Okay I’ve been awake for another whopping five hours and that means I’m starting to nod off again. But I am so behind on my 90 Day recaps in general that I at least have to get this 90 Day Fiance The Other Way recap up.
Deavan & Jihoon
When last we left these two Drascilla was running away from the park. It’s also nighttime, why isn’t she in bed? I wish I had some of that Korean soup. There is an Asian restaurant near me with like three different nationalities of food. I keep wondering why I don’t go there for pickup. I don’t think they deliver. But that make a million kinds of pho that is delicious. Anyway, Jihoon actually did run after Drascilla like a bat out of hell. But somehow her running off is all his fault? Deavan’s mom was actually the one with her at the time.
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I am actually on Jihoon’s over protective mother’s side on this one. There were five adults there. And somehow this is all Jihoon’s fault? Sure, Jihoon is an idiot. But what about the other four or five adults there? Deavan’s mom is a bitch who is making things worse. Jihoon is crying his eyes out. He’s getting tired of being treated like shit. Jihoon’s mom shows up to comfort him and he sends her away. It’s an issue with the two of them. Wow, that was one of the first grownup moves by Jihoon.
Jihoon wants to apologize to Deavan’s mother. I wouldn’t even bother. She’s awful. Nevertheless, he persisted. Elicia is so fucking dramatic. And just awful. She doesn’t accept his apology. I hate Deavan’s mother. She doesn’t even know how to properly spell a child’s name on her birth certificate. Then she threatens to kill Jihoon. Is she drunk? Also, did Elicia forget to put on pants?
Ari & Bini
Ethiopia looks so interesting. Should I go there? Bini and his family meet at a coffee shop to discuss his job as a dancer. It ended his last relationship and his sister says it might end this one. Ya think? No man of mine would be out doing sexual dances with his ex-girlfriend at a club for money. Bini is totally clueless about how Ari and her mother feel about his job. His family is worried that history will repeat itself and Ari will go back home with the baby. His mama wants him with an Ethiopian. I can understand that.
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The issue of religion is coming into play as well, Ari is Jewish. Bini and his family are Christian. This will be a big problem for all involved. Will she need to be baptized for the baby to be baptized? Because as jew, I don’t see that happening. Then it is church day. In Libya that is Friday. I got so confused as a kid coming back to church on Sunday. Friday makes so much more sense to me. The business week starting on Sunday makes the calendar make sense. The first day of the week on a calendar is always Sunday even here.
Anyway Bini buys Ari a scarf to cover her head. Oh wait! She is not Jewish. Her mother is Catholic and her FATHER is Jewish. As I understand it that means she is not Jewish. I don’t know much about Judaism so… we shall see. She doesn’t believe in hell? I’m not sure I do either, but if believe in the Bible, it’s kind of clear. It’s made clear to Bini that Ari will have to be baptized before the baby is born so he can suckle on a Christian breast. Ari is not happy.
Armando & Kenny
Oh! I had no expectation of getting to see these two tonight! YAY! It’s time for a fancy dinner to celebrate the engagement. Armando can’t stop smiling and I love he has supportive friends there. But Kenny always manages to fuck things up. This time it is because Armando doesn’t want to be openly gay in public. For fucksake, give the guy a break! Let him enjoy this moment! Kenny is always pushing Armando. Kenny is ruining the celebration.
Brittany & Yazan
Wow I have never seen coffee made like that before! When we would travel around overseas, my parents would always get Nescafe. There wasn’t a lot of brewed coffee most places. I would always order tea with sugar and this always seemed to please people. Especially in the UK. But Libyan shawhee (tea) with peanuts was always my favorite. Tripoli has the best tea. Oh no. Is Brittany going to have round number two with Yazan’s family? At least she is dressed as a Muslim woman this time. It’s sort of a do or die situation with Yazan’s uncle.
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So it is off to the uncle’s house. Just a reminder, this bitch is still married to some other dude who lives out of the country. The uncle tries to advocate on their behalf, but it is not going well. I could swear with the ten Arabic words I know the uncle said something about entering the garden. Perhaps that is a metaphor? His father eventually agrees to give them more time.
Jenny & Sumit
This little one hour episode is taking us everywhere and I am loving it. Sumit has brought paint to their new house. It is home improvement time. Who picks brown wall paint? Sumit apparently. During this home improvement scene, Sumit shares that his parents are ready to talk. Jenny is worried because they are supposed to visit his parents house. She suspects it may be a trap to take him hostage in their house. Wow. Sumit does little to relieve her worries. It looks like Jenny may not go with him. Their red accent wall needs four more coats of paint.
Thanks for reading and please let me know in comments if this is a show you still want recapped. /tap tap is this thing on?
Thank you for this recap, TT! Yes PLEASE keep recapping all things 90-Day!
I hate Deavan’s mother, too, she needs to go home. I have a mean-mom question, also— why is this family with a four-year-old and a baby in a park after dark? Why aren’t the kids home in bed, after dinner and a bath and a story? You need a ROUTINE, Deavan! Then the kids wouldn’t be so bananas. You want Jihoon to be a better dad, do what you can to make family life easier and more palatable! Stop being so mean to Jihoon!
Oh, Kenny. You’re going to drive Armando away! Lighten up, Francis! Let Armando decide what to tell his family, when! Stop badgering him! And remember where you are—there are places still in this world where demonstrative behavior can get you killed! You don’t seem to understand that.
Brittany! Still lying about being married!
Ari and Bini—Maybe if Bini points out to his priest that Ari was NOT born of a Jewish mother, and therefore is technically not Jewish, could they baptize the baby? Or maybe try not to knock up girls of incompatible religions?? That’s what I don’t get about these guys on this show! Their families do seem important to them, so why don’t they try to find a nice Nigerian/Christian/Ethiopian/Muslim girl?? It can’t be that difficult.
Jenny and Sumit— They annoy me, but I enjoyed watching their painting project! I even liked the color they managed to mix— very cheerful!
Next week’s episode looks like a doozy! Can’t wait!
Lighten Up, Francis is one of my all time favorite movie quotes. I just caught Stripes last weekend!
I wouldn’t be so hard on Deacon about being out with the kids after dark. They are still adjusting to the time change.
In traditional Judaism, religion passes from the mother, but reform Jews recognize religion passing from either parent. She may be reform. Or she may have converted. She certainly self-identifies as a Jew, which is what matters in terms of her willingness to be baptized.
Yes!! Please continue to recap! This is getting to be one of the last shows I watch.
I thought of you TT, when I saw that coffee being made–absolutely fascinating!
Interesting that without Ari’s mother in all their scenes asking questions, when left alone, Ari & Bini really have no chemistry…my opinion, anyway. Looks like next week she wants to leave which makes me sad for Bini.
Does Ari have a job in the US? Seems like all she did was travel. I think she’s pampered, and really clueless for mistaking any lust for Bini as love. And getting pregnant? Like it’s no biggie to
get pregnant, move to Ethiopia and have the baby there.
I love her mom though. Very calm, and matter of fact without being condescending or rude. She’s sensible and chill. Ari inherited the chill but not the sensible.
Is Brittany not terrified to tell all of them she is still not divorced? I don’t know how she has the guts to lead Yazan on about getting married in a month or two. Pretty lousy of her.
I’m not sure Brittany realizes she only has a month or two. She was saying her father could visit in January. I assumed January was several months away at the time. Yazan told his father “by the end of next month” but he didn’t translate that for Brittany. It’s going to be horrible when she finally confesses.
I can’t figure out AT ALL how Brittany thought this could go in any good direction. I mean, ANYONE would be mad to find out their significant other was still married to someone else and juat never told them. Plenty of people date people who are separated, but she should have let him know up front, it’s only fair. Then he can decide if he’s ok with such a situation. Now she’s in another country with a man who is religiously conservative from an even more religiously conservative family thinking marriage if immenint and she’s got this devastating secret. I would be barfing and unable to sleep if I were her because I would feel so guilty and stressed out.
Ari was working for her Dad’s Dr practice as an admin. She described her life as mostly traveling, occasionally coming home to make money and travel again. So yep, pampered AF
I am SOOOOOOO over these Americans going to these other countries and show their ASS!
Jihoon/Devan – her MOM is the worst! Devan just needs to GO! The way they abuse him. YES, he is a fckup but DAMN, at least he is trying.
Brittany/Yazan – LIES BEGET LIES BEGET LIES! Until she fesses up about her being married, she can say NOTHING about how they are being towards her!
Armando/Kenneth – he goes to Mexico, brings his whole tribe and is trying his best to shove his openness in another country without any consideration of Armando. He’s like, I’m proud, I’m out, you should be too! STOP shoving YOUR WAYS on to Armando! RESPECT ARMANDO! Last week he REALLY pissed me off just poo-pooing the food and the accommodations! He’s in MEXICO!
Ari/Bini – just NO WORDS!
Jenny/Sumit – she left EVERYTHING, EV-VER-REE-THING, knowing his circumstances. She goes over there and just talks down about EVERYTHING!
I CANNOT with these people!!!
Hmm. You see a different Jenny than l do. I think she’s been very accepting of how things are there. Who can blame her for being a little down given their circumstances with his family? I really like her.
I do feel sorry for Jihoon. He’s being battered by both of those women. He will never be good enough for Deavan.
I agree with you Deb. She seems to be very culturally open.
Run Jihoon, Run.
I haven’t ever seen Jenny talk disparagingly about anything in India, even when it would have been deserved. She really seems to love it there (with the exception of the parents ruling a child’s life FOREVER).
Jenny didn’t even freak out when the cow was in her house. That still makes me laugh when I remember the cow walking through the house for good luck. I want to believe Jenny is just happy to be in the same house with Sumit.
Yes, I see Jenny being pretty chill with everything and trying. Honestly, with the deceits Sumit pulled, I would not want to continue in the relationship, but she seems dedicated to starting over and making a go of it, so more power to her. I also think Sumit is sincerely trying, but I have to say again I feel sorry for his wife and her family. I know it was arranged and I know he was strong-armed into it, but I imagine it feels real crappy to go through this on their end. I hope whoever and wherever she is, the divorce finalizes and she’s able to move on happily. In the end, she really will be better off free from a marriage where her husband is deeply in love with someone else.
TT, PRETTY PLEASE keep recapping this show? I believe there are only two more episodes left for this season!
Ari’s a girl having a baby. Really feel sorry for Bini & his family.
Brittany is playing a cruel & dangerous game with Yazan & fam. They’re moving forward in this relationship with good faith. I know this is partially scripted (50%?) but I’m terrified for when they find out she’s not divorced.
Jenny & Sumit are my favorites, can’t help it ?
Yes, please, I vote for more recaps! I rarely comment myself, but read all those who do.
Love your recaps. I have a question, why is it Jihoon’s fault for the little girl running off? He is not raising that child yet so to me it falls on her mother and her dreaded grandmother to watch her. Once he is a primary caregiver to the little girl then yeah it would be partially his fault but currently it’s only the mom and grand mom’s fault…at least in my eyes.
She was upset with him for stopping the chase to turn around and say “don’t yell at me”. He shouldn’t have done that, but I agree they are being too hard on him. Especially Deavan‘s mom.
Drusilla needs some parenting. she’s too doggone wild. Yes, he could’ve taken her hand when he put wildebeest down, but she really took off. I know kids do that, but Jihoon really doesn’t know that. BTW, does he ever get to hold his kid?
I think Jihoon has not spent a lot of in person time with Taeyang and Drascilla as their dad and he had no idea she was going to do a runner. He was so genuinely contrite even though I think he wasn’t really guilty of much more than being one of many adults in a scary situation where a child was concerned. But, as usual, Deavan and Elicia have to scream the same things over and over while he apologizes over and over. If they’re not going to accept the apology and move on, they both need to cut their losses with him. If they do believe he’s sorry for whatever was his part in any situation, then they need to express that and STOP BERATING HIM. I think the real reason behind all of this is Deavan is truly pissed AT HERSELF for her life choices, she’s unhappy with how they’ve played out, but instead of being introspective and realistic, she’s projected all that into a constant onslaught on Jihoon and Elicia loves to pile on.
I am not sure what you guys saw but what I saw was Jihoon holding Drascilla, she kept saying let me go, let me go. He let her go and she started running like a banshee. They were yelling get Drascilla, get drascilla. While they were yelling this he stopped running, turned around and said stop yelling at me. When I put my granddaughter down I immediately take her hand so she does not run anywhere. I absolutely love all the 90 days shows, please keep recapping. I am so upset with my favorite couple Kenny and Armand. I can’t believe that Kenny keeps pushing Armand to tell his parents. Can’t it wait, The parents don’t even know Kenny yet. Armand should wait to tell his parents until they get to know Kenny and hopefully love him. Too much too soon. He’s is going to get them both killed in Mexico, they are not as open as we are here in America. I think Ari will be coming back home real soon. I am not sure why Brittany acts so entitled. Oh my gosh…the coffee in Jordan looked fabulous.
It looks to me that Yazan loves Brittany but he didn’t tell her that they parents will wait only another month. I don’t care what anyone says, I can’t stand Jihoon’s mom, she is why he’s so spoiled rotten. Even Jihoons friends stated in the beginning of the program before Deavon got there that Jihoon is an embarrassment to their culture. I was getting anxiety when Summit and Jenny were painting. It needed many more coats and I hope they clean up the base boards. I love to paint and they were making me crazy.
Please continue the 90 Day recaps.
Love your recaps.
I never comment, but am here every day, loving the people and the site. Please continue your recaps of the 90 Days shows. I’m gradually replacing the Bravo shows with these. I especially love the Pillow Talk shows. They’re the best!
The People’s Couch used to be my favorite show on Bravo and of course they got rid of that. Pillow Talk is pretty close and it’s nice to actually see happy couples on there
I LOVED the People’s Couch. Destiny from Shah’s of Sunset was on there.
I miss the People’s Couch a lot. Have to say, they need to take Big Ed out of Pillow Talk. His mom is cool, but I really can’t stand him. It has NOTHING to do with his physical appearance, I don’t care what people look like. I just can’t get over the creepy vibe I get from him and then when he’s suddenly just popping up on PT it unnerves me. I’m unnerved enough by daily life now, I don’t need more.
Agree about Big Ed. Horrified to see him on Pillow Talk. He reminds me of that phlegm cartoon on the Mucinex commercial. I try to FF through his parts, but not easy. The sight of him makes me gag.
I want to turn my head every time Ed comes on. Fortunately they seem to have gotten rid of the Family Chantel, who I also can’t stand.
Big Ed is super creepy because hes a sex tourist, he never cared about Rose as a person. If he stays on pillow talk, I wont be able to watch!
Yes, please! I love this show more than the Sunday 90 Day Fiance show. I am so over Colt and Larissa. So please keep it up–this show and MAFS are my faves..
Kenny is not cool, the way he is forcing Armando to move at a pace he’s not comfortable with for a lot of legitimate reasons. He needs to stop that or I’m going to start feeling their future may not be as bright as we all were thinking. If he can’t be sensitive to a partner’s needs, that’s a bad sign.
Elicia is a witch and dresses like she’s 16.
Brittany was so clueless when she said with a big smile on her face about telling them she’s not TECHNICALLY divorced yet. Has she even filed anything? Last thing we saw was her still in the states finding out it was going to be hard and time-consuming to get divorced. Did she even start the process? She is another one of those women who goes to a foreign country with no clue how things go there. A married woman, even in the process of divorce, is absolutely forbidden for a Muslim man to even consider as a mate. Yazan’s mother will go apeshit if and when she finds out that on top of all Brittany’s other flaws she’s still married! Brittany is playing with fire here. It’s not like in the States where married people hook up, have affairs, date other people, and engage in all kinds of inappropriate behavior and everyone just shrugs. Over there, that stuff can get you killed or worse!
I love your recaps for this!
TT, can I travel with you to Ethiopia? We can eat popcorn and drink coffee. The reason I like these shows is because I see the culture. The coffee brewing scene was fascinating.
I like Yazan’s dad. He can see something is off with Brittany, especially when she freaked out their first visit. I am frustrated with Brittany.
I also have issues with Ari. In the beginning, she appeared worldly to me because she traveled by herself to foreign countries but now she appears clueless. It should have been a red flag the first time she saw Bini that he cut his hair and lost weight and she over reacted in the car.
Deavon will ruin her relationship by not supporting Jihoon. if Kalani can make her marriage work, then so can Deavon. Deavon’s mom is just awful, rude and embarrassing.
Please, please, please never stop recapping the 90 Days franchise circus. Deavan and Elicia are SO freaking extra every single moment. Like two screeching harpie demons from an ancient myth. I wonder if they’re like this in their every day life – do they run out of their favorite tea and start running around in the kitchen rending their clothes, tearing out their hair and screaming? I have a LOT of kids and I know that sometimes no matter how much you monitor, discipline, teach them, they’ll go do something crazy. Drascilla was overtired and crabby and she did a runner, Jihoon took off after her, and then she veered sideways back at Elicia, which is when he stopped running and was probably raw enough to scream for Deavan to stop yelling at him. Jihoon has been a total fck-up in the past, but I think in person he’s shown nothing but genuine affection for both kids. He also seems to be trying to change and taking responsibility for what he did wrong. Deavan and Elicia are at the point of almost seeming to enjoy sadistically breaking Jihoon down at every turn. Not EVERYTHING is Jihoon’s fault. I mean, Deavan, Elicia, the entire production crew AND Jihoon’s parents were all there when Drascilla went rabbit, and Jihoon was the first one who went streaking after her and he was the only one who got eviscerated for the whole unpleasant incident, how does that work?
And I agree with whoever pointed out that Ari and Biniyam seem to have no chemistry or anything much to say to each other when they’re alone together. I really think it was all lust before and she kind of convinced herself she was in love by creating this fantasy of him in her head when they were apart. I mean, the first thing she pointed out when she arrived is he didn’t look like she remembered and he seemed smaller and with a different face. I think she wants to end things and hop back on a plane to America, but can’t bring herself to face it.
I love the 90 day recaps! And your anecdotes about your life growing up.
Armando is my favorite out of this group..he reminds me of my very Catholic cousin. Kenny needs to give him more time..there’s an age and culture difference that Kenny seems to just ignore, which is annoying.
Deavan and Jihoon are quite possible the worst couple I have come across thus far. At first I felt bad for Deavan, my autocorrect changes her name to Deacon btw, but she’s just as bad as her husband and sadly it’s the kids who will suffer.
Jenny and Sumit seem happy together…too bad his family doesn’t realize that.
Brittany should have told Yazan the truth before traveling over there. Remember this show is about moving to your partners county in order to marry them. It’s not fair to Yazan or his family.
I think Ari will be on the next flight after her Mom.
I love this show and your recaps! I enjoy ALL of your recaps.
I am so with you on Jihoon. I felt the thing with Drascilla was a huge over reaction. They were all screaming at him to get her but it appeared they were all actually closer and he ran past all of them to get to her. To now use this as an example of why he is a bad father is low. And perhaps be upset with your daughter who seems to have had 2 kids in quick succession with men she barely knows. Also it should be Alicia, Devon, and Drusilla – who wants to spend their entire life having their name misspelled? And how exactly can you be in a real relationship with someone where most of the time you need a translator to understand what they are saying?
Armando is too good for this world! He breaks my heart week after week. From coming out to his sister and parents to sharing his fears with Kenny – I am rooting for them but pray Kenny slows down and really thinks about the place Armando is in emotionally and tries to support him versus the bull in the china shop approach. I think this is where the age and culture differences are really exposing the cracks in the relationship…
Ari makes me sad – she had vacation sex and got pregnant with a guy who has already done this once. She is in way over her head.
Deavan’s mother is another BRAVO cast member that falls into the “ugly American” category. She is awful….and I thought that from the minute she arrived in Korea. What is wrong with these people? Rather than appreciate the beauty of the country they are in and appreciating the culture they (Angela, Chuck, Charlie etc.) are bitching because it is not like America. Ugh….
Keep the Recaps coming! The recaps and comments are byfar my fav and I look forward to reading them.
Ari/Bini- Shes going home. Her mom left and reality set in. As someone else already said.. theres no chemistry and I dont think she trusts him since she mentioned the little lies he’d tell his previous gf’s about his dancing, etc. I cant wait to see the next episode.. I think shes a goner.. LOL she’ll probably get home before her mom and Moms already gone
Deavan/Jihoon- True hes been selfish and downright immature, but I really think hes trying to do better.. Deavan and her mom however wont allow him to do better. EVERYTHING is his fault.. Between those two and his mom.. Hes gonna have a nervous breakdown. I think Deavan at this point should just go back home; shes expecting ALOT of Jihoon and I honestly dont think hes mentally ready. Why does Elicia always come across drunk on on ‘something’??
Britany/Yazan- They are gonna ‘stone’ her or worse when they find out her ‘secret’.. I mean how does she think that they wont find out.. she mentions it to us every 5 minutes. Britany shouldve stayed in Florida and left Yazan alone period. Britanys about to lose her life over something that shes not taking seriously.. another cultures religion and Yazans feelings. When she doesnt want to talk about something she changes the subject and everything is so ‘cute’ smh.. sick of her.
Judy/Sumit- Another one who imo shouldve stayed in the states until Sumits divorce was finalized. I have a feeling the meeting with his parents wont go well and they may just abduct him again. Then what Judy??
Armando/Kenny- In the beginning I was really rooting for this couple, but Kenny.. Kenny.. Kenny. Hes just too much. I can only imagine how he’ll act when he meets Armandos parents/sister. Poor Armando.. Hes not ready for a ‘Kenny’. Kennys sooo overbearing and Armando? Well Armando is not ready to be ‘out-out’ like that understandably.. Hes already said that his culture doesnt accept their lifestyle and he loves breathing/being alive-clearly. IDK..Im now thinking that they wont make it down any marital isle. Kennys an older gay guy so like he said.. hes lived this life 57yrs so he doesnt care what anyone else says/feels about his lifestyle.. that attitude is more accepted in the states vs Mexico.
Don’t stop. Please. This is the most interesting one yet. Most all of the couples are headed for disaster. Brittany should quite literally be scared for her life. She is toying with Yazans family and feelings. This is not a game. It will not end well for her if she doesn’t straighten things out.
I know early on there was a lot of support for Kenny and Armando, but it is not going to work. Kenny is a bully and he is railroading Armando I to coming out and announcing an engagement when he has real anxiety and fear about doing so. Not cool.
Deavan and her mother need to go home. Same with Ari. They will never be happy in Korea/Ethiopia if they expect everything to be like The United States.
Ari and Baby (I hate that’s how she refers to him in the interviews) are doomed. They had nothing in common other than physical attraction. And even that was gone for Ari when she returned and saw his look was different because he cut his hair and changed his musculature. She needs to go home where her family can help her raise this child. Baby needs to quit f#%&÷#g American women without using contraception unless he wants more children he’ll never see.
Please recap!!
Love your recaps!
I DVR the entire 90day franchise and watch each episode when I can. I don’t always comment but read your recaps faithfully sooooooo please continue ?
Love this show! Please keep the recaps!
One more thing about the Drascilla situation: she didn’t get run over, get lost, get hurt, fall down, break a nail, scrape her knee, or anything else. The way they carried on, you’d think she was killed. And there was hardly any traffic on the road. They were filming in the road afterward, everyone standing in the road and there were NO cars anywhere. Not even any pedestrians. So it wasn’t like she was running out onto a highway at rush hour. He made a mistake. He apologized. Nothing happened to her. So everyone calm the fuck down and quit being so dramatic.
Omg YES! PLEASE DON’T STOP RECAPPING!! I’m already slightly bummed there’s not been anything for the Love After Lockup, but i could lose them over your 90 Day recaps!
I’m with you about Deavan & her Mom going tok hard on Jihoon. At certain point you need to realise how much you can expect from someone, and don’t expect they can make huge behavioural changes in the blink of an eye. Instead of investing in shirty veneers and botched injections, Deaven should have signed them up for parenting classes.
If Jihoon is so horrible, why not move on and come back to America. Jihoon’s mother was right to try and protect him, especially after another attack by Devian and her mother. Any parent regardless of their child age would try and support them. Jihoon did mess up by not checking out the apartment, but she would have complained no matter what he do. Druscilla is wild as a bat, and all they could do is chase after her. My grandson did the same thing and the only person out in the parking with him was me. Once I yelled his name and told him to come back, he immediately stopped and came back. That could have happen without Jihoon being present because Druscilla is wild as a bat. I agree that Jihoon need to be the one running away, quickly as fast as he can run!
The 90 Day recaps are fabulous! I really appreciate them, especially with your asides 🙂
Watching Armando after the engagement, I wanted to give him a big hug and be his best friend. I want to hang out with him and talk and hear his thoughts on life, watch him parent, and do crafts together. I wish Kenny would tell Armando the things that he tells us in the interview segments…. that he wants Armando’s family to know that he’s all in. I know he’s excited about the engagement,but he needs to stop and listen to Armando for a bit.