Tommy Feight reached out to me to share this tweet that Golnesa Gharachedaghi posted right after Mercedeh Javid gave birth to baby Shams. It is a bit hard to read. It says:
“Y’all remember when OG mama Shamu gave birth to Baby Shamu during their live show?”
It takes a special kind of asshole to mock a newborn baby and a new mother whose life was in danger at the time!
What is wrong with people? I certainly hope no one is posting nastiness about Golnesa when her baby is born.
I am so tired of negativity and bullying. What a disgusting tweet.
Golnesa needs to be researching the mutagenic effects of cannabis, that new research shows has something like 30 out of 33 of the same defects turning up in babies as thalidomide . Those of us of a certain age will recall that . I’m not criticizing people using cbd, just saying that the research is catching up and it is NOT looking good for men or women who want to healthily reproduce.
I know this is sightly off topic. All new mothers need all the support they can get. Karma may catch up with Golnesa when her time comes. I’ve had 4 kids and could NOT imagine saying something like that to a new mother, especially whilst pregnant myself.
They’re saying it’s from the cdb, not the thc?
That seems like fake news to me. People have been smoking weed liberally for decades and l have heard no such thing about related birth defects. What’s your source? Is it reputable? I cry FOUL!
Total FAKE news. I have a few attractive, athletic, intelligent children in the gifted & talented programs at school. I had a wonderful doctor that was honest and didn’t mind going against the grain for truth. Was against pharmaceutical drugs unless life threatening while pregnant. Said hitting a J every once in a while to combat nausea was perfectly safe and there has never been one negative study and it has only been shown to have a positive effects. It’s better to eat for your baby than to starve bc you can’t hold anything down. Man concocted pharmaceuticals that caused thalidomide. You will not find a study of negative effects from thc/CBD because it doesn’t exist. You may find one saying that a study showed babies at a smaller but healthy birth weight but that study also says the mothers with that outcome were noted to be in poverty situations. Sorry for my rant but I hate when people “hear” stuff and repeat it with no proof or evidence. In this matter I have plenty of proof and evidence and I have many friends with the same valuable evidence. Judge me all you want while I stare at my sons letter from an Ivy League school letting us know the are watching him.
Umm, they do drug tests etc when babys are born. If you have weed in your system, DSS gets involved in your life. Just sayin
Now Kevin, let’s not introduce facts…
Not true.
They do not! FACT. It depends on state and if they suspect drug use! I had a baby in two states never drug tested. My sister had a baby and was drug tested in the same state bc her bays father came in the room smelling like a blunt. They don’t drug test every baby. CPS got involved and she had to quit smoking and was cleared. My sisters baby also perfectly healthy and thriving in life. All these know it alls disputing actual facts and real life experience?!
Also according to CPS they take marijuana use lightly but they have to get involved because it’s illegal activity and they don’t know what other legal things you might have around your children or people so they must investigate but if it weren’t illegal it wouldn’t really bother them because they have no evidence of it being a harm to the baby and that they actually find cigarette smoking way more harmful but they can’t do anything about it because it’s legal Also according to CBS they take marijuana use lightly but they have to get involved because it’s illegal activity and they don’t know what other illegal things you might have around your children or people say they must investigate but if it weren’t illegal it wouldn’t really bother them because they have no evidence of it being a harm to the baby and that they actually find cigarettes smoking way more harmful but they can’t do anything about it because it’s legal per CPS. My sisters doctor was also pissed because they went around his back and tested her they actually test the mother first and he knew she was smoking. And usually it would be up to the patient’s doctor to let the hospital know to test them. It was very hard for them to get a test from the baby they ended up having to put a catheter in it I don’t think they catheterized every baby born. Because another fact they stayed it to my sisters even though she came up dirty if the baby came up clean they still couldn’t do anything about it but the baby came up dirty too obviously.
Actually, the effects of second hand smoke on a child are harmful whether it is cigarette smoke or pot smoke.
In Nevada, a state where Marijuana is legal (This was the first state that came up) These are the physicians guidelines. Newborn testing is most often done using the umbilical cord.The catheter story sound at best, a very rare instance and at worst a falsehood.
As a prenatal provider, if you are concerned about a patient’s substance use, you can recommend
testing a mother during prenatal care and/or delivery, or testing the newborn at birth.
There is no known safe amount of marijuana use during pregnancy.
Tetrahydrocannabinol (THC) is passed from the mother to the unborn child through the placenta. The
unborn child is exposed to THC used by the mother.
THC is the chemical in marijuana which makes people feel “high.” Using marijuana while you are
pregnant passes THC to your baby.
Use of marijuana during pregnancy is associated with negative effects on exposed children, no matter
when it is used during pregnancy. The negative effects include decreased academic ability, decreased
cognitive function and decreased attention. These effects may not appear until adolescence.
Using marijuana while pregnant may harm your baby. It may make it hard for your child to pay
attention and learn. This also may make it harder for your child to do well in school.
Smoking marijuana has the added risk of harmful smoke exposure to the mother and baby. However,
using marijuana in edible or vaporized form still exposes the baby to THC. There is no known safe
amount of marijuana use during pregnancy.
Some people think using marijuana in a vape pen or eating marijuana is safer than smoking
marijuana. Marijuana in any form may be harmful.
BREASTFEEDING AND MARIJUANA
Marijuana use should be addressed in a discussion of breastfeeding plans, especially if the mother used
prior to pregnancy or during pregnancy.
Breastfeeding has many health benefits for both the baby and the mother.
However, any THC consumed by the mother enters her breastmilk and can be passed from the
mother’s milk to her baby, potentially affecting the baby.
THC in marijuana passes to breastmilk and may affect your baby.
THC is stored in the body in fat, and babies have a high percent of body fat, including their developing
brains. THC remains in the body for a long time because it is stored in body fat.
THC is stored in body fat. A baby’s brain and body may store THC for a long time, which is why you
should not use marijuana while you are breastfeeding.
The American Academy of Pediatrics states marijuana should not be used while breastfeedin
SOURCE: http://dpbh.nv.gov/uploadedFiles/dpbhnvgov/content/Programs/MIP/Marijuana%20Pregnancy%20and%20Breastfeeding%20Guidance.pdf
The hospital isn’t required to tell the parents they are testing for drugs, they just do it.
Because of the opiate epidemic, many hospitals are routinely drug testing newborns. Fifteen states, including Massachusetts, have laws requiring health care workers to report to authorities if they suspect a woman is abusing drugs during pregnancy. Even in states where recreational use of marijuana is legal, Child Protective Services may be contacted.
https://womensmentalhealth.org/posts/how-do-we-respond-to-mothers-who-use-drugs-during-pregnancy/
Not true
A friend of mine, who is an award-winning psychiatrist and who is both an expert in schizophrenia and weed research, would disagree with you. I was one of the proofreaders of his book, The Science of Weed, that is coming out this summer. There are studies that show that it is inadvisable to smoke weed during your pregnancy. There are studies that show that it is inadvisable to drink during pregnancy, and yet, there are women who drank occasionally and had healthy and intelligent children. I’m thrilled your children are healthy and intelligent. That doesn’t mean it was safe to smoke weed while you were pregnant.
I’m all the way with you on this one, Deb. Would love to have a look at the source of this “research”. I’d confidently wager that this falls under fake news.
We all have an endocannabinoid system in our bodies so I’m not sure how this could be accurate. Do you have a source that states this research? I’m curious as I work in the industry and like to read everything I can lay my eyes on.
On another note, I think it’s very sad to see a grown woman like Golnesa will be teaching her baby how to be a bully.
Can we all just agree to exercise caution until doctors confirm it’s 100% safe? Please.
Doctor will never confirm anything to be 100% safe. That makes them liable. We are all different…100% safe doesn’t exist. Doctors are human too and make mistakes. You should listen to your own body and be open to multiple opinions until you find the right thing for your body. But most of all can we judge people for their shitty behavior to others and not how they chose to live their life in their personal space with their personal preferences.
Y’all do know vaccines have never been tested for safety on pregnant women yet our doctors insist we get them. And nope, I’m not an anti-vaxxer before everyone jumps down my throat. But the vaccine insert itself states this. Now carry on arguing over marijuana 🤦🏽♀️
Also not an anti vaxxer and over here quietly agreeing with you. Trump and others keep suggesting the flu vaccine. THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE CORONA VIRUS! Sorry, yell at Trump not you. I’ll just quietly sit next to you during POT WARS if you don’t mind.
To take this further off-topic (TT, delete please if you think so), I have seen research that wayyy overuse of any anti inflammatory (incl natural ones like chamomile) can cause a lymphatic bounce-back. Meaning body has to work harder to clear itself of used up white blood cells. The inflammatory “signals” are deadened.
I am NOT a doctor.
Well My kids are living proof that contradict that. Like I said they are and always have been since day 1 in the top percentile in every aspect. Including brain function. My 13 year old is getting letters from Ivy League schools and that’s a fact. I have many friends and family who also smoked. I no longer smoke but that’s because of money and nothing else. I can afford to smoke but I have kids and they have needs and they come first like sports and leisure activities. I’m happy for the study but in real life mothers don’t want to come forward because of the scrutiny and they can’t not do experimental studies on fetuses it’s unethical. Of course any state where it’s legal to smoke doesn’t want to be scrutinized for letting mothers get high with unborn babies so they’re going to put out what they have to Support the agenda keeping it legal because they make way more money that way. they keep their prison system freed up and they have a healthier community. Just like they take extra measures to make sure that the drugs aren’t being trafficked out of their state. So if you cant experiment on fetuses and mothers are unwilling to come forward with actual factual information because of the scrutiny where are you getting your information for the study. I’m gonna stick with my wonderful doctor who’s never steered me wrong and my living proof. Are we putting our babies on our back their stomach or their side to sleep now when are they going to switch that up again I was told every time to put my baby on his back and I did that with the first one for a little bit until he started choking in his sleep and it was the side for me which is now proven to be the safest position to put your baby in. Just saying I mean what’s there said he’s mean are they going to switch it up in five years. They also told us the middle school if you smoked you would be infertile well im the fertilist myrtle there’s ever been. I smoked more as a teenager than most people have their whole life.
Everyone’s children here are in the top one percent of everything. Clearly, this site draws the 1%ers….
From classes I have taken, I ask what you do. There is no “official” empirical data on CBD. It hasn’t been used long enough. The studies SO FAR have shown no bad effects, but they are relatively new. The only thing that is factual beyond any doubt is that there is the potential to make a shiteton of money from CBD products. That is why Coca-Cola, PepsiCo, Coors, Anhauser-Busch, WalMart and others are funding research and developing products. As for field research, it helps my anxiety and insomnia and helps my dog with arthritic pain. My psych doc and pain doc say it has more promise BY FAR, than anything else for PTSD.
Horrible GG – I hope against hope that was not you but Reza.
You always had a temper but you were never nasty 🤬
I must be watching a different GG – she’s been nasty and still is. Just one instance against Mercedeh. Mercedeh asked a question, GG didn’t hear her, Mercedeh asked if she was deaf (which was not right either) and GG’s reply was “yeah I am, are you fat”? That’s just one off the top of my head. Let’s not forget all the drunken nasty shit she has said in her fits of rage.
GG was nasty this year when she met with the new woman Sara and GG commented how it’s nice to be around another who takes care of herself (insinuating that Mercedeh and Asa were fat/out of shape).
Wow, that’s just a different level of nastiness.
Gross. She’s about to have her own baby and still feels this way…pathetic.
That’s truly despicable!
So over the Shah’s already. Disgusting behavior to please their disgusting king Mr A.C. Let’s go back to the Bravo block. I really hope G.G. didn’t really write this, you’re a pregnant woman!!
Andy isn’t the exec producer, or even a producer. The EP is Ryan Seacrest.
OF COURSE GG WROTE IT! AND DELETED IT WHEN SHE GOT SHIT FOR IT.
Also, Andy has fuck all to do with this show other than hosting the reunion.
GG has as many problems as anyone, but she has money so she gets whatever she wants. Mercedeh has done some truly shady stuff but this Shamu this knock is super gross on GG’s part
Baby Shams is beautiful! I hope MJ is enjoying her time as a new Mom and ignoring the negativity.
What an asshole. I don’t think I’m gonna watch this show anymore. I just finally watched the first 3 episodes the other night just to get them off of my DVR, and let’s just say that it was like a chore. I will give it one more chance to see how I feel when Mercedeh is back on, but she’s gonna have to really bring it. Lol – They’re just too old to all be doing a lot of the same old things and it’s not cute or entertaining.
I have refrained from saying my full thoughts on GG the past year.
But I am going to say it in this way. I feel she will never be the mother MJ is and will be. I hope she has a really good support system with kind, thoughtful role models because that baby is going to need it.
If nobody watched Shaws, she wouldn’t have a platform and she and the rest of the jackasses on that show would fade into obscurity. After a season or two of Couples Therapy of course.
Baby Shams is so adorable!
GG is a cunt pig, that’s all.
Glad this is one of the shows I dropped. Wish that I could block shows on my tv like I block phone #’s or people on social media. If I never saw these people again, it would be too soon. Why does anyone still watch this crappy cast??? MJ should consider leaving these assholes in her past and moving on with her life.
This is just a repulsive comment to a new mom. No matter what your beef is with someone you just don’t do this. Don’t even care if GG realizes how disgusting this is later when she has her baby. Whatever would take you to this level to say something like this is ugly.
This is another reason Tommy went nuts at Reza’s house. There was so much built up in Tommy that he exploded. I feel badly for Tommy. His wife was dying, his son’s fate was unknown, and to have someone he is friends with write an awful tweet, it was just too much.
Tommy, we love you and are here for you. Send TT anything you need to get off your chest. We will support you and believe you!!!!
GG courts controversy, more than most. She is on extra-Reza level.
I am actually feeling bad for the orca who could not even give birth in peace.
When I think of the planning GG had to do to find that pic and post it, sheesh.
Hopefully, she will apologise to MJ, Tommy, and Shams. And mean it.
I’m glad Tommy reached out to you Tamara.
Wow, here I am feeling sad and frustrated for GG with her current goal of a successful pregnancy! Here’s one adult response….I’m happy to hear that you are healthy and looking forward motherhood. Stay safe and treasure every moment! Best wishes, always.
Disgusting indeed.
Did Tommy have any comment on the nasty things that Mercedeh said to and about Asa’s baby?
I remember one the first seasons when GG was so incredibly nasty to Asa. I couldn’t stand her then or now. When the show started she was 30 somthing and living off her parents. She had never held any job. WTH? That tells you a lot. The other cast members might have been obnoxious at times but their parents weren’t paying for their lifestyles.
I’m not so sure that applies to Mike. I believe he told us in season 1 that he had done well in commercial real estate in Las Vegas until the market crash. Didn’t he try to get Reza to mentor him in LA in residential? I seem to recall his not putting much effort in, and then blaming Reza for his lack of success. All of his failed business ventures since then probably sucked up any money that he may have made on his own. He spends a LOT of money – his house, furnishings, vehicle, parties, trips, those hideous shoes that he wears … His parents’ hesitation to allow him to be the project manager for these apartments he wants to renovate also makes me feel like they must give him some money. They and his brothers are the investors for the project and he has $0 in. Yet he wants to get paid to do so and was irritated when his father showed up with the plans. What he SHOULD do is let his dad be in charge and actually learn some useful skills. Instead, he will probably miss every deadline and go way over budget trying to make everything high end. (I’m obviously not a Mike fan, but I wish them all well!)
I have never commented before. However this is one of the most low down, bottom of the barrel, hate-filled things that I have read. Between GG And Reza I am done with the Shahs COMPLETELY. Disgusted.
Before you go, watch the next episode with MJ and Tommy and the baby!
I hope that Karma doesn’t come knocking on GG’s door. As someone told me “hurt people like to hurt people”. I know when I was suffering through depression I had three ” so called friends” say some really hurtful things to knock me down further. Like the saying goes, “if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all”.
It doesn’t have the check next to her name so are we sure this wasn’t a fake account?
Tommy seems sure, yes.
Also the ‘stars’ of these shows (Shahs, VPR, Below Deck & HW) have created duplicate accounts for vile tweets/posts & then say it wasn’t them. Sick & despicable. Jax is famous for it; the Tom’s called him out on it years ago.
Omg this avatar always gives me life! I’m so glad you changed it back! Lol!
To me it is the ABSOLUTE best. Even if our fearless leader despises it 🤣
I hope you are doing well!
This is coming from a girl (GG) who pumped her ass up. Didn’t she pump her ass up? I can’t keep up with all their procedures.
I love how Tommy protects MJ. This is what a husband does for his family. I wish them well. Shams is precious.
I cannot picture GG caring for and comforting a screaming, crying baby. She has no patience and anger issues, so it makes me worry about the safety of her child. I hope her family keeps a close eye on what goes on in that house once the baby arrives.
I have yet to understand after seeing Reza throw a drink on Ali then practically pushing him into a fire how he wasn’t charged with assault.
Tommy threw plants and he got ten days in jail, probation and has to stay away from Reza.
Was it because Reza’s drama was a storyline support by Bravo? Was it because Tommy did not play by the script and actual defended his wife?
I hope the hell Tommy does drop a dime on all of them.
Because Tommy reached out to you, I think it is safe to assume he reads TT. I hope he does so he can see all of the support he and Mercedeh have here. Not only did Mercedeh have a life-threatening pregnancy, it had not been very long after she lost her dad. Her dad who would not be giving her away at her wedding and not in the hospital waiting to see his grandson. Considering how much Reza professed to love Shams, it is even more despicable how he treated MJ.
God these people suck. Reza,GG, just about everyone with the exception of Tommy and MJ.
I hope someone took her knives away..
I missed the debate my comment on new research into cannabis has caused. It is not fake news. My doctor is one of the leading researchers. His book is about to come out. I’ve seen the galleys and he’s shown me the many many charts and diagrams etc. He and I are in Australia, but he’s based his research in the US and has particularly focused on the states which have legalized. I will get some kind of link from him next time I see him, later this week.
I use it myself to sleep. It’s not about the old school bush grown weed, it’s the modern hydro plus the chemicals used to grow it.
The worst results and clusters are popping up in places like Colorado and Kentucky and Alaska, from memory.
I’ll get some kind of link or info. This is new research based on health information.
Do you not have pot the the land down under for your Doctor to research? I don’t know for sure but I presume we have many pot researchers here. Did he write off “research trips” to go to states were pot is legal? I’m dumbfound as to why he cares out our children and their pothead mothers.
Kentucky? Pretty sure it’s illegal there.
Years ago, on his radio show, Howard Stern said that “today’s” pot knocked him on his rear so bad it scared him. That impressed me.
The next comment is just me being old and crochety.
So, I puked through 2 pregnancies, almost the whole 9 months for one. This was the early 80’s. My (excellent) country doctor said “that’s motherhood. You’ll make it.” He put me on a twice a week drip of vitamins and electrolytes with water to more or less keep me hydrated. (For free, many times).
This reinforces my CRAZY AUNT THEORY that all y’all need to be drinking electrolyte water. The cheapest place to get it is Whole Foods (I am not kidding. 365 brand 1.5 liters is $1.49 Smartwater at your grocery store is over $2) I buy two to three cases at a time. It cures The Crazy if you drink enough of it (and don’t drink alcohol or much caffeine).
Y’all regarding pot wars, in the USA every physician relies on FDA recommendations as not to get sued. The FDA isn’t going to regulate it until there’s a “universal weed” to study effects on fetuses, and until big pharma pays the big bucks for said studies. In short, no American doctor is going to prescribe it to a pregnant woman in our lifetime. That’s just how it works here, state legalization doesn’t matter. It’s one thing to give it to an adult, but for prenatal use, they won’t even sign off on certain herbal teas because, no FDA oversight. It’s only getting stricter than when we were having kids.
I’m not a pot fan for recreational use, but my niece desperately needs it for seizures. The good news about pot is it looks like Big Pharma is not going to control it. Yet….
From your lips….
I agree it can be beneficial for some with certain Dxs. But I still don’t think it will have a prenatal indication in our lifetime. MAYBE in the cases of epilepsy or other Dxs where benefits outweigh risks but even that is sadly far away IMO. I’m not a weed fan personally because, paranoia. But I do know many others that swear by it for certain medicinal uses and I don’t think it is harmful in that arena or begrudge anyone in search of relief for pain, seizures, etc. as long as adults or parents of difficult to treat children (example: children with cancer etc) It’s the prenatal thing that scares the drs shitless. Our healthcare system is so fucked up anyway that I don’t see much change coming in our lifetime sadly. Forgive my ramblings please. I’m having a nuclear panic attack that Bernie is gonna win here today and I’m literally just going out shopping to get my mind off of it and my annoying as fuck mother!
What state are you in? GO VOTE! GO VOTE AGAIN! lol
I went shopping and someone else told me that I could vote again so I went and the line was hours and hours and I left after wasting 3 hours and not moving. I’m in Texas. All parties vote in same polling places (it was different in Oklahoma back in the day) anyway, so when I drove mommy dearest to vote we saw Ted Cruz! Gross. And, happy to report that my state went with Biden. Yes he has senior moments but is still functioning at higher level than the orange one. I’m dumbfounded that ppl are actually giving Bernie another look. He’s probably going to die of coronary anyway so he better think hard about Choosing a veep. (This is why he won’t release his ejection fraction) I’m praying for a Biden/Buttigieg ticket though!
Let’s try not to forecast the death of anyone. I do think that either democratic candidate needs someone who is very capable of being president in case of any sort of national tragedy.