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90 Day Fiance The Other Way Recap: Forgiven Not Forgotten

August 4, 2020 by tamaratattles 42 Comments

90 Day Fiance The Other Way recapI don’t think we will even get to discuss Kenny and Armando on this 90 Day Fiance The Other Way recap since they are only giving us one hour of a two hour show.  I hate that Cheesestick is taking time away from the others. At least we get Jenny and Sumit. Out of those we see tonight they seem like the only ones who might actually make it. I’m getting right to this as it is trending on Twitter and Below Deck is NOT. But I am still furious about Below Deck Med this week.

90 Day Fiance The Other Way RecapAriela & Biniyam

Bini takes Ari and her mom to dinner with his family. First his family pretty much force feeds her mother raw meat. That would be a no for me. Hopefully Ari plays the pregnancy card. But she doesn’t. Then they explain that Ari will be solely responsible for the baby and Bini will be working outside the home. And by working, Bini means dancing into the wee hours of the morning. Bini’s family is concerned that Ari will eventually take the baby to the US like the last baby mama did. Ari is concerned that Bini’s family doesn’t trust her based on the last baby mama’s actions.

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Well this should be fun. Ari and her mom go to see Bini dance. They sit in the front row. Bini comes out and does a rather erotic dance with a beautiful girl who happens to be his ex-girlfriend. One move in particular has her basically upside down with her legs in a horizontal split while he uses her legs for a fake keyboard and her ass as drums to go along with the music the band is playing. They have a lot of chemistry. Ari’s mom keeps rubbing it in. Ari admits that she knows that Bini used to tell “little white lies” to the last baby mama. Like trying to hide the lipstick that gets on his shirts at work. Ari already seems jealous. Her mom just thinks he’s a “jackass.”

90 Day Fiance The Other Way JihoonDeavan & Jihoon

When last we left these two they were in a restaurant with his parents and had just called the whole thing off. Deavan wants to go home and Jihoon doesn’t care. And that is exactly where we pick up. Jihoon has run off. Jihoon’s parents are also fighting because he is on Deavan’s side and she is on Jihoon’s. He tells her that she doesn’t seem to understand the situation. Jihoon DID lie to her. She throws her husband out of the interview so she can say her piece. Outside Jihoon and Deavan talk and he admits he spent the money on himself because he didn’t really believe she would come. She curses him out and says she never wants to talk to him again. The are both crying and hurt.

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They talk again and Deavan gives Jihoon an ultimatum. Transfer the $3,000 he says he has to her right now or it’s over. So he goes and gets his mother to withdraw it for him. Can you withdraw $3,000 from an ATM in South Korea? Apparently so. But Jihoon’s mom thinks thatt Deavan is demanding money in order for her to be able to see her grandchild. He gives her money and they both cry more. The next day, Jihoon comes over to see the family and talk more. Jihoon begs for forgiveness and one more chance. She agrees. But only if they open a joint bank account and use the money to get another apartment for one month. And if he screws up again, she’s taking the kids and leaving. That boy is adorable.

Tim AKA “Cheesestick”

Melyza & Tim

Does anyone care about Cheesestick? Because I don’t care about these two. Melyza’s mom knows about Cheesestick’s cheating. She hates him. Her dad does not know, and he loves Cheesestick. Everyone this episode has disapproving parents. These two also go to dinner with the parents and her sister at the parents house. They have home court advantage! His mom starts the dinner conversation off with “Tim is very fat.” Tim speaks Spanish and even I know what that means. Tim tries to laugh it off.

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Then, the clueless dad asks why Melyza didn’t move to the US as planned and he is moving there now. Ut oh, time to come clean, Cheesestick. But, he doesn’t and neither does Melyza. Dad and the sister go to fetch tequila. Then Tim cries as he apologies to Melyza’s mother for the cheating. The says he wasn’t thinking. He was being selfish. The mom doesn’t except the excuses. He wants to work hard for another opportunity. She says, as for as she goes, the good opinion she once had of him is lost. The clueless dad comes back with a kind toast to Tim. Next week Tim confesses to the father, and he tells Melyza to dump him. Hopefully, she will. And there are too many people on this show.

90 Day Fiance The Other Way RecapJenny & Sumit

These two grown adults also have a parental situation. Sumit’s parents still don’t approve of the relationship. So they approach Sumit’s brother, Amit, for advice. Amit has already talked to his parents and they are adamant that the age difference makes the relationship a public embarrassment. Amit suggests that Amit come meet Sumit’s parents. Sumit is afraid to meet with them because he is certain that they will make him choose between Jenny and his parents.

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Filed Under: 90 Day Fiancé Tagged With: 90 Day Fiancé, 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way, Arilea & Biniyam, Armando & Kenny, Brittany & Yazan, Deavan & Jihoon, Jenny & Sumit, Melyza & Tim

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  1. LakeCarly says

    August 4, 2020 at 1:44 am

    They better not bring Cheesestick back for another season. The crying, the therapy cat, the hovering over Melyza’s cooking like a little boy–wtf’s the attraction of this overgrown adolescent?

    Ari’s mom gamely took that food from the family member. I actually looked it up to make sure it is a local custom and not some maneuver by production. I’ve never, ever liked to be fed. Particularly at a party when a friend of mine dripped hollandaise sauce on my treasured, black suede shirt while claiming I just had to try it. (This was followed by, “Oh, just let it dry and you can brush it right off.” It’s still there.) I loved Bini’s performance shirt.

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    • SLM says

      August 4, 2020 at 4:05 pm

      I was peeved that OF COURSE production has them do the raw meat dishes alone with the injera instead of also including the myriad of amazing vegetarian and vegan stews intrinsic to Ethiopian cuisine (Shiro Wat is so good I would choose it as a last meal with plenty of injera). I have no objection to the meat eating (I’m a vegetarian, but am very adamantly live and let live with other people’s food choices and cultures), but it was clearly chosen for the scene in hopes of making it an extra shock to a Western audience. It just sells the culture short. Or maybe I’m just pissy because I’m obsessed with Ethiopian food and haven’t been able to have any in 4 months.

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      • LakeCarly says

        August 4, 2020 at 4:36 pm

        Agreed, it was definitely chosen to shock and the family members seemed like very honest and kind people so it’s unfair to the culture. Different situation but reminds me of when the Family Chantel was served fried chicken feet by the fiancé’s family a few years ago and they were horrified. The fiancé’s family came across as a little psycho, laughing mercilessly.

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  2. Lucretia says

    August 4, 2020 at 3:28 am

    Cheesestick needs to put under the Colombian kitchen heat lamp and sent home. And the emotional support kitty !?!! The cat has more personality than him.

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  3. ravynrobyn says

    August 4, 2020 at 3:40 am

    Did Ari’s mom really say Bini was a jackass? I totally missed that.

    Hoping against hope that Jenny & Sumit get to marry & not shame his family. I’m a frumpy 60 year old hopeless romantic ?

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    • Joey says

      August 4, 2020 at 2:41 pm

      Ari called Bini a jackass during an interview with her mom sitting next to her. It was after he told her about the “lipistick”.

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      • ravynrobyn says

        August 4, 2020 at 3:42 pm

        Wow, really missed that-thanks ?‍♀️?

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  4. JustJenn says

    August 4, 2020 at 7:58 am

    These grown adults all have overbearing parents who are way too involved in their relationships. I wonder if that’s the reason they choose people in other countries?

    I hate that we aren’t getting much of Brittany and Yazan or Kenny and Armondo…Cheesestick is most definitely filler TV.

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    • Nancy says

      August 4, 2020 at 10:36 am

      I agree Yazan and Brittany and Kenny and Armando are keeping this season in high ratings get rid of the other 2 or your losing a huge fan base.

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    • SLM says

      August 4, 2020 at 4:12 pm

      I agree. I can’t figure out how Ari keeps phrasing it as, “Will my mom *let* me stay in Ethiopia?” I mean, Ari is well over 21, how is the word, “let” involved in her life choices. Cheesestick is kind of hard to watch, he makes such weird noises and gestures. I will say, kudos to him for making an effort to learn Spanish, though. So many of the Americans we see on the 90 Days shows seem to have no drive to learn the language of the place their significant others are from.

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      • FAV4 says

        August 4, 2020 at 5:58 pm

        I was very impressed that Tim speaks Spanish but he needs to go home. It will never work, I hope he didn’t give up his apartment.

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        • SLM says

          August 4, 2020 at 6:31 pm

          It was very refreshing to see someone making an effort in that regard. However, I agree. This isn’t going to work out and they both need to cut their losses. He poisoned the well with his cheating and things will never be like they were. I’m surprised Melyza even agreed to the trial second chance. She’s beautiful, young, has a good job, she has her whole life ahead of her. Why open yourself back up to some loser who thought so little of you he hooked up over Netflix and chill with a random coworker?

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  5. Joey says

    August 4, 2020 at 8:52 am

    “Does anyone care about cheesestick?” If a grown man goes by the name cheesestick he isn’t worth caring about. Time to grow up Tim.

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  6. Cheryl B.(cherylannburke1) says

    August 4, 2020 at 2:02 pm

    Tim and Melyza need to not “figure it out” on this show. It is like watching paint dry listening to these two.

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  7. Shoshanna says

    August 4, 2020 at 2:12 pm

    The unbelievable number of commercials during this show are making it almost unwatchable!!

    Reply
  8. Cheryl B.(cherylannburke1) says

    August 4, 2020 at 3:02 pm

    I was thinking that we are watching the same episode 3 or 4 times. The episode, Pillow talk, extra footage episode, now B90 strikes back.
    Having the casts doing the B90strikes back is painful. I just don’t find it funny, then talking to the pillow talk cast and they are not comedians for the B90. I would rather just have the episode and Pillow talk.
    Afraid of overload.

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    • ravynrobyn says

      August 4, 2020 at 3:46 pm

      I gave up on B90 because Ed’s personality & arrogance physically sickens me ???

      On Mondays they should DUMP B90, increase TOW to two hours & then air PT.

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      • Roxy Warner says

        August 4, 2020 at 4:03 pm

        This thumb of a man is so full of himself-He adores getting into his sleazy looking Chinese robe and watch HIMSELF on TV-He looks like a sex tourist in that outfit-Probably not too far from the truth–Hey, I know he is a photographer BUT he has hundreds ? of pictures of young sexy models pictures on his walls as part of his decor-Does anyone else think that this is a little creepy-and Wow! around all those girls and still couldn’t get a date?

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        • SLM says

          August 4, 2020 at 4:13 pm

          Edd makes my skin crawl. He gives off creeper vibes all day long.

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        • Lucretia says

          August 4, 2020 at 4:15 pm

          Even more creepy that he had his mom watch and comment about his foot rubs and seduction techniques. ?

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          • tamaratattles says

            August 4, 2020 at 6:59 pm

            The mom thing was super weird.

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        • LakeCarly says

          August 4, 2020 at 4:49 pm

          The robe on Ed makes me think that he pictures himself as a Hugh Hefner type–shooting pretty girls and everything. I tried part of the first B90 and turned it off, unwatchable.

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        • tamaratattles says

          August 4, 2020 at 6:55 pm

          Y’all are SOOOOOOOOOOO mean to Ed! I’m sure he has been called all those names all his life and now he gets to have millions of people mocking him on the Internet! YAY!

          I admire his ability to make fun of himself and laugh it off. However, I think he is probably very sad inside from being mocked all his life. I just wish he would wash his hair. That would help a lot.. And he should know better than to mock Rose and her hygiene because he must know from personal experience how that feels.

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      • The Other Shay says

        August 4, 2020 at 5:39 pm

        Agreed. It’s like they are trying to increase Ed’s “popularity” to have him on some future TLC show or 90 Day version, and it’s a hard NO from me. I’m over him. I would, however, watch Rose.

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        • tuatha12 says

          August 6, 2020 at 7:02 pm

          Was that the season Geoffrey was in?

          I gave that season a miss sounds like I did the right thing based on the Ed comments.

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  9. Jill Anne SP (@Jill41376057) says

    August 5, 2020 at 2:42 pm

    The worst was when Ed used a paint brush and roller to Nair himself!!! EWWWW……

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  10. Lisa Lisa says

    August 5, 2020 at 2:56 pm

    Can we swap out Angela for Kalani for just one episode? It would take Angela all of 5 minutes to take care of Asuelu’s childish ass. I could see her beating him with that $48 can or corned beef. Actually, Angela could probably take care of Paul, Ash and Andrei in less time than it takes her to smoke a cigarette.

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    • Mare says

      August 5, 2020 at 11:44 pm

      So funny – I’m picturing Angela straightening them all out. Instead of being mean to Michael she can jerk a knot in the tail of these guys!
      Melyza looks miserably sad/mad or she may have RBF.
      B90 is a no go – responses are awkward and not funny.

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      • Lisa Lisa says

        August 6, 2020 at 12:58 pm

        ALLLLL of them LOL

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  11. Janfan says

    August 6, 2020 at 9:00 am

    Omgosh Picturing a 90day wife swap, but everyone gets Angela! Now that would be the BEST TV ever! Angela on pillow talk would be funny as hell too! Angela would straighten all those boys in 30 seconds flat! Thank you – I so needed a laugh!

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    • Lisa Lisa says

      August 6, 2020 at 12:58 pm

      Angela just kills me LOL. Yes, 90 Day Wife Swap, can I get a check for creating that show?

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      • tuatha12 says

        August 6, 2020 at 5:26 pm

        @Lisa Lisa – Look what you have started I now want a a 90 day spin off – Angela spends a month with Asuelu, Andrei, Jihoon and Coltee.

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        • Lisa Lisa says

          August 6, 2020 at 11:21 pm

          Haaaaaaaa! Imagine? I love Angela. I crack up every time she talks about “totin;a baby for Mackle.” Yes, throw Jihoon and Coltee in there too.She would get all of them and their Mama’s straight.

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  12. Janfan says

    August 6, 2020 at 9:07 am

    Ari is wild and young and free – and having a baby in Ethiopia. But, Ari, like the woman before her, will have a baby and it will get real very fast. She will become protective, cautious, and want the best for her baby. She will probably be back in the US by the time the baby is one. I feel sorry for his family having two babies who will probably grow up far, far, away. I wish they would show more of Ethiopia. Where does his family live? I want to see more of the towns in every country. Show us more of their typical day!

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  13. Cathy says

    August 6, 2020 at 6:23 pm

    WHO’S READY FOR DARCY &.STACEYS SHOW? ??

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    • tamaratattles says

      August 6, 2020 at 6:50 pm

      UGH. Not me. Am I really going to have to watch this? 🙁

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    • tuatha12 says

      August 6, 2020 at 6:57 pm

      Some people are claiming Darcy & Stacey & Angela are actually triplets and based on a couple of piccies I have seen lately they may have a valid point!!!!…… same hair, same sunglasses it was kind of creepy in a sureal way.

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    • SLM says

      August 6, 2020 at 8:56 pm

      Hard pass for me on Darcy and Stacey. Not even a bit interested.

      Reply
  14. tuatha12 says

    August 7, 2020 at 4:53 pm

    Tim & Veronica are back on Pillow Talk…Yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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    • Lisa Lisa says

      August 7, 2020 at 9:30 pm

      Love Tim and Veronica! And the cat and dog LOL

      Reply
  15. tuatha12 says

    August 7, 2020 at 4:56 pm

    Not this season though in the next season of Pillow Talk.

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  16. tuatha12 says

    August 7, 2020 at 5:03 pm

    I am so tired it has been a long day let’s start again:

    1.Tim & Veronica are back on Pillow Talk: The Other Way.

    2. They may also be on Pillow Talk for Happily Ever After.

    I need to eat .

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