When I was 19 or 20 I went on Spring Break for the first time. My parents agreed to pay for a week long rental on a condo. I went with a sorority girlfriend from my college. I was not in a sorority. I started college at age 17 because I had the grades and the scores but was still in high school. The counselor, was over me skipping school put me in the program. I spent an hour in the morning taking senior history or whatever and “attended college” in the afternoon. While I was certainly enrolled, I rarely made it to class.
After essentially flunking out, I went to community college then, I eventually went to UGA. So, me and some sorority chick decided to go to Daytona. I met a really cute guy with some interesting party favors. She met A LOT of cute guys and there were parties at my place every night. It was the 80s. The front door was broken down by an uninvited guest one night.
I bring this up because the title of the blind is “You know yourself.” My boyfriend of that week,, who I visited a couple more times even with my new boyfriend a year later would say that A LOT. A LOT. A LOT.
Well, this guy who never wanted to be on a reality show knew himself. He knew he should never have agreed to film. But he did. And, Mama Joyce’s Streets are saying… he’s not a very nice person. And also, people suspect he is fluid. Which is fine. And perhaps why he didn’t want to film in the first place. The streets say he just wanted a baby. And he doesn’t seem to be that into his wife.
Kenya’s husband?
That seems like the obvious answer to me!
It’s Marc Kenya’s husband! LMAO
Sounds like Meghan’s husband Jim, the baseball player.
He already had children from a prior marriage. Meghan was the one who wanted a baby, so I don’t think it’s him.
So, the contenders would be:
Shamari Fears husband, Ronnie DeVoe. He is my top choice. Their marriage has seemed off to me from the get go. His filming is very surface.
Eva Marcille’s husband, Michael Sterling. She has issues with her first baby daddy. It doesn’t seem plausible Michael would sign up to get involved with that drama if he were gay.
Kenya Moore’s husband, Marc Daly. I know nothing about him but I don’t think so.
Kandi and Todd. Nah.
Nene and Gregg. Nah.
as a source that know Marc Daly personally it’s NOT HIM! so the rumors are false. he loves Kenya and is a private person , but not due to his sexuality more so of his restaurant and business endeavors.
Porsha and Dennis?
I thought so too, but they aren’t married?
No they broke up
Wait… when did they break up?? Is that a sure thing or something these sites post that isn’t true?
I don’t think it said that he is married
Very last sentence “And he doesn’t seem to be that into his wife.”
sorry, my bad
An important part is “he didn’t want to film.”
Dennis is pretty eager to do anything to get him exposure.
Ashley and Michael
I always got the impression that Michael liked being on camera. Might be wrong but that is Potomoc and Mama Joyce’s streets are Atlanta?
I agree. I’ve always thought Michael was a camera whore. Also, he never seemed to want a child.
Awww, I really hope this isn’t Kenya. She deserved her happy ending.
Just because the streets are saying it, doesn’t make it true. The streets love to talk crap about Kenya.
So, true. I agree.
What?! You’re saying, “the streets” aren’t completely accurate??! Quell Horror-alert the media, immediately!
Exactly. Marc has kids before kenya.
Kenya’s husband is suppose to be a father already. If he is fluid why have another baby
I am maybe old, or perhaps dense, but probably neither. I see no correlation between NOT wanting a child and being fluid, though I am not sure if it actually means gender fluid or something else. Having/wanting children is not about who you love, or fuck, or identify as, it is about wanting to be a parent and have children.
Weren’t there rumors about Eva’s husband the first season she was on?
I hope it’s not Kenya
Not a clue!
Shamari’s husband is my guess
I agree. I think it’s Ronnie Devoe. His age matches the time frame. Those that are saying Marc, must not know that he is younger than Kenya (so his age doesn’t match the time) and he already had a child, so it cannot be him.
Kenya Moore for sureeee!
I was thinking Luis from MDL but he wants to film, so I am thinking Michael Darby? And college in the 80’s was something else, TT, I remember (most of ) it well!
So, are you gonna tell us? : )
I am so bad with the urban language. I need someone to tell me what does it mean to be “fluid”. I also need to know what is the “train” is in the OC. If this means what I think it means, then is Kenya her husbands “beard”? Does “beard” mean a man whom is homosexual is with a woman to show he isn’t homosexual? Laugh at me all you want, but I know I know myself. lol
Hi Joey! I’m not laughing at you because it’s really hard to keep up with the lingo and some words have entirely different meanings in the newer generations. I’ve had to try to keep up just so I know wth my kids are talking about lol!
I hope TT doesn’t get mad at me for this and I won’t post a link. But, if you go to the online Urban Dictionary you can learn a lot. There’s even a search tool for specific words or phrases. Be warned though; you may very well learn some things you’d rather not learn lol!
And FWIW I don’t think you’re alone. I’m pretty sure others have asked similar questions. Bravo to you for outright asking! And I hope my suggestion doesn’t completely corrupt your sensibilities. Lol!
🙂
I just looked it up. Thank you.
One of these days, check out the RHOC episode when Heather Dubrow is looking up “dirty Sanchez.” It was a pretty good scene. I think it was the episode where they played Marry, Shag, Kill and Tamra started hating Lizzy afterward.
Todd. I’ve seen a picture of a man allegedly purported to be him engaging in a certain act which would tend to confirm the fluid nature part of your post. Not sure what to make of it and while it is fuzzy it does look like him. It’s actually kind of hot really.
Omg I think you’re right.
But it’s common knowledge that Todd and Kandi do a little swinging. Also he already had a baby, and I don’t think her mother sent her on a vacation and all of that.
You’re right. I was just coming back to comment that wait he already had a daughter coming into the marriage. I don’t even watch Atlanta anymore so I have no business guessing. Unless it’s a different franchise but the mention of Mama Joyce’s streets make me think it’s Atlanta. Plus I suck at blinds. I’m out. Lol
Also another one that doesn’t mind the camera. Also, I think Todd is a nice man.
RHOP Michael?
Poresha and Dennis
Well, it is probably not newly wedded Bethenny, because I am sure she not having another one. I would say Kenya, but I really don’t know. As good looking as Marc is, trust and believe his down low would definitely pull him out of the closet. I guess I will wait and see.
I think it could be Shane and Emily from the OC. He is definitely not into his wife and seemed to hate to film last season.
She’s allegedly still legally married to Jason Hoppy.
TT – I love when you give snippets of your life!!
I think it’s Marc, Kenya’s husband. I hope it isn’t but that’s my guess.
Dennis, I thought, liked to be on camera. Todd has been on camera with seemingly no issue. Dont watch RHOA anymore but Ronnie has been in the game for decades so wouldn’t his fluidity been well known by now?? Hmmm..
I’m stuck on the part where he says “you know yourself” A LOT A LOT A LOT. I haven’t been watching RHOA, so if it’s something said a lot on the show, then I wouldn’t know. I was trying to think if Ronnie Devoe has any lyrics like that maybe?
I don’t know why this posted under your comment!
We might figure out the blind faster by focusing on Tamara’s first comment – that he’s not a very nice person. Do any of the husbands have rumors out there of bad/not nice behavior toward others?
I accidentally posted this comment in the wrong place before, so I just want to put it in the right place!
I’m stuck on the part where he says “you know yourself” A LOT A LOT A LOT. I haven’t been watching RHOA, so if it’s something said a lot on the show, then I wouldn’t know. I was trying to think if Ronnie Devoe has any lyrics like that maybe?
Oh I give up! It posted on the wrong place again. I can’t get a comment to post on its own. It keeps going under someone else’s
I hate to think it’s Mark Daly, but “Mama Joyce’s streets” only extend as far the Atlanta city limits.
any one of us giving Mama Joyce’s comment more than 2 minutes serious consideration is nuts but for the fun of it only.
I say Marc Daly. He did not want to film. That was brought up multiple times. I think it has to be RHOA because of the Mama Joyce reference.
It can’t be Marc Daly. He already added a son before he married Kenya. Also, video footage posted by Cynthia and Kandi last season unbeknownst to Kenya and Marc, showed him rubbing all over her while dancing.
Ronnie and Shamari used to have an open marriage. She talked about it on the show. I’m leaning towards them, only because I think I’ve ruled everyone else out.
It’s Tanya’s (RHOA) “husband” well I think it is. They’re currently doing IVF and I remember when she got on the show last time there were rumours that he was fluid.
You might be on to something here! I hadn’t considered Tanya and I don’t really remember her husband.
Good guess! Last year Tamara reported that Tanya had such a compelling storyline that she would be earning her peach…then nothing much happened. She fizzled out. Maybe her husband’s sexuality was a storyline that was killed/postponed last season.
Reagan’s (admitted) crossdressing, makeup wearing husband Reece on southern charm NOLA. They had a baby REALLY fast after that shotgun wedding and he wouldn’t stop talking about cross dressing in the past, which she seemed to be ok with.
Definitely Marc. He is never around, was fairly mean to her in that baby shower video she posted and looks miserable in pics with her way too often.
Not surprised at all. Kenya has always put way too much emphasis on looks when choosing a mate. I knew she was in trouble during her last season on RHOA when talking about all the things he expected her to do to take care of him.
I feel like it’s Tanya
I was going to say Emily’s husband but I didn’t realize that this was about the atlanta trashwives.
The blind item person is Miss Quad, Miss Quad’s husband Dr Greg. There have been rumors about Greg playing both sides. It is very clear he is not very nice and the main focus of his marriage to Quad was having a baby. Which he never got and it was also clear that he was not that into Quad. He was into the idea of a baby. He is in that 50 age range and he was tired of waiting.
But they’re divorcing and he’s not on the show anymore.
This gets my vote too. Dr. Greg must be the crappiest therapist in ATL. He doesn’t listen and he is abusive. The timing of this coincides with the winding up of the divorce. He wanted a baby more than he wanted a relationship. I hope Quad’s cooking career takes off bigtime.
Marc Daly.
So we have to focus on the atlanta men. Our contenders are Dr. Greg, Marc Daly and Ronnie Devoe. Truth is they all are. These three men are booty bumping, fudge packing and pillow biting.. The end.
Apollo?
And the winner is…Marc Daly!!!
This was a no brainer.
Okay I suck at blinds. But I do like them. It’s kind of like TT is giving us a pop quiz. Remember when you were in school and there were questions on a test that you weren’t sure of the answer and you kept going back and forth, erasing and changing the answer? Well for me, this blind is kind of like that. And in that scenario, my very first answer was correct more times than not. It was also often a very obvious answer as well. I may not be watching Atlanta anymore but I did watch it for a long time. I’m also a Kenya fan. I don’t want it to be her husband so I tried to think of everyone else it could be. However, by applying this logic, sadly I have to admit that I think the very first answer given by Shellbelle is indeed correct.
And I’m with Anoneemouse in saying that I think she deserved her happy ending. 😢
She did get a beautiful baby girl though.
Marc Daly. Final Answer. 😭
Todd!
This is so obviously Marc & Kenya. The ladies questioned his nose ring. Marc was originally adamant about not filming. He later gave in & we got that one scene in S10. He also travels between ATL & NY…A LOT.
Tanya & Paul/Porsha & Dennis aren’t married. Shamari & Ronnie aren’t on the show anymore. Michael S. is very much into Eva. There aren’t any other new men running around Mama Joyce’s streets.
Why is everyone saying Marc? Marc already has kids, why would he be so desperate for a baby.
Thanks Chelle, I refused to process the thought of Marc Daly, I want to see their happy ending. This blind could be soo many folks on reality tv. Eva & Michael, Porsha & Dennis etc
Apollo and that new girl/Phaedra?
A certain couple in Charleston.
This one is a hard one! The clues: Mama Joyce streets (Atlanta) , College in the ’80s: (Age mid fifties) , and she has to be married. I dunno, Kenya?
Kenya graduated high school in 89. She would have been in college no earlier than 1989.
Porsha.
Marc was already a father before he met Kenya. Also, if a baby and privacy was the goal why even entertain a woman on one of these shows? Doesn’t make sense.
TT used “Mama Joyce’s streets” to clue you in that it is RHOA. Tanya is not married nor is she is a “housewife” – so she is eliminated. Todd, Dennis (not married also), and Greg have had no problem filming. Eva is on baby number 2 – so hopefully the implies her husband is into her.
So that leaves Kenya and Marc (Who infamously didn’t want to film).
The clue “ALOT” has me stomped. My only guess is that whoever she is speaking of either is going to say “a lot” frequently on the show? Not sure.
I’m going with who is Dr. Greg for a thousand, Alex. Idk about him not wanting to film but we know he’s not a nice person. He’s a Psychology/Psychiatrist, so he should “know himself” but he’s in serious denial. And despite initially calling off his and Quad first wedding date married her anyway and lol he seemed to whine about was wanting a baby. He’s the ONLY one on these shows I recall wanting a baby despite his wife’s objections.
Poor Kenya. Everyone always points at her. Everything is bad in her life. She’s paying men, she had a surrogate, she was never pregnant and now her husband is a fluid meanie that doesn’t love her. Great editing bravo….
#teamtwirl.
#thedalys