Okay, I have been trying to get around to this 90 Day Fiancé recap for a while. I had so many recordings I think I deleted the most recent one. I am watching something on demand now. But I feel like I have missed a lot so I am going y’all to fill me in on things. They have a two hour show, hour shows, Pillow Talk shows, preview shows and I don’t really know where we are at. I have seen things up to Geoffrey arriving in Russia and Ed arriving at the airport in the Philippines for two seconds. I am all in on this season, but rather than a recap this week, I got all caught up and spent several hours reading posts about Geoffrey Pashel. This is what I have put together. Most of it comes from Starcasm. Please click their links below.
I just realized that my friends at Starcasm have done an investigation of Geoffrey Pashel. They are by far the best site for information on this guy. The People story I was reading cited Starcasm and then got all their facts wrong. Anyway, I am now going to go through what I had and update and/or change it based on what I am about to read.
Geoffrey Paschal has a slew of ex girlfriends and three and a half ex wives. The four wife is not an ex yet, the divorce is not finalized. I believe on the show he only admits to two ex wives. They all are claiming he is physically abusive. He has one or more children with each of the wives and some of the girlfriends.
Wife #4 Brittany is still married to Geoffrey Pashel.
This is complicated. Geoffrey and Brittany met at an airport in Charlotte, North Carolina in January of 2014. Geoffrey was 36 and Brittany was 19. She is a dual citizen of Canada and Jamaica who lived in Ontario. She moved to the US illegally to live with Geoffrey in March of 2014. He got her pregnant right away and married her the following January of 2015. She had a child three weeks later in Costa Rica, a son named Cayvan. Two years later, in February of 2017 they had another son, Kazhem in Nicaragua.
Here things get foggy, It seems she tried to smuggle the baby into Canada at some point. Eventually, she went back to Tennessee where Geoffrey lives. She was able to flee to the Canadian border with both boys and turn herself in to the US border patrol as an illegal alien. Then, she crossed into Canada with the boys. That was July 2017. She filed for divorce in August 2017. Because of her illegal residency she was banned from the US for 20 years.
Canadian and American courts both ruled that the kids must be returned to Geoffrey Pashel in Tennessee in December of 2017.. He was also granted a restraining order. Their youngest son Kazhem died in Tennessee in March of 2018. He was 13 months old. Apparently, he suffered seizures from some unknown cause and died in the hospital several days later. According to the court documents, Brittany wanted cremation “so that both parents could have part of the child to have in their country.” Geoffrey would end up winning that legal battle and Kazhem’s body was buried in Knoxville. More on Starcasm here.
Wife Number Two
According to this report by Starcasm, Geoffrey Pashel married Wife #2 in April of 1998. They had two boys, One born in January of 1999 and one born in November of 2000. Making them 19 and 21 years old. That seems a bit older than the ones we saw taking him to the airport. So they must be the boys from wife number three. Geoffrey Pashel filed for divorce from Wife Number Two in November of 2004. He claimed irreconcilable differences” claimed Wife Number Two was “guilty of inappropriate marital conduct.”
Things got very nasty. Geoffrey Pashel claimed that Wife Number Two was arrested because she left the five year old in the car when she went inside a house with the three year old. Someone magically called the cops. Wife Number two claims that had the five year old in her line of sight the entire time. Wife Number Two was arrested and charged with child abuse and neglect as well as drug possession.
In her countersuit Wife Number Two enumerated numerous instances of extreme physical assault where the children attempted to defend her by biting and hitting their father. She also mentioned multiple times he threatened to kill her. Once by chocking, once threatening to kill her and then himself with a shotgun, once holding a knife to her throat, and threatening to hire someone to kill her. She was granted a protective order. She also claimed that he raped her on several occaisions.
Geoffrey and Stephanie’s divorce was finalized on June 24, 2005, with Geoffrey receiving primary custody of the two boys. Are you fucking kidding me? They were granted mutual restraining orders. They could only interact during their children’s therapy. GEE. I wonder why they needed therapy?
The Latest Girlfriend
Also, he is going to court at the end of this month to defend himself regarding charges from his ex-girlfriend who he was living with until he attacked her in June of 2019. He is set to return to court on the criminal case March 26. He claimed to reporters that this was all a lie meant to influence his numerous upcoming custody cases. Clearly, he was still technically married at the time he assaulted the girlfriend. Also Cayvan, now approximately four years old, was apparently living with them at the time she was assaulted. It is unclear if he was in the home or with his mother in Canada for her monthly week of visitation.
The charges include domestic assault, interference with emergency calls, vandalism, and aggravated kidnapping from the incident last June. The victim statement reads in part, “He repeatedly bashed/slammed my head into the hardwood floors of my home. He dragged me through the house by my hair and continued throwing my body into walls and furniture. I know this because of blood on my walls, furniture, etc.” CIick here for full report on Starcasm. It was the FIFTH time he had assaulted her in their relationship that was barely nine months in duration.
The Fourth Wife Gets More Custody
Fourth wife, Brittany, had custody of Cayvan one week a month in Canada. Her mother would have to fly down and pick him up. After the 2019 incident, Brittany was granted temporary full custody with Geoffrey having a week visitation every month. He appeared to be flying Cayvan down for his weeks right up until leaving for filming and continued to do so when he returned from Russia.
Geoffrey Pashel’s Prior Criminal Behavior
But wait, there’s more! Geoffrey Pashel also has a record. He even mentioned on the show that he served 30 months in prison for drug dealing. Many if not all of Pashel’s four ex-wives have accused him of domestic violence, and one has accused him of rape. One of his exes who he has a child with accused him of using his children as a drug mules in a written statement requesting a protective order in 2018, according to multiple sources. He claims that he knew this would all come out during his appearance on the show. Again, Starcasm is the go to site for all the tea, they have done a lot of investigating on this very complex situation. Frankly, I am not sure this post even makes since after trying to combine everything into some sort of order.
But wait! THERE IS EVEN MORE! He is an bit part actor. This appears to be ” Geoffrey Pashel’s” IMDb resumé. All of the roles are in movies or series about murderers. It’s so disturbing I wonder if it is a fake. Click here for that disturbing resumé.
In other creepy news, one of his female friends in Knoxville is bummed that he won’t date her. I guess she has learned a lot since filming ended and the show premiered. Or maybe she’s about to be wife number five or six?