90 Day Fiance’s Aladin Jallali has posted a very lengthy series of videos documenting the problems in his marriage to Laura. Grab a snack and read it all below.
I was catfished. Plain and simple. When Laura and I met online, she shared photos that portrayed her to be much younger than she is. Her photos, I discovered later, were highly edited. Even she admitted to this during taping, but no one paid any attention to it. She told me she was 40 years old and I believed her. I did not even know she was using fake hair extensions,etc. When we met in person, I was surprised but I already had feelings for the person I thought she was. We had already decided to get married before even meeting. How else would we have had all documents necessary during this trip to get the marriage registered?
She wanted to say the story about me proposing after a few days in a cafe because she thought it would make our storyline more interesting. I discovered her age when we went for the marriage license and they asked for her passport. That is when I saw her age was in fifties and not 40 as she told me. When confronted,she initially gave me a story about how a mistake in her passport had been made.
Laura Lied About Her Age
However, when the registrar asked to see her birth certificate, the date was the same. She said the mistake had been in the birth certificate and that is why it was in the passport as well. I did not believe it and eventually she admitted the truth. The reason I stayed was because I already loved her and I thought in the end, if this is the worst thing, I can handle it.
I was never supposed to come to America. I knew she did not have a green card and that she only had a temporary status. The stories she told me varied on when I asked. Sometimes she said she was on a work visa, sometimes a visitor pass. She did not leave the USA. She specifically used the term deported with me. That is why she came to Qatar.
Aladin Knew That Marrying Her Would Not Get Him a Green Card
I did see that she had a page in her passport that said “rejected” or “denied from the USA” She herself told me that she was twice refused boarding by plane to YSA when we were together, so she entered by driving through the border instead. I saw she had ripped out the page with the denied or refused mention later. This might explain why there are photos circulating on the internet of her using a temporary green Canadian passport. I myself have not seen this passport.
I sent her money to sponsor me but she lied, she spent the money and never submitted the application.
Laura Wanted Aladin To Move To Canada
At some point she expressed the desire for us to move to Canada together. Since living in Canada would make it possible for us to travel back and forth, I agreed. She said she could sponsor me, and I believed her. I sent the money for the sponsorship application and found this summer that she lied and she never actually submitted it. She used the money and she just spent it. She repeatedly lied and said she had and that we were just waiting. Since then, I have learned from an immigration consultant that she could not have sponsored me as she herself was not in Canada. We did submit an application for a visitor visa early this year, which was denied. I was perfectly happy having her join me in Qatar.
Aladin Did Not Marry Her For Money
I did not use her for money. Let me be clear. In October 2017 I began working in Qatar. In January 2018 my sister died. I had not saved sufficient money to travel for her funeral. At that time, I was new. They wait more than a month to give the first paycheck so I had not accumulated much. She helped me by providing a ticket for me to go back to Qatar for my sister’s funeral– I believe it was around $400. This was one of the things that made me believe she was someone I could trust and love. I had been planning to ask my boss for an advance and repay him when I returned but she said she wanted to do this for me, I accepted her help.
Laura Lied About Having A Pension That Was Cut
On her podcast, Laura lied when she said that I left her after finding out that she lost her pension and could not sponsor me. Why? The amount she was getting was less that I received for my basic salary plus commission. The fact is, I knew months before that she had lied about even sponsoring me and I told her to just leave it and that is another reason why she was living permanently in Qatar. The timeline of these two events did not coincide.
Aladin Was The Primary Provider In The Marriage
She exaggerated about helping with rent. When she came to Qatar in March 2019,I paid rent for March and April. She paid for May and June and I paid July and August. So yes, she did pay for 2 of the 6 months’ rent while there–because I spent every penny of my savings and earnings for her. However, during all of her stays, I paid for the food, utilities, cells, car, gas, bought her clothes and shoes, jewelry, paid for outings as well as our travels, 3 day wedding and honeymoon, plus all the expenses in Tunisia as well. At the time, she did not object. The money she got from the show was used as she wanted, while I used mine for our wedding. If I had been using her for money, 2 months would not be worth spending 10 times more.
Laura Spent Her Money On Luxuries
She was wasteful with money. Laura liked to go drink in fancy hotels where a glass of alcohol was the price of a bottle she could have had at home. She told me she was sending money to Liam and that she was supporting him financially. From what I read online from her ex, it seems she lied about this too and that Liam was helping her instead. In her podcast she said that I kept the wedding money, and my money, as well as her money from the show. This is a lie. First, yes the small amount of money I received for the wedding was applied to the wedding, as supposed to.
That only made a dent in the total cost. Second the show pays both of us. Her money was sent to her,in her bank account, that I never had access to.Mine was sent to me and I used it all for the wedding. Laura loved to be extravagant- she even went and booked hotels to stay in without even telling me, while we had a perfectly fine house to stay in. Was I careful with money? Yes. because we had a budget to stick to in order to make the wedding happen and not have debt on our heads.
Was Laura on Disability?
She keeps saying her pension was cut. First, Laura told me she retired from her job 5 years ago. Until our separation I never questioned her much about it or doubted it. She said she had been some kind of manager in an automotive store. This basically means she would have retired around 45-46. After our separation, it came to my attention that the salary of an automotive parts store is not so high,certainly not enough to save to retire at 45.
I suppose it could have been possible that she would have been on Long Term Disability Benefits but that is not “Retirement”. Considering retirement age in Canada is 65, she was too young for old age pension or Canada Pension Plan (CPP). It also does not make sense that her employer would pay her a pension for retirement 20 years early!
And if she had been on a pension, why would it have been cut? Some people have speculated that perhaps she was drawing something called ODSP- Ontario Disability Support Program (maybe supplemented by early CPP when someone can no longer work) or Ontario Works, the equivalent to welfare. I can’t confirm her specific situation but it sure makes more sense than the story she is telling.
Laura Is A Mean Drunk
She has a drinking problem. I am not saying she is an alcoholic, but she cannot handle her alcohol well. When she drinks, she becomes mean, impolite, rude and violent. I did not like dealing with her in these times. We were on our honeymoon and she would get drunk until passed out snoring on the bed without even taking her clothes off or washing herself. How embarrassing when my relatives can hear her snoring from other rooms and acting rude.
Laura Tried Making Her Own Wine In Qatar
The wine event was staged. What actually happened in 2018, when she lived with me in Qatar, she decided to make wine in the closet without my knowledge. She did something wrong and it exploded in the closet while trying to open it. I heard a noise, ran to the room and found a disgusting smell and all my winter clothes stained with this. I was angry first because it is illegal and we could both be in trouble-me more than her
Second, why hide like a child why not ask or tell me? The producers thought it was hilarious and they decided to go shopping with her to make the wine for the show. Again, I was upset because this could have gotten us in trouble. Besides, as a foreigner, there are places she could buy for personal use in her home if she needed it that badly.
Aladin also announced on IG that he and Laura are not together. He posted, “But I wish her no harm and wish her good luck with her future men.”
Starcasm also has a ton of information about Laura and her past here. She has apparently faked a pregnancy trying to get back with Aladin. No one believed her.