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Blind Item: Sex, Lies & Videotape

July 3, 2018 by tamaratattles 157 Comments

This blind item is exclusively sourced by Tamara Tattles and must be cited and properly linked to if sampled on other sites. 

This reality show pair has cut ties again. This time they have been apart for just over a month. He’s still paying her expenses though and they are trying to keep up appearances for the time being.

A few months ago, he got into a bit of hot water. He hired a crisis management team and PI firm. The crisis managers refuse to take the job if he didn’t hand over his social media passwords. He did and has not posted on his social media since sources tell Tamara Tattles. Meanwhile, the crisis manager changed all the passwords and started posting photos of his children, him going to church, him with his father and with his mother, and some random dying kid with a go fund me. I mean that is not obvious at all. Her social media has become increasingly erratic during this time and it seems like lots of his vitriol toward those he feels have betrayed him is coming out on the social media. At the very least he seems to be directing the narrative on her accounts at times. The crisis manager(s) are aware of this and becoming increasingly frustrated. She’s being paid to provide someone to point to as a long-term relationship, but a recent erratic spewing of vitriol over the course of multiple days is damaging that plan as well. She doesn’t really care, she’ll be paid anyway. Allegedly, she has a sex tape that she is using as her ace in the hole to avoid working. That will work until the multiple police investigations are resolved.

There is more, but for now I will leave you with news about the shady PI. He has a history with the male antagonist of this blind. Allegedly, he was previously hired to follow and collect intel on people the male subject previously had contentious relationships with. Sources tell TamaraTattles that his methodology is less than ethical and could cause even more problems than he is trying to solve.

But the real kicker? Many years ago, the male subject of this blind left a woman at the altar. That woman is married to the shady PI.

I CAN’T BELIEVE I HAVE TO SAY THIS, BUT DO NOT SPECULATE ON NAMES OF THE PI OR THE WOMAN LEFT AT THE ALTAR. THEY DID NOT SIGN UP FOR THE PUBLIC SCRUTINY OF A REALITY SHOW! 

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  1. Eva says

    July 3, 2018 at 9:39 pm

    Loved the “sex ,lies and videotape “ movie when it first came out and now it seems “dated”.
    Thomas and Ashley from Southern Charm. I’m starting to get sick of that BS couple!

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  2. bravofreak says

    July 3, 2018 at 9:40 pm

    I’m awful at these but here goes-T. Rav?

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  3. jennifer says

    July 3, 2018 at 9:40 pm

    thomas and ashley, freefalling

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  4. mystrox says

    July 3, 2018 at 9:52 pm

    Trav and Ashley

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  5. Warrior says

    July 3, 2018 at 9:56 pm

    This is the toxic twosome A and TR from SC. Just psychotic. People are trying to live good honest lives here — thinking of Kathryn and select others, while Ashley spews vitriol like Linda Blair and green pea soup in The Exorcist,

    OMG, is the wife of the shady PI the “beer / golf cart girl” that TR expressed extreme remorse about in a prior season?

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    • scottishwitch says

      July 3, 2018 at 10:08 pm

      Warrior, omg, I am laughing and I needed a laugh today! Thank you so much! Because Ashley does conjure up images of Linda Blair and green pea soup! The crazed eyes, the verbal mayhem, and the way she distorts the shape of her mouth when she speaks – it’s almost like a physical weapon.

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      • Warrior says

        July 3, 2018 at 10:26 pm

        I aim to please 😁

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  6. Cjourney says

    July 3, 2018 at 9:58 pm

    *sigh*

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  7. SaraKat says

    July 3, 2018 at 10:00 pm

    Thomas and Ashley, Southern Charm

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  8. SashaV says

    July 3, 2018 at 10:01 pm

    Can’t wait for the rest of the tea…..thanks TT and Happy 4th. Thinking of Banjo and the fireworks. Hope you both survive the holiday!

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  9. Allaboutheidi says

    July 3, 2018 at 10:02 pm

    Thomas and Ashley yes but what is this about a PI? Color me interested. Who is the woman he ditched at the altar? Was this the relationship he was referring to in a season 1? Omg. So many questions. Great blind TT.

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    • Demi says

      July 4, 2018 at 11:52 am

      I think it was season 1 at one of Trav’s dinner parties. He revealed with Kathryn sitting next to him that he left a woman at the altar. He mailed her a check as an apology, she mailed it back torn up. She was supposedly the love of his life. And he said in front of Kathryn, he’d take her back in a heart beat. I only know this because Bravo re-ran this episode last month. LOL. I still don’t understand why Trav can’t just pay Trashley off and send her back to California (not that we want her). It’s all very illogical, something doesn’t quite add up. Perhaps the blackmail she has on him is a lot more than the tape, or she wants a HUGE payout. Here he was so cheap with Kathryn, the mother of his 2 kids, and now he’s spending thousands on this lunatic.

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      • beekay says

        July 4, 2018 at 12:36 pm

        In the early days, back on Johnny Carson’s show, Joan Rivers had a long set about first wives compared to second wives. Although neither Kathryn nor Ashley were TRav’s wives, the comparison rings true.

        She was advising women to act like a second wife, even if they were the first wife! Don’t shiver in a cloth coat. Demand the fur coat that he would buy for a second wife. Stop being frugal and so grateful for the little cloth coat. If you don’t spend it, his second wife will!

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  10. Karen Kennedy says

    July 3, 2018 at 10:03 pm

    How is a sex tape ammunition when it’s 2 consenting adults that have been dating for months?

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    • Ms Rufus Ragdoll says

      July 3, 2018 at 10:18 pm

      Well what if it not with a consenting adult? Or not even with a woman? It’s clearly something the man doesn’t want to get out ……

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      • Lisak says

        July 3, 2018 at 11:35 pm

        That’s what I was thinking. This has gone from something interesting to follow to just plain insane and out of control. If Ashley was my daughter I’d be on a plane bringing her back to get some serious help.

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      • Joy Gingerich says

        July 4, 2018 at 3:18 am

        Or not just two!

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    • SaraKat says

      July 3, 2018 at 11:38 pm

      I thought I’d read something somewhere about a sex tape involving a threesome, sex toys and drugs…if this is indeed the same sex tape, no wonder Ashley thinks that’s her ace in the hole.

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      • Southern Girl says

        July 4, 2018 at 9:46 am

        Bingo

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      • Southern Girl says

        July 4, 2018 at 9:47 am

        Oh and the male is dressed in drag I believe. So yea. He’s pretty much screwed.

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        • VASC says

          July 4, 2018 at 2:17 pm

          Maybe the male in drag is Trav.

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          • Karen Kennedy says

            July 4, 2018 at 6:39 pm

            Sex in a threesome in drag is embarrassing but not illegal. I think there must be some drugs involved that has Thomas’ white pants in a bunch!

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            • Nanette says

              July 5, 2018 at 9:57 pm

              Maybe that is why he wears white pants — if he sips white powder it doesn’t show up.

            • Mackie40 says

              July 6, 2018 at 2:59 am

              I was looking again today at a rather disturbing (to me) video Ashley posted on 28 April of her and Thomas mucking around and Thomas obviously affected by some substance. He was very giggly and struggled to get out the words “hot-blooded”.Thomas appeared to be naked on top half at least. Perhaps they videoed themselves doing odd stuff quite frequently.

            • sharitags says

              July 6, 2018 at 10:00 am

              with Kathryn losing access to her kids due to drug-related stuff, imagine if T Rav was found to be doing the same thing?!

          • Nanette says

            July 5, 2018 at 10:00 pm

            Think of that weasel fac he made when he was yelling at Chelsea. Now picture it with makeup and a wig. (Sorry.)

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        • Twilly says

          July 4, 2018 at 2:22 pm

          It’s not like he’s well-respected and thought highly of. Just let her release the tape, own your role in it and be done with her, TRav! The world already thinks you’re an asshole.

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          • EnglishRose says

            July 4, 2018 at 2:32 pm

            That’s probably the best advice anyone could ever give him, but with his inflated sense of self-importance and unwillingness to acknowledge what an asshole he is, I doubt he’d take it.

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            • KathyD says

              July 4, 2018 at 11:46 pm

              His family would not be happy. In my personal opinion, he wanted to get caught for the thrill of being “naughty”.

          • Mmmmia says

            July 4, 2018 at 11:04 pm

            Ashley is so deeply disliked, if she released a sex tape I think it might garner him more sympathy, regardless of how unconventional or kinky. Much more people are open minded about sex than he might realize. I think he might only end up worse off if it was not consensual sex.

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            • Dianne says

              July 5, 2018 at 4:24 pm

              Or a minor

          • Katiebug says

            July 6, 2018 at 5:56 pm

            Does anyone know when this video was filmed?

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    • Demi says

      July 4, 2018 at 11:55 am

      What I read was it’s 2 women and Trav on the tape. Who knows what else they’re doing on the tape – drugs? He’ll lose his kids for good if it’s drugs. He’s a convicted felon. That’s probably why he’s sh*tting his ill fitting white jeans. I’m glad he is off SC. I can’t stand another look at him in those white jeans. He’s way too old and chunky.

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    • MuffinTop says

      July 4, 2018 at 12:04 pm

      Would you want a sex tape on the internet?

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      • Mmmmia says

        July 4, 2018 at 11:08 pm

        Of course not. But I work for other people. His livelihood wouldn’t be threatened. It would be horrific, no doubt, but it seems better than having an evil person blackmailing you. Can’t his lawyers slap her with something for blackmail?

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        • Melizaaa says

          July 5, 2018 at 3:04 am

          She could be charged criminally for sure, if he could link the leak back to her. I don’t think it would be too hard

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    • beekay says

      July 4, 2018 at 12:42 pm

      All of these suggestions of his perversions are possible. One I haven’t seen mentioned is if he likes to be dominated. I know it seems far-fetched because he’s such a bully but someone on here commented about his demeanor when Ashley was asking “Who’s the boss? You’ll (…blah…blah) when I say you will.”

      I’ve read that powerful men are the ones who like to be submissive in sexual role-play~ although they are actually the ones still in control by telling her what to say, how far to go. And that it’s men who have little power in their work-place who like to role-play dominant behavior.

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      • Creampuff says

        July 5, 2018 at 2:47 pm

        Well Ashley keeps telling hThomas and everyone that will listen (Shep), that she’s the boss. So maybe you’re right about Dom/Sub roles in sex play.

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    • Cara says

      July 6, 2018 at 9:11 pm

      Because if you put it out on the internet, everybody would see you naked and doing “that face”? Gah.

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  11. Samantha says

    July 3, 2018 at 10:04 pm

    Definitely Thomas and Ashley from southern charm. I could see this coming from a mile away.

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  12. KathyD says

    July 3, 2018 at 10:13 pm

    *passing out from an overdose of sweet, sweet tea*
    Thank you TT. Hoping Banjo is ok. I have one dog in my lap, big dog is in hiding under table, shihtzu buried deep in her bed. Chickens “bawk!” with every boom. And this is just the local fireworks.
    Heaven help us. I need bourbon.

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  13. Mackie40 says

    July 3, 2018 at 10:46 pm

    Thomas and Ashley. I wonder just how much sordid their story can possibly get. They really are lowlifes.

    What a ghastly situation for Kathryn and her family to be putting up with meantime! How can she ever sleep easy at night? She is doing so well to keep a good face on things while everything plays out.

    Hope Banjo is OK tonight with the fireworks and that people are considerate with them. Our dog is terrified of fireworks and sometimes stuff lands in the yard that has to be grabbed fast in the morning before he can wrap his choppers around it.

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  14. LiveOakShade says

    July 3, 2018 at 10:49 pm

    So the chick Thomas left at the alter married the PI lol.

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  15. Sundayhare3 says

    July 3, 2018 at 10:54 pm

    Is Thomas mother still alive? I have seen his Dad but don’t think I have seen/heard much about her.

    What a twist of fate about P.I

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    • Meemo says

      July 4, 2018 at 5:02 am

      Yes he also posted a photo of her at the nursing home.

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  16. LaLaFly says

    July 3, 2018 at 11:08 pm

    Whoa! What a freaking mess. Looks like Ashley has not only insider info about T-rav but also has a sex tape that’s so nasty it might hurt Mr. Ravenel? We all know how bad it’s got to be to be detrimental to someone…
    We have been getting booming thunderstorms the past two days and nights and my kitty cats are already in Fred-out mode for tomorrow. Sending love to you and Banjo for the 4th!

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    • EnglishRose says

      July 4, 2018 at 1:29 am

      I know it’s no fun for animals who’re scared of thunder and other loud noises, but I’d give just about anything to have some great thunderstorms right around now. We very rarely get them on the CA coast, and when they do come they’re puny excuses for a real storm – just some distant thunder and lighting out at sea usually. When I was a kid in England, we used to get summer thunderstorms, without rain, that were so loud you had to cover your ears. My mother got it into her head that we were safer downstairs and used to have my dad drag mattresses into the drawing room so we could sleep there. It was fun. Another time, about ten years ago, I was visiting my brother in England and they kept forecasting huge thunderstorms, but nothing happened. The night, after I flew out of Heathrow, they had one of the hugest ones they had experienced in years. I completely missed it. Anyway, hope all your pets are fine – it’s so hard to comfort them when they’re scared, but still try to enjoy those fantastic storms.

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      • Southern Girl says

        July 4, 2018 at 9:51 am

        Come on down to the Deep South and your wish will be granted.

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        • KathyD says

          July 4, 2018 at 11:49 pm

          Love a storm. Had one with tornadic winds and our power out, and I loved every second.
          The dogs and humans all go downstairs to watch.

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    • GertieKat says

      July 4, 2018 at 6:23 am

      I have a cat that growls at the sound of fireworks. She literally sounds like a dog. A neighbor is very “gifted” at shooting off as many fireworks he can get his hands on. Makes for a long evening. Happy 4th everyone and good loving care to all our fur babies

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  17. MuffinTop says

    July 3, 2018 at 11:09 pm

    I thought TRav but his mother died I think. They were divorced, right? Could it be a stepmother?

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    • MuffinTop says

      July 3, 2018 at 11:24 pm

      I found an official document, the sort of bogus appreciation red into house senate that lauds Louise Rodgers Ravenel who is divorced from Arthur Ravenel Jr. BUT Arthur has remarried, his wife is named Ric so its possible this is about TRav & Ashley.

      I dont see an obituary For his mother so she may be living.

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    • Mackie40 says

      July 4, 2018 at 1:51 am

      Thomas posted a picture of him visiting his mother on his Instagram on May 29. She is in an old people’s home. His father and she were divorced many years ago when Thomas was a little kid and his father married someone else maybe 20 years or more ago. So he does also have a step mother who you see in photos with his father and the children sometimes on Instagram.

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    • Cindy doss says

      July 4, 2018 at 11:35 am

      The mother is alive and lives in an assisted living facility.

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  18. Sali says

    July 3, 2018 at 11:12 pm

    Thomas! This is like out of a trashy novel.

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    • GertieKat says

      July 4, 2018 at 6:26 am

      I know. It gets weirder and weider every day.

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    • ChillyWilly says

      July 4, 2018 at 9:16 am

      Or a Lifetime movie! Ashley better be careful about blackmailing Thomas. He is not above hiring a hitman, IMO. Those poor kids. Makes me sick they are being exposed to this mess.

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      • Southern Girl says

        July 4, 2018 at 9:58 am

        Two of a kind. I wouldn’t put much past him. Or her. It will be interesting to see exactly What causes them to call it quits. Prison or maybe death. As she said she’s not going anywhere. All these ppl he’s hurt and he finally met his female match. I have zero sympathy for him. He treated K llike so much used trash. Team K

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  19. Pam says

    July 3, 2018 at 11:25 pm

    All good things come to those who wait. Well TRav your wait just might be over….bring on the judge! I hope they fry his ass. And TrAshley’s day is coming too. She’s going to mess with the wrong person. She’s a thirsty bitch. Happy 4th of July. Be safe and enjoy.

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    • Jen says

      July 4, 2018 at 12:09 am

      I was just thinking the samething. These egomaniac narcissist men think they are untouchableand destroy women. Just freaking desserts. Kathryn came out of this so much better of a person but it’s a freaking battle to survive these men. I think Ashley needs help for sure and is no prize but don’t forget Thomas throws his women away like trash. Someone please put that girl in rehab! I have a feeling rehab has a revolving door for Thomas’s ex. Put this man in jail!

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      • Southern Girl says

        July 4, 2018 at 10:03 am

        Zero sympathy for Trashley. She knew what she was getting into. And I’ll never forgive her for what she said to Kat. about her parenting. She’s a vicious Hired Pit Bull. So no sympathy. And why the HELL aren’t we calling that BITCH LANDON out for her role in this?

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        • Southern Girl says

          July 4, 2018 at 10:13 am

          Oh before u take my comment wrong let me clarify: when I say why aren’t we calling Landon out I mean All SC fans. Not you. I realize my reply sounds a bit harsh. And it is but not directed toward You. Peace

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          • scottishwitch says

            July 4, 2018 at 1:13 pm

            Agree with you Southern Girl. No sympathy for Ashley, who looks like a barracuda. She knows what she is doing and acts like a vicious bully who seems to believe that cruel and aggressive bullying is the way to her “winning”. That and trying to twist it so she is the victim (which is what bullies do) and her “never giving up” and “never going anywhere”.

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            • scottishwitch says

              July 4, 2018 at 1:24 pm

              And yes, Landon does seem like a “Cousin Bette” in all this.

        • Dianne says

          July 5, 2018 at 4:29 pm

          My Pit Bull and the millions of others who are sweet, goofy and kind take exception to being compared to those asshole trolls, lol

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      • MuffinTop says

        July 4, 2018 at 12:19 pm

        I am awestruck by women who value themselves so little that men destroy them. No self confidence, no self esteem? Do they really get addicted because their man uses drugs? Is 21 too young to know your own mind?

        I don’t see women as being so weak and lacking power.

        The exception is the addictive personality. It does not matter who gives them drugs or alcohol no matter what you may think. Addiction has to try it once to fall into it’s grips. I will not go into how I know what I do about addiction. We all have pain in our life and deal with it in different ways. By 21 I had seen a lot of drug use, a lot of alcohol, it was a college thing and some never recovered. So, a person doesn’t cause it. Addiction is rooted in pain and has genetic ties. Attend Alanon a couple of times to get the gist of it. Having said that, addicts are drawn to each other which explains both Kathryn and Ashley.

        So, we don’t see as many weak women now as we did in the 50’s and 60’s. We have evolved. We do see addicts.

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        • Kdwagz says

          July 5, 2018 at 12:09 pm

          Very thoughtful comment– makes so much sense.

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        • KathyD says

          July 6, 2018 at 5:00 pm

          Your comment has me thinking about all my female relatives from my childhood (1960’s-70’s). Most of their marriages had a “boss”. And the other one drank or had “nerve pills”.
          My personal belief is that there were always addicts, but that was not what they were called. If Aunty had a beer every night, that was just her beer. Everyone smoked, of course. Most folks had “crutches” or “a little something”.
          It’s a whole new world, where even a couple evenings with a bourbon could get me a disapproving glare from my (adult) son.
          Managing relationships seems harder now.
          Kathryn needed guidance in how to parent, stay even, hold her temper, etc. Like husband says “adulting”. She found it.

          Now, where is that guidance for Mr. Ravenel? Money cannot buy class.

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  20. Lisak says

    July 3, 2018 at 11:37 pm

    That’s what I was thinking. This has gone from something interesting to follow to just plain insane and out of control. If Ashley was my daughter I’d be on a plane bringing her back to get some serious help.

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  21. Sundayhare3 says

    July 3, 2018 at 11:38 pm

    Also did the PI come up with stuff on Ksthryn before?

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  22. Stephanie Lynn says

    July 4, 2018 at 1:09 am

    I have to wonder if Trav knew he was being recorded or Ashley did it on the sly? He tries to break it off and she is now dangling it like a carrot in front of his face. I have to wonder TT if it got out, would it affect his custody? Give us more info, please!

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    • Southern Girl says

      July 4, 2018 at 10:07 am

      Naw he didn’t know. He would never have allowed that. Remember he’s this upstanding politician wannabe

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  23. NancyintheSmokiesam says

    July 4, 2018 at 1:24 am

    “I have the money; I have the “Powah” (accent inserted) “. Never will I forget those words coming out of his mouth. I grew up with preppy, guys with family money. Some are great. Some just like Thomas Ravenel. In the words of Kathryn “DISGUSTING”.

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    • badseed says

      July 4, 2018 at 3:35 am

      Did not grow up with rich folks but those words haunt me….that was scary

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  24. EnglishRose says

    July 4, 2018 at 1:35 am

    Thomas really deserves everything he’s dealing with right now – he had all the warning signs right from the beginning – Ashley couldn’t keep her mouth shut around Kathryn, and spewed hatred and venom every chance she got. She also kept pushing Thomas past limits he seemed comfortable with, but for a man who was used to positions of power, he didn’t seem like he could speak up very well for himself – he certainly should have put Ashley in her place right off the bat, and sent her packing. He didn’t, and now he’s paying the price for his own stupidity.

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    • Southern Girl says

      July 4, 2018 at 10:15 am

      She even told Shep she was the BOSS. Lmao.

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      • Sundayhare3 says

        July 4, 2018 at 1:55 pm

        Well if she has this tape…she is the boss.

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  25. Mackie40 says

    July 4, 2018 at 1:52 am

    I see the Thomas Ravenel Wikipaedia entry has been recently edited to remove mention of Ashley Jacobs as his current partner. There is no current partner mentioned now.

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    • Amanda says

      July 4, 2018 at 8:14 am

      Now that’s a new telling detail! Thank you!

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    • radchick says

      July 4, 2018 at 10:03 am

      Very interesting indeed.

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  26. smileawhile1952 says

    July 4, 2018 at 2:07 am

    I must have missed something – how is a PI involved? Is the PI supposed to go after Ravenel’s victims?

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  27. Hawaii Calls says

    July 4, 2018 at 2:55 am

    Please correct me if I am wrong, but Ashley confirmed in her Twitter or Instagram account that she has been working for a while. I know RN’s are desperately needed, and bless them, but wonder if the company she works for is aware of her many issues? Poor patients.

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    • Stephanie Lynn says

      July 4, 2018 at 3:22 pm

      She did, allegedly,but anyone can buy some scrubs. I didn’t see any medical equipment in the background. Just her in her car and what looked like a home office, which could have been at Trav’s.

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    • Cheryle says

      July 4, 2018 at 3:28 pm

      It doesn’t seem as if Ashley is very vested in her career and it may just be a backup for her when she has to work. She does seem to have long intervals between jobs. It is not always glamorous and is hard work. I worked in Case Management in Mental Health and retired due to threating patients and serious health issues so I can understand that. Ashley does seem to keep putting off her Hospice work and that can be draining work in her defense. It would take a lot of effort and valuable time to be scheming her way into a big paydays. This does seem like her priority making it big either by TV fame, Polo Work, or Gold digging. Boy, Thomas must really be egotistical that he could not see through her. There do seem to be a lot of scheming women out here in California. Hopefully, I am not one. But then, I have never heard of the term “Cali Girl” until she brought it up.

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      • Nanette says

        July 4, 2018 at 4:29 pm

        I had to hold back the invective when driving through Old Sacramento yesterday asi passed by a “Cali” something store. In our state’s capital no less.

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      • Chloe says

        July 4, 2018 at 11:28 pm

        The Countess was an RN in a previous life

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        • Nanette says

          July 6, 2018 at 12:06 pm

          Wasn’t Kim “Wig” Zolziak a nurse too? Before or during Big Papa. An idea for a spin-off? Big Nurses Take Charge. They could be holding bedpans, enema bags and syringes instead of peaches, oranges, and apples. Oh, my.

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          • Hawaii Calls says

            July 6, 2018 at 11:52 pm

            She reportedly inflated her career history. Said to have really been a nurses aide when she was young, like 18 or something, unskilled, untrained, uneducated, according to reports. Not an RN or LPN, apparently, And, a co-worker reportedly said she spent all her time on breaks smoking outside : (

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      • Hawaii Calls says

        July 7, 2018 at 12:01 am

        I have a question. Someone said they saw photos posted on Ashley’s Instagram account of her Hospice patients when she actually was working in CA. If someone could get screenshots of those and report her for her outrageous HIPAA violations, it would really advocate for those who have no idea and were being exposed and exploited by her without their permission. Such disrespect, especially if they were end of life patients and had no idea they were be used by this schemer to paint herself a caring nurse : (

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  28. Meemo says

    July 4, 2018 at 5:06 am

    Lucky he is in the public eye or she might of ended up floating under the Ravenel bridge.

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  29. scottishwitch says

    July 4, 2018 at 5:06 am

    I just hope and pray that the judge is made aware of all this alleged activity and that Kathryn receives full custody of her children for their safety and protection.

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    • scottishwitch says

      July 4, 2018 at 5:08 am

      And immediately.

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      • HPC says

        July 4, 2018 at 8:24 am

        Amen.

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  30. Southern Girl says

    July 4, 2018 at 10:21 am

    I’m praying for Kathryn and those two children. He got custody by spinning her out of control and I guess his illustrious PI gave him the Ammo. He only WANTS custody so he doesn’t have to cough up any $$$. I wish Kathryn would just say ok I don’t want your money but you stay the fuck away from my children. Legally make a deal No Money and No Access. BC that’s all he understands. He don’t care about those children. They are to be used to help him. Ugh disgusting

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  31. Buttercream says

    July 4, 2018 at 10:49 am

    Arthur Ravenel Jr would do anything to keep his grand children in line for the family inheritance. Thomas has been living a self centered life for many years. He knows lineage is important in the south, his two out of wedlock children with Kathryn have a strong lineage.
    In the south, the children, as uncomfortable as it is to write, are still considered illegitimate due to the status of an unwed mother.
    After all the drama with T-Rav’s narcissistic love life, it’s all about Kathryn’s and her babies. This show is not worth watching if it wasn’t for Kathryn and her life journey.

    When I read your tea, I know God has a sense of humor, as only he can bring about and inflict this much pain to Thomas.

    Good luck with your Tomatoes, TT as well as Banjo making it thru the evening celebrations this 4th of July.

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  32. GypsySkylark says

    July 4, 2018 at 12:41 pm

    It all gets more bizzarro by the day with those two – clearly the chickens are coming home to roost at ole Thomas plantation.

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  33. Zoemonster2 says

    July 4, 2018 at 12:42 pm

    Are all the blinds this obvious? Or do I know entirely too much about these peeps;)?!

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    • EnglishRose says

      July 4, 2018 at 2:44 pm

      I think that’s exactly it – where else would you find anyone that fits the details in this blind? Not too many TRav and Ashley combinations around, thank God. What I don’t get is, why would anyone in their right mind allow a sex tape to be made of them, especially if a threesome or drugs are involved? If it was done without his knowledge, is that against the law?

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  34. Zoemonster2 says

    July 4, 2018 at 12:48 pm

    Question:

    *for now I will leave you with news about the shady PI. He has a history with the male antagonist of this blind. Allegedly, he was previously hired to follow and collect intel on people the male subject previously had contentious relationships*

    I’m confused. Who is the PI hired by? The female? The male? Someone else? And who is the PI collecting intel on? I promise I’ve read this several times and idk.

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    • Kailey says

      July 4, 2018 at 11:08 pm

      The PI was hired by Thomas to look for dirt on the women he was in previous relationships with (for example, Kathryn). The ironic part is that the PI is now married to the woman that Thomas left at the alter years ago.

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      • Dbltrouble says

        July 6, 2018 at 11:53 am

        Kathryn said on a reunion a few years back that she knew Thomas was having her followed.

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  35. lola says

    July 4, 2018 at 1:21 pm

    Do you know the sex tape is of consensual sex, or is it videotape surveillance from the nanny’s room? Also it took under five minutes googling to find Miss Golf cart and her PI hubby, who specializes in camera surveillance.

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    • ShellyL says

      July 13, 2018 at 4:47 am

      I was also wondering – who is in the sex tape? Is it TRav molesting someone?

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  36. Nanette says

    July 4, 2018 at 1:29 pm

    If this were a movie, Ashley would be dead now. (Just rewatched “Layer Cake” a masterpiece of betrayal.)

    With all the brouhaha about the subject of the videotape, is there any proof (or reliable intel) it is a sex and/or drug tape? People have survived (and in Kim K.’s case, THRIVED) from that. I understand this is THE SOUTH and that he served time for coke and that there are kids involved, but her has the “money” and the “powah.” He came out OK and ran for office again. And landed a major role on a reality show.

    There are at least two things that would leave him quaking in his polo boots … a rape tape (a la Mario Batali) or hitting the children. Or something like that.

    One more thought: Perhaps Ash has everyone fooled. Maybe she is playing dumb. Maybe this whole thing was a diabolical plan all along. Look crazy in love AND CRAZY while gathering intel for blackmail. Keep Thomas off-guard with her protestations of undying love, etc. All for money — and fame (notoriety).

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  37. scottishwitch says

    July 4, 2018 at 1:56 pm

    Iola, you inspired me, but it took me more than 5 minutes! (Detective skills getting rusty).

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    • lola says

      July 4, 2018 at 3:02 pm

      Ha! But it was easy enough to find though wasn’t it? A better question is why he would hire the hubby of the woman he left at the altar? When he mentioned her at the dinner, he acted like she was a long lost woman of his past, not that he currently employs her video surveillance PI hubby. It’s all very creepy though, like a murder mystery movie, Chinatown meets Charleston.

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      • scottishwitch says

        July 4, 2018 at 5:40 pm

        “Very creepy”! Perfectly stated Iola!

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  38. Tisa says

    July 4, 2018 at 2:17 pm

    Thomas should just cut Ashley loose and let the chips fall where they may. He will overcome it. Kathryn will regain custody of the children and support as any good southern gentleman would do. Only then will Thomas life fall back into place.

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    • ShellyL says

      July 13, 2018 at 4:50 am

      The only problem with that scenario is what does Kathryn do with full custody of the kids? She does not have a full time job (that I’m aware of) and could not afford a nanny unless TRav pays child support, which he certainly should do, instead of supporting that evil Ashley.

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  39. MrsMoonlight says

    July 4, 2018 at 2:39 pm

    I have been thinking of the cast for a film noir

    Kathryn….Gene Tierney

    Trav…..Robert Mitchum

    Ashley……Linda Darnell

    We need a really great director to get this story out there.

    Btw. Former NY er now living in Northern California…I had a thunderstorm soundtrack running at work this week…yes,my coworkers know I am nuts

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    • Nanette says

      July 4, 2018 at 4:37 pm

      I used to like thunderstorms. Until my grandmother told me her papa had been struck by lightening. Twice. This was outside Paris in the country and first time it split his pants open and he tried to get his bare but home unnoticed. Alas, “It was not a good day to be popular,” he told her. In French, of course.

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  40. TB98 says

    July 4, 2018 at 3:08 pm

    Well that was too easy….LOL

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  41. Nanette says

    July 4, 2018 at 4:32 pm

    This is either the first time we all guessed correctly. Or all not.

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  42. Spunky2015 says

    July 4, 2018 at 5:34 pm

    This blind of course is Thomas and Ashley. I hope the show goes in another direction and they permanently fire Thomas, Ashley and Kathryn.

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    • scottishwitch says

      July 4, 2018 at 5:46 pm

      Spunky, Kathryn IS the show, the show IS Kathryn. There is no show without Kathryn. And her comback has served as a very positive inspiration for many young (and older) women, and even men who have struggled with addiction and depression and from being bullied – and also for people who have not. So, I for one, very much hope the show continues with Kathryn.

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    • Warrior says

      July 4, 2018 at 6:35 pm

      Fire Kathryn? What are you smoking? Ditto SW’s comment below.

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      • Spunky2015 says

        July 4, 2018 at 7:22 pm

        Kathryn has no storyline without Thomas. Their tawdry affair is getting old and not good for the kids. Time for new blood.

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        • Rescue Mom says

          July 4, 2018 at 7:29 pm

          What show are you watching? Thomas and Kathryn haven’t had a “tawdry affair” since she got pregnant with Saint. Kathryn’s only interactions with Thomas only differ than his interactions with the rest of the cast because he’s using the children to control her. With him off the cast she can truly be herself. She is an essential cast member

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          • scottishwitch says

            July 4, 2018 at 7:46 pm

            Truth! Rescue Mom!

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          • Spunky2015 says

            July 4, 2018 at 10:45 pm

            Kathryn slept with him after the reunion last year, according to Kathryn. These two need to grow up, move on and raise their kids.

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            • Mackie40 says

              July 5, 2018 at 5:09 pm

              I don’t agree at all. And Kathryn is an adult and can have a sex life if she shields her kids from anything temporary.

              Kathryn has clearly grown a lot over the last year and has her life under control. She is a lot of fun to watch as she meets life’s challenges with a widening circle of friends. The way she now deals with Thomas and his troubles is masterful.

              Thomas, on the other hand, is dis-spiriting to watch. He is a deeply flawed and unpleasant bully who increasingly seems stupid. He has lost his looks and he brought a nasty, grasping harridan with no social skills onto the show. He put his kids at risk by letting Ashley spend a quantity of time with them. Their grubby, relationship of convenience almost ruined the show and I want them both OFF it.

            • KathyD says

              July 5, 2018 at 11:38 pm

              Agree with Mackie40. Kathryn’s growth is inspiring. Hoping next season she comes back, demonstrating her skills to fight depression (yoga?)

              Thomas looks old.

        • ShellyL says

          July 13, 2018 at 4:52 am

          Kathryn has plenty of storyline without Thomas. She has Shep and all her “new” girlfriends and yes the show could use new blood – for her to date, or be friends with. I agree she is basically the heart and soul of the show. It would be dull without her and her temper, which BTW is often justified.

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  43. Lesmar123 says

    July 4, 2018 at 6:21 pm

    I noticed that Ashley has been very quiet these past few days. No posting on social media and not responding to comments like she always does. She did have a instastory about working and a selfie in her nurse’s uniform on the weekend but that was the last.

    Wondering if her social media was taken away by the Conflict resolution team? Just think it’s strange because she seems to live for the attention and drama by responding to every comment.

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    • Dianne says

      July 5, 2018 at 4:51 pm

      My Pit Bull and the millions of others who are sweet, goofy and kind take exception to being compared to those asshole trolls, lol

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  44. AAL says

    July 4, 2018 at 6:53 pm

    This is a no brainer. I’m not convinced Ashley’s comments are now directed by Thomas. I’m sure in the beginning they were both going after Luzanne and others but now I think it’s just her. She’s a wild card and he seems to be afraid of her. Couldn’t happen to a nicer guy. Ashley should grab the biggest check she can before he winds up in jail. I think he’s met his match and it’s about time. I couldn’t care less if she takes his money as long as she doesn’t darken my television screen again. I wonder who the PI is supposed to investigate. The three women who reported him or Ashley? I imagine it would be devastating to be left at the alter but I would think it’s better to be married to anyone other than Thomas.

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    • scottishwitch says

      July 4, 2018 at 7:48 pm

      AAL – I agree, except that I would like to see all his money go to his children and Kathryn – and not to Ashley.

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      • GertieKat says

        July 5, 2018 at 11:59 am

        I hope so too. But I’m afraid he has “friends” that will keep it from happening

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  45. JuneCleaver says

    July 5, 2018 at 6:48 am

    Did Ashley find a tape featuring Thomas and a woman where the sex had gone non- consensual?
    One should never keep souvenirs of a crime.

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  46. radchick says

    July 5, 2018 at 8:36 am

    TT, is footage from Southern Charm allowed as evidence in the custody trial? What about the sex tape (or whatever it is)?

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  47. Jennifer says

    July 5, 2018 at 10:51 am

    Here is my question- is revenge porn not illegal in SC? Wouldn’t Ashley get prosecuted if she released the video without T-rape’s consent?

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    • beekay says

      July 5, 2018 at 5:59 pm

      If it’s something illegal such as an underage girl or him doing drugs, the threat is to go to law enforcement, not release it to the public.

      Reply
      • Donna says

        July 7, 2018 at 9:47 am

        If she has a tape that would benefit the police investigation of the sexual assault allegations and is keeping it from law enforcement, she can be charged with impeding a criminal investigation and could go to jail.

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  48. BC says

    July 5, 2018 at 11:36 am

    Wow, TT, you really had some good tea on this one!! I googled Thomas’ ex-fiancé and found a name. Her FB isn’t private (yet). Not too hard to find her hubby, and, then, if you google his name, lots of dirty stuff comes up. This is like a plot from a movie! (which makes me realize, gosh I lead a boring life…. ; )

    As always, thanks for the good scoop. And, glad y’all survived the fireworks. Of course, the knuckleheads will be out shooting them off for the next few nights, also. My poor fur babies were very disturbed last night, also. Have a great rest of the week, and thank you for all you do!

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    • Hawaii Calls says

      July 6, 2018 at 11:41 pm

      And, he is probably the Go To Guy for all of Thomas’ dirty work. Watched a replay of the Reunion last year and the barely controlled rage and threats he made to Kathryn referenced dirt he had on her that was now (last year) in the hands of the Judge deciding the Custody. Just know it is from that P.I. husband of his former flame. Kathryn seems like she had/has the worst attorney, as her team should have done the same thing to Thomas : (

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  49. GertieKat says

    July 5, 2018 at 11:56 am

    How did everyone’s fur babie do last night? Mine stayed in a part of the house where she couldn’t hear anything.

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    • Nanette says

      July 5, 2018 at 5:38 pm

      I am Answering in the July 4th thread.

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  50. scottishwitch says

    July 5, 2018 at 12:46 pm

    Imo, those alleged “friends” need to be outed and the press needs to put a very bight light on Kathryn’s request for full custody, and the safety of her children, given all we have seen and all that is alleged. It seems that a serious investigative journalist should bring in the sunshine that is disinfectant, to counteract any alleged possible influence of “the money and the powah”.

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  51. Nanette says

    July 5, 2018 at 6:19 pm

    TT: An online gossip site I do not usually read has (alleged) details on the subject of the tape AND a credit to you AND a link to this site about this post. I am curious if it will drive much traffic to your site.

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    • scottishwitch says

      July 5, 2018 at 6:49 pm

      Read it, Nanette, and thanks for the tip. Interesting, because even though yesterday was the 4th, none of the key players seem to be posting July 4th photos. The silence is eerie.

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      • scottishwitch says

        July 5, 2018 at 7:01 pm

        Well, spoke a bit too soon. “She who must not be named” has posted a photo in a red, white and blue bikini, a new hair cut – and with what looks like Kathryn Dennis’ signature red lipstick color. I think it was CoCo Chanel who said that a woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life.

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        • Stephanie Lynn says

          July 5, 2018 at 11:47 pm

          It was Landon’s sister who did her hair too.

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          • scottishwitch says

            July 6, 2018 at 9:32 am

            Stephanie Lynn:
            Seriously? It was Landon’s sister who did “she who must not be named’s” hair? So, as was noted, it seems that the long fingers of Landon may allegedly be more involved in all this than we know.

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            • KathyD says

              July 6, 2018 at 11:59 pm

              Oh yeah! My latest theory: something soured between Mr. Ravenel and Ms. Landon. Landon went to California and fell in with the “polo girl” group. She met Ashley, who already knew Mr. Ravenel. Could have been sheer luck while snooping, but I do think Landon knew about Mr. Ravenel’s alleged recording, and MAY have commented as such to Ashley. It just feels like someone knew what to look for. And that 4th of July pic makes Ashley look ALOT like Kathryn (blonde streaks by face, reddish hair, red lips).

            • Stephanie Lynn says

              July 7, 2018 at 12:13 am

              She tagged Bam Bam in the photo of her hair, that’s how I knew. I think Thomas discarded “love interests” may be teaming up for a group take down. I’m sure they had a few conversations about things Thomas said to either of them in confidence.

          • scottishwitch says

            July 7, 2018 at 3:24 pm

            It says that stylist “Powell Clements” was “called out” for the new look. Very interesting.

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        • Mackie40 says

          July 6, 2018 at 6:21 pm

          Supporters keep saying she looks gorgeous, but I think for a woman of nearly middle 30’s she looks very vulgar in that post.

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          • scottishwitch says

            July 6, 2018 at 9:00 pm

            Agree Mackie 40. If I were to dissect it I would say that the upper half of the photo was saggy, the hat and red lipstick were Kathryn rip offs and the hands looked like they belonged to the creature from the black lagoon.

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            • Mackie40 says

              July 6, 2018 at 9:21 pm

              LOL now you break it all down. Mine was just an initial impression. Very hard to hide age in hands.

  52. Cheryle says

    July 5, 2018 at 7:51 pm

    I think Ashley referring to being the “Boss” could be some whip and S&M thing they like in the bedroom. Also,Thomas was very submissive with the toe nail paint which makes me wonder about role-playing.

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    • KathyD says

      July 5, 2018 at 11:42 pm

      Ewww. But, you know what, that makes sense! He was so submissive!

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  53. MavsMom says

    July 5, 2018 at 9:50 pm

    Just a heads up Crazy Days and Nights straight up ripped this from you.

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    • Demi says

      July 5, 2018 at 10:52 pm

      No, that site is run by an entertainment lawyer. I think he did 100 blind item reveals today. This was one of them. I’m not sure why he did this, but he’s revealing both men and women.

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      • MavsMom says

        July 6, 2018 at 9:56 am

        Okay. I’ll concede. I was being an overzealous supporter. The timing seemed off to me and some of his blinds just seem like he throws stuff at the wall to see if they stick.

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  54. scottishwitch says

    July 5, 2018 at 10:54 pm

    Ok, so why has the Lookbook (which seems to be a Bravo site?) just posted that Southern Charm’s Ashley Jacobs has a brand new look? Or words to the effect? She is not even a cast member? Yes? If Lookbook is a Bravo site, why is Bravo apparently giving Ashley this “member of the cast” type publicity? I hope to heck she is not coming back next season.

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  55. Dee Gerald says

    July 6, 2018 at 4:00 pm

    Thomas Ravenel and Ashley Jacobs.
    Thomas was engaged to a gal that worked for a golf course he frequented. The beverage girl as he called her. Wasn’t aware that she had married the PI….LOL!!! There is no ‘sex’ tape per say…..but just as bad…..imo….. I’m sure we haven’t heard anything yet…..just wait for all the bullshit that’s going to hit the fan after the reunion!!! And then, of course, all of the court cases and allegations…..it’s definitely not over for Mr. Ravenel and company when the credits roll after SC ends for the season. 🙂

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  56. Lb says

    July 7, 2018 at 7:15 pm

    All of katherine s new found friends this season are eating crow . Everything she said Thomas was doing is now coming to light. Idiots. Trav fathers comment who would raise the children if something happened playing polo , sure speaks volumes of their conniving, no ?

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