I think we all saw this one coming. Amber and Dave were never a match and I doubt the lived together after watching the final decision episode.
At that time Amber was a sour puss presumably because Bobby professed his undying love and gave Danielle an engagement ring. Dave said that he is very low-key and Amber is prone to dramatic outburst. Amber said she didn’t feel like their relationship had progressed the way she felt it should have. ( She wanted a baby ASAP). They both said they wanted to continue to try to work on their relationship.
Here is what happened at the three month check- in:
In flashback scenes we flash back to SCENES THEY DIDN’T SHOW US but were in the promos. Like Dave saying if he would have known that Amber was the girl that one of his friends at the gym had dated and apparently said negative things about, he would have dropped out of the show.
Amber comes out with brown hair and either no extensions or she got her fried ends cut off. She is much prettier as a brunette. Amber says that he was really upset with her because someone he knew for a couple of years had slept with/ dated her. Dr. Pepper knew all about this and kept trying to tell them to change gyms. It was Amber who didn’t want to change gyms. Amber says she moved out because he was unhappy about the gym situation? Is that what she said? Did she choose a gym over her husband? It’s late and I really don’t follow this conversation at all. Pastor Cal says moving out should not be an option when you are married.
Dave comes out with his side of the story. Dave said the cameras and the experts were his safety net and when that left, they lost their way. Dave’s version of the story is that he went golfing one day and came home and Amber had moved out. There was no conversation and he had no idea she was leaving him.
When Amber comes out again, she says she probably would not have moved out if the cameras and experts were not there. She says they gave her accountability for her actions. It sounds like she really regrets leaving. Dave says that while she did tell him it was a mistake to move out, they are not going to just move right back in together. That was a pretty big thing she did.
Dave says they are still married, at least legally. Amber really wants another chance and has accepted all the responsibility for their separation. Dave says that he doesn’t really see a future with Amber. They both say they still “have love for each other.” I sort of want them to work it out. But it seems that they will not.
Today Amber took to Instagram to make the following announcement:
There have been some questions about the status of our marriage, so I wanted to confirm @daveflaherty80 and I have filed for divorce. We obviously had a lot of tough moments but we shared a lot of laughs and fun times together too. In the end we just weren’t a good match, but I learned a lot through the experience and can now say I’m thankful for it. I wish Dave well, and I know he wishes the same for me in return. 💛
The good news is that she listened to her fans and is still a brunette.