90 Day Fiance’s Aladin Jallali has posted a very lengthy series of videos documenting the problems in his marriage to Laura. Grab a snack and read it all below.
I was catfished. Plain and simple. When Laura and I met online, she shared photos that portrayed her to be much younger than she is. Her photos, I discovered later, were highly edited. Even she admitted to this during taping, but no one paid any attention to it. She told me she was 40 years old and I believed her. I did not even know she was using fake hair extensions,etc. When we met in person, I was surprised but I already had feelings for the person I thought she was. We had already decided to get married before even meeting. How else would we have had all documents necessary during this trip to get the marriage registered?
She wanted to say the story about me proposing after a few days in a cafe because she thought it would make our storyline more interesting. I discovered her age when we went for the marriage license and they asked for her passport. That is when I saw her age was in fifties and not 40 as she told me. When confronted,she initially gave me a story about how a mistake in her passport had been made.
Laura Lied About Her Age
However, when the registrar asked to see her birth certificate, the date was the same. She said the mistake had been in the birth certificate and that is why it was in the passport as well. I did not believe it and eventually she admitted the truth. The reason I stayed was because I already loved her and I thought in the end, if this is the worst thing, I can handle it.
I was never supposed to come to America. I knew she did not have a green card and that she only had a temporary status. The stories she told me varied on when I asked. Sometimes she said she was on a work visa, sometimes a visitor pass. She did not leave the USA. She specifically used the term deported with me. That is why she came to Qatar.
Aladin Knew That Marrying Her Would Not Get Him a Green Card
I did see that she had a page in her passport that said “rejected” or “denied from the USA” She herself told me that she was twice refused boarding by plane to YSA when we were together, so she entered by driving through the border instead. I saw she had ripped out the page with the denied or refused mention later. This might explain why there are photos circulating on the internet of her using a temporary green Canadian passport. I myself have not seen this passport.
I sent her money to sponsor me but she lied, she spent the money and never submitted the application.
Laura Wanted Aladin To Move To Canada
At some point she expressed the desire for us to move to Canada together. Since living in Canada would make it possible for us to travel back and forth, I agreed. She said she could sponsor me, and I believed her. I sent the money for the sponsorship application and found this summer that she lied and she never actually submitted it. She used the money and she just spent it. She repeatedly lied and said she had and that we were just waiting. Since then, I have learned from an immigration consultant that she could not have sponsored me as she herself was not in Canada. We did submit an application for a visitor visa early this year, which was denied. I was perfectly happy having her join me in Qatar.
Aladin Did Not Marry Her For Money
I did not use her for money. Let me be clear. In October 2017 I began working in Qatar. In January 2018 my sister died. I had not saved sufficient money to travel for her funeral. At that time, I was new. They wait more than a month to give the first paycheck so I had not accumulated much. She helped me by providing a ticket for me to go back to Qatar for my sister’s funeral– I believe it was around $400. This was one of the things that made me believe she was someone I could trust and love. I had been planning to ask my boss for an advance and repay him when I returned but she said she wanted to do this for me, I accepted her help.
Laura Lied About Having A Pension That Was Cut
On her podcast, Laura lied when she said that I left her after finding out that she lost her pension and could not sponsor me. Why? The amount she was getting was less that I received for my basic salary plus commission. The fact is, I knew months before that she had lied about even sponsoring me and I told her to just leave it and that is another reason why she was living permanently in Qatar. The timeline of these two events did not coincide.
Aladin Was The Primary Provider In The Marriage
She exaggerated about helping with rent. When she came to Qatar in March 2019,I paid rent for March and April. She paid for May and June and I paid July and August. So yes, she did pay for 2 of the 6 months’ rent while there–because I spent every penny of my savings and earnings for her. However, during all of her stays, I paid for the food, utilities, cells, car, gas, bought her clothes and shoes, jewelry, paid for outings as well as our travels, 3 day wedding and honeymoon, plus all the expenses in Tunisia as well. At the time, she did not object. The money she got from the show was used as she wanted, while I used mine for our wedding. If I had been using her for money, 2 months would not be worth spending 10 times more.
Laura Spent Her Money On Luxuries
She was wasteful with money. Laura liked to go drink in fancy hotels where a glass of alcohol was the price of a bottle she could have had at home. She told me she was sending money to Liam and that she was supporting him financially. From what I read online from her ex, it seems she lied about this too and that Liam was helping her instead. In her podcast she said that I kept the wedding money, and my money, as well as her money from the show. This is a lie. First, yes the small amount of money I received for the wedding was applied to the wedding, as supposed to.
That only made a dent in the total cost. Second the show pays both of us. Her money was sent to her,in her bank account, that I never had access to.Mine was sent to me and I used it all for the wedding. Laura loved to be extravagant- she even went and booked hotels to stay in without even telling me, while we had a perfectly fine house to stay in. Was I careful with money? Yes. because we had a budget to stick to in order to make the wedding happen and not have debt on our heads.
Was Laura on Disability?
She keeps saying her pension was cut. First, Laura told me she retired from her job 5 years ago. Until our separation I never questioned her much about it or doubted it. She said she had been some kind of manager in an automotive store. This basically means she would have retired around 45-46. After our separation, it came to my attention that the salary of an automotive parts store is not so high,certainly not enough to save to retire at 45.
I suppose it could have been possible that she would have been on Long Term Disability Benefits but that is not “Retirement”. Considering retirement age in Canada is 65, she was too young for old age pension or Canada Pension Plan (CPP). It also does not make sense that her employer would pay her a pension for retirement 20 years early!
And if she had been on a pension, why would it have been cut? Some people have speculated that perhaps she was drawing something called ODSP- Ontario Disability Support Program (maybe supplemented by early CPP when someone can no longer work) or Ontario Works, the equivalent to welfare. I can’t confirm her specific situation but it sure makes more sense than the story she is telling.
Laura Is A Mean Drunk
She has a drinking problem. I am not saying she is an alcoholic, but she cannot handle her alcohol well. When she drinks, she becomes mean, impolite, rude and violent. I did not like dealing with her in these times. We were on our honeymoon and she would get drunk until passed out snoring on the bed without even taking her clothes off or washing herself. How embarrassing when my relatives can hear her snoring from other rooms and acting rude.
Laura Tried Making Her Own Wine In Qatar
The wine event was staged. What actually happened in 2018, when she lived with me in Qatar, she decided to make wine in the closet without my knowledge. She did something wrong and it exploded in the closet while trying to open it. I heard a noise, ran to the room and found a disgusting smell and all my winter clothes stained with this. I was angry first because it is illegal and we could both be in trouble-me more than her
Second, why hide like a child why not ask or tell me? The producers thought it was hilarious and they decided to go shopping with her to make the wine for the show. Again, I was upset because this could have gotten us in trouble. Besides, as a foreigner, there are places she could buy for personal use in her home if she needed it that badly.
Aladin also announced on IG that he and Laura are not together. He posted, “But I wish her no harm and wish her good luck with her future men.”
Starcasm also has a ton of information about Laura and her past here. She has apparently faked a pregnancy trying to get back with Aladin. No one believed her.
I think I believe him
I totally believe. Laura is a whack job.
What he’s saying makes more sense than the shit she’s been spinning.
What a nightmare she is.
Count me in as a believer! You could just tell that he had a certain amount of sincerity about him but she just puts on an act
Laura also misled everyone into believing she was an American retiree living in Florida, meanwhile she’s a Canadian citizen not authorized to be in the USA. She never mentioned that in her intro.
Yep, and as someone who has been looking into retiring abroad for some time, and as someone who know people trying to get residency here that was very strange to me. It’s HARD to get residency in countries you don’t live in. When my family lived abroad for five years we would have to leave the country every so often, stay gone for a couple of weeks and come back on a new visa. I am pretty sure that my dad’s job or at least part of it was to keep everyone’s visas up to date.
She did actually mention she was Canadian and that she was retired down in Florida. That was my first red flag because a retired Canadian can visit Florida short term every year but cannot live there without some kind of visa – which would be impossible to attain without being sponsored by either an employer or a spouse. So to myself I was wondering ‘how can she swing that?’ My in-laws are snowbirds and literally count each day they are in the US, if they get caught being over by even one day they could get a 10 year travel ban. As TT said it is very difficult to acquire residency in another country.
Aw, I love that you chose Canookian as your screen name.
Hmm, I just watched 90 Day Fiance on TLC on Demand and the show begins with a paragraph scrolled across the TV screen…”Six Americans are abandoning life in the U.S. to start over in a foreign land.” I assumed they were all American.
So did I.
I guess that IS misleading, but in her first scenes she mentions her Canadian-ness as she sets up her story line.
I read the article in which her ex-husband alleges that she gave birth to Liam in the states and that Liam has US citizenship and she has been living off of him in Florida – somewhat explains Liam’s attitude towards her. This also makes me think she has been trying to convert for a long, loooong time and had the child down there to have an ‘in’. I wonder is she can’t or won’t live in Canada 🤷🏻♀️
I was impressed by his writing skills. I can’t send a one sentence email without errors and I only made two or three edits to his entire 1600 word essay. I believe him too. I have seen some of her IG photos and she looks NOTHING like her photos. I love that he already loved her and was going to overlook the age difference.
Evelin is saying that Aladin thought Laura had something going on with Raul in Ecuador and that is why he dumped her. Evelin is an idiot.
Omg Evelin is a moron. I believe Aladdin. He cleared up a lot. Now it makes sense why Laura has been chillin in Ecuador
It all makes sense now. I totally believe him.
I believe him as well! You always seemed like a good person and feel liked you really tried with her and her son! You are definitely better off. Good luck on your new journey!
I thought it was his mother.
The guy has better grammar and vocabulary than most US HS graduates do nowadays. I don’t watch this show because I just can’t watch people that desperate. Jersey Shore desperate for attention ALMOST is too much.
Tamara, do you have any insight about the level of vetting or liability the show has? After Rodney Acola was on Dating game and that guy from another dating show killed his wife and put her parts in a Dumpster, I think that risk management would ensure SOME LEVEL of veracity checks and psyche evals would be in place.
In happy news, we went in the backyard and two guinea pigs are now six. Four perfect miniatures (guinea pig babies are born with teeth and fur) and they are SO CUTE. But not part of the plan. We rescued two females. Dooby was pregnant, but we didn’t know — 60 – 72 days gestation. Ooby looks a little bulged too.
Random question … what do six guinea pigs become?
um I give up?
A herd, I think.
I rescued a female guppy years ago, a coworker was about to pour it into the garbage disposal while I was in the break room having lunch, so I told her to give it to me and I’d keep it a bowl in my office. Several months later I came to work to find a ton of babies….the damn fish had been preggers….which led me to getting a second small bowl for the maternity ward and a tank for the mother. Bought all kinds of tank decorations. A year later, that one fish turned into dozens of guppies. I had resigned myself to being a “fish lady” who was going to be forever tied to these suckers. But one day I came home from work and the lightbulb in the tank had somehow come loose and dropped in the tank, boiled them alive. Only one fish survived. I put him in a small bowl and had him another five years before he finally died.
Based on everything I have read about her, I TOTALLY believe him.
This written explanation may be a little too perfect. Do you think the producers would be this remiss in verifying her information?
As Dr. Phil always says, ‘no matter how flat you make a pancake it still has two sides.’
Don’t be so sure Aladin is 100% correct.
I am very sure he is. And he has said that he had someone help him with his English and writing his side. English is his third language. He also said he wished he would have know that the could have had a translator at the tell all because people were talking at once and he was having trouble following it all.
I hope Aladin sees this post and sees how many of us believe his account of their relationship. That post answered a lot of questions I had, and I hope the divorce doesn’t take long, and that he finds a woman in the future who is better suited to him. I didn’t like how she publicly accused him of being gay, nor did I like how she acted so embarrassed to be dressed in the ceremonial dress for the wedding. She had no respect at all for his culture and rituals.
I agree with you,I thought it was also disrespectful for her to be discussing their sex life publicly,and refusing to believe that Aladin wanted nothing to do with her sex toys and with all the problems that they had all she focused on was jiggy jiggy,not being sexual pleased she is to old not to have handled that better keeping in mind that there was a cultural difference in there attitude about sex that should have been a private conversation.
I completly believe him. She was never pregnant either. Alot of times when one experiences an etopic pregnancy, they also usually loose the tube in which they were pregnant in. This is a serious condition. You are not just pregnant and whoops I lost the baby???!!! Get outta here smh.
True and Aladin has posted a lot more stuff. He says they went to a fertility doctor and that he said she had no viable eggs and would need donor eggs. He told them if they wanted to get it a try, Spain was their best option.
How are Laura and 90DF Angela not BFFs yet?! “I can tote it, I just need your egg”
I always got the sense that he was sincere, especially considering he stuck with her when he realized she had misrepresented herself. And Liam was all wrong about who was the bad person in this relationship. It wasn’t Aladin. One thing that I don’t understand about Laura and other women who go to Muslim countries and then act all surprised or outraged because of the rules. Do they think everywhere is like the United States? Do they not know anything about the rest of the world? Speaking of which, poor Avery. I don’t think her husband is a bad guy but he does live in a very unstable country. And Avery is so young, naive, headstrong, and won’t listen to ANYONE who tries to give her a reality check. I hate to see her so sad but I’m afraid for what the future of her marriage.
Another Aladin believer, right here. That lady is wacko!
I believe Aladin. Laura’s son is pretty goofy too! I don’t know where that son came from,but they should send him back to the zoo he came from 🥴 He was so rude to Aladin. I wanted to reach onto the screen & smack that boy! Both Laura & Goofy boy play games with the men Laura tries to be with!
I completely believe him.. he seemed genuine about wanting to get married and over all happy with his bride…Such as she was..His a good looking man.. I’m sure he could have his pick of women in his country should he have chose that…it seemed obvious that he liked Laura but not her behavior.. An American man will have had been displeased by her announcing that he was not good and bed and one it to introduce toys let alone a Muslim man.. She was completely insensitive to his culture.
Believable….. she’s not
It’s also a TV show people!! They got ratings didn’t they?… just what the producers wanted all along… if Aladdin really wanted out of it he should have said so immediately!!! … but, that wouldn’t have been a good show would it?… Do I believe him?… yes, I do.. but, like I said it’s a TV show and there aren’t any of them that are reality !!!… They totally a scripted!!!
It really shows how worthless the “tell-alls” that tlc does are. Shaun sucks as a host and they never ask good questions. Aladin’s personal tell all was way more informative than the two hours of tv I watched.
If Laura is taking a disability pension – Ontario Disability or the Canada Pension Plan Disability – she may not be returning to Canada because she would know that she has violated the agreement by living outside Canada. At a minimum she will have to pay back the money, and she may be charged with fraud. Being that she was on TV and did not appear to have a disability, this could be a nightmare for her. These pensions are very difficult to obtain and many deserving folks get turned down, so I hope for her sake, she is not drawing a disability pension. Even disability pensions in Canada through private insurance plans are difficult to get on.
I read somewhere that she is apparently sleeping with a producer. Not sure how true that is, but it would make sense. She is worse at hosting than Andy Cohen. And that is saying something. I think Chrissy Teagan watches 90DayF. She would be great. But TLC probably can’t afford her. They need to just use a super fan like maybe that John Yates guy. And the Tell All needs to be taped as late as possible. In fact, they should wait to about NOW to tape it. If it was a good show we would all come back for a Where Are They Now episode. The “tell all” didn’t tell a dayum thing.
Totally makes sense. And the fact that her so called “pension” was probably cut was because it was found out that she was out of the country so they cut her off, and like you said, now she’s scared to go back. She’s obviously a con, so it sure wouldn’t surprise me.
Maybe jail might teach her some lessons.
These 2 are actors. Look them up. They are the one fake couple on this show. The others are not fake but these 2 are. Look them up, they are actors. Makes me mad because I love this show. I wanted it to be real.