I’ve been getting dribs and drabs of information related to Southern Charm. I’ve seen some videos that I don’t want to put up, at least one of them would probably get me sued. I’ve heard some things about Kathryn’s recent snap chats and seen some disturbing clips from that.
If you have snap chat you can follow Kathryn’s account “legallyred” there. I always appreciated you guys sharing what you see there. That said, Kathyrn’s snapchats make me sad. She has been posting at 2 or 3 a.m. in an increasingly bizarre manner. In the wee hours of Saturday morning she was wandering the streets of Charleston in a hot pink mini-dress with no shoes.
If you recall, she was also barefoot when she was tossed out of Saint’s christening recently. She was also speaking in a variety of odd accents. Those who saw the snap chat felt as though she was on something. The small portion I saw seemed to me as though she was not taking her prescribed meds. In the court documents for the custody case, the judge made reference Kathryn having some sort of a mental health issue. The condition itself was not specifically named, but it could be, based on the tiny bit that I saw that Kathryn is having some mild manic episodes. It could also be said that she’s just a single lady out on the town with a girlfriend having fun. Kathryn has recently posted a clear drug test and claims she has passed all of her drug tests. I will await the comments from those of you that go watch the snap chat.
I’ve also heard and seen some things regarding Thomas that make it clear that he is not just the doting father he portrays on Instagram. Thomas has said he is all that his kids have to rely on at this point. Let’s just say I am not feeling very confident in his decision-making at the moment.
On the plus side, he did get the kids off to church this morning. It certainly looks like he got them ready and strapped them in himself.
It also sounds like Kathryn may have headed over to the church today as she posted on Twitter this morning, “There are not words with enough weight to say how difficult my days are. Sunday’s however, my two angels remind me of the beauty of life.”
Let’s hope that there was some sort of calm interaction with Kathryn and her babies in church this morning.
I saw her Snap last night and found it to be extremely disturbing and bizarre. I truly hope she will get the help she so desperately needs. Does anyone know why Cooper has stopped recapping the show via Snapchat?
I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought that her snaps were extremely odd!!
I just added her. What is Cooper snapchat name?
I really want her to be ok but this is troubling to say the least.
She certainly looked not quite sober on Snapchat. And posting videos of her talking while driving (a few days ago) looked seriously dangerous.
I guess I’m going to have to install snap chat and it’s all your fault! TT, you should check Kathryn’s Facebook post from today. Maybe you can help me decipher it. It was posted after her church ceremony or it certainly seems so. Also I noticed something about her drug test and the article written, she hasn’t retweeted or posted anything about it and that’s very odd since she usually does many many times when it’s anything positive about her or has her quoted.
They are in my thoughts and prayers, everyone here is, actually. Even the folks I don’t particularly care for, believe it or not, lol. I truly hope this has been a wonderful Sunday for them and for her in particular.
When I was younger, I was the girl running around without my shoes, especially when it rained. Partly cause I would be protecting my shoes and partly cause I liked it. I’ve always worn dresses I’d take my heels off as soon as possible when leaving my job. I love being shoeless and actually keep a pair of shoes in my car cause I’ve been known to jump in my car, get to where I’m going only to realize I don’t have shoes.
Running around without shoes isn’t as cute when you’re old as when you’re young. And I do understand there are those that don’t think it’s cute at any age. I encourage her shoelessness but only if she’s careful and doesn’t get her feet dirty. That’s not cute, ever.
I hope she gets the help she needs. Not just for herself, but for those children’s lives. They need both parents. It’s very hard to grow up without 2 parents.
It must be so soul-crushing for Kathryn to be separated from her children. It is the worst thing a mother can experience, especially when it is brought about by a hostile male using the court system to further his own ends. Is T-Rav so much better than Kathryn? I think he has the money to hire the nannies, so however much he drinks and canoodles – he can get away with it. But is he really there for them, other than in photo-ops? Maybe the grandparents should step in to provide real loving care and nurturance. I think Kathryn is heart-broken, and needs true therapeutic support and family support, to overcome all this. I pray that she gains the strength and faith to go forward and fight in a positive way for herself and little Kensie and Saint. Don’t have snap-chat and too technologically challened to get it — so can’t comment.. but sorry for what was reported. The court should be doing all they can to help Kathryn heal in whatever way she may need to, so that she can be reunited with her children. That should be the aim of the court. Those children need their mother, and it must be almost unbearable for her without them.
The courts didn’t take the kids away from Thomas. Courts felt the kids were endanger with her. If Thomas had so much pull with the legal system he wouldn’t of gone to prison in the first place. IMO Kathryn wants to see her kids but not raise them. You should write romance novels.
I agree with you spunky
Gundy: Thank you.
Spunky: I think you meant to say the courts did not take the “kids” away from Kathryn. I believe it was reported that when this custody battle started, allegedly different drug tests were suddenly pulled on Kathryn (body hair) vs Thomas (no body hair), and that allegedly he may have known in advance and she did not. To not recognize that Thomas has more power, money and influence and likely a better legal team than most people – is your spin tract, not my “romance novel” as you so un-kindly put it. But then again, the Thomas crowd (the Carpetbagger and her minions) do like to try and bully. And yes — when you are found out – some things are so egregious that you do go to jail DESPITE your power, money and influence – like Thomas did. In all I ever saw of Kathryn with her children, she truly loves them and she spent
so much time all alone with Kensie.. but as Thomas and his crowd kept attacking her.. she felt more and more unsupported and crushed. That kind of mis-treatment and mobbing would fell many a person in their early 20’s. Maybe you can write a “mean women” novel that includes tips from 70 year old matrons as to how to be a golddigger “with class”, and the best techniques for the use of ridicule.
He had a head full of hair to take a sample. If you look at her February test it says the hair source is the head. He also had eyebrows. I’m sure he had nostril hair.
The courts took away KD’s custody not once but twice. The point here is not KD but what the courts decides on what is best for the kids. So it’s OK for her to have custody when she doesn’t pass drug tests? Is that safe for little kids? I stand on my opinion you’re romanticizing KD life by claiming she is a victim of Thomas, the courts and the cast. The kids are the real victims.
She is a victim as are her children – imo. Thomas is a wealthy man of the world and Kathryn was a not-wealthy, vulnerable 20-something, who, the way I see it, turned to self-medication after the way he and others mistreated her. And your saying that his going to jail for a prior offense is proof that he has no influence — is preposterous. I do believe that the cruel treatment and constant put-downs and being labeled as somehow inferior by the Carpetbagger and her ilk, and with Thomas going along with them — as observed on the show — would be very destructive to anyone’s psyche and sense of self-regard. Such emotional attack might have been enough to cause the heartiest soul at that age — to crumble. And I completely reject your false categorization that I am “romanticizing” Kathryn. Her situation is the opposite of romantic. Just listening to Thomas talk about his wrestling skills (like a boa constrictor), business savvy and how those who are successful are those with successful parents, and “who is OC and who is not” — is proof to me that he was always going to take from Kathryn and give her nothing in return — and then set her up to blame her for it. I hope Kathryn gets back on her feet, shows them all, fights like Hell — and never lets that mean Thomas near her again. I had hoped they would make a family, but after the way he has treated her, I doubt he will ever change. Kathryn – living well is the best revenge! You are young, beautiful and brilliant! Give em the works! And Southern Charm is deadly dull without Kathryn, bc she has natural star quality and charisma — and the rest of them are as exciting as wet bread in a bowl of milk.
And Thomas deserves those children bc he has millions to hire 24/7, double-nanny care? While he does what exactly? So he can PAY TO TAKE HER CHILDREN FROM HER? Sweet. As I said, I hope the court sees all that has happened to Kathryn and provides her with all the help she needs, whatever that may be.
And regarding the test, I am referring to the very first test they both took.
Thomas isn’t the first older and somewhat slimy (ahem) politician Kathryn dated and she was a party girl WHEN she was cast for the show. Poor Kathryn. She slept with one, I mean two, wait, I mean 3 different guys on the show. How many does that leave including the carpetbagger’s butler? I hate when people watch these shows and believe all the ridiculous hype. Is Thomas an asshole? Clearly he is. Can he play games with lawyers and the court system? Sure can. Can she stay clean and complete the court mandates? Doesn’t look like it. You do her no favors with your assessment of the situation.
Kathryn had her problems long before she met Thomas. She was far from an innocent young flower. Arrests, kicked out of school sorority for drugs & DUI, screwed up an intern position with the state senate, dropped out of college after after a semester or two, parents that had had it with her, never held a legitimate job, etc. I was 21 once, long time ago. Worked full time to support myself, college full time. Didn’t hang on to a mans’s nether-parts for an easier way. I respectfully disagree with your assessment of her “brilliance”. Young & beautiful, yes. But that doesn’t last long. “Mean” Thomas? Yes, pretty dumb, I agree. He gave her a lot of chances. She could’ve had a nice life with her kids taken care of. She wanted a house in the city within walking distance of bars & high end shops. Nanny testified she was out all night & slept til mid-afternoon. To be taken care of in the custom she decided she earned for popping out a few kids. Birth doesn’t make you a parent. Thomas is a very successful real estate developer who worked hard. I find your opinion out-dated & prejudiced. He’s made his mistakes & paid for them. She’s now paying for hers.
Do we know that Kathryn was bullied and that she felt more and more unsupported to the point of breaking? She had her family to support her. I don’t think we know enough about the situation to make these kinds of statements.
The behavior of others toward her on the show looked like attempts at bullying to me – their saying she was not good enough in various ways, ostracizing her, gossiping about her behind her back, questioning the paternity of her children on national televsion.. and much more — classic bullying techniques. And as for the support of one’s parents, it helps, but we always look to the opinions of our peers .. sadly.. as even with the support of parents, bullying by peers can result in tragic ends because it can be so devastating. I just hope Kathryn finally gives such people the credence they deserve – which is none at all.
Kathryn is the biggest bully out of all of them. Even Landon was nice to her at first. “Go F yourself”, get out of our house to Craig, etc. She just is not a nice person once she gets her toe nail clawed in. Always has an agenda, very manipulative.
KS is most certainly not innocent when it comes to bullying take for instance TR’s explosive dinner party antics how she was sitting right next to him grinning like a fat kid with cake-his actions were deplorable that night but she reveled in it bc that meant he was on her side for those 12 hours, even if it came at the cost of all of their friends. Then her nastiness over the hankercheif, come on. Bullying 101.
It seems her army turn a blind eye now that she has children how she ended up in this situation. She was dating Thomas for literal days when her eyes LIT UP when he said he’d marry her and”do the right thing and take care of me-he said I would never have to worry” if the pregnancy scare was real. Then whoopsadaisy she’s pregnant. Regardless I am rooting for her success and she does provide most of the entertainment on that show, but I think that has inflated her a bit too much. Some people just aren’t cut out for reality tv.
And I can’t stand Landon for plenty of reasons but to call her out and not accept she herself the king of the jungle who not only swong, but clawed her way up, is just blindly hypocritical.
Nala b PLEASE READ THE COMMENTING RULES. I HAD NO IDEA WHO YOU WERE REFERRING TO FOR TWO FULL PARAGRAPHS.
So Gape, your point about Kathryn allegedly hooking up with 3 guys on the show is what exactly? Other than slut shaming?
It has nothing to do with slut shaming as I was probably the biggest slut that ever was. It was all about the fact that you believe all the nonsense about a poor naive and bullied girl and the bottom line is you don’t know shit. Perhaps the cast didn’t like her ass cause her antics were widely known before she ever made her first appearance. Maybe if she didn’t come across as a gold digging chick who slept her way into position the others wouldn’t have despised her so much. Poor victimized girl is all you want to see and the troubled bitch, yes, I said bitch refuses to deal with her issues, refuses to comply with the courts. She had her panties in a wad cause Thomas gave a crying girl a handkerchief…did you see that??? She wants to slam Landon for monkey branching off of men but I never saw Landon do that but I saw Kathryn do that. The woman is troubled but I give her zero free passes. She knows what she needs to do but refuses to do it. She’s young and I want her to get her shit together but I’m not going to enable her regardless what her issues are. There are ways to deal with those issues. She knows this. She is well aware and chooses not to deal with them properly.
And please, Scottishwitch, don’t feel or think that I’m coming for you in my responses. Obviously we both feel strongly about this issue and I love that you are in Kathryn’s corner. I am, too though it may not appear so. I value your comments and don’t want you to feel attacked. I’m over here in SC and know a little more about her past. I apologize for coming on so strongly as my intention isn’t to hurt though my words are sometimes sharp. I have a tendency to be a tough love kind of person after a certain point and her behavior of non compliance has me at the point of no more excuses.
I don’t like that slut shaming title either. But when I got pregnant, paternity was never an issue. Unless my behavior warranted it. Come on man. She deserved the question mark considering she slept with 3 men in 2 weeks, friends no less. They were all running scared. I was no saint when I was young & single but knew a little rubber contraption/pill was my friend, no brilliance needed. Point is, as a woman, always protect yourself. My parents were 16 & 17 when they had me. Children raising children. The WORST.
Anyone in a custody case should be ready for a drug test of any type at any time. Any decent lawyer reminds her clients early on of that little bit of reality. Thomas has more experience with the courts so he may have seen it coming (especially if he was going to ask to have her drug tested). They both should have seen it coming. They wouldn’t have been in court to begin with if Kathryn had signed the settlement he offered early on or allowed him to see his children. She brought that part on herselfuh. I’m not saying he’s the good guy, because he’s not. I know she needed financial support but the nanny he provided probably cost more than the monthly child support anyone else gets.
Obviously we’ll never know all the details but from the outside it would appear she was a bit too greedy and thought she deserved more than was offered, then withheld the children which didn’t seem warranted. After that behavior she should have been well prepared for what was coming next, she made that bed.
I agree she overplayed her hand.
Just wondering, not an expert, and have very few photos and videos of Saint to base this off of, but does anyone else feel something may not be quite right with the boy? Some kids just look odd as babies and grow up to be perfectly healthy children, but children afflicted with gestational issues have certain physical and developmental characteristics….glad that Thomas has a ton of money in the case that his son does have issues….
Haven’t wanted to touch that with a 20ft pole but had a similar thought a couple times. Given his extremely young age, it felt best to just let him grow a bit — it’s likely nothing but exaggerated baby features. I think if there had been a diagnosis, it would have been verbalized in front of one of the many cameras by now.
It has not gone unnoticed and is talked about extensively on some other blogs.
I’ve wondered the same thing… My girlfriend’s baby (also a redhead her and her baby) had very similar features as Saint an my husband and I were convinced there are issues. Turns out she was just an ugly baby (LOL but thank God). She is a beautiful 8 year old now healthy and happy…
My son was an ugly baby, so was I. Huge pumpkin head, no-one cooed “Oh so cute”. We both turned out good (he’s been compared to JFK, Jr, no kidding). So I reserve opinion on that. In fact he’s also smart. Phd from NYU this summer!
I meant talked about on camera by people who actually know, not a bunch of nattering on another blog. Until a parent states it as fact, I’m keeping off diagnosing an infant child.
Kim Richards on the other hand, I’ll diagnosis her any time I want 😉
geez, diagnose my spelling already … need my coffee
I initially read that as you will Diagnosis Murder her. Which is fine by me.
Ha, I laugh about her. Can’t stand her eyebrows!
His ears are low and inside of his eyelids have the almost tell tale signs of fetal alcohol syndrome. I don’t think anyone would ever mention it on camera.
Most 20 somethings are out enjoying adult beverages on a Saturday night so I get it but it seems like she just doesn’t care about how much ammo she’s giving TRavs lawyers with these drunken/drugged out posts. I don’t get it.
I do believe Vicky will fall back to Brooks due to that insatiable love tank of hers. That Cali boyfriend seems Brooks-like in the way he kept changing his addresses and even his name to try to win some local election. Donn was the champ of these three.
I think Kathryn has serious issues we can only imagine HOWEVER, is she in her current state, what is best for the children? Can she safely take care of those precious kids without putting them in danger? The courts think otherwise and she has a lot of changing to do in order for that to change. People who have issues, especially when it is dealing with courts, children and custody should STAY OFF of all social media. Blaming Thomas for all Kathryn’s issues seems absurd. She is a grown ass adult and it is time for her to face her demons and do the right thing.
Lawd I found her SC and well really she’s weird to me and always has been but no one on here is doctor so who are we to say she’s “off her meds” honestly she seemed ok to me. Either way it’s sheer entertainment ?
I know you’ve mentioned what Katherine seems to be going through. I am curious what you meant in regards to Thomas, however. I’ve always thought his father of the year shtick was a bit far fetched.
Let’s just say I have seen video that is incriminating. That said, there is no way to know when the video was taken. I have some concerns about Thomas, but I do feel that he has nannies in place. OTOH, he didn’t hire the right type of nanny and because of that there are also implications regarding him and the nanny. He really needed to hire Mrs Doubtfire….
Lordy, he’ll stick it anywhere.
I don’t believe with Snapchat, you can post old video from your phone’s photo albums. I may be wrong but that’s my understanding. I’m no longer using Snapchat but when it first came out that want a feature. There may be an update . Can anyone verify?
It says if it is older than a day.
I saw all the snapchats. None were deleted. They stayed about a day. I also did not think she seemed impaired. Just dumb.
The snap this AM was a bit bizarre. Seems to me she may have been stalking the area near the church from her motel room. Odd. Odd.
Wait, the nanny or the nanny’s daughter? Didn’t KD say around thanksgiving he was messing around with the nannys daughter? I can’t keep it straight with all the accusations of who he sleeps with.
This is kinda hard. Don’t wanna know, but curiosity and all. Thanks Tamara, think you are posting just enough.
Without these kids, what would TRav have in his life other than proving his manhood by screwing any young women who gives him a glance, drinking like a fish, playing polo and counting his money? His life’s trajectory is pretty much determined at this point.
As for Kathryn, she can still turn her life around if she’s willing.
Crap. That’s sad. At 54 years old his life is over and can’t make any changes. someone should let him to stop going to church because he’s going to hell.
You’re funny.
Lol. Love your comment and the going to Hell part.
I don’t have snapchat, sadly. But the behaviors I’ve seen in past seasons and some of the antics described do indicate she has dual diagnosis issues – mental health as well as substance abuse. Is it illegal to share content of someone’s Snapchat or other social media? I mean, once it’s out there… I’ve love to see. Wish there’d been video in the Christening. That might convince her she has a problem. Both parents have short-comings. But, Thomas is accountable enough to spend time with kids,enrich their lives, & see that they are safe & protected. He doesn’t have these mental conditions. Sadly, too many children are hurt or killed these days by the Mother during an “episode” – and she’s always been so jealous, if she got totally confused & desperate losing it all, I could see a situation would be a possibility, “if I can’t have them, then you won’t have them either” We can’t presume to know what’s in the mind of someone with untreated problems.