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You are here: Home / Entertainment News / Hey I Am A Little Bit Scared….

Hey I Am A Little Bit Scared….

March 20, 2020 by tamaratattles 82 Comments

I am over here all alone dealing with ALL THIS. I read a lot of shit about how I am helping and the last thing I remember is the guy who used to be my puller just vanished. And he liked me too.  I am feeling all alone again. I see you all thinking I am someone with the answers. And maybe I will be but for now I am the old drunk lady who hurls a hundred bucks in cash and a pint of Ben and Jerrys at my hipster neighbor. Because I course I did that,

I might need a minute to figure all this out.

In the meantime, I am all about the kid stuck in Australia.  I wish I was that kid. And I think I would feed my phone to a croc.

 

 

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  1. Mary says

    March 20, 2020 at 3:37 am

    GO TO SLEEP!

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    • Something Clever says

      March 20, 2020 at 4:36 pm

      Seriously, it’s time to stop watching the news and read a book or listen to music. Focus on positive things.

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    • Cho says

      March 20, 2020 at 4:48 pm

      I read this in Bethenny’s voice. I hope this was your intention.

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      • Mary says

        March 21, 2020 at 12:45 am

        Cho,
        Notice the hour at which I responded. I’m as terrified as everyone and unable to sleep. Wish I could take Bethennys advice. We need to lighten up or burst.

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  2. Viv says

    March 20, 2020 at 4:01 am

    Hi TT,

    Sending hugs and love. I’m based in Asia so more than happy to keep you company if you can’t sleep! X

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  3. Floridagirl says

    March 20, 2020 at 4:20 am

    You will be ok TT! We will weather this storm. Get plenty of rest, build up your immune system, meditate and stay calm.
    I come to your site for escapism. I can’t tell you enough how much I appreciate reading all your post and recommendations for show.
    I live in a town that relies on tourism. I have a shop in our downtown district. What would normally be our busiest time with hundreds of people is now a ghost town.
    This is a time for everyone to be safe and practical. Worrying will not help us and is not healthy for us. Find something you enjoy to keep you busy and tend to your tomatoes!
    You have so many followers and as much as you are here for us, we are here for you! ❤️

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  4. Nanette says

    March 20, 2020 at 6:06 am

    Take your minute. Or your night. Whatever you need. You don’t need to solve all of the problems. Just doing what you do is enough. Writing. Giving us a place to vent our fears and frustrations. That’s a lot. YOU brought us all together. That is huge. We can help each other.

    The most valuable thing I learned from my years of chronic pain, which led to isolation and poverty, is that bad times sharpen your problem-solving skills. That’s what made us humans survive major times of adversity. It will end. More shit will happen and we will get through that too. I was convinced I would succumb during my pain years. But I am here and getting stronger. We can get through this — especially because we are not alone.

    In the meantime, check out the Return of the Dolphins to Venice. The water in the canals is CLEAN and teaming with fish for the first time in… forever. There are lots of videos to marvel at online. And Top Chef was pretty damned good too.

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    • Joanna says

      March 20, 2020 at 8:33 am

      I feel this so hard. I deal with chronic pain every day. Which is why I’m awake at this ungodly time. It’s the worst thing when all you have is time to lie around to think about how miserable you feel. Thank you for your comment. It’s nice to remember I’m not alone.

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    • Katherine 2.0 says

      March 20, 2020 at 8:58 am

      Wow, thanks for the tip about the dolphins.
      Good advice, TT. You don’t have to be the strong unbreakable leader. We’re all in this together and this community will support you, no matter where your head is on a given day.
      So many ways to contribute, too, in your local community. That gives us purpose and helps ease the strain.

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    • KathyD says

      March 20, 2020 at 3:46 pm

      Thanks. I needed to see that.

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  5. tuatha12 says

    March 20, 2020 at 6:52 am

    Get some sleep and then give me a great recipe for Fried Green Tomatoes please.

    Our reality has changed in a very short time scale and we are all slowly get our heads round this situation and it is damn hard as we (you) cannot take responsibilty for other peoples actions.

    As Nanette says there are little miracles happening especially with Mother Nature these are the articles we should be focussing on… ignore the news and the newspapers as at the moment they are just causing panic buying and fueling the fire.

    The more people who stay at home the quicker this virus will slow down and we can then take baby steps back to recovery, spring clean, learn a new language, do free courses on Open University, bake a cake, phone a friend every day if they are on their own to say HELLO.

    My local restaurant gave away 500 eggs yesterday to single mothers so the kids could bake, she delivered them to their front door and rang the doorbell,

    I am in Day 6 of lockdown in Spain and every day I am amazed by my community so I have chosen to focus on them as they are focusing on me. Tamara you are part of our community.

    On the 21st and 22nd of March all the musicians on the Costa De Sol are giving a concert on Facebook and we will then donate some pennies so they can feed themselves or we can donate to an animal charity of their choice.

    I am off to watch Top Chef on Catch Up TV

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  6. BeetsWhy says

    March 20, 2020 at 6:54 am

    Please take care of yourself! If that means a sominex and a Xanax to get some decent sleep then do it. We aren’t going anywhere. 😘

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    • Shari says

      March 20, 2020 at 9:58 am

      As a former Holocaust educator, who still reads extensively about this, I remind myself that yes, while these are scary times, this is NOT the Warsaw ghetto. We’re not starving to death. They’re not shooting or beating us to death and they’re not planning to ship us off to Treblinka to gas us. We will weather this. We will weather this by paying attention to medical authorities, by finding safe ways to occupy ourselves and by, if we are not currently working, taking time to work on ourselves. Read more, sleep more, sing more, ride your exercise bike, if you have one. Call and text your friends and relatives. Call people you usually don’t call and check in on them. I just participated in a Zoom committee meeting and a Zoom class. I loved both of them. I didn’t have to drive across town and I saved time and money. I even did my ironing during the Zoom meeting! And yes, it’s time to do those projects around the house that we’ve all been putting off because we say we don’t have time. Hang in there! Eventually, this will end.

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      • KathyD says

        March 20, 2020 at 7:45 pm

        Thanks, needed to see that, too. My father in law was part of the Kindertransport. The Nazis marred 3 gen of his family. And of course, most disappeared. You are right. We will weather this

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  7. Swannie says

    March 20, 2020 at 7:05 am

    I am the same. Can not sleep. You are not alone in this. I live in WA State. I am careful and really wish our beloved and cherished folks that I kindly (and with much love always) refer to as elders, would please let us take care of you. I have found that my beloveds over a certain age are worse than teens. They won’t stay in

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    • Erica says

      March 20, 2020 at 12:56 pm

      Part of the reason why I left my condo and moved in with my parents for the duration. I’m their IT person both at work and home; they would have never ordered groceries online (just placed an order for some more fresh veggies. Trying to stick to the Lentil Season promise to continue to follow my WW plan. Thank GOODNESS WW lets me drink alcohol). My dad wanted to do the major grocery shopping himself. He’s being very good at sterilization protocols, so a quick run in and out I wouldn’t worry about… but what we ordered would take him an hour. Too long in my opinion.

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      • KathyD says

        March 20, 2020 at 7:47 pm

        Thank you for doing that. We did a quick grocery run and the disinfectants in the store made me feel as if I was nerve gassed.

        Those with sensitivities and allergies must be aware.

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    • tuatha12 says

      March 21, 2020 at 12:11 pm

      @Swannie OMG: you are spot on.

      5 days of Lockdown and the elderly still going out about to meet their daily cohoorts for morning coffee and churros,the Gibraltar Minister brought in a new law, if they are out and about they will get a £25 fine.

      They are feeling rather indignant and argue the point, accept it and then and want to hug you. Sad times indeed.

      My husband is a key service worker in Gibraltar Health Care and has had a busy week he phoned his Dad in the UK to check on him before he went to bed ( Long shift not seen him for 3 days) great phone call until my father-in-law mentioned he had been out and about looking for a battery for his car which he does not drive.

      Emotions got a little heated, a few tears mainly my husband due to fatigue.

      My husband is now dealing with the reality he is the parent and they are the children.

      We may have to bring in a naughty step for father-in-law No more winters in sunny Spain later this year when things are better.

      I am now a little scared as I know my father- in-law he will want to get involved with his community and ignore his age.

      I have the option to get back to the UK ( 48 hrs only ) and lock them in however I also have the fear I could do more damage by leaving, so I have to suck it up and I am introducing him to the joys of Skype. It was a difficult choice and kept me awake all last night.

      Hope the Spanish – Malaga- Spanish Legion Youtube video did not freak out as much as it did me!!!

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  8. tuatha12 says

    March 20, 2020 at 7:20 am

    A little bit of fun,

    The Legion and BRIPAC (Paratrooper Brigade), are considered quintessential elite units in the Spanish Army and they arrived yesterday.

    If you go on Youtube and enter MALAGA – soldiers – Spanish Legion you can view them from 2014

    What do you think, should I be annoyed I cannot see them as in Lock Down. LOL

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    • Swannie says

      March 20, 2020 at 7:30 am

      Oh interesting, looking now. A little bit of fun and distraction is helpful to me.

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  9. Swannie says

    March 20, 2020 at 7:23 am

    Oh and part of me wants to say that I would send out a hug, yet the bigger part me of me wants to snark. I’m not a hugger (yes I’ll go into childhood issues in depth at any time) so why has the concept of social distancing left me somewhat pleased (given I’m not a hugger)? But have found myself to be mostly sad at the social distancing, I will plan on getting unfat during this time. That really means that I will go for a walk, maybe laugh or sneeze, and claim I have ab muscles showing.

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    • Prycer says

      March 20, 2020 at 10:59 pm

      I’m not a hugger either. I had a friend who would get mad every time I wouldn’t hug her. I told her that she has known me for 20 years and she should get over it by now. Mine is also a childhood issue, so I get it.

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      • Swannie says

        March 21, 2020 at 6:30 am

        My discomfort is childhood issue related as well. Plus when I know I must be strong and have a meltdown in private, I just can’t accept a hug. My brother in law is terrified of hugging me after he saw my wrath at a very vulnerable time when my Dad was in hospice. BIL gets me now, as I explained later and hug him always now to freak him out a little. So. Yeah. Another night of not sleeping. Where is TT? Hope all is well with everyone. Thank you for helping me get through navigating this.

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  10. JustJenn says

    March 20, 2020 at 7:28 am

    Love you, TT. I’m so happy you have built such a nice little community for all of us. Also Hallmark is having a three day Christmas movie marathon starting tomorrow and I know those always cheer you up 🙂

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  11. Joanna says

    March 20, 2020 at 8:10 am

    If I may (you don’t know me, but I feel like I know you), I think we all feel very protective of our fearless leader. Even if she isn’t always fearless. We all care and are here for you anytime. This is such a scary and unpredictable time and you do help just by doing what you do. Anything over and beyond just shows how good of a person you are

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    • Joanna says

      March 20, 2020 at 8:29 am

      And for the record, I totally feel you. I live alone (with my teenage daughter) so I spend a lot of time alone or with my dogs… and Carrie Bradshaw, my asshole cat. It is scary. And I have a horrible sleep schedule because of medical issues, so I get it. We are experiencing a lot of the same things. You are not alone!

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  12. ZenTrying says

    March 20, 2020 at 8:23 am

    These are unprecedented times Tamara, it’s normal to be a bit scared.
    Just don’t let it control you. Get your sleep, eat right and try to exercise daily.
    Also, Hallmark channel is bring back their Christmas movies, put on your reindeer pjs and relax some.
    Remember, we’re all in this together! xoxo

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  13. tuatha12 says

    March 20, 2020 at 8:59 am

    Tom Hanks survived 4 years on an island in Castaway.

    He spent a year in an airport without being able to leave.

    Caught aids in Philadelphia.

    He was in WW11 and rescued Private Ryan;

    He went to Vietnam and rescued Lieutentant Dan

    He was on a boat kidnapped by Somali Pirates

    Survived Apollo 13 trying to reach the moon.

    Landed a Boeing on the Hudson River

    Self Quarantined and will survive the Corona Virus.

    We will all get through this at this moment being a little scared is the norm,

    Love to all from rainy Spain xx

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    • 1sttimer says

      March 20, 2020 at 10:29 am

      Love this:)

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    • Joanna says

      March 20, 2020 at 10:40 am

      I love this so much. Tom Hanks is my absolute favorite actor. Thanks for adding a little bit of levity to the situation. I hope you’re enjoying your rainy Spain day!

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    • Aimee says

      March 20, 2020 at 12:01 pm

      That cheered me up. I will probably steal it from you if you don’t mind?

      TT-it’s okay to feel this way. You are not alone in general or alone in this feeling. Take care of yourself and pace yourself-this will be a marathon, not a sprint as they say. Know that by just having this community, you are helping people to cope with this worldwide problem.

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      • tuatha12 says

        March 20, 2020 at 12:18 pm

        Please do I stole it from my sister.

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        • niamh says

          March 20, 2020 at 5:46 pm

          Dear Tuatha, your a breath of fresh air…. you seem to have come from nowhere on TT, now your a legend! My sister is 20 years living in Madrid & I’ve gained more knowledge from you about the situation in Spain.

          I’m Irish, living in Dublin, married, two kids & terrified.. I keep thinking I’m going to wake up & this has all been a bad dream. I’ve only ever had postnatal depression 16 years ago, at the moment I’m going very much downhill.. Thanks for being so vocal in the last few days, keep safe, Niamh x (love to TT& Banjo/ & JoFLL)

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    • Swannie says

      March 21, 2020 at 6:39 am

      I am inspired to rewatch these Tom Hanks movies. The best timing as I have not found many movies to watch lately.

      Oh wow, did we know before that Vida was a makeup artist? Vida from Shahs. Sorry I have ADHD as well as other issues. But I never even thought about what sort of career or life Vida has other than what we have seen on the show.

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  14. Kerry says

    March 20, 2020 at 9:04 am

    TT- I have told you before your site has been the ray of sunshine on some of my darkest days. I’m just throwing it out there but if you’re having troubling sleeping, reach out to me, if you need a distraction, reach out to me at any time. I’m not much of an emailer or texter. I would much rather talk on the phone. I also listen quite well. Who knows maybe I would bore the heck out of you but at least you would get some sleep. Of course I don’t expect a call, so what I’m trying to say is we love you and want to be there for you in anyway we can.

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  15. RubyLuby says

    March 20, 2020 at 9:16 am

    Thank you for being here Tamara. I look forward every morning to getting online to see what is up with you and your peeps. I find if I stay away from most of the news I have a better day. I have no family and my biggest concern is that if I have to go to the hospital who will take care of my two dogs. Our area is virus free (so far) from any cases so fingers crossed it can remain that way.

    On another note, I bought from CBDMD after hearing about it here. I rec’d an email that for the next 30 days they are sending out any size order for zero shipping. Just thought I would pass that on to anyone interested.

    Take care and take time for yourself.

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  16. lorelli says

    March 20, 2020 at 9:17 am

    Someday we will be sitting around our local pub reminiscing about these times with our friends. I feel bad for my 83 year old mother, cancer patient, stuck at home with only her dog for comfort. I work for a large municipality and have been working from home but had to come into the office today. I’m cranking my radio up because it’s so quiet. Keep safe everyone!!!

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  17. 4paz says

    March 20, 2020 at 9:22 am

    Goodness bless us all. TT needs some sleep. Yes, sleep is the best medicine sometimes.

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  18. JoJoFLL says

    March 20, 2020 at 9:49 am

    Girl, we are all here for you!

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  19. Bubbles says

    March 20, 2020 at 9:55 am

    This is kind of worrysome. Is there someone you can talk to?

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    • sliceo'pie says

      March 20, 2020 at 11:18 am

      It’s sure it’s ok It’s good for us ALL to express our anxiety-we’re all keeping it inside and most everyone I know is drinking or smoking a lot of weed. ‘ It’s scary times.
      Hang in there everyone and self isolate!

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  20. Ingrid says

    March 20, 2020 at 10:43 am

    I love this community here, we are all here for you Tamara, all stuck in our houses. As an introvert I am not disappointed by this and hope my house will be clean and organized by the time this is over. I am looking on this as an opportunity that so few of us have, we need to take advantage. We can throw out a dumb subject every day and all hash on it, we can send pictures to your email and FB, I have a ton of stupid cat pictures to cheer you up. You know how to reach us, we are only a click away.

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  21. sliceo'pie says

    March 20, 2020 at 11:06 am

    We are ALL afraid and we are GRATEFUL you provide a place where we can escape for a while. Please don’t feel pressured to entertain us. I ran out and made sure I had a few months supply of weed to get me through this! It all happened so fast and there are so many unknowns. This is everything people who live with heightened anxiety dream about and dread. We were all waiting for a terrorist attack or something to happen with The Russians/North Korea yada yada and then we’re felled by atiny germ no one can see. WTF? I gotta say, I’m more prepared than the average Joe. My avoidant personality disorder has finally served me well! I can stay inside for WEEKS at a time. I got this down. I just need to stop buying and obsessively eating chocolate.

    Also, don’t feel embarrassed when you wake up and see the posts, Nobody gives a shit! We’ve ALL been there. You had a hard night girl. I just went through a horrific divorce for 3 yrs 4 months in the midst of menopuase and I’d wander around my bedroom at night in circles, crying and worrying.
    We will get through this but let’s all do it together. Cheers, Be safe and well.

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  22. Ashley says

    March 20, 2020 at 11:30 am

    We are all in this together. CA is now on lockdown. I hope things get better soon. I have been mediation lately which helps me. I also have been taking walks in the morning. Hope this helps.

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  23. Bosandi says

    March 20, 2020 at 11:33 am

    I’ve been with you from the beginning Tamara and I’m not leaving you now. We’re all in this together.
    Luckily I have this amazing unhealthy ability to compartmentalize. I’m packing my anxiety away for now. I’ll open the anxiety drawer later when I’m ready to deal with them. In the meantime, I’m working and keeping busy. I’m going to start my yoga routine again if I can’t get outside to cycle. I’m also minimizing my contact with people and relatives (especially them) who believe anything they read on social media. Everyone seems to have a close friend who works for the government. I don’t need their shit leaking on me!! I prefer to think for myself. That’s why I love the practicality and wisdom shared on this site. Take care everyone.

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  24. Gigi says

    March 20, 2020 at 12:15 pm

    John 14:27

    Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

    Seriously. Say this out loud because…

    1 John 4:4

    Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.

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  25. LA_in_KY says

    March 20, 2020 at 1:06 pm

    Hey, we can all talk amongst ourselves. Take a break from media and the Internet. We will all still be here!

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  26. Erica says

    March 20, 2020 at 1:06 pm

    Animal Planet is doing marathon of their show “Too Cute”… half hour show where they show 3 litters of puppies or kittens, and follow them until they go to their forever families (and like the finale episode of HW, give us an update).

    Except now I want all the puppies and kitties!

    When I’ve been a little anxious at night, I’ve been doing some making tea from loose leaf herbal Chamomile blend. I think the ritual of it, waiting for the water to boil, then timing the tea, pouring it into a mug I made… trying to only focus on what I am doing and emptying out my thoughts.

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  27. PJ says

    March 20, 2020 at 4:21 pm

    Hang in there. There’s hope.last night local new the u university of Minnesota is looking for 1500 people who are exposed to test to different drugs thAt are already make for other viruses.

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  28. Pj says

    March 20, 2020 at 4:23 pm

    How can I change it so my full name first show when I post

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    • tamaratattles says

      March 20, 2020 at 4:41 pm

      I got you fixed, PJ and if there are further instances just email me at tamaratattles on the gmail. xo

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      • Laila says

        March 21, 2020 at 8:35 pm

        I’m having the same issue. I have to type my username every time i post. Is this new?

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        • tamaratattles says

          March 22, 2020 at 2:25 pm

          I haven’t made any changes… There are a LOT of idiots in China trying to attack the site for some reason. But other than that nothing out of the ordinary.

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  29. Something Clever says

    March 20, 2020 at 4:38 pm

    TT, we need your posts about televised inanity more than ever!

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  30. Cho says

    March 20, 2020 at 4:51 pm

    Take a deep breath. Limit your consumption of the fear-mongering media.

    You’ll be fine. And if we’re all going to die, there’s not anything you can do about it anyway, so indulge in peace-making activities while you can! haha

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  31. niamh says

    March 20, 2020 at 6:01 pm

    @JasperCarrot, hope your ok love, I was telling my husband about you today but I can’t find anything you’ve posted in the last 24+ hours, prayers aren’t enough just go by the guide lines, praying anyway! let us know if your managing , love Niamh x

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  32. LA_in_KY says

    March 20, 2020 at 6:31 pm

    It’s really nice and enjoyable to come here and read about how other people around the country and around the world are dealing with this all this craziness. It is not only interesting, but really informative and eye-opening. I feel really grateful for what I have and the situation my family is in, which is job security. I hope everyone else here is able to find what they need. And is feeling healthy! Thanks for providing this website for people around the world to connect. That’s a pretty big deal.

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  33. Toddy says

    March 20, 2020 at 6:42 pm

    Hey, girl. We will get through all this together. Jesus will forgive me for enjoying some dark chocolate and wine during Lentil if I need it. My daddy passed away a few wks ago and though I’m grieving, I am thankful we were able to be at his side in the hospital and have a proper wake/funeral. Had he fallen ill this week, our large family wouldn’t have been permitted at the hospital. And social distancing just wouldn’t have worked. Positive thoughts. Also I am planning my flowerbeds which lifts my spirits! Y’all turn off the news for a little and do something that brings you joy.

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    • LA_in_KY says

      March 20, 2020 at 8:16 pm

      I’m glad you and your family were able to spend with your dad before passed. And that you all were able to be together after to have a funeral. I worry about anyone that is hospitalized or unfortunately passes away and can’t have family close by. I have an uncle in another state in ICU and my family is going crazy not being able to see him.

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      • Toddy says

        March 20, 2020 at 10:50 pm

        Thank you, LA_in_KY. We take so much for granted when life is “normal.” Hope your family gets some measure of peace, that’s a hard situation.

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  34. housewifehater says

    March 20, 2020 at 8:56 pm

    Oh TT I didn’t realize that you are struggling so hard there lady. I missed my afternoon nap this afternoon, which is NEVER a good thing. Just too wired from everything. So I can imagine your stress at trying to keep this all together when you are not feeling well. Please take good care of yourself, we need you!

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    • Swannie says

      March 21, 2020 at 6:49 am

      Dorinda? Is that you.

      Wait. Maybe first I should ask if you put on PJs and have an “under the covers nap” lol I laugh whenever Dorinda has her cowlick sticking up. I think “oh she had her nap right before the scene” as I can relate to cowlicks. I have a triple that really sticks up when I’m in a bad mood. No joke.

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  35. Laila says

    March 20, 2020 at 10:48 pm

    Life has change so quickly for all of us. Everyone don’t panic, relax and don’t let your mind think the worst.

    I know it’s easier said than done. This is something new that we are all going through.

    Tamara, Banjo and everyone here. Love you all. <3

    Tamara, you are not alone, you have us all here with you!

    TT is responsible for bringing our little community together. I am so grateful for that!

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    • Teresa S says

      March 21, 2020 at 2:20 am

      Amen. Very grateful.

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  36. Prycer says

    March 20, 2020 at 11:11 pm

    I had quit smoking pot last November due to drug testing. Well I haven’t been drugged tested yet so I decided why not partake. This is the perfect time to do it. I busted out the edibles and have partaking since last Saturday. For me it’s a good distraction. Thank god I have enough edibles and weed to last me a while.

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  37. catazure says

    March 21, 2020 at 1:06 am

    Ok, honies – it is the LENTEN season, not LENTIL. Although that makes a great soup. Be well, Tamara. In Florida, our beaches, bars and restaurants have been closed. This will cause major $$ suffering among the workers in the tourist industry. As for me, I am getting my spring flowers and herbs in place. I am self-isolating with the Husband and my cats and hoping my office closes on Monday – been on home vacation this week.

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    • Toddy says

      March 21, 2020 at 6:39 am

      We know it’s really Lenten; aren’t you in Tamara’s Lentel (better health habits) group? Search for the post😊

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  38. Carson says

    March 21, 2020 at 3:55 am

    Can I just say, I am also scared?

    I live in CA and we’ve been on lockdown for almost a week now. Every grocery store has shortages because people are hoarding. I haven’t been able to buy toilet paper, alcohol wipes, or any kind of sanitizing agent for at least 3 weeks. Our grocery stores are opening at 6am and closing at 10pm. Today I had to grocery shop and they were out of meat, chicken, frozen veggies and fruits, bread, pasta, beans, all the aforementioned sanitizing agents…and this was before 8am!! Lines at Costco are snaking around the building. Online shopping is also frustrating; NO ONE has toilet paper or alcohol wipes.

    I feel like a rabbit running from store to store when someone mentions that this or that place had toilet paper or Chlorox wipes…only to get there and find they’ve run out yet again.

    I am the only driver for my 80-something mom, who is supposed to stay home because her age makes her high risk. I keep wondering what will happen to her if I get sick? We are only a household of two so if I get it, I don’t see how I can prevent her from catching it. My trip to the store amongst all those people only amplified my fears. All I could think about was who had touched what before me.

    I’m sorry to vent but… I’m scared, too. 😔

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    • Toddy says

      March 21, 2020 at 6:43 am

      Bless you. My state is not on lockdown but people are hoarding the toilet paper and Lysol. My sister is my 86 yr old mom’s caregiver/companion, so I’m praying they both stay well. I live a couple of hours away from them and we are just talking on the phone and FaceTiming. Take care of yourself.

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    • Swannie says

      March 21, 2020 at 7:08 am

      I don’t understand the hoarding, which is so different from “stocking up”. Just selfish.

      The stores are limiting what a customer can purchase at a time here. But I had to make sure I got to the store early the other day to make sure we had ONE package of double rolls on hand. I get worrying about doing without but…..just seems excessive to me. Meanwhile, I have been researching what to do when no TP is available. I’m old. It has been a while since I ran into a no TP issue. But I trust that I’ll figure it out it.

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      • Toddy says

        March 21, 2020 at 3:02 pm

        I agree, it is definitely selfish. They have just started putting limits on items. After striking out at two stores for TP yesterday, I scored a pack at 8am this morning and was euphoric😏

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    • Joanna says

      March 21, 2020 at 7:16 am

      Hey Carson, I’m also in California but I was really lucky to have stocked up on almost everything before things got crazy. Don’t yell at me, I’m not a hoarder! But I do live with just my daughter so we don’t go through much quickly. I’m sure we’re in different parts of the state, but truly truly if you are in need of anything I can help with, I will ship you some necessities. Obviously I can’t really help with the perishables, but toilet paper, sanitizing wipes, canned goods, if you need it and I have it or can get it, please don’t hesitate to reach out. Like Troy Bolton said “we’re all in this together!” Good Gawd I need to get out of this house. It really is insane out there and people are being so inconsiderate. I can’t stress how serious I am. Please let me help if I’m able to.

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    • Prycer says

      March 21, 2020 at 8:06 pm

      If you are in the LA area I can tell you some places to check for meat. Also I was told that the Dollar Stores and General Store have toilet paper. I had several friends that were able to find it there. I finally found meat today for my mother (chicken and turkey). They are limiting the amount that you can buy (only 2 of the same things). Good luck to you.

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  39. Joanna says

    March 21, 2020 at 7:08 am

    Hey ya’ll, I can’t get Tamara out of my mind. I know none of you know me, but I honestly feel like I know some of you because I’ve been reading for years. I was just thinking… at 4:00am… that when all of this settles down a bit, I would love to do something nice and relaxing for her. She’s so worried about everybody else right now and she’s clearly having a difficult time herself. Maybe those of you who are close with TT could give a few suggestions when they get a chance? I’m not sure what she’s into besides gardening and traveling. Im thinking of some sort of gift basket with her favorite wine and maybe a gift card for a massage or something if she’s into it, things like that? I’m happy to give my number or email if you’ve got any suggestions along the way and if anybody is interested in joining me, I’m happy for it to be something from her readers as a whole. Even if you aren’t able to contribute (I know I can’t do much until things get back to normal so we have some time) but you’re thinking about her also, I’m more than happy to add your name. Thanks in advance, guys. I hope you’re all staying safe and comfortable.

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    • Swannie says

      March 21, 2020 at 7:16 am

      That is so thoughtful. I’m in.

      I, too, hope everyone is comfortable at this uncomfortable time. We need each as support! The humor and great snark from you All helps me so much. My mind needs it.

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      • Joanna says

        March 21, 2020 at 7:25 am

        Thanks Swannie! I will be in touch but if you have any suggestions, my name is Joanna Hunsaker. Maybe contacting me on social media might be the easiest way? Whatever works is just fine with me. I was also thinking of throwing some of her cbd gummies in there, things like that. Doesn’t have to be super expensive. I think it would be such a thoughtful gesture if a few people wanted to each get one thing (like the wine or the gummies, maybe some gardening supplies) and I can get the rest. We’ll see. I’m just thinking out loud here. We’ll get it figured out. But thanks for wanting in!

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    • housewifehater says

      March 21, 2020 at 12:12 pm

      I’m down for this if it is something that goes directly to TT like her paypal or her amazon account if she has one, or somehow goes directly to TT. Or her local garden shop or wherever she gets her gardening stuff. TT always inspires me with her gardening, maybe something we could all order and do in our own gardens too?

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      • Joanna says

        March 21, 2020 at 12:18 pm

        I hadn’t really thought through all the details, but whatever everyone is comfortable with is just fine! And it absolutely doesn’t have to go through me. I just know we all care and I think she would really appreciate the gesture more than anything else. I’m a single mother currently under isolation so I know I’m going to need to wait a little bit before I can’t start spending on extra things again. But I realize that people will be out of work much longer than I will, and if they want to be a part of this bug can’t afford it, I want everyone to have a place where they can go privately and mention it to just one person. If that’s me, all good. Nobody else needs to know who contributed financially and who didn’t because this truly is all about the thought. So really, whatever you’re comfortable with! I’m happy to coordinate with someone if they might live near her also. That would probably be easier if anyone happens to live in Atlanta

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        • tamaratattles says

          March 21, 2020 at 12:22 pm

          I am good. Why not try growing a tomato plant at your place so we can talk about tomatoes

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      • Joanna says

        March 21, 2020 at 12:23 pm

        I do think if nobody lives near her that the idea setting up a certain amount at her gardening store or like I said if she’s into the whole spa thing could be more manageable. But I don’t know, I kind of like the idea of her receiving something like the basket I was talking about even if it’s in addition to the store idea. Maybe we could send the basket to the salon or store so she doesn’t have to trust anyone with her address. Again, I’m just thinking out loud and I’m totally up for suggestions.

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    • tamaratattles says

      March 21, 2020 at 12:20 pm

      Y’all are too sweet. But I just had a few drama queen moments. I’m all good I got a lot of sleep last night! No nightmares just anxiety free sleep. I have everything I need here. All I need is for y’all to keep coming to the site. 🙂

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      • Joanna says

        March 21, 2020 at 12:25 pm

        You’re allowed to have those moments. We all have those moments. But this isn’t something we want to do because we pity you. We want to do something to let you know how loved and appreciated you are. So just stop it and pretend to be surprised!

        I’m really glad you’re feeling better.

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