It’s been a busy day for Jenelle Evans and David Eason news. It’s been about a week since Jenelle took the kids and left David Eason. That event happened a day or two after Jenelle met with MTV executives in NYC. Since that time she has had no contact with David Eason. And as predicted, he is starting to freak out.
Multiple sources report that today, David Eason attempted to file a missing persons report on both Jenelle and his daughter, Ensley. Jenelle took Ensley with her when she left.
According to The Ashley, Jenelle Evans has obtained a restraining order against David to keep him away from her and her daughter. The site also reports that Jenelle has fled the state. She has no plans to return to THE LAND to retrieve any of her belongings or her children’s.
I believe the restraining order will help Jenelle be able to file for divorce in a state that doesn’t require a year long separation first. She will claim she had to flee North Carolina for her own safety. And nothing could be more true than that. She also has the 911 calls from when David abused her on THE LAND.
Now TMZ is reporting that David is reporting one of his dogs has been stolen. David replaced the dog he murdered with two new ones. David recently compared that situation to the time that Jenelle pulled a gun on a driver in a fit of road rage.
Did Jenelle Evans Take Kaiser?
I hope that Jenelle is in a state far, far away and not staying with any friends or family that David could trace. I have a feeling that Teen Mom producers may be giving here a bit of help in getting away from David. She never had many friends after David came on the scene. I hope she is able to file for a quick divorce somewhere and that she is able to maintain some of her assets so she is able to take care of all those kids.
As for our favorite kid, Kaiser, I’m not sure where he is. He was with Barbara I think when Jenelle went to NYC. But he didn’t seem to be with her for Halloween. So either Jenelle Evans took him or he is with Nathan. Nathan is having his own problems. He was recently arrested for DUI. The thing was he was not driving. It seems ridiculous to me.
The world has gone crazy. The news is on and some idiot murdered someone for cutting the line to get a Popeye’s chicken sandwich. Someone is dead over a chicken sandwich. /insert shaking my damn head emoji here.
Hi. She will have to file here because this is where she has been a permanent resident and where they spend their marriage. If she tries to file somewhere else the court will reject her pleading and instruct her to file in the correct jurisdiction. And she does not have Kaiser. Friends in town (Wilmington) said Barbara still has him but his dad had him for a few days. Barbara took him to the trampoline place over the weekend.
It’s different for victims of abuse. For instance, I was a resident of Louisiana my entire life but fled with my kids in the middle of the night to Florida. I only had to stay for 30 days before I could file using evidence (police report, restraining order). Most all states have this rule as well. Everything was regarding our estate and child support was separate. In fact, I left in 2017 and were only just getting to child support now.
Unless North Carolina has specific laws on the matter, in the US it is in the advantage of the person who files for divorce first as they can choose the court and jurisdiction. TamaraTattles is correct that by establishing the restraining order, she can validate her rationale for moving for security purposes. She now needs to establish the custody arrangement – supervised visitation as he has the right to have his daughter regardless of what he has done at this point – unless the court thinks otherwise. She has been planning her escape for awhile I suspect as she set up the meeting in NYC to make sure she has her job back to establish income. This would make sense if she went out of state, needed to rent a place etc. What has been made public to date is indicative that she is in grave danger for leaving. He killed the family pet in front of the minor children. Aside from not using good judgement, or rational thinking to do something like that, it is important to understand that the dog was Janelle’s dog. That was a message to her, anyone in the court system would understand that.
I lived North Carolina for years and had a destination wedding in Seaside Florida. After the wedding I moved to Tulsa while my then husband finished his doctoral program in psychology, of all things. After 5 years of being mind f*cked and cheated on, I moved back to my hometown in Arkansas to file. The only requirement was to provide proof of 30 days residency in the state which was easy as getting a utility bill in my name! By far the easiest part of the whole process.
This is so heartbreaking.
I disagree. While I find it scary, it’s also amazing. Jenelle is FINALLY valuing herself and her children. She’s finally breaking free of her abusive husband. She’s finally rescuing Kaiser from one of his abusers.
To rescue Kaiser from both abusers would be to get herself the therapy she needs because Jenelle also abused Kaiser. She abused him each time she stood by while David abused him. She didn’t call the police when Kaiser’s abuser locked him in a car. That makes her complicit in the abuse.
That’s not to take away from her courageous act of leaving David. That’s step one. But I’d like to see her get a regular job and not go back to reality tv. She will continue down the same path with another man the moment that money starts rolling in again because they will come out of the woodwork to worm their way into her checking account. She will fall for it again if she’s had no therapy.
Please, please let Nathan have full custody of Kaiser. He is the safe parent regardless of Jenelle having left David. It will take time for Jenelle to become a safe parent. Kaiser has suffered enough.
To clarify- after she meets the filing requirement in another state she COULD file there for a divorce, but not for equitable distribution or custody and child support. Does she own “the land” or anything with him? If not, and she doesn’t want anything from him she could file somewhere else but if he wants to be a dick (which he most likely will) he could make it difficult.
She can get her divorce once she establishes residency in another state, in that state. That doesn’t mean she has to forfeit distribution of assets in NC. Her NC attorneys can represent her there in that action once the divorce is granted in the new state.
Tamara do you know if NC is a no-fault state?
Both of their names are on the deed to The Land. So it’s gonna be a shitshow. Which, really, it was always destined to become. I’m worried most about Maryssa. Jenelle can’t take her anywhere, no one can.
I think Maryssa went back with her grandmother or some someone and was actually back in school…. at least I hope that is right.
Really??? I am so relieved to read this. Do you know when that started? I have always worried so much about her.
Me too. That poor little girl. I hope she’s in a safe and stable environment. She’s at such a vulnerable age and I’m sure she’s in need of counseling. Like for trauma. I forgot the details on her mom but I’m guessing David did a number on her too. Whatever the mom story is, bottom line is that little girl paid the price and I’m sure she’s also got major abandonment issues. This part is truly heartbreaking.
Although this is really scary, it seems like Jenelle has finally gained the courage to leave the psychopath. I hope you are correct in that MTV people are helping her. I’ll be saying extra prayers for her and the kids and Barb too because they are in terrible danger from David. Jenelle has finally maybe grown up, y’all! Best decision she’s ever made.
Prayers for Janelle and those precious babies, hoping for a happy outcome.
I had the chicken sandwich today and it’s really good. IJS
When they brought the sandwich back and were promoting it everywhere a while back, they kept running out and there was a shooting at Popeye’s here too! Must be a tasty sandwich! I’ve yet to try it.
Popeyes is good. But isn’t worth dying over. They are pretty expensive and the customer service is shit. They cannot get an order right for the life of them.
So I went into the world today and across town where there’s a Popeye’s and finally tried the damn sandwich. Good news: No one got shot or stabbed. Even better news: I don’t have to drive across town again because it doesn’t hold a candle to Chic-fil-A! Their fried chicken and Cajun fries are good, but nothing compares to the CFA sauce. I’m just saying.
She should let that loser keep THE LAND. Isn’t it sinking due to bad or no foundation?
There is no way he will forfeit THE LAND. He has zero income to buy her out yet me thinks it will be another Waco before he willingly leaves the property.
Hopefully David will be back in jail for something or another and she can come back and remove the arsenal of guns and bullets and at least get her stuff out.Then they can try to sell the swampland.
Went to Popeyes in Decatur the other day and this lady was shouting over the counter at the manager. That manager was unshakable. She’s my new hero. She ended the verbal abuse by simply saying “You have a blessed day ma’am.” And the chicken sandwich wasn’t even available yet.
I may be missing something but that seems like a particularly awful law to have to wait an entire year to get divorced. I’m sure I can Google it but I have like 4 brain cells left after the day I’ve had. I really didn’t even have that many to start with. Just seems like a backward ass law that can trap someone in a real shit situation.
It’s the law in Maryland as well. When I got divorced, I was told the law happened because the state is heavily Catholic and is in place to ensure that people have plenty of time to think about the divorce. In Maryland, if there are no children, you can’t even live in the same house at any time of that year. Even if you both own the home. If you have kids, there’s a way to get around that, but it can be tricky. It’s an annoying law. That said, I do think that, when abuse isn’t an issue, having a cooling off period before the divorce is final isn’t a bad idea. Signed, someone who got back together with their spouse after nine months.
Yes the year wait was a mandatory requirement for ever almost everywhere, quite a few stares no longer have that as a requirement. I certainly hope she has help from someone. I was asked once if I had uncles or brothers, We still live in a age where some men only respect another man standing there, think it’s the coward thing. Help at this time could make a big difference for her.
Popeye’s sandwich to die for, think it was bc the guy cut in line also.
Thinking of driving over to the next town to try a sandwich this week. Want to see what makes it so good to wait in line for. I’m impatient recently, not sure how well I’ll do. I’ll take a friend.
TT you take care girl.
I feel like I was inside your brain just now. Lol Good post.
She only left him for a paycheck. The girl is seriously not right in the head. What a messy situation for all the innocent children involved. She is not to be praised. It’s one bad decision after another and dragging poor kids along. She is a very disturbed person-well, she left him, for now. This won’t end well.
Really? I just can’t with this line of thinking. Christ! “She is not to be praised” classy. She’s raising 3 little children, one with serious medical needs. Jimmy is the piece of shit douchebag in this equation. He’s also the one who started the public nastiness. Whatever. Smh
OMG! I AM SO SORRY! MY BAD! I was on the wrong post! I thought I was on the Megan King Edmonds one and that you were talking about her. I’ve had a long day and I’m in a mood. Please accept my apology! I’m going to sign off before I get put in the WLS myself. Clearly my brain is fried!
TT, if you can delete my reply I’d be grateful. I’ve embarrassed myself and I hope @justso can forgive me.
FWIW, I usually love your comments and thought this one was strange coming from you. Then I realized you were talking about Jenelle!
Goodnight all. (Hangs head in shame and embarrassment)
It happens to us all.
Giggle, you won’t be sent to the WLS (auto correct just capitalized that for me, giggling again) for this mess! I’ve done so way worse and just received question marks and sympathy cards.
Plus, your observations regarding “Jimmy”, I mean really, who is called “Jimmy” at 49? Spot on and carry on IJC.
Omg who is called Jimmy at almost 50 yrs old!
I moved to Oregon from Cali 2 years ago and what I miss the most is the following: Weinerschnitzel, Chili’s, Famous Dave’s, El Pollo Loco and Popeye’s. Especially the bread pudding and pecan pie from Famous Daves. We are however getting a Chick fil a, so there’s some good news.
I hope the best for Jenelle’s children and Maryssa. I hope the swamp just opens up and swallows David whole.
El Pollo Loco is good, you need a road trip.
IJC, I agree with everyone else. You did nothing wrong. No WLS for you. Your comments are always so thorough, thought provoking and compassionate. Oh and you’re funny. A little confusion between these ‘men’ is a very common error. They’re both terrible, but David is scary!
Wow! Thanks, y’all! This is why I love it here. You all are awesome. Warms my heart! ❤️
TT, thank you too so much! I was tired and HANGRY and had a long day. Just felt awful for coming for another commenter and for the wrong reason/post. I’m an idiot sometimes.
Thank you all for taking me warts and all! Feeling acceptance in the group is actually something I really needed right now. It’s my place to get away from the IRL crap. Y’all have no idea. I truly feel like y’all are my friends.
xoxo
IJC, i was actually going to not comment this week because i have a bleep in my brain i think, lol. Thought to writings are just off.
(You always will be that extra special person.😘)
Back at ya girl 😘 and I always have a bleep in my brain… I clearly don’t let it stop me and I have zero restraint here lol!
Taking a rather hard line because little is true on these reality shows. Unless she is getting counseling and support-she will give in. She is vulnerable to him and with time she will forget just how scary this guy is. The children must be protected. Not sure she is capable. But also hope for the best but know how these situations never end well, unfortunately.
IJC, HAVE YOU MET ME? I make comments on the wrong posts all the time. You are just fine, my dear. What I REFUSE to do is let you think you have a reason to be ashamed or embarrassed. We all love you here. And y’all forgive me every day for my stupid shit. Now stop that and just come back tonight or whenever you want. We are HERE FOR THE BAD DAYS, and the good ones.
However I was coming here to ream out Justso too. Because my sources say that Jenelle is in fear for her life. Jenelle is a fuckup who makes bad decisions. She also has three young children. She has finally made a good one. Can we not write her off as unredeemable? How you you look if there were cameras following you all over the place when you were in your twenties making bad decisions? This is not the time to be trashing Jenelle. This is the time to hope she and her children get out alive. If she can turn her life around, isn’t that what we want for her and especially those kids?
Thanks again, T. I’ve come to the point of not knowing what I would do without this site. I luh it here. Thanks for creating this space and for being you. I consider you my friend as well. Didn’t mean to derail the thread or your opportunity to ream someone out with my stupidity lol. Carry on!
xo
Not to mention coming out of a abusive relationship is hard. They make your feel worthless and dependent so you won’t leave. When someone abused leaves it’s hardly for one reason like the paycheck everyone says but usually a built up laundry list of reasons that have given her the courage. I know from experience. I felt the people who judge me for how I handled it were just as bad as the abuser bc that had NO IDEA.
I just pray Jenelle, Barb and the kids can stay hidden. David is very dangerous. He’s delusional and getting desperate, due to losing his cash cow, and he’s armed to the teeth. I can think of so many nightmare scenarios. The only way I escaped my tormentor when I was a young woman was that he found another victim who had more resources than I did. He lost interest in pursuing me and avenging my betrayal. I’m not sure if something like that could happen with David— he’s too notorious on social media. I fear that David will see no acceptable options for himself and just go on a rampage. He’s way too narcissistic to kill himself.
Praying for the kids. I hope Jenelle has taken steps to keep them safe.
Jenelle states in the Nov. 4 filing that David’s threats have “escalated” over the past few days, adding, “Because of his recent threats, his history of violence, his erratic behavior and his large stockpile of weapons, I am scared for my life and my children’s well-being.”
The reality TV personality then details 11 alleged incidents involving David over the past two years. Jenelle accuses David of both physical and verbal abuse, in addition to destroying her property and killing their dog, which he’s previously admitted to. She temporarily lost custody of her kids when David killed the French bulldog in April, which also led to her firing from Teen Mom 2.
During one alleged incident Jenelle claims took place on February 17, 2019, David told her, “You can die for all I care. You’re a piece of s–t. Biggest piece of s–t I’ve ever seen.” Jenelle claims that she recorded David saying this, who then allegedly locked Kaiser in their running vehicle. “While Kaiser was trying to unlock it, David continuously locked it again with my spare key, scaring both me and Kaiser,” Jenelle states in the documents.
Late last month, Jenelle states that she arranged for childcare and traveled out of town for business meetings without telling David. In response, David allegedly accused Jenelle of cheating on him and sent her a picture of an unidentified man and wrote, “This is your new boyfriend. I’m going to break his neck and feed you his head.” David then allegedly texted her, “My goal in life is to make sure you regret leaving me like this.”
According to Jenelle, she then asked David to stop sending her “threatening texts” and confirmed that Ensley was going to remain in her care.
“Given his actions,” she writes in the filing, “and knowing his temperament, I believe he was implying that he would kill himself if I do not come back to him… For all of these reasons, I’m afraid that David will harm me or my children, and that he will continue to threaten me using text messages, phone calls, or on the internet.”
The protection order awards temporary custody to Jenelle, mandates that David will have no contact with Jenelle or the children and will not post about Jenelle on social media or the internet. Jenelle has also requested that David pay for attorney’s fees as the case continues.
E! Also disclosed the state where Jenelle is now residing. I was pissed about that but perhaps David or his attorney would have been given access. Link to post
My God, he is out of his mind! I believe he is the most dangerous personality that we have seen on TV.
I don’t get why there isn’t an arrest or something. He put Kaiser’s life in danger by locking him in a running car. He repeatedly threatened Jenelle. This is all very disturbing.
He needs to be locked up somewhere. A protection order is not enough!
Fuck! He is an unhinged psychopath! Omg!
I know many of us have been worried about Jenelle and the children for a long time. David is dangerous and unhinged. He is scary because we have no idea what he will do and what he is capable of. I wish he would go away!
I am hoping that he will just STOP and live on THE LAND alone. Better yet, go live in a cave, a desert, just a place where he is not in society. He has no business having a wife and kids. I cannot stress this enough; he is dangerous.
I wish Jenelle and the kids the best and hope they can find some peace by being and staying far away from this lunatic, forever! This should be taken very seriously and I am glad MTV is helping her.
Prayers for Jenelle and the children that they’re all safe and in the long run, find some peace and comfort for what they have endured.
I get that Jenelle picked him and it was a huge mistake. We all make mistakes, some worst than others. She left him, this is a big step in the right direction. She needs support and help while trying to stay out of danger.
Wow! So she really did leave him! That’s good news for her and the kids, but I hope custody of Jace stays with Barbra and Kaiser either stays with Nathan or one of his Grandmas. Poor Ensley is stuck with one of them. David is by far and away the most dangerous man she’s even been with, but she doesn’t have a history of picking great men or staying single for more than five minutes so those kids are better off somewhere safe and stable until Jenelle gets her life together.
Barbara has full permanent custody of Jace. I doubt that will ever change.
This is what happens when you marry a guy after knowing him for what, a day or so? Didn’t she meet him on line and then 2 seconds later she was shacking up planning an “extravaganza” wedding for the “mom’s” program? By the by…..isn’t the clock just about ready to go “DING” for all these single moms? Nobody cares about a bunch of 20 something women raising children with husbands, girlfriends or alone it just is not a story line. All the Jennelle drama is nothing new, her life has been one drama after another since the show began. Jenelle is a walking disaster. I have absolutely NO SYMPATHY for her, I do fear for her children living in this chaos. All the men she has chosen to procreate with have been loosers, so, to end up in this current situation is no surprise. I didn’t know her currant husband killed their family pet, that is SUPER TROUBLING, it demonstrates his ability to take a life albeit an animal with no remorse, that gives me pause. So, Jennelle, it is time to find a job, A REAL JOB, not a reality show job, something that you can do now and into the future. My guess is you are a smart girl, you should have something saved from your time on the show to use to go back to school and learn a trade or a career, something you can do that will support you and all your children. One other tip TIE YOUR TUBES you are in no condition psychologically or financially to bring another soul into this world, don’t screw up another person, try to repair the psyches of the children you have all of them are going to need YEARS of THERAPY.
Regarding making a “mistake”, to me everybody makes a mistake means I chose the wrong major in College but realized it and was able to correct my mistake” or I picked the wrong size sweater for a family member, I have to return it and get the right size, that is a mistake, CONSTANTLY CHOSING BAD MATES AND THEN BRINGING A CHILD INTO THE WORLD IS NOT A MISTAKE IT IS A DISASTER, now you are connected to that case she is connected to that man until the child becomes a legal adult THAT IS NOT A MISTAKE, JENELLE GETS NO PASSES FOR POOR JUDGEMENT, HER VERSION OF A MISTAKE. When Jenelle makes a “mistake” it is never her responsibility, she wants to be the victim, in most cases, she is NO VICTIM, AND SOMETIMES SHE IS THE INSTIGATOR. Anyone familiar with the expression “you lay down with dogs you get up with fleas”? That describes Jenelle’s current situation to a T.
You put less bluntly what I had written above. No pity for Jenelle. She doesn’t make decisions based on what are her children’s (or the dog’s for that matter ) best interests. Horrible man that had a child with, threatened her and their lives and killed her dog. That’s evil. But, she won’t stay away. She’s like a moth to a flame for that guy. Sometimes, sadly, there are no good answers-just tough ones. Those innocents belong with caring, responsible adults-not this garbage.
This is scary and sad. Everything about him and his actions screams murder suicide.. I hope Jenelle can stay hidden but I don’t see how considering how well known she is. If he gets Ensley and/or Jenelle on the land for one minute, I don’t think any of them are leaving.. 🙁