Apparently, Jim Edmonds was cheating with someone online sending dick picks and videos on the day Meghan King Edmonds gave birth to twins. Meghan has taken to her blog to post about it.
I found out the same way you guys did: in the tabloids, I never left a voicemail for the other woman. I called Jimmy and he confessed to me that he had exchanged lewd photos with this woman over the course of several months and a physical relationship never existed. He paid her off to protect me so I’d never find out. Yet here I am writing about it.
It seems that those NDAs don’t always do the trick.
Do I believe him? I don’t know. Because I don’t trust him anymore. Physical or not, he still had an affair and he admits this to me. I’m a simple girl. I wanted a solid marriage. I’m as loyal as they come and I wanted the vows we made when we exchanged our rings to be acted upon. Now my wedding ring symbolizes fraud.
So leave him, Meghan!
I refuse to be humiliated by this.
Marriage is hard, we’ve been through our ups and downs, I’ve talked about it openly. A relationship takes two but it doesn’t take two to cheat.
I did nothing wrong, I don’t deserve this. I did nothing except be pregnant with our twins and try to have a healthy pregnancy. So what is so broken in him to propel him to do this to me? To us? It wasn’t one mistake, one lapse in judgement. I saw the texts – each one represents his decision to throw our marriage in the trash. Why did he self-sabotage? And who sends nudies? Doesn’t everyone know better than this in 2019? What drives someone to self-destruct in such a way?
Jim is the one who should be humiliated. The videos and dick pics were posted on line by a sleazebag site.
I don’t care about my stupid massive house, I don’t care about my new car, I don’t care about my diamonds. What does any of that mean when I can’t have the most basic needs met? It means nothing. Smoke and mirrors.
I love him. How can I turn my feelings around so quickly? How can one person decide to utterly ruin me? It’s not fair. I sob so much my face stings from the salt from my tears. I am exhausted. My poor kids aren’t getting their devoted mother. And it’s only been 36 hours.
This is so sad. At least her family is up there I think. She’s going to need a bit of help.
Drivin and Cryin
And all of this could not have come at a worse time. Again, something I wasn’t ready to share but here I am sharing it: we are worried our son, Hart, might have a neurological disorder. It’s been the most trying last couple months of my entire life and we still don’t have answers. Sometimes I leave the house after the kids go to bed so I can drive around and ugly cry in the dark with no one around. Now I have this to deal with: my one true love betraying me in the most disgusting and public way possible.
I feel sad. Oh, do I feel so sad! I feel abandoned. Lonely. My best friend, my number one person has lied to me. Who is he? Do I even know?
Two words: Divorce Attorney
In the days of digital media what are we if we don’t have our reputation? Every job is dependent upon an unsoiled reputation. What was he thinking? I am a victim, but I am not defined by this. I need space to heal. Ultimately, I have hope our marriage can recover.
I do not fault any other person except my husband. There are so many people out there with bad intentions and it’s our responsibility to ignore and rise above. One slimy person doesn’t make another person cheat. And there are a million more slimy people to take “slimy person #1’s” place.
Didn’t Jim cheat on all of his wives? I seem to recall on Real Housewives of Orange County that the ladies predicted this. Was he married when he met Meghan King Edmonds? I have no sense of recollection these days. Apparently, my memory is very faulty.
Marriage is a choice, every. damn. day. On the days I hate him, on the days I want to run from him, on the days I get approached by some hot dude on instagram luring me with trips or money or whatever the hell else the slimy people do. So yes, marriage is a choice on the bad days. And on the good days marriage is easy and beautiful. No one said it would be easy, I just didn’t think it would be this hard.
What do y’all think Meghan King Edmonds should do? Can you ever recover from the knowledge that on the day you gave birth to twins your husband was at home jacking off online with some random woman? Does anyone believe there is just one woman out there he was doing this with?
It could not have been easy for Meghan to make the comments shown above. Her pain is palbable and she is justified in taking whatever steps are necessary to go forward and ensure that her life and the life of her babies is not tainted any further by her thoughtless, selfish, ego-maniac husband, Jim. Whether she decides to remain with him or not is obviously her decision to make, but I have a new-found respect for her in handling this matter in such a brave way and her decision not feel the need to go into hiding. As she says, she did nothing wrong and if anyone should be hiding, it is Jim. Unfortunately, she married an athlete and most of those men (and maybe most men) believe that they should have everything they want in this world without concern about the consequences to those closest to them. I support Meghan for her courage in the face of this ugly revelation.
Well said. I agree. I haven’t much liked her in the past, but found myself in tears reading her heartfelt blog.
Agreed.. never much cared for Megan. She came across as a shallow, goldigging twit. Jim did nothing to help her cause considering he seemed to have zero interest in her, their marriage or plans of a future family.( And we all know the rumors of his infidelities. ) But I’m a girls girl and I hate to see any woman get duped on the level she has. 3 little ones and a public humiliation..no one deserves it. Stay strong Megan.
No big surprise. The fact that they had a long distance marriage at first, plus his abrasive demeanor with her when they were on the show – it didn’t seem like a real love connection there. I never sensed true chemistry, and he isn’t a likable guy.
I hope she leaves him.
I get she’s devastated. And yes, she should do (almost) whatever it takes to move on. EXCEPT write some big diatribe about how sad she is. Her victimization in writing is pathetic, distasteful, and makes me embarrassed for her.
Besides the fact that we all knew she and “Jimmy” weren’t solid, she had to draw extra attention to that fact. And it’s not making her look better, or him worse. Her kids, and his children (whom she professed to love so much) will not benefit from her histrionics. She should have acted with grace, shut it, and decided how to move forward. Once there are dick pics, we all get it. Attempting to shame him only makes her look pathetic, and won’t help with what her children think of her in futuro.
Telling women in pain to “shut it” isn’t a good look. She is allowed to share her story and her pain as it is HERS. I’ve never read something so misogynist than telling a victim they should keep their mouth shut.
Meghan may not be a perfect human being but she deserves to be heard. If every person kept their mouths shut when wronged, we would be a sad society. I say, you go Meghan, don’t hide. Face it with dignity.
Well said. Why would anyone human tell a woman in pain to shut up about it? She IS the victim here, and she can deal with her pain as privately or as publicly as she chooses. I also thought she was an airheaded twit, but I have a lot more respect for her and the way she is handling his decision to destroy their marriage.
Agreed. In these situations women are always pressured to keep a dignified silence “for the sake of the kids”. How about men keeping their dicks in their pants “for the sake of the kids”?
Don’t want your dirty laundry aired? Don’t shit the bed.
YES!! I totally agree. She does not need to be quiet. It is Jim’s behavior that hurt those precious kids. So many women give in to pressure to smooth it over and play nice. Who know that Meghan is the one who is strong and brave enough to be honest about it. I have so much respect for her.
I totally agree.
At first I just felt sympathy but…….
this is too much!
Yes I understand our world of the digital media and all that…..but lady you have kids!
And yes money does not buy happiness but consider yourself very lucky you are not dealing with this situation as a low or even middle class American family.
I wonder who wrote her statement?
She did.
She has actually always been quite verbose, so this sounds exactly like her to me. Pretty blondes can be well spoken too.
Unless you are referring to the emotional tone, which also screams the Meghan we saw, 3 babies later. Right or wrong, she was devoted to her family.
I find her statement honest and raw. I feel it was emotionally mature and not edited down based on her worry about her image which is rare. I like Megan the same as Kristen from NY in a way I don’t understand their bond with their husbands but I get it all the same from personal experience. I wish her the best. I feel really bad for her.
Actually, we know nothing. We only know what we see on television. And, even then, it’s only an edited peek into their lives. It’s quite sad how you lack any sympathy for what she’s going through.
@kkbella you are an insensitive jerk.
Thanks Tracy. Hardly insensitive or a jerk.. I have deep compassion and empathy for all of humanity to spare. I just have no desire to see her spew her juvenile pain that everyone says she’s entitled to all over, attempting to gain sympathy. Not authentic. Not thought out. She should deal. And you can just Fuck Off.
Juvenile pain? She’s a grown woman who has been betrayed and has the next few decades to deal with this asshole because of the kids. This is adult pain. Real pain. And it’s her business to share it or not. I will not silence her, even if she’s not my cup of tea as a friend or an interesting person. That’s not what we’re talking about.
kkbella and the other heartless women deserve someone like the jerk that Jim is. I never liked him because he looks and acts arrogant and the way he treated Meghan was terrible. He is a sorry ass womanizer and will never be faithful. The athlete’s are a dime a dozen and most make horrible husbands. They are all about themselves but NOTE that when they are no longer in the limelight they usually go broke fast and end up selling cars or insurance.
I hope she leaves him BEFORE he goes broke and takes him to the cleaners. She is a beautiful woman. I always loved her innocence while filming. She trusted him only to be betrayed.
I hope Karma hits kkbella and the other cold, heartless women in the butt.
You people are shallow. And lame. No heartlessness here. I have compassion. I get she was betrayed. You said it: “he is a sorry ass womanizer…” So, you are dealt some cold facts, that you should have seen. And now, you vindictive lot want to “take him to the cleaners”! Go for it. If MO is a no fault state, then sorry Megs. Oh, and I’m good with any potential Karma you want to dish. You might however, read or learn more on the subject than whatever you have gleaned from the internet. Study hard. By the way, innocence should never be confused with stupid.
Your lack of compassion borders on schadenfreude. I don’t believe you are racking up any karma points here, kkbella. Study harder.
Didn’t Vicki predict this on Meghan’s first season? She said something like “Jim, come talk to me when you’re divorced in 5 years”
Either way, sad situation and sad for the kid.
Time to hire the attorneys…
I think it’s called over compensation. He has tried over & over to prove his dominance over all his wives. Me thinks there is a bit of self hatred going on with this man. Not implying he is homosexual but this man had some serious issues with women. I loved watching Meghan play Nancy Drew , unhinge Vicki Heather & Tamra.& generally wreak havoc to the well deserved & any / all cast members trying to impune her dignity. She’s one tough cookie & her razor quick female intuition is her best asset. Young, beautiful & blond yes but her gut instincts & bullshit detector is on high alert. Always loved the haridans getting schooled by who they referred to as a vapid dumb blonde. Hope she takes that sorry excuse for a man to the cleaners. Keep ya head up Meghan !
I love everything about your comments!
Everything you said! ?
You are spot on! And as an English teacher, I specifically love your use of target rich vocabulary! Kudos!
Right on, Marc. I cannot believe his boring ass is still doing Cardinals broadcasts. His voice is like listening to paint dry. Yes, I’m aware that’s all kinds of backwards.
Not surprising except the pictures, I dont know of one woman who enjoys or is impressed when a photo of a mans part is received, A couple years after my husband was seeing his girlfriend he sent me a photo of it instead of to her, It was surprising, I never thought he was so classless and stupid, my mistake thinking she would be offended, she likes them he said. Could be a game she plays.
Hope they can work through this. I do know she will have to forgive and forget. Their lives can not be centered around this and that is difficult to do
This one’s a tough situation for a young woman in her 30’s with 3 kids under the age of 5. For any woman really. Yes, he’s an ass who’s cheated with probably all the women he’s been with. Should Meghan have known better? Probably. But were we all smart about love when we were younger? Even older?
Her blog post was very honest, poignant and heartfelt. I was finally able to relate to her on some level and my heart goes out to her.
I wasn’t a fan of Meghan on RHOC. I can’t imagine anyone liking her husband on any level. But I can’t help but feel very sorry for her. Why did a tabloid feel the need to expose this? She’s not on TV any longer, she’s not really in the spotlight. And to find out about your cheating dishonest husband this way is just horrible.
And to top it off there might be something medically wrong with one of the twins. I mean, the stress of that alone is a lot for anyone to handle! I have no idea what she should do, she doesn’t know what she should do.I have no idea why some men, and some women, find it necessary to act out in bazaar sexual ways. It’s been going on for centuries. I will never ever “get it”.
Hopefully Meghan will be able to process this and do what’s best for her and her babies. She really does deserve better, if she wants something better.
This sucks so much. Her pain is radiating off my tablet. When the going gets fucked, the fucked get going and MANY men can’t seem to face the shit. More kids, a son with difficulties … too much for Little Jimmy? Another woman — whether consummated or not — is like a vacation to these men. They don’t seem to realize that they bring their problems along — in the bottom of their suitcases to be found after they’ve done their best to ruin what they had. I think Megan shouldn’t make any decisions until the “blood” stops flowing. Then decide.
My feeling is that she made this even more public by speaking out. She wants out, and he just gave her that out. I appreciate her candor, but home girl over shared. She is absolutely paving her way out… She has her babies, she will be fine.
I’m sorry to hear all this terrible news. Megan needs to do whatever is best for her family. I think he is hopeless. I’d leave, to save myself from throttling him.
Poor Meghan! This has to be so hard on her, especially with their son going through possible health issues. I hope her mom and sister are there to support her right now.
Jim has probably done this throughout their marriage since it was long distance in the beginning. I don’t know why men send dick pics — it’s not as pretty as they think it is ?
Dick piks. What man in his right mind thinks this is some kind of turn on for women. Quite the contrary. Keep it in your pants until it is needed, and then we will let you know when it is needed and not before. What fools.
The only thing that surprises me is that Jim actually admitted to the on-line, everything but physical affair. I guess he expects to be forgiven because he owns up to something very easily provable. Jim seemed emotionally vacant when they were on RHOOC. I remember reading she was the one who always sought out the cameras and fame, he tended to shy away from that. Maybe some bargain they struck with each other, perhaps that she’d get the kids and notoriety and he’d get her hot young body wasn’t enough to make either of them look deeper into what could possibly go wrong with those goals. Not sure, just hope the 3 kids get all the love and attention they need and deserve.
Yeah, I don’t believe for a minute that he never crossed the line physically. He paid hush money over only dick pics?
He sent a video of him self-pleasuring.
Ewww! Who thinks that’s hot? NO WOMAN IN HER RIGHT MIND! Porn has made men think that women love seeing their units and watching them touch themselves. No thanks
While I feel sorry for anyone with a broken heart she knew what she was getting. Now she says she doesn’t care about the massive house, money or diamonds, she did care about that stuff before.
Why else would she hook up and have 3 kids with a guy that had been there done that already. You can’t fit other people into your checklist and then cry when it goes awry. It sucks for sure but that’s life.
Agree, dreamchild. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone, but she didn’t help her cause by mentioning her huge house, new car and diamonds. I bet she will be sure to take all of that with her when she tosses him out.
I am dreaming it, or did Jimmy cheat on wife #2 with Meghan? While she had cancer?
You’re dreaming. Meghan also signed a prenupt so no, she won’t get all that on the way out. Wife 2 didn’t have cancer and multiple people have said there was no cheating (with Meghan)
Wife #1 had cancer. Allegedly, Meghan began dating him when wife#2 was home with 2 small children. It’s called looking them how you get them.
Like Dr. Phil says. “For every rat ? you see, there are 50 more you don’t” .
My husband just now said, I love Jim Edmunds, while watching the STL game! When I told him about the nudies, and read parts of Meghan’s blog to him, he was so disappointed. I thought she was spot on in her comments. Money only buys a gilded cage when your partner is dishonest and cheats. Do we need to say it out loud? Don’t send dick pics, dummies.
I think he did it to get the divorce. He is a great broadcaster. Allegedly the pic receiver is a “baseball madame” who does this with players. No way he did not know the real deal.
that poor kid. what a shithead he is.
Thanks Tamara for posting this. Some of the comments I’ve seen on Instagram are horrendous from people who obviously did not read her blog.
I read her blog and sobbed.
She is a broken woman.
I will never understand infidelity, if you feel you need to be with others then leave the relationship. It isn’t fair to anyone involved. I feel badly for her, this happened to a friend of mine, it broke her, she was a mess for several years. He had her believing it was because she was fat and ugly and he wasn’t attracted to her anymore. She was pregnant and having issues that caused sweeping and she was on bed rest you fuck face. When she finally had been beaten down enough that she saw it would never change she left. Now he is begging her to mend their family, hahahahaha. She is in a very amazing relationship with a man who treats her like the goddess she is. Megan is very pretty, and she is bright, she can do much better than an aging little boy.
If he could betray her on the very day she is giving birth to his children, does he value her or their family at all?? I don’t think the marriage has any hope of recovery. This is probably just the one time he got caught. Just tragic for the children.
didn’t Kelly Dodd say Something about Jim cheating on Meghan? And didn’t the ladies put her through the wringer for that comment?
In terms of other people’s marriages, HWs need to take a page out of Heather Dubrow’s book. If you have concrete proof, the most you do is quietly give it to her. With no filming and not telling another soul. I dont think Heather even mentioned it to Terry.
My heart breaks for her. I don’t get why guys send d-pics. We don’t get turned on by them, we are just not wired that way. If a female is requesting them, then trust and believe she is wanting leverage to be used later!
Jim has been known to be a hound and a jerk throughout his career. I think that he cheated on #1 with #2 but was separated from #2 when Meghan came around.
Her blog was honest and raw. I have to hand it to her because she is placing the blame where it needs to be placed…ON HER HUSBAND…and not doing the usual thing of blaming the other woman.
If she wants to work it out, then I hope they can. RHONY Kristen is still with her husband after the Ashley Madison scandal. Many choose to keep trying. I couldn’t do it, but a lot choose to.
They are gross. He’s delusional.
I guess I dont see why he keeps on getting married if he gets boerd so easily? He didnt seem to want more kids or be all that in love either. He could get all the young hot bodies he wants without getting married, and its got to be costing him alot. Who knows? He must like something about marriage, but figures he can still do the other stuff for entertainment. It seems like this is the modern version of marriage. Very easy to cheat. Ive got nothing against a good dick pic though. It just shouldnt be a married husband sending it out to someone other than his wife.
Gross. I hope she dumps him and doesn’t look back.
There have been rumblings of Jimmi straying while on the road for some time. Even Vicki questioned him. Who would have known? I think Meghan just turned the other cheek and didn’t want to believe it. She wanted kids, he didn’t. but that cheap agreement was a cheap. 7,500. Did he really think that would suffice? No wonder she hit the tabloids for some real cash. I feel really bad for Meghan. It seems she has a supportive family so that helps. Maybe she will come back to RHOC since this show is on life support and she has come into town to film a bit this next season. Hopefully to replace Gina who I hope will move now.
I think she should kick his cheating ass as far as she can. She truly loves him and he has destroyed that. She’s young and fragile. She doesn’t deserve this…he’s an A1 douche.
She’ll stay because she’s young and stupid. When she reaches 45, she’ll kick herself for it.
I wasn’t a fan of hers on RHOC, but I wouldn’t wish what’s happened to her on my worst enemy. That asshole treated her like dirt on the show, I can’t even imagine what he was like in private. He made it clear he didn’t want another child, much less three so she is going to need all the support from family and friends that she can get. Can a serial cheater quit cheating? Possibly, but it’s not bloody likely. (I’m looking at you, Jax). I hope she gets a great divorce attorney, bleeds him dry financially and takes her three beautiful children close to family and begins to heal.
Exactly.
I have always liked Meghan & thought Jim treated her badly. Seems like he hasn’t changed his ways, & I’m truly sorry, not only that he is such a jerk, but that she had to find out in such a horrid manner. It’s going to be a rough few years ahead for Meghan, especially knowing that a lot of people who should be her friends are going to make her journey more difficult. She is smart, & that will help her.
Does anyone think that Meghan would have been interested in him if he weren’t a famous baseball player? Even if he had been wealthy? At his age and with two ex-wives, and considering how awful he is? She could’ve found some nice, wealthy man closer to her age without a terrible track record to keep her in a big house and diamonds who simply wasn’t famous, but he wouldn’t have gotten her the notoriety she wanted and the chance to be on television. She got on that show because Andy is such a huge fan of the St. Louis Cardinals, anyway that was my guess. I feel bad for her but not all that bad, to be honest. Her concept of “love” strikes me as pretty shallow and transactional.
I agree with you. I do feel for her on the betrayl, but the impression I got was that, because of who he was, it was a done deal the moment he called for a date. There was no process of falling in love, it was a big fish that was caught. Hes shallow too, so perhaps theyll make it. The other wives probably wanted something deeper, like a husband who really loved them. Jimmy seems very cold. Meaghen may end up wanting more as well. She got her babies and will get a good child support.
This has to be hard for her. I know the weighted questions I would have going thru my mind – do I keep my pride/dignity or my family? Do I split weekends or do I suck it up? Do I accept hating him forever or do I consider forgiveness? And for this to all happen in front of the world. I agree – a massive house, expensive car, and diamonds don’t mean shit.
I’ve enjoyed following Meghan since her departure from RH. It will be interesting to see how she navigates this part of her life. I think in the end she’ll be stronger for it. I love what she said about being a victim but not letting herself be defined by this. I think she’s handled the entire thing (from a public perspective) admirably.
If I were Meghan, I would be repulsed by him, b’c I think d-picks are so creepy and weird. I wouldn’t be able to look at him. I feel really bad for her. I hope her son is okay. I think her son’s health is her top priority, which I’m sure is Meghan’s too. She has a lot thrown at her and with three babies. I wish her and her children well.
Poor Meghan. Although I wouldn’t be sad, I’d be pissed. How f**king DARE he publicly humiliate my babies like that?? Sending out pictures of his old man d**k while I’m giving bloody birth to his children??? (And I’ve given birth to twins—it’s horrible and scary, after a difficult and scary pregnancy!). Meghan should cut her losses and bleed him dry. She’ll never look at him the same way again, so what’s the point? I’d also demand supervised visitation, because Ol’ Jimmy “D**k Pick” Edmunds (hope that’s on his tombstone!) has proven to the world that he has no judgement, and even less care and consideration for his family.
I just lost a post about running into her and Andy at a bar and grill because the page constantly auto-reloads on my iPad, so it went where all posts go to die : cyberspace heaven.
Suffice it to say, if 1/10 of the gossip going around is true she needs to divest herself of 200 pounds of ugly baggage.
I feel so badly for Meghan. Back when she was on RHOC, it seemed as though she had a very one-sided marriage. Jim was completely disinterested in anything she was doing and I remember when she had her first IVF embryo implantation, which was a really big thing after months of shots and unpleasant treatment, he went out of his way not to be there with her. He never seemed to show her affection, or really act as though he cared about her, and people commented on it frequently.
Now, here she is a few years down the line, and she finally realizes what a prick he is. Like so many other commenters, I just don’t get d-pics. Penises definitely have their use, but I don’t know many women who think they’re actually pretty, and watching video of a guy jacking off is totally gross. Didn’t the other woman know that his wife was having twins that day? If she had any class, she would have told him where to go with that vide, and where to put that errant dick. As far as I’m concerned, they’re both pigs.
As for him claiming that all he did was text her and send the video, it would take a huge stretch of the imagination for any woman with a brain to believe that. Especially since he paid her off to keep quiet about it. I wonder how many others have been paid off over the years?
If Meghan gets the strength, I hope she leaves his butt in the dust and soaks him for everything she can possibly get. She has three children to raise now, one of whom might need special care, and from everything I saw she was 100% invested in the marriage. Wouldn’t you have expected him to learn from his previous failures? Guess not. Some men, and women, are just without any sense of what’s right and wrong. It’s a pity she didn’t look at his past history, and foresee her own future, but few of us do, especially when we’re “in love”. The risks must have seemed worth it to her, at the time.
Just remember, Meghan, the trust is gone, and when the full extent of your husband’s betrayal sinks in, it will be very hard to turn back the clock and try to reclaim your marriage. When he’s not with you, you’ll be wondering what he’s doing, you’ll wonder who he’s texting, and you’ll resent him for what he’s put you through and how he disrespected you.
Wishing you the best of luck, you have a very difficult time ahead of you.
Dear Husbands: not getting enough “love” in your marriage? Rub one off in the shower like a respectable man.
Dear Sons: if you are ok with your grandma and/or potential employer seeing your peen online one day then shoot and send away. P.S. no girl really ever wants to see it pixelated anyway
THERE I FIXED IT
Agree with all the comments. I think for now they will be show a united front so he won’t lose his job at Fox. What a jerk he is but we all knew that.
I feel like it’s the same thing always with men like this. He has the problem. No Megan you won’t be different…you aren’t better…your not the soulmate he has been searching for and his first wives were mistakes but he finally found you. The signs were there…they were ignored. The problem with men like this lies in them. There is no special girl out there that can fix it. Unless you are a girl that doesn’t mind turning the cheek. Still I feel badly for Megan because most are guilty of being blinded by love at one point or another.
This whole situation is infuriating. Her husband is a pig, but she is totally out of line making everything public. These are words cemented for her children to see. It’s an attention grab. Rely on your family, your close friends. Not the public.
Um a nefarious site outed the information simply to do harm and get views. She has every right to speak on the subject.
What if any are the actual consequences for that person or the nefarious site after publishing the photos in light of the NDA?
Well aren’t you just a cheerful bitch? It was put out there for everyone to read, she had nothing to do with it being out there. Meghan blogged In Response to the article that outed it. The kids will learn about it at some point no matter what as their dad is a public figure, which is sad for them. Basically the only attention whore in this mess is the asshole sending pictures of his junk to someone who is t his wife, well and the chic he was sending them too. If Meghan were to not respond and acknowledge this mess then people would hound her, this way she says her piece and that’s it.
I am standing and clapping for this comment! You are damn right. I was not big on Meghan but Jim always skeeved me out. He always seemed so detatched and non feeling. I am not one to knock someone’s appearance but since he is for sure a rat I’m going to say I always found him ugly. There is no telling what else he has done that she doesn’t know about. She needs to dump him but she will probably do the old 6 months to a year forced attempt. I’m sure he will benefit greatly ? from the marital counciling she will insist on. Whatever happens I do wish her the best. I believe she was genuine in her marriage. She deserves better.
So she can’t talk about her hurt or pain? I trust her when she explained her disappointment and palpable confusion. I’m so glad she is speaking out! I am not a public figure, I hope this kind of infidelity becomes more recognized and takes traction. Men seem to have a different understanding of sexual fidelity. My heart dropped, my fingers and toes are still cold. I know the feeling Meghan, I wish I had your options.
MKE has every right to reply to this situation. I hope she leaves him.
Besides one other person on here, I guess I’m the only one in America that thinks posting all her pain, outrage, shock and victimization is pure bullshit. Is she The aggrieved party? Yes. Is she forever changed and humiliated? Duh. But for fucks sake, don’t go on and on about how you’re the Virgin Mary and he’s Lucifer’s cousin. You married him, acted all bullshit like with your perfect marriage to Jimmie, (even with his age and past) and now you’re going public with the princess in the tower card? Keep it to yourself, get divorced, and zip it.
She may have the right to blog about being nailed to the cross. It doesn’t mean she has to. Grow up. You knew the risks.
I agree with you. She should zip it..
I agree also.
Amen!!!
Meghan was with Jim when he was married to someone else with whom he had two small children. How is she surprised by this?
KARMA????
I don’t understand why she’s crying? Am I supposed to feel sorry for her? Why? Because she’s new mom? I celebrate with her ex husband and jim’s ex wives…..
Am sure they all prayed for this…
Megan is getting her karma…. I feel nothing..
Karma exists….
Everyone is entitled to their opinions but I am surprised at the people who are throwing hate at Megan. Put yourself in her place… can you imagine not only being a single mom to three small children and possibly one with special needs but then to have to send your babies to their dad’s house for whatever timesharing agreement put in place? My heart breaks for her.
i respectfully disagree with you. She’s in the exact place his second wife was in when she started dating him. He was married with 2 small children. She won’t be s typical single Mom. She’ll have financial resources and all the paid help she wants.
Sorry I cannot put myself in her place. She thought she was special enough not to get what his other wives got. I will never place myself in a situation like that. My parents raised me better.
There are millions of single mothers out there such as my neighbor who became a single mother after her husband died at the world trade center. I put myself in those types of situations not megan’ s situation.
Megan is getting what women in her position get……. karma…
Isn’t there a saying that goes “how you get them is how you loose them?” Her warranty has expired. He’s looking for his next younger blonde.
Who sends dick pics these days? Smug guys do. That’s who. I hope she gets a good divorce lawyer pronto.
I don’t believe that the relationship was never physical. Jim strikes me as a continuous cheater. I don’t know if we know he cheated on his other wives for sure, but I believe he did. He strikes me as a narcissist who uses cheating to feed his narcissism.
I think Meghan really does love him, and I don’t think she will leave him. I think she posted that blog not only because she is in pain, but also because she wants the public to believe she considered leaving him even though she has no intention of doing so. She’s a smart woman who knows this will affect her public perception when she stays with him because most women will judge her for staying. If people perceive that she considered leaving, it might lessen the fallout when she stays.
She plays quite the martyr in that blog. It’s so hard to stay. She’s the one sacrificing her happiness by staying with him and making the marriage work. Look at her trying so hard to save her marriage because she is a good person who takes her vows seriously. Martyr. Martyr. Martyr. She’s spinning her own narrative to save her ass from the eventual judgement when she posts her next happy family Instagram.
If she was serious about leaving him, that is what she would do, but she’s not. Should she leave him? Absolutely, but it’s not that simple. She has three young children. I can definitely empathize with her. I don’t believe she has bad intentions, but I do believe she is trying to cover up her true intentions.
Well said???
I watched Megan on RHOC and I could take her or leave her. What has astonished me today is everyone’s opinion that Megan quietly slip into the shadows with her mouth closed, unless you have been cheated on you have no idea how it feels for your world to be broken in a moment, the trust, the love, you question everything you said and done in your relationship. Megan is the victim, yet she will feel the most embarrassment throughout this. Most people get to deal an affair with just friends & family …Megan had no choice but to deal with the whole world , her husband’s affair was made public.
While Megan could have toned it down a little bit in her statement, you also have to remember she is reeling from all the information she has received and what she and her husband had verbally spoken that none of us will ever know.
Yes. They are telling her to shut up and go to her corner. Which is exactly what that low life husband of hers wants her to do. I say talk….and talk…and talk…and if it makes people uncomfortable- so.be.it.
i think it’s batshit to put this out there the way she did. Keep your head up, hire an attorney, and move on. Looking for sympathy online is pathetic. Rise above it. Typing out an emotional plea to the public? No.
He’s a famous person, ti’s gong to go public one way or another. Writing a big old blog about it…I’ll never understand why anyone would feel the need to do that shit I know that tablet is glued to your fucking hand and oversharing is the fashion now, but come ON! She married a hound dog for a big house and diamonds, let’s not pretend otherwise. It’s cute she thought it wouldn’t happen to her. They never do.
He’s cheating? The only thing shocking here is my eyeballs haven’t rolled out of my head.
And this goddam page reloading constantly is driving ME batshit.
She is posting links to her blog on Twitter. I find this odd. Have your say girl, but then shut up about it after.
Let me clear up a few misperceptions here – I’ve been living in St. Louis for almost 20 years now and a Cardinals fan my entire life. I knew Meghan by casual conversation through the surgical practice I work for, as she was a sales rep for a major pharmaceutical company before she met Jimmy and she was always very nice, professional, and very well spoken. She has been blogging about her infertility struggles and IVP since the birth of her daughter, Aspen – she has her own blog, which is where this article in her own words came from – she has always been a proficient writer, so there ARE her own words – no one wrote this for her. She is a very open person on her blog. This story had already been leaked before she wrote her blog post about the situation – the original site first, then two other sites had picked it up. It’s not like she is airing their dirty laundry out ahead of any stories floating around – it was already out there. Also, Let me acquaint you with the woman in question – she is known as the “baseball madame” – she is VERY well known in the secret community of professional baseball players. Let’s just say this is not her first rodeo into threatening players after indiscretions to make things public. That said, Jim did this with her in his 2nd marriage, yes – the same baseball madame – and he made contact with her again while Meghan was pregnant with the twins. So, the moron knew who she was and what he was getting – he is pathetic. While the St. Louis community loved him as a player and as now a commentator for Fox Sports Midwest, it’s no big secret in the gossip circles of St. Louis that he’s always been a cheater (I’m saying that in the nicest way possible because there are more adjectives that are far more specifically gross) – this is his M.O., per say. No, Meghan was not sleeping with Jimmy while he was married either – Jimmy and Wife #2 were already separated and going thru the divorce process. Meghan comes from a very nice family here in the St. Louis area. She has an identical twin sister too and her parents are good people, typical Midwestern family. So yes, Meghan at least should have been aware of Jimmy’s behaviors in previous marriages and Jimmy has always said he didn’t want more children, given his behaviors while she was still on RHOC, that seemed true. So, I guess if you want to blame her for forcing the children, that’s your choice, but c’mon, Jimmy also has to have been aware when he keeps trading in wives for younger models that he was marrying someone a lot younger who had never had children before, so yeah, it’s pretty safe to say, at some point she’s going to want children with him – whatever. (By the way, a little insight into how things roll in MLB community – remember, baseball has been around a lot longer than let’s say the NBA and NFL – they have a long history of knowing how to sweep things under rugs. There are people whose job it is to keep things “private” when players are on the road. I’ve known a couple people here and in Milwaukee, who worked for MLB whom have said it’s very common for the traveling teams to each new city for games all use the same hotel, so players who are “hooking up” with girls in the host city will then give the next team coming into town a list of girls names and numbers once the new team players arrive – common practice, sadly.) As far as the “gay rumors” and Jimmy goes – there have been whispers of that both in St. Louis and in Milwaukee, but as far as I know – that was just gossip, who knows. I feel sorry that all this happened at the worst possible time when dealing with one of the twin’s as of yet un-diagnosed neurological disorder – I cannot imagine how much more stress that adds to the situation.
Separation is not divorce…. what if there was a chance that they could have gotten back…
Megan was going out with a married man. Period. Why didn’t she think of his little kids.
No!! Megan will not be made to be the victim.. Thank goodness for karma who knows exactly what happened. Maybe megan was the reason he divorced his wife…
Megan is not a victim…
You knew her in a professional setting and she showed you the side she wanted you to see. She never invited you to her home to talk about her love life…
IVF, not IVP – my typing error – sorry.
Vicki Gunvalson gave that marriage 5 years….Y’all remember her saying that? I think she hit it right on the nose. Megan and Jim were married in 2014 right?
And that will come back to haunt her IF she can con her man into following through on getting married. Face it: Vickie is evil and jealous and would have said and wished that on anyone. I wish y’all would stop acting like she had some special insight. We all saw his disinterest on tv but that in no way means that we (or dipshit Vickie) knew what their marriage was like. Hell, Steve ( or whatever his name is) seems annoyed and disinterested in Vickie every time I see him on tv, so how ‘bout we give them the same courtesy of declaring that it, too, will fail in five years.
Vicky hit it right on the nose. Whether Vicky is evil or not doesn’t remove the fact that she hit this prediction right on the nose.
Everything you said is accurate. She is a stunningly beautiful woman. I just attended a Derby day party they were at and she’s dropdead gorgeous. We also share a hairdresser LOL, and as I said above I saw her having a cozy dinner with Andy Cohen in Clayton in January. I’m sure to her the life she has here seem very safe but no one is ever safe from this bullshit If they marry a dog.
Just think it’s strange to be posting links directing traffic to your blog wherein you describe your devastation. Why would you want MORE people to see that?
I am the woman who hit her cheating husband with a car and directing traffic to my blog about it is just a little too much bleeding all over the landscape for even moi.lol
I like your style.
She’s either going back to RHOC that’s why she was having dinner with Andy Cohen and this will be her storyline, or they’re going all in on Celebrity Rehab.
I feel sorry for Meghan, cannot imagine the disappointment and pain she is going through. Prayers go out to her and her children, and hopes that Jim gets help as this is clearly a problem, and perhaps their marriage will survive with a lot of counseling and hard work. I always keep the faith that families with young children can stay in tact if the parents are willing to put in the work and stay dedicated to each other.
I feel completely sorry for her, but I am surprised she never caught on to he was staring in his own verson pornograohy. Dosen’t she pride herself as being sort of a detective in other people business? I believe he did more than just send photos. He has no regards of the humiliation to her, her children, and her family. Leave. I he have not change by now, his old dog ass will never change. Too controlling and set in his ways. Run Megan, run.
If there is anyone out there that has a spouse that travels regularly for work and/or that lives in a different state, I have news for you: anonymous surveys reveal that those situations are ripe for affairs. Ten bucks says that these pictures/this video are just the tip of the iceberg. I suspect there are others out there that may come out of the woodwork now. Or, maybe not. Maybe, as someone suggested, there are these “known available women” who avail themselves to the athletes for sport and it is all done discreetly. The won’t spill because they like the position they are in and enjoy the activities with hot guys, I guess. It’s a strange world we live in. But, no one’s marriage is perfect. Most men are horny pigs who think about sex a LOT more than us gals do. I suspect there is a lot more infidelity going on out there than we can even imagine. With that being said, the only thing Meghan can control right now is her choice to either forgive him, or not. She needs to make that decision and then look forward, and not backwards. If she chooses to forgive him, she will have to lock most of the crap in the vault and focus on the future, without dredging up this past. Otherwise, she might as well call the whole thing off now. Dredging it up later will just be toxic and things will never heal. It sucks. I feel for her. I hope she gets through some counseling, healing, etc…so she can be there for her kids. The only thing worse than all this would be if something bad happened to the kids because she cant pull herself together.
I think MKE should go from HW franchise to HW investigating their mysteries and revealing her findings at the reunions.
Did Kyle steal the God Damn house? Did LVP plant the Luch juicy story? What exactly binds PK & LVP together, whose body did PK bury for her? What is the secret we can’t know about Harry Kim was going to tell? An entire month exposing Vicki? Did Sonja really party in France with Madonna? So much….she’s hurting now I’d love to see her busy
Yes! Lol, Jen. Perfect.
Meghan has always been both well spoken and well written. This sounds to me like she told her true feelings to a pre-nup-breaking attorney who put her words to legal music…the veiled threats about his career were my favorite part!
I agree with the commenter who said “Jimmy” may be over compensating.
How ya get him is how ya lose him, eh megs?