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All Charges Against Jason Hoppy To Be Dismissed

October 23, 2017 by tamaratattles 88 Comments

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The headlines today about Jason Hoppy taking a plea deal are FALSE.

Last month, Jason Hoppy’s trial was set to begin. However, the Assistant District Attorney was not prepared, so the trial date was postponed until October 23rd. The charges were brought in January and updated in June.  In August he refused the courts offer of an adjournment in contemplation of dismissal where he would have pled guilty to one count and sentenced to one day of anger management.

Jason has continuously refused to accept any outcome that would require him to plead guilty to anything. That is why they were in court today to begin trial. Jason continued to force the courts hand to either convict him of something, or drop the charges. Today he showed up so that the prosecutor could make his case against him. They finally threw in the towel.

The judge offered a new adjournment in contemplation of dismissal that did not require Jason to plead guilty to anything.  Here are the guidelines for the new agreement.

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“If you have no new arrests for six months and you abide by the full stay-away order for the defendant, in this case Bethenny Frankel for the same six-month period, your case will be dismissed and sealed. The court is also issuing a full stay-away order for a full six months, and you cannot go to her [Bethenny Frankel’s] home or place of business or place of employment. You cannot reach out to her by phone, no emails, no texting, and no contact through a third party. No contact at all for six months. If you violate your order it will lead to your arrest and possible criminal and more serious charges.”

Jason’s lawyer,Alex Spiro, accepted the offer on behalf of Jason in the courtroom today.  Spiro stated “We are pleased but not all surprised that the charges were dismissed. It is clear from the trajectory of this case that the claims were not substantiated or credited and her motive was questioned. Mr. Hoppy looks forward to moving on with his life and his daughter.”

And just like I kept on saying, the case will be tossed out after a six month period. Unfortunately, Alex Spiro is an extremely expensive attorney so Jason was saddled with six figure attorney fees for the protracted court case and it didn’t cost Bethenny a dime.

And that’s the real story.

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  1. thetatumtalks says

    October 23, 2017 at 6:32 pm

    Wait…how do they communicate about the needs of their daughter if he is not allpwed to contact her in any of those ways?

    I never thought Jason was a bad dude, but I’m not feeling too bad on the legal fees front…it was Betheny’s $$ to begin with. *snicker*

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    • JustJenn says

      October 23, 2017 at 6:43 pm

      That’s what I thought, too. That no contact through third party is a little extreme when children with shared custody are involved.

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    • Twilly says

      October 23, 2017 at 9:41 pm

      Im guessing through a strict custody agreement, and/or attorneys.

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  2. Liza says

    October 23, 2017 at 6:39 pm

    I think he will violate the order. Guys like that can’t help them selves.

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    • Meredith says

      October 23, 2017 at 6:43 pm

      I agree.

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    • tamaratattles says

      October 23, 2017 at 7:51 pm

      The order has been in place FOR MONTHS. So I don’t get the whole “guys like that” impression. He was in a continuous divorce with a lot of arguing. Bethenny played the poor pitiful me card. They had no grounds for prosecution. The charges were dropped.

      Yall make it sound like he is cooking babies and eating them.

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      • leesaj says

        October 23, 2017 at 8:13 pm

        To me this always seemed about much ado about nothing. I hate to speak on domestic violence/stalkering whatever and give the defendant the benefit of the doubt but after reading the charges something just didn’t click. It was weird to go through her then BF but something is just off with this whole story. Best of luck to both of them, may they find happiness.

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        • Calipatti says

          October 23, 2017 at 11:49 pm

          Bethenny asked Jason to stop emailing her and a few weeks later her attorney sent Jason a letter requesting he stop all contact with her.
          From the attorneys letter to when she took her information to the courts there were 160+ emails in about 2+ months then the texts.
          There are very few reasons in a normal life to talk to each other about their daughter unless pick up time changes.
          160 emails in 60 days is over 2 1/2 emails each day and we know they were not nice words of encouragement. Why does she have to have secretary open and read them just in case ithey held something, can’t (probably) legally block him, why does she have to deal. Then the texts.
          My thinking is Jason will obey all rules, he isn’t obsessed he wants revenge, mad for ruining his good life. Maybe he will move on but I’m doubtful. He is sly and lives to harass Bethenny. It will be constant little things just to drive her crazy. After all wouldn’t that be nice, make Bethenny act or look crazy, get custody and file for support money. Bethenny is a survivor and Jason won’t be her down fall.

          I don’t understand how any of you think receiving constant rude horrid emails is okay. Plus showing up where she is, there were FaceTime messages, who wants a ex all over your phone.!

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          • TheArtistFormerlyKnownAsYoya says

            October 24, 2017 at 10:41 am

            Surprise surprise, the legal system fails to properly deal with a disturbed man harassing a woman. If there were nothing to this he wouldn’t have been ordered not to contact her.

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          • BroMo90 says

            October 25, 2017 at 2:42 pm

            I agree with you and don’t really understand the sympathizers. He just needs to move on with his life.

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      • Meredith says

        October 23, 2017 at 8:22 pm

        I just find him to be unhinged. I mean who sends upwards of hundreds of emails to their ex? Like why? That’s not healthy behavior.

        Also I am admittedly a huge Bethenney fan especially given how she is using her influence towards very worthy and much needed causes.

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        • Dixie Sugarbaker says

          October 23, 2017 at 10:06 pm

          I question whether he actually sent that many emails. If he had, wouldn’t the DA have at least tried the case?

          My guess it was a BS case that they thought they could bully Hoppy into a plea deal. They were wrong.

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          • Calipatti says

            October 23, 2017 at 11:54 pm

            So the number 160 was pulled out of her ass?
            Screaming at her in front of their daughters school?
            Have any of you dealt with a crazy ex, they are scary.
            Possibly Jason being arrested and coming so close to a trial was enough to wake him up.

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            • Suzanne D says

              October 24, 2017 at 4:00 pm

              His attorney kept demanding the evidence, and the DA kept delaying the case. So I doubt there really were that many emails. I’m not saying Jason handled things appropriately, but Bethaney is not innocent either. She is a nasty, vile, and vindictive person. She didn’t understand that when you are married, it’s ‘our’ money and not ‘her’ money. He is owed something for being married to her. Just like her pat on the back PR trip. Yes, the people of PR benefited, but it was all about making herself look good instead of doing a good thing. That’s how people like her roll.

        • tamaratattles says

          October 24, 2017 at 12:34 am

          ” I mean who sends upwards of hundreds of emails to their ex? Like why? ”

          It boiled down to a few emails/texts a day. Who does that? Someone who is being dicked around regarding his visitation with his child. ‘

          How many texts would you send if your ex husband was trying to fuck with your visitation with your kid. At what point would you become unhinged?

          These are the things Bethenny did not want to come out in court,

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          • Spunky2015 says

            October 25, 2017 at 6:19 pm

            Rumor is that Jason was upset that a revolving door of interns were taking Brynn to school and got frustrated on trying to talk to her about it. Why he emailed Shields and showed up at school. If true, Jason has a point about strangers around his kid.

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            • tamaratattles says

              October 25, 2017 at 6:23 pm

              I feel like Bethenny didn’t want to testify and expose all of the actual information.

              I’m not on either side per se. I just think the fact that this drama was in CRIMINAL COURT was utterly ridiculous. Criminal courts don’t have time to litigate custody issues. That is what civil court is for. Or the two parties could just act like adults

    • Anna says

      October 23, 2017 at 8:07 pm

      Me three. Want to place bets on how long?
      I say 7 weeks.

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    • Twilly says

      October 23, 2017 at 9:42 pm

      Yup. He clearly has bad judgement, expecting Bethenny to settle down.

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      • Calipatti says

        October 23, 2017 at 11:57 pm

        Of course it was Bethenny’s fault for not doing as she was told. After all Jason is the sane stable one, She just could not behave herself.

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  3. Flo says

    October 23, 2017 at 6:39 pm

    I honestly feel bad for him. Sure, I do get my knowledge of him from Bethenny Ever After, but he seemed like the good guy to her neurosis. Shame they couldn’t have worked it out between themselves, it can’t be good for Brynn.

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  4. ??NorthenChill?? says

    October 23, 2017 at 6:40 pm

    He was stalking and harassing her and confronted her at her daughters school with witnesses. How is this her fault?? Jason has always been a controlling ads. Bethany too, its why theyvdidnt work. But to say she lied about his behavior is like blanking the victim. What happened to the great #MeToo movement. This sort of posses all over that..
    Dont get me wrong not a big Bethany fan and I feel for Bren the most out of all of this. But just don’t think we should point fingers at the victim.

    Maybe I’m touchy too because of my past abuse though… Just not a typical response is expect from Tattles.

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    • ??NorthenChill?? says

      October 23, 2017 at 6:41 pm

      I hate auto correct

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      • tamaratattles says

        October 23, 2017 at 7:41 pm

        Auto correct wanted me to tell you it hates you too.

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    • tamaratattles says

      October 23, 2017 at 7:40 pm

      For the record, the #metoo hashtag is about sexual abuse victims. As someone who has been sexually abused I find your attempt to equate a verbal argument between a couple going through divorce to sexual abuse highly offensive and simply disgusting.

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      • Tammy says

        October 23, 2017 at 8:16 pm

        Tamara you suck

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        • tamaratattles says

          October 23, 2017 at 8:58 pm

          I totally do. I also stink. You are very perceptive.

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    • Twilly says

      October 23, 2017 at 9:44 pm

      Was he though? According to whom? Why was there zero prosecution case then? I like Bethenny at times and NO ONE deserves harassment or threats. But there seemed to be NO CASE from the start.

      I think they’re both bitter and angry and Bryn will be the only and ultimate victim in all of it.

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      • Calipatti says

        October 24, 2017 at 12:27 am

        It wasn’t exactly zero, if there was nithing he would had walked out completely free. Charges are still there for 6 months. He has restrictions that are easy for him to do. It’s all Bethenny wanted, no contact with him. I’m certain if he had not sent 160 emails then she would not had minded a few emails telling her how rotten she is.
        Bethenny did not fabricate or lie about emails, she does not care.
        If you received 2 negative emails every single day plus texts that you had to read in case it contained information, would you really be okay with that? I think she waited that long hoping he would stop if she never replied.
        Now I’m done,

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        • tamaratattles says

          October 24, 2017 at 12:41 am

          Calipatti. You seem really unhinged lately. Are you okay? Are you taking medication that may need to be recalibrated?

          It’s not uncommon for divorced people to send two or three emails a day to each other regarding their kid.

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          • Calipatti says

            October 24, 2017 at 2:34 am

            TT really, I replied to one person then saw another comment.
            This subject hits close to home and even though I never read about Bethenny playing games with visitation I believe you.
            You take care.

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          • Erica says

            October 24, 2017 at 3:45 am

            Assume for a moment that what Bethenny and her boyfriend stated in the complaint was true – telling Bethenny’s boyfriend that she is evil isn’t regarding parenting of Brynn. Telling Bethenny that she is just like her mother and that Brynn will hate her when she is older isn’t about successful co-parenting.

            Courts can legislate parenting plans. They can legislate how much someone has to pay the other. Courts can even determine if you are reaching the level of

            But being an asshole? That ain’t against the law. I think Jason is an asshole in this scenario.

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        • samaraohara says

          October 24, 2017 at 12:29 pm

          Makes sense.

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    • Twilly says

      October 23, 2017 at 9:47 pm

      #MeToo is about sexual harassment and assault. Not even in the slightest comparable to this.

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  5. samael says

    October 23, 2017 at 6:56 pm

    Thanks for explaining this – it was so confusing. When I read the various articles about this subject, I kept asking myself – so all Jason has to do – is exactly what he has been doing since at least the beginning of this “trial”.

    Bets on Bethenny requesting another stay away order (since this one will work so well) just to poke back at Jason – ask for one after this present 6 month stay away – expires.

    I do wonder how Jason will communicate his enquiries/confirmation of Bryn’s plans, if he is cannot communicate with Bethenny.

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    • Jane says

      October 23, 2017 at 7:14 pm

      I wouldn’t consider it a poke back, requesting another “stay away” order. I think it was on the reunion where Bethenny stated all she wanted was no contact from Jason, ever again. There is no reason for them to have to communicate with each other. Sure in a perfect world they would get it together for the child, but they are not in one. Bethenny has plenty of employees that can be the go between. Leave each other alone and go on about your business.

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      • samael says

        October 23, 2017 at 7:25 pm

        Since we don’t know how this will be addressed – why assume suddenly Bethenny’s life is their responsibility?

        Employees would be a no go for me- they are paid for their service to Bethenny and have zero to do with Jason. Due to Bethenny spazzing out this season, for being asked ONE question about her personal life, I doubt that Bethenny would saddle her employee’s with the responsibilities of being a “third party”.

        Usually the third party only has the interest of ensuring goals are met and concerns/questions forwarded to either party.

        Interesting situation.

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        • Erica says

          October 24, 2017 at 3:58 am

          Why assume that being the 3rd party is their responsibility? Because they are being paid to do so.

          If you were the other parent you would certainly have the right to object to individuals for the hand off – but object too much and the judge would probably consider you a major pain the ass who wasn’t willing to compromise. Employees would be better than a relative, unless one still had a good relationship with said ex-relative (not unheard of – sometimes the parents keep quiet so they can still see the kiddos, even though they think their offspring is the douchebag in the situation)

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          • samael says

            October 24, 2017 at 9:21 am

            all kinds of WRONG

            when you hire a receptionist – in their job description is it stated – due to my inability to be an adult – you will now be responsible for the child I created.

            yeah – that makes sense!

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            • Jane says

              October 24, 2017 at 6:39 pm

              Ridiculousness. Regardless of which “Team” your on, clearly Bethenny and Jason have a highly contentious relationship. Designating a neutral party for the hand off creates a more pleasant, easy transition for Bryn. If that is what it takes to have better environment for the child, then good for her. (and/or him, if he is in agreement)

            • samael says

              October 24, 2017 at 7:07 pm

              re read my comment

              btw why haven’t you acknowledged tamara posting that the nanny will be the third party.
              you are choosing to not apply common sense.

            • Erica says

              October 25, 2017 at 7:23 pm

              Who said receptionist? I’m talking about a nanny or a personal assistant, who are hired to do much worse things than driving your kid to the other parent’s house.

      • Twilly says

        October 23, 2017 at 9:52 pm

        Then she shouldnt have used an actual relationship as a sperm donor. She needs to grow up and accept he is the child’s parent too. Bryn is 50% hers amd 50% his. To rob Bryn of time with her Dad is cruel and selfish. She’s turning into her bitter shrew just like her own mother.

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        • Anna says

          October 23, 2017 at 11:08 pm

          I believe they split custody and care of Brynn equally. It’s not up to Bethenny, she can’t rob him of any time with their daughter. The court settled that.

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  6. Gillianfirst says

    October 23, 2017 at 7:08 pm

    I have been in a similar situation as Bethany. Had I not experienced it, I’d think she was just overreacting per usual. But when someone who is supposed to help care and protect for your child comes after you in a threatening way, even just verbally/showing up out of the blue, it’s terrifying. Sometimes the courts are a last resort to seek that protection from someone who should have the child’s interest at heart, not his own.

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  7. tamaratattles says

    October 23, 2017 at 7:55 pm

    There is a nanny that takes the child back and forth for visits which are scheduled. Should one or the other need to communicate a change of custody arrangement, they will do so through the nanny.

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    • Calipatti says

      October 24, 2017 at 12:07 am

      Great then no more daily or twice daily emails. No more texts and face time messages. That’s all Bethenny wanted was no contact. All will be fine.

      The DA wasn’t ready, the judge saw all the emails and that is why charges were not dropped without those restrictions on Jason. If it was truly a bogus case Jason wound had walked out free with no restrictions.

      Good night, have a great week.

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      • Carrol says

        October 26, 2017 at 12:41 am

        ”the judge saw all the emails and that is why charges were not dropped without those restrictions on Jason. If it was truly a bogus case Jason wound had walked out free with no restrictions”.

        Agree. ….once before a judge its no longer he said she said……the emails were evidence enough for him to be restricted from contact.

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        • tamaratattles says

          October 26, 2017 at 12:50 am

          The order of protection was put in place MONTHS ago. This drama all happened when the were filming RHONY (thus Bethenny’s schedule with Bryn changed a lot causing a need for lots of contact.

          Jason was ARRESTED which led to a judge approving a protective order for Bethenny.

          The ACD typical when charges are DROPPED just to make sure the person can go six months without getting arrested AGAIN.

          THE JUDGE likely hasnt seen a single email as there was never a TRIAL WITH EVIDENCE FOR HIM TO CONSIDER BECAUSE THERE WAS NOT ENOUGH EVIDENCE TO TAKE TO TRIAL.

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          • Carrol says

            October 28, 2017 at 7:22 pm

            Check the latest in NY papers coverage.

            The facts are, according to the New York District Attorney’s office, that ‘ HOPPY AGREED TO A PLEA DEAL* in contemplation of dismissal in court Monday.

            The plea has been on the table since August, when it was offered to Hoppy after a judge *DENIED* his request to dismiss Frankel’s charges.

            So EVIDENTLY INNOCENT HOPPY DIDNT WANT GO TO TRIAL AND TAKE HIS CHANCES ON THE EVIDENCE.

            Since all the latest are saying the same thing in regard to the time line of the arrest/case and the DA office spokesperson also I think we can believe it.

            One reason I tend to believe Bethenny is not exaggerating, by too much anyway, is because her then boy friend Dennis Shields had his lawyer send a letter to Hoppy warning him to stop sending Shields dozens of emails with “increasing frequency and hostility.”

            Dennis Shield’s is a experienced businessman plus his mother is a attorney so I doubt he’s a hysterical type or uninformed about what his legal rights are or
            what he would need to show a court in the event the psycho Hoppy kept on with his harassment.

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            • tamaratattles says

              October 28, 2017 at 7:59 pm

              That is incorrect. Completely false. Jason did not plea to a single thing. He has refused a plea deal for months. The case was set for trial. Jason showed up to trial, the prosecution did not want to proceed. The judge set the Adjournment in Contemplation of dismissal with no requirement to plea. All he has to do is keep his nose clean for the prescribed time period.

              Your “facts” are wrong. I believe I began this story pointing out that the headlines were wrong. The fact that you believe them is not my problem. I’ve read the order. There was no plea. The charges will be dismissed.

  8. Cecy says

    October 23, 2017 at 8:25 pm

    What a shitty court system that deems parents of a child are not allowed to talk to each other. Placing the onus of responsibility on a nanny or 3rd party is just more evidence of how entitled and fucked up Bethany is in real life. #teamjason..b is a cuntsickle always

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    • Calipatti says

      October 24, 2017 at 12:12 am

      Wow so Bethenny is suppose to read his rude, nasty emails twice a day just keep lines of communication open.

      You do understand they are divorced and can’t stand each other. Nothing left to say to each other.
      Oh Bryn ate 1/2 her tuna sandwich today and played in park for a hour, this type of daily talk?

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      • Erica says

        October 24, 2017 at 4:21 am

        What does emailing a boyfriend that your ex (the MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD) is pure evil have to do with good co-parenting. How is emailing or saying to your ex that she is just like her abusive mother and that when your child is older you hope that your child hates her mother an example of Jason being a good parent and Bethenny being entitled and fucked up? If you are Team Jason, you are the “cuntsickle”. (What the fuck is that anyway?)

        Bethenny had a fucked up childhood, yes, but at the heart of things she is a caring person with a huge heart who is also a strong, efficient businesswoman. Her parents were reprehensible, and she was very honest at trying to work on the damage they did to her (both on RHONY and her spin off).

        Jason was fucking passive aggressive about that from the get go. When she was happy and thrilled to be with him – he fucking set off my alarm bells.

        To use that vulnerability and her “buttons” against her now, to actually put out in the universe that he hopes his daughter has the same relationship with her mother as her mother had with her grandmother is REPREHENSIBLE AND DISGUSTING.

        No seriously… if he loves his daughter unselfishly, he would WISH HER MOTHER WELL because that would be the best thing for his daughter. (Actually, the best thing for his daughter would have been to not be such a passive aggressive douchnozzle in his marriage, but that ship has sailed.)

        . Bethenny is not abusive, not selfish when it comes to her child, not unloving towards Brynn. He should appreciate that his daughter has a loving mother who cares about her and the world she lives in, and MOVE THE FUCK ON.

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        • tamaratattles says

          October 24, 2017 at 5:19 am

          I reckon I am the cuntsicle then.

          I am Team Jason all day on this. I think Bethenny called the cops just to have drama for RHONY. I do not think she is afraid of Jason at All.She is just being a cunt. Do I think Jason is any better in this situation, hell no. They were in the midst of a nasty divorce and both of them were shit heads.

          It was a hateful divorce. This shit happens ALL THE TIME. The fact that Bethenny called the cops and got him arrested was UNCOOL. She was wrong. And the fact that the court kept this shit alive for NYC taxpayers was ridiculous. Bethenny is in no danger from Jason.

          That said, I adore Bethenny for channeling all of her energy into charity lately. PR spin or not, she’s been fucking amazing.

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          • Erica says

            October 24, 2017 at 5:23 am

            We’re going to have to agree to disagree. To imply that B is anything like her sick and twisted parents is reprehensible and beyond the pale. Is B entirely innocent? No. My issue with Jason even in the spin off days is that he acted like ALL of the issues were on Bethenny 100 percent of the time. HE was a cuntsicle (and kudos for spelling it right).

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            • Carrol says

              October 26, 2017 at 12:45 am

              Ditto.
              He’s always given me the creeps.

          • Spunky2015 says

            October 25, 2017 at 6:29 pm

            Well said and totally agree.

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        • Librarygirl says

          October 24, 2017 at 3:15 pm

          I agree Erika, I am not a fan of Beth’s, but she seems to be moving forward in her life in big ways. As woman, having been in a long term relationship with a passive aggressive man, Jason gave me the creeps from the word go. He knew that she was longing for a relationship and a child. He took full advantage of that fact his slow torture of her was Repulsive to watch. It has come full circle now that he is no longer in charge of her life, or Bryn’s. He has been throwing tantrums since his gravy train stopped, and he should not be allowed to continue. Move on hoppy!

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          • Carrol says

            October 26, 2017 at 1:27 am

            Ditto again.

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  9. therealdeb says

    October 24, 2017 at 12:18 am

    Having a ton of trouble seeing how so many think jJason is the bad guy, we have seen how fucked up Bethenny is and how she pushes and pushes. I can see her fucking with him and then not responding to ya k his chain some more. She is so ducked up emotionally that she isn’t capable of a healthy relationship with a friend let alone a life partner. She should love her daughter more than she hates Jason.

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  10. Trish says

    October 24, 2017 at 12:31 am

    All we have heard is Bethanny’s side of the story. I would love to hear Jason’s side. Poor Bryn. There are no winners here.

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    • tamaratattles says

      October 24, 2017 at 12:42 am

      Sadly we will never get to hear Jason’s side. I was hoping it would go to trial for selfish purposes, but i’m glad that the prosecution folded for Jason’s sake. He’s gotten very gaunt throughout this whole debacle.

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  11. Shae says

    October 24, 2017 at 7:34 am

    I think his past behavior has been abominable, he’s a snake IMO. Whatever the prosecuction failed to do here, or maybe in this instance he did not do what was alleged, doesn’t change my view of him or how he’s already behaved.

    He needs to parent his daughter and leave his ex wife entirely alone.

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  12. jojersey says

    October 24, 2017 at 8:23 am

    I could be projecting my own situations on this case, but I’m seeing a lot of similarities. My sister’s ex is an “upstanding guy” from the outside and a nasty, psychotic control freak. They have 3 daughters. The have a civil restraint order built into their custody and divorce agreements due to his verbal, emotional and physical abuse of my sister. The ex manages to text/email her and now her lawyer up to 10 times a day about their kids. The only thing he may contact them about is their girls. For the exchange he starts at least 4 days before and goes into unnecessary detail about the time of drop off, what is needed to be packed, the weather predictions, her plans for them, etc. for each child. We will all be in court this Friday about this. Her lawyer is now seeking a no contact order against her ex because he has managed to contact her lawyer, he is no longer allowed to contact my sister at all due to his excessive contacting her about the girls, over 100 times per week about the exchange of the girls. Some men honestly can take something very simple, like pack your kid to see the other parent and the exchange is always at 7pm and need to contact the other parent very unnecessarily. I don’t think Jason will manage to go 6 months without contacting her and he will say “it was about Bryn”. If their custody agreement is vague, get that fixed immediately so the vagueness isn’t there anymore. Drop off is at Xpm at Y place and pick up is at Xpm at Y place, etc. Reduce the vagueness and it reduces the need for contact and questions.

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    • Gillianfirst says

      October 25, 2017 at 2:04 am

      Agreed. Coming after the mother only causes stress, and then it can affect our mood and wellbeing around the child. (I have been battling internally whether not to file a restraining order myself.) trying to tear down someone after the relationship is over is unnessary. People who don’t have children may not understand how important it is to get every incident documented so if court action is needed you can prove you went through appropriate channels after the threats. Harassment is so scary, when someone just shows up and threatens you out of the blue and then you’re expected to share your child with someone espousing toxic masculity in order to intimidate… its like what, are you going to act like this towards others around the child when I’m not there? Will you speak horribly about me to our child? Are you able to put the child’s needs ahead of your own vendetta to bring me down? It’s a mess. ) :

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  13. PJBottoms says

    October 24, 2017 at 12:27 pm

    Bethanny lost this Chicken Fight. Jason is not the monster she paints him out to be. I am positive he is no angel, but I never bought the whole he has been terrorizing her story line. I think he wants access to his daughter and to co-parent her. I think Jason being an active part of their daughter’s life drives her crazy. I am sure she will continue to slander him on TV. If he gets this order dismissed and sealed, he can sue her for slander.

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    • Shae says

      October 25, 2017 at 4:16 pm

      Not really, she barely said word one about it on tv. Did you watch?
      She alluded to going through difficult times with her ex, and his contacting her and her boyfriend only after it came out publicly in the news because he was arrested.

      Other than that, she kept mum, as she did for most of the divorce proceedings so as not to compromise the case.

      jason has always had access to Bryn, she has never stopped that or sought to stop that, she only wanted him to leave her alone personally.

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      • lala0507 says

        October 25, 2017 at 4:33 pm

        She had Carol be her mouthpiece instead

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        • Shae says

          October 26, 2017 at 8:30 am

          Barely, all Carole said was that he was mean to her and sent her nasty messages and that she was going through a lot.

          None of that is slander and it wasn’t particularly detailed either.

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  14. Vickie80 says

    October 24, 2017 at 1:51 pm

    If jason hadn’t done anything wrong then why would the judge place restrictions on him? No smoke without fire and Jason is a douche.

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  15. Nantango says

    October 24, 2017 at 6:24 pm

    Two and a half emails a day:

    J: I’d like to pick up Brynn after school and take her to ballet class. (1)

    B: Fine, but you will have to get her leotard form the house so please call the Nanny first. (2)

    J: OK. (1/2 email)

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  16. JoJoFLL says

    October 25, 2017 at 4:51 pm

    Have juggled custody of kids, I can see where 160 emails in that period of time isn’t out of the ordinary.

    Especially if Bethany was changing visitation in any way.

    While I think Jason is a bit of a control freak, I also think Bethany threw fuel on the fire.

    Those two were oil and water.

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  17. bluesuedeshoe says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:10 am

    Truely, if the court decided in Hoppy’s favor, it’s because they know (and they do know) that Bethany played him big time. Now, he should shut up and stay home. Will he, is the question. Tres bad blood there. It affects their DAUGHTER!!!! I will never understand these kind of peeps, ever.

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  18. Carrol says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:23 am

    Does anyone actually remember the episodes while B and Jason were married?
    If he wasn’t ‘gas lighting’ her I don’t know what you would call it.
    He constantly criticized her…and yes she had her own f’ ed up issues…….but he knew her weaknesses and pushed those buttons and turned her insecurity screws all the time…, belittle and control and then act as if she was crazy….which made her even crazier.
    If I had been her when he demanded they set a schedule to take the baby to his parents every other week end or what ever …that would have been a huge clue that she needed to turn tail and run from this freak..
    What the hell kind of grown man wants to use his baby as an offering to his parents to make up for their lost of their daughter and his sister….that is SICK.

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    • tamaratattles says

      October 26, 2017 at 1:58 am

      Yes, working out a schedule for visiting the grandparents, THAT WAS JUST EVIL. How dare he want his daughter to be close to his parents!

      Ya’ll are just stupid crazy.

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      • Shae says

        October 26, 2017 at 8:36 am

        Working out a schedule to visit family and wanting your child to be close to her grandparents is of course lovely and understandable, I think what gave people pause was what Carrol described, how Jason did it and the implications were more than just innocent. I sympathize with the loss of his brother, but he constantly threw it at Bethenny that she “had no family” and “didn’t know how families work” in a mean way instead of trying to understand that traveling to Pennsylvania every other weekend to stay with his family might be a bit much for anyone, nevermind her, and could he possibly meet her halfway?

        They came from very different backgrounds and I just never saw him be loving or understanding about that, but rather beat her over the head with the dysfunction she grew up in. She had anxieties about things, and he pushed them anyway. Of course she isn’t perfect, she had a bundle of issues, but if you marry someone knowing these issues, you’re supposed to work through them with a modicum of understanding. I felt he was nasty about it. I don’t think she didn’t want to be part of his family, but as a person unaccustomed to such close family, such a rigorous schedule and traveling there so often would be a lot for her as a new mother at once.
        He could’ve understood that and been a little more helpful instead of accusatory, is my point.

        He definitely gaslit her, and that definitely made her existing issues worse. They were not compatible.

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        • Carrol says

          October 26, 2017 at 6:11 pm

          That’s a spot on description Shae

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      • Carrol says

        October 26, 2017 at 6:09 pm

        Well think about it…..suppose it was you in Bethenny’s place and Jason *insisted* on x number of weekends a month visiting his parents *to make up* for their losing the brother/sister of the family.

        And that is how Jason saw it and even said so…as a make up….without any ‘regard’ for the newly wed, new mother building a business and having insecurities/mental problems of her own to boot.
        Bethenny and the child were an ‘offering’ to his parents,,,,which says Jason is a grade A sicko control freak with family issues of his own regarding his parents.

        I’ve seen this before in the marriage of the daughter of some friends……the husband insisted they buy a house next door to his parents so they did, he and his parents wanted this, that and the other in their lives, all of which she accommodated ….But the last straw there was when at a holiday gathering of his family and hers and others friends, he yelled at her for dressing the child in the wrong dress and the mother piped in saying ‘they’ would check on the child dressings thereafter. She left him and the house next door to his mother 2 weeks later.

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      • SidsMomma says

        October 26, 2017 at 6:49 pm

        Thank you so much for telling the truth about what really happened with this case, Tamara. It’s about time someone did. I, too, was hoping Jason would get his day in court to tell his side of the story. However, it was not to be. I suppose it’s probably better for Bryn this way. She has been through more than enough. I also have to laugh at all of the comments stating that people hope he will “stay away from her now.” Well, he’s been staying away from her pretty successfully since THE END OF JANUARY. The better question is, “Can she stop goading him into contentious situations?” At least this way BOTH of them are being monitored & that HAS to be better for Bryn. I hope he can look at this for what it truly is, A BLESSING. Now he doesn’t have to TRY to work things out with her directly, since it’s impossible anyway. I saw she put out a picture of herself on social media this past Saturday wearing her underwear at the beach (literally). Good for you “honey”…you’re looking more normal all of the time. Pfft.

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        • Shae says

          October 27, 2017 at 7:35 am

          If she took a beach day in a skimpy bikini, after the weeks upon weeks she has spent in Mexico and Puerto Rico, literally in the muck of it, busting her hump to raise money and deliver supplies to desperate people, who cares?

          She’s a better person than most for doing that with her own energy, time and tons of her own money, even in her underwear 🙂

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          • SidsMomma says

            October 31, 2017 at 10:08 am

            Unstable.

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  19. captivagrl says

    October 28, 2017 at 2:15 am

    They are behaving badly, they have for years. The parents should be acting in the best interest of their child. Bethenny and Jason will have to communicate with each other and see each other. They can’t possibly split every special day in Bryn’s life. The behavior is a poor example for their daughter. It’s clearly a power struggle.

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  20. lorip says

    November 17, 2017 at 4:04 pm

    bryn is the big loser here! i feel so sad for her – when she is older and watches reruns and googles her mom and dad! bethenny has used carole to get her side out on nat’l tv. jason has been a total ass – had his mom notarize something illegally, etc….i do believe he tortures B constantly…. not moving out, emails, not having bryn answer phone when she’s w/him. if there are soo many court orders re communication, how do they communicate re bryn and her going between homes/parents/pickups?? must be a nanny? very sad for her:(

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    • tamaratattles says

      November 17, 2017 at 5:42 pm

      She seemed happy as a clam this week when paps caught Jasoon with Bryn on his shoulders walking in NYC.

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      • Cheryl B.(cherylannburke1) says

        November 17, 2017 at 5:55 pm

        Yay, finally something regarding kids and being happy, in a simple way.
        I hope it is just the beginning of co-parenting so everyone is happy.

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  21. SidsMomma says

    December 23, 2017 at 6:59 am

    …AND NOW IT COMES FULL CIRCLE…suing for FULL CUSTODY! Yeah, she definitely didn’t SET HIM UP. Pfft!

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    • tamaratattles says

      December 23, 2017 at 9:34 am

      There is nothing to indicate that she is going for FULL CUSTODY. That is a conclusion everyone is jumping to based on a poorly written Page Six story. It does appear they are going back to family court for something. It could be a request for child support change, a request to change the parties that handle their communication, a request to change holiday visitation…any little thing clearly needs to go through the courts with these two.

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