
Ashley Jacobs is homeless, y’all. Remember how I kept promising you guys that Ashley Jacobs would quit stinking up the fine city of Charleston (technically Mount Pleasant) and go back to either her mama in California or back to working in Vegas in her alleged primary profession at the end of October? I felt like Thomas Ravenel would determine that Ashley Jacobs wasn’t really worth the expense of paying for her rent since she was no longer his storyline on Southern Charm.
Well, Thomas Ravenel did cut her off. Sort of. He didn’t renew her lease on the apartment and then went on a rollercoaster ride of calling her the scum of the earth and referring to her as his friend. When Thomas Ravenel got arrested and his divorce got ugly, he started to distance himself from Ashley Jacobs and Ashley began “seeing other people” in an attempt to keep Kathryn Dennis from asking the court to keep Ashley Jacobs away from her children.
Ashley Jacobs Is Homeless In Charleston
Since Ashley Jacobs is now homeless, you would think she would go home. But much like serial killers, there are always crazy people on the Internet that like these pitiful excuses for humans. In the past, we learned that Ashley likes to call people see finds on the Internet and form bizarre friendship with random strangers. So, when she was homeless the last time, one of those people, decided to let Ashley stay at her home. She has children and her father with Alzheimer’s living with her. As it turned out, this was an insane decision and she is lucky that things didn’t turn out worse than they did. Ashley used to pretend that her roommate’s dog was hers. It was all very Single White Female.
Eventually, she did kick her out. Then, Ashley posted private messages she had exchanged with the roommate on the Internet. She also urged her troll farm to harass her. Remember, she was a former member of said troll farm so they seem to be cannibalizing their own at this point. Which brings me to my new favorite Instagram, A Beautiful Snarky Mess. She has some great Charleston sources that are more boots on the ground than most of mine. And I ADORE all of her graphics. She needs to sell them on T-Shirts. I guess that might be a licensing issue but I would buy them.

Mount Pleasant Police Served Ashley Jacobs A Trespass Notice
A Beautiful Snarky Mess was the first to report that Ashley Jacobs had the cops called on her by her former roommate last night. Ashley Jacobs apparently didn’t get all of her crap out of the apartment when she left the first time. So, she went back to get the rest of her belongings when the ex-roommate wasn’t home. The roommate’s father, who has some serious cognitive issues due to his age, was home.
So Ashley Jacobs, “the hospice nurse with the delightful bedside manner” allegedly screamed and cursed at the father. Then she went in and allegedly began to take whatever she felt like from her former home. While this was happening, the ex-roommate arrived back at the house and called the police. The police were called and a report was filed. Then, the Police served Ashley Jacobs a no trespass notice, This essentially is a permanent order restraining her from ever returning to the property. This no trespass notice was communicated to her by phone. Because, Ashley Jacobs is homeless and thus has no mailing address where the police can send the notice.
After the police removed Ashley Jacobs from the premises, she drove to Thomas Ravenel’s place on Daniel Island with the police following her. It appears the police asked her where she was staying and she said Thomas’s house. So they followed her to make sure she went there.
Ashley Jacobs Goes Running To Thomas Ravenel
When she arrived, I presume,Thomas Ravenel let her stay since that is where she told the police she would be staying. Plus, she probably didn’t charge for the sex this time. But Thomas Ravenel was not pleased with her recent working vacation to Tulum. When Ashley’s roommate told Thomas where she was and who she was with that triggered the fight that got her tossed out into the gutter. At least it probably was not raining this time. It’s unclear where she will stay tonight, but I believe when she was tossed out the first time she was in some budget motel. .
It is this bitch ever going to get a clue and get the hell out of dodge? Literally no one wants her there. If she stays, I predict many more posts about her stupid human tricks.
Ashley Jacobs And/Or Her Troll Farm Threatens An Instagram Site
EDIT: The bitch is now intimidating A Beautiful Snarky Mess and threatening to give her the doxxing treatment, So she took her posts down. One day these fools are going to pick the wrong one to mess with AGAIN and it won’t end well. Thomas Ravenel always turns everything on the trick and will leave her out to dry solving one big problem.
I pulled the police report graphic when I pulled the graphic I eventually used in this story. So, I am going to go ahead and post it here. Because, Ashley and or her goons didn’t treat ABSM very nicely. Apparently, they threatened her until she took it down. I like ABSM so I have a bit a problem with that.
None of this surprises me. Are you surprised that Ashley Jacobs is homeless?
I just burned my lips. Thanks a lot! KIDDING! WOW, this just gets crazier and crazier!!!
Considering our penchant for “the crazy” and our love of “showmanship”, I guess Ashley could find a way to monetize her infamy here in Vegasland. But with that being said, I’m relieved she’s not terrorizing our streets here… At least, not yet. Sucks for Charleston, though.
While I’d hate her to be in your town I think Vegas might be the one city that she might disappear into. I’m also fine with her going back to Montecito because I’m 98% sure Montecito is actually purgatory.
Just could not make up this girl’s story if you tried! She is absolutely vile. I can’t understand even Thomas taking her in, with his custody suit pending – as you say.
Beautiful snarky mess illustrations are amazing. She is so talented! She also posted the trespass order from police.
But she has since put up an IG story telling readers she has today received personal threats so has had to take.all reference to the whole incident down.
Please take care TT. Ashley is like a cornered rattlesnake.
I’m not worried about Ashley Jacobs.
Very glad to hear that! ?
LOVE LOVE LOVE that you posted the Trespass Notice! You go girl!
I’m not being hateful or bullshitting around when I simply state that that bitch needs to be locked up.
It’s only a matter of time.
As a nurse, you would certainly be able to afford to rent a place ? Or is she just a CNA?.
According to the CA nursing board records she had CNA status for about 7 years till April 2017 when she got RN certification.
We have seen she has only worked very intermittently, and probably part time since she says she met Ravenel mid 2017 and was over in Charleston by Mothers Day,, before she moved herself totally over a bit later.
Given she is 34, that still does not explain the years before CNA and this is when alleged escort stories that I have read seem to date from.
For all we know, Ravenel was a client from way back – via his polo trips to CA. I have no hard evidence, but lots of “smoke” published. One day the truth will come out. It almost always does.
The weird thing is in her old my space photos she was quite heavy….
Maybe she looked younger and more voluptuous then. Remember the photo of her looking quite big (in a nice way) in a bar with Landon and Thomas, a year or so ago? As per snarkie mess’s cartoon, you have above, she now looks older, hard and bad tempered in some of her pics.
She was fat and redneck I believe there were tire swings involved. I am not kidding.
WOW!! ?
You know, things could yet come full circle.
Her plans “as is” are not working out.
I’ve been to your site at least 20 times today waiting for your account of this situation. Well, well worth the wait. I never realIzed ex roommate was one of her “troll farm”. I assumed she was some new person that somehow befriended her in some manner. I now realize how incredible naive I was. Thank your for deligence!
At least one troll has seen the light. We can only hope for more
Omg. So Lara was a previous troll??? That’s how they met?
Crazy just get crazier. Ashley and Thomas seems like a perfect match. What is in the Charleston water?
In Thomas’s case I’m guessing its in the genes, and not the white jeans he wears, cause crazy seems to run in the family.
Please don’t disparage Mt Pleasant…I lived there 30 years….we call it “God’s Side of the River”……LOL The thought that bat shit crazy has traveled over the “new” bridge is crazy…not like she’s shopping at Gwynn’s these days…..???
If it makes you feel any better, that’s how I feel sometimes whenever there’s crazy news from Vegasland… Or whenever there’s another lurid true crime case emanating from my original homeland of Orange County.
LOL…IKR ?? Much like RHOA represents all of us in the ATL ?
xo ♥️
I hope the comment about disparaging Mount Pleasant wasn’t directed at something I said. IOP is on my list of possible places to retire if I stay in the US. I used to go across the old bridge in my parents station wagon to go shopping at Sand Dollar Camp Ground.
You may know it as Wild Dunes. Development sucks. I have stayed in Wild Dunes before. I went as a third wheel with a girl that lived on my hall in my apartment complex. She was invited as a plus one to some guy going to a convention of something and didn’t want to go in a date capacity. So I agreed to go…Because Charleston! and I bummed around in her old very hard to drive Jeep on the island during the day and cock blocked by night. LOL.
When we left she was terrified to drive over the old bridge. IIRC the bridge to the island was one way and the bridge off the island was two way. Anyway she was terrified to cross the bridge and so was I. She has a breakdown half way across and pulled into the emergency area and had a total meltdown. I was more terrified sitting half off the lane in the little emergency space so I ended up driving and it was one of the most horrifying experiences of my life. LOL.
I am not sure if I have driven over the Ravenel bridge because there is an interstate that goes to Mt. Pleasant now. I may have. but I havent been out to the islands for a while. The last time I was in CHS I stayed with a friend on St. Johns. Sorry. Rambling.
Super interesting! I would like to see these places. And I don’t mind driving.
Where I am now there is snow on the ground and on my car. I’ll bet Savannah would be a nice place to live instead. You are so fortunate to be in the lovely State of Georgia.
I lived in Savannah and while I liked my apartment on the marsh, Savannah has a lot of crime and the beach has a lot of random parties and events that attract a criminal crowd. The beach is not that nice.
I move to Saint Simons Island from there and it was the best place I ever lived. I frequently look at property for sale there. I need to get out of here sometime soon.
I will check into Saint Simons. What about Garden City? Where is it safe to live these days?
Unless it has changed since I lived there, Garden City is a very high crime area. Savannah is ….risky. Stay in an expensive hotel on or near the riverfront for the best chance of survival. Don’t walk alone on the streets after dark.
We popped into Saint Simons for the last day of our vacation last year. We loved it so much we are spending a week there this year! It is our heaven on Earth! (We live in Ohio, so do what you will with that.)
Oh Ohio, directly to the north of Georgia, how you love to flood out state. LOL. SSI is great. But feel free to keep that to yourself and keep it moving down to Florida. (heh, just friendly joshing by your southern frenemies.)
Tamara, have you ever visited Fernandina Beach? I agree with you about Tybee. They don’t allow dogs but they allow humans to trash the beach. And the parking $$ is a joke. I adore Savannah. We may end up in St. Marys. Maybe McClellanville. I don’t know, it’s all so lovely in the lowcountry.
Deborah, I love Fernandina Beach and most of Amelia Iskand for that matter. We lived in St. Mary’s for almost 8 years too. I rarely come across anyone who has a clue where St. Mary’s is located. I usually say “bottom corner of Georgia, no beach, between Jacksonville Florida and Savannah” because Amelia Island isn’t super well known either. St. Simons is gorgeous as well. Seeing a submarine surface off Fernandina Beach and head toward the channel is simply breathtaking though. I miss it.
One of my best friends recently retired from Emory and moved to SSI. She loves it, and as I and the un-husband have visited several times, we do too. He swears Southern Soul has the best ribs in the USA (also chosen as #1 barbeque in the South by Southern Living).
It’s also close to Savannah and Beaufort, SC, another magical spot.
I finally got my husband to agree to move there when we retire in 9 years. We’re moving from up North. Can’t wait!!!
Nooooo I was teasing you TT ♥️….Driving the bridges was like a rite of passage LOL i had a friend that drove a school bus from Charleston to Mt Pleasant when there was only one “old bridge” and it was two-way traffic !! ?
I can’t speak for everyone here but I do know no one here disparages your love of your life in Mt. Pleasant (I’m actually very jealous).
We know “she” is an outsider no matter where she is or where she’s from….I think she’s a grifter and she’s horrible at it.
I need to stop commenting to follow my own f’ing beliefs!
Imagine how I feel, I live in New Jersey. Home of RHONJ and Jersey Shore.
LOL Understood !!! ?♥️♥️?
It always amazes me that people like Ashley can last this long doing the shit they do. It also amazes me that there are people who actually befriend her and support her. Some people are so fucking stupid.
She’s now a “Bravo-lebrity”, and there are always hangers-on out there who will be starstruck by someone who becomes famous (even by way of debasing oneself on a reality TV show).
Before the season came out and all of the drama unfolded, Ashley had posted something or another on IG that had to do with Thomas and the kids and Kathryn. I made a simple comment about how it was nice to see them all putting the kids first. Nothing special about what o said, but she started dm’ing me. I have to say, she seemed very normal and nice. I responded and then she just kept chatting. A LOT. Like I said, she seemed nice enough, but idk her and I dont have time for an insta friend. I also know some people in Charleston that filled me in on her crazy when I said I was getting random dm’s from her, so I knew to stay away. So I think that’s how she reels some of these people in. She seems to be able to hide her crazy for a minute. Like, only a minute. She just needs to listen to LL and go back to Cali.
Wait, so Ashley just started DM’ing you after you commented on her pic? And she does this regularly to other people? I’d also ask how she has all this time to DM people on Instagram, but TT has already done a great job of explaining that situation.
We’ve had a commenter here that spent some time on the phone with Ashley, her feelings at the time were very supportive of her until…I can’t quite remember but I think our commenter recognized her she was being used at a certain level and cut off communication/or was cut off, can’t remember.
Sadly might I suggest TT stops commenting on Ashley for a bit? I think this woman is literally feeding off us. If Thomas took her in, even for a night? There’s serious dirt. She obviously has serious mental health issues as well.
I hate being “all sympathetic” about her but if maybe we don’t feed the fire she’ll go away? I know SM won’t disappear, but maybe if we didn’t “comment” about it, she’d go get the help she needs?
Ever unfolding tale. I actually kinda feel sorry for her right now.
You should totally come stay with you, Kipper! Then she can make all her threats and do her illegal shit at your house!
? I don’t understand, please explain. I certainly mean no harm.
I’m just trying to find the stray a forever home! And you seem like a possible option…
You should or I should? My last baby will be fully cooked in a year and half.
I fully intend on being a rambling rose after last baby…. You are welcome here, anytime…we had snow today, white knuckle drive the whole way home.
Yes!! It kind of surprised me, but it was a pleasant message and she truly did seem well intentioned. I didn’t really chat back with her much, so she prob figured out fairly quick that I wasn’t the kind of person she was looking for.
YES! This is how it starts! You have no idea how many people have emailed me over the past year saying that Ashley IMed them out of the blue acting like they were best friends. She has or used to have like a FB group or something. I forget what it was where she would bark out orders to her minions that was super creepy.
The girl ain’t right in the head. Things are not going to end well for her at this rate. She needs to go home to her family and let them get her some help.
As my grandmother used to say, she’s “touched in the head.” I’m no psychiatrist, but Ashley seems to have all the hallmarks of a Borderline Personality Disorder. Constantly lashing out at people, then playing innocent when they react to her antics and always surprised when her games backfire on her. She is a master manipulator and gaslighter who loves to play the victim but we all know she is always the instigator. Girl needs an intervention, rehab and meds. STAT!!!!
There’s that one insta video of her that someone posted where she’s absolutely manic. She goes off on all of these tangents, like everything is connected. It reminded me of that episode of “Homeland” where Carrie creates her post-it wall with the strings connecting everyone. Too bad Trashley is homeless, where will she create her post-it wall connecting everyone to the conspiracy in her head? Seriously, this woman is looney tunes. Thomas is manic too, but I can’t see him staying with her or any woman this long. He has to have a new screw every night. That leads me to believe Ashley really does have the goods on him. Here’s hoping Ashley gets so desperate, she has to sell the video, photos, docs to the highest bidder. KD should have no problem getting a court order keeping Ashley away from the kids now with the police report. My favorite part of the police report is the ***Never to Return** LOL
OMG I would have so catfished her. Then if she and her trolls tried to doxx me, they would have had problems with the Feds.
Actually Lara, Ashely’s ex roommate was/is a coworker of hers and that’s how they met
Is she a nurse or hooker?
I was wondering what sort of coworker she was.
Wait I thought Lara was the blogger who took Ashley and some other random invitees on a boat ride in Charleston.
Isn’t that the one that was friends with Kathryn before moving Trashley into her home with her kids and who is not friends with kathryn again? I can’t say I can endorse her for being the brightest bulb on the Christmas tree. And Kathryn is an idiot for being around her again.
Burn me once and all that…
My brain is shaking! Good Lord?
CharlestonBlonde, Jamie is the one who was friends with Kathryn and then hung out with Ashley on the boat and Kathryn cut off contact.
That explains why Kathryn stopped posting pics of them on her instagram. I wondered what happened and that explains it. Thanks for filling us in Sarah!
They are both nurses
Yes, I was coming here to say this. Lara met AJ through work, and has said she had no idea about the show, etc. She’s said she was totally conned. No surprise there, sadly.
I’m seeing now that site you refer to has removed those postings for some reason. Glad I was checking in and following all day. It’s like a car accident when you can’t look away.
Lorelli, in her IG story (last section) beautiful snarky mess said she had been DMed personal threats because of her posting the information, including the “to never return” police trespass order. So she took them down. Ashley has friends like her on the dark side I guess. Shocking that can happen in 2019! Talk about “enablers” !!
She’s Trash. Period.
Kathryn and the ex roommate are friends. The video she posted with Kensie playing with another little girl this weekend was the ex roommate’s daughter. Idk how this came about but it just keeps getting more and more weird
I’m guessing Kathryn wanted to see if Lara would spill the beans on what Thomas and Ashley have planned next…
As long as that idiot producer wants to put her on the show, this nutjob is going to hang around. I wonder if any of the cast can put a “no Ashley” rider in their contract.
I wonder if Ashley is fucking Rothman. He seems sort of obsessed with her.
that’s what I always wondered if he was fucking her
I was thinking the exact same thing. Probably have an “arrangement”!
I like Nanette’s idea.
I think the producer is “Jeremy”., the Mexico date boy.
Or she has major dirt on him. Or both!
Doesn’t she have dirt on Thomas? How did he get out of paying her living expenses? I also imagine she has dirt on lots of scum bag men and can blackmail her way into another year lease somewhere.
Those graphics can be made with a new iPhone. They’re very cool! My head is spinning as I cannot keep up with everything that is unfolding! Thank you, TT because I didn’t get to see the information before it was removed.
I would so by t-shirts with the graphics of A Beautiful Snarky Mess. There’s one of Lala that I’d wear twice a week! What can I say, Lala is so pretty.
As for Ashley, unfortunately cockroaches like her always find a place to sleep. They always find a mark. I’ve known a few but only one who truly embodies everything about Ashley. Let’s just say there was a protective order with my run in with that level of crazy and I wasn’t even the main target. I was on the outskirts and only met that crazy person like three times at large social events!
Ashley will somehow land on her feet and carry on whether it be in Charleston, Vegas, Miami, or the county jail.
I wonder if she was given bonus (cash) money to behave particularly vile during filming? Like maybe fourty or fifty bucks per appearance? She is probably familiar with cash transactions. It is hard to imagine someone being that distasteful without prodding.
Actually, she did it all for free.
She should not be around anyone’s children or elderly parents. She is like some sort of feral animal. I wonder how many times she has been to jail already?
Could she be a milder female version of dirty John? She comes across as a predator in search of prey.
I love ABSM there are a handful of people who know what up. They care about the truth. They stand up for the right people. ABSM is one who doesn’t get emotionally involved but presents facts. She’s super nice so fuck anyone who tries to silence her.
Thanks for this. She seems very nice to me. Nice doesn’t last long in this environment.
It appears ABSM has made her account private now. I hope she’s ok.
Ashley is way too old to be acting so juvenile. She has serious mental problems and should be institutionalized.
When narcissists like AJ are given an ounce of perceived power, it becomes dangerous. She is so out of touch with reality and her small, warped group of followers feed her ego and fuel the fire even more. For the people suggesting you stop writing about her – it wouldn’t matter. She’d find another way to get attention. She’s the 2018 version of Casey Anthony. What’s most concerning is how far she’ll go when she feels like she’s lost control.
I just love Tea. Served Hot & Sweet! One of my favorite’s on Instagram is A Beautiful Snarky Mess. Such Talent should never go to waste! One of these time Trashley’s going to mess with the wrong person or just plain go too far and she’s going to find herself cellmates with Big Bertha, and she don’t play nice. Ahh, we can only dream that hers becomes a nightmare just like her!! Thanks for the Tea Party 😉
Tamara: Thank you thank you thank you thank you for posting the police reports! I cannot believe the alleged bi-polar, mushroom abusing, alcoholic, sex addict Thomas Ravenel was able to force ABSM to remove the police reports. He should be out of money soon after paying for all of the NDA’s, lawyers fees, escort dresses, escort car, escort plan b meds. I also think he’ll be out of money soon with this commercial real estate business – who would want to rent from a convicted cocaine dealer, who is also going to trial for alleged sexual assault. I hated Ravenel since season 1 of SC. No wonder his racist father (see season 1 remarks about Lincoln) is embarrassed by him. As for Ashley, she is clearly on some stimulant or has an undiagnosed psych problem like paranoia. I’m just so glad that KD’s fellow cast mates finally see Ravenel for what he is – a white trash, alcoholic, who screws anything that walks. His karma has arrived, and her name is Ashley. He filled her with his delusional gossip about KD, just like he did with Landon (who wised up), and now his Frankenstein is his downfall. Team Kathryn
Thanks for the story. I think Ashtray met Lara through work (nursing that is … not hooking). I don’t think she has it in her to be part of the pit bull group. She seems very nice and perhaps way too trusting, or she was.
I have no doubt Ashtray will continue on her merry way until literally the money dries up here and Rothman is no longer interested in her.
Those poor children.
Perhaps her trolls will think twice now that they have seen the shark turn on one of her own. One can always hope that they have some semblance of intelligence.
What great TEA, TT, thanks for the scoop! : ) Like you, I LOVE St. Simon’s Island. Can we have a TT Fest or tamaralapooza or something and set it to be held on the beaches up that way? That would be a blast. Set a date and I am sure that many of us would be ALL IN!!
Secondly, can we please pair up Ashley and Caroline from Below Deck and put them in a round rubber room for a few days and watch them on hidden camera? lol…At least we know they wouldn’t resort to cannibalism, as I think they are both seriously underweight. In fact, on a VERY serious note, based upon that police report, at 5’8″ tall and 110 lbs, Ashley’s BMI is 16!! A quick internet search reveals that “a BMI of 17.5 or less is one of the common physical characteristics used to diagnose anorexia…a BMI below 13.5 can lead to organ failrure, and 12 is life threatening”. Where the hell is this girl’s family?!
Apparently, happy to be rid of her?
I just scrolled up at the edit / update.
NEVER TO RETURN
Is making me giggle as I say it in a deep, menacing voice.
She’s probably burned all of her bridges in CA and Vegas. Ashley- Denver is a horrible, awful place to live – no rich men whatsoever here. Denver is just terrible. Just Incase, ya know, it was in your hit list.
The proper weight for someone of her height is 125 pounds at the absolute minimum and 163 max. 15 pounds underweight is a lot. Everyone is different, but she still is awfully thin.
? Is this new gestational math? 5ft tall good wgt is 100 lbs, add 5lbs for every inch over 5 ft. 8×5=40. 140lbs is approximately correct for her height. Go look at your BMI chart again. She’s very underweight..
So 144 is the exact average of the range of weights given.
Y’all realize if you talk about how dangerous her weight is it will only encourage her to loss even more weight. Do you know how dangerous that is? Think about what you are doing people!
*thinks*
Nevermind, carry on.
Wasn’t she 32 last year? Her DOB there on the trespassing notice is the real one, 1984…
Ah that is why she is going after some nice lady on IG. The notice has her DOB on it. Welcome to the world of “public figures.” Ashley. Are you having fun yet?
I see a 3 part episode of Dateline or 48 Hours in her future ?
Can’t believe Charleston is having so much trouble getting rid of this girl. What kind of back-road hostiles is she staying in? Stop serving her! Deny her service! Throw her out!!
I ran across this (I think I missed it when in rehab for my knee) But anyhow, I am actually surprised not one cast member would have enough class to want no part of the skankiness of the show, how they appear, and the joke they have now become. Boggles the mind.
There is crazy, and there is bat sh&t crazy. This situation falls into the later. Also, why can’t Ashley afford an apartment? She’s supposedly a working nurse!