Some of you are in purgatory AKA perpetually moderated because YOU DO NOT READ THE COMMENTING RULES. If you hear stupid shit from stupid sites. please comment there. If you don’t know the difference between real sites and sites that make shit up, this is not the site for you.
Comment on my post in my comments and what you see elsewhere at that site. If another site has a different information than I do, POST YOUR COMMENTS ABOUT THEIR INFORMATION THERE. They did their work and deserve your comments. If you don’t believe them, don’t mention it here. See how easy that is? Don’t drag me in to blog wars, I will not go there. I do not care that you left another site to come to this one. If anything it just makes me think you are going to be a problem.
If I a feel another site has valid information, I will post and credit that site. If you continue to read bullshit sites that make shit up, you need to support that site and fuck off. As a former reading teacher, I’d suggest you take an 099 reading course where you can learn critical reading skills.
If you read here, you will know that RHOA is not in contract talks. So this bullshit about people getting fired is uninformed of the process and has no source. And is also just ridiculously stupid.
This site is informed with facts. And IF YOU WOULD READ THE COMMENTING RULES you would know that if some other site says something else you should comment there and not ask me. I will continue to relay information from actual sources and not make shit up for clickbait. Thanks and have a nice day.
A to the Men. Lack of critical literacy leaves me gobsmacked (as a former teacher of same also ) How many times have we had to have this talk now? It’s not hard, people!
Well, since menopause I use the weirdest words I don’t mean to type and don’t spell so good. But yeah. Critical thinking skills are lost on so many. I get people sending me things with subject lines that say “this site is saying THIS” and if you actually read the story, it doesn’t say that at all. It’s just clickbait. People often don’t read the posts here even and just post based off the title.
Keep swinging. And continue to keep it real. The “not for the easily offended” disclaimer and warning really says it all. As one who offends people here at times with my views on life, I often wonder where I got my ‘devil may care’ attitude. I’m fairly sure several years ago I was LWS (or something)- but I still read every day! Hence, the not easily offended tag. Honestly, viewing other sites is never as gratifying as here, but go ahead if you must. And the commenters elsewhere? Snooze fest. Thanks for holding us to a higher standard!
You are my source if i see something on another site and you aren’t blogging it, either you are confirming information or its just pr and not worth our time or clicks
As a current reading teacher, I thank you for this reminder!
ugh, I hate when my last name gets posted!!!!! It fills in automatically!
You can fix that in Gravatar. Click on your avatar/logo and it will take you to the place where you can sign in there or through FB or Google. If you choose FB ir Google, I BELIEVE the email associated with those will need to match the email address you use on TT.
Smart thinking!!! Thanks Nanette 🙂
I removed it. And I have a shit ton of stuff for you if you need it. I even have an ELMO or two…
Thank you!!!!
For Big Brother posts only (S22 will start this summer), I believe it’s OK for us to post what’s happening on the Big Brother 24/7 live feeds…assuming CBS even decides to have live feeds this summer after the S21 debacle with so many bigoted comments made by BB houseguests on live feeds. 🥴 TT could confirm if this will still be OK.
Of course. I think of Big Brother as sort of a separate club from the site. Kinda like the Lentil Season secret club. And all things will always be spoiled for BB because it has live feeds we all watch. Now you have me counting down the days until June.
The best part of watching BB feeds is TT’s site here. We do have fun! I keep telling everyone to get a roku stick so you can watch the feeds on your televisions, it’s much more fun this way, but you won’t watch anything else all summer long.
I don’t and have never watched Big Brother but I read every BB post and every BB comment here. I’m kind of a loser with no life what I can I say but I thoroughly enjoy those posts and comments!!
Wow! You’re not a loser, please don’t ever think of yourself that way. Please join us and comment when it’s on, even if you’re not watching. I bet from our comments you know more than just a casual viewer. Join us please!!
You are not a loser. You are my friend. I’m just some old fatass lady on the couch reaching out to all of you. And you are all my secret group of friends. I you want to join the secret LENTIL SEASON group, we are about to get started again. if you look up on the black bar you will find us under the secret FT link. FT means Fat Tuesday and it will be there that after Christmas we start talking about losigd weight as we do every year BUT FIRST, The new neighbors are bringing Christmas COOKIES! For real. I have some great new neighbors! And I have you Kelnlola. So I am not a loser either! We have each other.
I’m sitting with you Kelnlola. I watched BB Celebrity when Kandi was on. I read every post and comment, I’m kinda positive I’ve commented too because I do that, but I don’t really get “it”. I’ve not watched “Survivor” either other then occasional clips etc. but I read every post and comment since I found TT. I’m not ruling out ever watching either of these shows since a TV binge is a real ability now…and the comments tend to allow for understanding of TT’s community.
Just know, you are not alone.✌
This seems like the best place to ask about posting about things we see about Bravo shows on the REAL Bravo site. Is that OK?
What about on a VERIFIED Bravolebrity’s Instagram or Twitter?
If I see something weird that I think MAY BE TRUE or that I think you may want to check out, I usually send you an email message. I do not consider SHITE from SHITE sites worthy of an email, just so you, or anyone reading, knows.
Happy Sunday.
Of course. we all want to know those things. If you think it is breaking news, an email would be greatly appreciated if you think it is post worthy… xo ~tt
This is my ONLY to to site. I couldn’t tell you the names of any others if you put a gun to my head. I do click on the links TT provides, but I don’t even remember the lady’s name!
TT fan forever!
Thanks so much, and not to be begging for clicks but it’s December and posts are hard to find these days because everyone is out with their kids and shopping and so times get a bit lean this time of year xo ~tt
For the love of God people read the rules! How many times do you need to hear this you fucking fucktards!
I know, right?
Is this a good time to point out once again that the black bar on the top of every page is a link bar where you can click to read about your favorite show or blind items or you now, THE COMMENTING RULES? lol. xo ~tt
Also, while we are in here where no one is reading, I kind of just broke up with Lawn Kid. My real lawn guy of many years who lives part time in Louisiana stopped in to check on me today. We’ve become friends over the years. I tried to get Lawn Kid a job with him and he told me that under no circumstances should I give the kid another dollar. He is worried about my safety and told me to call him immediately if any strange people showed up knocking on the door. It’s not the kid so much as his friends he says… and he is right.
In the meantime. I gave him presents for his mom/girlfriend from IJS and a bunch of other stuff. Yesterday he asked me for a duffel bag to carry the leaf blower he borrows from another neighbor. I didn’t have one. Today, some other lady gave him a duffel bag. So I am probably not the first mark. Also his girlfriend just got out of the hospital with kidney stones and needs money for her prescription. Yet they are both walking miles and miles looking for work?
I NEED TO STOP HELPING PEOPLE. It’s a sickness.
See how you keep people in line here on this site? Do this with this kid! Tell him to get lost. He will move on once he knows he will not get anything from you, so don’t worry.
He has too many sob stories for all of this to be true. You don’t need this aggravation and worry in your life. I think he pretends to be naive, sweet, innocent… some people are really good at it to manipulate people to feel sorry for them.
I’m glad your real lawn man is there for you, wee are too. If you need anything, reach out. But please get rid of him. I think deep down you feel something isn’t quite right with the whole situation, listen to your instincts. Get out now!
I know there have been times when I’ve been had–hey, how about the young gal who stayed in my mobile home in the park I once owned & kept furnished as a safe house for the women’s shelter when it wasn’t rented. She left me a sweet note thanking me, telling me no one had ever treated her that nice in her life except her mother. Too bad she stole all the brand new towels when she left. I look at it this way. A gift of mine has no strings. If it is abused, that is on the recipient. I already got my good feelings from the giving, & that’s all I ever need. The kicker to this particular tale is that this young girl was so dumb that when she got ready to leave my trailer she posted on My Space that her mom was going to drive her out of state to stay with a relative where she would be safe from the abusive boyfriend. Of course he read her post, so he burned down the mom’s house while she was driving her daughter to the relative’s house. I only lost some Walmart towels, & that sure wasn’t enough to stop me.
Helping people is still good, just be aware of your own safety. My husband is in law enforcement and worries if someone knows about us, or about our house or our schedule, because they may have a FRIEND or relative who thinks it’s a good idea to rob us. I know you hate to go out of the house but getting out there is a great way to help, and if that is too hard, setting up a fundraiser, toy drive, something you can do from your home will help others, and not cost you your safety.
Also I am too scared to refer to a podcast or sirius show because I dont want to break the rules. so it never happens by me. I would email you but I dont want to bother you…. i will if I have something good that only i know. It can happen…
We’re all worried about your safety from this kid and his friends. You deleted the post about it before because the comments stressed you out. You are now inviting more stressful comments with your comment. My email offer still stands. You have my number and I’m an easy ride from you.
Plus, it’s snowing her in Godforsaken rural MO. I could use some warm weather, sunny skies, southern hospitality and listening to that very strange accent y’all speak with. I also like kicking people who take advantage and I’ve never met a beastly dog that doesn’t end up living me.
I love you. I am fine. But your willingness to drive across the universe… let;s save that so you can visit me in uruguay…
Count me in Shay, with either trip (across the Universe? Really? It’s called a road trip FFS! Dramatic much TT?) Oh ya, the rules…
TT, sorry you have to keep repeating the obvious. I do understand that people land here from other blogospheres, unprepared and or under educated, the truth can be shocking. Some people are able to read a room, some get confused or scared then calm down, some think they own YOUR room and try to excuse their bullish behavior after breaking every rule and when still not satisfied? They try to blame everyone (mostly you TT) for their behavior. Tamara, I appreciate your curating of TamaraTattles. Yup, I’m sure it gets old at times but because people come and go, read or don’t read even your posts (um, why? I will never understand that, you have the wittiest, most informed, personal and scathingly truthful posts and I love them!)…I imagine it does take occasional grooming and tending which I find you are excellent at, thank you for ALL you do Tamara.
I like to think all of you stick around for a reason. Even when/If I move to Uruguay, I hope you will all stick with me. I am sure I will have way more interesting stories to tell than RH recaps.
OH NO! I totally violated your rules regarding a Vicki Rumor! Please please please forgive me TT! I was overly excited about the “news” that I posted before thinking….promise to never do that again!
You are fine. Don’t worry.
Y’all thanks for everything but I am fine. REALLY and I have new neighbors who are very nice, I’m going to be fine. I’m just a bit stressed and don’t much care about RHOA tonight,
You guys are all so sweet. I am going to be fine, Every place is a little bit unsafe. I only freak out because I don;t have a man like you do. But I am prepared. And when Banjo dies i will move. It is all good here.
Good to know. I have no doubt that you’re safe. I feel bad coming off harsh about Lawn Boy, he could be the nicest person on earth for all I know. If you love him, we love him, if you don’t, well.. we don’t.
I love him too. But all the men in my life that I trust are telling me I am putting myself in harms way. So… one of them will be here tomorrow. And he will have a grown ass man convo with him and send him away.
I do love him. He is just making me a target in the hood.
I understand. I really do. I think everyone here knows exactly what you’re going through. He would make my heart melt, then I would get mad, you know, back and forth.
I think it’s good that an older, wiser (tougher) man steps in and helps. We can’t have you in harms way. Let your man (friend) do his thing. He will know exactly how to handle it.
I wish this boy peace and hope he finds his way, but you need peace of mind. The boy is still young, he has his whole life ahead of him. He will find his way.
It’s just disappointing that it turned out this way. But I’m glad you have some good support.
I typed a whole message that didn’t go through. Just know I love you guys.
TT, PLEASE CHECK YOUR EMAIL WHEN YOU WAKE UP TODAY BC ITS IMPORTANT!
To everyone else in our little community, I will still be checking in here, just commenting less frequently since kids start arriving today (Yay!), But I want to officially wish you all peace, good health, and much happiness over the Holiday Break, no matter which Holiday you celebrate! (Same for those of you who don’t celebrate a Holiday this time of year) And to those of you who experience the blues or depression more deeply when this time of year rolls around, please remember that this is temporary, you are not alone, nor are you alone in having those feelings so reach out for help if it’s too much to bear. I appreciate and love everyone here! Thank you to everyone here and what you do the whole year through. You all are a special group of incredible people and y’all deserve ALL THE JOYS!
A special thanks to TT for creating this place and everything she does for ALL of us every day of the year. Broke the mold with her!
BEST WISHES AND ALL THE BLESSINGS OF THE SEASON TO EVERYONE! 🙂❤️