Brittany & Yazan
It’s time for another 90 Day Fiance recap and I am already pissed that new couple is on this episode. We are only getting half an hour and all we really want to see is Armando and Kenny. Oh and Brittany and Yazan. We start in Jordan with the big blow up between these two. Brittany has a huge meltdown in the car with Yazan. It is pouring rain and Yazan has to pull over because Brittany is losing her mind and screaming. She’s very self righteous about being uniformed on lots of things yet all the while not telling Yazan she is still married. She screams that she never wants to his parents again.
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In their second scene Brittany has gone from screaming to crying. Yazan is trying to comfort her. But petals. Are they going to live there together? I didn’t think that was allowed. He has to leave because they are not married. Yazan apologizes for all the drama. He is going to ask his uncle who is more familiar with other cultures to speak to his parents.
Armando & Kenny
Yay! we are getting right to our favorite couple! Kenny is finally in Mexico and getting close to his new home with Armando. Armando is preparing a feast for Kenny when he arrives with some of the biggest prawns I’ve ever seen. This is going to be a cryfest. I love these two. Wow! Their apartments have no heat or air conditioning. The closest bank is a 40 minute drive. ATMs don’t seem to be a thing. Kenny throws the cameramen out so they can have some private time together.
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Wait, Kenny and Armando have been together for three years and Kenny hasn’t learned any Spanish? How is that possible? Oh my! Kenny is a germaphobe. He’s going to have to get over that with a quickness. Armando hasn’t had time to check out the area for grocery stores and such so they go exploring together. I never expected Kenny to be so helpless and high maintenance. They stop for lunch and Kenny asks what kind of food they sell. Is this a joke? Even another gringo asks him what he was expecting, Italian? lol. I never expected Kenny to have such culture shock! Oh Lord. Kenny is a picky eater.
Jenny & Sumit
Sumit is finally taking Jenny to meet his divorce attorney. He says that divorces in India usually take between two and five years, and sometimes even longer! Sumit’s case should not take that long since both parties have agreed to the divorce. The bad news if that if Sumit’s parents object to the marriage, they can’t get married.
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These two still do not have hot water, but Jenny is actually pretty chill about it. Jenny is set to meet a couple who is friends with Sumit. She’s hoping to be friends with the wife. But she is actually meeting two of his guy friends. They age shame Jenny before she arrives. Some friends they are… Ah, the guy’s wife refused to come because she doesn’t condone their relationship. Aw, Jenny really needs a girlfriend. The other guy says that his wife was not feeling well. So same thing. I agree with Jenny, it is sad to see the younger generation just fold to their parents. The only way for change to happen is for the next generation to make the change.
Next time, we get Ari & Biniyam touring the hospital with Ari’s mother. Biniyam is worried that Ari’s mother will just take her home. I’m not sure that is even possible at this stage in her pregnancy.
Deavan & Jihoon
The first thirty minutes of this show have flown by! I wish we could have two hours of this and only one of Happily Ever After! Jihoon has gone home to his mother. She knows something is wrong. He tells his mom that Deavan and her mother have moved into a hotel. His mother’s reaction is to basically blame Deavan. She says he should tell her that that is just how young single guys behave. She seems to forget that he is responsible for contributing to the needs of his children as well! Jihoon at least seems to recognize that he is the problem. He’s almost 30 with no job to support his family.
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His mom seems to lack any compassion for her son who is sobbing like a baby becaue Deavan is threatening to go home to America with their children. She basically tells him to get himself together and handle his business.
TT, I feel the same way, the first 30 minutes flew by! You hit the nail on the head with your Kenny, he is both helpless and high maintenance. I’d love to be Jenny’s friend, but not enough to move to India lol.
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I laughed out loud when Kenny tried one of the candies the street vendor was selling, and said it was hard and looked like a blood clot. He’s going to have a hard time adjusting to this new way of life, love for Armando or not. PS–i love Truffles!
I agree, I did not expect Kenny to be so clueless and unyielding. He said he’s been to Mexico several times and also he and Armando have been dating years long distance, but it’s like he didn’t even do the tiniest bit of meaningful research into the country he was going to move to and didn’t even learn level 1 Spanish? Did he think they were going to live in a resort together and everyone would speak English? I also think it’s a bit weird Armando chose a place for them to live without knowing amenities around it – like where to buy food and supplies or if they had a bank nearby. Did Kenny not mention this or look into it, either? I cringed when Kenny spent their day out making stink face at everything. Way to make a good first impression on your new town.
I hate the way everyone keeps treating Jenny like shit because she’s 60-something. Either don’t go to meet her at all or keep your damn mouth shut and smile. I wish Sumit were already divorced and they could live in the US together. Not because there’s something wrong with India, but just because maybe then they wouldn’t keep getting such widespread hostility. Or maybe they would get that prejudice anywhere, I don’t know – people can be pretty mean for no reason everywhere, after all.
Jenny is the geriatric Linda Kolkena. She is a shameless homewrecker. In indian culture the home also extends to parents and she is really disrupting their whole family structure to get what she wants. Yes I know Summit is an active participant he is an adulterer and Jenny is his mistress. She flaunts shamelessly around town meeting the same people who probably attended summit’s wedding to his wife and she cant understand why they dont like her.? Indians are taught to respect their elders and not treat them like peers. Thats an American thing. Jenny is an elder. Thats why she is drawing SSI. She makes it very diffucult to repsect her as an elder when she behaves so shameless and silly.
I can see your viewpoint, and I have felt bad for how Sumit’s wife, her family and his family must be feeling. It must be awful for all concerned. In fairness to Jenny, she had NO IDEA Sumit was married when they started an online relationship and even when she went to India the first time. He hid it from her completely and her from his family. HE lied. Then when she found out he told her he was in process of leaving his wife (he wasn’t back then) and she believed him and had NO idea about the Marriage Laws in India. She was totally blindsided, so I don’t think she’s comparable to Linda Kolkena. HOWEVER, if I were Jenny, I would not in any circumstances continue in a relationship where a man was married and LIED to me that he wasn’t OR go on with someone until I had PROOF their marriage was legally ended IF I decided to give them another chance. But, by that same token, Sumit has no specifically told his friends and family he’s dissolving his marriage and wants to be with Jenny. Yes, he’s acted selfishly and dupliccotly, but this is the reality he’s going with. If his friends can’t be fair and supportive (and they are entititled NOT to if they don’t feel THAT way) then they shouldn’t continue being in his life at all.
Sorry for typos, my fingers are fat. And, I meant *now* he has specifically told them, not “no.”
Jenny said she took his virginity. They have dated for 7 yrs. Jenny doesnt care about the wife. Jenny was around before the wife and Summit still kept Jenny and accepted the dowry for his bride. Thats why hes in so much trouble. He had not intentions of being faithful to his wife. She said Summit lied but she doesnt care. Linda didnt know who Betty was at first either. She didnt care and she hung around for many years being the mistress until she was made a wife. Jenny is wrong. Summit is a liar. I wouldnt be surprised if Summits wife is pregnant by him. You cant trust a cheating man. Jenny is wrong and this isnt cute
That’s your very judgey opinion. The onus is on Sumit. Jenny was duped multiple times. And Sumit was forced to marry by his parents.
Yes it is because people like to pick and choose when an affair is okay and when its not. Its obvious that Summit has caused his family his inlaws and his community alot of shame and hurt but yet people act like these folks arent affected by that. Jenny prancing around there in the midst of all of that is a slap in their face. Thats the whol community have said they want no parts of it. But then we judge them about how they react. They have lived this mess for 7 yrs. Their reaction is real not scripted.
This sounds like a personal issue for you, Oopsey. Every situation is not the same as your situation.
I totally agree with you – none of this is cute, but I think the majority of the blame is Sumit’s. I just found out today (and left a later comment) that Sumit was long-distance dating Jenny for 7 years and married during that time when she was back in America and never told her. She had no idea he was going to marry at all. It’s a SHITTY thing to do to the bride, her family, his family, Jenny and her family. I really cannot think why Jenny would continue with someone capable of that level of hurtful crazy. Linda knew Dan was married with kids when she met and started working for him and cheating with him. Jenny had no such knowledge when she went back to India in the previous season and was confronted by his rightfully angry family after he snuck off to set up a household with Jenny (while still married). She knows now, obviously. That poor woman thag Sumit married who had no idea what a lying ass she was getting hitched to. I think at this point Jenny has blinders on and is desperate to nail down a romantic relationship as she edges up in years. I wish she had more self respect not to entertain a life with someone who could lie and hurt everyone around him. I think I can see better why some of the wives and friends wouldn’t want to be around him.
Also, my comment wasn’t meant to be broad about women Jenny’s age, I meant SHE might feel as if in this point in her life and having wasted 7 years being yanked around by Sumit that she’s desperate to prove it can work and not have to face what went on or be back to not having a romantic partner. Sumit should not have deceived everyone. Jenny was unaware until that big blow up last time she was in India that Sumit had been dealing falsely with everyone
Honestly it was probably best for Jenny that the other wives didnt show up. They probably would be ready to fight if she even looked at their husbands. Married women do not like their husbands to be around women who will lay with a married man. Im a single woman and i know that a lot of wives will whoop azz and ask questions later.
Wow. Couldn’t disagree more. There is a huge difference between Jenny and a “home wrecker”. Jenny began dating a man who she had every reason to believe was single. Because he told her that. She did not find out about the wife until she was ALL IN. She had wrapped her life up in the US in order to move to India to marry her (she believed) single boyfriend. Jenny is in many ways a victim.
I love Jenny but to me she’s acting arrogant. She’s constantly stating that they’re going to be together whether anyone likes it or not. That’s not how it works over there. They’re going to be a very lonely couple, his family and friends are probably going to disown him. They would be better off living here in America. OMG! I couldn’t believe how Brittany was freaking out. I do believe Yazan truly loves her because he’s shaming his parents by bringing her around knowing that she’s not going to convert. She’s told him that many times. I can’t believe Jihoon’s mother, he is not a single man with no children. He has a wife and a child to support.
For Kenny, who lives in Florida, a State with an enormous spanish-speaking population, not to know any Spanish is just mind boggling. Especially since he KNEW he was going to change his whole life by moving there!!
Geez Louise!! Anyone with a smart phone can download one of those Learn-A-Foreign-Language apps and he could have at least used it to learn a little something…oh, maybe while the commercials played while he watched his tv programs? Or why not be an Adult about it and actually TAKE A SPANISH CLASS OR TWO???
I love Kenny and Armando but I have no patience with such stupidity from a grown-assed man. That’s the kind of stupid behavior I would expect from the starry-eyed 20 somethings who up and move with no preparation or homework; I thought Kenny would be smarter than that.
I actually lived, until recently in St Pete Florida and believe it or not, there are very few Spanish people there. St Pete is overwhelming white, gay and retired. I drove Uber so I got a real good look at the population.
Not making excuses because how do you move to a foreign country and not try to learn the language or the culture. SMDH. It really is so disrespectful ?
Britany seem to have a tantrum and start uncontrollable screaming whenever she is backed into a corner and has to admit she is still married. Its her way to deflect from the fact that she cannot marry Yazan and is playing games. She should have stayed in Miami and not have wasted him time. Men do use stall tactics all the time when they dont want to get married. We are watching the female stall.
Kenneth and Armando should consider moving to a beach community that is more Americanized. Since I live an hour from the border I have traveled down there quite a bit.. There are many expats, Californians, and retirees who live in secure beach communities closer to the border where the locals also speak English. There are some nice restaurants, hotels and shopping. Many Americans work in the states and commute across the border to live. Living down there is is quite affordable, especially compared to the states. Meghan Markle’s Dad lives down there in an area where alot of Americans live. He is close enough to travel back and forth across the border to still enjoy the amenities of the US.
They ARE living in a beach community close to the border… Rosarito which is basically a nice upscale suburb or Tijuana. This storyline is producer-driven bullshit.
What isn’t fake though is just how icky Kenny turned out to be. He strikes me as a Log Cabin Republican type. I knew some when I lived in Dallas and they’re really gross. Racist, sexist and homophobic (yes, really!) gay men.
And suddenly, Kenny doesn’t look so youthful anymore.
So, can anyone clarify this for me? I was just talking to a friend about 90 Days and she said that Jenny and Sumit started an online relationship BEFORE he was married and she even visited him in India and then when she was back in the states he accepted an arranged marriage from his family and didn’t tell Jenny? Is THAT what happened? I remember watching before and somehow I missed this. I thought he was married when they met and didn’t tell her. I know she was completely in the dark about him being married, whenever it happened. But, WOW, was he really involved with Jenny and actually went through a whole engagement and wedding in India while maintaining that relationship and concealing it from her? If this is the way it went down I can’t believe I didn’t understand it watching their previous season/s.
I have heard the exact same thing as well
I don’t know how I missed this watching their story play out originally? Also, man, Sumit is a world class mess maker. I feel bad for everyone but him in this. Also, Jenny should have cut ties. Someone capable of this level of subterfuge is capable of anything.
I’m understanding more now how Evelyn felt when Corey moved to her country, she said he was too dependent on her, and she wanted him to be more independent. To his credit, he is much more fluent, it seems, lately.
I’m dying to know if Brittany got home before COVID hit because I can’t imagine #1 that this relationship works out and #2 how she would react being stuck there alone
The info is available online and I DO NOT WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT HERE. 🙂 But people insist on sending me spoilers when I just want to be left in the dark. If you do choose to read, please don’t share in comments. Though it will be hard not to…
Britany and Yazan doesn’t seem real. I can’t imagine how they’ve gotten this far. It’s clear his family has her number. It also seemed clear his mom speaks/understands English from what she said. And man, was she furious at Britany. I think his family thought he’d figure out Britany’s bull by now and have had enough of it.
Kenny seemed so cool and together until he got to Mexico. Agree that he should have started to learn Spanish when they agreed to live together in Mexico. Armando speaks perfect English so I guess it was not necessary up to then. I thought Kenny would handle the move better. They seems so in love but Kenny’s attitude can screw it up.
I have a soft spot for Jenny and Sumit. They really seem to love each other. Sumit is a weak person who was forced by his family to marry. And seems too weak to get the divorce handled more quickly. I feel as if they are victims of circumstances of life in India.
Oh boy, this episode made me concerned all of OUR love affairs with Kenny & Armando may be coming to an end now that Kenny is showing stereotypical priveleged ignorance & lowly classism. I felt for the vendor when he literally spit out the candy just a few feet away from him. How did he not bother to understand pesos? He’s visited before, but now especially after planning this permanent move! I truly hope this is just production having them amp up the scenes to show friction where there was really none at all or very little.
Sumit’s one friend in particular is incredibly rude & inappropriate. While he’s allowed to hold firm to his cultural beliefs, he can do so without constantly insulting Jenny who has done nothing but be kind to & love his friend unconditionally.
Now that we meet Melysa, I feel for her hearing her side of the story. I didn’t realise she learned of the infidelity AFTER having moved there. How manipulative of him to allow her to uproot her life after that without telling her beforehand. Unrelated, but I hate how the editors mix up the flow of a single scene, for instance the future the convo between and her Mom obviously out of order…one minute her roots are dyed, the next they aren’t even touched yet. This is continuity 101! They did this last week too with Paul and his Mom, sun was set then up again lol!
I totally agree that this show is not done justice by having such short episodes. It’s frustrating.
My husband and I noticed that Texas Tim really looks like a simple Josh Gates.
I hope things work out for Jenny and Sumit however I doubt it very much as Sumit has to many flaws in his character.
Kenny WTF!!!