I’m not sure how it got to be Sunday. The last thing I remember it was ThursFriSaturdayish and I was watching a Lifetime Christmas movie. The next thing I knew Banjo is drinking BLEACH WATER from the toilet and it is Sunday night and Sumit is sobbing to his parents on my TV. Apologies. I’m not really awake for this recap. It’s pouring rain in Atlanta and everything lately just seems like one horrible, no good very bad day. 🙁
Jenny & Sumit
Okay let’s see where we are now. It should not be this hard to be in love. Also why is it so cold in this house? Jenny is over it. She can’t stand seeing Sumit being ripped apart from his family. Jenny is horrified by the whole situation. I still don’t understand why Sumit can’t just move to the US. But as I have learned from my own desires to expatriate, it is never that easy. This is just all so sad. Sumit tells his parents he is done with them and will not come back even if he doesn’t end up with Jenny he is sick and tired of being controlled by his parents. Good for you Sumit. Jenny tells Sumit’s mother that she is in love with him. She reminds his mother that she took her shopping and had clothes made for her. She liked her. And now this?
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His mother threatens to commit suicide if he marries her. Well, you gotta do what you gotta do. But Sumit says he won’t marry her. Really Sumit? Put your big boy panties on. I just woke up to this after being in a deep coma. This is a lot. Sumit tells his mother that he won’t marry her, but she is not going home. He suggests a compromise. I wish he would just call her bluff on the suicide thing. But it looks like she wins. An that is very sad. This sucks.
Brittany & Yazan
Middle-eastern food is the best food in the world. I miss it so much. And Brittany is the worst person in the world. I love these little greetings that I understand in Arabic. Our favorite translator is back to mediate another conversation between Yazan and Brittany. How Brittany ever though she would fit in with the Arabic world with her thirst traps is beyond me. Yazan admits that his life is in danger for messing with her dumb ass. Basically, he is in danger of a mercy killing because Brittany is such a social media whore. His father wants an honor killing.This is not some exaggerated for TV shit. This is what happens in the Arab community.
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I hate that Brittany has no idea about his culture. It’s annoying. Poor Azan. He still wants to marry her. I cannot tell you how much I hate this woman. Brittany suddenly decides to move Yazan to America. I really hate this person. I love Yazan and I hope he lets this person go and stops hooking up with American thrist traps. And finds a nice girl in Jordan.
Kenny & Armando
I really just hate Kenny at this point. Armando could do so much better. The Americans on this show are the worst versions of us. None of them have any respect for other cultures and just expect everything to be like America. It’s always about Kenny. But finally they are approved to get married. I want them to get married. But I want Kenny not to be such an ass. Hannah is the most wonderful person on this show. Will Kenny be my real dad? /SOBS
Kenny finds out They are getting married. They are getting married. YAY!
Bini & Ari
What this show is teaching me is that women are HORRIBLE. What festival is this? I can hardly wait until I stop drinking and crying and having to go vote against stupidity. I so want to get the fuck out of here. At least Ari is willing to dress appropriately to celebrate Timkat which is better than Brittany does. Brittany just wants to dress like a whore all the time in Yemen. Oh hell, he is going to propose to her. I thought that was already a thing. Of course he has the baby. And of course she is worried about the baby. Please. Ethiopian babies do this all the time and somehow manage to live. Shut up.
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HA! Bini tells us that Ari is afraid of the “holy water” because it could cast out her demons. I agree she is awful. Ari is the worst person in the world. Literally. She has no respect for the father of her baby. What I have learned from this show is that women are horrible creatures and we should try to do better.
Deavan & Jihoon
I am starting to learn from this show that I am/was the asshole in my relationships. Because all these women are bitches. Deavan is getting married to Jihoon for like the millionth time. She has 84 kids with this guy and she just wants to wear a pretty dress. This show makes me hate women as a species. I guess it is because I’ve never cared about being married. And we have already done this once. I love Jihoon. lol He is having fun with this fake wedding. Jihoon deserves better. So much better. I think Deavan has gotten married again and will probably get married a million more times. I hate her. She it trying to have all the weddings. They are all fake to her.
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Oh look she is dealing with the Corona virus and sudden she ends up with another man . It’s some Korean guy. Obviously she has a type, And I get Jihoon is a boy and not a man but still…. And she is so quiet in Korea and she comes home and leaves the father of her babies. Deavan decides to leave Jihoonin the pandemic. And she ends up with another man. Who is korean.
I cried watching Hannah. Damn. Tamara, not sure I should say this but your recap was HILARIOUS! My thoughts exactly. What is wrong with these women? Don’t they research the countries they are going to live in? My god, I do drive by’s before going to a new Dr. so I know where he is and check out his degrees and where he went to medical school… for god sake you can’t go to Jordan and act like such an idiot with and then screw around with some guys mind… same with Ari. My god, she’s such a spoiled little girl. Deavon another one. She’s like droopy dawg. Jenny another one. She schtupped the guy in the parents attic pretending to be friends with the mom. WTF did she think was going to happen?? I just can’t with these women. So yes, I agree with you.
Oh Gigi and TT – same same same!!!!!! Nothing to add – exactly what both of you said!!!! SMH at these awful women/girls!!!
makes you embarrassed when you see them unable to embrace another culture. “Arrogant Americans or Ugly Americans” pick one.
Ari is just the worst . I just can’t watch most of the couples anymore . Ari is such a self centered little bitch that should have never moved out of her comfort zone . She acts like the baby is only hers.. it’s just shameful the way she acts . It’s dusgusting actually. She’s going to raise the kid in a bubble on her own little world. She’s a spoiled little bitch and shows her ass on this show lately . Disgusting.
Give me MY Baby . Give me My baby My baby My baby. Her entire life was me me me. That is why she thinks this child is only hers. She should be calling the child by it’s name. And also saying OUR child ! She’s a nut job.
Every couple on this show needs to go except for Jenny/Summit and Armando /Kenny . They are going to loose more viewers if they keep following all of the other fucking idiots . I have a feeling this franchise is going to end up like the housewives . They are branching too far out and giving the viewers poor quality of casting . Good god Ari and Brittany are just fucking clueless to life
I hate to defend Ari, but here I am.
Years ago, pre-Covid, I had a newborn at Christmas. My doctor forbid us from flying and forbid us to go to the huge family Christmas. I can still remember him saying if this baby gets a fever it will be on a spinal tap in the hospital.
So, yea, she was right. Why the hell do you have a newborn baby around all these people? And why would you ever have the baby in that mosh pit? Why couldn’t she stand in the back with the stroller while he got in the mosh pit?!? And then he could slop some gross water on both of them when he crawled out. Or just get the photo op from the back?
The whole thing made my blood pressure rise. I could feel my mama bear kick in, and it’s been a while, and I was never a helicopter parent by any means. That baby was too young and fragile to be in all that chaos, and just around that many people period.
I felt for Ari too in that moment, for the baby’s sake. She is very immature but it’s nice to see a maternal instinct kick in. However, my empathy only goes so far. She chose to go to Ethiopia, was irresponsible and became pregnant by someone she barely knew, accepted the third world living conditions, chose to give birth there and chose to stay and raise her son there. Can’t complain about it now.
SHAME SHAME on Sumit. I liked him until last night. He has but Jenny through hell and he refuses to marry her now even though he can? Run Jenny. You don’t deserve this. As much as I agree Ari is a whiner, I would have never taken a 4 week old out to an event like that. Never.
The problem with Brittany is like anyone who appeals on reality tv they all thirsty of course, but she knew she didn’t wanna be with Yazan. Go and do you Brittany, but not at the expense of Yazan so you can be on a show.
You could tell right away whenever she cut off the conversation after making him believe she could come to America and he was asking how to start the process how she just cut them off.. you know she wasn’t interested.
Brittany had an OnlyFans. Yazan’s father is right about her and worried is son will be corrupted by her, but he needn’t worry. Britney will never marry Yanzan, especially since SHE’S STILL MARRIED!
Brittany continues to string poor Yazan along. She never had any intention of staying with him. The only reason she even brought up the K1 visa is she doesn’t want the responsibility for Yazan’s death! She will NEVER follow through! Go back to posting butt pics online, Brittany! Yazan needs to find a nice Jordanian girl who wants to have a traditional life with him.
Jenny makes her own problems. You CHOSE a baby-man! Why are his actions surprising?? It is what it is. Either figure out how to stay in India, or leave. Those are your choices.
Ari makes me crazy, but I am with her that the crowds and heat of the festival were no place for a one-month-old. I hate having any of my kids in a big crowd, where people are trying to push to the front, and I won’t do it.
I try to give Deavan the benefit of the doubt, because she’s so young, but I don’t see much that is redeeming about her. Jihoon dodged a sourpuss-bullet. I’m just sad for all the upheaval she puts her kids through. They need stability so badly.
Armando and Kenny, you better make a happy stable life for my Hannah or I’m coming for you! I’m glad they can marry legally, so Kenny can get a job, but I worry about them in rural Mexico. It’s a very different culture, kids. Kenny needs to get fluent in Spanish, now.
Thanks for the great recap, TT! Can’t wait for the reunion!
I truly do not understand why Yazan is in love with Brittany. I just don’t get it. She’s attractive enough when she’s wearing make-up I suppose, but she has no personality. So unemotional and flat when she’s interacting with him. Do they have chemistry?
This episode seemed very sad to me (except Armando and Kenny). These couples seem to ill-matched and ill-fated. Just depressing.
I couldn’t believe Sumit capitulated to his parents. IDK why he did it. I am torn between him not really wanting to marry Jenny or cultural requirements so ingrained in him. When I listen to what he says, he seems to be saying that he feels he owes Jenny. Not he’s truly deeply in love with her. IDK How does he think she can stay there without marriage?
I felt bad that both Jihoon and Yazan knew their relationships were over. Even though I’ve always thought she was a total fame whore and still don’t like her, I did see a slight shred of humanity in Brittany this episode.
Has anyone checked on Yazan to see if he is still alive?
I understand Brittany has posted photos of the two of them together on Instagram, but who knows when those photos were taken.
They better be doing a Tell All! It’s not like them not to do one but I didn’t see any advertisements for one.
Didn’t Jihoon do something to Drasilla and that’s why she left him? Like he pulled her hair or something along those lines. I thought I read that somewhere, don’t know where.
I was so hoping Sumit would call his moms bluff. I think his mom is an awful person for being like that. Karma will come for her
She claims Jihoon pulled Dracilla’s hair, but I find it suspect that Deavan never mentioned it on camera.
I actually miss 90 Day when it’s not on my TV. They do a great job of getting you super invested in *some* of the contestants? Lives.
Sumit really disappointed me as did Jenny by accepting his his half hearted bs once again.
Ari gets on my last nerve, but she’s actually trying unlike Deavan and Brittany who was in Jordan for all of 4 days.
Kenny and Armando seem happy and I’m so glad they can legally wed.
I feel like I’m forgetting someone? Oh well
My feelings about Sumit and Jenny changed when I read that Jenny initially went to India as a friend and was welcomed into Sumit’s parents home for months, becoming close with his mother, only to sneak into Sumit’s room at night.
As a parent I’d be pretty angry at Jenny too, and wouldn’t want her to marry my son either.
As for Brittany…Tamara, I gotta know. Does TLC advertise on OnlyFans, or look there for cast members? There have now been at least two porn stars on the 90 Day The Other Way part of the franchise, and I find that strange.
Bini is a really nice guy. I hope Ari learns how to grow up and stop being so verbally abusive. I too saw no issue with the festival. Cover the baby’s head. He would have been fine, or step back from the crowd, but goodness sake, stop the freakouts.
Lastly Deavan was so worried about Jihoon cheating, but she sure did find a new man with a quickness. Aren’t they still married? South Korea is such a close knit society. I’d imagine Jihoon’s parents and this new guys parents have some things to say aboiy Deavan’s behavior!
BTW, I had a conversation with the translator on Twitter. He’s a pretty awesome guy!
lol give him my digits!