By Guest Contributor Becky J.
In my TMOG recap last week, I said there is no low too low for Amber Portwood’s disgusting fiancé Matt Baier. Well, it looks like he’s been busy proving me right.
Sex Tape
First, E! News broke a story about Amber and Matt were negotiating a deal on a sex tape with porn giant Vivid Entertainment. Claiming that no decision has been made, yet, Amber said that she is considering the deal cuz she’s a “business woman” and it could make millions that she could use to open rehab centers all over the world. I’m simultaneously snorting with laughter and feeling nauseated by this statement. Matt confirmed that there was an offer on the table for $85 K plus 30% of the future revenues. This flies in the face of all the shit-talking from the TMOGs that resulted from Farrah’s foray into porn. Matt’s response to questions about this was that it’s totally different because Vivid approached them, whereas Farrah had to make her sex tape first, then shop it for a deal. WTF kind of logic is this?
This is horrible on so many levels. Consider Leah, Amber’s 8-year-old daughter who has grown up on camera her whole life. She has already endured more than any kid should. Her mom assaulted her dad, had a very public drug problem, went to prison and now she’s struggling with mental health issues and hooked up with this despicable human. Should Leah really have to go to school and explain how mommy did porn to her third-grade class? This kid has already drawn the short straw in the genetics lottery, with obesity, addiction and mental illness to contend with. If Amber goes through with this sex tape, she may as well just start fucking drafting contracts for Teen Mom: The Next Generation in 8 years and plan to broker Leah’s own deal with Vivid as soon as she turns 18.
Now let’s talk about Matt. This guy is a predator, plain and simple. He tweeted all the Teen Moms until he found the most damaged, deranged one with zero self-esteem and then went to work. He doesn’t love her, he’s been manipulating her since day one. He’s an addict turned fame whore who thrives on chaos and is incapable of monogamy. Lying is not an occasional thing with this guy, it’s a lifestyle. How else do you explain like, 10 kids with seven different women?
To top it off, I don’t believe he’s ever been completely sober. That’s right, I’m going full Rinna on this fool. In his first appearance, he claimed to be in recovery. He said that bonded he and Amber. But, weeks later, he was blatantly drinking beer on camera. I have nothing against people consuming alcohol, you just don’t do it when you’re sober. Plus, Amber’s drinking now!
I’m not a doctor, but common sense tells me that (past addiction issues aside) if her mental health is so precarious that she has to take medications that could compromise a pregnancy, she shouldn’t be boozing. The idea that these two aspire to start a rehab empire is ridiculous. Remind me again how drinking alcohol is part of life in recovery? I must have missed that step.
Crazy Text Messages
A few days after the sex tape negotiations hit the news, an anonymous LA-based blogger from CDAN called @entylawyer started revealing a bunch of Matt and Amber’s texts. Remember Amber’s brother, Sean AKA “Bubby” (retch)? You know the one Matt disparaged and accused Amber of wanting to marry on the last episode? Well, according to this Enty’s posts, Sean pays for Amber and Matt’s phones! He has released about a million creepy texts. If you have about 40 minutes to spare, check out this guy’s Twitter, where he is posting legit seeming screen-shots of the messages.
The highlights include sexts between Matt and his side chick, depressing messages between Amber and producers and messages that reveal what Sean and his wife really think about Matt. The messages will have you fascinated/horrified. From what I could piece together, Matt had a hot and heavy text relationship with a chick named Tiffany who lives in Vegas. He planned to meet up with her in a “dark corner” for some sexy time (the actual texts are waay more explicit) while he was there with Amber. Shudder, shudder, shudder. Apparently Matt passed all of his recent polygraphs about the cheating—except the ones about Tiffany.
Another thread seems to imply that, in the midst of a fight, Matt assaulted or harmed Amber in some way this past Valentine’s Day weekend. Amber sends a mysterious and horrifying voice memo to producer Kiki, then begs for forgiveness, saying she feels like she ruined the show. I may just be tired, but it’s all very difficult to follow. But it’s definitely not good. If anybody can do a better job of interpreting this batch, please comment below and enlighten us. The main thing that has me confused is the implication that this incident was instrumental in Kiki getting fired. I thought the producer everybody was speculating about Amber getting fired was Heather, not Kiki. Did they both get the ax?
Editors Note: Please see comment by commenter TAMARA (not me, another one) who verifies it was Heather who was fired not Kiki.
The final item of interest here (for now, he promises to post more) is that Sean’s own children are not allowed around Matt. Texts from his wife reveal that they feel like Matt is a huge liar, dragging Amber down and they don’t trust him. She even implies that Leah may not be safe with him, which is something that has always been in the back of my mind. I don’t feel like anybody is safe with this asshole. We’ve seen him basically order a female producer to blow somebody (see the caption on above pic), where does it stop? I know Amber is an adult, but I think Matt has taken advantage of the fact she is emotionally needy and mentally unstable. Maybe she’s afraid of being irrelevant if she gets too healthy (they all are) or just too stupid to realize she’s being victimized. So, basically Amber’s family feels the same way most of us do about this guy. That’s gonna make the wedding a hassle, right? Let’s just hope it never gets that far…
THANK YOU Becky J!! I was sympathetic to Amber, but I now feel she is trying to keep things going by knowingly being unknowingly victimized. I think it’s part of the scam. I’ve worried about Leah from jump, cause Amber doesn’t seem to get out of bed, so Matt takes care of her. It’s so far beyond my comprehension, it’s disgusting. The true colors are definitely being seen this season, and they need to go down, big time. Both of them.
One more thing for the list! There is now a dick pic that Matt texted to Tiffany! He needs to be locked up! Imo Amber is in danger
It’s sad to watch teen mom. These girls and guys seem to have stunted emotional intelligence ( thank you Taylor from the bachelor for over using this term). There lives have been completely disrupted by being on tv and they don’t seem to have the ability to have mature relationships with anyone in their lives
*I am certantly no expert I just am a grad student who has written too many papers on emotional development.
I wish the best for all the teen moms and dads and babies. It seems like it is time to turn off the cameras and let them live their lives.
Wait I had no idea KiKi or Heather got fired?!? Somebody tell me what’s going on? How, when,why?!?
I’m hoping that someone will explain that as well. It has something to do with Matt. I think that the sex with Tiffany was um….predatory in nature. MTV is worried about some sort of lawsuit. I haven’t figured it all out yet. I was hoping that y’all would help put together the pieces in comments.
I just want to give Becky J a huge shout out for writing this piece. I saw the porn thing in the NBCu press release, shook my head and sent it to her as an FYI and asked if she wanted to write about it. She did, but she was swamped. Then last night I was enjoying some late night wine and getting to actually read my twitter time line and came across Enty, also drinking and posting other people’s texts. It’s all very hard to follow and stomach churning. Then after sleeping most of the day away, I woke up to this. THANKS SO MUCH, Becky!
Does anyone know which producer was the one Matt told to go suck some dicks?
Definitely wasn’t Kiki, that’s all I know.
I think Matt talked Amber into doing this sex tape because it will guarantee Matt an income off the 30% in sales. That way when amber leaves him he will be like Ray J and still cashing in off Amber.
Very likely. You know he’s in her ear “oh, it’ll be so great for you and boo boo. Think of all the people we can help. We can use our own sobriety and love as inspiration”. Barf.
This is so scandalous, and I don’t think he will be able to get out of this. I don’t quite understand what is going on, but seems like it’s huge. Yay!!. I’m ready to see him go down (eww, not literally, lol).
Ok from what I read : the Tiffany chick told Kiki about Matt basically assaulting her (why they were in Vegas) and she was scared. Kiki didn’t get fired someone confused her with producer Heather who was fired for being too close to Farrah(nothing lesbian to clarify lol) and breaking production rules.
At first Amber believed Tiffany but has slowly turned her back. It seems she doesn’t want to actually get rid of Matt and would rather look past this infidelity again. It’s all a very sad and concerning incident.
Amber needs to take Rupaul’s advice and realize she has to love herself before she can love somebody else.
And god forbid she do a porn. Poor Leah!
Thanks TAMARA. I can’t believe they fired Heather. For some reason I remember her, when I don’t remember anyone. Farrah is a bitch that makes production wear booties in her house and use a porta potty outside. She hates everyone in production other than Heather, why would they fire the one person who was the Farrah whisperer?
I read something about Amber and Matt actually hot Heather fired because Heather had to sleep over at Farrah’s home for whatever reason.. and Heather and her son went on a trip with Farrah and Sophia .
I’m so damn confused why would amber do this? Does she not wanna see Leah again ever, I know Gary is not taking this lightly. Is she really willing to risk it all for Matt and his old dusty ass?
Matt seems like the type that would want a huge life insurance policy on Amber once they’re married. I hope she dumps this guy asap
Would all his back child support fall on Amber’s shoulders once they were married? He certainly had some huge motive when they were in Vegas, then was enraged when his plan failed.
I can’t believe Matt can find 10 women that would sleep with him. Why would anyone want to watch him do porn? He is such a pig and she is the biggest dumbass on the planet. I know that she has no self esteem whatsoever but good God what other crap does he have to do before she wakes up and smells the manure?
A sex tape with Amber and Matt will be the biggest contribution towards prevention of teen pregnancy and sex in general ever to come out of the Teen Mom show. unless there is a huge demand for Could Be Worse…Could Be Them Porn. I just don’t see the demand.
Our Friends over at The Ashley are on this.
Here is an exclusive from someone who was at the after show filming.
http://www.theashleysrealityroundup.com/2017/05/23/audience-member-tells-all-amber-portwood-matt-baiers-teen-mom-og-after-show-what-you-didnt-see-on-tv-exclusive/
Matt sold an exclusive to People where he claims he relapsed on pills while in Vegas and has no memory of the filming there.
http://people.com/tv/teen-mom-amber-portwood-fiance-matt-baier-confesses-pain-pill-relapse-vegas-eruption-blackout/
Shawn Portwood on Twitter says that Enty is lying and misreading the texts. He says that He does not pay for Matt’s phone. He seems fine with both Amber and Matt. So weird.
Was he even ever really an addict or was that the story he pitched to Amber to convince her to hook up with him? He’s been boozing on camera constantly. And she looks terrified when he’s speaking around him, and he states at her when she speaks. Like, she better not say the wrong thing! Ugh, I hate this guy. Thank you for blowing the lid off this piece of shit.
im like 100% sure he’s not an addict. nothing he says in that people story makes sense and reads like someone who doesnt understand opiates
hey didnt relapse- because he’s not really an addict and also has never been sober. he and amber drink! not sober.
get the rapist, disgusting con artist off my tv, mtv!
Yes Erb! Totally agree. He pretended to be an addict to get with a pay check aka Amber. He is such a scum bag. He is just a total creep.
Kudos to Becky J for blasting the TRUTH! Matt was one of my biggest business nightmares! Once I spoke up he decided to slander (lie) about his trip to Tampa. I’d love a face to face with him! He LIED, MANIPULATED AND STOLE MONEY!! Oh he told me on the phone before coming to Tampa that he had $100,000 dollars his accountant had tied up. He claimed to be a professional gambler…I could go on…my concern is how can ANY national network carry on with a person like this and allow an innocent child to be in the mix of the drama? Thanks Becky J.
Amber has got to be back on drugs. There is no doubt in my mind that she is.
Did anyone else catch Amber saying he manages all the money and bills? What a huge mistake.
Wow!
Amber is now being managed by the woman who got Farrah to do a porn. I read up on her and she says she tells her clients to do 1 porn because they can collect on royalties forever. It all sounds so disgusting. Matt’s lying about being offered that much. Thats not how it works.
Will Maci refuse to film with Amber like she did with Farrah? Because she was “on porn on TV” Farrah is a nut job , but at lease you know what she is. I’d rather watch Farrah than these 2 hypocrital trashbags .
*TEXT CLARITY from Enty: So I don’t know why I can’t quit Teen Mom, but I can’t. And honestly half the time it’s because I want to shake them and help them get better. I’ve been glued to this story and just took the time to read through all the texts.
If you go through, all of the texts are from the Tiffany chick. They are screen shots of her texts to and from others involved.
What Enty is saying is that Matt assaulted TIFFANY, not Amber. Sexually. And Tiffany was confiding in Kiki, and said she felt bad, felt like she “ruined the show.” (Again, Tiffany, not Amber.)
So basically this Tiffany chick has the phone numbers of Jeff, Shawn, Shawn’s wife Rachel, Matt and Amber. And she is texting Amber saying: “Here is a dick pic Matt sent me, please believe me that this happened.”
She’s texting Shawn saying: “How did he pass all the lie detector tests? Except for the one about me?”
She’s texting Rachel saying: “I am scared.” And Rachel gives all the info in response about what a scumbag he is.
She’s texting Matt saying: “You assaulted me, I have texts to prove we had sex, you sent me dick pics.” etc.
Matt is trying to tell her she’s lying.
In the meantime she’s also texting Kiki saying: “Matt assaulted me. Here are recordings of it. Please help me.” etc
When Enty says: “This is the last anyone hears from Kiki” that was not to meant to imply that she got fired.
What happened was Kiki said: “I’m here for you. This is awful. I’m so sorry. I will help you.” And then basically Kiki never did anything, but instead shared the voice memos/recordings of sexual assault between Matt and Tiffany with Matt.
After Kiki shared the recordings with Matt he texted Tiffany and said: “You made a big mistake by sharing voice memos of sexual assault with Kiki.”
So essentially MTV has proof of Matt sexually assaulting a woman and is doing absolutely nothing about it. (That is assuming all of this is real, but I am not in the business of denying another woman’s sexual assault claims, so I am going with it all being legit.)
Oh… and one more fun tidbit is that apparently this is routine for Matt. He sets women up with Jeff (dopey looking friend sometimes featured) and then plays the sad fiance on the side. Then he uses that vulnerability to have sex with these women and cheat on Amber.
According to Tiffany (and her texts with Jeff) this is the fourth time Matt has done this in the past year.
He’s so gross.
Shannon, thanks so much for sorting all of that out! That is a whole lot of creepy!
This would be the most disgusting porn ever! I bet they both have sex on that nasty couch they always sit on and both are so lazy they probably both would just lay there. So fucking gross.