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90 Day Fiancé Discussion: Backed Into a Corner

December 16, 2018 by The Lady Cocotte 40 Comments

By The Lady Cocotte

90 Day Fiancé is the gift that keeps on giving. Last week, Colt’s cousin John lambasted Larissa at a family barbeque. Debbie sucked her teeth while Colt sat mum, nursing his Mona Lisa smile. Larissa was all alone, queen of her mountain but little else. Leida proved we ain’t seen nothing yet by kicking Tasha out of the apartment. Eric’s passive enabling was the final nail in the coffin. Two young children were harmed in the filming of this episode. Ashley and Jay’s fake storylines were hijacked by racist threats. Who knew people had a problem with interracial relationships? Steven devised a brilliant plan to take his infant son to the US while Olga waited for her visa in Russia. And Kalani berated/bitched about Asulu (I actually can’t remember but figure that’s a good guess). Warning: This post (and comments) could contain 90DF spoilers

In tonight’s episode, Ashley and Jay elope in Vegas; Colt and Larissa argue in front of friends; Steven applies for Richie’s American passport; Leida meets with Eric’s ex-wife; Jon upsets Fernanda by staying out late; Kalani and Asuelu get news that changes everything. So tell us what you think. Did anyone cry at Ashley’s wedding? How about every time Leida opens her mouth? #FreeAllessandro

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Filed Under: 90 Day Fiancé, Entertainment News Tagged With: 90 Day Fiancé, Ashley, ASUELU, COLT, ERIC, FERNANDA, International Dating, JAY, Jonathan, K1 Visa, Kalani, LARISSA, LEIDA, OLGA, STEVEN, TLC

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  1. Cheryl B (cherylannburke1) says

    December 16, 2018 at 5:48 pm

    Lol, thanks Lady Cocotte for the great post.
    This season really is like no other (it really is becoming increasingly ridiculous) and I won’t miss it,lol.

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    • Cheryl B (cherylannburke1) says

      December 16, 2018 at 5:53 pm

      P.s. I wonder if Coltee has proper hearing. A times he truly looks as if he doesn’t hear what’s happening. Hmmmm.

      Reply
  2. Betsey LaFoy says

    December 16, 2018 at 6:17 pm

    #FreeAlessandro!!!!!!

    So hard to watch Leida and Tasha go at it in front of those kids on the last episode. They will truly be scarred, as if they weren’t already.

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    • The Lady Cocotte says

      December 18, 2018 at 5:05 pm

      I wonder what Eric’s ex thinks now that she’s seen it.

      Reply
  3. Kelnlola says

    December 16, 2018 at 6:27 pm

    Thank you for having this space to chat about 90 day. This season is getting a little more stupider by the episode. Leida can fuck right off. I’ve never disliked anyone more than her. Also Steven thinking a baby can wait to be fed makes my blood boil. Also him wanting to take the baby away from Olga makes me want to punch him in the face. Ugh. Just ugh Steven!

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  4. Blondiemelinda says

    December 16, 2018 at 7:43 pm

    Coltee posted on his IG account that he accepts responsibility for not being a good husband, and he made bad decisions on social media.

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  5. TammyinVA says

    December 16, 2018 at 9:16 pm

    Eric totally didn’t get what his father was saying when he told him he understands how difficult it can be to sit back and bite your tongue when your kids are making bad decisions…

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    • Bea Squared says

      December 17, 2018 at 5:15 am

      Agree. Totally ‘misunderstood’ what Pops was saying.
      Family comes first, Eric. Your flesh and blood, Eric, not mail-order Miss Indonesia.

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      • tamaratattles says

        December 17, 2018 at 3:24 pm

        Yeah that dig about the mail order bride by Eric’s father didn’t register with him at all. Eric can be really clueless. That said, I don’t have a problem with him throwing Tasha out of the apartment.

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        • Betsey says

          December 17, 2018 at 6:24 pm

          I also agree that tasha needed to move out. She wasn’t paying rent and it sounds like she was living with her boyfriend anyway. Eric has given her plenty of time and she just sat on her @$$ and did nothing.

          Mail order bride of not, Eric is remarrying. Tasha should graciously make room for the little boy and his new wife.

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          • The Lady Cocotte says

            December 18, 2018 at 5:08 pm

            Regardless of whether Tasha should have left, that was not the way to do it. Especially in front of her sister.

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            • Betsey LaFoy says

              December 18, 2018 at 6:16 pm

              Yes I believe that entire scenario should not have played out in front of either of those kids.

  6. Gigi says

    December 16, 2018 at 11:10 pm

    This season is blood boiling. Kicking out a kid, threatening to take a baby from the mom, Larissa and Fernanda and their tempers, bringing another baby into the world with NO jobs. It’s a huge car crash!!! Thanks for recapping.

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  7. LucyLoo says

    December 17, 2018 at 1:03 am

    Jesse looked like a Magician on the live show afterwards.

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  8. Taylor says

    December 17, 2018 at 11:24 am

    OMG! Watching Olga and Steven is making me sick. How long was that baby crying before he was finally fed?!!! The thought of him being able to take the baby away from his mother is just nauseating! Hopefully, he can’t just take him without her permission. I also think she is scared of Steven. I didn’t like the way he looks at her like he is waiting for her to say the wrong thing. And Kalani, take responsibility of your own body!!!! Grow up before you have anymore babies you can’t afford!!! This show has got me up in my feelings!

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    • RiRi says

      December 17, 2018 at 12:56 pm

      Yes! Kalani was making me so mad. She is 30 y.o, having unprotected sex. Why is it his fault? Her and her family are so harsh on Asuleo

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      • ikanread says

        December 17, 2018 at 3:11 pm

        yeah, she said “you got me pregnant” as if she had no say in the matter (which, if she did not, she was a victim of a crime and that’s a different thing).

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    • Et says

      December 17, 2018 at 8:50 pm

      Steven is horrible! I can barely watch their scenes! There is no way in hell he can take a baby out of the country without the mothers consent. My husband is from Eastern Europe and he cannot travel with our kids without a letter from me. They won’t even let you check in w/o a notarized letter. I really feel bad for Olga.

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  9. tamaratattles says

    December 17, 2018 at 3:33 pm

    I am watching now. I am angry and confused about the situation in Russia.

    First of all, I believe that when a single parent leaves the country they have to have written permission from the spouse. Is that not still a thing? Maybe they stopped that because there are so many single parents? Does anyone know how that works?

    And I keep thinking that the dumb kid dad needs to explain his situation in detail regarding visas for him and for the baby’s mother. They should be able to coordinate some sort of resolution whether it is speeding up her K-1 visa or extending his visa. He should be able to stay in Russia for 90 days. How long does he think the K-1 visa is going to take? He just keeps saying”a long time” There has to be some way to resolve this without him just taking the baby and leaving.

    Also since when do you have to be a citizen of the country that the embassy represents to set foot inside?

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    • jennifer says

      December 18, 2018 at 11:08 am

      My husband doesn’t like to travel, so my son and I have flown alone since he was a baby. I have always taken a notarized letter of consent, but I haven’t been asked for it. We have been to Germany, Austria, France, the UK, Canada, all over the Unites States, and we have never been asked a single question regarding permission to travel.

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      • tamaratattles says

        December 18, 2018 at 11:16 am

        That’s interesting Jennifer. I always wondered how they would know who to ask.It doesn’t seem practical. I do think they tried to put the whole certified letter into effect to stop parental kidnappings but apparently it wasn’t a practical plan.

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  10. tamaratattles says

    December 17, 2018 at 4:46 pm

    What fresh hell is this extra hour of After show?

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    • Lois says

      December 18, 2018 at 7:37 am

      I too was wondering about that!

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      • The Lady Cocotte says

        December 18, 2018 at 5:12 pm

        How about Ashley’s drunk, trashy friends? Unnecessary TV.

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        • tamaratattles says

          December 18, 2018 at 5:45 pm

          And the boy in Russia with the new mom he has known for three years? I really needed her to explain how she encountered a teenaged boy. Hopefully she has a son who was friends with him. Othewise it is really weird.

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        • Betsey LaFoy says

          December 18, 2018 at 6:26 pm

          Omg NOW that was hard to watch!! Gross sexual innuendos all over the place.

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  11. DeborahBrenn says

    December 17, 2018 at 9:14 pm

    Colt seems like maybe he has Asberger’s Syndrome to me. Larissa is just an ass. And the

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    • tamaratattles says

      December 18, 2018 at 5:47 pm

      Colt does not have Asperger’s Syndrome. Not even a little bit.

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  12. DeborahBrenn says

    December 17, 2018 at 9:16 pm

    (hit send prematurely). And that Leida ought to be kicked to the curb immediately. What makes these guys think those women are going to get better after they’re married?

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  13. akajulz says

    December 18, 2018 at 6:02 am

    Ever since it was exposed that David’s friend was suggested aka forced to ask Annie if she would give him massages along with the free rent, I question every shocking statement any of the people on 90 Day make now. After Leida makes ludicrous statements about child support I study her face to see if she is acting. I really think she is not acting and she is truly that evil and spoiled. I can’t believe she couldn’t find a man who actually has money to use until she gets her medical license.

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    • TammyinVA says

      December 18, 2018 at 8:05 am

      A man with actual money wouldn’t put up with her shit.

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      • akajulz says

        December 18, 2018 at 12:58 pm

        Lol! I actually thought about that as I was typing.

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      • Mark Davies says

        December 19, 2018 at 12:45 pm

        Which is probably why she is single to begin with

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  14. Moo2 says

    December 18, 2018 at 8:43 am

    I was so completely dumbfounded by the choices these people made when I first started watching this last season, never thinking of the innocent lives impacted. This season is a whole different level of disbelief and it is sickening to watch. I hope this crap is scripted (Steven and Olga) but Eric needs to be shot for exposing his youngest daughter and Alless (sp) to this crap. I just can’t with Kelani. She takes no responsibility for anything. Unprotected sex produces babies…how do you think you got “My baby?” She’s such a Debbie Downer, Woe is me, dumbass who wants her family to support her while she births multiple babies so she can be a stay at home mom and play house with her much younger, childlike, “fiance.” Please, TT, tell me this is scripted. I hate to think of the effed up children resulting from these crappy choices. Sad, sad, sad. Whew, I feel better after that rant!

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    • betsey says

      December 18, 2018 at 1:42 pm

      Unfortunately I believe that unemployed people having babies is pretty damn common! No need for a script…

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      • The Lady Cocotte says

        December 18, 2018 at 5:11 pm

        Yikes. Watch your privilege, please.

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        • Betsey LaFoy says

          December 18, 2018 at 6:07 pm

          My apologies…Wasn’t trying to sound privileged! I am open to hearing how/why it came across that way, though. As a learning opportunity, of course.

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          • The Lady Cocotte says

            December 18, 2018 at 6:27 pm

            It’s always dangerous to call out a group of people (in this case, the unemployed) for certain activities (in this case, making too many babies). Especially since some labels are used (by other people, I’m absolutely not saying you) as shorthand for People of Color.

            Stick to comments about the cast. Your point (if I’m reading the problematic language correctly) that Kalani is stupid enough to have another unplanned pregnancy without scripting help from the show, is on-point and adds to the discussion.

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            • Betsey LaFoy says

              December 18, 2018 at 6:45 pm

              Noted! I really enjoy most comments on here and appreciate that most of them are thoughtful and not offensive. So, by all means keep mine in check if I make a mistake.

    • tamaratattles says

      December 18, 2018 at 5:51 pm

      It doesn’t seem scripted to me. I am amazed that they are filming in Russia. And can drop everything and go film in Vegas. And follow around the Jax lookalike to where ever his family is and back. There are a LOT of locations involved.

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