Since I am the last person on earth without a electronic leash cell phone, I can’t really DO Instagram, nor am I that interested until someone links me to something interesting. Recently, I was sent a screengrab that was not taken by the person sending it to me where Ashley allegedly gave an “all press is good press” response when someone asked her how Thomas was doing in the face of multiple sexual allegations, including rape. These allegations have aired on the local news channels all over Charleston. I can’t imagine I’d be taking selfies and arguing with people on Instagram if my man was being accused of sexual assault and sexual aggression by one or more women. I certainly would not be commenting on the issue, since NBCu has officially told the entire cast not to make any comment while the investigation goes on. So I had to wade through hundreds of comments on her most recent post most of which were about her apparent eating disorder and her treatment of Kathryn. And eventually, I was able to verify that yes, she did actually say that.
I also found out today that Ashley tried out for Chelsea’s slot on the show. SHE’S FROM FUCKING CALIFORNIA? So she lost the part to Chelsea and she was second choice when Luzanne refused to film. Always the bridesmaid this one.
erin_monti_How’s Thomas handling all the bad press?
[email protected]_monti_ There is no such thing as bad publicity! He’s flattered that people care so much about his life!
Isn’t that precious? This is not a 21-year-old. This is a woman pushing forty. There are the expected troll accounts there who say things like the #metoo movement is merely money hungry women. It’s a swamp of delusion and insanity.
The majority of her comments were of her trying to sell herself as a spokesperson for the clothes she is wearing. Because I’m sure those companies want to be associated with her.
Here are a few of the other low lights.
bridget_rod89You definitely tried with kathryn…. i have always loved her but she was wrong to not invite you.. her not even wanting to be together on halloween says a lot… on another note, thomas seriously disrespects you flirting in front of you. Move on girl.
[email protected]_rod89 Thank you! I tried!
[email protected] rights or not it shows that she is trying to have unity.. thats thomas’ gf she is gonna be around. And why invite her to lunch to get to know her then exclude her from the party?
[email protected]_rod89 Amen!! Thank you for seeing it the way it truly is!! Finally someone with a brain!! 🙌🏼😘 Haters are hatin’ tonight!! Bless them all!
I can only assume the supporters have been sent over by the Troll Farm. The large majority of comments were trashing her.
[email protected] Then why invite me to lunch to get to know me??? What a waste of time if she just planned on excluding me from there on out. Im still glad I invited her to trick or treat😊 Feels good doing the RIGHT thing
[email protected] it’s not haters. It’s seeing it from the other side. But you clearly don’t have the depth. Not everyone can make their own way. Keep doing you but don’t expect not to be disliked for your life choices.
[email protected] ITS A REALITY TV SHOW🤣
How kind of someone hired to sleep with Thomas on a TV show to invite a mother to Trick or Treat on Halloween with her own kids. Wow does a woman in her late thirties think that is okay?
[email protected] So you’re not nursing anymore? Asking because when I was a traveler it only took me about 3-4 wks to get my SC license.
melonreis Ew. Shame on you. Editing is one thing. You, are another.
[email protected] I am!!! Working full-time as a matter of fact👍🏼
I wonder how many patients are refusing care by her. Could you imagine being terminally ill and seeing her walk in? It’s unthinkable.
[email protected] I’m a native Floridian and Southern lady. My mama would just die if I excluded someone and made remarks behind their backs. Please know that a lot of Southerners don’t act like that. A lot of us like to make others feel welcome and like they are at home, even if they weren’t born here. #arealsouthernlady#notameangirl
[email protected] Thank you!! Maybe it was just how we were raised. I remember when I was in 4th grade and another classmate was mean to me… I didn’t want to invite her to my bday party. My mom said “absolutely not!” You can’t invite the whole class and exclude one girl just because she’s was mean to you. My mom said she probably won’t even come.. but you still must DO THE RIGHT THING and invite her. It’s called having class and being the bigger person. It’s not that I wanted to go to KD’s party. I just wanted to see if she’s really changed and matured. Clearly I was wrong.
This is funny as fuck. “native Floridian, southern lady” heh. No we don’t let strangers in and make them feel at home if they are a threat to or children or disrespecting the mother of the family. That will get you shot. Or worse.
eem687Have you got the ring yet ??💍💍
[email protected] Haha!! We need at least a good year or two before even considering it!! We’re still getting to know each other♥️ Marriage is a huge commitment and I only want to do it once!!
We’ll, some reality seems to be sinking in… It’s a small brain so there is not room from much, but at least she seems to get she is not going to marry Thomas. Let’s hope she didn’t freeze her eggs a few years back. This is not a gene pool that needs to be propagated.
kissme77How do you feel about Thomas hating & disagreeing with you on all his talking heads?
[email protected] Hahaha! I thought he was funny☺️ Gotta love my boyfriend! He makes for great entertainment🙌🏼Stupid is as stupid does.
[email protected] with every year the hate will be less. Just think about Prince Charles and Camilla, she was hated now they love her and they are married. Just be patience what has to happen will happen no need to intervene with life. 😘😊
[email protected][email protected] thomas isnt scripting the things he says… its obvious to me he says what he thinks and feels. He puts @ashleyhjacobs down every episode. He will never have her back
[email protected] Great advice👍🏼 I really appreciate you taking the time to share with me♥️😊
BWAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA Yeah, it is just like Prince Charles and Camilla. This girl is dense as a brick. It’s been 20 year since Princess Diana died. They ignored Camilla most of the time until the reminders about her resurfaced on the anniversary of Diana’s death. Nope. Still hate her.
[email protected] Thank you for your comment!! He was trying to be funny with the redhead comment. Another name for Makers Mark is “Redhead” because of its red cap! Maybe it wasn’t funny but I don’t take it personally! I’m very secure in my relationship! I really do appreciate your concern though😘 Both Thomas and I do love a good reaction at the expense of looking a little ridiculous at times😬 As an observer I would have thought the same thing as any of you! I know it’s difficult to understand but I do hope I could clarify it a bit for you!
She is just as NOT INSECURE as Tamica on Southern Charm NOLA. As for Redhead being Maker’s nope. If she was from the south she would know that. Thomas asked if they had Makers. Then he asked if they could make a “Redhead” It’s an obscure bourbon drink with Makers, soda and a splash of cranberry. Someone had to go out of their way to script that line for Thomas. He would never order a mixed bourbon drink. And bourbon and cran sounds disgusting.
ashleyhjacobs Thank you Heather🙏🏼 Whats a show without a villain?! I guess everyone gets a turn🙈
I mean A LOT of people get a turn with Thomas. Some sign up, and others have it thrust upon them against their will, allegedly. But I’ve never seen anyone walk away from him happy. Does this idiot have no friends or family?
I’d almost feel sorry for her dumb ass if she hadn’t joined forces with people who have been ruining people’s lives on the Internet for years. I feel like Thomas is probably going to stop paying them (allegedly) and they will turn on both of them next.
She won’t be around in a year or two to get a ring. This moronic bitch needs to go SOON! I can’t believe T-Rav hasn’t shut her up and her SM accounts down. When have you ever heard of anyone w/half a brain commenting, or allowing anyone to comment who is in their inner circle, other than an attorney, when facing these types of allegations???
“Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.”
I agree. I need to go back to my source because all the leads are gagged. perhaps they missed this moron? or more likely she already knows she is fired and doesn’t realize she is losing checks yet. I have another post about Thomas coming but he is toast and i know the choices he was given. I feel like he is either not speaking to her anymore or telling her to go with what was happening on the show.
I, for one, am sitting here with bated breath to read your next post.
Same here! I have watched this show from the beginning. I was in love w/Charleston and all of its beauty, but as a mother myself I HATE what has been done to Kathryn. She may not be perfect, no one is, but that narcissistic ego maniac T-Rav had far worse things a family judge should have been concerned about!
There is no way that some judge wasn’t bought off to deny a mother all rights to her children. To an old felon to boot. It shows that the good ol’ boy network is alive and well. The truth always wins out. I’m proud of how Kathryn has figured out Thomas’s narcissism and his emotional abuse of her. She’s young to have caught on so quickly and she handles him well. But she’ll never get back those early years with her kids. Shame on him for denying his kids a mother.
I would love to know if Ashley is really Thomas’ girlfriend or just being paid to pretend and be on the show.
I totally agree with u. I have always believed that the judge was paid off. Especially after he rigged his drug test shaving All body hair beforehand. Discusting how evil the system can be.Thomas is well known in that town and rich.and now he has that piece of crap gf around the kids…shameful!
Unfortunately, I’ve decided that Howdy Doody purposely impregnated K for bloodline. I’ll add that I also think he does truly love her as much as a snake is able to. He will never marry nor produce any children with the karazy, wormy brain infested Jacobs thang.
Tamara, your posts always make me feel better. Especially after I read Ashley’s SM where she says that they are closer than ever.
With all that has been going on of recent, do you have any info on the current status of Kathryn’s custody arrangement? It’s way past the “sixth month trial”, and I have been wondering if there were any changes, seeing how Kathryn has shown success and all the hot water Thomas has been in.
Thanks!
What does SM mean?
never mind, I figured it out lol …duh
I was on of the instagram posters 😜 her response to me was ridiculous.
Everyone think about it there’s very few women who at this point would go on the show as Thomas Ravenal’s love interest. He has spoke poorly too & spoken about poorly of all his so called love interest. Ashley is a paid thought up Trollop from LA, doing a poor trashy acting role to stir stuff up with Katherine the mother of 2 beautiful kids. Otherwise Thomas would have no role. Katherine is young & one day will appreciate Thomas who is handsome on the outside but hideous on the inside, is not married to her. Ashley has been on some other show, I can’t put my finger on it, but no doubt Whitley is behind it, when it comes to him & his mother & Cameran & all, they are very scripted. In walks the true 19-20 year old who is living life, just like all the old 30 or more something’s on the show did when they were young. Cameran at her age was hosting girls gone wild shows, but she shamed Katherine? Katherine was real from the moment she enter scripted land, the fake upstarts even Whitley, shows creator, looked sarcastic, narcissistic, bitter, downright hateful because Katherine was real & didn’t follow the script, she showed those old farts how life is today for young teens & 20’s. Women can sleep with various partners & actually choose who they want to love. If you don’t cut it you out, that’s today & reality. How they all set out to humiliate, destroy herself esteem, dismiss with ruthless regard her real love for Thomas, all because she didn’t follow the fake script. Katherine Dennis, is Southern Charms true star, hopefully with Thomas facing charges she will get full custody of her children. Ashley will disappear one day because it is clear Thomas is tired of her. If she stays she is desperate, Thomas could have made it work with Katherine if he was a good man, he is not. The best of all to Katherine & her little ones, advice go to acting school after being real on a fake show, you’d be an excellent actress “Good Luck”
Damn, truth cannon go ahead collect $200 you know this game.
Her contract is up in October from what I’ve gatheted and it seems despite Thomas wanting it to end sooner, she’s holding on with bloody fingernails.
Is Thomas being *forced* to date her? He seems to really hate her (Ashley).
When she says she is employed full time, does she mean as an actress and Instagram person? I cannot picture someone so horrible being a nurse.
I hate to break it to all of you, but unfortunately, I think Ashley is the one for Thomas. Maybe his severe detachment disorder involving his empty-headed father and maybe overbearing mother make him very interested in women who are bossy, nasty, confrontational, and overbearing as well. I don’t envy their relationship, and you shouldn’t spend one iota of time worrying about it. Kathryn is just lucky she didn’t marry that one. I hope she gets her kids back before Ash gets her claws into them and marginalizes her.
Thankfully for the kids that Ashley doesn’t give a shit about.. she will be gone soon. But she will leave with more money than the mother of his child.
and a chanel bag. BUT she will NOT be leaving with Louis Vuitton luggage. I find solace in that.
Ashley is in this for the fame and money. Unfortunately for her. When Thomas’s sexual abuse scandal really hits the fan he will have lawsuits and be making payouts and won’t have the money that Ashley wants anymore.
When I first heard of Ashley I thought she would be a worthy adversary for Kathryn but I just feel really bad for her. Ashley is not all there, and I don’t think it has anything to do with editing. Can’t even join in and make fun of this girl I hope she goes home to California to someone who loves her.
She won’t. Who ever heard of anyone who actually wants to be with a convicted FELON who spent time in PRISON and has been accused by no less than three different women for violent outbursts and sexual battery!? Idiot. Last week, she actually said she thought she might wear one of those expensive dresses in the White House as the First Lady. Yeah, that’s gonna happen, Ash. Keep California dreamin’.
Oh but honey, the little hooker is in charge of the relationship.
ROFLMAO…
She is THROWING HERSELF AT HIM.
But just wait for her to claim #metoo. I promise you it is coming. If one con doesn’t work she will go to the next one.
I think Ashley is actually payback for Thomas. She lovebombed him and now she owns him. He’s afraid of her leaving I think. He is clearly not the one in control like with Kathryn. The venom in Ashley’s eyes was frightening tonight. And what about T-Rav’s rage? If he can make Chelsea flinch in fear, what’s he like in private when he has the power. These two deserve each other and I think their sick bond will keep them together. She’s painting his toenails? Grooming him. Let’s little gaslighting quips our acting like she’s defending him, but reminding him he’s a convicted felon. I wonder what she does to the kids! These two are demon soulmates.
Yes, I think they are both narcissists and are feeding off each other. it’s a match made in Hell and they are perfect for one another!
Totally agree with your comment about being horrified if she walked into my room and I was terminally ill. I have seen her comment that she is working in the homes of terminally ill people – rather than in a hospital, where at least she would be supervised. If it was anyone in my family I would have her out of there immediately. She should not be left alone with vulnerable people. She has shown she has no ethics at all.
She is a gold digger, Thomas is a horn dog so no one has to have a brain. Kathryn pure class, cant wait until she gets full custody back after he’s charged. He should have never gotten custody in the first place.
As a person who worked in the Medical field on the financial side I find it hard to believe that Ashley has her RN. There is another Ashley Jacobs who comes up with a string of letters behind her and it is not this Ashley Jacobs. She demonstrates the intelligence of a lower credential just an observation no proof on my part. Then some psychos can pass tests but have no balance. I am so proud of Katherine this season. I hate Thomas as his creepy sexual actions and comments comes off so transparent this season. Ashley is a shameful little golddiggef who does not know her place. Bravo do something and get both Thomas and Ashley kicked to the curb.
OMG, she is probably strangling people to death. She’s in the perfect place to abuse people and she has it in her, that’s for sure.
I doubt she is a RN maybe a LPN. When my mother was terminally ill (in SC) my father had Hospice workers in their home full time in the last weeks to care for her. These women were great but NOT RN’s. Ashley could definitely get a job as a hospice care giver in SC IF she wanted one. I don’t know the reciprocity laws between Ca. and SC but I would guess it would not be that hard to get licensed given her boyfriends contacts. Girl doesn’t want to work.
Because, cunt. (To quote TT, obvi.)
TT, so you have never made a sweet selfie in an elevator? :O I’m shocked!
I’m under contract baby. NO PHOTOS. lol. I have no photos online despite what you may see. I don’t always go to family functions because they kindly keep their phone down in the room I am in. It make me feel obstructive. Also the reason I stopped teaching was I told my principal I refused to have my photo on the wall. That caused him to jack up my anxiety. For me, the whole “I can take your photo if you tell me not to” and even worse “It’s a game to take your photo because you do not want me to.” It felt violating and as the snowflakes would say triggered me. I do not do photos. It’s not so much because I don’t want one taken, it’s about, it is not yours to take. TAKE being the trigger word. It may have something to do with childhood growing up in a places where I was told it takes your soul. I just don’t like it. And I do have a modeling portfolio lying around for the fam who find this bizarre. I feel like asking someone not to photograph you is the same as asking someone not to touch you.
My family understands this, or so I thought at the last family function where my brother showed up. Everyone else is like PHONES DOWN in whatever room I am in. It’s amazing and kind. But brother shows up and takes a photo. I feel violated by that. Maybe I am crazy, but I don’t want people taking my photo anymore. I have a sorta anon website, I don’t want to have to be camera ready to go to Easter dinner. I feel like my image, is mine. And I hate all the cameras.
I literally left my job over photos.
I hate having my picture taken as well but in my case it’s more of a vanity thing. When I see the developed picture I am like oh gross is that what I look like in real life? It’s like hearing your own voice on a recording or something. In your head you sound nothing like you “really sound”
I’m with you girl! I ABHOR having my photo taken for any reason.
When I got my realtors license I hired the guy who photographs Miss Universe and all the other beauty queens to do my photos and his wife to do my makeup. Seriously that is all they do for a living.
Out of 500 photos, I was able to stomach one single photo and the photo shoot was one of the most hardest things I’ve ever done until I had to look at the photos.
There has to be a name for this phobia.
JoJo, you’re not alone. I can’t find the name for that phobia, but if it doesn’t exist, it’ll be coined soon. Turns out, anxiety over being photographed is widespread, and only growing, thanks to social media.
It’s connected to other named phobias–scopophobia Is the fear of being seen or stared at; eisoptrophobia is the fear of seeing one’s reflection in a mirror.
I’ve become the family “historian” of sorts, but I’m not a camera bully, never photographing anyone who asks me not to take their picture or videotape them.
And I appreciate when people don’t take my picture when I’m not ready or not in the mood; and when they delete or not post the bad ones–of which there are many!
When a few awful pics slip through, I try to comfort myself by thinking I might actually like the photo..20 years from now, when things have wrinkled or fallen in ways I can’t (or won’t!) even imagine today.
I have it, too.
JoJoFLL ~ I thought I was bad! I hired a wedding photographer and out of 200 photo’s I TRULY could NOT find even 1 that I liked, or would display, or show anyone, NOT EVEN MY OWN HUSBAND! He has begged to see the photo’s. BUT, I am SURE that once he sees what I REALLY look like he’ll surely fall out of love with me, and say; “Oh wow, is THAT what you really look like!” LOL! I DO know how truly ridiculous that sounds. I TRULY know that HE has seen my good, bad, and ugly! I guess what I also know too is that I at one time looked so much better than I do now- and I don’t want to be reminded day after day that I don’t look like I once did. But the REAL truth is that all it would take is losing some weight!!! UGH!
Your brothers lucky you didn’t break his phone or camera because I might have.
I cringe anytime people start taking photos around me. I HATE having my picture taken and I dont have a good reason as to why. Its not a vanity thing. I’m not a bad looking chick. I just don’t like it.
Social media has made it a thousand times worse. After politely saying I dont want my picture taken and not being taken seriously Ive threatened to break people’s hand, cameras etc. In a joking but Im really not joking sort of way. Then I’m looked at like I’m crazy? This is infuriating. I feel as though it’s a violation of my privacy. I don’t take it lightly.
Agree.
Thankfully our family is not photo crazy. The kids took one snapshot with me under our dogwood on Mother’s day as a gift. Which will never go on social media.
What really bugs me is all the cameras (projecting on the jumbotron) at baseball games. Spouse and I just groan when they start that crap between innings. And the KissCam? Argh.
People should be able to live their lives without someone stealing their image.
You would hated in family. My whole life father and former brother-in-law were professional photographers, as was I for short period time. Every single opened on Christmas had at least one picture taken of the opening.
Christmas card portraits every year. I could go on and on but you would never understand the amount of pictures that ave been taken of me.
And my parents were wrong, I don’t enjoy looking at them all these years later. I find them painful. Especially those with lived ones who are now gone.
Sorry if my previous post didn’t make sense, cache was overfull and spellcheck didn’t like it at all, lol
I have large prints of many of those Christmas portraits, like 24×30 etc.
I wasn’t always this way. I even modeled for a bit in my youth. Nothing extravagant but There are headshots out there. lol. I was an extra in a few movies. Not going to say which. I used to enjoy being in plays. Then at some point I only wanted to audition for plays but didn’t want the parts. I know that is weird. Then I started to hide a bit in the posed family reunion photos. Then menopause happened. I had a year or three where I totally lost my shit about some childhood trauma and it sort of became about me feeling like people were taking my photos without my consent. I lot my shit over it several times with my last principal. It caused me such anxiety that I quit my job a few years before my pension.
My sister and the regulars at holiday functions have become very good at respecting my desire not to be photographed and when new people come in they get admonished by one of my nieces or nephews who politely explain I don’t wish to be photographed. However, at one point early on before they understood it was sort of a game. My brother still doesn’t quite get it.
In exchange, I try to make rare appearances and not stay too long because I feel like the second I live it is selfie city. LOL. And that is a great compromise for me.
Both sides of our family, incl spouse’s folks and my parents were photographers. Spouse and I are photographers. But the rule of human photography used to be, permission must be granted if the person is recognizable in the shot. Like, carrying a signable form with us on shoots.
We photo everything except humans who are not on stage. Private is private. And you are right, photos with departed loved ones are tough to see.
People in my family photographed my dead sister in her casket. This is why I am not having a funeral. Aside from that by brother as executor has stolen my burial plot. Hopefully I will die bungi jumping in Uruguay or something.
TT – Surely you jest about your brother! Not only does he steal a picture of you, but he is ALSO the thief of your burial plot!?
Kathryn will always be in T -Rav’s life now.I’d be as pissed as Kathryn if my ex partner. Brought new gf around kids unless they had been seeing one another over a year.She is thirsty for that ring.If two kids won’t do it doubt she can get it.But keep reaching and spending that on that credit card.Until he packs you back up to Cali.
Thirsty for that ring is an understatement count how many times last episode alone she said ring.I am sorry to say if she ever got a actual engagement ring outta him the whole world would be shocked she didn’t move all this way for nothing Blahahahahahaha
Ashley, “It’s not that I wanted to go to KD’s party. I just wanted to see if she’s really changed and matured. Clearly I was wrong.”
So Ashley didn’t really want to go and was only testing Kathryn? Changed from what Ashley? You didn’t personally know Kathryn so who are you to judge whether she has “changed.” What BS, she went on and on to Thomas that if she wasn’t invited there was going to be a problem. She was so worked up and it was rude how she pounced on Kathryn at the restaurant first chance she had. Kathryn truly handled the situation quite well and it was wonderful to see all 3 of her women friends tell Ashley to slow her roll! Fascinating the guys stayed out of the confrontation. I’m sure Ashley was pissed that Thomas didn’t run to her side. Funny, She was already annoyed at him for joking around with the silly fist drink holder when she was hellbent on creating drama over a child’ Birthday party.
Btw, I’m a native Floridian and I have never referred to myself as a Southerner. I have relatives that have been here since the late 1800’s. We joke that we are Florida Crakers but not Southerners.
I guess it depends on where in the state your family lived, Floridagirl. I consider myself a Floridian first, then a Southerner, but definitely Southern 🙂 My family has held land in north Florida (about a 1/2 hour SE of Tallahassee) since before Territory.
And Ashley is a classless piece of work.
You are right! The closer you live to Alabama and Georgia the more likely you will be part of the Southen culture. I have at times lived in Mississippi, Louisiana and Texas and the culture is vastly different from Southwest Florida! We are a melting pot here and native Floridians are far and few between!
Yeah I’m with you. I grew up in the South and nobody around me considered Florida southern because it was so populated with northern snowbirds. Catazure just be happy you aren’t from the true South. It’s bizarre that it’s becoming hip to be southern. No. It is old boy networks and neighbors in your business and not being taught basic scientific principles in schools. And before my time it was Faulknerian my relatives were pure southern gothic. Also the good southern food is usually only around at funerals
I dont know where you are from but my education is on par with all of the people I know in the US. Faulkner was fond of fire startin’ idgits. I have never met any in my walk through friends or family.
The Atlanta area doesn’t seem Southern anymore. There are too many transplants to the area. Don’t get me wrong, they are welcome but it has changed the culture.
What a load of nonsense. This woman must really, really love money.
There will be people in remote areas of the Amazon rainforest that will have a smart phone before I do. I loathe what it’s wrought.
Gross
This woman exhausts me. First I see TR make disparaging remarks to and about her on the show so I feel a bit sorry for her. Then I see her laughing and brushing them off on SM and the pity goes away and I can’t stand her. Then I think she must surely have some mental dysfunction and I start feeling sorry for her again. Then I see her acting like a whiny bitch on the show and I hate her again.
I just want her gone and soon. I chuckle when I think about her not getting paid for doing the show this season and that hopefully without TR she won’t have a storyline and be back next season. I don’t know how hard it is to prove cyber stalking and bullying but I would love for her to be punished for that right along with TR.
I don’t know if you scoured her IG but little Miss I’ve Never Ridden A Horse has a picture on there from 2015 of her riding a horse.
On a side note, I have never been upset when I wasn’t invited to a toddler’s choo choo party. In fact if I weren’t invited I would do a little dance of joy.
I wonder who fed Ashley this line that everything she did and said was part of her scripted role as villian. She apparently is very pleased with this bullshit excuse. But the camera doesn’t lie and she was being her true self in all of those scenes that revealed the true her. And TR as well. His discomfort with her demands and begging is palpable.
There are very few people who instill in me the desire for violence, but I’d really love to punch this person in the throat.
She and her obvious stupidity and clawing and grasping are sickening.
I just hope that more victims show up and force Bravo’s hand in firing him.
Holy crap. So after reading this I took a few minutes to look at Ashley’s Instagram. All I can say is wow, WTF and wow again. She is delusional. I think reading her comments gave me brain freeze or a migraine, or something as I now need an Advil. I tried to be open minded with this one and it took 5 minutes before I was done.
Is that a picture of Ashley, Thomas and Kathryn together? When was that taken? It looks like younger Kathryn and she is drinking so this photo must be old? How long has Ashley really been around? And if that is Kathryn she has her arm around Ashley.
That is Landon with them
Didn’t Landon introduce them?
I was sure she did but they are all pretending that TR introduced them to each other.
Yep fake Landon is in that picture, Thomas went with her & threw her out like an old southern used up napkin. She is a lazy B who is looking for some rich guy with a name to marry & never work again. She got slammed on the last reunion after all the women realized she would go with any man regardless of a wife or girlfriend. Just think of all the time Whitley’s mom is spending trying to turn ho’s into housewives 🙄
That is Landon
I’m unable to wrap my brain around the concept that there is no such thing as bad press when it comes to sexual assault and rape allegations.
Keep talking Ashley- lawyers love this! She is also sealing the deal she won’t be back on Southern Charm , Bravo doesn’t like the loose lips and the stupidity.
All I know is I don’t have any respect for any of the men on southern charm except maybe Craig they all treat women like dogs and they only care about themselves just listen to how they talk about their sex and when they had it and they are not going to be controlled by any woman. I feel like they are a bunch of dogs and they sound like it on the show. And Ashley is only there with Thomas for money and it will cost her plenty
The way she just blurted out at the table “I see your kids more than you do” was said with such venom I wanted to smaxk her! She came across very hostile and looked ridiculous. Kathryn should have said “Exactly. And thats why you dont need to be at my son’s birthday party”. This woman is the worst.
It’s so funny you posted this.
I was reading through her instagram and was mortified by what she was writing and had to stop.
I think most of us understand that reality is heavily scripted but she’s not dealing in anyone’s reality.
Potential criminal charges are not on anyone’s reality script. For her to even say any publicity is good publicity about the accusations against TR is horrifying.
Southern Charm seems to be unRaveling.
UnRaveneling too. Literally.
“Unraveling” – that’s perfect!
I have mixed feelings about this chick. I can’t stand her on the show. But part of me thinks she is not well so I’m semi sympathetic.
I thought I saw some sort of interview where Thomas said she wasn’t a paid cast member on the show but she’s just on because she’s his girlfriend. Maybe I’m wrong.
So is she paid participant? If she is, it would make sense why she’s so obnoxious as It’s good tv. If she’s not… then she can’t be well. Even if she’s edited to look bad she really has no excuse.
Also Tamara mentioned that she tried out for the job but Chelsea got it. Hasn’t Chelsea had it for a couple of seasons? She wasn’t dating back Thomas then, was she? I feel like I am missing something. Can someone fill me in on the details here ?
She, much like Peyton is from LA. Both of them have been trying to get on Southern Charm and/or Vanderpump Rules for years. Of course she is being paid. She was not “dating” Thomas at all. She was simply trying to get on the show by any means necessary. It doesn’t seem to be going well for her.
Glad you mentioned Peyton. I had wondered about her. She was supposedly working at Vanderpump Dogs when she first appeared on Shep’s spinoff. Now, she’s on SC. She does seem thirsty. I had trouble watching her. She just doesn’t fit with the SC cast. I do NOT want to see her become a regular…she’s just another version of Ashley. I could bitch all day about the way they have ruined SC. The appeal was the location, the cast with actual roots there. I miss K. Cooper Ray. I wish they would quit bringing in tramps just to rev up DAMN drama! I thought the show was finally on the right track when they got rid of the dolphin and her forced pretend budding T-Rav relationship.
Oh my God, the Vanderpump people would eat Ashley alive! I would love to see Kristen and Lala verbally beat her ass.
Thomas said in a rather lengthy interview that Ashley was not getting paid, she is on the show as his plus-one.
Either Thomas is lying or Ashley is even dumber than we thought.
Haha both are probably true. But I feel sorry for Ashley. To attack a mother like she did is going to come back to haunt her someday. She has no idea how she’s being manipulated like a puppet.
To see how well-spoken Kathryn is now that she’s away from Thomas, you can’t help but notice Ashley is no match for Thomas.
Ashley said the same thing in an interview. I never know if I should believe either of them.
Already thinking of the reunion. Is it safe to assume she and Thomas won’t be on due to the investigation? I want to see them BOTH confronted by the rest of the cast for their behavior and held accountable.
Unraveling is so good.!
I know Kathryn has made some mistakes in her life, but she’s clearly working to do better now. I always sensed that we weren’t getting the whole story in earlier Southern Charm seasons, when Kathryn got the “crazy ex-girlfriend edit” while Thomas got most of his fellow castmates rallying around him. Now that the whole truth is finally beginning to materialize, I hope Kathryn gets more of a fair shake (from the courts and from Bravo) going forward.
As for Ashley, I just can’t. I’m also originally from California, and I graduated from high school a few miles away from where RHOC began its run. We’re not all entitled brats, and we don’t need our sugar daddy to exercise his Black Card to know how to dress properly. Wherever she came from, she needs to learn how to be her own person and make a name for herself the right way (as in, don’t latch yourself onto sexual predators just to score 15 minutes of reality TV fame).
I disagree Adt. Single women here are getting desperate! Most of the women i talk to are trying to get out of here because they can no longer afford to live here. I saw over a dozen moving vans headed south towards Mexico, Az. yesterday on the freeway as i was headed home from San Diego. Houses are mostly near or over a million dollars Heck, my car registration came almost 600.00. and my tax guy told me to start looking at other states. So i am packing my Golden up and we are taking a road trip so I can explore other options. Unless these women hunt down sugar daddies there days are numbered here and you better be bi-lingual here to get work. Locals are packing up and leaving here in droves. I could not afford to live in Santa Barbara. The prices are just as high if not higher than South Orange County.
Well yeah, the cost of living is quite high across California. That’s a reason why I now live in Nevada.
Still, what I was trying to say is that Thomas and Patricia seem to be implying that Ashley is the way she is because “she’s from California”, and Ashley seems to be doing whatever she thinks is necessary for Thomas to spend more money on her. Sure, you’ll run into other folks there who will do anything to reach “the good life”, but you’ll also meet many other people who don’t behave like that.
When I was younger and hotter, I could have done what Ashley’s doing. Hell, I tried it to a certain extent with my very first romantic relationship. But when I began to admit to myself that my true needs were being left unfulfilled, and when I saw my significant other openly lusting after the new “young, hot thing”, I realized I couldn’t continue on that path.
Can you just imagine the hell those children would live if that woman actually became their stepmother? Her goal is to destroy their mother in their dad’s eyes. His goal is to taunt Ashley with Kathryn. They are one sick pair. The #1 objective for family court is the physical/mental wellness of the children. They need out of that house and back with their mother.
It was horrible hearing her talk to Thomas about not being invited to the party yet. She said something like, she can either be Kathryn’s best friend or worst enemy. What a rude thing to say about a mother having a party for a 2 year old!
It’s also idiotic. There are a full range of things she can be to Katherine. It’s too bad she’s too stupid to conceive of a role beyond these two extremes.
Ummm…basically a threat. That’s how we’re starting to understand how this “good girl” rolls.
For some reason, I think she wants to get to those kids over the years, make them hate Kathryn and marginalize her to the point where she isn’t part of their lives at all. She needs to DOCUMENT EVERYTHING, lawyer up, finish college, get a good job and house, and GET THOSE KIDS back into her home. I hope she reads this. This stuff happens….have seen it personally plenty of times. It’s real. What’s this chick, Ashley’s, deal? Is she barren? Did Kathryn do something to her in the past? What is it? I’m trying to figure it out. She’s devious and dangerous–seriously. And, I think she’s the one Thomas will marry.
All publicity is good publicity- Wasn’t that an original quote from OJ or was it Phil Spector?
“There is no such thing as bad publicity” is often accredited to P.T. Barnum.
There is another one about … all publicity is good if it is intellegent,” which obviously does not apply to Ashley. And some other Oscar Wilde thing about … worse than bad publicity is no one talking about you. That really sounds like Ashley, she can talk about herself and it doesn’t have to be intelligent. She is her own worst enemy and I care only about the children. I hope TT hears soon that they are away from Thomas and Ashley.
I’m curious if the children have a court appointed attny representing them. In these contentious cases, especially when there is substance abuse, the court appoints one to specifically represent the best interest of the children.
Thomas’ new allegations will be of concern to them.
This woman is absolute scum of the Earth. She’s stupid AF. She’s agreed Gold Digger that shouldn’t be allowed around Kathryn’s children. Especially when she called their mother and “egg donor”. Then brought a 2 year old baby into a fight screaming “I see those kids more than you do”. If I were Thomas and someone spoke to the mother of my kids like that I would have dumped her ass INSTANTLY. She is completely nuts.
Exactly. What is his deal with Kathryn? Why does he hate her so much? I just don’t get it.
I wonder if we’ll see the scene outside the “ball” between Ashley and Kathryn and what leads up to it since they’re going to have to edit…
Ashley is a straight up gold digger! All she wants is fame and she doesn’t care how she gets it! I thought she was pretty at first but her personality makes her ugly. She is wrong in every way when it comes to Katherine Dennis and her children. Ashley has no rights when it comes to those children and she needs to respect that! How could Ashley sleep next to a man who has sexually assaulted women? I know you’re innocent until proven guilty but in this case it doesn’t take a blind person to see that he’s definitely guilty of something….
I do not know if it’s a gift or a curse but I have this odd thing that I see people’s ugly on the outside and ugly people who are beautiful on the inside I see it on the outside as beautiful
Yes Ashley is butt ugly even though people say how gorgeous she is.I do not see it at all.
Landon is also ugly Just sayin’
Yes, this reminds me of the old saying “pretty is as pretty does.” This is something I’ve said to my sons when they were young and had started dating. If the girl isn’t nice, sweet, etc., it doesn’t matter how pretty she is.
Exactly
I would never call her gorgeous. Kathryn is gorgeous. Ashley is cute and quickly aging out of her profession.
Here’s the thing, when you act like a nightmare because your addiction is winning, you still have the chance to clean yourself up and have your true self shine through. When you’re a nightmare and that’s just who you are at your core, there’s no hope for change. That is sad.
Also, she is an LPN like Kim Z, right? Not an RN.
The issue is more phypsychological then any drug induced addictions that I have seen in behavior
If you look at Ashley’s Instagram today you will see she has posted 2 horrifyingly skinny photos. She is clearly not physically or mentally well, has list touch with reality, is getting desperate and should not be allowed around Kathryn’s children. It just feels unsafe.
Really sad (skeletal-like) pics and her replies to her comments were even sadder as she seems to take it as a compliment. Many Liked Comments were concern about her weight. The few Liked Comments or Lone Comments were praising her about her great body and how they wished they were so skinny. She liked those!
As a former skinny person with an overactive thyroid, I never thanked someone for telling me i was so thin…it felt like someone telling a fat person that they’re very fat. For a good 10 years, I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror, so I don’t get why she thinks this is good.😥
WOW that’s a shocker!! I always tought Kim was an RN, going to a special school for nursing and all now to find out another person has led us down a cooked road, well, I don’t know what to say As an RN myself, that is hard to swallow but LPN’s do a lot of great work in the health care field, I have to give them credit.
LPN is 2 years school and RN is 4 or more ? I did CNA work and loved it with special needs children and nursing homes . If I wasn’t disabled myself I would still be doing CNA work or would of went on to LPN.
Kim always said she was a LPN.
It takes a special person to be a nurse I commend you for it !!
Kim and Ashley I would not want to work underneath either of them .
Ashley is clearly trying to get some recognition for other reality shows and Thomas is too stupid or incoherent to realize this. But with her yapping all over the place she is a liability for any network.
Thank God Pray she is a 1 and done
Imo, Kathryn needs full custody of her children and her children need for her to have full custody of them – and right away. And the court needs to make sure that Kathryn receives ample payments from Thomas for all the care they need and for nanny help too – just as Thomas has nanny help – because Kathryn needs to work and have a career too for the years to come. And it takes a village, and with much older grandparents, in today’s society – a good nanny is part of that village. Given what has been alleged, what we see on TV, and that these children “see Ashley more than their own mother does” – and the show has documented Ashley’s comments and behavior – Kathryn should have had full custody months ago. This seems obvious on its face. Also, obvious is how Thomas kept pushing Kathryn to drink – when she is in recovery – which makes one wonder what he may have pushed on her in the past. If all this does not shock the conscience of the court – then what will? Also – the court owes Kathyn an apology, imho.
I did not see this comment before I posted mine but we are in 100% agreement, give Kathryn back her kids, she is working a great program and she is a WONDERFUL MOTHER. More than I can say for the father a hound dog all day long.
This is how I see this playing out now… she works to keep everyone at bay on her IG , is taking whatever Thomas will throw her way and is enjoying her fame. Thomas is probably scared shitless drinking his pain away with sweaty pink face JD and is trying to find ways to run this loon off. Thomas is all about fun and disposability, she no longer is that. Ashley knows too much and Thomas is screwed. I bet he isn’t even banging her bony ass anymore. So if you’re having a bad day imagine being Thomas ravenel late at night when he’s all alone 🤷🏻♀️ Karmas a bitch
Does anyone else out there think that Thomas Ravenel is capable of eliminating people? He’s frightening!
I sure thought he was capable tonight. He was terrifying. I think he’s losing his touch. He’s an aging narcissist. I do fear for those children
The other creepy thing is how both of them were lost in their rage. Like in a trance. Ashley’s rage is so out of proportion and has nothing to do with the kids.
So I am thinking I have seen Ashley somewhere before. Pretty sure she and Jorge’s sister Lourdes are the same person. 😂
Whoops, Lourdes on 90 Day Fiancée that is.
Wow! I’m watching as I type and thought that!
Except now since I saw her with Shep in that next post 😟
These two deserve each other more than anyone else I know.
I guess it depends on where in the state your family lived, Floridagirl. I consider myself a Floridian first, then a Southerner, but definitely Southern 🙂 My family has held land in north Florida (about a 1/2 hour SE of Tallahassee) since before Territory.
And Ashley is a classless piece of work.
Hooker says wha??
I am sure Andy and the cast won’t be allowed to talk about ANY of this due to ATTORNEYS- at the reunion!!
the “new girl” in the life of Thomas T-Rav is DIS-GUSTING. She needs to get on a plane and go back to California she is most definately not Southern Charm material. This girl has poor manners to say the least. When she said something about seeing Kathryn’s children more than Kathryn, well let me say if I was Kathryn and someone said made those comments, they would be picking up their teeth from the floor. NOBODY COMMENTS ABOUT MY KIDS and the relationship I may or may not have with their father. I like Kathryn, she has gone through a lot at such a young age to her credit she has not let her trials get the better of her, she has triumphed over adversity and come back stronger than ever. Faults and all, she is a good mother and should be given full custody of her children. T-rav is a dog and from the show it seems as though there are 2 sets of rules, the ones set up by the court and the rules t-rav makes up as he goes along. Give Katheryn back her kids and let Thomas and his gal pal play house.
I rewatched the season 2 reunion recently (I’m in a rabbit hole of southern charm obsession, it’s not healthy or cute, but like many women these allegations can be a slippery slide to working through our own histories) and the incident where Thomas attacked Katherine’s friend and dropped Kenzie in the pool came up. Everyone was attacking Katherine for not defending Thomas and accused her of leaking the story just before the election. She was adamant she didn’t leak it, but also said her friend’s accusations were true. Katherine’s credibility was called into question by everyone but Craig (Shep sat in silence). It’s so disgusting to rewatch how the cast treated her. In this post #metoo era I really hope they take accountability for their recent display of sexism and complacency towards Thomas’ predatory and abusive behavior rather than just distance themselves from him based on convenience. Men like Thomas exist greatly because the people around him enable his behavior. It’s really disturbing to see Ashley be a continuation of this enabling simply because she’s obsessed with her own personal gain. Terrible values on that one!
I have been watching past seasons as well and knowing what we know now, it is horrifying watching how the cast – especially Thomas – set Kathryn as the bad guy. Clearly, for whatever reason, Kathryn has had her problems, but Thomas’ bullying really is apparent on these re-watches.
Also — Whitney in Season 3 and 4 had terrible things to say about KD. He’s the executive producer and he trashes his talent like that? And now he is friends with her???????
I’m in that same rabbit hole. My guess on Whitney is when Patricia’s friend accused Thomas, they knew Kathryn wasn’t lying. These kind of men get off on destroying women and love it when they can use others to help.
He’s just using Ashley to triangulate Kathryn. It’s so obvious he doesn’t care about her. That’s why I hope it’s just an acting gig for Ashley.
And there’s something about Whitney’s expression when Thomas makes a vulgar comment — it’s almost like he delights in that kind of humor.
Altho at other times I think he held Thomas a bit at bay because of his “erratic” behavior. Clearly, he had to know TRav’s reputation.
And Cameran in Season 4 at the polo game where TRav ignores his children saying he is the one who is creating a healthy, safe environment for his children. . . . . I’m throwing up in my mouth.
This is your brain on drugs kids…
The fact that this dizzy broad felt like it was okay (reality show or not) to say to Kathryn “I see your kids more than you do” totally left a sour taste in my mouth. I was not always a fan of Kathryn until last season and to see how far she has come and the changes she has made for her life and her kids has made me a fan. Honestly if I was her, regardless of her new outlook on life and sobriety etc, I would’ve been across that table in 2 seconds flat, and little Ms. Chanel would be needing a nose job and a new set of teeth. To me Ashley is a needy, self involved, whiney, bougie brat who needs to be checked immediately. Her and Thomas are perfect for each other. Every comment Tamara made about her is so so sooooooooooooooo true.
I am thankful that this girl is so dumb that we have this ditz to talk about.She may have book smarts but common sense she is dumb as a box of rocks !!
We all know she is getting paid doesn’t matter where the money comes from she is a tax write off .You bet he is keeping track. she is something special that 1 and I do not mean that in a nice way. after she said I see your kids more than you. I would of sucked punched her.
Ashley constantly talks about money,credit cards and a Ring. Her and Landon are 2 of a kind just funny she has been kept around this long.
Trav can not get Katheryn off his mind she . I feel bad for Katheryn .
The only thing worse than her remark about the press is that she probably obviously believes it to be true. I know her and Thomas are a made for TV couple but I honestly think that they are perfect together and they each deserve the other.
I wonder how Ashley’s Mom feels about her daughter being a prostitute. Allegedly.
UnRaveling, a new reality show starring TRAV in his orange onesie, like “scared straight”.
Hello:
Ashley is insane. Please get her off the show Fast. She’s a hater and she’s going after Kathryn pretty fast and hard. Fire her Bravo.
apparently she will go after anyone on or off tv who she feels will threaten her new lifestyle.
Trav probably did pay the bill for her clothes but it is a business write off.
Noticed that Ashley’s last instagram post had comments turned off and Thomas turned his off after receiving a bunch of comments ripping Ashley into shreds. He better get used to the haterade if he sticks with her!
Girl please. Her contract is coming to an end and he is fired. They could not be more done. They are the negotiating the payoff stages now. Now that she knows someone else got 200K for one night? This will be a fight.