          And TT…. I say that with all due respect.

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          • tamaratattles says

            October 12, 2021 at 2:53 am

            Same. And she doesn’t have to tools to change since she learned the behavior from her mother and has been rewarded for it ever since.

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      • Joey says

        October 11, 2021 at 7:34 pm

        I feel that it is ok for a parent to help their child, and I moved my sister in to live with me because she is ill. I have zero problem with candiace living with her mom, but I do have a problem with candiace when she weaponizes it against other people. She wants to call G a beneficiary but doesn’t see it in her own mom. She want to call Micheal an “overseer” but let’s not forget her husband is white too. She throws out insults and yet fails to see the same insult in her own life. That’s why I think she projects onto people what she hates in her own life. She has never dealt with her own mama issues so she screams people “your mama” this and that because she has that mama issue in her own life and won’t deal with it.

        Plus, she denies Dorthy helps her financially, but we all heard Dorothy say she is still paying for things for Candiace. What candiace feels is shameful is twisted so she shames other women with what she feels shameful in her own life.

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        • Bosandi says

          October 12, 2021 at 9:52 am

          @Joey I read your response after posting mine. I agree totally with your perspective.

          We can’t even call this hypocrisy. This stems from a deep seeded issue within herself. She has every reason to be happy and satisfied with her life but something is gnawing at her.

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      • Bosandi says

        October 12, 2021 at 9:36 am

        I listen and read a lot of comments on Youtube about RHOP. Those who come to Candiance’s defense always want to bring up generational wealth and how we as black people can’t understand that concept as it relates to us. If Candiace was a decent human being, no one would bat an eye at where her money comes from. Her poor behavior stems from being coddled as child and controlled as an adult with her mother’s money. She has no coping strategies and lashes out with putrid vomit to deal with the turmoil living inside of her. When you don’t teach your children boundaries you get Candiace.

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  15. Denise says

    October 11, 2021 at 10:00 am

    I’m always surprised at these wives. The season where they have a product to push – is the season where they decide to behave at their worst.

    Jill Zarin season 3 with her book. Rinna this season with her lip stuff and now Candiace with her album.

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  16. Lolly says

    October 11, 2021 at 2:40 pm

    Candiace is horrible! Whatever her reputation was before this show, she has ruined. She is the most disrespectful HW from any franchise. To say If she had known about Mias mama drama then she would have come for her big hands and feet. Why? She is unable to have an adult conversation!!! She needs help!

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  17. Sungirl says

    October 11, 2021 at 3:30 pm

    Candiace has imo a Personality Disorder.
    She seems to have gotten worse this year with her vile , degrading language towards the other women.

    She should have been fired along with Monique.
    Her return this year seems to have given her the idea that she can say and do whatever she wants without any repercussions.

    I also don’t understand the shaming of Mia for being a stripper. Kudos to her for making a success of her life despite her challenging childhood.

    Re : Askale, curious as to why someone living in a townhouse would spend on designer clothes. Love her energy but this is a disconnect for me. Wouldn’t you rather put that money towards a house payment?

    While many take the mick out of Gizelle. I give her credit for not splashing out on designer clothes and rather trying to build a home for her girls . She’s providing for her family within her means and that should be applauded , not scoffed at. Sure she’s messy but which one of them isn’t!

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    • tamaratattles says

      October 11, 2021 at 4:23 pm

      Re : Askale, curious as to why someone living in a townhouse would spend on designer clothes. Love her energy but this is a disconnect for me. Wouldn’t you rather put that money towards a house payment?

      People have different priorities in life. Some people like to entertain and impress people with their beautiful homes. Most of those types also spend a ton of money on clothes and cars as well.

      Other people choose not to have a ton of money in a house (I never want another house again. I’m going back to something where I am not responsible for lawn maintenance and repairs), could care less about clothes and want to blow money on traveling the world. I am a spinster who travels and lives alone, so IDGAF, lol. If I had blessed with a family the house might be a bit more important.

      That said, Askale’s townhome is lovely.

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    • Bosandi says

      October 12, 2021 at 11:03 am

      Yes, Candiace has gotten worse and should not have gotten invited back to the show. Monique was not fired from the show btw, she received a Bravo contract but chose not to return.

      I’m not liking Askale so far and have my good eye on her. We’re so mesmerized with her beauty and fashion, we’re missing her mean girl antics. She also shamed Mia and sat on that bed with Candiace agreeing with every word Candiace said about Mia and even chiming in.

      Was it said Askale was renting her townhome or is it just assumed b/c it’s a townhome? I own my townhome and it costs way more than the average house costs in my city. I don’t want a yard and I love living in the city. See, my priority. Some people love beautiful, expensive clothing although Askale would look good in a paper bag.

      Gizelle wears tacky clothing but a lot of it is designer and she drives a Range Rover. Her tacky house is peppered with expensive nic nacks (e.g. McKenzie Childs). Gizelle has no style so it doesn’t matter how much she spends on something, she makes it look tacky and cheap so let’s not applaud her frugality cause she ain’t frugal.

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  18. Mary K says

    October 11, 2021 at 4:08 pm

    I remember when the table flipping incident was thought to be the low bar….

    Bravo is making a living exploiting mental illness and bad behavior. They encourage it in the production interviews that stir the pot. Is it too much to ask for the return of real friends that navigate complicated relationships without violence? I feel dirty when I watch this crap.

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    • Melissa Sykes says

      October 13, 2021 at 7:00 am

      The table flip and scary island seem like simple times. When I re-watch the early episodes they seem downright wholesome lol.

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  19. Shellz says

    October 11, 2021 at 5:56 pm

    I am in no way excusing Candiace’s behavior. She’s emotionally immature and cannot be the bigger person if she was paid to. However, it’s unfair for her to be labeled crazy and mentally unstable and all these other things because of the way she reacts when people come after her. Candiace’s behavior, as deplorable as it is, is mostly the result of people coming for her first. She needs to learn how to control her emotions.

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  20. Keisha says

    October 11, 2021 at 5:58 pm

    If you don’t want somebody to throw you past or your trauma back in your face then watch your mouth. Mia is the one who brought her mother on this show and told their business. Then she going to have the guile to cry saying that Candance’s words could make her mother relapse. Miss mama, if your mother’ sobriety was on such shaky ground that works to make her hit the bottle or crackpipe why did you bring her on the show.

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  21. Nay says

    October 11, 2021 at 6:23 pm

    I wonder whether Mia filmed her mother storyline before or after Candiace did all that. Would be pretty shady of Bravo to do that, but at least the whole mother storyline would make a bit more sense and make Mia look a bit better.

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  22. Lynne says

    October 11, 2021 at 7:03 pm

    Tea bagging was explained by Samantha on Sex and the City 20 years ago.. Bravo Fucking Bravo needs to get relevant.
    Thanks for the recap. I haven’t watched the show.

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  23. PortiaP says

    October 11, 2021 at 8:29 pm

    I have to keep reminding myself that housewives get kicked off the show for being boring. Remember season 1 of Atlanta? These women are supposed to bring the drama to stay relevant. While I appreciate Candaice’s humor (these Potomac women’s insults are the best!), she tends to overdo it and she is just evil sometimes. Why is Chris with her? I bet there’s genuine kindness in her that only Chris sees. In front of the camera she is a monster. Chris is no fool. This show will destroy her marriage because being a cast member changes you. The worst facets of Candaice’s personality are what supercedes everything that Chris loves in her. She needs to get off the show. She gets worse and worse every season. I just cannot imagine how much worse she can get.

    TT, I hope you have some tea about the reunion!

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  24. Mark says

    October 11, 2021 at 8:44 pm

    Do you know what I worryingly see in Chris’ future? A domestic abuse charge. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think it will be entirely his fault.

    There’s gonna be a wild altercation, he’ll try and restrain her or something, and she’ll end up getting hurt. Then when someone calls the police the cry-angle tissue will come out.

    I’m just getting really unhealthy vibes from the whole situation and she has a certain way about her. In Scotland we call it “sleekit.” She’s a wee sleekit beastie, that one.

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    • MelG says

      October 11, 2021 at 9:36 pm

      I think you have a valid concern there. He tries to calm her, but she’s just so defiant. Then, the scene where she claimed he cursed her out – I thought he was pretty level-headed when he got her to go outside and tried to reason with her – yet, that’s not the version she told.

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    • tamaratattles says

      October 12, 2021 at 3:20 am

      That seems plausible, Mark. Also, are you some sort of criminal mastermind trying to rob us all? LOLOL.

      The last few comments from you come with a big red box that says:

      This message seems dangerous
      It contains a suspicious link that was used to steal people’s personal information. Avoid clicking links or replying with personal information.

      FYI there no links in your comments. It comes in to my mailbox just like everyone else’s. It only just started happening. And nothing has changed at all.

      ARE YOU JEN SHAH!? LOL.

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    • CECELIA S HAILES says

      October 12, 2021 at 11:47 am

      Mark, I’m not quite sure what a “wee sleekit beastie” is, but it doesn’t matter…..I LOVE IT and I’m going to use the phrase as often as I can work it into a conversation!!!

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    • Heidi says

      October 12, 2021 at 11:16 pm

      Yes! When they were in the restaurant and Candiace was yelling he grabbed her arm to try to calm her down and I immediately held my breath. She is so tiny and he looks fairly strong, and with how batshit she is, it’s an accident waiting to happen.

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  25. powerthoughtsblog says

    October 11, 2021 at 11:49 pm

    Thank you for the recap, I have decided not to watch RHOP any longer although it use to be my favorite housewives show.

    Reply
  26. Janet says

    October 12, 2021 at 12:38 pm

    Out in PUBIC with her..funniest autocorrect ever

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