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Blind Item: Where’s Daddy?

January 4, 2020 by tamaratattles 61 Comments

It’s hard for me to travel these days because I have a very large dog who is getting old. I don’t want lost time. And also no one will sit for him because he is a guard dog.

Yet somehow this fairly new father with several jobzzzz is in Miami tonight. He was at Twist in the wee hours obsessing over some twink he saw at Paradise.

I mean I get it. Parents need a break, but with all the work travel, when you have time off should you really be a circuit raisin in Miami? Babies are not an accessory,  And the word on Mama Joyce’s street is he got plans for another one.  Kids are fun when someone else raises them I guess.

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  1. Baz says

    January 4, 2020 at 4:54 am

    MC AC!! ?

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  2. Misshell says

    January 4, 2020 at 4:58 am

    Todd!

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  3. Vickie80 says

    January 4, 2020 at 5:55 am

    Andy Cohen!

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  4. JustJenn says

    January 4, 2020 at 7:33 am

    Andy. It’s probably better if he has another kid seeing as his parents are getting up there and he’s never around, at least the baby will have some family when he gets older aside from the nannies.

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  5. Shell_d says

    January 4, 2020 at 7:34 am

    Andy judgmental Cohen

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  6. Michelle V. Brown says

    January 4, 2020 at 10:00 am

    The tele tubby Dennis maybe

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  7. Lisa Waier says

    January 4, 2020 at 10:08 am

    Has to be Todd and all his businesses

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  8. 4paz says

    January 4, 2020 at 10:32 am

    If Andy Cohen, why the RHOA reference?

    I hope it isn’t Todd or Denis.

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  9. Kay says

    January 4, 2020 at 10:33 am

    Thought Todd until I was the twink part. That’s for sure Andy…unless Todd has a secret Mama Joyce’s streets haven’t informed us of yet lol. Plus Kandi used all her eggs already so no more babies there.

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  10. Betsey says

    January 4, 2020 at 10:38 am

    It has to be Andy! It never occurred to me that he is single. and OMG the circuit raisin phrase is my new favorite. Yup, that’s Andy Cohen.

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  11. CotonMom says

    January 4, 2020 at 11:27 am

    Even if it’s Todd, those babies have a big family support system. But I think it’s the shameful, immature, inappropriate and forever partying AC. Sometimes nannies do a better job at raising kids than the parent(s).

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  12. Lisaj says

    January 4, 2020 at 12:13 pm

    Andy as he said on New Year’s Eve he and his baby were headed to someplace warm. Can’t judge, you get it Andrew

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  13. KathyD says

    January 4, 2020 at 12:36 pm

    Now I am triggered. What about AC’s “beloved” rescue dog? Wacha ia getting up there. He needs his people. As for the baby, hopefully AC’s folks are caring for him. I guess baby needs his people, too.

    TT, thanks for being there for Banjo. It is one more way we see your character.

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    • marc says

      January 4, 2020 at 3:44 pm

      Beloved until they no longer follow his narrative much like Lisa Vanderpump Carole Radziwill & Bethanny Frankel & his other minions then he wholeheartedly discards them from his menagerie of wild animals in sanctuary. Alledgedly. I hope when this post from ” that ratchet website ” hits it gets hundreds & thousands of comments & traffic. Hug Banjo for me twin. 2020 beckons you are going GLOBAL both figuratively & literally.

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    • sliceo'pie says

      January 5, 2020 at 6:26 am

      The baby is with him in Miami, there were a bunch of pic’s of them playing on the beach a day ago.

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      • tamaratattles says

        January 5, 2020 at 6:49 am

        Awww. wasn’t that sweet. I know you have a child. I am pretty sure my thoughts are not that antiquated. I went through your divorce with you and your first priority was your child. Were you out partying until the wee hours of the morning while your child was with a nanny? I recall you being a great parent and trying to be reasonable with co-parenting. I remember that your concern was your child and the difficulties that you faced. I do not remember you saying “I was out clubbing all night. Fuck now I have to get my kid to school.” I remember you being a great mom and dealing with your ex even though you didn’t want to because it was in the best interest of your child.

        The baby my be “with him” for some IG photos. I am only reporting that he was out in the streets late at night drinking with fans. ALLEGEDLY. According to this ratchet site.

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        • Denise OConnor says

          January 6, 2020 at 4:37 pm

          Agreed. Taking a babysitter on vacation allows parents to enjoy vacation time with their children, as well as vacation time with their friends. What’s the problem?

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  14. Pecksniffian says

    January 4, 2020 at 1:33 pm

    I’m thinking Andy Cohen too. How much money does this guy need? Isn’t he already a multi-millionaire many times over? Between his ridiculous NYTimes Bestsellers, the housewives money & what he’s already banked on his traveling talk show with Anderson Cooper for two years, he could easily retire. However, spending time with his son seems to be his LAST priority. Narcissistic jerks like him shouldn’t be allowed to neglect their children just because they’re rich and famous! The average working-class single mom who HAS to work 2-3 jobs, probably spends more time with their child. He’s a disgrace!

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    • Nanette says

      January 5, 2020 at 4:08 am

      I just LOVE your name!

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      • Pecksniffian says

        January 5, 2020 at 2:21 pm

        Thanks Nanette. I’m a big fan of Dickens & the name comes from a character in Martin Chuzzlewit (Seth Pecksniff). It means sanctimonious. I love the way his characters have funny names that kind of reflect who they really are.?

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  15. Meredith says

    January 4, 2020 at 1:48 pm

    Can’t be Todd since it says fairly new father.

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  16. Bria says

    January 4, 2020 at 2:54 pm

    Interesting narrative, had me laughing so hard. It sounds like Todd or Dennis but I strongly feel is Dennis.

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  17. thill says

    January 4, 2020 at 3:09 pm

    It’s Andy. He’s been all over social media with photos of him and the baby in Miami.

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  18. marc says

    January 4, 2020 at 3:29 pm

    Andy Misogynist EXTRODINARE!

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  19. T D says

    January 4, 2020 at 3:30 pm

    Happy New Rear!

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    • Pauline Spitzer says

      January 5, 2020 at 7:29 pm

      Omg! I snarfed my coffee!!!

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  20. Mecomment says

    January 4, 2020 at 4:22 pm

    Who cares? Baby in bed. He’s on vacation and can go out. Not news. It’s Andy and he can go out if he wants to go out.

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  21. SCFan says

    January 4, 2020 at 4:50 pm

    Agree 100%

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  22. Laura says

    January 4, 2020 at 5:02 pm

    Just saw the headline “Andy Cohen on beach in Miami with baby Ben after ringing in the NY.” So yep. AC for sure.

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  23. karenllanglois says

    January 4, 2020 at 5:19 pm

    Todd. I always thought he is creepy. Kandi can do better. Never liked Todd.

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  24. Forrest says

    January 4, 2020 at 6:08 pm

    Andy has said in interviews that he has a full time live in nanny. She probably travels too. So he gets to play with the baby during good moods and when they get cranky….back to Nanny and he’s back on the twink trail.

    So tough being rich….

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    • sliceo'pie says

      January 5, 2020 at 6:32 am

      Your ideas about Nanny’s and parenting are antiquated, you’re acting as if it’s the 18th century. Maybe Andy makes her work 18 hour days without breaks and little food as well! Do you actually know anyone who has a nanny? Or are you informed solely by Lifetime movies?

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      • tamaratattles says

        January 5, 2020 at 6:41 am

        He has multiple nannies. I am not saying the nannies are overworked. I am saying he is in his fifties and has a very young child and should not be in Miami trolling for sex (ALLEGEDLY). And should be as present for his child as he can be because he probably will not live to see the child graduate from high school if he doesn’t stay out of the bars.

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      • tamaratattles says

        January 5, 2020 at 6:52 am

        Hey Slice I have been up all night dealing with other issues. Since your apostrophe in your nic for some reason causes you to be moderated, I just wanted you to know I can’t mod you for a few hours while I sleep. xo ~tt

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      • IJC says

        January 5, 2020 at 3:25 pm

        Yup. I hired nannies from some of the top agencies back in the day when I worked, traveling for work, etc. even hired a house manager. I can tell you that by the stuff I’m reading here from you, the coveted jobs are not suited for you. I treated my employees well and they stayed on with me for years in some capacity. Still keep in touch —well after the children are grown. Truthfully, I don’t think you would make it past one of my interviews lol. Just saying.

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        • IJC says

          January 6, 2020 at 7:34 am

          I guess that came off as bitchy since I didn’t give an explanation. For jckwcs, your continued use of the word “I “ in regards to an industry of caring for others is a red flag. Your mention of wealth makes me wonder if you seek working for the wealthy in order break off a piece of someone else’s kit kat bar, so to speak. The bitching about the hours and talking about the turnaround because there’s always a better gig around the corner shows that you’re not committed to your charges, THE CHILDREN. This is the problem with so many people in the domestic help industry. People in need try to find help who genuinely care about the children who get attached to them, then you want to renegotiate your terms or leave for someone you perceive as richer or worse-FAMOUS. It wreaks of thirst and zero work ethic. Those of us who are lucky enough to find a genuine person in your industry treat them like family and include their actual family because genuine connections are formed. It’s not all about the money and not all clients are asking for someone to raise their children for them, they just can’t be in two places at once Sometimes . But, as TT so eloquently put it, most of us put our childish lifestyle away the moment we became parents so our requests of domestic help wasn’t unreasonable. In today’s climate, I don’t think I would make the same choices given the fact that so many people in this industry are trying to get rich or close to famous by purporting to be domestic help. The thirst is palpable and scary. (Trust me, no one got famous for being the nanny unless you plan to fuck the dad… cough… sienna miller for example) so just know that people side eye you for a reason.. it’s just human nature since others before you have fucked up the industry in which you choose to work. It’s why more people are turning to hiring their own family instead of messing with the whole taudriness and pettiness of the gimme gimme gimme people in your industry. And just because Andy Cohen is also a gimme gimme gimme kind of person, his child deserves so much better!

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  25. Nancy says

    January 4, 2020 at 9:50 pm

    Andy Cohen children aren’t accessories! He’s a malignant narcissist just like Jeff!?

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  26. Michelle Prinvale says

    January 4, 2020 at 9:54 pm

    Circuit Raisin = Andy Cohen

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  27. Nanette says

    January 4, 2020 at 10:00 pm

    Despite how people feel about him, Andy works hard. He deserves a vacation and some “twink” time while baby is (hopefully) asleep at night.

    I was hoping it was Hit Dog Dennis caught in a gay club, but not…

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    • Kipper says

      January 4, 2020 at 11:16 pm

      I think it’s Andy too. I do wish he’d settle down a bit. Parenting isn’t perfect for anyone but there are certain restraints and comforts that happen while being a parent that should be respected while still living your life as a parent.

      Childhood happens one time, period. As a parent I’ve made a bazillion decisions about working or important moments. I’ve messed up a few times, but the older I’ve gotten, the better I know. Andy isn’t young, and to start parenting all in his own? He may have some parental guidance but he’s really alone and probably clueless. I hope his nannies are top shelf

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      • IJC says

        January 5, 2020 at 3:14 pm

        It’s different because Andy is a misogynist, narcissistic, POS. Personally, I love it whenever he gets dragged anywhere. He literally thinks his shit doesn’t stink and the fact that he’s a circuit raisin and a commitment phobe is further proof that he is also a hedonistic asshole who doesn’t give a shit about anyone but himself (and his cash flow). But, that’s just my opinion… we’re all entitled to one. Oh, and I’m a single parent, FWIW.

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      • IJC says

        January 5, 2020 at 4:06 pm

        Also, if you think that Andy has worked hard for his money, you might be grossly out of touch with the average American and their definition of hard work.

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      • Kipper says

        January 5, 2020 at 10:42 pm

        Yup, I’d say that about an older single mother too. I started my family youngish (25). Kids are innocent of their birth and family situation. They get one shot at childhood and in my opinion parents are responsible for every aspect of keeping them safe, loving them with support, play, discipline, education all with the parental end goal of a functional fine independent human being when young adulthood is reached… used to be 18, still 18 or HS graduate in my book. I was a working mom while daddy was deployed 4 times including the first gulf war. Found myself a single mom after 10 years of marriage to a man I truly loved, he broke both our hearts. It took my oldest quite a while to understand because I never spoke ill of him and always support their relationship at my expense and in every way. She had to learn in her way, not mine. I wish I could have fixed everything for the two of them but that wasn’t for me to fix and I’m sad for her, so I try to be it all for her. I wouldn’t wish single parenthood on anyone, I found it scary hard. I had little outside support because I lived far from family and ex was and still is a sad memory and hard lesson for both me and my eldest daughter. I then later got remarried and had another beautiful girl at 40. I’ve made this marriage work by hook and by crook for our daughter much loved and attended to by both parents with failures still but as imperfect as parenting is? We couldn’t be more proud, she’s already a great person, she’s 18 now and if I knew her as an acquaintance? I’d want to be her friend.

        My oldest daughter is a single mom, absolutely no support or contact w/baby daddy, this one pulled herself up hard! She is the most amazing mommy who does take time for the occasional ladies night, dates carefully or not at all and has quadrupled her income, all on her own since her son’s father left. She lives frugally and for her master and chief, my grandson who looks just like his Great grandfather and namesake btw! She thanks me too much w/sentimental understanding now. She states why things weren’t what she expected when she was solely dependent on me (I was tough but loving, I have been very present and some might say strict) I’m uncomfortable taking the thanks or “recognition”. I tried to do what was going to work to keep her safe, happy and a responsible functional adult independent of her parents. She gets it now.

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      • tamaratattles says

        January 6, 2020 at 12:44 am

        Let me clear this up for you, Jckwcs. Most parents, experience a change of lifestyle when they have children. Their priorities change. They stop going out clubbing, experimenting with drugs, having random hookups, spending all their free time golfing, hanging out with friends AS MUCH. They GROW UP!

        You don’t just get to go buy a baby and still be out under the docks trying to hit on twinks during pride month. Those days end.

        Can he still go out? Of course. But his LIFESTYLE, at 50 is the same as his lifestyle at 25. ALLEGEDLY.

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  28. Kipper says

    January 4, 2020 at 11:25 pm

    I’m suprised by how many people here think this blind is about anyone other then AC. Read TTs links people! Lot’o’ historical knowledge here for the free reading!

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  29. Erica Cooper says

    January 5, 2020 at 12:05 am

    It is Andy. But let’s really look at the hours he puts in. 2 days a week on the radio, for a total of 4hours. He says he has meetings in regards to the HW shows, his book imprint, etc, but they certainly arent every day and often from home. . He works out a couple more days of the week (his trainer Stan is funny on his Instagram and is the guy with him)

    He has said that his most consistent time away from home is WWHL. He puts Ben to bed, full routine, and then is close enough to the WWHL studio to walk in with plenty of time to meet with production, etc.

    Frankly his time with his kid is probably more than some 2 parents combined. It just isnt traditional. And I know people who have taken a babysitter on vacation with them too, just so they could go out when the kids were asleep. A friend of mine in HS did that for two families in the summer. They could then also have cocktails by the pool while she kept a sober eye on the kids.

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  30. LA_in_KY says

    January 5, 2020 at 12:39 am

    If I remember correctly, Andy said Kim Z gave him the most baby and child advice.

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    • MelG says

      January 5, 2020 at 4:13 am

      I bet that was really good advice…NOT.

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  31. Carol says

    January 5, 2020 at 2:07 am

    Andy. Shady shady Andy.

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  32. tamaratattles says

    January 5, 2020 at 5:59 am

    I have never been a parent. So I may be wrong, but being out in the wee hours of the morning getting drunk, taking selfies with “fans” and talking about wanting to hook up with strangers in bars, ALLEGEDLY, though I have an ear witness, isn’t a parent going out on vacation for a few drinks. It is someone who won’t wake up when your very young child will. When you are in your fifties and a full time dad for the first time, especially when you claim you plan to change your ways… Perhaps you could stop cruising gay bars and at least be home by midnight. Clearly that has not been happening. Especially when you will be nearly seventy, if you live that long with all your partying when the kid graduates high school. You might want to make better health choices.

    My parents were in their very early forties when they had me and I spent much of my twenties dealing with their health issues. It’s selfish to have have a kid when you are fifty years old. You still want to spend time in the gay bars? Really?

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    • Kimberly says

      January 5, 2020 at 8:51 am

      FYI Ben is with him. He didn’t leave him in NYC

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    • Deb Brenner says

      January 5, 2020 at 1:05 pm

      His problem as a parent begins with the fact he’s a sleazy, no-class, unethical POS. He shouldn’t even be raising that dog, that BTW, was never even taught any manners by Andy. The comment he made on his NYE thing with Cooper when clearly children were listening was just a sample of why he should be banned from children in general.

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  33. J. Gauthier says

    January 5, 2020 at 10:47 am

    T , your experience with aging parents is not mine . My father was 49 when I was born . Daddy passed when I was 42 , I am 46 now. If it were not for him being “selfish” they world wouldn’t have my fabulous self it now LOL and my even more fabulous kids ; ) . Dad had wonderful , long life , majority of it very healthy until last two years .
    Eh , I give two craps what Andy does . Baby Ben seems to be very loved and well cared for . Many , many parents stay out past midnight , me included and that is OK . We don’t turn into pumpkins, no matter if we are gay, straight , purple or green, we still should be able to have a life and a full career outside of our babies . Do some do it more than they should , absolutely but lots balance parent life and fun time fine . Guess I’m just not feeling this drag on Andy , would you do this to a successful Mom , or is this just because you really dislike AC . This isn’t a drag on you , I get why you don’t like him , just putting in my perspective as a single parent and daughter of older parents .

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  34. Kdwagz says

    January 5, 2020 at 2:18 pm

    I don’t like Andy Cohen, but he’s allowed to have some fun. Mother of four and I can’t judge.
    On another note, I was happy to see that bravo has Ladies of London on their app. All three seasons! I am cheap and plan to iron some of my husband’s shirts while watching that!
    In between football, of course.

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    • MizGrandma says

      January 5, 2020 at 3:33 pm

      I enjoyed my ironing time, many years ago. It was my quiet time when I didn’t have to do anything else, & I liked having a row of freshly ironed shirts to admire at the end. In the very early years I did shirts for a dime apiece for someone else while preggers the first time. No A/C. I starched & ironed Rocket Man’s shorts, our hankerchiefs. top sheets & pillowcases, the little girls’ dresses with puffy sleeves, probably even the dish towels since it was several years before we had a dryer. No choice, so I liked it. No, I didn’t think of England, but I got to think about whatever I wanted & that was precious time. Later, when I went back to school I made flash cards & studied my German vocabulary. I have been fortunate in life to enjoy being productive.

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      • Kdwagz says

        January 5, 2020 at 5:29 pm

        you sound pretty amazing

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  35. Lisa Waier says

    January 5, 2020 at 3:09 pm

    Props for ironing

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  36. beauxblue says

    January 6, 2020 at 12:16 pm

    Oh my goodness a parent dares to have a life.

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  37. bc says

    January 6, 2020 at 1:49 pm

    That baby is just an accessory for Andy. He just wants to dress him up and take cute pictures and show him off, but let others raise him. Some of the things he says on his radio show make me gasp because he is so clueless. He still bemoans evenings or weekends when he “didn’t do anything” except lay around and hang out with the baby….! For most of us, that is a dream! Give me time to just relax and hang with my kids and enjoy them? That would be idyllic. I have zero FOMO about missing anything, but Andy has lived in the fast lane for so long that he has FOMO about everything. And, I still can’t believe some of the comments he makes on air about men – their bodies, what he wants to do to them, etc…and it all gets swept under the rug. But, out of the other side of his mouth he is demeaning all of the men charged in the “me too” type actions for their behavior towards women. How does he not GET this double standard? Ugh. He really irks me. When people fawn all over him and say how fabulous he is, I want to puke…

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  38. zsa zsa says

    January 6, 2020 at 1:57 pm

    Andy Cohen, he posted he was in Miami

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  39. GypsySkylark says

    January 7, 2020 at 6:44 pm

    Andy and he’s a dirty wee pig who will never change

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