Okay, I have been trying to get around to this 90 Day Fiancé recap for a while. I had so many recordings I think I deleted the most recent one. I am watching something on demand now. But I feel like I have missed a lot so I am going y’all to fill me in on things. They have a two hour show, hour shows, Pillow Talk shows, preview shows and I don’t really know where we are at. I have seen things up to Geoffrey arriving in Russia and Ed arriving at the airport in the Philippines for two seconds. I am all in on this season, but rather than a recap this week, I got all caught up and spent several hours reading posts about Geoffrey Pashel. This is what I have put together. Most of it comes from Starcasm. Please click their links below.
I just realized that my friends at Starcasm have done an investigation of Geoffrey Pashel. They are by far the best site for information on this guy. The People story I was reading cited Starcasm and then got all their facts wrong. Anyway, I am now going to go through what I had and update and/or change it based on what I am about to read.
Geoffrey Paschal has a slew of ex girlfriends and three and a half ex wives. The four wife is not an ex yet, the divorce is not finalized. I believe on the show he only admits to two ex wives. They all are claiming he is physically abusive. He has one or more children with each of the wives and some of the girlfriends.
Wife #4 Brittany is still married to Geoffrey Pashel.
This is complicated. Geoffrey and Brittany met at an airport in Charlotte, North Carolina in January of 2014. Geoffrey was 36 and Brittany was 19. She is a dual citizen of Canada and Jamaica who lived in Ontario. She moved to the US illegally to live with Geoffrey in March of 2014. He got her pregnant right away and married her the following January of 2015. She had a child three weeks later in Costa Rica, a son named Cayvan. Two years later, in February of 2017 they had another son, Kazhem in Nicaragua.
Here things get foggy, It seems she tried to smuggle the baby into Canada at some point. Eventually, she went back to Tennessee where Geoffrey lives. She was able to flee to the Canadian border with both boys and turn herself in to the US border patrol as an illegal alien. Then, she crossed into Canada with the boys. That was July 2017. She filed for divorce in August 2017. Because of her illegal residency she was banned from the US for 20 years.
Canadian and American courts both ruled that the kids must be returned to Geoffrey Pashel in Tennessee in December of 2017.. He was also granted a restraining order. Their youngest son Kazhem died in Tennessee in March of 2018. He was 13 months old. Apparently, he suffered seizures from some unknown cause and died in the hospital several days later. According to the court documents, Brittany wanted cremation “so that both parents could have part of the child to have in their country.” Geoffrey would end up winning that legal battle and Kazhem’s body was buried in Knoxville. More on Starcasm here.
Wife Number Two
According to this report by Starcasm, Geoffrey Pashel married Wife #2 in April of 1998. They had two boys, One born in January of 1999 and one born in November of 2000. Making them 19 and 21 years old. That seems a bit older than the ones we saw taking him to the airport. So they must be the boys from wife number three. Geoffrey Pashel filed for divorce from Wife Number Two in November of 2004. He claimed irreconcilable differences” claimed Wife Number Two was “guilty of inappropriate marital conduct.”
Things got very nasty. Geoffrey Pashel claimed that Wife Number Two was arrested because she left the five year old in the car when she went inside a house with the three year old. Someone magically called the cops. Wife Number two claims that had the five year old in her line of sight the entire time. Wife Number Two was arrested and charged with child abuse and neglect as well as drug possession.
In her countersuit Wife Number Two enumerated numerous instances of extreme physical assault where the children attempted to defend her by biting and hitting their father. She also mentioned multiple times he threatened to kill her. Once by chocking, once threatening to kill her and then himself with a shotgun, once holding a knife to her throat, and threatening to hire someone to kill her. She was granted a protective order. She also claimed that he raped her on several occaisions.
Geoffrey and Stephanie’s divorce was finalized on June 24, 2005, with Geoffrey receiving primary custody of the two boys. Are you fucking kidding me? They were granted mutual restraining orders. They could only interact during their children’s therapy. GEE. I wonder why they needed therapy?
The Latest Girlfriend
Also, he is going to court at the end of this month to defend himself regarding charges from his ex-girlfriend who he was living with until he attacked her in June of 2019. He is set to return to court on the criminal case March 26. He claimed to reporters that this was all a lie meant to influence his numerous upcoming custody cases. Clearly, he was still technically married at the time he assaulted the girlfriend. Also Cayvan, now approximately four years old, was apparently living with them at the time she was assaulted. It is unclear if he was in the home or with his mother in Canada for her monthly week of visitation.
The charges include domestic assault, interference with emergency calls, vandalism, and aggravated kidnapping from the incident last June. The victim statement reads in part, “He repeatedly bashed/slammed my head into the hardwood floors of my home. He dragged me through the house by my hair and continued throwing my body into walls and furniture. I know this because of blood on my walls, furniture, etc.” CIick here for full report on Starcasm. It was the FIFTH time he had assaulted her in their relationship that was barely nine months in duration.
The Fourth Wife Gets More Custody
Fourth wife, Brittany, had custody of Cayvan one week a month in Canada. Her mother would have to fly down and pick him up. After the 2019 incident, Brittany was granted temporary full custody with Geoffrey having a week visitation every month. He appeared to be flying Cayvan down for his weeks right up until leaving for filming and continued to do so when he returned from Russia.
Geoffrey Pashel’s Prior Criminal Behavior
But wait, there’s more! Geoffrey Pashel also has a record. He even mentioned on the show that he served 30 months in prison for drug dealing. Many if not all of Pashel’s four ex-wives have accused him of domestic violence, and one has accused him of rape. One of his exes who he has a child with accused him of using his children as a drug mules in a written statement requesting a protective order in 2018, according to multiple sources. He claims that he knew this would all come out during his appearance on the show. Again, Starcasm is the go to site for all the tea, they have done a lot of investigating on this very complex situation. Frankly, I am not sure this post even makes since after trying to combine everything into some sort of order.
But wait! THERE IS EVEN MORE! He is an bit part actor. This appears to be ” Geoffrey Pashel’s” IMDb resumé. All of the roles are in movies or series about murderers. It’s so disturbing I wonder if it is a fake. Click here for that disturbing resumé.
In other creepy news, one of his female friends in Knoxville is bummed that he won’t date her. I guess she has learned a lot since filming ended and the show premiered. Or maybe she’s about to be wife number five or six?
Holy F*ck Balls. I really liked his 2 sons that we’ve seen on the show. Both seem intelligent and level headed. TT did you see the scene where Varyas friends expressed concern about her going to meet Geoffrey alone. Can you imagine what they think now with all this information coming out??????
Now I’m questioning my recent decision to sign up for EHarmony. Maybe I’m just better off single
Love is a many splendid thang
No to the Dumb and Dumber haircut..
This man is vile. Disgusting. I don’t understand why they have not edited him out of the show. I hope that his story is not prominent. He is really gross and him just being on my tv makes me feel ill. Ugh. Sadly, the girl that he is with on the show seems decent. Poor girl.
I have a problem with them both. The girl seems to be in it for the money and to get to the US.
I had read some articles in the past about people on MAFS from other countries who had sketchy pasts and shouldn’t have been on the show. This is the first time I’ve heard of a person like this on 90 DF. There was roland, but his crimes weren’t violent. And Tiffany knew about them. I enjoy reality tv but it seems like producers are cutting more and more corners just to what, get attractive people on? To move forward with production schedules? And what I’ve read about, sorry can’t remember her name, the black woman with the dead convict husband, is disturbing. Every scene I’ve watched with her seemed phony. Once I found out how fake American Pickers is, I quit watching. I’m praying the same thing doesn’t happen with the 90 Day shows.
There’s been others who have had legal problems with child support, past arrests etc. He’s way worse than anyone before but, he’s not their first. It’s just not really been discussed on the show other than Ronald.
Um this isn’t about CHILD SUPPORT or some past criminal record. This is about beating the holy shit out of everyone he has been with in the past and threatening to kill at least one of them on multiple occasions. OH AND HE IS MARRIED! There are about fifty things that disqualify him for this show. Thus the public outcry and petitions.
Oh I totally agree. I even signed the petition. I was just saying he’s not the first person on tlc with legal issues. And like I said he’s way worse. I should work on making my writing more clear, especially when commenting on sensitive topics. Just for clarity he is a horrible disgusting excuse for a human being who should never be on tv (except maybe for his arrest) and I cringe at the sight of him.
Very creepy guy! Dangerous. Supposedly he has rental properties so i did a search on Knoxville appraisal district – property. Nothing in his name. Strange.
I was suspicious that he never said his business name on the show. Who wouldn’t try to gain free publicity using their platform?? And he has never posted his business name on ANY of his many social media sites either. I used this website to check appraisals as well ( http://iswdataclient.azurewebsites.net/webSearchName.aspx?dbkey=knoxcad ) and nothing came up under his name. I’m gonna try Facebook next because this is such a weird thing to lie about.
TT has commented on how MAFS now gets most of people off the internet/instagram. And it shows. The lack of chemistry and douche nozzles on the show make it much less enjoyable to watch. Now I just read TTs recaps
Wow, this guy has creepy vibes.
I thought he was gay and just using women to have kids. Breed and leave.
Nope more to this onion, cant wait to tell the husband this hot tea while we watch the loser tonight.
Thank you TT
Off topic. Am I the only one who didn’t know Darcy has 2 teenage daughters?????? Mind blown
Maybe… She had them and Jesse in an Airbnb together at the end of their relationship. The girls were the most mature people in the room. By far.
Speaking of Darcy, I am completely freaked out by how she and her sister both have their lips puffed up in the same way. Do they go to the plastic surgeon together so they keep looking like twins? Even more off-topic, if Lala Kent isn’t careful, she’s going to end up looking like them. Something really off with her face & make-up this season.
The guy in Australia who’s a ‘relationship coach’ has crazy eyes. I find him to be very frightening.
I feel like they film some of these “tell the family” scenes over for continuity, after the fact, The whole “he knows exactly what to say because he is a relationship coach” seems to be the obvious storyline. Just like the interviews with the abusive guy’s friends and her herself talking about not being alone with him right away. They are often alone right away on this show, It’s like producers stopped it and told her to ask lots of questions about his past, It seems like he told producers some of it.
I am still not over the mysterious baby death.
I thought about that too. Seizures, from shaken baby syndrome maybe? If it weren’t for his history of violence, we wouldn’t be so suspicious.
Australian guy Ash has a thyroid issue or Graves disease from what I’ve read. I believe by relationship coach he means male escort, not very sure tho it’s just a thought with those 60 something messages from mostly all women that Avery saw on his phone last episode.
He is kinda cute though.
That’s the problem. I would have fallen for it.
Oh, good. You can be wife/victim number 5. ?
I saw a documentary on those people who swindle by pretending to be rich. It said that a sociopath will pretend to be a victim and it is disarming because you think you aren’t the victim because they are. You’ll let down your guard to try and help them. I feel like he’s totally got the “poor little old me, just looking for love” thing down. Did he say something about not having relationships work out? Try not beating them! It helps!
He isn’t the first married person on 90 DF. Remember Summit and Jenny? Summit had Jenny move to his country and he was/is married. If these are the people they pick, who do they reject?
It’s a lot easier to check marriage history in the US than it is in India. Come on.
Good point.
He didn’t pass they just thought his foolery was good for tv. Sad!
Sorta off topic, but not way off….. this is a prime example of how effed up the justice system is. Who keeps getting custody of the kids? The abusive guy. Just recently that poor child died in the garage of his house in Long Island because judges have way too much power and are allowed to indulge their own biased opinions.
Advantage was his home town court and attorneys. Read as if Wife #3 with the two young sons had hoped to disappear in Canada.
Yes the death of a healthy 13 month old seems concerning.
I fell for Geoff in the beginning, the more I see him, the more I dislike him. His true colors are coming through vividly. The comb issue was just wrong, he paid absolutely no attention to her feelings, wtf? Throw it away. That very small gesture and his comment “noted ” spoke volumes about him. His anger about her lying toi him…… well he has some nerve…I can’t wait until his lies come out. The sooner, the better. Varya is in serious danger. And I say the sooner the better also because I just can’t stand looking at him.
Okay so I’m a big fan of ID, Investigation Discovery, and have seen a lot of these shows that are listed on his IMDB page. They do use small time actors for those shows because most of those parts are non speaking parts. They have a dramatic sequence and then actual case workers, detectives etc. who worked the case tell you what happened. There are a lot of casting calls for ID shows in the Knoxville, TN area. I just hope that clears this part of what you were confused about. I mean who wouldn’t want to act if given the chance?