One of my RHONY sources contacted me today to let me know that Patti Stanger is not doing herself any favors in the NYC circles this week. I’d seen Patti’s name come up on my Twitter feed lately and had not paid it any attention, because who cares? I just assumed she was doing press for that dating show of hers that no one watches anymore. I was wrong.
I was told that Patti was recently on Heather McDonald’s Juicy Scoop Podcast to promote her show. Instead she spent a lot of time talking about RHONY and how she was friends with both Jill and Bethenny. She apparently talked a lot about Bethenny and how they were very close until Bethenny talked about her personal business to people and she felt betrayed. Then she talked a lot more about Bethenny. It was not pretty. She talked about Bethenny’s dating life, she talked about Bethenny’s friendships, then she talked some more about Bethenny. She’s a terrible person.
But that is not what this post is about. It is about the fact that Patti who is supposedly still a good friend of Jill Zarin’s decided to announce that Bethenny sent a gift basket (Let’s hope it was not Skinnygirl) to Bobby Zarin. She also decided to throw in “the feud” between Bethenny and Jill. She said things that upset Jill when Jill already has enough to worry about. Patti claimed that she was texting with Andy Cohen every day about Bobby’s impending death. She went on and on about how bad Bobby’s condition is and People picked up the story with all the sordid details. All while Jill is putting on a decent face and trying to keep her spirits up.
According to my exclusive source there is no feud at all.
“Jill and Bethenny made up a long time ago and a “feud” doesn’t exist. They decided to keep this between them because there was no reason to do a media tour to announce that they’d resolved their conflict. Bethenny and Jill moved on with their very full lives and are fine with not being friends. The media loves to sensationalize this but the truth is that it is not that deep. This is not Betty Davis vs. Joan Crawford.”
So the fact that Bethenny sent a gift to Bobby, who she has always cared about is a non-story and is something that should have been left private and not something that Patti needs to be using to get herself attention. My source says that Jill was very upset by Patti’s disregard for her privacy during the most difficult time in her life. The last thing she wants right now is to be caught up in drama between Bethenny and Patti. Bethenny has not commented on the subject at all. She should be commended for ignoring Patti and her terrifically timed shit stirring.
Patti needs to have a seat.
It could not be any clearer that the source is Jill
I can assure you that Jill is spending all of her time on Bobby. Additionally, if she did want to talk about Patti Stanger, she would call up People and get paid for the story. The whole point of the story is that Jill doesn’t want this to be a story.
But thanks for playing.
Janet Murph, if you google the specific type of cancer Bobby has, Jill is definitely not involved in any of this.
Patti needs to take several seats.
I have never been able to stomach Patti Stanger.
I agree Laura. Nasty, hateful Bit**. Never liked her. She’s disgusting.
Me either. And I can’t really see Bethenny being friends with her. She’s so obnoxious.
Bethenny is the definition of the word; obnoxious. Many seasons ago, she knew who to latch on to…..Jill and.Bpbby. girl was BROKE, And I don’t care how ill the man was (even if he wad in hospital for ingrown toe nail) you show up. When one watches the show, Ramona may be right “you have no friends” other than Carol. Thst too will fade. Pat Stangerr just called iout.
Oh, wow. Now I’m thinking that blind item you mentioned awhile back wasn’t about Jill Zaren but Patty Stanger trying super hard to get back on Bravo by stalking Andy.
Could be–
Seriously?
This whole story sounds like BS.
Talking about Bethany sending a gift basket to her husband? Oh the horrors!
I don’t understand how sending a gift basket is a bad thing in this situation? Like it shows that she cares about him regardless of whether or not she is friends with his wife?
I don’t understand it either. I thought it was very caring of Bethany.
That’s kind of the whole point. Bethenny did a kind thing privately. Patti is a big ole bitch that used that information to have a reason to talk about Bethenny. She is apparently one of Patti’s favorite topics. In the process she was also upsetting her “good friend” Jill. She’s a real piece of work.
I listened to that podcast on a long drive yesterday. Patti talked nonstop. I thought my brain was going to explode. When she said Bobby was dieing, it was truly cringeworthy. As for Bethenny and Jill making up, why would Andy have asked bethenny about Jill on the reunion? I don’t believe it.
Because Andy is a first class azzhole. I think it was kind of Bethenny to send a gift basket. WTH is wrong with being a thoughtful person? Bethenny has always liked Bobby and vise versa.
Patti needs to take her on advice, find a man and go away. Who watches her show?
I listened too. Patti is awful. She claims to best friends with every celebrity who has ever lived and knows everyone’s secrets. She’s so full of BS and completely delusional. She even said Bethenny called Patti and told her she was going to tell Jill to get a hobby. I really don’t think B ran that by Patti first. I found the whole podcast insufferable. Who knows if there was really any good gossip in there because there was so much BS, how could you ever believe any of it?
Patti is supposed to be some kind of Matchmaker with all the extensive facial plastic surgery she has gotten she still can’t find somebody to marry her ,she’s very obsessed with Bethenny always talking about Bethenny, has been for years she’s very jealous of Bethany ,Bethany isfar prettier and far more successful than Patty will ever be and that’s the problem with Patty
Bethenny, Patti or Jill? I would be hard pressed to figure out which one was most thirsty.
Seriously? Perhaps reading the post would keep you from being hard pressed to figure out who the thirsty one is.
LMAO TT
I’ve never seen Bethany behaving, commenting etc. in a jealous manner. Not ever. When she broke she was not even envious.
Betheny one- liners are awesome, to few and far apart.
Okay I’m jealous of her quick wit, true!
Cruel of Patty bringing this up to make trouble for Jill when Bobby is so ill. Obviously Patty has no idea what love is. Good for Bethenny for not responding. It’s none of Patty’s business anyway.
I can’t stand Pat Stanger. I wish T had an exclusive source who’d spill the tea about that nasty piece of scum.
Patti also inserted herself into the Anna Faris and Chris Pratt divorice and they had to release a statement to the fact that they don’t know her as she was claiming to be their neighbor and acted as if she has inside information about them. She’s really awful and should focus on her own life instead of inserting herself and her nasty opinions where they don’t belong.
Patti Stanger doesn’t have an ounce of common sense, people skills, decency. or discretion. Would she go to a party and talk ad nauseum about how someone is dying within ear shot of them, their families, and everyone there? This was just as tasteless.
Love how Patti puts Bethenny on blast when she has some of B’s annoying traits and none of her endearing ones. It was funny to watch Patti take down delusional, narcissistic, vapid and appallingly self centered clients but truth is, Patti’s got her own serious pathological issues. Also – she should stop publicizing her promotion of Jason to Bethenny. It doesn’t recommend her expertise in her field. H
I don’t get why people keep banging on Jill when her husband is dying. One thing is undeniable Bobby has always loved Jill unconditionally and from what I saw of him he was a decent and kind person to everyone else. Jill obviously loves him as well and will be devastated when he passes.
Is it really more important to score a couple of Jill bashing points at this point in time? Take a look in the mirror and remember what a horrible unkind bitch karma can be.
Lawstangle, hi. Nicely said. Yes Jill knows how it feels to be loved by a good man.
Who knew Patti still had a show, now all she needs is a life.
And a match that won’t fizzle out. Betcha a million dollars that never happens. She’s the real reason Randy Quake fled to Canada. She left a bad taste in his mouth.
If you listened to Heather’s podcast..Patti was talking non stop about what ever crossed her mind.
Burning bridges?
Oh come on. Jill should not have been on NYC this season if she is so concerned about her privacy.
I bet she is loving any of the talk about her or Bobby.
I bet she was ecstatic when Andy mentioned her on the reunion.
Are you always this bitter?
I would take those bets, but it would be unfair, because I actually know what is happening right now. If you did, I’d like to think you would not be such an asshole.
How many time did patti say
“Let your pecker do the picking” and “my mother and grandmother were matchmakers”
Bethany gives from her heart with her time, charaties,and money. She has done this for years and never publising or anouncing.She doesnt count her mitzvahs so Shut Up Patti Pig
PRAYERS AND COMFORT TO BOBBY AND JILL . ANDY AND PATTI PRAYERS THAT YOU NEVER HAVE TO GO THRU THIS AND HAVE SOMEONE SPEAK ABOUT YOU LIKE U SPEAK ABOUT OTHERS.
When I heard that interview I was like wow patti is spilling all the tea no holds barred. It was great and refreshing to have somebody just go on like that and not be all sensored and cryptic when she talks. Patti couldn’t get the words out fast enough. Poor heather could not get a word in sideways patti was on some hyper manic high. I love the juicy scoop podcasts.
hyper manic high, or maybe just hi. she gives a whole new meaning to the
word bitch.