What is going on with this damn day? My spam blocker has stopped working and I never knew how much I liked my spam blocker until it stopped working. It’s TOTALLY a “you never appreciate what you have until it is gone” relationship. My email inbox has hundreds of emails, my pending comments has thousands of pending comments. I am trying to deal with it but there are a few things I just need to stop and report in order to clear out some of the mail.
First of all, David Eason is not trying to burn down THE LAND. At least I don’t think so. He seems to be doing some sort of controlled burn. But he is very gleeful about it. It was kind of scary. Also his social media and Jenelle’s have shown them being on vacation recently and it appears they drove across the country to see the redwoods and the grand canyon and such. He took his confederate flag with him and draped himself in it everywhere. It was pretty frightening and it was not really clear if the kids were on the trip or not. Then as soon as they get back from a FIRE RAVAGED STATE, he deliberately sets fire to THE LAND. It’s all very odd. Everything I post about lately is all very odd.
The other thing is about Nene and Gregg Leakes. I have been slammed here all season for pointing out her IDGAF attitude toward Gregg and is cancer. It’s been very obvious to me. But she is putting it on front street lately.
She continues to admit she is considering divorcing Gregg during his illness. WHO DOES THAT? I’ve done end of life care with a sibling and she was GOD AWFUL MEAN for the last decade or so of her life. A lot of that meanness was aimed at me. It was not the person she was before cancer. It was all horrendous and my siblings thanked me for doing the things I did so they didn’t have to. So I get the whole, “it is hard to be a caregiver”defense. But this is not a sister you weren’t that close to as the years went on. THIS IS HER HUSBAND. I am judging and I find her outrageous. YMMV.
Melissa Gorga says she and Joe argue about division of labor in the house now that she works on RHONJ and has to do publicity. It’s putting a strain on their tradition Italian-American marriage. She wants to move to LA. She has dreams of being on RHOBH or having a spinoff about moving there. I don’t see either one happening, but we can all dream.
Sonja Morgan is tired of playing second fiddle to Luann on her Caberet shows and wants her own show. So she is trying her hand at stand up comedy. Good luck with that Sonja. I mean it. It’s a hard gig but I think you will do well with housewives audiences.
Julie Chen is staying with Big Brother just as I predicted. Celebrity Big Brother returns at the end of January. No celebrities have been tied down yet. Who do you want to see. I can’t wait.
EXCLUSIVE! Lake Bailey is for sale for a mere $940,000. I feel like you Cynthia haters will get your wish and Cynthia will not be on RHOA next season. It looks to me like she is moving to LA where her new beau and baby daddy of Noelle live.
Lizzie and Christian Rovsek divorce is moving along amiciably. It’s like a conscious uncoupling or some shit.
RHOBH cast, minus the one playing victim all went out to support Dorit’s swimsuit line at Kitsons. Which is hysterical because there is no Kitsons anymore. Don’t believe me ? Just ask Mike Shouhed. This guy just keeps latching on to the most detestable and morally and financially bankrupt people on Bravo. When you are going down for shady practices and bankruptcy, Kitson, or whatever the new name is now, is not the place you need to me. The Kitson guy is currently being sued post bankruptcy for using the Kitson name on this story. Bravo. No really. Bravo.
Sorry about the lack of posts on Thursday. I have a program that keeps my spam from even coming into my site and emails but late Wednesday the site went nuts and now all of my WordPress comments have to be fished out of spam on gmail and all of the spam comments show up as pending comments on the site. It’s all a mess but I’m working a bit more behind he scenes for the next few days.
Thanks for your patience and for reading!
NENE is so incredibly selfish and thinks that his illness should be about her. Her name should be MEME, THat is all she talks about and worry about.
Haha, yes Meme is more appropriate!
Nene is awful. I stopped watching RHOA when she came back.
NeNe truly needs prayer and a baptism. Gregg is sick and I understand he was no saint but this is heartless. Did she forget her vows? I mean, they’ve recited them twice to each other or did she get short term memory loss during the “in sickness and in health” portion. I wish Cynthia all the best and would love to see her and Kenya on a show together.
This post was everything I’ve been thinking!
I literally never left Terry’s side when he had cancer. I couldn’t. I struggled to make ends meet but we managed due to his being a Veteran, the VA Hospital was truly amazing. IDGI. Or maybe I do. Awful.
Also? Tyra on WWHL is giving me Kenya vibes or maybe it’s Kenya stealing Tyra’s vibe? Appearance wise that is.
NeNe re-married Greg simply to be a “house mgr” & caretaker of their son while she was on the road. It’s evident she’s setting up an exit. Bashing this man on social media especially with what can be a terminal illness is repulsive.
Makes me grateful for my family members who, all but one, were never anything but gracious and a shining example while ill and dying. I wonder if NeNe ever thought about the ways her own personality feeds into anything that goes on in her life.
Nene just sucks. I don’t care if that’s how she feels, she needs to keep her “pity me” crap to herself. Once it’s out there, it’s out there, never to be taken back.
Melissa Gorga – LMAO. She went to great lengths her first season telling everyone how she “pleases her man,” but as soon as she started getting backlash she starts changing her tune. We can look forward to their divorce soon I guess.
Sonya – good luck girl!
RHOBH – Must have been hard for those girls to show up to support a business that Dorit screwed her business partners out of.
Happy Friday. LOL
I agree with you 100% about Nene. She’s not funny, she’s not kind, she never was. Hard to feel sorry for “the caregiver” in this case.
She gives actual CAREgivers a horrible name…
I’m so excited for Celebrity Big Brother! Also glad Julie will be hosting. Looking forward to hearing about casting, and the great recaps here once the show starts.
Also looking forward to RHOBH and seeing what led up to the current situation. I wonder if LVP will refuse to be on the reunion.
I went through colon cancer in 2005. I was scared and shocked that I was diagnosed at a young age, I was humbled and grateful for my family and all who encouraged and took care of me. I am not privy to what is going on with Greg, but it is not uncommon for patients to lash out at caregivers. I not a Nene fan, but I have empathy for her. She need to get involved with a caretaker support group for encouragement and it will be a safe place for her to talk. She is 100% wrong for arguing with Greg and blasting their issues on social media. Sorry, but Twitter and InstaGram is not a place to seek the support she needs.
I agree with your post. I can’t imagine the toll it takes on caregivers, especially to surly patients. I feel for her. She is shooting herself in the foot, however, for posting to people who will troll her for her honesty.
I know. Nene always let her ego get in the way of taking logical advice from others. I don’t get it. Why include fans and haters on a health issue that is so detrimental to her husband’s survival? If Greg is that awful, why did she remarry him? According to what she has been promoting, their marriage is rainbows and lollipop. Bravo should be ashamed for allowing her to exploit Greg’s battle with cancer as a storyline for ratings. The battle is real, frightening and painful. She said she is rich. Why not hire a patient caregiver to help her out? It its not a good look to be trashing a cancer patient or having social media fights with fans and former cast mates. Just unbelievable.
It’s disgusting the way she dragged poor Greg to her store in that heat! He literally looked like he was going to faint. The other ladies seemed more concerned than Nene was – WTF? And now this lashing out on Twitter is just SO COLD & SELFISH! I hope she loses whatever fans she has left. Praying for Greg to get better & another family member to take care of him!?
Re Nene. Just wow. This was the first site I saw posting Nene’s comments about Gregg on social media. Now it’s all over the place. Tamra OC replied on Nene’s sm. Is she filing for divorce?
Wait what?What was Tamra’s comment if you don’t mind telling me?
Wait! When did little Noelle get pregnant?! How did I miss this?!
She meant Noelle ‘s father lives there.
Whoops, dumb me read it incorrectly.
No don’t say that,but if that’s the case then join the club because I do it all the time.?
So we have confirmation that Melissa is the breadwinner in the family if Joe can just leave and move to LA. No one wants to see the Gorgas. Tre gives her a story line which is being rehashed.
Kitson went out of business several years ago. I guess giving the Hilton sisters and Lindsey Lohan hundreds of thousands in free merch didn’t go their way.
I saw Rinna’s insta and had to look twice.
Dorit and PeeKay are unwatchable.
I just want to add that I went on Kitson ‘new’ website and the majority of what they are selling is Russel and Champion athletic wear. The website really feels like shopping for clothes at Walmart.
Click on TTs link to Revolve Clothing if you want good LA style.
Melissa is on crack if she thinks she can have a career in showbusiness doing anything other than being on RHONJ. At best, she could hope for some bit part entertainment news co-host slot, and that is really pushing it. Not worth moving your entire family to LA for.
NeNe – I feel bad for her but she needs to keep that shit off social media, it’s not the place to argue with your spouse about how he is handling what may be a fatal disease. And none of us know how we will react to getting a diagnosis like that until we do.
Well said, Jen.
That channel 11 news from LA. is the worst !. Maybe they would consider her for field reporting.
Nene is a sewer rat for bitching about Gregg’s demeanor. Drumming up support to dump him? Medical bills getting too high?
I think you’re on to something!They were divorced she could have been with him and not have gotten re-married if she wanted emotional and financial freedom.Imo
That’s always been my thought. Nene doesn’t want to spend her money on chemo, radiation and medication.thats why she’s not encouraging him to have chemo even though it may save his life. I believe she’d rather bury him than spend her beloved coins on him.
I can’t believe how awful Nene is…and yet part of me isn’t surprised.
I wonder, if they get divorced and he dies leaving a lot of medical debt, but no assets because she got it all in the divorce, what would happen to the bills. I have a feeling that they are the type of ‘rich’ people who don’t ‘waste their money’ on silly things like health insurance.
Been there, and did that regarding being a caregiver for a cancer patient that is struggling with the disease and the thought of their own mortality. Difficult? Absolutely. Unfair at times? Of course. That said, I would never blast my husband on social media during his most difficult attitude times. How can someone be so self serving? Nene Leakes is a POS. Done with RHOA. I can’t watch her parade her sick husband for a storyline and then complain about his attitude.
Yep. It’s all of those things and more. I know caregiver support groups are difficult because most members are older and have different perspectives, findinging one at age 23 was almost impossible but I eventualy did it because I was literally losing my mind. Nene should be able to find a group much easier than me. She’s older, his cancer is more common, etc. Social media isn’t the place for this.
Nene is truly a disgusting human being.
Nene is vain & selfish. Poor Greg. Cancer can sometimes be cured but there is no such cure for the likes of Nene Leakes. I am not a judgemental or harsh person but her behavior is abominable Prayers for Greg being said How awful to have a partner so indifferent to his suffering.
Wow, Nene is really self absorbed and selfish to say all of that. But as awful as all of that was to post it got her what she wanted….attention.
I’m praying for Nene. My husband had cancer that affected his entire being as a person., he was filled prior to illness with many smiles, an excellent provider, a warrior for many issues, However,the illness makes the individual moody, cranky, angry and bitter. Initially, I didn’t realize what was happening, however through prayer and my support group, It became evident that the illness and the “c” word makes the person feel unworthy, depressed and no willingness to live. Especially, at late stages of cancer. My husband suffered Stage 4 cancer for over 8 years. He never missed work until the last 2 months of his journey. When I see Greg, it hardens my soul and spirit. I see the same characteristics as I was often at MD Anderson sitting in those same seats, asking similar questions. It is tremendously difficult to watch your husband fall from grace. My prayer for Nene is to pray, pray. Some battles that we have is not for public notifications. Thank God for all the great times that she has shared with Greg, his forever patience, love and his amazing grace. Nene stop it.
Please save your prayers for Gregg .He needs all the prayers and help he can get cause he clearly isn’t receiving it from Nene.
Agree with everything you said!
I think I wouldn’t be in the best of moods being ill as fuck and having harsh chemicals pumped into my body on a regular basis. On the other hand understand Nene’s frustration if he’s taking his mood out on her, it’s always loved ones that take the brunt of the anger and we’ve all been there. Starting twitter spats with him over this goes beyond the pale. Bitch with your girlfriends when you have some free time, tell him to wise-up with his attitude or just keep it to yourself woman!! Why share that shit with the internet and open yourself up to… this? The mind boggles.
WOW! Like you said taking care of a sick person toward end of life they are mean. In general an unwell person is different from the well person that you know. Maybe she did not have the part about in sickness and in health in her vows. It’s difficult to watch a strong person who has always had your back go through an illness like cancer and still remain strong through and civil through it all. NeNe must know this is NOT about her and she needs to put away the selfish hat she is wearing. How would her child feel if she were to abandon his father during his most critical time of need. What ever she does to bring her salvation she needs to practice that NOW.
My Nonno and Gram were married for 50+ years. The last 3 years my Gram was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s/Dementia, which was extremely hard on my Nonno.
Since being with her 24/7 she lashed out the most at him. He never left her side the entire time. I feel sympathy for people like my Nonno.
I’ve never met Nene, but she comes across on IG as very selfish and attention seeking. I’m sorry Nene you’re not the sun. The world doesn’t revolve around you
Nene was on the Daily Dish podcast a few weeks ago with the same kind of shameless message and I was honestly shocked. No doubt caregiving is hard, but her “nobody cares about the caregiver” crusade reveals how heartless she can be. This level of selfishness and disrespect will alienate whatever fan base she has left.
About Melissa Gorga – last year she was hanging out with Erika Jayne a lot. I said (to myself) then that was a bad idea because when you hang around rich, glamorous, good looking people too much, it’s both intoxicating and disorienting. Melissa and Erika do not live the same lives: Melissa is a mother of young children who lives in Jersey and is lucky to be middle class. Erika is in the top 1% of wealth and unentangled by a virile husband and children to look after. She is also lives in the most expensive areas in the country. With regard to Erika Jayne, Melissa might be confusing proximity with possibility. in other words, she might be forgetting that her life is her life, it has not changed, she has been on RHNJ for nearly a decade so publicity is nothing new. AND she will never be Erika Jayne, as exciting as that may seem to her. Even if she did move to LA, no one is building a show around someone who essentially abandoned their kids to fulfill a midlife crisis across the country.
When Melissa had been spending a lot of time with Erika in LA, there was an alleged rumor that Melissa ALLEGEDLY was hooking up with another man. I didn’t believe it at first but, now, saying she wants to move to LA is starting to give that rumor some credence.
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The strangest thing about all of this is that NeNe took her frustrations about Greg’s cancer to social media. Family issues are private. People who believe they are dying can get a little testy; pissed off! Most of us aren’t ready to face the end and trust family to help us through. Maybe Greg’s cancer was never a life threatening issue and Greg “played it to the bone” for BRAVO? I dunno but it’s pretty clear NeNe didn’t take it seriously!!!!
I don’t know what Greg’s prognosis is, but he certainly doesn’t look like a man who’s feeling good. I can’t imagine being told you have cancer (quite serious cancer from what NeNe said) , dealing with the psychological impact of that, along with chemo/radiation/whatever, and having your narcissistic bitch of a wife post the things that she’s been posting. Not that I’m surprised – she’s been self-centered and had an over-inflated ego as far back as I can remember – but who does that? I don’t care how unpleasant he is or how much is his true personality, versus the effects of being seriously ill, but keep it to yourself, woman! Discuss it with close family members or friends, if you have to vent, but don’t trash the man when he’s down.. It’s cruel, inappropriate and paints NeNe in the worst light possible. Never been a fan of hers and doubt I ever will be, but I have a grudging respect for her for making a “career” for herself – she certainly didn’t start off with anything more than a big head and even bigger mouth – but she seems to have made it work for her. Still, she needs to remember that fans can turn against you in the blink of an eye, especially when you’re showing such a negative and disgusting side of your personality.
P.S. I was the caregiver for my husband for years, while he battled Alzheimer’s. Some days were horrendous and I didn’t know how I would make it, but he NEVER knew how frustrated (and sometimes resentful) I felt. He left this earth feeling loved. NeNe, if Greg should happen to die, you’ll regret doing this to him. My husband could also be “difficult” and I feel bad sometimes because I was less patient than I could have been, but, but I’m at peace because I know I gave him tons of love and really good care, both physically and psychologically. She needs to stop and think how she would feel if the roles were reversed. Once he’s gone, she won’t be able to turn back time.
Your an example of how to do it right EnglishRose! Xxoo
Tamara, I’m sorry you had to go through the caregiver role with your sibling – it’s not easy at all, I know. I went through it for almost 5 years with my Mom (with whom I’d always had a strained relationship, plus she worshipped the quicksand my brother walked on). She had Lewy bodies dementia (think lots of hallucinations and delusions on top of the forgetfulness – and I do mean a LOT). I tried to get through the bad times with trying to have a sense of humor about things, like when I was literally constantly trying to find things for her that she had misplaced, I secretly called it my “Never-Ending Where’s Mom’s Waldo” game. It was only when she would say the most incredibly mean things about me and especially about my Dad, who loved and adored her for 60 years that it really stung the most – I was used to the mean comments about me, but the delusions she had and would repeat about my Dad were just awful and very hurtful – like apparently I had two sisters that she said I did not know about and that Dad slept around a lot with other women – like wtf??? But, I just kept telling myself it was the disease talking and not her. I never once complained on social media about Mom’s disease or how she treated me either – NeNe is a horrible person to do that! Granted, there were weekends driving home that I thought I was the one with dementia because after all that madness, sometimes I would be driving the 100 miles back home (I’m talking every single weekend for 3 years until she was placed in a dementia care facility) and I would not even know how I’d gotten onto certain highways because I would be completely frazzled or I would have to pull over and have a massive panic attack. She passed away from a massive stroke in September 2017 – it was a blessing – that is not living and I’ve already promised myself if I ever find out I have dementia, I will swallow all the pills I can find before I lose it completely because there is no way I would ever put my family through that heartache – it is soul-crushing. You were a wonderful sibling, Tamara! Lots of respect for you and I love your site here – it’s more of a community feeling, with tea being served. (Sorry for my long rant too)
JillyAnne – I feel your pain. It is a terrible thing to go through and only the truly strong and good souls can shoulder that kind of burden. Peace comes with knowing you did the best you could.
Nene will not find her peace in this, no matter how she spins it because she does not seem to have what it takes to step up to the plate on this issue.
I wonder how Brent feels to see his mother talk about his sick father like that. I feel for the young man.
I support NeNe for speaking her truth. She, like many women who are in abusive relationships, have decided enough is enough. NeNe is no longer giving Gregg permission to abuse her. The best thing NeNe can do is leave the abusive relationship. Gregg should be able to reach out to other family and friends for support during this difficult time. Abuse is never ok.
I’m sort of envious of Lulu who clearly has no idea what she is talking about. Hopefully, she will never have to learn from experience.
WTF?!? Seriously, WTF are you talking about LuLu?
I was wondering if I was the crazy one and what Lulu said everyone was agreeing with her.Clearly not thank goodness I was scared for a second there.
I have a feeling Lulu is young and has never had to take care of a cancer patient. I’m giving her a pass. She seems a bit clueless. I hope she stays that way, I would not wish it on anyone.
WTF! Did you ever post that Greg was abusive? You are the only blogger I trust.
No. People with eyes see Gregg walking three paces behind Nene everywhere she goes and doing whatever she says while carrying her purse with his balls in it.
Lulu is delusional.
Abuse? what abuse? Greg has never been abusive to Nene!! You need to get your hearing and eyesight checked…for real!!
I feel sorry for that man, but he knew who Nene was and is. Nene is all about herself. I can’t imagine how nasty she is to her poor husband.
It seems that a lot of these reality housewives seem to think they have hit the big time, are big stars now and have become so big headed that they are deserving of bigtime careers with little regard for anything else.
Well, I mean, they are kinda famous and they do kinda make big money, soooo….
I’ve never watched Big Brother. Is it worth it? Will it be entertaining? Should I maybe start with Celeb Big Brother?
Depends. Do you have a life? If so, it is probably a pass, but regular Big Brother is live streamed 24/7 and can be very, very, addictive. I don’t recall if CBB was live streamed or not. But the live streams are a lot more fun than the shows. It’s kind of two separate things. I’ve watched every single Big Brother since they started and I used to watch the early live streams on dial up Internet. lol.
PS I am watching a Lifetime Christmas movie right now with the girl who one CBB in it!
I have a (so-called) life and Celebrity Big Borther is definitely worth it! It only lasts 3 weeks, and it moved pretty fast last season. They had live feeds (24-7) on CBS All Access website/app. Tamara is so right that a lot of the best stuff happens on the live feeds. But even watching just the CBS episodes is a lot of fun. Plus all the eviction episodes are live.
I love BB and never miss it, which means I have no life. I don’t pay to watch the feeds. There is a site where I can read them though. It drives me crazy when those that don’t either watch or read the feeds think they know the people on the show! They know nothing!!!
Oh NeNe! Those of us with eyes that see can see how having to take a back seat to Gregg is cramping your style. You want a round of applause for caring for your sick man. You want people to notice YOU! It was all good and fine wheYou’rn Gregg was compliant and walking behind you carrying your latest designer bag, but now that his needs come first, there’s a problem. You’re a big narcissist, with a superiority complex that is not warranted. You’re a user.
Im not understanding why Gregg’s cancer is her storyline anyway. Seems like shes exploiting him. Just doesn’t seem right.,