Recently, Thomas Ravenel announce he was getting married. He also bought a house in Aiken at the beginning of the year. Ever since he got kicked in the head by a horse, he’s been even weirder than usual. He has now made it clear as mud that he is “getting engaged to be married” to Heather Mascoe. Heather is Thomas’s latest baby mama. They welcomed a baby boy last June. Like all of Thomas Ravenel’s relationships this one is very tumultuous. They have been on again and off again since the started dating in the summer of 2019. In fact, just four months ago when she gave birth to their son they were off again.
Thomas recently tweeted that he would be getting married without a prenup because he doesn’t need one with this one. Which is odd because her last husband had her arrested for running up thousands of dollars on his credit cards without being a legal user on the card. The charges were later dropped.
In a recent report by Fits News Heather’s niece alleged that Thomas Ravenel may want to get a paternity test on the baby. The niece said, “Hope he’s actually yours. I know what Heather was doing while she was ‘dating’ you and what she’s continually doing around her kids. Hence why Leo took custody of her other children. Lol as her niece I salute you for being so nice to someone like her.”
Requisite literal whore sweating in literal church photo
Fits News also obtained a letter that was sent to Kathryn Dennis’ lawyer:
“Pursuant to Section I(D.)(2.) of the parties’ 2019 Agreement, Mr. Ravenel is providing Miss Dennis notice of his intent to relocate to Aiken, South Carolina next summer after the children complete the 2020/2021 school year. Mr. Ravenel believes this move is in the children’s best interest due to the notoriety and negative attention they have received in Charleston as a result of the parties’ public personas.
Mr. Ravenel had significant difficulty finding a school in Charleston to accept Saint as a student this academic school year, and he feels the children would not be nearly as prejudiced residing in a smaller town such as Aiken.”
“Please discuss the above terms with your client at your earliest convenience and let us know if she is amenable to this proposal. Mr. Ravenel has authorized me to keep this offer open for one (1) week. It is set to expire at end of business day on Wednesday, October 7, 2020.”
This Is Not How Custody Works
Obviously, Kathryn did not respond. Because, this is not how it works. No parent can move and just take the kids with them. This will be another custody battle in family court. Kathyrn’s problem is that Thomas Ravenel has a history of getting his way in court. Aiken is about two and a half hours from Charleston. Basically, this is just going to be another expensive custody battle and a major headache for Kathryn.
My college roommate’s husband cheated on her and ended up remarrying her then best friend. He was extremely wealthy. She had a little girl and boy just a little older than Katheryn’s two. Court battles over custody were endless and brutal.
One morning she decided it would have to be a Sophie’s choice for her, if any of them were to have peace and sanity. She kept her daughter and raised her – and her ex got to raise the boy. It has actually worked out. Good luck to Katherine, she needs it!
I bet the siblings don’t think it “worked out”.
I know some people think Nema should “just get over it”, but that shit can be traumatizing.
I went to Katherines IG and she’s dating a handsome black man. THATs why Ravenel wants those children. He’s an asshole. Can I say that T? He doesn’t fool me.
I rarely watch reality TV but like to read this site as I do find its the best of the recaps. Anyway, I know KD can seem a little flighty or did when she was younger but I hate, hate, hate the way the courts have allowed travenel to abuse her and those children because what? Male, rich? Connected?
Children need and usually adore both parents but does anyone have an idea what abrupt disruptions do to mostly the children and the dominant caretaker? I had it done to me. My husband had the money and the power and the courts let him hurt my me and my child. I was able to get my daughter back but it was hell for my child. Now thirty five years later, all of these people that testified on my ex’s behalf are telling me he paid them to lie about me. What good does that do now? I hope that I don’t have to add ‘not all men’ or ‘not all women’ but, ugh, I’m so pissed. Actually, I believe I had to stop watching SC because it triggered me.
I hope that Katherine continues to grow and for hers and her children’s sake, she becomes stronger. What happens with ravenals next marriage? Does he get to just keep threatening that he’s taking those children? The anxiety this produces works like this and it’s by design. One parent threatens to take the other parent to court to strip away parental power. The mom or dad becomes destabilized, May drink, stop cleaning their house etc and surprise, court gives children to the person wielding the power. I haven’t watched her but do hope that she OR her attorney are very well aware of these dynamic power games and seeks to protect the children first. Can you image trav having those children and Katherine not being there nor aware of the little boy and his ability to ask for what he needs?
As an aside, the new BF’s last name is Ravenelle? Did I read that correctly? Some of the comments about him are straight up racists thinking they’re being clever or slick with dog whistles.
Hope I didn’t take up too much space here.
I believe his name is Ravenel with an extra “L” maybe. In the south Some slaves were assigned their slave master’s last name. Spelling was often an issue. So it is possible that his ancestors were once owned by Thomas’s ancestors. IIRC correctly she and her boyfriend and Thomas and I want to say a fourth person were photograph together and she posted it on IG with the caption “The Ravenels” which was odd at the time.
And of course you didn’t take up too much space here! Take all the space you want!
That is so interesting Tamara. I knew that that had happened with slaves but didn’t even think this could be the connection. It is entirely possible I think. Thomas gonna be big mad if they stay together. Will he tell the court he doesn’t want his children around a descendant of a former slave? Not gonna fly.
Thank you for your kind words to me.
There really is no end to his depravity, is there?
I can only hope this goes to a judge who isn’t afraid to tell the Ravenels that they can’t get whatever they want just because of who they know.
He’s such a sociopath. Everything he does is to try and destroy Kathryn because he’s a sadistic POS. I honestly think Trashley wouldn’t have made it as long as she did if it didn’t get under Kathryn’s skin. What he did taking those babies from their mother in their formative years? Well, there’s no forgiving the damage he did. And now he wants to do more. I bet he wouldn’t even be interested in custody if it didn’t keep him playing mind games with Kathryn.
Prayers for Kathryn, that she is happy and healthy and can fight to good fight against Thomas the asshole Ravanel who is clearly misguided, and worst parent on the planet!
He won’t win now that there are sightings of him partying. He even “lost” Saint at the Cloisters while drinking by the pool. New baby mama is a horrible influence on him. Nasty tweets, blocking followers and using. . .😜
Especially difficult if Heather’s niece would testify against her.
How can ANYONE, even Thomas, with money get married without a prenup! Idiot!
I’ll be SHOCKED if a wedding actually happens. These two fight a lot. Also, I don’t see her really wanting to live in Aiken. It’s cute town, but it is not Charleston.
I would think a lot of her family and exes will testify against her since nobody likes her.
TRav has really deteriorated since that baby arrived. He seems unable to do anything except drink and play polo. Why doesn’t his sibs put him in a rehab or get him help?
A smaller town will make his notoriety more noticeable!
Common sense is not common with Thomas.
How did that Fit News get a copy of that letter to Kathryn’s lawyer?
The person who wrote the article has sidled up to Kathryn…so I presume it is from her.
That is what I was going to say. Since WHEN has a small town been more accepting? Just ask the denizens of Peyton Place and Harper’s Valley!
Why can’t they find a school for Saint?
And yeah, you don’t get to say “I get full custody now because I’m moving 2 hours away” with a judge’s say so!
And I love that whore in church photo every damn time.
Based on personal observation, I think that Saint has a bit of a disability. I will not expand on my opinion. All of his (and Kensie’s) doctors are in Charleston. There are better schools in Charleston. It is best for the kids to be in Charleston.
Agreed re: Saint. I’ve been a teacher over 20 years and something is up with Saint.
I know exactly what it is and I am hoping it doesn’t come out in court…
I whittled it down to two things and now I know which one it is. Not good in court.
Oh, I think so too, but would never presume to publicly speculate on what it is.
But one would think Charleston would have the school facilities and assistance he would qualify for (if diagnosed) and not some small town.
Unless Thomas is being a prick and insisting his son go to a private school eventually which are not usually set up to provide services.
I’d require that we do not openly speculate on a child’s medical issues here. I just wanted to let y’all know there does seem TO ME to be an issue. For those emailing me, I will not speculate with you there either. We are talking about children and we have no idea what their medical issues may be.
The main thing is that private schools are not required to accommodate kids with special needs if he or Kensie in fact has that need. Clearly, I have no access to the children’s medical records. My comments are based solely on what I have observed as a retired teacher of many years. There are some good private schools in both cities. But taking a child from there mother be it Saint or Kensie will likely lead to regression and they seem (in my non professional opinion) to be thriving in their schools in Charleston.
I dont know for sure but I would bet money on the reason they can’t find a school for Saint is that the schools may not want to deal with Mr. Ravenel…not Saint. If the child does need a special program I wonder how many choices there are in AIKEN much less Charleston??? Tamara, do you know?
This is so disturbing. Ravenel thinks that because he has $$ & a name in that town he can push his weight around! My Dad may he RIP always told me unfortunately in, “our country women & children are not valued”! I have never forgotten those words, he was a wise man & lived until he was 94yrs young 💓
My 💔 for Kathryn & her beautiful kids. It’s time for a fair judge to make a decision & stop this game Ravenel plays when he feels like it! Has he ever been evaluated by an unbiased psychiatrist? Or has he ever had honest sporadic drug tests? It just seems all one sided in his favor! Kathryn has made mistakes
but come on, he’s just too out of control and I believe not the best fitted to care for the children! Just my opinion 😉! Peace 🙏
“due to the notoriety and negative attention they have received“
Let’s think about that for a moment! 🤔
Notoriety and negative attention that you, as their father, have brought into their young lives. Why on earth would any judge rule in his favor when he shows no self control!
What it really means is, I have to whisk these children out of Charleston And run because of all my personal embarrassing and bad behavior and the blowback they receive from it.
As they say, the sins of our fathers. Amend your ways TRav before your children fully inherit all the ramifications from your notorious life!
I do love my monkeys, but considering her emoji problems, perhaps Kathrine should not be wearing (flaunting?) a skirt with a monkey print!
Nanette, I did a double-take too, but that photo is actually a couple of years old, thank goodness.
Right. It is an old photo. Kathryn likes monkey and I believe she’s referred to her kids as little monkeys several times.
Does it then seem plausible that her monkey emoji usage in her twitter war with the Black Charleston blogger is indeed more benign than what has generally been assumed?
I always use the see no evil hear no evil speak no evil emojis on my phone & they are baby orangutans. I would like to think it was an error on Katherine’s part but unsure if she was being racially insensitive to the person she was rage texting with. If she was SHAME ON HER. No excuse for that.
This is awful!
I know custody agreements usually stipulate that a parent can’t move out if state without approval from the other parent, but do they commonly limit the distance of a move within the state? I’m not sure what “offer” stands for a week?
The one week thing was clearly meant as a threat. Because, Thomas.
Like, if you don’t consent to this now, we’ll drag you into an unaffordable/embarrassing legal mess over it and you’ll get less than four days a week visitation? I don’t think he has any empathy for her when it comes to custody, and she has always given him so much ammunition to use against her.
There’s no way a business owner would get married without a prenup. He was probably wasted when he wrote that.
^ four days a month
Prayers for Kathryn and her children. She’s not perfect but they love her and he’s a monster.
Indeed.
I was raised better, but a part of me wishes the horse had kicked a little harder. I feel so bad for Kathryn; there’s no rest for the weary.
TT – I laugh every time you you post “ Requisite literal whore sweating in literal church photo”. Snort laugh-until I cry laughter.
Kathryn is far from perfect, but I always felt she was a better choice than Thomas.
Regarding the potential bride to be, is this the same tart whose husband put up signage at his business or home proclaiming Thomas a home wrecker & threatened him with bodily harm? I’m get confused amongst all the trailer park debutantes.
Yep same one and he has custody of her other kids.
https://tamaratattles.com/2019/05/28/charleston-residents-continue-to-boycott-thomas-ravenel/
Wow, he sure likes them skinny.
This chick looks pretty much the same as Ashley.
And OF COURSE he has his stupid white pants on.
Doesn’t need a prenup with her? What would the reason be? He can’t possibly be thinking they will never part!
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So … in addition to the requisite “Ravenel Whore Sweating In Church“ photo, we now have the “Ravenel I Forgot to Take Out the Buttplug” photo.
Apparently he served her again on the 9th and sweetened the deal.
I read that. Apparently he is trying to buy the kids from Kathryn. Why? He has no desire to have the kids all the time. Is he moving the nanny to Aiken? Is the new baby mama supposed to watch all three? He’s such an idiot.