According to court documents obtained by The Blast, Thomas claims that Kathryn sent nude photos to three separate men at the same time. One of the recipients was a guy Kathryn briefly dated named Ashley Pillar. This sorry excuse for a man apparently provided the photos to Thomas. I am a bit confused by the story on The Blast. They claim that Thomas wants Kathryn to “authenticate” the photos. Does that mean that her face isn’t in the photos? Ashley Pillar says he took the photos of Kathryn in his home.

Thomas Ravenel wants Kathryn to be forced to seek treatment for her, “sexual impassivity.” Also, Thomas Ravenel says he fears if left untreated she will continue to exercise “poor judgment in her personal life and put the minor children at risk.”
This is nothing short of abuse. This right here is Thomas attempting to regain coercive control over Kathryn while gaslighting the court. I can only hope the judge sees through this garbage… And if this judge doesn’t for whatever reason, Kathryn’s lawyers have grounds to appeal.
This man is utter trash. He takes hypocrisy to another level.
All of this makes him look like a colossal asshat in the court of public opinion.
All you have to do is glance at her social media to see what a good mother she is.
This is all about money for him. He doesn’t want to have to pay her a dime in child support so he can brag about that to his friends.
Take heed buddy, karma is a bitch and it’s coming for you.
He is literally the devil. Poor Kathryn. Can’t she sue him for malicious prosecution and harassment?
I just cannot fathom why the judge doesn’t smack this nonsense down.
My question as well. Decades ago a relative tried to pull this on me. The judge had zero patience. I don’t get it.
The Judge is clearly on Thomas side. He has never made Thomas accountable but constantly berates Katherine. Thomas is the worse if men and continually gets away with it.
That’s because this douche bag has the judge in his back pocket. Same for the first time he took her to court. It’s easy to pay to have drug test results ‘altered’ and have people come in a lie about Katherine. He’s trying it again. I’m not saying Katherine is a saint…she’s not. And she makes dumb-ass decisions, but she was young and didn’t have the life experience or social support (family) that she needed. This douche bag was a typical abuser and knew how to control a child who loved him. I hope Katherine continues with therapy and gets a strong support system, because he is out for blood. He never expected Katherine to be able to pull herself together, and not break under the pressure of him throwing Ashley at her.
But this jerk, of all people, to call women sluts, is like the Joke of the Decade. I hope Katherine’s lawyer is good enough to request a change of venue, if that is possible in family court cases in SC, and get out of the Ravenel family reach. At least let Katherine get a fair and impartial judge.
This is sickening to watch play out…..Didn’t he gave a plea bargain deadline – a month ago?? WTF is going on in Charleston??!!!
It is very hard to understand how the legal system and child protection agencies are allowing Ravenel to continue this abuse and hold custody of the children. How can any woman have confidence in what are supposed to be community safeguards? His (female) lawyer must be an evil woman too to allow this manipulation of the court system.
Now we know why Kathryn is a nervous wreck. She is basically fighting for her and her childrens life. The women on the show need to give her a break and not meddle in her private business. On the other hand Kathryn needs to keep her sexual shit to herself. I like Whitney more than ever now and she squealed like
a pig talking about his performance in bed. Not necessary at all. She is her own worst enemy. Chalk it up to her age I suppose.
Commenting on a man’s sexual performance publicly isn’t terribly nice or classy, but Kathryn doesn’t do or say anything the men on the show don’t.
Exactly!!!!
She’s in the middle of a custody battle. Regardless of whether she should or shouldn’t talk about sex is irrelevant to me. It’s not helping your case so just stop doing it. The other men aren’t fighting for their children, she is. Being smart can go a long way.
Chalk it up to her age? Uh, legal adulthood is 18 in this country, & being a parent of two children certainly confers responsibilities commensurate with grownup behavior. Oh, as an anthropologist (though long retired) I recognize that American culture now extends adolescence far beyond past boundaries (especially for males), but I can’t see an educated woman in her late 20’s with two kids being allowed the same behavioral leeway as a young teen.
Word
This whole situation is the equivalent of a V.C. Andrew’s novel…
For real!
This is disgusting on multiple levels. The court should hang its head in allowing this trash onto the record. And, not for nothing, IT. ISN’T. ILLEGAL. TO. TAKE. NUDES. OR. HAVE. SEX. WITH. A BOYFRIEND. My GOD, T-Rav is human garbage.
Pot meet kettle. I hope that her attorney will ask for the same exact thing.
Shouldn’t he be worried about his sexual assault case instead of this?! WTF!!
Hey Thomas!
Call the kettle black much?! Greasy drug using slut that he is can go straight to you know where ! He’s just pissed that Katheryn is chasing his sorry ass anymore
This abuse is akin to a defense attorney for a rapist blaming the raped party for the rape. Because she (or he) was dressed provocatively, or was wearing perfume, or was showing an ankle. Where does TRav’s nonsense end?
He is such a slime ball, he is grasping at straws and coming up with terribly delusional scenarios to attempt to make her look worse than him. And really, let’s say she did have an abortion, what business is it of his? They were broken up, they weren’t married, what’s his end game with this? His parents must be disgusted. And to think he thought he could beat Lindsey Graham’s ass, oh lord. He really needs to just stop as he is only damaging himself.
That judgemental piece of shit has probably sent out more dick pics than Kim K takes selfies. Abhor this troglodyte! Double standards malicious accusations & puerile behavior emanate from that good ole boy. I hope he rots.
What the heck is “sexual impassivity”? I didn’t know a plaintiff could just make up diagnosis. Additionally, why exactly would the slimeball who took pics need Kathryn to send him pics? That story doesn’t wash.
His attorney should use better discretion than this. I hope she gets reprimanded along with him!
I feel like he’s just jealous he’s not on the show anymore so he’s lashing out at her and bravo. He’s a old geezer and he knows it.
He is a philandering, drunken, abuser. Several times on the show and at the last reunion, you saw him turn very aggressive and verbally abusive on a dime when Kathryn didn’t bow down to him. He also did it on the ferry boat to Danny I believe. He can be drunk constantly, assault women and be abusive on camera and this is ok? It’s non of his business if her ex boyfriend has a naked photo of her. He doesn’t own her. You aren’t a bad mother because you have a sex life.