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You are here: Home / Entertainment News / Ashley Jacobs Continues To Dig A Deeper Hole For Herself

Ashley Jacobs Continues To Dig A Deeper Hole For Herself

July 27, 2018 by tamaratattles 211 Comments

Yesterday someone sent me this advert for nightclub in Santa Barbara that does a lot of drag shows. It was odd to me that Ashley is suddenly “AJ” as if that would keep people from knowing about all of her psycho behavior on television and social media.  It just reminds us of OJ. Yesterday was SUPER busy and I didn’t even have time to get to everything I had planned an I am loath to keep giving this fool publicity or publicize her events.

Clearly there were tons of people who picked up the phone to dial that number to let the club know exactly who “AJ” is. Today however, the Santa Barbara club, M8RX Nightclub & Lounge has cancelled the appearance and giving Ashley the Mariah Carey “We don’t know her” treatment by issuing the following statement.

AJ’s appearance has been canceled and we apologize to our LGBTQ+ communities for this choice in booking. Pacific Pride Foundation was not aware of this nor affiliated with the decision to add AJ to the Queen of Pride event. Matrix has much love and respect for the LGBTQ+ communities locally and we want to make Saturday night safe, welcoming and full of Pride! We hope you will support our Queens and our Pride this Saturday.

If it is not safe to the community for her to be at an event, how the hell is it safe for Kathryn’s babies to be around her?

Ashley is desperately trying to get some good press for herself, so she sold a story to People. What topic did she choose to try to make herself look good? Kathryn Dennis and her beautiful babies. Ashley simply cannot stop talking about Kathryn. She’s obsessed and Kathryn needs a restraining order or three.

I spent a good bit of time combing through emails from sources for a particular text sent to Kathryn by a concerned third party about things that Ashley was saying about her children. Let’s just say she was very unkind when talking about the children and the person was moved to contact Kathryn out of concern for their safety. These were words from Ashley to her adoring fans. She is not only disinterested in the children, she’s unkind when discussing them. So it is bizarre to me that she would run to people with this pack of lies. Here are a couple of quotes.

“I hear a lot of the rumors of I’m not allowed around the kids, and that’s not true. I am allowed around the kids, and I see them a lot. Thomas gets them 50/50, and before he had them more than that, so it’s inevitable. I’m going to be around them when I’m with him.”

“Kathryn’s very protective of her children, and I’m not trying to fill any role other than being fun, loving, cool, and silly. I’m like a babysitter. I walk in the house and they’re like, ‘Throw me on the bed, throw me on the couch, bring me around, let’s draw, let’s go on the swings, put on a movie’ — that’s my relationship. I’m not harmful, I don’t speak badly, I don’t do anything that you see on TV that would make you think that I would be that way to these children. They are innocent in all of this.”

I have been told by someone close to Kathryn that there was some sort of protection in place to keep Ashley at bay.

The article goes on to include parts of an apparent email by Ashley to PEOPLE that paints her as repentant about her vile behavior toward and remarks to Kathyrn yet goes on to paint Kathryn as unforgiving. She says Kathryn sees her as someone who won’t be around for long and she hopes than when she becomes engaged or married or has a child with Thomas perhaps she will come around.

And as with any story these fools and crisis mangers sell to or pay for PEOPLE to run PEOPLE always reminds us that Thomas Ravenel is currently under investigation for multiple sexual assaults. So once again all this did is dig a deeper hole for both of them.

Ashley is currently in Santa Barbara, appropriately dining at In and Out. She clearly didn’t get the reception she was hoping for.

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  1. T D says

    July 27, 2018 at 7:19 pm

    Ritz like a glove.

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    • T D says

      July 27, 2018 at 7:20 pm

      Fits.

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      • T D says

        July 27, 2018 at 7:31 pm

        Since spell check brought it up somethings aren’t better when they sit on a cracker.

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        • Kerry says

          July 27, 2018 at 8:01 pm

          TD- lmao- s**t on a cracker sums up Ashley in a nutshell

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        • Naomi says

          July 28, 2018 at 10:48 am

          Made my morning! This is everything.

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      • Adonia says

        July 28, 2018 at 3:21 am

        I like the original statement 😀

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    • Warrior says

      July 27, 2018 at 8:44 pm

      I’m craving some buttery crackers! AJ (AssholeJackass) is revolting and it makes me lose my appetite.

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  2. Gretch says

    July 27, 2018 at 7:30 pm

    WTF? She is absolutely certifiable!!!!

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  3. TAT says

    July 27, 2018 at 7:36 pm

    Oh FFS. She needs to disappear. I am rarely moved to discuss the people I watch on TV but she just puts me over the edge. I can’t imagine what she says about the kids but given what she says about the mother, it must be hideous.

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  4. scottishwitch says

    July 27, 2018 at 7:36 pm

    I thought I saw approximately three pro-Ashley “People Magazine” articles pop up last night, and was wondering how and why? A saavy well connected “handler”? It was nauseating. How could Thomas let Ashley near Kathryn’s children, let alone the court allow it? After showing, as a nurse, her apparently disabled patient on a video? After the clear animus and negative fixation she has for the children’s mother? With her obvious, in the opinions of so many viewers, on camera emotional instability, rapid weight loss, contant sniffling of her nose, and hyper way of talking —which bizarre behavior, imo, calls for a need for HER random drug testing if she were to be around children? With people allegedly stating that they have allegedly heard or allegedly speculate that she is allegedly holding something over the head of the children’s father? Which, if true, conceivably could mean he could not restrict how she treats the children for fear of her retaliating in some form? With her allegedly being upset about Thomas’ will? Imo, the court needs to step in yesterday with an order prohibiting this woman from being within 100 feet of the children.

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    • MelG says

      July 27, 2018 at 7:45 pm

      I agree 100%! Kathryn has to submit to random (evidently somewhat frequent) drug tests, but Ashley is not tested and exhibits signs of drug use. Kathryn looks wonderful and healthy while Ashley looks like an addict.

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      • radchick says

        July 28, 2018 at 9:27 am

        Wouldn’t Ashley be required to take a drug test as part of getting her nursing license in South Carolina?

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        • EL 444 says

          July 28, 2018 at 10:20 am

          Shockingly no. Its up to the employer if they drug test, and they often don’t. I know a couple of nurses who dabble in the medicinal stuff I’ll call it since I’m not sure if I can name it here. But that’s it…and only on their weekend. But with Ashley’s drastic physical change, that should trigger a random test which is allowable of course but again rarely used in medical field unless they suspect it.

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          • scottishwitch says

            July 28, 2018 at 10:33 am

            It should also trigger her being tested to be around Kathryn’s children on a regular basis. Also, if you know when a drug test is being given – it is not hard to beat in a variety of ways, so any test would have to be sprung on her – just as it was sprung on Kathryn, while allegedly TRav shaved.

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            • Lisak says

              July 28, 2018 at 11:46 am

              Well that is impossible to read

      • lorir says

        July 30, 2018 at 11:35 am

        Exactly. Kathryn is showing herself to be responsible and have her priorities straight. Ashley does not need to be pouting her toxic salt anywhere near these children.

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    • LitzieLipmen says

      July 27, 2018 at 9:49 pm

      Amen. Only word needed.

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    • DillyDilly says

      July 27, 2018 at 10:55 pm

      Wtf . . . Is People Magazine being paid too?

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      • of tamaratattles says

        July 28, 2018 at 1:56 am

        It’s kind of sad. PEOPLE used to be the BIBLE of celebrity news. Same with PAGE SIX. Maybe they never were, but since I’ve been writing I am extremely disappointed And it is EYE OPENING as a website owner who writes about “celebrities” how fake some sites have become. Or perhaps always were.

        Page Six rips off my articles and that is the only time they seem to get things right anymore.

        And I’ve repeatedly asked Chelsea Hirsch of PAGE SIX to stop stealing my work, and I’m going to have to spend a ton of money to make that happen soon. She’s notorious for stealing my posts.

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        • radchick says

          July 28, 2018 at 9:18 am

          TT, is there a way we can help you offset your legal fees? Maybe a donate button or something? We’re all very protective of you here and I for one would like to help you go after these scummy sites that steal your work.

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        • Cheryl B (cherylannburke1) says

          July 28, 2018 at 10:03 am

          Boycott? 😉 Page Six?

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        • EL 444 says

          July 28, 2018 at 10:25 am

          Some even steal from commentators I’ve found! A writer for another site I go on has stolen the thrust of my comments and who knows how many others. I used doppelganger to describe one gent and the next recap referred to him as same. I referenced a movie related to a character and same thing. Much too coincidental to be accident so I’m finding many people steal stuff. That’s annoying as I’m only a commentator…not a paid journalist like them.

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          • Nanette says

            July 29, 2018 at 12:46 am

            Plant some fake stuff eloquently written, then delete the original!

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            • Calipatti says

              July 29, 2018 at 5:28 am

              If it was done correctly with a great deal of thought it could work well.
              Do the readers care at other sites if it’s true, if it salacious?

    • JeepGirl15 says

      July 28, 2018 at 9:00 am

      As for the seemingly disabled people she has been photographed with, I think they are in the pictures because they physically can’t get away from her.

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      • Melizaaa says

        July 28, 2018 at 10:17 am

        Omg so hilarious

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      • SCFan says

        July 28, 2018 at 11:44 am

        I think she visiting former patients but she was oh so classy to tag the clothing company of the dress she was wearing. She put up one sad photo overnight with some guy on her Instagram story (she also had the “ad” with the AJ at club whatever but that was deleted yesterday). She used to have tons of friends in SB…guessing that isn’t the case anymore.

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        • jennyjennybobinny says

          July 28, 2018 at 12:04 pm

          right…in one of her recent interviews….don’t remember with who….she said Thomas was her ONLY family….that she didn’t have anyone else. Which validates the one site that posted that Ashley’s Mother and sister threw her out of the house because of her manipulative ways! And Landon is just her pimp and competitor from what I read so Landon is prolly glad Ashley is out of Cali….

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          • SCFan says

            July 28, 2018 at 1:12 pm

            Whatever Landon is doing now (supposed to be in real estate?) sure pays the bills bc she lives in Malibu and travels a lot.

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            • Nanette says

              July 29, 2018 at 12:48 am

              Maybe Daddy is paying again. Or her website. Hahahaha.

            • Calipatti says

              July 29, 2018 at 5:31 am

              Her dad died when Ashley was ? 16/18 maybe younger, can’t remember.

        • Mackie40 says

          July 29, 2018 at 6:34 am

          But it is another old photo pretending to be taken on current trip. Her hair is its old, longer length, not the new length and cut shape of the recent pink nurse photo she out up.

          Bravo website commented on the new haircut, so it must be shorter from very recently.

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      • MelG says

        July 28, 2018 at 1:00 pm

        Can you imagine these people, physically unable to get away from her, having to listen to her unhinged obsessive ranting ALLLLLLLLLLL day long?

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        • SCFan says

          July 28, 2018 at 1:13 pm

          She looks like she was just released or escaped from an insane asylum in that photo! Those poor ppl.

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  5. MelG says

    July 27, 2018 at 7:37 pm

    Ashley was given every opportunity on that reunion stage to apologize for her behavior. She was adamant those were her true feelings. The ONLY thing she expressed the slightest remorse over was WHEN she went batshit crazy during filming NOT the vile things that she said to Kathryn. NOW, she attempts to paint a picture that Kathryn is unforgiving…forgive HELL! The bitch is truly unhinged and Kathryn has justifiable reasons for wanting her children around this nut case. I just cannot believe this idiotic bitch!
    It dumbfounds me that Thomas, the felon (due to cocaine charges) can have this mother drug tested left and right, but he does not have to be, and that he puts on this bullshit facade of doing it out of the concern for the children; yet, he exposed them to such a lunatic within one week of knowing her (or rather not knowing her). TT thank you, I am glad to hear there is at least some form of protection in place. I believe the worry for those children is legitimate.

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    • MelG says

      July 27, 2018 at 7:41 pm

      Sorry….justifiable reasons for not wanting Ashley around the children

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    • LitzieLipmen says

      July 27, 2018 at 9:52 pm

      Kathryn may Forgive ( don’t see that happening) but, “we” will never FORGET.

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  6. scottishwitch says

    July 27, 2018 at 7:49 pm

    Imo, it is also high time for the extended Ravenel family to step in and protect these children from untoward persons, if their father will not.

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    • jennyjennybobinny says

      July 27, 2018 at 7:55 pm

      I thought they had tried but he wouldn’t listen….

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      • scottishwitch says

        July 27, 2018 at 8:17 pm

        Hi JennyJenny…what I mean is they should intervene despite the fact that he will not listen – actually…because of it.

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  7. jennyjennybobinny says

    July 27, 2018 at 8:05 pm

    So do any of the nurses know if she does get in trouble in SC for HIPPA violations would that affect her Cali license or any other State License?

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    • scottishwitch says

      July 27, 2018 at 8:21 pm

      This is an interesting question and one wonders about her going back to Cali, allegedly maybe looking for nightclub appearance money, after that video with her patient surfaced. One wonders whether she is still employed by that nusing agency.

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    • Bungalow Chris says

      July 28, 2018 at 12:08 am

      I looked at Ashley’s Instagram today and she posted, today, another pic of herself posing with 2 patients.
      Saying, ” Every special person who touches our lives leaves their own unique mark on our heart♥️ I’m so happy I got to spend time with these special friends! They fill my heart with so much joy.”
      AND it has 2,475 likes as I type this post.
      It’s mind blowing, really.

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      • Melizaaa says

        July 28, 2018 at 10:02 am

        Comments disabled though… I wouldn’t be surprised if she saw them at an airport and posed with them. I would NOT put it past her. The image control Grab is just so awkwardly obvious. I think this one is worse than Thomas’s gofundme repost. Nothing against the kid, it was just so transparent On his part.

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      • scottishwitch says

        July 28, 2018 at 10:09 am

        Imo, she is using vulnerable others for her own PR self-promotion. She seems to think we are too stupid to see through her routine, and so feeble minded that we will be brainwashed by carefully-crafted images and reports in People Magazine. A possibly weird thing about her going to Cali with a nightclub appearance booking at this point is the timing. Didn’t Pat, Luzanne and Kathryn all just do a livestream from there together?

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        • radchick says

          July 29, 2018 at 8:11 am

          You’re right about Pat and Kathryn being out there. I wonder how long Ashley’s club appearance was booked in advanced? Or if she called her “friend” who owns the club and it was booked at the last minute to coincide with their visit?

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      • Dolphy says

        July 28, 2018 at 10:17 am

        Just saw it…and she’s not in her scrubs. Looks like she went into some random hospital and took photos with people who aren’t her patients.

        This woman is certifiable and needs to be institutionalized STAT.

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      • NeverBeenJaxed says

        July 28, 2018 at 4:40 pm

        There’s also one with her and her mom although she looks different to me. Old photo maybe?

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    • Calipatti says

      July 29, 2018 at 7:21 am

      @neverbeenjaxed, @jennyjenny,
      According to an article online Ashley has been reported to the nursing board in South Carolina. She sent a private message with a video of herself and a minor non-verbal child, saying the minors name. The are eating lunch outside under Revenel bridge.
      The recipient of video is s nurse and saw the numerous hippa violations in the video.
      Later Ashley joined the private chat group and told them how to set up fake accounts to spy on a past chat member.
      Article and video are still online with minors name and face redacted.

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  8. Addison says

    July 27, 2018 at 8:25 pm

    Geez she flat out exhausting ( sigh 😥 ).

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  9. Spunky2015 says

    July 27, 2018 at 8:25 pm

    I listened to a Patricia interview yesterday (Amy Phillips, Reality Checked) and she said last fall she and Whitney had dinner with Thomas and Ashley. After dinner the guys got up to talk to some friends and Ashley spent close to an hour talking about Kathryn non stop like she is obsessed. Patricia seemed very disturbed by the whole thing.

    Patricia also said that Kathryn wasn’t invited to Cameran’s baby shower because Thomas told her that Kathryn was sleeping with her drug dealer. Patricia has apologized to Kathryn for believing Thomas.

    Amy tried to question her about the Luzanne case but of course Pat couldn’t talk about it.

    Kathryn and kids need a physical security presence IMO. I wonder if Ashley has been dumped and that’s why she is back in CA, which could enrage her even more.

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    • Twilly says

      July 27, 2018 at 9:11 pm

      I remember hearing that rumor about Kathryn. Not too hard to deduce the source of that slander.

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    • Bungalow Chris says

      July 28, 2018 at 12:25 am

      I also listened to that interview and (I’m repeating myself from a post on yesterday’s recap), but Patricia said that Kathryn was having to take those drug tests about once every 3 weeks, but when Ashley came into the picture Kathryn was made to take those tests 3 times a week. Pat talked about how Kathryn’s arms are so bruised and how sadistic Ashley is.
      Then to see how obsessed Ashley was, at the reunion, laser focused on Kathryn’s last drug test, saying, “they close at 5:00, but THEY SAID that THEY stayed open for you.” ???????
      Who da hell is THEY? and Why does ASHLEY know this info???? Is Ashley calling the facility or are they calling her & Thomas, relaying every detail of the drug tests??? It’s beyond obsessive.
      On the ferry ride, when Kat said, in effect, that Thomas & Ashley remind her a love connection couple in a mental hospital, she was RIGHT ON POINT!

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      • tamaratattles says

        July 28, 2018 at 2:19 am

        I am pissed by this too. How the hell does Ashley know WHAT TIME KATHRYN WENT TO HER DRUG TEST? And what kind of whore brings this up on camera? I think that was a MAJOR slip up on her part.

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        • radchick says

          July 28, 2018 at 9:34 am

          I wondered how she knew that information too. It wouldn’t surprise me if Thomas is friends with and/or paid off the staff at the drug testing facility to keep him informed. Hell, he might even own the damn place for all we know.

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          • jennyjennybobinny says

            July 28, 2018 at 9:40 am

            I was always under the impression that drug testing places where ordered randomly so no-one could influence the outcomes. I guess I am was too naïve…

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            • Melizaaa says

              July 28, 2018 at 10:16 am

              In settlement agreements it is not uncommon for one parent to randomly request testing when he/she wants it done. Typically the other party then has a set amount of time to go get it done, then the facility reports back to whoever is designated by agreement. Still, there is usually a cap and not just an indefinite number of mandates.

        • Melizaaa says

          July 28, 2018 at 10:05 am

          “Id be there at 8 AM” Right, because then she is losing job opportunities based on your and Thomas’s whim. They are so evil they probably demand tests on days they know she has shoots or other obligations. I would bet money on it.

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        • mystrox says

          July 28, 2018 at 11:02 pm

          Maybe Ashley and Trav have a tracker on Katheryn’s old broken phone or possibly following her Stalking her.I found it disturbing that Ashley 1. brought up time she went to drug test 2.Her disappointment that she made it in time to be tested 3.Ashley’s disappointment that Katheryn didn’t automatically fail,for being late.
          How is it Ashley knows what days and times Katheryn gets tested
          I am sure Ashley and Trav have tried setting Katheryn to fail by trying to get her to drink themselves by offering her booze.
          I would not be surprised if they have hired people around town to try to tempt Katheryn to drink or do drugs
          Ashley is very,very scared that Katheryn will steal Trav away from her if Katheryn continues to stay sober and play her part as a Supportive friend /co-parent with Trav.

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        • Nanette says

          July 29, 2018 at 12:56 am

          Isn’t info from labs covered by HIPPA laws?

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      • Fizz says

        July 28, 2018 at 7:42 pm

        I was wondering what kind of facility would continue to draw blood from bruised arms. You could see how bad it looked on the show. You would think at a certain point they would refuse. Do no harm and all that.

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        • Nanette says

          July 29, 2018 at 12:57 am

          Why not a urine test? TRav must have had the court order demand blood tests.

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  10. Hope says

    July 27, 2018 at 8:28 pm

    People Magazine used to write extremely complimentary articles about Kate Gosselin (Jon & Kate Plus 8) too….LOL

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    • tamaratattles says

      July 27, 2018 at 10:38 pm

      Let’s just say some sites take payment for their articles..

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  11. Southern Girl says

    July 27, 2018 at 8:30 pm

    I’ve never wanted to see two ppl just GONE FROM MY TV as bad as I want these two gone

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  12. Lb says

    July 27, 2018 at 8:55 pm

    I know these private security companies are expensive, so these people who are finally seeing what a shit bag t.rav is, what a great way to apologize to Katherine/family by paying for it. Especially Shep who just loves to kiss and tell. Talk about over share his being with Katherine. If any of these judges had brains, they would have an emergency custody review. Any time I see a story with Katherine I hold my breath. God what a shit storm this is.

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  13. Stephanie Lynn says

    July 27, 2018 at 9:10 pm

    I have a son with my ex. He got married after we broke up. We didn’t get along because she acted the same way as Ashley. I never had any issues like KCD. I worked, went to school and took care of my child. This was ongoing, his sisters would tell me things that she said or had done, such as throwing his birthday cake on the floor at his party because his fathers family thought German chocolate cake was not a good choice for a two years olds party, plus my son was lactose intolerant and couldn’t have it anyway. Then things like only feeding him fruit so he would come home w/ diaherrea or forgetting to apply sunblock. It took 8 months to get an order against this woman. I was advised by a lawyer to fill out an incident report with the police department for every incident. I had to establish a relationship with her for a period of time. It took time, but eventually I was able to keep her away from my child, which subsequently, kept his father away too. It takes time to prove someone is a danger to your kids in this situation because they want to paint it as a woman scorned or jealous. That is not the case with myself or KCD. I’m sure she’s been advised of all this by her lawyer or law enforcement hopefully.

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    • Spunky2015 says

      July 27, 2018 at 9:50 pm

      I’m so sorry you and your son had to go through this. Hate seeing kids mistreated.

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    • Kipper says

      July 27, 2018 at 10:21 pm

      How horrible! I’m glad you were able to maintain your focus for the love and safety of your child. Talk about a system that could defeat a struggling parent! I do think Kathryn is strong enough now to jump through all those hoops, I hope she does!

      Sorry you went through all that but you did a good job momma!

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    • Bungalow Chris says

      July 28, 2018 at 12:49 am

      OMG, Stephanie, I can’t imagine what you went through. I’m so glad you trusted your instincts, but it’s a shame that you & your child had to endure such a thing.
      It’s so unfair that the system works against so many.
      Makes me wonder what the undercurrent, in the Charleston, S.C. courts,
      will do now to actually protect Kat’s kids? After everything that has been televised
      about Thomas & Ashley, something had better be done, ASAP!

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    • Meemo says

      July 28, 2018 at 7:19 am

      I am so sorry you and your son lived through that.

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  14. Mmmmia says

    July 27, 2018 at 9:11 pm

    I’m sorry, but Ashley is borderline. She’s going to threaten suicide next.

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    • Pellifer says

      July 27, 2018 at 9:29 pm

      Very true. While I found her behavior deplorable, I’m concerned that she truly may do something to harm herself. I hope her family and friends intervene soon and get her some help.

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    • Blondesense says

      July 27, 2018 at 11:13 pm

      I know it is very wrong to diagnose folks on tv, but I have a BPD person in my life and the similarities are staggering. Allegedly.

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    • thill says

      July 28, 2018 at 1:22 pm

      She probably already has threatened suicide. Unfortunately a common threat in this type of volatile relationship. Most often an empty threat intended to control the other. I know several men who wanted out of a relationship but were scared because of such threats. (not to diminish the horror of suicide in any way)

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    • EDub says

      July 29, 2018 at 10:59 am

      Agree with commenters above, I know it’snot right to diagnose people on TV, but I had a friend with BPD and this is the exact behavior I saw before it got really bad, like really bad. The night it became too much was she blocked mine and another friends car in the driveway to let the air out of her own tires because she was mad at her husband/bf. She wouldn’t even respond to us speaking to her. It was scary. The night ended with domestic abuse (her against him), cops called, and an attempted suicide to try to get him back. Someone needs to take charge of this entire situation before someone gets hurt.

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  15. debbie says

    July 27, 2018 at 9:55 pm

    If I were Kathryn I would certainly get a restraining order against her. She is absolutely bonkers and so obsessed with Kathryn that it is borderline frightening.

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    • justanothermary says

      July 28, 2018 at 9:45 am

      You can’t just go and get a restraining order against someone. There has to be an actual threat. As bizarre as Ashley is, I’m not sure Kathryn is in any physical danger.

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      • scottishwitch says

        July 28, 2018 at 10:59 am

        It is the safety of the children so many are worried about.

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        • jennyjennybobinny says

          July 28, 2018 at 11:57 am

          Hey Scotty! Do we know if there is a nanny 24/7 with Thomas?

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          • scottishwitch says

            July 28, 2018 at 1:01 pm

            Good question, JennyJenny!

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      • NeverBeenJaxed says

        July 28, 2018 at 11:41 am

        There was an actual threat. Several in fact. On camera. Ashley wasn’t specific in her language but the intent was there.

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      • Chloe says

        July 29, 2018 at 12:06 am

        Outside the ballroom, Ashley followed and confronted Katherine. Katherine asked “Are you threatening me?” and Ashley said Yes. This is all on camera. I cannot imagine a judge looking at this custody agreement and giving complete custody to Katherine with Thomas paying child support. He’s facing serious charges and has already been to prison. It was insane to give him total custody in the first place. Now he’s in trouble and Ashley is threatening Katherine on camera.

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        • Chloe says

          July 29, 2018 at 12:07 am

          Obviously I meant that a judge should re-evaluate the custody agreement that gave Thomas total and complete custody. Too much has changed and a lot of it is caught on camera.

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          • Lyn17 says

            July 29, 2018 at 2:26 pm

            She has 50/50 custody now. It was on the season finale updates.

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  16. AAL says

    July 27, 2018 at 9:58 pm

    Hoping this means she’s back in CA for good. I watched the 2 reunion shows today and was floored. Ashley should never be around the children and if Thomas is the wonderful father he claims to be he should make sure she isn’t. Thomas was so use to minuplating the women in his life and bit off way more than he could chew with this psycho. I hope Bravo uses common sence and not ratings and shit cans her next season. I haven’t watched AT, NJ, and OC for years and barely watched BH & NY this year. If they they bring back the bitch from hell I’m over Souhern Charm. Below Deck Med sucked this year. Really hoping Captian Lee and Kate can give use a great season. This is my favorite site but I’m quickly losing shows I can post about. Tamara, will you do a weekly Open Forum so we can post on the shows we’re watching?

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    • Calipatti says

      July 29, 2018 at 5:55 am

      I’m watching or not watching the exact same shows. I catch Pose, Catfish, not soon enough to comment.

      I did not know the complainant, Thomas could be in charge of Kathryn’s drug testing, It seems strange for a judge or court system to give Thomas, actually Ashley that power. Thinking that’s Thomas’s Daddy’s power.

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    • EDub says

      July 29, 2018 at 10:48 am

      I’m a first time Southern Charm watcher, so I think I’ll stick around, but with you on all the other shows except New York. Although, I am afraid of who will replace Carole. We all asked for replacements on Beverley Hills and then got Dorit, so I’m a little traumatized haha

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  17. Karen Kennedy says

    July 27, 2018 at 10:03 pm

    Did anyone else find it very creepy the way she said she “scared” Thomas? She hides and jumps out , or something like that? Could she be setting something up for an accident like “I scared him and he fell” ?
    Keep an eye out for if she rents a car, just like Jodi Arias did, and takes s road trip. Not kidding.

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    • scottishwitch says

      July 27, 2018 at 10:21 pm

      You are right. That was very weird and seemed deliberately inserted into the conversation for a reason we do not yet know. Because – who would share something like that? It is something that is so infantile and creepy. But then again, TRav let his toe nails be painted – just like a little 5 year old girl.

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    • Kipper says

      July 27, 2018 at 10:36 pm

      Yes, I thought it was very weird. Plus, I think she was making stuff up on the fly about “kid” games because she has nooo clue how to interact with children.

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      • Kipper says

        July 27, 2018 at 10:37 pm

        Correction, no clue how to interact with humans.

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    • NeverBeenJaxed says

      July 28, 2018 at 8:09 am

      @KarenK Your comparison to Jodi Arias is spot on. The behavior from Ashley is escalating and she’s just smart enough to be dangerous a la Arias. It’s frightening to watch quite frankly. I can’t imagine why no one has contacted the authorities yet? Or maybe they have and are investigating before we are reading about another completely foreseeable and preventable tragedy. The whole situation makes me a nervous wreck because I’ve been through something similar and it’s quite terrifying.

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      • Calipatti says

        July 30, 2018 at 12:02 am

        Jaxed, scroll way up, I found out she has been reported by a nurse with a private video from Ashley that shows Ashley with a minor.

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    • Holagsd says

      July 28, 2018 at 9:31 am

      It sounds like a great cover for stalking.

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  18. LD says

    July 27, 2018 at 10:14 pm

    I have to wonder – who the heck is Kathryn ‘s lawyer!!!! Ashley and Thomas should b the ones drug tested – weekly!!!!

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    • Cherise says

      July 27, 2018 at 11:46 pm

      Yes !!! Agree- and I would never let her around my kids without a pysch eval!

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    • Cherise says

      July 27, 2018 at 11:52 pm

      Ms. Otte truly dodged a bullet.. Karma baby!! Thomas allegedly hired the alleged escort to screw him and torture Kathryn.. and it all back fired!

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  19. SouthernBelle says

    July 27, 2018 at 10:17 pm

    She really needs to come to terms with the fact that the South Carolina King of Coke is never ever ever going to marry her and she will never ever ever be his 2nd ‘egg donor’. Gawd she needs to shrivel up and blow away in the wind.

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    • Chester Copperpot says

      July 28, 2018 at 12:18 am

      King of Coke! Lolol

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    • Floridagirl says

      July 29, 2018 at 8:05 am

      I guess you won’t be invited to the wedding!! Lol 😉

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  20. Meg says

    July 27, 2018 at 10:18 pm

    I love that Chelsea took rescued her dog. LOVE LOVE LOVE that!

    THANK YOU for sharing that. <3

    Adopt, don't shop! :).

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  21. scottishwitch says

    July 27, 2018 at 11:02 pm

    Page 6 has posted something about Ashley

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  22. Blondesense says

    July 27, 2018 at 11:20 pm

    It was so annoying on Twitter last night. That scummy reality bended knee site wanted to get in on the Ashley hate and score likes, yet continued to trash Luzanne, Patricia and Kathryn. It was like watching tennis with their snark bobbing back and forth. Finally blocked them from the feed.

    Obviously, things between Ashley and T-Rav are so bad they can’t even get together to take a fake loving pic with her shorter hair. Their social media is crickets.

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  23. Lb says

    July 27, 2018 at 11:25 pm

    chelsea loves her dog, and he absolutely adores her. Still have trouble believing anyone would hire that scum bag after what he has done with all those dogs. Too bad people have such short memories especially with animal cruelty. Depressing, huh. Sorry

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    • Victoria says

      July 28, 2018 at 7:28 am

      We remember. When my Steelers signed him there were protests at every game.

      Vick was a crap QB too.

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      • MaybeLike says

        July 28, 2018 at 7:54 pm

        But your rapist QB Ben is totally acceptable.

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        • Victoria says

          July 29, 2018 at 6:50 am

          I didn’t say that. I don’t like Ben, never have.

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  24. Frosty says

    July 28, 2018 at 12:08 am

    I am really pulling for Kathryn and the kids. Hopeful that if she stays the course, protective order, documentation and reporting she can ultimately keep Ashley away from her kids.

    But lately I have a feeling Thomas is going is to skate as far as the allegations go, and that he and maybe Ashley will be back next season. I hope not but … you remember when Shep said at the reunion Thomas has all these great (lol) qualities except this one flaw or something. That’s the good ol boy tradition in the wild right there, in its natural social habitat. And that includes, imo, the justice system. so i’m not hopeful we’ve seen the last of them. Painful as it may be for KCD, this drama is probably a gold mine from Bravo’s angle.

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    • Chloe says

      July 29, 2018 at 12:12 am

      Yeah, he’s a great guy, great! Except for that tenth of him that rapes employees.

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    • Nanette says

      July 29, 2018 at 1:12 am

      Harvey Weinstein finally was brought down. Ravenel Bridge is falling down, falling down, falling down … it could happen. The bigger they are, the harder they fall. Daddy’s money cannot buy him out of everything.

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    • Mackie40 says

      July 29, 2018 at 6:09 am

      I thought when Shep made a big deal of now being the oldest he might know Thomas is not returning. Otherwise why did he emphasise that at the end of the reunion? To me it was as if he was thinking forward to next season.

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    • Calipatti says

      July 29, 2018 at 6:28 am

      Frosty. It’s been awhile, hi.

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  25. SabrinaToo says

    July 28, 2018 at 6:44 am

    Did she get fired from her job for violating HIPPA by taking pictures of her patients and posting them? Just wondering if she still has a job.

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    • NeverBeenJaxed says

      July 28, 2018 at 8:15 am

      I don’t know about the job but when I checked her license status this morning it still says it’s active. No reported orders (investigations) showing up yet. It’s amazing to me that the agency would keep her as she clearly violated HIPPA on at least one occasion that we know of. She’s a huge liability to the agency and a danger to her patients.

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  26. Barbara R says

    July 28, 2018 at 9:03 am

    I always thought that Ravenel truly loved Kathryn and would never do anything to harm her. Obviously I was wrong.

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  27. Mackie40 says

    July 28, 2018 at 9:22 am

    Why on earth would people pay to see AJ at some bar? I would have thought if people did not despise her they would see her as a figure of fun. I also sincerely hope she is not spending time with Kathryn’s children!

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    • sheebeest says

      July 28, 2018 at 2:08 pm

      Good question. Apparently she can be spotted on State St in her pink MAGA hat…. for free!

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      • Mackie40 says

        July 29, 2018 at 6:11 am

        LOL! Sure sounds like figure of fun!

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  28. radchick says

    July 28, 2018 at 9:48 am

    I wonder what advice Kathryn’s getting from her lawyers in this matter? Wouldn’t the footage of Ashley’s behavior help prove Kathryn’s point that this woman shouldn’t be allowed around her children?

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  29. Ronadella says

    July 28, 2018 at 9:49 am

    Can someone explain to me the reasoning for canceling her appearance at this club? Obviously she’s nuts, but was there some sort of incident with her and the lgbtq community in the past?

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    • tamaratattles says

      July 28, 2018 at 1:38 pm

      Some of the comments I saw were about her being a Trump supporter and his anti gay policies. There could have been more than that though.

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      • Warrior says

        July 28, 2018 at 1:54 pm

        AS IF I need another reason to loathe Ashley. A Drumpf supporter to boot? Man, that makes ALL the sense in the world. Like, duh, of course she supports the greedy, lying, sack o shit president.

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  30. Karen K says

    July 28, 2018 at 9:50 am

    I am curious if anyone knows if there was court appointed attorney for the minor children? Usually in these volatile cases, the court will appoint a separate attny to represent the best interest of the children and they would file motions to have Thomas drug/ alcohol tested and restraint orders for Ashley.

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    • KathyD says

      July 28, 2018 at 2:09 pm

      Just saying, my kids had one and she was 100% worth it. They can be a godsend. Those children need one.

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  31. Dandylion says

    July 28, 2018 at 10:40 am

    On her Instagram story she posted a picture of herself with Matty Matt from 1996…that’s 22 years ago. She loves to say she’s in her early 30s. In that picture no way she’s 10.

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    • EnglishRose says

      July 29, 2018 at 4:13 pm

      The way she looked at the reunion she could have been a woman in her late 40’s – I just don’t see how she can only be thirty-three. She needs to stay away from horses and the polo fields – she already looks like she was “rode hard and put away wet”. By the way, who is Matty Matt?

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  32. Nadia says

    July 28, 2018 at 11:26 am

    Hello all,first time commented here. I love in an assisted living facility. It’s totally against HIPPA laws to put any photo of a person on social media without written consent, at least in Georgia where I live.
    Secondly, I only glimpse this show, but stay abreast they TT’s blog. I did see a few moments of the show when Kathryn was telling this woman how she googled the meaning of the party she attended, because she didn’t want to embarrass the hostess. The woman she was talking to, in her head shot, said she found Kathryn to be very nice. During that scene Thomas with his dumb ass was walking over toward where Kathryn was sitting, Ashley flew over there on her invisible broom, dragging him away saying, “Can you come over here and talk to me” like Kathryn was going to jump his bones right there at the party. I agree with all of the comments that Ashley needs to be drug tested. Can’t they just LOOK at her and see something is wrong?

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    • radchick says

      July 29, 2018 at 8:25 am

      Flew over on her invisible broom! Good one!

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  33. Nadia says

    July 28, 2018 at 11:27 am

    ****Live in an assisted living facility***
    Dang auto correct

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    • Calipatti says

      July 29, 2018 at 6:43 am

      Hi Nada, glad your here, we are probably close in age.
      The women Kathryn was talking to is Patricia A. the self-proclaimed Queen of Charleston. She is wealthy with a mansion in NY and Charleston, Whitney is her son, actor in the show and a producer of this show

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  34. Wtf says

    July 28, 2018 at 12:02 pm

    I feel so sorry for Kathryn black and blue arms because she has to divorce this creep in the south course Ashley isn’t nice to her children she hates the woman and she hates those kids so clear cuz she uses them as a weapon against their own mother I kind of feel sorry for Ashley she just has no idea on it how many enemies she has.

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    • Mackie40 says

      July 29, 2018 at 3:14 pm

      I have only once with a blood test had huge bruising. I complained and the person had extra training. That really should not happen if people are properly trained to do the blood tests. NOT good enough.

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  35. Jennicoops says

    July 28, 2018 at 12:11 pm

    HI TT
    I am new to your blog, and 1st time commenting. I have to say I LOVE YOUR BLOG! Its so refreshing to actually read truth mixed with some snark! I have watched SC all season, and I have to say, this Ashley Jacobs is some piece of CRAZY!!! I recently noticed that PEOPLE has had Several Articles over the past 2 days written about her. Damage Control? TRav Influence? I am curious as to why they are literally kissing this psychos ass all of a sudden? Do you have any insight? So Glad I Stumbled Upon Your Site, Thanks Google! You now have another FAITHFUL TT Follower!!!XOXO

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    • tamaratattles says

      July 28, 2018 at 1:32 pm

      PEOPLE is apparently not above being paid to write stories. But it is interesting to me that all the positive spin stories end with something like, “oh, by the way, Thomas has been accused of sexual assault.” So that’s really not that helpful to HIM.

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      • Graciela says

        July 31, 2018 at 12:48 pm

        Tamara- do you know, or can you tell whether Trashley is paying for positive comments/likes on Instagram? I’ve never posted a comment before..hell, I’d never even read a reality blog before until this deranged swamp thing came along…and now I obsessively search your site each morning desperate for your latest update! I’m not sure if you have access to IG but there is NO WAY thousands of ppl are suddenly liking her photos and posting gushing, complimentary comments unless she is paying for that. Especially since there appears to be barely any negative comments now (which is impossible, bc everyone on the planet loathes her & up until recently she ONLY had negative comments). So, do you or anyone else know if it’s possible to pay for this? Bc it doesn’t make any sense otherwise!! Keep up the good work, I’m ADDICTED to your Trash updates!!! 🙂

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        • tamaratattles says

          July 31, 2018 at 1:11 pm

          Graciela, I believe you have answered your own Question. Ashley has a ton of fake accounts on social media and a little posse of weirdos that all make accounts and do her bidding. It’s the definition of insane.

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  36. EngineerTakingABreak says

    July 28, 2018 at 12:39 pm

    Karen, Scot, Kipper, NBJ, I thought the pranking comments were suspicious, too. Did she just want to try to unnerve Kathryn by mentioning how Thomas “pranked” her by opening her shower curtain?

    What if she starts “pranking” the kids with rubber bugs, or worse?

    Worse is her declaration that the kids ask her to “throw” them on the couch or the bed as soon as she walks in the door. Why? Did she start that? I wouldn’t want someone of questionable sanity and motives “throwing” my little kids around! “Oh, sorry, did they get hurt? But they asked me to, and I was just being silly with them.” Right.

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    • CHERISE says

      July 28, 2018 at 12:50 pm

      My brother was tormented by babysitters with fake spiders and he has serious phobia issues because of it! And only ate crackers and pb&j for years as a kid. So yes her saying she scares Thomas is alarming, she may think it’s innocent but if she does this to the kids that’s a problem. I sure hope someone is advising kathryn to get full custody. I am worried for those kids. If theres anyone in Santa Barbara who really cares about Ashley they will tell her to stay away from Thomas and stay in california.

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    • NeverBeenJaxed says

      July 28, 2018 at 12:52 pm

      @Engineer everything that twatwaffle says is suspicious and she sounds chronically constipated to boot. If it were me, I’d be at the Magistrate’s courtroom ASAP getting at the very least a RO. I just read the S.C. rules for obtaining one and Kathryn would qualify no problem. It’s all been documented and I’m sure KD is aware. Kat is not stupid. I just hope it’s granted before something truly terrible happens.

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    • scottishwitch says

      July 28, 2018 at 1:36 pm

      Yes, EngineerTaking. You make an excellent point. Ashley’s comment about “throwing” the kids on the couch or the bed – at their request! – really bothered me. I have never “thrown” my child or any child. But I have seen people who “throw” children, and it is often when they have a secret hostility toward them or are even jealous of them. And the child may put up with that subliminal hostility because they are so young, feel unprotected, and want attention, and they are easily manipulated. Or they may even feel worthless and that no one will defend them- so what is the point of not participating? They are too young to do otherwise and the power to manipulate is all with the adult. Sometimes the child gets hurt and then the adult says – “But they loved it!” “It is just “rough housing”! and then they say “they were only kidding”… hahaha… But the child can end up traumatized or even physically endangered or injured. My blood is starting to boil. And there sits TRav with Ashley saying she determines how long his toenails stay painted orange, because she is “the boss”. What is someone who appears to be filled with so much hatred for the mother of 2 children capable of? Especially toward a little girl who looks just like her mother? Imo, Kathryn needs full custody asap. The court needs to be read the riot act.

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      • KathyD says

        July 28, 2018 at 2:05 pm

        I feel frustrated that everyone is turning a blind eye to some very serious behavior.
        In general the people I know (past family) who love to scare/tease/upset/get a rise out of people are secretly hostile. A friend loved to tickle his grandkids until they begged him to stop. I told him it taught the kids to overpower others and force the tortured to laugh about it.
        I see so many wrongs here, televised!
        Hoping the children can be protected.

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      • MOMZILLA says

        July 29, 2018 at 3:14 am

        I pray to God Kathryn gets full custody and the only time Thomas can see the children is through supervise visits.

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    • Nanette says

      July 29, 2018 at 1:18 am

      All that stuff she claimed the kids said sounded more like an adult (or should I say someone old enough to be an adult?) talking baby talk and not what kids would say.

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    • Mackie40 says

      July 29, 2018 at 4:03 am

      Yes, totally inappropriate to be throwing children around! They are not toys. I have always thought Thomas used his children to promote his image – he seems to treat them as valuable assets rather than children. His nanny does the actual care.

      It is real negligence and arrogance for Thomas to allow Ashley to play so carelessly with the children, and to even be around them.

      Her claim to having a sense of humor others do not understand is ridiculous. She is not funny. She is using this nonsense to cover a multitude of bad behavior.

      An adult woman and trained nurse playing tricks like jumping out at people and putting fake bugs under pillows, etc, and being proud of it, is very disturbing. She should not have access to Kathryn’s children.

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    • radchick says

      July 29, 2018 at 8:33 am

      If that’s Ashley’s idea of having fun with Saint and Kenzie, one can only wonder what she does with them when no one’s watching.

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    • EDub says

      July 29, 2018 at 10:41 am

      I guess I was the only one who didn’t really think anything wrong with the throwing the kids comment. My husband tosses the kids on the bed, or in the air in pool and they have a blast and love stuff like that.

      HOWEVER, I guess you have to look at the source. She doesn’t look strong enough to me to lift a child to play with them in that manner. I just can’t picture her rough housing with them.

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      • Navymommy says

        July 29, 2018 at 11:44 am

        Me, too, Edub. Our adored older cousin used to toss us into the pool and we LOVED it and begged for it. We were excellent swimmers and it was 20’x40’ and he would aim us into the middle of the deep end. Ashley, on the other hand, is probably a real passive-aggressive bitch with them. They look just like their mother.

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        • scottishwitch says

          July 29, 2018 at 12:20 pm

          We are not talking about being tossed into a pool of water – and sometimes that goes very badly – when no one knew the water was too shallow or their head hit the edge of the diving board or concrete side – we are talking about someone who expresses hatred and severe competition toward the mother of two children, who appears emotionally unstable on camera, “throwing” them onto beds or couches allegedly on a regular basis. Never ever did I ever do that in all my days of babysitiing and when raising my own child. Imo, it is too aggressive and unsafe, with subcurrents of hostility. If a nanny was throwing my child onto a bed or a couch – she would be fired on the spot for being a brutish idiot and I would feel that she was demeaning and devaluing my child and setting her up to subliminally internalize rough handling as something to be expected. I would not tolerate it for one second.

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          • Sam says

            July 29, 2018 at 1:21 pm

            JFC. No. You’re making Ashley look sane, you know.

            I’m going to have to stay out of the comment section for this show. This shit is ridiculous. All you stalkers are giving that loony all the attention she so desires, all over social media. Good job.

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            • scottishwitch says

              July 29, 2018 at 4:09 pm

              Sam, or whoever you are, you singled out me and Mackie40 last week for what you called our “ENDLESS (caps yours) mooshy, gooshy, ooshy, lovie, dovie mommy posts about Kathryn” – as being “off the chain”. Clearly you have an issue. And given your use of words, I am not sure you are the best judge of what does or does not “appear sane”. By the way, are you Sam the man? Because you sound like a mansplainer who likes to put women in their place.

            • EnglishRose says

              July 29, 2018 at 4:25 pm

              To call the commenters on this site “stalkers” is complete and utter bullshit. Ashley has put herself in the limelight and, by virtue of being on Southern Charm, she gets all the publicity she could possibly want. It’s our right to react to her unbelievably spiteful and delusional behavior and, in doing so, we’re not gratifying her in any way. Quite the opposite. When she’s no longer with TRav or on the show spouting her pathetic rhetoric, she’ll fade into oblivion, where she belongs.

            • Mackie40 says

              July 29, 2018 at 5:00 pm

              LOL Scottish! I missed “off the chain”. Sam is maybe one of Ashley’s Pitbulls. He sounds unsettled, at best. No idea of what free speech is. Even our dog, which happens to be a Scottish breed, would not know a chain if he saw one. 😂😂

            • Sam says

              July 31, 2018 at 9:52 am

              Meow meow meow meow. Meow. Meow meow meow. Meow meow meow meow. Meow. Meow meow meow meow. Meoooow. Mew mew mew. Meow.

            • scottishwitch says

              July 31, 2018 at 9:56 pm

              Oh, Sam, just thought you should know that Forbes- yes- Forbes! has a wonderfully laudatory article on Kathryn – saying what a singular inspiration she is! Their language nearly waxes poetic! Enjoy!

  37. NeverBeenJaxed says

    July 28, 2018 at 1:03 pm

    I’m extremely curious to know exactly what was said to the club and promoters in order for them to issue a statement containing the verbiage that having AJ there would compromise the safety of their guests. Even if that’s not what they meant, that’s how I interpreted it. Very curious.

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    • KathyD says

      July 28, 2018 at 1:59 pm

      Agree. Baffled why she was even considered a Pride-friendly guest. Never saw her particularly behave like an ally.
      Then to withdraw the invite, with a strangely-worded explanation, is odd.
      Maybe someone from the area who knows her well said something.

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    • Calipatti says

      July 29, 2018 at 6:53 am

      Jaxed, about Ashley sendingbin stity to People mag. posdibju sfe became aware that threatening Kat on camera was stupid so she sends in a sweet letter about wanting to be friends with Kathryn.
      Called CYA in case it’s needed.

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  38. beekay says

    July 28, 2018 at 5:17 pm

    A very telling comment from Ashley was how wonderful it was that Thomas asked her what she does for a living. What bizarre world had she been socializing in where nobody asks her what she does for a living? I really think that points to it being a setting where her being an escort was implied. Where else would you be among strangers and not expect anyone to ask you what you do?

    Note that she described her last three boyfriends by their occupations (bartender, waiter, surfer). People do often say someone’s occupation. Charisse was dating a fireman. Thomas is dating a nurse. “I know a single doctor I want to introduce you to.” It’s not a deeply insightful question to find out what someone does for a living.

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    • Mackie40 says

      July 29, 2018 at 4:12 am

      Truly pathetic. She is not an astronaut or anything remarkable, much and all as nurses are generally wonderful people. Thomas was probably laughing up his sleeve as he greased up to her.

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  39. Karen K says

    July 28, 2018 at 8:38 pm

    Another take on Ashley “scaring”Thomas is that she is hiding in the room listening on in phone conversations and he finds her and she covers by saying she is trying to scare him. She goes though all his mail, email, photos, phone , files , bills everything!!

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  40. scottishwitch says

    July 28, 2018 at 9:08 pm

    Ashley has pics up of herself in Cali. She looks much much happier there. She should stay there.

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  41. Lb says

    July 28, 2018 at 9:37 pm

    Very glad there are people who remember m. Vicks. Yeah. When that dumb ass wanted a pet for his child cause it was unfair to her, I flipped my shit. He’s lucky he has a job and not still in jail. Dumb ass. The entitlement of some people. Guess it’s not limited to s.charm

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  42. Mackie40 says

    July 28, 2018 at 10:52 pm

    Ashley looks happy in the California photo she has posted of herself with her mother because it is an OLD PHOTO. Take a look at the length of her hair, then in the recent “nurse in pink outfit” she posted just recently.

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    • scottishwitch says

      July 28, 2018 at 11:08 pm

      Oh, gosh, Mackie40. Thanks. I mistakenly thought it was a current photo and was hoping she would realize she should stay out there. In any case, she certainly looked a lot healthier when she lived in SB than she does now.

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      • Mackie40 says

        July 29, 2018 at 12:31 am

        Definitely! I think the old photo with her mother was to counter recent rumours her family is not getting on well with Ashley lately.

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    • Kipper says

      July 29, 2018 at 12:35 am

      And her lips, huge difference!

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      • Mackie40 says

        July 29, 2018 at 2:54 am

        Yes!

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    • NeverBeenJaxed says

      July 29, 2018 at 4:25 am

      @Mackie that’s what I thought too. Her hair color and the fullness of her face/lips. It’s definitely an old photo for sure. Damage control. Maybe she and Thomas got discount from his crisis manager.

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      • Mackie40 says

        July 29, 2018 at 4:29 am

        Very possible. There is nothing truthful about Ashley.

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        • scottishwitch says

          July 29, 2018 at 12:25 pm

          Mackie40, NeverBeen Jaxed and Kipper – You are all so spot on!

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          • Mackie40 says

            July 29, 2018 at 12:50 pm

            Take a look at the photo of her sweet self with the disabled people. Also an oldie. This woman’s manipulation never ends.

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    • THE LakeLady says

      July 29, 2018 at 7:42 am

      It was the hair that I focused in on too. The color is different and then compare the dark roots in the pics included in her insta-story vs the roots in the picture with her mother. Also her face in the picture with her mother is much fuller than in those in her story.

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  43. Nanette says

    July 29, 2018 at 1:21 am

    I think I will just steal Shep’s words: I HATE her.

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  44. notanescort says

    July 29, 2018 at 2:47 pm

    Ashley is obviously very, very, mentally ill. Sadder yet is the fact that she thinks she’s perfectly healthy, and that Katherine is the messed up one. Is Ashley projecting all of her imental health issues on to
    Kathryn as a way of avoiding getting the help she needs?

    I happened to re-watch the first season of Southern Charmed yesterday and remembered that. “Jenna” was a “friend” of Whitney that he ran across, or brought back with him from Los Angeles. Jenna was the sugar baby of some rich guy name Lou from NYC, no? Then that Landon chick rolled up on the scene, via Los Angeles, in season 2 ( or 3 ?) …and she, supposedly, was a “good” friend of Shep’s or Whitney’s and she too was sugar baby wife of some old(er) man of means. Now Ashley is the current paramour of Thomas who is also from Los Angeles (, er, I mean, Santa Barbara) who currently works in the same vocation as Jenna and Landon. ? I guess my question is/are 1.What is with all of these prostitutes washing ashore and becoming part of the “Southern Charm” cast? 2. Since Whitney is the show’s executive producer, is he the one responsible for scouting new talent? Would that make Whitney a pimp if he’s the one responsible for scouting and hiring them?

    ….just wondering…

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  45. notanescort says

    July 29, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Ashley is obviously very, very, mentally ill. Sadder yet is the fact that she thinks she’s perfectly healthy, and that Katherine is the messed up one. Is Ashley projecting all of her imental health issues on to
    Kathryn as a way of avoiding getting the help she needs?

    I happened to re-watch the first season of Southern Charmed yesterday and remembered that. “Jenna” was a “friend” of Whitney that he ran across, or brought back with him from Los Angeles. Jenna was the sugar baby of some rich guy name Lou from NYC, no? Then that Landon chick rolled up on the scene, via Los Angeles, in season 2 ( or 3 ?) …and she, supposedly, was a “good” friend of Shep’s or Whitney’s and she too was sugar baby wife of some old(er) man of means. Now Ashley is the current paramour of Thomas who is also from Los Angeles (, er, I mean, Santa Barbara) who currently works in the same vocation as Jenna and Landon. ? I guess my question is/are 1.What is with all of these prostitutes washing ashore and a main cast members of “Southern Charm” 2. Since Whitney is the one finding these “working girls” , would that make him a pimp, or a John?

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  46. JiilyAnne says

    July 29, 2018 at 5:21 pm

    My thoughts on Ashley – she was a bought and paid for escort who specializes in being a dominatrix and Thomas is into being dominated due to issues with his mommy – that is also why he hates women in general and treats them like crap. I think Ashley’s “funds” will be cut off and hopefully she will be sent packing back to California permanently now that the season and reunion is over – that is my hope, given I truly believe Ashley is more than capable of whispering horrible things in those two little babies’ ears about their mommy. I’d ideally like to see both Trav and Ashley being drug-tested frequently, but I truly believe the judge was paid off from the get-go by Trav’s family’s old Southern money and that’s why he’s still able to get away with having her drug-tested 3 times a freaking week – that is pure abuse right there and no judge that isn’t being paid off would ever go for that kind of abuse.

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  47. JiilyAnne says

    July 29, 2018 at 5:34 pm

    My dominatrix comment stems from the way Ashley constantly ordered Thomas around, painted his toenails, and then her admitting to all the “scary games” she “plays” with him – it’s all part of the dominatrix handbook and trust me when I say I know way more about the dominatrix handbook of crap than I ever wanted to and men who love to be dominated by women (long personal story I won’t get into here, but suffice it to say I had a very similar situation with a soon-to-be-ex that was not made apparent to me until there was concrete evidence of what was really going on) – Thomas gets off (pardon the usage of that phrase) on it completely – the way he treated Kathryn and the women he has allegedly sexually abused and harassed is how he truly feels about women in general – they are there for him to torture and humiliate, but as far as what turns him on in bed, I truly believe he loves domination and that’s exactly what Ashley brought to the table (I would not be surprised if she did sign a contract for her services, as well as the NDA that Kathryn mentioned in Part 2 of the reunion show).

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    • Mackie40 says

      July 29, 2018 at 5:53 pm

      I think there was always something about the nature of her OTT PDAs that also indicates domination.

      She is the one who insists on initiating PDAs. Then at the ball she was way Hong his every move and issuing public commands in a talking down way.

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      • Mackie40 says

        July 29, 2018 at 5:54 pm

        Watching his every move

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  48. Pastry says

    July 30, 2018 at 12:53 am

    Ashley is unstable and needs to be under psychological care. It’s concerning that her immediate family or friends have not held an intervention to get her the help she needs. She scares me…

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    • Mackie40 says

      July 30, 2018 at 5:02 pm

      Unfortunately Ashley is in total denial.

      She is in cover-up mode – posting OLD pictures from when she was normal weight and had longer hair than since her after reunion hair cut.

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  49. LaLaFly says

    July 30, 2018 at 1:24 am

    It’s a testament to the maturity of the Southern Charm cast that they didn’t go full-tilt boogie all over Ashley’s scrawny ass. It really looks like these people now know and believe that Ravenel is capable of abuse, cruelty, and that he uses drugs along with that behavior to bring people to ruin. Jacobs is literally withering away in front of our eyes.
    Besides being a danger to others, she is actually in a dangerous situation herself if it’s true that she’s gathered information on Ravenel that could damage him socially and/or legally. If she’s blackmailing him she has certainly put herself in a precarious situation because she’s incapable of keeping anything straight right now.
    Her cognitive ability seems to be slipping and I worry not only for her, but also for her patients if she is really still working as a nurse. She has certainly broken HIPPAA regulations more than once and I am hopeful that her being in California means she has lost her nursing license in South Carolina. She can’t fucking take care of herself right now and she has no business attempting to take care of others right now.
    She is obsessed with Kathryn. Kathryn’s children should not be around Jacobs at all. I have to believe that Ravenel is keeping Jacobs away from the children and that’s why Kathryn has not tried to get a restraining order. At least I hope that’s the situation. And here’s to hoping Jacobs stays in Cali and does not make the trek back east.
    And let us all hope that Kathryn is granted full custody very, very soon. That simply cannot happen fast enough right now.

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  50. LaLaFly says

    July 30, 2018 at 11:43 am

    Another site has dropped a blind that alludes to Jacobs being seen with another man at a recently renovated hotel. The blind says she just met the guy a couple of hours earlier so is she off of Ravenel’s payroll and on to the next trick?

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  51. jennyjennybobinny says

    July 30, 2018 at 10:50 pm

    maybe an interesting tidbit…I got bored today and snooped around the internet…apparently Ashley’s mom and stepdad had a business called “HOOZDABOSS blessings”. And then I saw some newspaper in Santa Barbara had it tagged as a “Fictitious Business”. very interesting….Origins of her statement in HH?

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  52. JiilyAnne says

    July 31, 2018 at 12:14 pm

    LaLaFly – I read that too – said her and Thomas had “broken up” and also talked about her possibly being an escort and was only brought to Charleston via a contract with Thomas to act like his girlfriend and the gig was up after the reunion – my guess is that she’s been paid in full and her services are no longer required. While Thomas may be enamored with the whole dominatrix thing, she’s way too psycho for even him and he’s certainly a far worse individual himself, a narcissistic abusive alcoholic a-hole.

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    • radchick says

      August 1, 2018 at 6:09 pm

      Do you think Ashley will acknowledge she had a contract (allegedly) and her behavior was a part of it? That Thomas paid her to say and do those things? Saying what a great “actress” she is?

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      • jennyjennybobinny says

        August 1, 2018 at 6:16 pm

        prolly not if there is a nondisclosure attached with the contract.

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  53. scottishwitch says

    July 31, 2018 at 9:48 pm

    Forbes.com has an amazing article on Kathryn as being an inspiration to so many. Wonderful article.

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    • Mackie40 says

      July 31, 2018 at 10:04 pm

      This particular media comment above all is likely to be a shock to Thomas. Kathryn has “arrived” despite his best efforts to spread malicious gossip about her.

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    • Mackie40 says

      July 31, 2018 at 10:04 pm

      This particular media comment above all is likely to be a shock to Thomas. Kathryn has “arrived” despite his best efforts to spread malicious gossip about her.

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      • Mackie40 says

        July 31, 2018 at 10:05 pm

        Sorry, somehow achieved a double post!!

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        • scottishwitch says

          July 31, 2018 at 10:26 pm

          Mackie40:
          It’s great you double posted! The article was so admiring of Kathryn it was almost like a political endorsement! It was phenomenal! And in Forbes! TRav could only dream of that kind of coverage. So who is “socially not good enough” for TRav now? And the court should read that article, and Kathryn’s children will read it too in the not too distant future and be so proud of their momma. Just keep jealous Ashley far away from them, and give Kathryn full custody. She deserves it.

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          • Mackie40 says

            July 31, 2018 at 10:34 pm

            YESS, exactly!! For a multi-millionaire to read in Forbes a glowing endorsement of the woman he hid away and then spurned as not good enough for him is just priceless!! 😀 Good for Kathryn!! 💖

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    • Kipper says

      July 31, 2018 at 11:51 pm

      I haven’t read the article yet and I will immediately but just hearing about this is amazing! My brain is stuttering just thinking into all the angles and shoot offs about how positively this effects and reflects on and into every aspect of her life. This is HUGE!
      Ummm, “Kathryn” is what winning looks like!

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    • KathyD says

      August 1, 2018 at 1:14 am

      I was floored when I saw that Forbes (of all magazines) did that nice opinion piece on Kathryn.
      Not at all what I was expecting.

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      • Kipper says

        August 1, 2018 at 1:54 am

        Quick and neat article describes the lows, the struggles, the work and now redemption. I’m happy for her.

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      • tamaratattles says

        August 1, 2018 at 12:48 pm

        I’m debating whether or not I should burst your bubbles about the “Forbes article”

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        • Barbara R says

          August 1, 2018 at 1:02 pm

          Yes, please do.

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        • Floridagirl says

          August 1, 2018 at 1:07 pm

          Yes, absolutely give us the scoop!!

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  54. JiilyAnne says

    August 1, 2018 at 2:37 am

    I just had a thought tonight (yeah, it scared me too – ha-ha)………….Let’s just irresponsibly speculate for a brief moment tat T-Rave hired Ashley out in California to be his live-in fake girlfriend, and personal dominatrix, with specific instructions to her that she was to cause as much drama as possible for Kathryn. Here is my supposition (and again yeah, having lived with a sociopath and a narcissist in two previous relationships, my mind is probably more twisted than most): It crossed my mind that since even before Trashley arrived, kathryn had been doing well, passing drug tests then just done once a month with flying colors, and keeping her nose clean – that had to irritate the holy hell out of him because how dare her look like a responsible parent, while he’s raging, attacking/raping (allegedly) women, being verbally abusive to even the very few circle from Southern Charm women (and men) too, so maybe the Ashley plot he cooked up was twofold: 1) Cause as much anxiety, stress, possible anger episodes, and then step up the drug tests to 3 times weekly in the hopes of Kathryn cracking under all the pressure from T-Rav himself, from Ashley, and from the combo of T-Rav/Ashley – that way, he could secure she would never get custody back for a really long time. 2) Ashley had experience out in California (allegedly again) of being an escort who specializes in domination/role-playing, so while they’re torturing Kathryn and trying to cause her to break and/or slip up and use substances, he can have some fun with his paid-for hooker/escort/Mistress Tashley while he’s at it, be cause hey, what better way to pass his time – plenty of booze, perhaps some other illicit substances for both of them, and also, some slave/domme training/sex along with it. Am I really this twisted to think this could be a thing or is it possible at all? I can’t be the only one who feels this way, right? 😀

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    • scottishwitch says

      August 1, 2018 at 5:54 am

      Well, we saw that he never intervened to stop Ashley’s horrible attacks on Kathryn, even when Ashley brought the children and Kathryn’s mothering into it, and we saw his s*it eating grin when they were first introduced, and we saw Ashley being the boss of him on many occasions, and didn’t he allegedly remark somewhere that he was surprised Kathryn was still passing her drug tests or words to that effect? His behavior has been just so sad. And the Forbes article was right, I know several young women for whom Kathryn has been a wonderful inspiration for sobriety and getting their lives together.

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    • jennyjennybobinny says

      August 1, 2018 at 6:13 pm

      nope…completely legit thoughts! AND don’t forget Kathryn made him get rid of his fav nanny Deirdre and her lovely, nubile 19 yr old daughter! that also prolly pissed Thomas off!

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  55. LaLaFly says

    August 1, 2018 at 7:57 am

    The Forbes article is wonderful for Kathryn. She deserves it.
    @JillyAnne: I totally agree with you!

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  56. KelnLola says

    August 1, 2018 at 1:56 pm

    Has anyone wondered Why Thomas is so desperate for full time custody? I mean to hire someone, allegedly to torture Kathryn. It just seems that it isn’t out of worry that Kat is a bad mother bc she’s so great with her babies. It isn’t bc Thomas just loves those babies so much, since they are raised by nannies.
    I mean is there something in Thomas’ fathers will that says he has to have a boy and a girl with great bloodlines and he has to have them fulltime or he doesn’t get his inheritance?
    What is driving Thomas desperate attempts at completely removing Kathryn from the picture? I would be terrified if I were Kathryn.

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    • JiilyAnne says

      August 1, 2018 at 5:28 pm

      Allegedly, from what I’ve read elsewhere, Thomas had severe issues with his momma – now, he gets off on torturing them, making them feel insane, talking about them behind their back and bad-mouthing them, drug-screening Kathryn 3 times a week out of sheer spite, etc….the list is endless – he is compelled to punish women that he has feelings for. See, I don’t think he has any feelings whatsoever for Ashley, because she’s basically a purchased service, a hired hand he brought back from Cali to be his on-screen “love interest” so he doesn’t look like the loser he really is during filming, plus it would be convenient if part of her resume is that she does the whole dominatrix (because his need to be dominated sexually would also stem from his mommy issues too) – it’s only the women he slightly has any feelings for that he REALLY wants to make 100% miserable. The raping women is just another part of his sick psychopathy.

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  57. KelnLola says

    August 1, 2018 at 2:03 pm

    Sorry about the bc ….beacuse.

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  58. scottishwitch says

    August 2, 2018 at 1:57 pm

    Ok, so Ashley had an IG livestream with a friend of hers yesterday from the beach in SB, with her friend saying how wonderful AJ is, and today has this long posting on her IG commenting at one point, “I am humbled”. Sound familiar? Kathryn used those words on her IG
    a few times when people told her she was an inspiration. And Ashley’s post is after the Forbes article on Kathryn – like Ashley wants to try to make herself into the new “transforming” person whose path we should follow on TV.
    When is Ashley going to stop trying to best Kathryn while seemingly trying to confuse and mindeff everyone? I hope this is not her manipulative attempt to try to get back on Bravo — because imo she is one of those cast members people “hate to hate” that Bravo knows to let go.

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    • jennyjennybobinny says

      August 2, 2018 at 2:17 pm

      Hey Scottie! and I am pretty damn sure Ashley didn’t write that long diatribe either. It is way too grammatically correct for it to be her handiwork.

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  59. scottishwitch says

    August 2, 2018 at 1:59 pm

    And allegedly she was never actually a “cast member”?

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  60. scottishwitch says

    August 7, 2018 at 6:05 pm

    Ugghhh… According to that place of reportage, maybe rhymes with “Sits Pews”, Ashley and Thomas have allegedly been spotted together again on Edisto Island (there are photos) and are allegedly staying at Brookland Plantation. Geeze Louise. Some people are like your great grandma’s ancient fruitcake – they just keep coming back around, no matter what.

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