Kensie putting on her panties over he pajamas was hysterical. The flashback of Kathryn talking to her grandmother four years ago reminds us of how very young Kathryn was.
Within the first six minutes of the episode, Ashley has asked Thomas multiple times for his credit card and asked him to buy her an engagement ring. Meanwhile in his confessionals, Thomas continues to trash her. wonder what she thinks seeing all of these comments by Thomas every week? Thomas finds out that Kathryn’s grandmother has passed and says he needs to call her.
Poor Cameran can’t go to Hilton Head. She’s due any minute and is sitting at home eating cheese puffs and pickles. She seems miserable.
Shep is back with Chelsea’s friend Victoria and he is not looking forward to telling Chelsea they are still dating.
Naomie is on crutches and is trying to herd Gizmo into Craig’s house. She says she just want them to be nice to each others. Even Craig points out that she is the mean one in the relationship.
Ashley is such a cunt. Why does she think that she has any place at Saint’s birthday party? It’s absurd to me even as storyline. Who whines about not going to a two-year old’s birthday party? There is way too much Ashley on this episode. All she does is argue and complain and beg for an engagement ring.
This episode was a complete waste of time.
The episode is over and I only have a two hundred word recap. How is that possible? I kept waiting for the episode to start and it was just an hour of Ashley trying to get paid for services rendered and Thomas talking about how controlling she is. There is really no need to publish this other than to give y’all a space to share your thoughts.
What I got from this episode is that is truly painful to watch Ashley on tv. She has zero personality and she communicates by whining and bitching. The 2nd thing is that Austin is a tight wad cheapskate, why are women clamoring to date him?! He’s alright looking in a frat boy sort of way, but that’s it.
He seems so douchey to me. He blocked me on IG when I commented on one of MANY posed travel photos to please stop posing and simply relax. I wasn’t trollijng or anything. BLOCKED.
So you chose to follow HIM on social media, and then decided to tell HIM what to do on his own account and you can’t figure out why he would block you, AND THAT IS NOT TROLLING?
Why do you feel like he needs your opinion or that he can’t block you? How bout you just DON’T FOLLOW HIM?
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This shit blows my mind. I don’t think I’ll ever get used to it.
I’ve never followed anyone on IG, never used a computer until 4tears ago, been reading your blog since pretty much the beginning on my flip phone-way before “what did BG say about AM?”. But she liked him, looked at his whatever and thought she was giving him some friendly advice. It does seem abrupt to block her -no?
Who else watches these episodes with a side eye and suspended disbelief given what we have read on this site? Specifically, the artificiality of the ‘relationship’ arrangement / contract between CuntRav and TRav? And yes, she IS that horrible even though it most likely is a storyline and she’s ‘acting’. We all know what is going down due to TT….it’s like you want to scream DO OVER! Cut. Hiatus time and reshoot!
CuntRav!! I love it! I laughed so hard (outloud!) 🙂
Not funny at all. Rather crude. IMHO we need not stoop to that to make points.
ITA.
That’s my favorite commenting rule and the one I wish people paid more attention to. The nicknames are puerile and just plain dumb. It’s like, everybody thinks their insulting nickname is super-clever, but no, no they are not.
That’s one of the things I love about this site. No stupid nicknames!
Amen
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Well I do the the C-Rad is method acting if she is a contract player, hoping to move to main cast! I think T-Rav has bitten off more than he can chew with this one. Couldn’t happen to a more deserving person!
I could not believe how money and love hungry (camera hungry) that woman is. It was exhausting watching it. That scene on the boat when she is telling him to get down on one knee? UGH. She is really over the top. He asks for it though, every time you turn around he is saying how much money and power he has. HA! See how that is going to work for him now.
Gizmo was so cute, I couldn’t believe how he just did pretty much what Naomi told him in reference to getting in the house. That was funny. Craig continues to go up the adorableness ladder in my book. Shep, Austin, etc. not so much. I am glad there is not pretending to have relationships for Whitney this year. He is much more likable and believable.
Watching Trainwreck Ashley has been so entertaining. Finally a true gives no fuck gold digger. She should be asking for Botox and vag rejuvenating procedures. Keep it tight bitch!
Love your comment.
This episode was a revelation for me. Before this I thought that Ashley was getting a lot of undeserved criticism and that she was just a bit awkward around a new group of people. Well, I admit I was wrong. She has turned out to be a horrible, nasty, money-grubbing excuse for a ‘girlfriend’. How can any of them stand to be around her? I’m not up-to-date on their real-life situation. Has she gone back to California yet?
Same. She had many, many of us snowed.
No. She’s still in Charleston. Her Instagram comments reveal that she has no remorse for her actions and still feels that she was in the right. She’s also promoting fashion and jewelry for certain designers to make extra income. I’m considering sending those designers an email to protest using her to push their brand.
If Shep hates her that’s pretty telling
Can’t believe it, but I actually had a straight-up, horrible nightmare after watching this episode right before bed and Ashley was the conniving villain -in everyone’s face and out to get them. Last thing I remember was her standing on a dark beach, shoreline sending me off somewhere. Maybe my mind intertwined “Game of Thrones”. I woke up in a sweat. Crazy
I’ve only seen your recap, but didn’t watch the episode. I think I just saved an hour of my life I would have wasted on reality TV.
Thanks for the heads up.
What recap? That wasn’t a recap at all. Just a very brief summery with a few comments.
Pardon me Miss Sharon, but I think Tamara knew what I meant.
Settle down.
BTW Sharon, I believe the word you were searching for when you were attempting to chastise me was summary.
I would watch. Even just to see Gizmo get out of the car,go into Craig’s house and then hiss at Naomi! That kitty is so cute! Also to watch how TRav keeps making comments about how he likes redheads and how Ashley’s head looks as if it’s going to explode. I enjoyed the episode thoroughly!!
Gizmo stole the show for me, I want to channel my inner Gizmo take time and smell the flowers
Craig’s too soulmate is Gizmo
I love Gizmo and his name suits him I want to go to SC and steal him he is sooooo cute
I thought the best part of the show starred Cameron. None of my family or friends who have been pregnant ever ate pickles and ice cream to satisfy a craving. But Cameron was adorable wiping Cheetos dust from her finger with a pickle spear.
If I had been on the boat I would have found Whitney. He’s the only one on the trip who didn’t pack drama in his over night bag.
Next week’s preview shows Shep saying that he hates Ashley. This is so uncharacteristic of mister can’t we all just get along. Ashley must really work a nerve if that’s the case.
Yes! The scene with Cameron eating cheese puffs out of the bucket was the highlight for me.
Cameran is obnoxious and fake. I was pregnant with twins and never sighed and lumbered and moaned as much as her. So staged with the junk food. “oh, look at her being all pregnant and miserable and opening a jar of PICKLES.” Wearing a revealing tank top doing lamaze with weirdo Whitney and pretending to be annoyed that he is looking at her boobs while she bends on all fours in front of him. And please put those thick legs away…
Cameran was going through those cheeseballs and pickles and all sorts of junk food the entire pregnancy. It’s all documented on social media. If you were pregnant in the summertime, in Charleston I’m gonna guess you would be in a tank top. Also, I think it is a true sign of a cunt when a woman mocks another woman’s looks. But making fun of a pregnant woman’s “thick legs” is a new low, a deep dive into the pool of cuntinesss. Your twins have a lot of obstacles to overcome in life to come out to be decent people.
Yaaaassss! My mouth literally dropped open at the thick leg snipe. Really?
That’s a cold blooded woman right there to make that kind of comment.
Thank you Tamara, your comment beat me but my sentiments exactly.
Right?? I kept thing how absolutely fabulous she looked! I was so bloated at that stage in pregnancy.
Thank you for this comment. I’ve never given birth but I can sympathize because I don’t see how ANY OF YOU GET THROUGH IT. And that’s just the beginning. Pregnant women deserve kindness, not digs.
I was also overdue and probably moaned a lot more than her. It is super painful towards the end and so uncomfortable. She does not seem fake to me at all. In fact I find it refreshing that she shows the good, the bad and the ugly.
Cameran is anything but ugly. I was looking at her hair, it’s her hair. I would love to have a head of hair like hers. I think she looks great. End of pregnancy, eats what she wants, her face isn’t bloated, she doesn’t look tired. She has beautiful genes or something.
Rough crowd, lol.
Not everyone has the same pregnancy. I’m currently 36 weeks pregnant and if you made a comment like that to my face, I’d punch you. Every women deals with pregnancy differently. No need to be so judgemental.
So trav thinks his fake girlfriend is controlling? Well, maybe, but as I understand being a rapist makes you pretty controlling to.
I would love to see Ashley’s reaction to Thomas’s confessionals and other trashing of her. I was astonished at how pushy, grubbing, bossy, whiney and just overall nasty she is. I agree with the poster who said she is exhausting to watch. That is exactly how I felt by the end of the show.
Yes , I agree! Her true colors came out this episode and she reminded me of someone that had Borderline Personality disorder where she thinks the relationship is so much closer and meaningful than it really is and I could totally see her stalking Thomas’ every move . She’s a bit scarey!
Kind of like Scheana Shay, but even she wasn’t THAT bitchy!!!
Yes! I agree although Ashley is 100% worse than Scheana. Sometimes I wonder if Thomas originally thought to pit Ashley and Katheryn against one another. But Katheryn didn’t fall for it and it drives him crazy that she isn’t interested. Meanwhile Ashley keeps demanding attention because she senses Thomas pulling away from her because he is preoccupied with thoughts of Katheryn.
But more importantly Katheryn is staying stronge in her recovery even though Thomas keeps creeping around her. I don’t know if I could be as strong as she is
Yes Yes and Yes!
I keep thinking whose worse.. Ashley or Landon?? Still undecided ?♀️
That is a tough one!
Landon. By a hair.
I’m undecided as well. They’re both annoying af
they were conjoined at birth they are 1 in the same I know TT you do not like when people knock a woman’s looks but these 2 ugly inside has crept up on them on the outside .
I love that even Gizmo does not like Naomie! I was kind of shocked to see how young Kathryn was. He definitely likes them young. I am so happy she has moved on from him. I also think Thomas may be afraid to dump Ashley, she is a scary one.
Thomas looks bloated and puffy. He really looks unhealthy. Karma is coming around and as soon as Thomas can’t film, shell be gone.
Gizzmo is so cute and Craig’s relation to seeing him was adorable!
its really sad to look back in hindsight and think about how much of what happened to Catherine probably was totally manipulated by Thomas so he could get his way. I mean, I always thought he was a crooked a**, but I wasn’t sure how much to believe of what was going on between him and Catherine. Granted, she likely was doing drugs, drinking, or whatever, but I think he was also. (I think I heard her say on one of the reunions that he shaved his head so they couldn’t test his hair for drugs or something – is that right?) If so, it sounds like he definitely tried to make himself look better to win the kids. In any event, watching sober Catherine makes me realize that she is a little socially awkward even in a normal state, so what we thought might have been drug induced or weird behavior before maybe wasn’t, lol. Does anyone else cringe when she is trying to express herself at times – just praying she’ll get the right words out and not end up making some crazy face? lol. I still like her a million times more than Ashley. Just making the observation about her obvious awkwardness at times. She definitely doesn’t have a poker face!
I’m not excusing Kathyns drug behavior however when you see how very young she was when Thomas “got” her…I AM forgiving her behavior! She was a baby. Thomas played cruel mind games to an innocent young lady. I’m so glad that she’s finally at the point where she sees him for EXACTLY the NON-Southern Gentleman, controlling, cruel liar that he is.
Kathryn wants to remain cordial for best co-parenting of the kids, & that’s admirable. But, trust me, @kathryndennis SEES him!?
I cried laughing until I peed watching Cameron eat cheese puffs and pickles!
Me too!
Cameran is a natural comedienne. The vacant stare, not even looking as she dipped into the cheesy poofs, popping open a new jar of pickles (damn, she got hand strength).
Our family loves that big ass barrel of cheese poofs but they go stale fast. They are usually a banned substance. When they came onscreen, my husband moaned (he is dieting).
I actually rolled off the couch, I laughed so much. It was a fantastic scene. “I will be googling vaginal tears”. So great.
Did anyone notice she had cheesy fingers and dipped them in the pickle juice? Those last couple weeks are murderous and being overdue compounds it ?? They could create another show from this season of her watching and recapping since she had to miss. I have laughed out loud at some of Naomie’s comments. She kind of is honestly reflecting the possessiveness we all can feel after a breakup. I can relate to her because sometimes being with someone you love so deeply who frustratingly lacks focus can be embittering. Hindsight is always 20/20 so we shall see.
The flashback to Kathryn’s grandmother reminded me that she is the one who sanctioned Kathryn’s relationship to Thomas. She had done the same and ended up with the Plantation House.
I didnt see Ashley begging for the Credit card. I did something came back and FF past TRav
That’s not true. Kathryn visited when she thought she was pregnant the first time (she wasn’t). All Granny said was “oh my” and asked how old Thomas is. She said she married a man 20 years older. What was Granny supposed to say when she thought Kathryn was already pregnant.
Also Kathryn told Thomas after the scare, her mom told her to start taking pre-natal vitamins. I don’t believe that either since her parents are very religious and don’t drink or smoke and probably knew of Thomas’ reputation.
Is it me, or is Ashley thirsty for camera-time. I hope she gets so pushy with Thomas, he pushes right on out the door. She is definitely extra….
It’s strange that at her all male dinner Pat brought up how women sleep with men before they get a marriage license, and at the same time was promoting Ashley who was doing just that.
Watching Ashley’s full court press by Bravo was hysterical and took thirsty to a whole new level. I guess that being a Polo Girl means that you do not actually ride horses, but simply play with the mallet.
Craig should have chucked Naomi over the side of the ferry when he had the chance. She is a real shrew.
I didn’t understand everyone’s hatred for Ashley til this episode. However, this is the first season I have ever watched, so you guys got a head start. I was appalled at her behavior from beginning to end. When Thomas just asked about how Kathryn was doing and, like a brat, she shouted something along the lines of “This is about me!” so embarrassing. Even more embarrassing than the fact that she is allowing him to take her to the same place he use to take Kathryn to fit his mold.
Then, the credit card comments and to top it off with her hate filled face and tantrum over a birthday party. Maybe she does belong at a two year old’s party based off this. I hope Kathryn stands by her initial reaction of this isn’t a conversation for the table. Ashley doesn’t seem to be able to think long enough to understand what she meant, but hopefully she gets a lesson on manners real soon.
Keep poking the bear, Ashley.
They need to quit putting California people on the show. Stick to Charleston/Charleston adjacent people.
Toally agree!
Is Patricia originally from Charleston? Whitney spends next to ZERO time there now.
Patricia was born in Jacksonville, Fl but raised in Richmond, VA
I had to fast forward through Cameron’s eating and complaining about waiting on her baby. This is like the second or third episode of seeing that. Just wait and show her again when she is delivering or home with her baby please. Gizmo was so cute, wish they could share custody but I guess that works better with dogs. Ashley was so obnoxious between coveting Vuitton luggage to asking for an expensive engagement ring. Golddigger much?? All she does is whine and complain. Ugh. I missed the first season or so of this show but I never recall Katherine asking for expensive stuff like Ashley does. I really like Craig but he needs a cleaning service, lol. I do hope he finds a nice girl, he deserves that. Loved that house in Hilton Head or Blufton. Beyond gorgeous!
I don’t remember Kathryn asking for much either and I remember one time early on Thomas commenting on that in a surprised sort of way on the show – Season 1?. Also, Kathryn looks good in anything and has often posted that leggings, or some piece of clothing a fan has admired, came from a chain store.
I remember when they were all going to Cooper’s Founders Ball and the ladies were looking at jewels to borrow. Kathryn couldn’t even be convinced to try on engagement rings. I think that speaks very highly of her. Also, when she said that her Birkin bag was fake, I laughed. I’m really glad she has gotten through difficulties and hope she continues to flourish.
your correct katherine has no need to beg for money her family rivals Ravenel any day as far as name recognition goes… I am enjoying watching Thomas’s girlfriend self destruct though funny stuff
I have to admit, I’ve always had a soft spot for Kathryn.
Thank you for the recap TT! I don’t really have much to add after the past few days reading your posts and comments it’s amazing to me how I was sucked in as truly an outsider. I really feel for Kathryn, she is still so young, I hope now she will be able to break from the grossness she’s been subjected to.
Only positive thing was Shep saying how much he hates Ashley in scenes for next week.
Naomie’s nose job is tragic. She was so beautiful and unique. Her talking heads with the new nose are jarring. I can understand why Craig cried over it.
I agree – I liked her original nose. Now she just looks like every other woman out there. Craig cried over the surgery?! How do you know this?!
WWHL interview earlier this week
While Cameran’s scene (and face) gave me life, Gizmo (theoretically a cat) actually following Naomie into the house was so pleasant.
Ashley HAD to be scripted. Could she be dumb enough to allow a camera to film her being so needy? And, as I commented before, how could she be a “polo girl “and not know what to wear for horseback riding?
Kathryn and her friends was a nice bit of filming. It appears they care for one another. I truly hope she gets to raise the children. I do believe she has been set up to look bad. Do I think she was able to get drugs and liquor easily, with the help of others who wanted a downfall? Yes.
Loving the scenery of Daufuskie and HH. Really loving the cast interactions that seem a slice of reality, not scripted drama.
Poor Naomie. She should just accept and love Craig for who he is. He is her ride or die.
And I leave with this tantalizing thought that is in my brain: if there is a legal proceeding, will Whitney’s mom be called to testify?
I agree 10000 % on your comment I believe Katheryn was set up so her children could be taken away
If some wannabe made a crack about my parenting, I would have forgotten every ounce of my breeding and southern charm and flown across the table and wrung her scrawny neck!
I thought the other women were going to do it for her. Kathryn knows she can’t do anything because she will get knocked back on the court appointed steps.
They did. Verbally. I think they all know that Kathryn’s next opportunity to get full, or at least half, custody, is going to take all of TRav’s behavior into question. Including his choice of who is allowed around his children. That Kensie is damned precocious and I shudder to think of Ashley modeling that horrid behavior for her. She cares about the ring and the wallet, not the man, and only about the kids to hurt Kathryn.
anyone notice how carpetbagger pat’s face is drooping in spots and frozen in spots? trav is just drooling over kd! she’s the mother of his children, she has an old charleston pedigree and the kids love their mom!!! loved the way he kept making comparisons – kd has louis vuitton, inquired abt her at glynns. would love to see ashley watching trav trash her. the greater kd’s indifference to thomas, the more he wants her. he may be going away and she will end up w/custoday!
Actually, she has an old SC pedigree if not quite a Charleston one. Her family is genteel country and highly respected.
I don’t like Ashley, granted she is nasty, however I cant romanticize. Ravenal in anyway. He is a pig and a scoundrel. Tell her it’s not working and be done. He is nasty too. He keeps stirring the pot with Kathryn’s name. He is the villain here in all these cases. Ashley is a desperate, insecure, money hungry woman. They are using each other. But as someone who claims to be mannered, a gentleman, classy representation of southern genteel he fails miserably. He is a disgrace to true gentleman everywhere. As the countess would say, money can’t buy you class…in his case quite the opposite e.
Lorip, I respectfully disagree– I think Patricia looks amazing! She is a beautiful woman and doesn’t look anywhere near 77! I was close with both my grandmothers and I remember what 77 “used to look like.” Even with Botox, fillers or surgery, one can’t look as good as Patricia without first being blessed with great genes. When combined with an often self-deprecating sense of humor, she’s all the prettier.
TRav calling kensies underwear “panties” grossed me out
Me too. I don’t like that word in general but to hear it from him made me shudder
I almost puked when an ex-boyfriend who called HIS underwear panties. Then I realized he was being sarcastic. Close call…
Thomas has made my skin crawl since season one. He’s 55, I’m sure there are many women he has abused in the last 35 or so years. I also believe he was raised it was his right to do so. I think his father was just as big a creep as Thomas back in the day. Remember on season one (I think) he was talking about a woman he loved but wouldn’t marry because of her lack of social status? I think he lost his soul then.
Kathryn has made some horrible mistakes which I’m sure she regrets and will for a long time. She seems to have really turned it around. I hope she can keep it together during the shit storm that is to come. I’m rooting for her. She’s the most mature person in the Thomas Ashley situation. Can’t wait for Kathryn to put polo-girl in her place.
Gizmo is my favorite character on this show. He was so good, checking out the property then waiting patiently at the door. What a good kitty. Naomie deserved the hiss.
Love Craig, not wasting time commenting on Shep & Austin. Actually liking Whitney this season.
I feel for Cameran, the last few weeks are miserable. I remember telling my OB to please get him out. I was two weeks over due at the time and deserved to be whiney.
Ashley isn’t going anywhere. She’s going to get as much from Thomas as she can, wait out her pre-paid rent and get a big fat check for her signature on an NDA.
Off to watch my favorite Bravo show Imposters. Last night was my nieces HS graduation, so proud of her, valedictorian!
Congrats on that niece, AAL! I think you’re right, T-Rav was raised, as we say in FL, to think that his “shit don’t stink.” These rich boys felt like they could grab any girl by any body part and do what they wanted.
I do think that the accusations against T-Rave will remove him, and hence Trashley, from the show.
I think you are right about like father, like son. A lifelong combo of good ol’ boys, money, family name, power and entitlement is a setup for date rape and outright rape. Master and slave, a Southern tradition. Then on the other end of the tradition, we have the true Southern Gentlemen, and I have been privileged to know of those courtly, courteous fine men.
Hisssssssss! Maaaaoouuuuuu! Omg, Gizzzmooo! Is So ANGRY at Naomie for taking him away from Craig! And I have to wonder if production got him in the house – because most cats won’t come in that way. Let’s sick Gizmo on Ashley! And how old is Ashley? Because judging from her side shot saggy chin – I would say add 5 years. It was sad to learn that Kathryn’s sweet grandmother is gone. What a beautiful and lovely lady. And thank you TT for pointing out how young Kathryn was when the show started. She looked like a child. Ashley was trying to bully Kathryn about not being invited to Saint’s party. How dare Ashley? But Kathryn has finally learned how to fight bullies. Good for you, Kathryn!
Ashley is at least 32.
I am all for Gizmo getting his own spin off, with craig of course. Naomi gave Gizmo a lion cut, that’s why He’s missed with her.
Not to be nitpicky, but it is Austen who is dating Victoria.
I cannot stand every time Dick head sees her he asked her if she wants a drink or a glass of wine.. What a fucken putz.
I noticed that too, challenging her sobriety every chance he can. POS.
Is he dumb or despicable? Duh, BOTH. All Kathryn needs to do is present clips from this season at her next custody hearing. I don’t believe any honest judge could find him the better parent. Even with his family name.
Yes, and more than that even – seeming to want her to relapse.
Completely agree
Grandma and Katherine scenes were sweet and Katherine’s comments about their relationship. I’ve been watching old episodes and the episode where Trav breaks up with K. and cries that he’s an old man and she’s crying because she still loves him. Cameron commented in a reunion for that season that she realized it was real for them.
I have always been a Kathryn fan since season 1. With that being said, she did have some questionable moments but I kind of thought that there had to be more going on behind the scenes with TDouchebag that would make her behave so erratically. I think he promised her a lot but never kept those promises. Being in a relationship where there unequal footing and the other person lords over you and makes you feel less than is never a good thing. And yes, the partying, drugs and alcohol certainly didn’t help her situation and I was glad that she went off to rehab. It gave her the space she needed to get him out of her system and get some clarity. Now that she is back and trying to make a better life for herself and her children, TDouchbag is trying hard to bring her down. Offering her, on more than one occasion, a drink, knowing that she is sober is beyond disgusting. You would think that he would support her in her sobriety given that they have children together. He is trying to make her jealous but it is not working and she is not falling for it.
Other than the getting-better-each episode Craig, this one was all about the ladies … I love seeing them getting along … perhaps because we are Dolphin-free? Cam and Chelsea: solid gold; mo’ Dani, mo beta, give us mo’; Naomi is finding it as hard to let go of the dream as the man, but she is RIDE OR DIE for her galpals and she will be “normal Maomi” soon; and I have long had a soft spot for Kathryn, she has grown so much and so beautifully. When Dani, Naomi and Chelsea told Ashley to back off — a magnificent moment. Ashley— is she REALLY a hospice nurse? I don’t believe it. Perhaps “hospice nurse” is a euphemism for “chick who sucks off dying geezers for money”? Even SHEP hates her! It chills me that she is allowed around Kathryn’s children. But it looks like she will be having her own soon — and TRav is too narcissistic to see it coming.
When TT mentioned Ashley as a hospice nurse I thought she was joking implying she was Thomas’ hospice nurse
Ever since the Dolphin exited, the ladies have presented a United from, and have put these men on notice. Great to see these ladies being cool and supportive of each other.
“A chick who sucks off dying geezers for money”? No, that is not what a hospuce nurse is. That statement is offensive. They are angels that come to someone and their family at an extremely difficult time. They do their best to make a patients life comfortable.
I dont know how Ashley treated her patients. I only hope you don’t need hospice in your life anytime soon. I thank God for Mama’s hospice nurse.
I meant no offense to REAL hospice nurses. They are angels on Earth. Only to the term as applied to Ashley, which I did not make clear. She seems to have nether the compassion, empathy, selflessness, nor grace to be a real hospice nurse. Not to mention the intelligence to pass any test. I apologize to anyone of the noble hospice field who I may have offended. You have cared for my family in ways that will be remembered and appreciated forever.
I have to say that I would be TERRIFIED to find Ashley assigned to look after me in my home if I were terminally ill and alone. She is not anything like any hospice nurse I have ever met. Someone as nakedly avaricious as Ashley is not suited to being a hospice nurse – particularly looking after people in their homes, away from supervision by other health professionals.
BTW TT: Sorry you didn’t enjoy this episode. I liked it for likely the same reason you were bored … plodding along … because I think the whole thing was a setup for next week’s episode. The previews of next week had more excitement than the rest of the hourlong show.
I have been wanting to comment 4 years. I finally got the gumption to say something. I think the problem with Ashley is the same as what the problem was with Kathryn; Trav has a tenacity for f’ing the minds of the gals. I mean it is so clear that Thomas thrives on feeding, even creating, their insecurities. See how he withers in to a mess of his own when he sees he doesn’t have Kathryn wrapped around his pinkie anymore. Ashley, while irritating, while self destructive, I believe the problem is Trav. He goes out of his way to show how he wants Kathryn in front of her, knowing she would naturally feel threatened. And of course, Ashley wouldn’t want him going to a party where Kathryn is going to be without her. She knows she is on borrowed time this begging him to make it permanent. Trav plays with her mind, just like he did with Kathryn and then we watch them unravel on national TV. It is sad. I think he is the worst kind of player. The problem I have is it is so obvious, so why does anyone put up with his BS? Oh yeah, he is rich and reality show famous, lol.
My first boyfriend was similar. The control maneuvers are classic. Separate you from your friends and family… like any good abuser. TRav has the money and power that mine did not. Plus, all of his past and future women became my friends. It takes a lot to break free.
My first boyfriend was similar. The control maneuvers are classic. Separate you from your friends and family… like any good abuser. TRav has the money and power that mine did not. Plus, all of his past and future women became my friends. It takes a lot to break free.
Did anyone else notice that TRav referred to Ashley as “his old lady”?! Eyeroll City!
Next he will brag that they had a groovy time balling all night. (I had almost forgotten we called it “balling” back in the hippie days.
Can we all take a moment of silence for Ashely actually asking T-Rav if he owned the town of Ravenel?
Not only does it show how completely stupid she is, she’s also thirsty & only cares about money.
Hilton head a mountain? Oh yes, we noticed.
Yes, Angela. And the more words I hear come out of Ashley’s mouth, the more I marvel that she is reportedly – a nurse.
I was wondering is Ashley could be any more obvious in her pursuit, it is rather pathetic even if it is a relationship by Bravo. Every other phrase to roll off her tongue is about knocking her up or putting a ring on it Nd acting like a Harpy. As Thomas was showing Kathryn his room and how cool it was Ashley was getting all butt hurt because he only has eyes for his kids mother. Ashley is crazy. Thomas is disgusting. I love Chelsea, I really do. Gizmo is awesome and Craig should have gotten custody of the cat, he likes him better. I loved how Dani defended Kathryn, she has her back.
Congrats on that niece, AAL! I think you’re right, T-Rav was raised, as we say in FL, to think that his “shit don’t stink.” These rich boys felt like they could grab any girl by any body part and do what they wanted.
I do think that the accusations against T-Rave will remove him, and hence Trashley, from the show.
What’s up with the store Gwynn’s being one of the cast members this season?
Do the producers of the show own an interest in that store or something?
I think Ashley is trying to position herself as a breakout star .
LOL, I don’t see that happening!
I am so fricken angry at this Ashley bird. (We say ‘bird’ in Australia to denote a woman who is one of many. It is slightly derogatory).
I have a blended family. I have been every combination of mother, step-mother, baby mama and simply ‘dad’s girlfriend’ (through timing – not prolific procreation – my bio kid is the baby of the bunch) and I have always had one firm rule. The day the kid came out of YOUR vagina is for mum, dad and the child. No exceptions. I bow out gracefully on that one day and expect the same thing (with varied results).
I will sit quietly at the back of recitals, first communions etc, but mama has final say celebrating the day she pushed a head from her cervix. Piss off Ashley.
This was the second episode I’ve watched. I had to see what all the fuss was about with Ashtray. Yup, she’s going to try and get pregnant. You can literally see her skin crawl when the sweating whore in church is any where near Kathryn. He’s a jerkwad trying to get a reaction from Kathryn. I love how she doesn’t give him the time of day. With the new allegations against him, it makes me wonder about the hell he’s put Kathryn through. She was a child when he first started preying on her.
I like how the girls are a tight knit group. As it should be. I was cheering when they stood up for Kathryn. I love Craig. What a great, laid back, hot dude he is! I thought Whitney could be gay in the other episode I watched. This episode? Not so much. It will be interesting to see how he reacts to the situation with the sweating whore in church.
TT, is it true Southern Charm began as Whitney’s project to showcase the whore’s life as someone mentioned? I’m finding this show fascinating after all the tea I’ve read about it here through the years. Might be binge watching it this weekend.
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, WTF IS GOING ON WITH ALL THE STUPID NICKNAMES CROPPING UP AGAIN?
EVERYONE, PLEASE GO READ THE COMMENTING RULES.
I apologize.
It’s bugging the shit out of me. WTF.
Watching this episode now. Ashley has literally ZERO shame. She doesn’t even care to mask what a gold digger she is. It’s embarrassing to watch.
My favorite part of the show was Ashley whining about the horseback riding. First she didn’t know what to wear and no one was helping her figure it out. Then she got on the horse and she hated it and wouldn’t stop complaining the entire time. No adult I know behaves in this manner. She has no shame!
I’m Team Katherine, but does it drive anyone crazy that they named their kid Saint Julien and they call him Saint, and not Julien? Am I missing something?
St. Julien Ravenel is an old family name, I think there are two before him. There could be another kid in the family who is already called Julien.
Who was born first? Saint Julien or Saint West?
Saint Julien
I loved this episode for the scenery and memories alone. Chelsea mentioned how much it had changed since she was a kid there, can only imagine, she was probably only a pup when I was visiting. I didn’t spend much time on HH in the late 80’s early 90’s but a lot in the surrounding area. HH was already built up quite a bit…I went to a wedding out behind the “Salty dog” under a huge tree…?Cottonwood? My across the street neighbor from IN worked there for years and married the first time there…
I went to a wedding at the Citadel, Church family friends from IN. the still live in the area, closer to Savanah. My parents still visit every year.
When I lived in Augusta, GA we’d head to Fripp island, dinky little rental condo and then drive… I love Beaufort SC, I could probably still find the house “The Big Chill” was filmed in/at. Eat…I mean every meal was low country boil, stopping on the roadside and buying peaches and plums. My favorite place was Hunting island state park, I still have a couple sand dollars from that amazing beach. The last time I was there it had been discovered, wasn’t the same…
I’m with you, Kipper! Loved the scenery and the memories it brought back. Climbing “our” lighthouse, sitting under the Great Oak Tree, swimming in the ocean, biking to South Beach, eating at “Truffles,” looking for alligators, touring Daufuskie in an old pink school bus, fishing for mackerel and then eating our catch…will always love HHI~
I forgot about the lighthouse!
There are not many things I have expertise on, but navigating life in the role of a step-parent is one of them and Ashley is doing every single thing you shouldn’t do. Acceptance is slowly won by kids and the other parent, and only once you prove that you’re in it for the long haul and that’s honestly the way it should be. You get so much farther staying in your lane and being nice to the mother of your partner’s children, then you do by forcing your way in. Some things I’m invited to, some things I’m not, and I’m okay with the things I’m not invited to because I have a few hours free to myself.
It can indeed be a very tough & thankless role, but at the end of the day the children come first. But I liken being a step-parent to being the Veep. You have a title with no real authority, so just keep your mouth shut, publicly support the President/parent and hash out any issues you have privately as a couple.
A stepmom here…you hit the nail on the head. Perfect explanation.
Finally saw this episode, and it brought back so many fond memories for me as well! I grew up on Wilmington Island, a barrier island off of Savannah. We frequently visited Hilton Head, and I actually had a cat named Daufuskie. My dad found two kittens on the side of the road, brought them home, and we named them Tybee and Daufuskie. Tybee was this cute, cuddly orange tabby, while Daufuskie was a wild child calico. He told me i could keep only one, whichever one wasn’t given away. Of course, the friend that came over to see the kittens chose Tybee to take home, leaving me with the wild thing. She ended up being the best cat, only ever loved me, and lived to be seventeen. She finally passed after I’d gone away to college. Broke my heart I wasn’t there to say goodbye. Anyway, you rarely see mention of Daufuskie, so it was a nostalgic episode for me!