Tamra Judge’s son, Ryan Vieth and his estranged wife(?) Sarah Rodriguez are losing their minds on Instagram. It all began after the latest episode of Real Housewives of Orange County aired. Sarah post a series of nasty text messages with Ryan.
Tamra Judge was on WWHL at the time things were heating up. Neither Andy or Tamra had seen the posts at the time. Yet, Andy asked Tamra what she thought about the threatening texts. He was more focused on the fact that Ryan called her daughter a little bitch.
Tamra responded with, “I don’t know, but Sarah tends to go on social media and it post all this stuff and delete it. So, I’m not buying into it.”
The Text Messages Sarah Posted
Just as Tamra predicted the posts were deleted soon there after. Sarah then posted that she had reached out to Tamra about the situation asked for help with Ryan. Sarah threatened to post those text messages if she didn’t set the record straight.
Below is a reconstruction of the original text exchange.
Sarah: “You talked shit about my daughter several times today. She is a child. You are supposed to be a grown up.”
Ryan: “And she acts like a little bitch just like you.
Sarah: “I don’t think you comprehend what you have done to my family,” Rodriguez added.
Ryan:“So you can both get fucked. You’re trash. Fuck off.”
Sarah: “You are disgusting and abusive,” Rodriguez wrote.
Ryan:“Now im going to talk to whoever the fuck I want.”
Sarah: “Your games are unreal.”
Ryan: “Go kill yourself. This one’s for you.” This was posted with a photo of someone holding a bullet.
The Custody Transfer
For the next two days these two went after each other on Instagram. Ryan posted a lot of really angry posts about Sarah. Apparently both her father and her last boyfriend died of suicide. Also, Ryan claims she seeks out men to have their babies and them take them away from them for child support. He also claims she has sex with old men for money. He posts some DMs that others had sent him about her alleged sex for pay dates with guys in Newport Beach. Ryan also says that Sarah cheated with Dakota, the ex husband of Teen Mom’s Bristol Palin.
At one point Ryan posted,“I’m going to burn your fucking world down now Sarah, I’m going to expose you to everyone.” He also posted that we don’t know the truth about Sarah.
On Friday Ryan went to pick up Ava and was told to come back later. Apparently, he came before his regular pickup time and they weren’t ready. Later, when he came back later the police were there. Then, Sarah posted that Tamra showed up at her house and recorded her and threatened to use the information to take Ava away from her. Tamra says she went over with her mother just to do a welfare check on Eva. At some point Ryan went to the court house to demand the child be given over for visitation. It appears that Ryan was given Ava for his weekend with the kid.
Tamra Judge Shows Up At Sarah’s House Uninvited
Also, on Friday at the kid hand off, Sarah told the police that Ryan had made suicidal statements on social media and she was afraid to hand over Ava. Apparently, at some point Ryan claimed the bullet photo wasn’t directed at Sarah. Later, he said the bullet was meant for him. Both Sarah and Ryan are gun fanatics and both have guns everywhere.
Tamra posted,”My son and his ex have created a public circus. I’m absolutely disgusted and my only concern is Eva. Not my circus. Not my monkeys.” I disagree, Ryan is absolutely her monkey.
At any rate, Ryan has disabled his Instagram, Tamra has taken down her posts on the subject, and Sarah has removed hers.
Last I saw before Ryan disabled his IG, he was going back & forth with his stepdaughter (Sarah’s daughter w/another ex). It was mean & pathetic. Lack of judgment all around. Those poor children.
There has to be some way for a child/minor to bring legal charges against an adult for that kind of harassment. Seriously disgusting.
As someone who has experienced first hand abuse, Ryan’s statements to Sara are threatening and abusive. What a ugly and angry dick.
I agree 100%. especially the one about killing her self. Tamaras family is TRASH
Complete and utter trash! Her father commited suicide, how low can one be? Even if he hadnt, thats just not something you say. Those children are made to suffer.
Absolutely no one in this situation has behaved like an adult. The child will grow up and read all of what her parents have said on the internet. It’s disgusting. Tamra, Ryan, and Sarah are immature idiots. None of them have the maturity to stop themselves from posting nasty comments on social media.
The things Ryan said are vile. I do hope a judge will care that he’s telling Sarah to kill herself. It’s awful. He’s awful.
That said, I do sympathize with Sarah. Tamra will fund Ryan’s legal crusades. Sarah doesn’t have that type of money. Its 2 or 3 against one most of the time now that Tamra’s mother is also involved. I really wish Sarah would stop posting about any of this on her social media so she would not look as low as Tamra and Ryan do. I think she’s better or can be better than this if only she would stop taking the bait.
I think Ryan is an abuser. He hates that Sarah left, and he can no longer control her. His mother is his enabler. As bad of a reputation as Simon got on that show, he had realized and was trying to combat the type of person Ryan his. He’s a lazy, entitled jackass. Simon tried to handle him in his own way, but his mother was too good at enabling him for it to work.
Tamra has done a lot of damage to those kids. Her daughter is estranged from her for a reason. She’s always made Simon out to be the bad guy, but it’s really her. She raised a monster, and now she enables him to continue to be a monster. He literally called a child a bitch!
Good grief. These people need to grow up and delete their social media until they can muster the willpower to keep their disputes private. Poor Ava.
Agree w you that Tamara is poisonous. She’s harmful and toxic and So full of herself. I would be so upset if she was my mom. Thankfully my mom is a selfless woman who cares more about her kids and grandkids than she does anything else.. I’m blessed in that way. She is actually a woman of Jesus.
“Not my circus, not my monkeys”….REALLY Tamra?? How is grabbing your mother and driving over to Sarah’s house to confront her NOT getting involved?? You are the RINGMASTER of this circus. All of them need serious counseling.
Tamra Judge is the ringleader of this circus. She created that crazy fucker.
Those kids need a hero. Their parents, grandma, and great grandma behaviors are horrible! Do they not realize the consequences of the their behavior affect the kids? Kids remember this and think it is their fault. Or worse kids think this behavior is normal. Shame on all the adults!
Kids today….back in my day, we had to actually leave our house to gutter fight. Today, you can show your crazy without ever leaving your couch.
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Thank you, Sister Mary Elephant. I needed that. When I saw the first part of your message (“Kids today…”), I immediately puffed up, thinking the comment was headed in a different direction.
I’m thinking we should create some sort of Social Media License Bureau to help determine whether people are fit enough to use Instagram and the like. It probably would be better for the rest of us if some people weren’t as able to to share what they’re thinking with the world. 😉
We should create an app called Official Regulators of Grownups Abusing Social Media. Or ORGASM for short. Buyers will love it.
? You made my night with that one, Sister Mary Elephant. Golden!
Only the Sister Mary Elephant could come up with that one. It deserves it own website.
Orgasm? Did someone say, “Orgasm?”
Count me in.
“I’ll have what they’re having …”
Tamra will always be trailer park trash, always. In any situation she drops to the lowest of levels and then fake cries. Ryan has always been a piece of shit, lazy and angry and only out for himself in life. Tamra can try and blame that she was a young single mom for how he is but that’s not it, I’ve known plenty of those whose kids turned out far better. Crap like this should never be on social media, what the fuck are thinking? Ugh. And to call a child a bitch, that shows just the type of person he is, as if we didn’t already know.
Thank you! I’m a single mom and my son is I’ll never act like Ryan! His behavior is learned. My son will be open minded and loving, respectful, educated… all the things!!! What the fuck tamara?! I mean it seriously seems like Simon is the reason your younger kids are decent. You’re horrible. I almost feel bad saying this, but then I don’t.
You’re a good mama, Amanda, and your son is going to turn out to be the kind of man who’ll make you proud because you’re shaping his character by the things you value. I was a single mom, too, and my son is now the kind of man you’ve just described. I also got pretty lucky, but a loving mother’s influence is a powerful thing.
I agree that Tamra’s influence was the problem in his childhood, and not the fact that she was young, or single, or broke. Lots of kids come out of far worse situations than that and grow up to become responsible and caring adults.
The other issue with Ryan is Ryan. He’s clearly has some anger issues, and I fear this won’t end well.
I feel so bad for the children.
Trash begets trash.
Third generation trash, that Ryan is. Maybe the ones before Tamra’s mom were trash too. Joining a country club doesn’t give you class and being poor doesn’t make you trash. It gets easier to see why Sydney wants nothing to do with her mother. When Ryan and Sarah announced their plans to move away together and marry after two months (or less?) of dating, I remember thinking “Lady, when you have kids, you can’t indulge these irresponsible feelings,” so she is to blame for making a poor decision. But no one deserves to be abused. Especially Sarah’s daughter. I would rather have Vicki’s screeching and pee spots than Tamra’s peckerwood self! How Eddie ever fell for her is beyond me.
Thank you for the reminder that growing up poor doesn’t make a person trash. I feel like “trailer trash” gets thrown around too easily. Where someone comes from is not something a person can help, and financial security is no measure of character or human worth. And I totally agree with you re: Sarah. I wouldn’t have made the same choices, but it doesn’t mean she deserves to be abused. I had a knock down, drag out conversation with someone on another site who was saying she had it coming. And you’re also spot on about Tamra. I’m not sure what Eddie sees in her, either. Ugh.
So what is the story with Orange County? Seems like a lot of nasty going on in that county. Kelly is a piece of work, Vicki has abusive boyfriends, Tamara is a questionable , Shannon had a crazy nasty husband, and on an on.
I was thinking that we have all been looking at this wrong. The reality part of reality T.V. isn’t about showing any glamour or fabulous lifestyles. Oh no, this is like drug addition or any addiction . At first it seems all fun and games until it isn’t. The real purpose of reality t.v. has all been some kind of social experiment in which we are all participants. It’s purpose is to show us all how far WE will hang in there to watch people sell their souls and sell our own for the sake of entertainment.
You should google Alexis Curtin.. Lynn curtains daughter! MF drug addict sued the OC police department for rape, was awarded $1milliom and has smoked it all in meth: she’s constantly in jail..
or Laurie’s son who is in jail pending a first degree murder trial.
I live in Orange County and I’m disgusted.
AND BY THE WAY COTO IS BARELY ORANGE COUNTY?. It is LITERALLY 45 minute tes from anything of importance. Kelly Dodd is right. NO ONE wants to live there.
How long are we going to expose someone with shitty parents and too much money? AND THE RAPE WAS PROVEN IN COURT! Drug addicts are very often the victims of rape and the judge agreed. WHY ARE YOU DRAGGING THE CHILDREN OF PEOPLE WHO HAD NO SAY IN BEING ON THE SHOW? How does this make you feel special?
Thank you, Tamra. I just wish people would leave the children out of it.
Ok well she’s a pornstar, so she’s already doing her part to be “famous” on her own. Jayden Taylors is her porn name. If you’re in porn can we talk about you, TT?
I only mentioned her and the murderous methhead of a son of Laurie as a way of saying “you don’t know the half of it” as far as the nastiness goes on in this so-called heavenly orange county. I agree that kids should be off topic, as they didn’t sign up for it, but she technically did when she decided to do porn.
Tes, @sundayhare3 it sucks that we seem to get off on other people’s misbehavior but I think when people are born into such fortune and they squander it, it’s fucking annoying. Such great humans can come out of such despair and then there are these kids who were given everything and are entitled asshole fuck iOS because of it. I find myself somewhere in the middle personally :/
It is human nature that we love watching people fall… and we also love a comeback story.
Alexis is a slut. I guarantee what happened to her would never happen to me. Although I wish it would because I’d be set for life if I got $2.5million.
Sorry, not sorry.
Why would you stay in your car and wait for a police officer not in uniform?
Umm BECAUSE she was already doing something illegal that she could’ve been in trouble for. She’s one of those girls who grew up being taught that she’s only worthy of sex… just like a lot of women in OC.
@Amanda, you are actually proving my actual point which was no matter how trashy or nasty or disgusting any of these people get. No matter how many get indicted, or how many go to jail, or how many speak the most vile things, and inject their nastiness on the most innocent all in the name of a peach, or an orange, or a diamond etc. Here we are still watching and giving them a platform to do it. I wonder what it is inside of us that promotes this and then thinks we are above it all? I don’t know. I watch and I am disgusted with myself sometimes. I pretend that some aren’t as bad as others when I wouldn’t want to hang around with any of these people no matter where they live. It really is a fascinating study in human behavior in all of our parts.
It really is. I agree.
How many years have I been saying this?
https://tamaratattles.com/2012/01/18/a-love-letter-to-andy-cohen/
Your “love letter” was SEVEN YEARS ago! The “breakup” was foreshadowed and things got worse instead of better. “Here’s what”: The thing I’ve learned from the RH and other Bravo “reality” shows is that I am much less crazy and messed up than I ever thought I was. Not BETTER, but much nicer and more well behaved, for sure.
TT, I just re-read your love letter, and the message is just as true today as it was back then. Thanks for publicly voicing what so many of us are feeling.
@Tamara , your love letter, which I read lovingly back in the day has become my reality as well. LOL Perfectly said.
My opinion of him has been going down for the last few years. But it has absolutely bottomed out. He is just the worst. I wonder if he would have turned out better if Simon showed up in his life earlier. I doubt it but you never know. I also will never understand the airing out issues on social media. It makes no sense to me. They are both that desperate for people to agree with them and tell them they are right? Just be an adult!
I don’t think Ryan and Sarah ever actually made it to the altar..? Either way, telling ANYONE to kill themselves is disgusting and vile. Especially after what happened with her own father, what the hell Ryan?! I’m sure Sarah is no angel but wow is Ryan a frightening loose cannon. I bet he ends up with supervised visitation soon…..
I wonder what Eddie thinks of this shit show Circus between those three?
How in the world is Eddie caught up with these people? He seems like such a great guy, have never heard a bad thing about him. It was the one thing Tamara did right. I just dont know how he can stand it.
Shit, I meant Tamra
We have seen who Tamra and Ryan are over the years, remember what they did to Gretchen? They have never shown themselves to have any moral compass at all/
Lol YES!
Tamar’s excuse all the time is that she had Ryan so young, and that she worked two jobs, barely kept the lights on and his birthday’s were spent at Chuckie Cheese. That Ryan has had to deal with his younger siblings having a privileged childhood. Folks forget that when he first appeared on the show he was like 21. He even admitted that Simon was good to him. That is until Tamra got upset he made the statement. We can never forget the “Gretchen scene.” Tamra should’ve been fired then. Tamra created this monster and has continued to make excuses for him. He’s a creepy, lazy, jerk who is much like Jenelle Evan’s husband. Only jobs he gets is those that Tamra secures for him. Even then he is lazy, mouthy, and she still has to give him money.
i’m sorry, my B-Days were often at Chuck-e-Cheese, too….what’s the big terrible deal?
THANK YOU! Why is this a bad thing? White People Problems. Going to Chuckie Cheese on your birthday is somehow bad?
There was not Chuckie Cheese when I was growing up, but that would have been FABULOUS! I went there in my twenties. It was great!
Then again on my eighth birthday I was at Tivoli gardern which was much better and vividly remember some Barry Manilow impersonator singing Mandy.
SHUT UP! I LOVED IT.
Point being, kids don’t know how much things cost. They only remember having FUN.
Remember funn?
@badseed,
OMG I want to say THANK YOU also! I had my kids’ bday parties at Chuck E Cheese when they were little and everyone had a blast. There were pizza and games and crap to buy with tokens for the kids and they served beer for the parents and nobody had to worry about cleaning up the mess!
Idk what the big deal is about that. I don’t even wanna know what’s in for kids bday parties nowadays… my guess is wasting a ton of cash on something they can put pics on their social media to say “Hi look how much I spent on my kid”, meanwhile the kid isn’t even going to remember wtf they did on their bday in a few years. Good money that they will need when the kid goes to college or for retirement. Stupid AF.
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I totally agree. Kids LOVE Chuck E Cheese. If you can afford a birthday party there, that’s what THE KIDS WANT. It’s completely the opposite of a bad kids’ party. But these reality show parents think they need a $10K carnival for a two year old to have a decent birthday party, It’s bizarre. My mama would make me a multilevel Barbie doll cake, and invite my class over and it was great. Except she would also make me a scratchy dress from Libyan fabric shot with silver. I was not fond of the homemade clothes at the time. Especially when we got off the train at the wrong place and I had to walk ten thousand miles to Pompeii in a polyester jumpsuit . That was unforgivable,
The only victims here are the children. The adults can go*****. Does Ryan work for a living or live off his mom’s money?
You may not agree with Sarah or support her choices, but that doesn’t mean she’s not also a victim of Ryan’s threats and emotional abuse.
No one can make another person abuse them. And nothing makes anyone deserving of abuse.
“You are both white trash quite frankly.” Words of Aviva. Perfect for this.
then following Romana, “TAKE A XANAX.”
The ONE good thing about the public posting. Prepper Ryan May think twice before staging an “accidental” shooting of Sarah.
Tamara needs to keep her big fat mouth shut. This is very serious and will end up in family court with their attorneys. I pray that Child Protective Services has been called on this case. The only reason Ryan wasn’t hauled away to the lock-up is because he knew what to say to the Police to not be put on a hold. That’s what happens with these idiots, they reconstitute themselves to get off. Since I used to work with the OCSD and put people on 5150’s for them I know that they usually have the Centralized Assessment Team called out to do their holds as it ties them up with medical clearances needed in the ER’s.
In other news Tamara .. I hope you don’t drink the alcohol during your time in Costa Rica as the Metanol is killing people left and right.