Mistake Number One
I should have been recapping Married To Medicine. I didn’t recap it much because when there was yet another show from Atlanta about black women acting badly. I just could not. I watched but I rarely if ever recapped. I am watching some older shows about Married to Medicine LA and what do you know? They went on a trip and talked to each other like adults. It was really good. And I prolly should not say this… but WHO DOESN’T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH IMANI? I’m a mostly straight girl and I could not sleep in her bed without…SOMETHING happening.
Mistake Number Two
I don’t know why I stopped recapping RHOP but things just got good again. Did I just hear Ashley say she has a girlfriend on the side herself? I kept trying to tell you that marriages are all different. Clearly, they have/had an open marriage. I don’t hate Michael like the rest of you do. If he is allowed to have a entanglements outside of marriage why is that such a big deal? Now Ashley wants to change the rules because you are all sofa king judgey. I feel like I just sort of slacked on this show. SEE I DONE TOLD Y’ALL THEY HAVE AN OPEN MARRIAGE. Leave them alone!
I might have missed an episode because of Love Island. Sorryish. I am feeling a bit helpless over here. The thing with Robin buying a house, we need to zip on through. I have a lot of tiny bruised on my right arm. Is this an old people thing? Because it is kind of scary. Is this what makes the age spots? No one told me anything about getting old so this is all new to me.
Mistake Number Three
I forgot about the fight. Hell I dunno what happened but Monique is better than this and must have been provoked. It was heavily edited and I don’t even know what is going on. This is just a fucked up mess here. Lot’s of editing to make it look like it was Monique’s fault for the show. But I want her to BEAT HER DUMB ASS. Candiaces fake ass wig was unmoved. This is a nonstory, And Monique needs to beat her dumb ass. FOR ALL OF US. Monique is all like I am going to kill her. Oh wait full stop. Cadndice or however her mother misspelled her name on her birth certificate doesn’t want to look like a hoodrat? When she is on Twitter all the goddamned time mocking my friend’s infant niece. Okay bitch.
I just wish they would have let Monique at her. This is all about production celebrating that little hoodrat, Candiace WHO SHOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN ON THIS SHOW! No this is all bullshit. And BTW no one cares about Wendy. And I don’t see anyone being worried about Michael and Ashley. They have an open marriage clearly so now that she wants to close it… is post nuptial agreement is good on her. She has the kid now .
I also think having a baby can change you. I can see her now wanting to close ranks maybe a maternal instinct wanting to preserve a traditional family or just less interested in outside affairs right now herself (she IS pregnant and breastfeeding… Maybe it’s just me but I’m not feeling at my sexiest or horniest during those phases). Why should he get it all if she’s not into it on her side right now? I’m sure some of it could be dealing with external judgment and drama now that each of his escapades ends up on Page Six, but she’s also reached a different phase in her life. Maybe this isn’t what she wants for her 30s. Now 40s? When he’s 80? Different story…
That is how I took it as well. They only did those things together, never apart or with the opposite gender (speculating, but I felt that was inferred). Supposedly this was the first time it happened without the other being aware or giving the ok. I completely understand THAT coming up as not ok, if the rules suddenly changed without discussion. And baby and returning hormones. Yeah, I can get it.
And Monique should’ve whooped her. I’m glad Monique never said I regret it. She doubled down. Good. Candiace is too much, just like the spelling of her name.
Yea I’ve known multiple people who brought others into the marriage together. In any of the cases I’ve known of, it did not turn out well…ended marriages, brought on public scrutiny that embarrassed kids, kids turned against one parent, etc. I can see where Ashley would feel like okay we played, but now we are bringing kids into the mix who have to deal with the repercussions of our actions as they grow up. I think what she’s offering is fair. Michael can commit to her and the kids and stop the outside of the marriage shenanigans or pay her and the kid(s) and everybody take their happy asses on down the road. He doesn’t have to agree to her offer, but it would be much simpler than fighting things out in court if he keeps wanting to play & she can’t live that life any longer.
I think it was a bit of a smart move on her part to be open with the cast. She revealed things on her terms. It let the air out of the balloon so to speak…it took the fun away from the other women trying to out Ashley & Michael. I feel like it’s their marriage, their rules. If inviting others into the marriage was what they both liked, it’s no one else’s business.
Extremely well stated. Everything I don’t have to type, only you said it better than I would have.
Things change. People communicate. That is what Ashley did. She clarified her boundaries, stated her needs, and Michael LISTENED. WOW! Adulting. Ashley was smart. She didn’t even have the benefit of watching the drama with Denise on RHBH; she just did the smart thing on her own. ?
I so wish Denise would have said, after the first blitz sneak-attack from Teddi, “I don’t even want to dignify that with a response. What did or did not happen is between my husband and me.” THEN … those bitches would have had to come up with a REAL storyline. That did/she didn’t she was so 1950s high school hypocrite style. All the goody/goody girls slut-shaming the other girls, acting all virgin queen … and then … one of them ends up pregnant and goes to live with cousins (goes to an unwed mother home). Zzzzzz… who cares?
?There are worse things I can do, than go with a boy or two
Even though the neighborhood
Thinks I’m trashy & no good, I suppose it could be true
But there are worse things I could do ?
I can’t help what pops into my head. I enjoy your comments very much ? You are so lucky you can’t hear me sing to you ?
I cannot watch current tv episodes for the time being. (Cable tv too expensive during COVID job loss.) But, you are right, that Candiace needs a Come to Jesus ass kicking.
I wanted to give her a come to Jesus ass kicking too. Also shoot me an email.
I am so glad you said that about Candice! I hate that Monique is going to have to pay the price 4 the attitude adjustment Candice needs. Thing about it after all this, Monique is going to be the one to get the boot from Bravo because of it
I have consistently been on Team Not Candiace. She is annoying and yes she provokes other people. However Monique should not be putting her hands on other people. I don’t care how heavily edited this scene was Monique started the physical contact with the hair flipping and then trying to chase Candiace down so she could beat on her some more shows Monique has a violent temper and is not afraid to get physical. There isn’t any part of Monique’s actions that are justified here. I do not condone violence against another person.
Ashley and Michael are so far into the “business arrangement” territory, it is sad. Their children will see this footage some day on infidelity scandals, pre-nups and renegotiated pre-nups. Oh Ashley leave while you still have your pretty and your soul and spirit if you can.
Sometimes you need to PUT YOUR HANDS ON OTHER PEOPLE. Given cause I will beat the holy fucking shit out of you. Just saying.
Amen! Some people just need to get checked with a good ass whoopin. Candice is in dire need of one.
This
I am a fairly peaceful mother of 2 and Candace would’ve gotten it a LOOOONG time ago. No cap.
Yes! I have a child with a rare muscle disease. I ran into a former babysitter in a Dr’s office one day. This babysitter & my mother knew each other and had words one day on the phone because said babysitter made a another child sit in his own urine soaked clothes for an extended time as punishment AND BRAGGED ABOUT IT. My mother voiced her opinion. I get a call at work to come get my child (1 y/o) who was in the middle of a nap when this all happened between my mother & the sitter minutes before. I get there, my child was taken from his nap, bag packed and sitting inside her kitchen by the back door. The whole thing was a blessing in disguise. Anyway, fast forward, I ran into this sitter. She made a crude comment in the Dr’s office about my “crippled kid.” I don’t even remember getting out of my seat or crossing the floor. I got in her face, poking her shoulder and told her I’d “knock her GD head off her GD shoulders!” She threatened to have me arrested. I called an attorney whose real estate I had listed at the time. He was dying laughing, had me tell it to him again just because he found it so funny. He told me to relax he’d call the sheriff’s dept and tell them if they got anything to call him and we would go there together I never heard anymore from it.
Sometimes people just need their ass kicked. I’m surprised I stopped at the threat.
Candiace needs her ass kicked…regularly.
Sorry that BS spoke about your child like that. How unprofessional is she. I do believe that karma will get her back. I probably would of done the same thing as you. I had a guy who kept playing games with me while driving. I don’t know what I did to him. I get out of my car and he calls me a fat bitch. Okay I don’t have a problem with that. But than he followed me all around the store and kept calling me that. When I got to my car he had wrote FAT BITCH on my car. At that point I lost it. I took a jar of condiments from my bag and pour it all over his car. He came out as I was doing it and did and said nothing. I at that point said “I know I am a fat bitch now what”.I got into my car and left. I can’t believe I did that but I do believe if someone keeps poking at you all bets are off the table.
Good for you!!!! ?
That just made my day.
I understand your moment iof intense anger where you become semi black out of no memory.. I actually see red, the world becomes shades of red. I was working in a restaurant so I maintained my words but apparently my face or demeanor showed my anger. Both times the customer’s table became quiet and extremely polite.
You know, I could see Monique being “taken over by rage” but then she went after Candiace AGAIN. The producer had to stop her from opening that door and then she turned around, went down the steps and outside, to go after Candiace again. It then took, what, about 3-4 people to hold her back? She made decisions to go after Candiace. Frankly if Monique was a guy, there would be no way people would justify those actions.
I can’t justify them. But I can understand them. She was wrong.
You are my people! Candace needs an ass kicking with that slick mouth of hers. Then maybe she would keep it shut sometimes. I can’t stand her.
Mouth is mouth not hands. No one would be Team Monique if Monique was a man and did the same thing to Candiace.
If a man did that to Candiace? Absolutely not ok. If a man did that to another man I probably would react the same way to Monique/Candiace. Maybe a bit hypocritical but … That’s my initial response.
And again, I’m not condoning. But I’m not demanding that Monique be fired either. But she may be.
Wtf?! You cannot even compare those two situations. A MAN putting hands on a woman is WAY different than what happened. Team Monique all the way.
No man would act like Candiace!
I haven’t had a baby but I dogs I love fiercely.
I haven’t gone through childbirth, but menopause and hormone change made me temporarily lose my rational self.
If I had just had a baby, and people were talking about my innocent child not being my husband’s, all those women would be lucky to have their teeth. I am still 100% team Monique. Go after an innocent child with rumors? They are lucky Monique didn’t go after all their rotten souls. Giselle leading the pack.
And, am I the only one who can’t pay attention to what Candiance says because her make-up is 3 inches thick? Sitting in sweats with her husband and triple layer of false eyelashes, No no no. Nothing is authentic about her.
Candiace needed her ass beat last season when she threw the knife at Ashley. Bravo gave her no punishment for that. Candiace should’ve been fired for her homophobic tweets like the VPRs guys. She’s was begging to be dragged. Monique flipped Candiace’s hair and then Gizelle pushed Monique and Candiace grabbed Monique’s vest that’s when Monique grabbed Candiace by the hair and pulled her across the table. So in reality Gizelle and Candiace laid hands first. I say it all goes back to that set up meeting between the producer, Gizelle, Robyn, Ashley and Candiace. They wanted to take Monique down. This was not shown in the edited version but why else would Candiace have been yelling she’s fired right, she’s fired over and over again? That’s what riled up Monique in the stairwell I’m sure. That version was shown months ago as a preview. And then Robyn and Gizelle standing there laughing! Both bitches who have zero story lines!
Yes. There it is. Candiace (I remember the crap spelling as Candy Ass, which she is) did her butter knife thing and did not get kicked off. Her racist comments did not get her kicked off. Bravo crucified Brett and Max (Pump Rules) who said those things LONG BEFORE VPR and APOLOGIZED long before, to make it look like it was “cleaning out” the racists.
In last night’s episode, Monique gave Candiace plenty of warning to STFU, but Candiace kept going. So Monique flicked C’s hair. Another warning. No one here has mentioned the WINE GLASS Candiace hit Monique with that made her lip bleed. After all hell broke lose, I think Monique was cooling off, until she realized she had blood, not much, but blood, and remembered the glass hitting her and shattering. That seems to be when she really went off.
Ramona should have been fired for hitting Kristen with a wine glass. Nene for hitting a cameraman and knocking out his tooth. If Monique gets fired, it will be hypocrite redux.
And Bravo’s risk management team should forbid any GLASS wine glasses from being used at group dinners. I worked at The Bar if America in Truckee, Calif. and worked all day and night at TWO 4th of July celebrations with DOZENS of drunken Clampers and didn’t see anything as bad as the RH!
Nanette did you notice that C was wielding that broken wine glass to strike someone. She at that time did not care who she was going to hit. They kept trying to grab the glass but she wouldn’t let go. If they are going to fire Monique than they need to also fire C. C was on Wendy Williams today and was still doubling down. She hasn’t learned anything from what happen. That mouth of her’s is writing a check that she cannot cash.
Pix I totally agree with you. I think the reason why production came for Monique was that she defended Michael and Ashley last season. She also told the viewer’s that wasn’t the cameraman that you hear, it was one of her family members. I think production got pissed that she broke the fourth wall down and didn’t back them up. I also believe that we saw an edited version of what happen to favor Candiace.
I agree with you whole-heartedly, MsC. It’s the same as when people were saying that Porsha was provoked by Kenya and that Kenya deserved to be dragged. There’s no excuse for losing control of yourself because someone is being loud and obnoxious. Monique’s hood slip was showing again from underneath her sophisticated, upper-class lady dress.
I cannot even believe Monique did that. I despise Candiace A LOT for personal reasons. But it looks like she did have an assault charge on Monique. OTOH Monique had reached her limit with that bitch. Violence is never the answer, but… she did ask for it.
Unfortunately she let Candiace press her and wind her up…then lost her mind, embarrassing herself and her family…not cool at all.
If Monique is being charged with assault then I hope fuckin Candiace is being charged with assault with a deadly weapon cause the way Candiace was swinging that broken wine glass was out of pocket. She had no regard for ANYONE in that room, she was blindly swinging. In my opinion Candiace is the one that took things too far and she has a history with sharp objects. And she’s the one who had the nerve to cry and say she didn’t like that ghetto hood root behavior yet she’s constantly running her mouth like a hoodrat. Fake ass bougie bitch being supported by her mama.
Well if you look at the footage really closely frame by frame you’ll see Monique flipped Candiace’s hair twice, Gizelle pushed Monique, a microsecond later Candiace grabbed Monique’s vest and then Monique grabbed Candiace by the hair. So Candiace put her hands on Monique first, well actually Gizelle did then Candiace so that’s why I believe the judge threw both cases out. They assaulted each other.
Candiace has been asking for Monique to drag her, so Monique did. Team Monique.
Candiace is such a baby to be a grown woman. She doesn’t fit in with these ladies.
Please Bravo, get her off this show.
While I agree that you should never put hands on people, someone involved in spreading rumors about my child not being my husband’s would get me pretty damn close to violence. They don’t have the luxury of avoiding or cutting off communication. They are literally “forced” to maintain relationships with these people. And Candaice – although she does show some modicum of growth this season – is the actual worst.
I’m not sure if it’s been adequately proven that Candaice was involved in spreading the rumors. Most of the anger should be directed at whatever that former housewife’s name is (totally blanking on her name). But I would also be seeing red. Again, doesn’t excuse but does explain.
I haven’t caught up with yesterday’s episode but it’s going to take a hell of a lot to get me to ever say the words “team Candaice”.
Also, I mean let’s be real – I’ve definitely faked sleeping to get out of having to briefly interact with someone I don’t like. Are Monique and I really the only ones?!
Nope, and I’d do it again
Agree with you, and Charrisse is the thirsty heifer who won’t accept that she’s no longer relevant to this show.
I don’t know if it’s really Charisse spreading the rumor or Gizelle.But I definitely believe Candiass reached out to Charisee to irritate Monique.
Candiace got what she deserved. Some people are forgetting about her behavior last season. Where she came after Ashley with a knife, I don’t care if it was a butter knife. There was a point where she threw the knife at Ashley. Again on last night’s she picked up a knife and Wendy had to grab it. Candiace wants to call someone ghetto and hood but her behavior was just as bad. That fight was a combination of built-up anger it wasn’t just about someone sleeping. As the saying goes “don’t write a check that you can’t cash”.
I’m more of a “destroy their life from behind the scenes” kind of person but you talk about my children yeah all bets are off I’m knocking on your door and knocking you into 2022!
Is that an open offer? I would personally like to be knocked into 2022 to avoid this shit show of a year, but I don’t want to have to talk shit to get there…
I too would love to be knocked into 2022, if there is one.
Me too. Let’s just get 2020 one because it’s too close to 2020 and go right 2022
Supposed to say let’s skip 2021 but I confused even my phone
GOOD FOR MONIQUE!! I so wish she could’ve have gotten one clear shot to the face of Candenenenence. (No clue how to spell her name)
I do not like the way the rest of the women look to be blaming it all on Monique in the previews.
I don’t really care about Michael and Ashley’s marriage, it’s their decision.
Live and let live…
Gizelle’s dad and Ashley and her cape returning from the bathroom to find the barn became a cage fight was just what I needed to forget the real world. And Monique running across the grass with her cute lady outfit to kill Candiace was iconic. Nope. I bet I didn’t spell her name right either.
So many interesting things this episode! Holy moly! Giselle’s dad giving us the number of baby mamas, poor Karen after Ray insensitively informs her he’s no longer in love with her because she doesn’t cook, Ashley and the post-nup. Wow, these women deliver. I don’t condone violence but I don’t judge it either. I kinda love Monique’s lack of remorse. I will say I wish her husband was more supportive. He didn’t have to condone her actions but he could held space for her experience. Someone doesn’t get physical unless they are really angry which means they are very hurt. He could’ve sat with her through that.
For everyone blaming Giselle for this situation please remember revenge is a dish best served cold. You can not be astonished by anyone coming for your relationship and family when you’ve done the same. Monique threw the first blow with Sherman’s ex-wife and the hookers in the park allegations. After this you get what you get. Everyone in that the group including Charrise were aware of her actions so nobody was going to protect her from any kind of blowback. Monique turned on Candice last season so she had no right to expect any consideration from her. Also most of the hostility this season came from her whether it was directed at her husband or one of the girls. So if she’s fired she’s fired.
Do you have that same issue with bravo shows featuring white people behaving badly, if so you may want to shut bravo off your tv.
I have been trying to encourage that for years.
Yes, it’s called RHONJ.
I love you! ??
It’s ALL Bravo shows:
NY -Ramona threw a glass at Kristen
– All of Leah’s drunken moments
-Dorinda’s verbal assaults
-Lu’s arrest footage
OC-Tamra threw a drink in Jeana’s face
-Tamra and Vicki trying to get Gretchen naked wasted
-Shannon and Kelly are arguing at dinner, Shannon throwing the plate at Kelly.
-Tamra hitting Kelly in the store in Ireland, when she heard that Kelly was talking about her daughter.
BH -Lisa Rinna throwing the drink at Kim, breaking the glass after almost slapping her twice.
-Brandi snatching up Kyle, and slapping LVP.
-The drugs
Dallas- No knives just hands LeeAnne shattering a glass on the floor while threatening Stephanie
VPR- Stassi slapping Kristen
Kristen punching James
-Adam pushing/punching Wes in the back of his head on Below Deck
-Luis and Fredrik throwing drinks/ cups at each other on the rooftop after Fredrik played him in a business deal. MDLNY
-SC Kathryn attacking Whitney
The drugs
Madison exposing an STD
Not to mention any NJ moments, Shahs moments, etc… When does anyone not behave badly on a reality tv show???
The only place I live and where I am from, is Atlanta. So I get to decide if I want to watch embarrassing shows about Atlanta.
Now kindly get the fuck out of here.
The Breonna Taylor post, and that comment (yet another show from Atlanta about black women acting badly) makes me think she might need to borrow Stassi’s diversity coach for a sec.
I think people should be allowed to ask questions to receive more information without being automatically shamed or “canceled”. If not, people will get resentful and will be afraid to ask at all…. And they will never learn or have the opportunity to change their minds. I think there are plenty of examples on here of her promoting social justice for marginalized groups.
^^^^Yes, so much this KT. You scream racist often enough, and it becomes like the boy who cried wolf. You get ignored. People of color shouldn’t need to ‘educate’ us, but there are many who are willing to listen to those who want to share. Also, stop assuming you know me or my culture (not at you KT). It’s not just black people who have culture.
@KT If you look at the 300+ comments on the Breonna post you will see dozens of people arguing about every piece of information. To the point were I started allowing links so people could decide what was reputable information and what is not.
I think everyone agrees Breonna and everyone has the right to be safe in her own home, sleeping in her onw bed.
Some of us are just trying to understand how it actually went down. With the new audion of the grand jury, the waters were muddied a bit more. I really don’t want to carry on that conversation in this post though.
@Alyn ROFLMAO
I’m glad you got that joke
@KT my comment wasn’t about a cancellation, it was about correction. I was rooting for her like Tyra Banks (we all were lol). I don’t believe in cancel culture, we all make mistakes that hopefully we grow from
Speaking of culture (Lord forgive me if I make a mistake and go too far now):
@Belladonna, you sound like a Karen. Of course everyone has a culture. Yours may or may not involve white hoods. She was confused about the issue and was asking to be educated.
I can not sand Candiace: I find her stuck-up, nasty natured, and basically unlikable. I LIKED Monique.
Not anymore.
The way she HELD ON to the weave, trying to rip it off, then wanting to pursue Candiace, run after her after she finally let go. Monique went too far. Way too far. I would never trust her again. There is a deep violence there. Yes, you get pissed. Yes, you strike back, but to hold on and rip and tear and then try to do it again??? Nah. I will never abide by that kind of violence. My dog would have let go sooner and she is a pure bred pitt. I’m sorry. RHOP jumped the shark.
I hope Monique doesn’t get fired. Candice was the antagonist. Also I don’t know why the Green Eyed Bandits aren’t saying anything about Candace wielding a broken glass. She was trying to cut Monique with it. Her assault with a deadly weapon versus Monique using fists. Give me a fucking break.
If anything Robin needs to go because she has ZERO storyline. I’d be happy watching Gizelle’s father, Monique, Karen, Ashley & Katie. The rest can suck it.
I totally agree with you. If Monique gets fired Candiace needs to be fired as well. She didn’t care who she was going to cut with that broken wine glass, she was blindly wielding it. Did you notice that production was trying to take it from her and she wouldn’t let go. Also I do believe production edited the scene to make Monique look like the aggressor. I do believe that there is more to that scene that the audience is missing.
Yes I slo mo’d the fight and watched several times. Candace was hanging on to that broken wine glass and raising her arm high in the air and then bringing it down hard and fast trying to cut Mo’s face. Mo slapped C’s head a few times and tried to pull her wig off but trying to cut someone’s face? If Monique goes so should Candace.
Fire them both.
Violence is not the answer. I refuse to condone it. I am not entertained.
Honest to goodness, we really need to do better. All of us. Bravo, too.