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RHOP Recap: Sorry, NOT Sorry

October 5, 2020 by tamaratattles 70 Comments

RHOP Recap
(RHOP Recap Photo by: Sophy Holland/Bravo)

I finally got caught up on Real Housewives of Potomac and this season has a lot going on! But so do Sunday nights! So much to recap and no room on the DVR! But tonight, I’ve got room for a RHOP recap! It’s late and this POS new laptop is unable to handle the usage it is getting despite being a very expensive gamers laptop that is supposed to have the same specs as my ASUS. It’s just been a few month and the new security measures are making me hunt for the boats every time I save my work. ARGH.

RHOP RecapFive Days After Monique FINALLY Dragged Her Ass

I am not sure if I talked to you guys about the big fight or not but I don’t think that it was reason enough for the green eyed girls to totally blame Monique. Actually, I think they are just jealous of Monique. I usually hate when people say that, but in this case, it is probably true. Let’s see how they spin it. At least production is showing some of the times Candiace has begged for the ass whooping she so sorely needed. Sorry, not Sorry. I also kind of love how they keep showing the dragging. I have a personal reason to hate Candiace. She came after a Twitter friend of mine and started dragging the child he was holding in his avatar. Who does that? Did she say she has no idea what she did to warrant getting dragged? Let me count the ways.

Meanwhile, on the other side of the tracks, Monique wants to get everyone together so they can help her piece together what happened. She says she blacked out about halfway through. Why does Gizelle always talk to her daughters about grown folks problems? I find it hysterical that Candiace is acting like she is the personification of grace and decorum and is appalled that she got a taste of her own medicine. WTF is Gizelle coming with a “personal security guard” for? She is such a drama queen.

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Ashley shows up with the baby in a carriage. He’s adorable. Everyone except Monique has arrived and they are accusing Monique of leaking the story to a blog. Let me tell you something. There are other people there besides the women everywhere they go. Production talks about things like this with their husbands, wives, and girlfriends. A well-placed production source is way better than a housewife source. I’m just speaking from experience. Am I the only one that does not like Wendy?

RHOP RecapAngry Black Women

Monique is about to walk into a house full of angry black women screaming about not wanting to be portrayed as angry black women. While I agree that RHOP are considerably better behaved as a whole than lots of other franchises, they have not had this attitude before when Candiace is going around threatening to beat people and being an angry black woman all over social media. Candiace threatened Ashley with a knife and threatened to beat her ass every time she saw her for an entire season. Monique finally had enough of Candiace coming after her for two seasons and gave her what she has been asking for. Only Ashley is sticking up for Monique.

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These bitches have no plans to listen to Monique. Monique starts crying right away. She says she is embarrassed. She apologizes. She says that is not who she is and she doesn’t want to be defined by one bad choice. Sadly, Gizelle has always been jealous of Monique and is going to use this to eviscerate her along with her pack of lapdogs. By the way, they keep replaying this and I am still not sure when the wine glass thing happened. Robyn tries to clear that up. Then she confronts Monique about “leaking the story to the blogs.” She knows it was her because the blog was very “anti-Candiace”! Are you kidding me?  98% of the blogs are anti-Candiace. Have you met Candiace?

Missing Recap

This is all that is left of my very long RHOP recap from last night. I finally managed to get some photos in but last night the laptop could not even open my photos files. Then it ate the last half of my commentary. I stayed up for hours trying to figure out how to retrieve it because I had a lot to say.

The gist of it was Gizelle has always been jealous of Monique. Robin is Gizelle’s lapdog. Those two pulled in Wendy to use this situation to get Monique fired. Monique threatened to quit the show. I’m not really sure what happened and I am not fully awake yet today to discuss it. I’m still feeling some type away about losing such a detailed post.

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Also in the missing text, I recapped Monique on WWHL where Andy seemed not pleased at all with Monique. But Monique mentioned she will have a lot to say on the reunion that we did not know about. So it seems she will be at the reunion. It didn’t appear that she went on the Portugal trip.

I know I am forgetting a lot of things. I’m really irritated with this laptop and still not sure even this much is going to go up. If I go dark it is because the BRAND NEW LAPTOP died completely.

I just wanted to get this up so y’all can be all team Candiace. I don’t think there is really a good team to be on in this situation but I lean toward Monique.  Oh and that “therapy session” with Candiace was ridiculous.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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  1. MsCarlyTX says

    October 5, 2020 at 1:05 pm

    I will say what I said last week. I am not team Candiace, I am never going to be team Candiace but I am not team Monique either. Monique put herself in this difficult situation by putting her hands on Candiace. Monique has bigger problems than being mad at Candiace. Monique showed she has a white hot violent temper when provoked.

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    • MzBossyPantz says

      October 5, 2020 at 2:01 pm

      Ms Carly, I feel same way. Candiace does need to do a reality check on her toxicity and realize actions/words can have consequences. But that response form a grown woman was not ok.

      Having said that, I agree that Grizella is enjoying acting superior to Monique. Just salivating at getting to put her in her place (In her view).

      Side note…I need new laptop, now scared to buy one!

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      • tamaratattles says

        October 5, 2020 at 2:18 pm

        Don’t buy a Lenovo!

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        • Purpureo says

          October 5, 2020 at 3:35 pm

          Mine did something weird. It wouldn’t connect to Chrome, wouldn’t let me access the start menu, then, it stopped connecting to the internet. I found some back way to reset to the last back-up point towards the end of last month. That was the only thing that helped correct whatever that was. Incompatible updates?

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        • Misa says

          October 5, 2020 at 9:31 pm

          Sorry that Lenovo is acting up . I bought one as well and then warned anyone who would listen not to purchase Lenovo. Prolly manufactured by Fischer Price. Mine is soo cheap an the smallest maneuvers are fraught with drama. I brought a refurbished Mac for my grandson. He uses it for
          all his college work . It’s going strong after three years. Perhaps you could look into a used product which has all th features you require, TT.

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          • Leann says

            October 6, 2020 at 10:10 pm

            I have had my Mac for about 5 years and I love it!! I highly recommend a Mac

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    • Terri says

      October 5, 2020 at 2:10 pm

      Candiace reminds me of my youngest sister. Trust me when I say that my sister has been known to drive even the nicest, calmest person on the face of the earth to punch her in the face. Candiace knows what she’s doing when she antagonizes someone. In my opinion, she pushes and pushes because she knows the other person will eventually take a swing at her. I like Monique so I’m on her side on this, even though I generally don’t approve of physical altercations. I was starting to like Gizelle but she lost me last night. Robin is pathetic. Wendy is annoying. Karen seemed genuine in wanting to discuss the issues, but who the hell knows. I’m glad Ashley is sticking up for Monique. She knows first hand how disgusting Candiace is. You’re right, Tamara, Candiace’s therapy session was a joke.

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      • Bucky says

        October 5, 2020 at 3:29 pm

        That meeting was good character development for Ashley. She is always sympathetic to the person doing the most wrong in any bad situation. It helps me understand her marriage dynamic.

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      • GirlFromKY says

        October 5, 2020 at 3:49 pm

        Totally agree with you Terri! Candice needed a HUGE attitude adjustment! If she kept on and on with me like that, I can promise you bitch would have been at the ER about her broken nose. And yeah, both Giselle and Robyn SALIVATE over the opportunity to be self rightous. Giselle is especially bad about it. Bitches needed to wipe off the drool from their mouths during bully session! I feel sorry for Monique because they’ll most likely can her over this. I really hate that because she’s my favorite by far.

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        • Scorpio13 says

          October 5, 2020 at 7:24 pm

          I totally agree with you GFK. My question is what kind of reputation are you trying to uphold Gizelle when you ex husband who is a pastor has 6-7 baby mama’s!? Her reputation has already been destroyed.

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          • MelG says

            October 5, 2020 at 9:03 pm

            Yep, he spreads his seed among his flock! ?
            Go forth and multiply!

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          • GirlFromKY says

            October 6, 2020 at 11:54 am

            Excellent point Scorpio

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        • Nancy says

          October 7, 2020 at 3:11 am

          While I don’t agree with grown women getting into physical altercations Candiace had this one coming to her & more! She has been bad mouthing Monique for the longest & luvs to talk sh_t about people’s marriages! That’s some bullsh_t right there! I believe she talked about Monique’s baby not being her husband’s like Gizelle did! I use to like Gizelle at the start of the show but she turned out to be a horrible person! She loathes Monique because she can’t have what she has, which is $$ & a loving husband! Who the hell brings a Security Guard to a private meeting! She is an idiot. Then she exits with, “Jamal & I have a reputation to protect “! I almost pied in my pants ?! Is she sh_tting me, that bastard has 6-8 baby Mama’s and he’s still a preacher! GTFOH with that sh_t! LMAO

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      • Betsy says

        October 6, 2020 at 5:36 pm

        THIS – EXACTLY THIS!!!

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      • AmberKnows says

        October 7, 2020 at 12:14 pm

        I agree that Candiace USUALLY knows what she’s doing when she provokes people! She goes toe to toe w someone who she KNOWS will NOT become violent. She pushes the envelope and shakes the table but NEVER expected to get BEAT! She was provoking Monique because she just KNEW that Mo was NEVER going to touch her. WRONG-O! Mo was over her and probably dealing w a lot of other bullshit and had had ENOUGH! Candiace is big and bad when doing the talking, goading and threatening but is not very good with the physical. Stop asking for contact when you don’t, can’t or won’t respond.

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        • Terri says

          October 7, 2020 at 12:19 pm

          You’re so right about that. I do think it took her by surprise, but, much like my sister, she still takes little to no responsibility for the role she played in getting her weave pulled. I wish I could believe that both Monique and Candiace learned a lesson from this encounter, but we all know that didn’t happen.

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          • ForumDude says

            October 7, 2020 at 12:22 pm

            I think Monique probably will eventually, probably already has, but Candiace, not likely.

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    • Purpureo says

      October 5, 2020 at 3:30 pm

      I agreed with you last time and I still agree with you.

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  2. Not Andy Cohen says

    October 5, 2020 at 1:19 pm

    I am #TeamMonique. I think both Monique and Candiace got played by the green eyed bandits. The season started very anti-candiace from those two; up until that Michael Darby tea fell on Candiace’s lap, Gizelle did not like her this season and continuously had issues with her.

    I believe Monique redirected the heat to Candiace by default. Them two were friends with minor issues. Candiace said the cheating rumors were gonna happen and being spearheaded by someone in the group (Gizelle) but for some reason, Monique had issues with her not telling her and it being Karen. Doesn’t help she was snuggle buddies with Charisse.

    The fights happens and the GEB duo strike and claim they’re scared and think Monique is a liability and an issue for their image when Gizelle’s husband has many baby momma’s and mistresses. That’s not an image to maintain and protect.

    Monique got baited by Candiace but Candiace got used. The whole situation is sad considering the two were really good friends. Bottomline: Gizelle and Robyn have had it out for Monique since she came on; she’s beautiful and has the money and judging by the footage, she can fight and will fight. The scene was brutal and not a good look for Monique. She should have said she had remorse but upset at the situation instead of none and being “and what” but she was being honest and I can’t fault her in that.

    As for your friend’s kid getting dragged by Candiace; I remember this and your friend started in on her on Twitter and had tons to say about her. I get it, don’t come for kids but when you play dirty, all bets are off and there are no rules. Don’t make your Twitter friend seem innocent here; he came for Candiace on some personal stuff and all she had was his picture. Harsh but a true reality. And I know I’m on the minority here and trust me, I can’t stand a Candiace and she did deserve the dragging.

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    • Vera says

      October 5, 2020 at 1:57 pm

      I enjoyed reading your posting about last night’s episode.

      I agree with you and your observations…just a question about your last paragraph (about kids). Whose kid??? I’m not on Twitter and therefore, I can’t follow anyone.

      I come here for TT’s posting and the comments….

      I love this site!

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    • MzBossyPantz says

      October 5, 2020 at 2:09 pm

      I like your observations and agree that the ladies got used. But I cannot condone the dragging. But I do not think Candiace should be acting like she is blameless and Monique should not be ganged up on.

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      • Bucky says

        October 5, 2020 at 3:53 pm

        That’s a risk accepted by the person who escalates a confrontation to something physical. A wife might be extremely annoying verbally, but it wouldn’t justify domestic violence if her husband slammed her face down and punched her head. Blaming Candaice is justifying violence.

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        • Oopsey! says

          October 6, 2020 at 4:23 am

          The people on this site were hooping, holllaring and cheering with Betty Broderirck harrassed, stalked and taunted and eventually murdered a sleeping Dan and Linda Broderick. People claimed she was provoked. Some folks even justified Porsha dragging Kenya on staged. You all like to chose what is considered justified violent provocation and whats not. Not too again Candiace would have been challenged to a dual for attacking someone’s honor. It was legal to dual for with person who likes to verbally destroy others. I now see why it was legal. People are too wreckless with their mouths and act like there shouldn’t be consequences as long as they dont touch you. Abuse is abuse
          When you abuses people they will retaliate and some people will chose a different weapon than words. They may choose wig pulling or worse. If you cant show some restraint with your words and verbal attacks how can you how can you put the responsibility on the person being verbally attacked to practice restraint? Im not saying physical violence is ever justified but nitpicking, harrassing and taunting is a fools game. Comparing their fight to domestic violence is a differnet animal. If your partner male or female is violent and they have a violent tempermant thats a problems within itself. Being in a relarionship violent person is usually all the provocation they need to be abusive and those relationships should be avoid at all cost.

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          • DQ says

            October 11, 2020 at 11:25 am

            100% agree with you Oopsey! Well said!

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    • Scorpio13 says

      October 5, 2020 at 7:29 pm

      You are SO not in the minority NAC. The only thing I am confused at is your last paragraph. I must be missing something because I have no idea what you are talking about.

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      • Not Andy Cohen says

        October 6, 2020 at 12:58 am

        My response to TT’s post/paragraph:

        I have a personal reason to hate Candiace. She came after a Twitter friend of mine and started dragging the child he was holding in his avatar. Who does that? Did she say she has no idea what she did to warrant getting dragged? Let me count the ways.

        ——

        Hence my response. Sorry. I can totally see the disconnect on my response/post.

        I agree with everyone that violence/physical altercations are never the answer. Monique was wrong but I can’t blame her. I know myself and it’s happened: someone gets in my face and invades my personal space with the finger/hand gestures. I’m gay; we like to do that. I told the guy to back off and get outta my face; they didn’t so I stood up and stood my ground to let the group know that I was uncomfortable and not having it. I was ready to fight and willing to fight but I choose not to but with consideration that if this proceeded, I was going to strike and connect…. Monique should have backed away but she hit her limit was reached.

        Gizelle went to that meeting to humiliate Monique. She was a bitch for all of that. She looked petty and she enjoyed making Monique feel less than and she was purposely trying to antagonize her. Monique gave it back and there came Robyn for the kill to call her out as being condescending. So the plan was: let’s make her feel like shit, get her to react and once that happens, the other goes in. Those two are horrid people. Karma will get them.

        God I can’t with them two lol.

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        • MelG says

          October 6, 2020 at 1:28 am

          I don’t blame Monique either and I’m not saying violence should be the solution, but when Candiace just kept on with her hands/fingers in Monique’s face she knew she was instigating. Then, Monique flipped Candiace’s hair. To me those 2 actions were like check mate. Then, Candiace literally grabbed Monique’s vest. I would not have blamed Monique if she had throat punched her then. Candiace instigates, attacks, etc then cries. She is really going to piss off the wrong person one day. People pull guns for less these days. Robin & Gizelle infuriate me. They know what Candiace is like. Candiace’s own mother hit her w/her purse. She is a spoiled brat!

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          • ipgal says

            October 6, 2020 at 10:31 am

            I totally agreed with your statements. Candiace is a spoiled brat and not mature enough to be in this setting.

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  3. Bushwick says

    October 5, 2020 at 1:22 pm

    Team Monique. No I don’t condone violence but Candice was the antagonist.

    I jumped back and had to rewind my DVR at least three times to catch Gizelle say she & Jamal had images to protect. WHAT? Bwa ha ha ha haaaa! I might have co-signed if she left the serial philandering PASTOR with seven baby mammas out if it. Give me a fucking break.

    No TT, I’m not feeling Wendy either.
    I like Ashley 2.0, Karen & Monique. Everyone can kick rocks. They to bring back Katie.

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  4. DFlowerBlossom says

    October 5, 2020 at 1:41 pm

    How can Bravo fire Monique when they kept Porsche on after she beat down Kenya at a reunion? Many will argue that Porsche was provoked but she had a history of violent behavior.

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    • RNR says

      October 5, 2020 at 5:25 pm

      Agreed. But Bravo always makes exceptions when they think they’re still needed on the show.(i.e. Jax, Nene, Porsha, Kelly Dodd). So I bet a lot will depend on fans’ reactions, and how scenes go when Monique isn’t around.

      I’d say I’m Team Monique-ish. Yes, she should never physically harm someone else. But Candiace is always going waaaaay too hard and waaaaay too mean with her mouth (and Twitter). It’s not just shady, it’s downright mean and aggressive.

      Once again, it doesn’t make it right, but at some point you have to stand up to a bully – even if that bully is part hamster.

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  5. SLS says

    October 5, 2020 at 1:43 pm

    VERBAL Disagreements DO NOT GIVE PERMISSION FOR ANYONE TO PHYSICALLY ASSAULT ANOTHER.

    Candiace can say whatever she wants to say- it’s a reality TV show show, NOT a MMA cage fight.

    ALL the RHOP talk negative smack about each other.

    BUT a difference of opinion DOES NOT WARRANT VIOLENT PHYSICAL ACTIONS UPON YOU.

    MONIQUE IS VIOLENT AND DANGEROUS.

    MONIQUE HAS NO REMORSE.

    BRAVO, FIRE MONIQUE ?

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  6. E Jilla says

    October 5, 2020 at 1:50 pm

    I can’t believe grown women are defending Monique all because Candiace has a slick mouth. They all talk slick to each other and if that’s the impetus for a fight, then Bethany and Nene should’ve been dragged long ago. Nobody is jealous of Monique. Monique is a braggart who doesn’t think her ish stinks. It’s clear she doth protest too much!!! Whatever this tea is about she and her personal trainer must be true as evidenced by her misplaced rage at Candiace. But the true source of her anger is really toward her paycheck…I mean her husband Michael.

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    • *MissRaider* says

      October 5, 2020 at 1:54 pm

      You’re way off base…can’t even keep the husbands straight.

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      • E Jilla says

        October 5, 2020 at 9:16 pm

        May have mixed up the names but it doesn’t negate the message!

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    • MelG says

      October 5, 2020 at 2:02 pm

      Candiace has threatened, has threatened with a knife. She grabbed Monique by the vest!

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      • Scorpio13 says

        October 5, 2020 at 7:35 pm

        I guess “E” didn’t see Candiace blindly wielding a broken wine glass.She did not care who was around when she was swinging that glass, she could of hit ANYONE.

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        • E Jilla says

          October 5, 2020 at 9:17 pm

          I guess you didn’t see Monique assault Candiace first with the hair flip!

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          • Scorpio13 says

            October 5, 2020 at 11:22 pm

            I guess you didn’t watch either. Maybe you should slow down the footage to see who put hands on each other first. I have watched it 3 times now, Gizelle pushed Monique and Candiace grabbed her vest before Monique put hands on her.

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  7. *MissRaider* says

    October 5, 2020 at 1:51 pm

    This episode had me mad as hell!!!
    1. How can Candiace think she’s the victim?? Her entire act is fake as fuck down to the part where she claims she didn’t do anything to warrant Moniques behavior
    2. Gizelle is also fake as fuck. How is she gonna show up with security like Monique is dangerous to be around. Don’t start none, won’t be none….
    3. Wendy, Gizelle, and Robyn all went to Karen’s with their minds already made up. They didn’t care what Monique had to say, they were just there to try and make her feel like she was in the wrong (which she wasn’t IMO). How they gonna act like Monique is such a bad black woman, setting a poor example for her kids and for black girls everywhere…they took it WAY TOO FAR with that shit. How can they try and drag Monique but not address Candiace’s actions? SO it’s ok to just talk shit and instigate an altercation? Oh, and don’t get my started wit Gizelle. I guess its not ok to stand up for yourself but its ok to get back with the man that continuously cheated on you and has like 8 baby mamas….yea you’re setting a real good example for black girls everywhere.
    4.Robyn had it all wrong about the wine glass…it was very clear that the wine did not come up from the table but from across it. It was well above the table and and came in horizontally, with force.

    Sorry for the long post, this episode just really upset me. Robyn, Gizelle and Wendy all need to go! I still don’t see anything wrong with Monique’s actions. Candiace needs to stop running her mouth or expect there to be some consequences.

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    • MelG says

      October 5, 2020 at 2:40 pm

      Yes, this episode infuriated me. The women have heard Candiace’s threats. They saw her go after Ashley with the knife. Candiace’s own Mama can’t even refrain from hitting her.

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      • tamaratattles says

        October 5, 2020 at 3:55 pm

        “Candiace’s own Mama can’t even refrain from hitting her.” I’m in some sort of a weird headspace today and I needed this comment. 🙂

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    • Deb says

      October 5, 2020 at 5:47 pm

      I’m agreeing with everything you say I slow mode the fight and saw Candace hand with the wine glass in it after it broke it was in her left hand she was raising it and then coming down hard and fast with it trying to cut Monique in the face I saw her do that at least twice. She’s guilty in this too. Plus she did grab Monique‘s vest and pull it hard towards her I think that was it Monique lost her shit after that. So Candace actually started the fight not just with her behavior but by actually putting hands on Monique first.

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      • Scorpio13 says

        October 5, 2020 at 7:49 pm

        I re-watched it too, both Gizelle who pushed Monique and Candiace put hands on Monique first. So many people are missing that Candiace was blindly wielding a broken wine glass (but I guess that is okay). Monique used hands not a weapon like Candiace has numerous times. If I was Monique I would of reacted the same way. I like how some people are putting all the blame on Monique (smdh).

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        • MelG says

          October 5, 2020 at 9:06 pm

          And Candiace did grab Monique by the vest before Monique grabbed her hair.

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    • Scorpio13 says

      October 5, 2020 at 7:41 pm

      Miss I totally agree with you. Yes Monique did get hit with the glass. Yes Candiace was swinging a broken win glass blindly and didn’t care who got struck. Candiace did put hands on Monique along with Gizelle. Candiace is the type of person who will never learn about running her mouth and will keep wondering why she is getting her ass beat. Candiace keep playing the victim.

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  8. MelG says

    October 5, 2020 at 1:53 pm

    Team Monique!!!!!
    I’m not condoning violence, but Candiace is always writing a check with her mouth that her ass can’t cash. She doesn’t stop! She threatens, she’s combative, she was out of control the night with the butter knife. I can’t believe the green eyed bitches jumping on the Candiace bandwagon. Jealously of Monique is literally the only thing that does make sense because Candiace is everything they said about Monique. I could not believe the way they berated Monique after ALL Candiace has done.

    Also, Gizelle is a joke!!!! Gizelle said, “me and Jamal, a pastor, do we have an image to protect? OH 100!” WTF??? ??? She is an IDIOT!!!! What image??? Mr. Chocolate??? A whore dog with multiple kids by multiple mothers???? I literally LMAO!

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    • *MissRaider* says

      October 5, 2020 at 1:57 pm

      YES!!!!!!

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    • MelG says

      October 5, 2020 at 2:00 pm

      Also, Candiace did have her hands up in Monique’s space. Monique did flip her hair after Candiace kept on. Then, Candiace grabbed Monique’s vest. It wasn’t like Candiace described to the therapist. I could walk away from the hair flip, but if someone grabbed my clothes I would react.

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    • MelG says

      October 5, 2020 at 2:05 pm

      * Jealousy

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  9. Cotonmom says

    October 5, 2020 at 2:07 pm

    I have watched very little of this season of RHOP but did watch the show last night. What I saw was Candiace antagonizing Monique in an inappropriate manner. Monique had enough of fingers in her face and years of BS and went after Candiace.
    Consequently Monique doesn’t remember how and why her rage got out of hand and Candiace takes no responsibility whatsoever in anything, ever.
    Little girls being bad for the sake of entertainment but with real life consequences.
    At some point Candiace files a lawsuit against Monique and I think that lawsuit was dropped or deemed baseless. Sucks for her that there’s video.
    IMO either Monique recognizes this is a toxic situation for her and quits, or the other ladies and/or production recognizes Candiace is bad news and it’s only a matter of time until she causes problems for others.

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  10. MelG says

    October 5, 2020 at 2:10 pm

    Candiace did get in Monique’s space waving her fingers/hand. Monique did flip her hair. I could walk away from a hair flip, but what Candiace described to the counselor about the vest was BS. The cameras showed Candiace grabbed Monique’s vest before Monique grabbed her. That would have been the moment I saw red as well.

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  11. Bucky says

    October 5, 2020 at 2:23 pm

    I didn’t hear Monique say that she was contrite or admit to making a choice.

    She said she blackout and had no recollection, yet blamed Candaice (or however she spells her name) for “asking for it”. She was snarky and defensive when the other women gave her a forum. No accountability. People being jealous, or Candaice being obnoxious, doesn’t justify violence and death threats, so I don’t find that compelling at all. When people flail their arms around and T’Challa attacks, sure…that provocation is understandable. An adult human acting that way is disgusting. It does not matter legally or morally who is jealous or annoying. Everyone is responsible for their own behavior. I think Monique seems very tightly wound regarding the rumors of infidelity and that was a contributing factor, but that If would excuse someone from being snippy to waitstaff NOT smashing someone’s head into a table, repeatedly punching her, then sprinting through and around a barn threatening to kill her. They were holding wine glasses. The scene was set up for throwing wine at each other, not a dog fight.

    An incident of rage combined with a blackout should make a person see a neurologist before their preacher. How could you be safe around anyone?

    I don’t know if the producers egg the women on, or if it is just a personality type they like to cast, but each franchise seems to have at least one physically violent person. Bravo’s flippant attitude toward it is awful. I have no idea how they get insurance or what they pay for it, but I guess it is worth it, and I guess the violent women they hire make a calculated choice that it is worthwhile to act that way and drag their entire family and reputation through the mud.

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    • tamaratattles says

      October 5, 2020 at 2:29 pm

      Even though I am sorta Team Monique, I didn’t believe the whole blackout/my adrenaline is still pumping a week later stuff. Monique wasn’t being completely honest. At this time though I think that both people in the fight had filed lawsuits. For that reason alone I though this whole meeting was disingenuous.

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      • Bucky says

        October 5, 2020 at 2:43 pm

        Yeah, you’re right. Without seeing the footage, she was probably not going to cop to anything that might not be shown. I imagine it was really traumatic for Monique even though she was the aggressor. I find Monique A LOT more likeable than Candaice, so I’m not unsympathetic. I would prefer to be on her team. If it were a single slap/push/hair pull or if Candaice landed a couple punches in return, or if Candaice (I seriously cannot with this spelling) were the one running around the barn pursuing Monique after the fight, I’d probably find a way to want to support Monique. Her husband seemed so dejected.

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  12. Carolyn says

    October 5, 2020 at 3:55 pm

    I’m team Candace. POINT BLANK and PERIOD. I’m sick as hell nog people saying Monique dragged Candace when she is the one who left bleeding, but that’s cool. The more folk think hair pulling means you won a fight. That will make Candace legal case. Instead of Monique fighting the tricks who started the rumors about her punk a#@. She want to start sh:$ with Candace. I can’t stand a ghetto hoodrat who has the nerve to be arrogant. Monique’s own husband was ashamed of her

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    • Shannon says

      October 5, 2020 at 9:14 pm

      I am not in anyone’s team. I thought that it was really important for Gizelle to bring up all the times Monique has been kind of violent. The time she went at Robin with the umbrella was only one instance so she’s shown us what she is capable of. Monique then came back at Candiace outside. If Candiace touched Monique‘s vest after Monique flipped Candiace’s hair, that was one altercation. Monique was willing to go after Candiace again after they had broken up the first fight. That cannot be forgotten.

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  13. Deb says

    October 5, 2020 at 5:51 pm

    Gisele with her and Pastor Jamall‘s image to uphold give me a freaking break what image would that be Gisele? Eight baby mamas? That image?
    She and Robin are just jealous of Monique. There is no other explanation of why they’re coming so hard for her here.

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    • *MissRaider* says

      October 5, 2020 at 6:44 pm

      Glad I wasn’t the only one who caught the irony and hypocrisy in her “image” statement!

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  14. Hector Acevedo says

    October 5, 2020 at 6:28 pm

    I have my opinion women should never put there hands on eachother but child that Candice was asking for this one… Am on Monique side..I found myself fighting with the TV every time Candice open her mouth, she’s like a chihuahua yap, yap, yap…. and is more coming on this next chapters…and miss Gyssell I need her to take two sitts ,she’s just deflecting from her own dramma, she want everyone to focus on the drama of Monique so we don’t about her and that Man with the 6 Baby mammas it might be on the past but the childs are there… that is the real Tea , hope didn’t ruff any one feathers with my comment but I needed to say this… Now Miss Candice have a real story she went legal…am going to look for the tea on that one…

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  15. Rmicu says

    October 5, 2020 at 6:33 pm

    TT, get a refurbished HP laptop. I gave up on new laptops 2 years ago. My new 1 month old laptop crashed while I was writing a paper for class. Plus it was filled with a bunch of junk programs.

    My nephew told me to build my own or buy refurbished one. I love my refurb laptop, it has everything I need and none of those factory added software programs that the new ones have, no bloatware.
    .
    Monique has given Gizelle fuel for her jealousy fire and that is unfortunate. I like Monique but now they have ammunition.

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    • Canookian says

      October 5, 2020 at 7:16 pm

      Yes this is exactly it. I do think Candiace had it coming, but getting physical caused Monique to stoop and now she has permanently lowered herself. I don’t think she handled herself well with the other women either. She did herself no favours. I have also noticed there seems to be a lot of tension between her and her husband in their scenes, I’d guess they are going through some stuff. Monique in general is coming off as a little high strung this season.
      I also just want to say that the product on RHOP is so far above all the other cities. Production does an excellent job in the editing room!
      TT I’m so disappointed your laptop sucks, I was really looking forward to all you had to say on this, but at least you were able to post some of It… I once had a Lenovo, I literally threw it out the window. It felt so good, it was such a frustrating piece of junk. This happened about 2 weeks after I got it but it never worked well.

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  16. The Shadiest Grove says

    October 5, 2020 at 10:34 pm

    Sorry TT but I dont think that you’ve watched Potomac enough or have strong sources out there in the wilderness because if you did, then you would know that Monique is the equivalent of Phaedra when it comes to BTS manipulation.

    She has been called out before by Ashley during season 3 for manipulating & boosting Candiace to attack Giz & Charrisse only to then turn around & be confused as to why Candiace came so hard at them when she LITERALLY followed her queues.

    Candiace is no angel but I would rather the devil I know anyday then thr ones who tout grace, glory & sanctity only to be uglier than the devils’ underbelly.

    I can’t wait for the reunion because Monique has burned so many bridges with her social media antics, the million blogger interviews, the IG posts & Andrew was not impressed because she continues to LIE.

    Monique antagonized, belittled & tried to humiliate Candiace multiple times from the dinner at Ashley’s, the sip and see, the lake house. That woman is a sociopath darling & I say that because it takes one to know one. Unlike her, I’m really in therapy though because that type of vulgarity is not cute. It happens, yes but Candiace didn’t call Monique a hooker from tje backswamps, an alcoholic unfit mother who drinks too much thus enducing her miscarriage, etc. Btw, Candiace said none of that, Monique’s mothet in law said the first part & Ashley Darby her BFF now said the latter.

    Love you TT. Hope you’re well, I pray things get better for US ALL soon.

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  17. Naike says

    October 6, 2020 at 1:03 am

    Gizelle, Robyn, and Wendy need to STFD. I remember when Robyn rolled up in Ashley’s restaurant and had her finger all up in Ashley’s face as she argued with her, Gizelle stood there and did nothing. Now, Gizelle thinks Monique is dangerous. Stop it!

    Wendy need not worry about Black women they can handle themselves without her representation.

    On the other hand, Gizelle need to worry about her boyfriend/ex-husband because some woman could be having baby number ten, as she trying to protect their imaginary image. These women are so hypocritical.

    Imo, Candace (sp) and Monique both need to take responsibility for what when down. Done!

    I hope Bravo doesn’t fire Monique, and I trust things improve between her and Chris because he’s really disappointed with her.

    Next week’s episode looks like ?

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  18. Carol Turlington says

    October 6, 2020 at 4:39 am

    Candyass should GDIAF. ? Hate her.

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  19. 88Serena88k says

    October 6, 2020 at 8:30 am

    Yes, in a perfect world, no matter *what* someone says to you, or how close they get to you, you would never get physical. I think some weight has to be given to taunting of the “hit me, hit me, whatcha gonna do, hit me, I dare you to hit me” variety. While it doesn’t absolve Monique of responsibility, Candiace was as close to deliberately goading someone into a physical altercation with her as you can get. I don’t know if I could have restrained myself.

    TT, not sure if you’re already doing this (and I vaguely remember someone suggesting the same here a few years ago when the same thing happened): compose your posts offline in Word or Notepad or the equivalent. If you use the former,make sure it’s set to autosave every 60 seconds so that even if your laptop seizes up, you won’t have lost very much and can recover almost all of what you’ve done. Then just paste the completed text into the form you use to post things online.

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    • Bucky says

      October 7, 2020 at 8:03 pm

      I gather you had no siblings.

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  20. Audrey says

    October 6, 2020 at 2:48 pm

    The makeup these women wear in their talking heads is horrid. Wendy’s is the worst, the color of her face is green compared to her neck.

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  21. ForumDude says

    October 7, 2020 at 1:14 am

    Gurrrllll these women have me tripping. I mean I love Robyn, and Gizelle, but man that show was hard to watch with those two and Wendy in tow. Just ugggg. Monique should not have physically attacked her, but man I feel for Monique. I really do. Candiace and her verbal utterances were way out of line.

    Gizelle come on, I love you, what what what was that security guy all about? Come on Gizeelle you did not feel that threatened. You’re trying to get Monique fired, that’s not really cool Gizelle. Stop it.

    Robyn come on now. I love you too, but you don’t think you guys went overboard on Monique. Like I get that she’s trying to rationalize what she did in the most positive way she can, the way that looks good for her. You were right she did come off dismissive. I suspect she was feeling attacked.

    Wendy is just not a good fit for that franchise. She’s just not. I won’t get into details yet, but I am NOT a fan.

    This franchise used to be fun once they got rid of Charrisse until they brought Candiace, and Wendy on.

    Get rid of both them please. Keep Monique.

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  22. powerthoughtsblog says

    October 7, 2020 at 7:48 pm

    Candace mouth has been reckless since day 1, you can’t keep mouthing off with insults and think that a person is going to continue to take your reckless comments, eventually you are going to meet you match and get the crap slapped out of you. Words hurt too, not just physically hitting someone. Both were wrong, Candace for running her reckless mouth, Monique for trying to take her head off her shoulder. Will Candace think twice about running her reckless mouth again? NO, she will not. Will Monique think twice about putting her hands on someone and trying to make them headless? Yes, I believe she will. And will Gizelle image be affected hanging around Monique? No, because her image was destroyed years ago.

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