More sad news on the Kathryn Dennis front. Fits News is reporting that she was physically removed from Saint’s christening ceremony that took place in Charleston last Sunday.
Dennis attended the event with her mother – barefoot, apparently. Her father was not invited to attend, we’re told. According to multiple sources, the drama began when Dennis confronted her child’s new nanny – accusing her of having an affair with Ravenel.
Things went downhill from there, with Dennis reportedly interrupting the service on numerous occasions – accusing Ravenel of engaging in multiple romantic dalliances and of keeping her from seeing their two children.
One witnesses suspected that Dennis – who recently completed a stint in rehab – was on drugs.
“I don’t want to say she was on something, but she was really acting out of character,” one witness said. “The behavior wasn’t normal – but it was seemingly representative of what the allegations are against her.”
I reached out to my sources who are quite concerned about the situation. I was told it was actually much worse than the kind edit that Fits News posts.
Kathryn got physical with the nanny and her 20-year-old daughter while accusing her of sleeping with Thomas, according to my sources.
The christening was part of the Easter Sunday service at the French Hugenot church. It was a public service that was filled with parishioners there to celebrate the resurrection of Christ, not a private ceremony. Kathryn was clearly on drugs according to witnesses. At one point during the service she allegedly yelled to the Priest, “Thomas is fucking the nanny’s daughter!”
Behavior like this is part of the reason Kathryn’s closest supporters have had to distance themselves from her.
While FITS News reported that Kathryn’s father was not invited, there was no invitation necessary. I suspect that her father simply refused to be seen with her in that condition. Her mother was probably very torn wanting to be at her grandson’s christening, while at the same time having to deal with Kathryn.
Kathryn was belligerent throughout the service. It seems that Thomas chose godparents for Saint. When the godfather stood up to participate in the service, Kathryn yelled out at the priest screaming, “He’s a cocaine dealer!” This is interesting because word on the streets was that Kathryn was staying with a friend of Thomas who was a known drug dealer.
She was then physically removed from the church.
I’ve also been told that there is a court ordered hearing this week. It was probably already on the docket as part of the custody case. Kathryn has been refusing all drug tests since the end of 2016 and the judge has made it clear if she fails to show up to court this week she will be facing jail time.
This is headed in a really bad direction.
Wow! Last night on Twitter she was accusing Thomas’s neighbor “Laura” of being a cocaine dealer. She is so worried about being on reality tv. She needs to get it together!
Tamara, anyone else having issues with the site. I keep getting annoying Facebook pop up when I try to open your emails. I can access thru twitter though.
That is so weird. Is the ad happening in your email? Can you email me a screen shot? I don’t think FB is even one of my advertisers…
Oh happening this way too wtf
No matter what kind of recovery she goes into, she may never recover from this with the fans… I’m done! I love & care for her as my favorite on her show but now real life has taken over and I’m just scared for her . It’s said “You can’t help someone that doesn’t want to help themselves” Obviously she doesn’t and how sad is that! This is a tragedy. I can only hope there is one person left in Charleston that she hasn’t pissed off who can get through to her and help her before it’s too late. I’m so sad that she let us all down who believed she was on the right track again.
That’s what addicts do. My son is an alcoholic and it’s a scary way to live. She needs to be committed and I say that out of concern, not in a mean way. I think Thomas likes to push her buttons. I’m not blaming him for her addiction, but he doesn’t help any with his own antics. I sincerely pray she gets help and finds peace for herself so she can share that in her children’s lives.
Thomas spent time in prison for cocaine. Doubt if he lost his connections…
@lilibeth53- Kathryn evidently is an addict. She is ill. Her recovery, god willing, is for her wellbeing and secondarily that of her children. The feelings of her “fans” are irrelevant and I do think it’s awful to project that when she cleans up that she wouldn’t be welcomed back into her social group. If they do not, they were never her friends to start. She owes nothing to the viewing public and I find it both sad and ridiculous that a viewer would express feeling personally let down by her relapse.
Her recovery is hers and hers alone, despite little children, despite anyone dear to her. As it is now, she’s no good to anyone. If she gets well, the issues with others will improve commensurately. Right now her disease has taken over and acquiring drugs is her priority. I’m hoping she does get clean and her loved ones show her the grace humanity owes anyone fighting a life threatening disease and forgive the unsavory deeds committed while in the throes of active addiction.
I am not singling you out specifically and I mean no offense. The thoughts you’ve shared seem to be pervasive throughout KCD threads and I felt compelled to say something. I’ve been clean and sober for 11 years this August and my thoughts are based on my hard-won experience with this disease, both in myself and in my sisters and mother. My colleagues and family did not afford me that mercy.
My sincere apologizes if I offended you SnowCat I don’t know that much about addiction. Please don’t yell at me for this and I am naive to it but I’m one of those people who just doesn’t understand how she can’t stop for the sake of her children? Kathryn went on and on how much she appreciates her fans and how we have helped her stay strong, so that’s why I mention the “fan base” thing. I’m not ever going to stop caring for her but I was told that you can’t help someone if they don’t want it…is that not true? ( l ask because I truly don’t know) After this I will educate myself before talking about Kathryn’s issue
What she went though in front of us on TV was enduring as we watched her struggle to raise her babies with little to no help from Thomas and then being shut out by the cast. If she had a problem I never saw it until the season 3 reunion, it was obvious to anyone watching then. We sometimes get attached to our favorites reality stars life stories and I for one came to really care for Kathryn. This issue with her is not a TV show anymore to me and now I’m just scared to hear the worst. God forbid. I wish I could just give her a hug. When I said I’m done I meant in believing what she is telling us…….for now I hope more then anything that she gets better and Congratulations on your recovery ❤️
@lilibeth, I apologize as it seems I was terse in my post to you and I genuinely did not intend to be so. You did not offend me. I only wanted to elecidate the process likely going on with Kathryn. It’s a very personal subject for me, so occasionally I may come on too strong.
You see, Kathryn cannot stop for her kids. Kathryn, right now, can’t stop for herself. But it will likely require a “rock bottom” experience for her to be shaken awake enough to understand how powerless she is to drugs and how hopeless her situation is, as it is now.
Kathryn’s own wellbeing has become irrelevant to her; her only mission is to use. No one and nothing matters except that next fix. Her health and the benefit of her children, sadly, fall way below that right now. It’s a chemical dependence, and she has little to no control over it as long as she is using.
She has to want to get clean. She has to want it more than anyone or anything. Everyone’s rock bottom is different. Mine was my job. I could either get clean or resign. My job is everything to me, so I chose to walk myself into the doors of a treatment center and surrender to the process of detox and treatment. Who knows what her rock bottom will be.
If she were to put her kids in the tenuous position of being her reason for getting clean, she would still try to use in a way that would not affect her children. But she would be unsuccessful because any using will affect them. Additionally she would grow to resent them as what stands between her and a good high.
I’ve rambled on long enough for this milieu I suppose. My post is getting a bit too long. This is hard to explain but I hope I gave you some idea of where Kathryn’s mind is right now. It’s almost impossible for someone who has never suffered addiction to understand that pull that drugs/alcohol have on an addict. I’m happy you have a hard time understanding actually. I don’t wish that understanding on anyone.
Thank-you SnowCat for getting back to me and helping me understand some more about this dire situation. I just feel so sad for her and those babies but I will keep praying and hoping she wants and gets the help she needs soon. Thanks again xo
Wow, it really touched my heart reading the comments between you two. Beautiful
I’m a recovering addict and alcoholic. It’s difficult for normal people to understand why we can’t stop using/drinking for our kids, parents, husbands but we can’t. The only way to stop is by doing it for yourself and putting your recovery first. I feel for Kathryn. I am a Kathryn. She seemed altered on reunion last night and it broke my heart. I was also sad when I heard her say that marijuana was her only problem. She is delusional if she thinks she can drink, pop pills, do cocaine and just stay away from pot…thats not the way it works. I can promise you, because I know from personal experience, that she hates herself, lives in constant shame and fear and cannot see a life without drugs. She is numbing herself because she cannot deal with the pain and wreckage she has caused. I pray she is able to really hit bottom and get into recovery. Life can be so sweet it just takes work…one day at a time
This is more AWFUL news. I want so much for her to be better, for herself, her kids, her family. She’s missing out on so much because of all this and she’s digging that hole deeper and deeper. Those beautiful babies need two fully functioning parents who have it together. And just my opinion, but Kathryn needs to drop the romantic connection to Thomas she’s been holding onto so tightly (and which Thomas ended awhile ago). I’ve seen friends of mine get like this with exes who cheated on them (I have no proof, just my suspicion about TRav). It’s like they never really felt they “had” the person completely, so they held on crazy tight and just couldn’t get out of that dysfunctional mindset when things were over and kept being possesive to the point of mania. The two of them are no good together, period. She needs to fooxus on loving herself, getting lasting help, and pulling it together so she can be the mom I think she wants to be deep down.
I get what you are saying. When you think you love someone and even if you had a relationship with them, if they make you believe you are never enough for them, it destroys your self esteem and self worth. If they say cruel things to you or treat you like you are not worthy, you believe it. The catch is in your mind that persons opinion of you is the only acceptance that can make you feel worthy but they won’t give it to you. The more they do to you mentally the worse you feel about yourself and the more you desperately want their love and approval. This happens in most cases to those mentally abused. We don’t know what games Thomas has played with her or the life he painted for her only to take everything from you and belittle everything have given them and make you think you are crazy. Add possible mental illness, drug addiction and immaturity from age or just human nature and its s recipe for a lot if pain. She needs a lot of counseling. Its the only way to let go if feeling betrayed, feel worthy enough to get clean and feel complete without the need if a man or drugs. This will be s long process and a lot if patience from loved ones. My prayers go out to you Katherine. If you read comments please seek help. There is nothing wrong with having an illness other than not treating it. It doesn’t make you less of a person. You are lovable and deserve so much more but until you seek help and stick with it, you will never know how to love yourself and how much those around you really do care!
Wow!! This girl is probably one step from permanently losing custody but I doubt she really cares. Looks like she’d rather have drugs in her than her kids with her
I don’t think it is that simple. Drugs take over your every thought. That is all there is. It is a disease. The not using Kathryn loves those kids. Addiction is not as easy as saying choose your family or the drug. If it was we wouldn’t see so many addicts, broken families and dead ppl. They have to hit their own bottom before they can make a change. The drugs own her. It is not about dumping the kids.
I am not judging you but as someone who works in the arena and have also had a family member and friends w addiction issues it is just not that simple.
Love is action. I think it’s crazy-making to tell people who are living through very unloving actions by the very people who are supposed to be loving and protecting them that this is what love is. It’s ok to call it what it is – and this ain’t love. These kids, all children, deserve more. You don’t want to see these kids recreate chaos and self-destruction in their adult lives. Reality can be hard, but delusion is far worse. That being said, as long as she is alive- there is hope for Kathryn. I hope she decides to trudge the path of happy destiny- it will allow her love herself and her children.
I wonder if the cocaine dealer/godfather was at Dorit’s dinner party?
This will be a big week for Southern Charm- custody hearing tomorrow and Craig finds out if he passed the bar. Glad this is all happening before the reunion is taped.
Think the custody hearing will not go well for Katheryn. Doubt if Craig even took the bar . Will be interesting to see what excuse comes forward. Even if he did pass, who is going to hire him? Oh, course, Phaedra!
No one picks drugs over their kids. The drugs pick you.
Amen!! It’s not as simple as loving your kids more than drugs:( Drugs take everything and lie to you. Speaking from experience:/
I think it’s a vicious cycle with kathryn. She’s doing drugs to numb the pain of missing her kids and the hurt from Thomas and the drugs are keeping her from her kids. She’s in a bad way and it’s very sad.
She is getting scary at this point. Thomas can sleep with whoever he wants. Is she sleeping with people? My guess would be yes.
Thank you TT. Ugh. I am physically feeling this one. I can imagine going cray cray without your children. But, she is sabotaging herself so much, it’s just so so sad. This is really, really bad.
Kathyn needs effective treatment and she has not yet found it, and it is not that easy to find. msnbc had a report on a young man who attended a faith-based drug treatment program in Florida and traveled 2000 miles to get there. He was coming off OxyContin and he has been clean for 2 years. Kathryn did not behave like this, imo, until she was mercilessly bullied and her dreams were dashed. I feel that the carpetbagger and her minions really set up Kathryn to implode. She should show them by turning it all around, and most especially so that she can mother her children who need their mommy. Not throwing any stones. I hope and pray that Kathryn finds truly supportive and loving individual therapy, effective rehabilitation/detox and — faith. God willing, Kathryn will turn her life around — and move forward in a positive way. She is beautiful and talented. No one is their true self when they are on drugs. And once sober — she will be able to see that she deserves so much better than T-Rav.
I feel that Kathryn needs guidance — and our prayers. I do not believe she does not want to help herself.. no one wants to be addicted. I think she needs someone to reach her and place her in a truly successful program with rigorous discharge planning. The time when an addict first exits rehab is the most perilous of all, so I am not surprised by the relapse. And then she probably felt she had to hide it and it spun out of control.
They did set her up, but she chose her response. Ravanel is such a loser. She is miles above him. But … she needs to do the emotional and spiritual work to get sober and stay that way. Most people relapse after stints in rehab because they neglect to continue the work they need to do to stay sober. Also, at this point I think she just wants to “win” with Ravanel. That narcissistic pig keeps her engaged in his games so he can abuse her and get his narcissistic supply. Its clear to me that abusing her makes him feel superior. At some point in their relationship, he must have felt pretty inferior to her, which he is, so now, like a typical narcissist, he is dragging out every drama he can pt punish her and using her child to do so. He has pushed her down so far and she just wants to stop being seen as the jerk Her problem is that she has not realized that the more she engages, the more she loses. With a pig like Ravanel, no matter what he promises you will ALWAYS end up with less than what you started with. She need to go absolutely no contact with him, get sober and get her children back. Once she goes no contact whatsoever and demands that all contact regarding the children and exchanges of the children go through a third party so she does not have to deal with his narcissistic self, you will see who the really crazy and abusive one is. I have been there with a pig just like ravanel. He has his little cheerleaders, and he uses them very effectively. She has to accept her behavior has been crazy and focus on no contact, rather than winning with that nasty pig.
Karen, I think you are totally correct in your analysis of T-Rav and how he gets off on hurting Kathryn.. and especially how anyone will always end up with less than what they started with if they engage him. I hope Kathryn read what you wrote and decides to stay as far away as possible from T-Rav, get her children back and start a new, healthy, happy and successful life.
So, so true. The same thing happened with me and my ex. I had my dad take my kids to his house etc. The absolute best thing she could do is treat Thomas as being insignificant, that will kill him. These chauvinistic pigs love control and bad and good attention.
I do not see her as the devil no matter how crazy her behavior has been. I think she loves her child and she just needs help. But she has to go absolutley no contact with ravanel now because he will use her as much as he can to boost himself, both personally and publically. I know men like him. I can almost guarantee that once she goes no contact with him, you will see the real ravanel come out.
Please…there are millions of women who get dumped or have their dreams stomped on and don’t turn to drugs. KD is in hat situation because she has chosen not to get help and she will continue to point the finger at everyone for the place she is in now other than the real culprit…KD. TRav did not force those drugs down her throat…she chose to. She chose to take drugs knowing full well she was pregnant with Julian. That, my friend is horrible!
I detest Ravenal – I think he is a complete and total ass and has been emotionally abusive to her. But she needs to get clean and sober, because the only place her behavior will take her is the grave.
No one on the show set her up. IMO she probably dabbled with drugs since high school. Stop enabling this girl!
I agree. I think they stepped back from her because she can be erratic and unpredictable. I wish I felt like she is missing her kids but it seems all she really cares about is who Thomas is sleeping with. I hope someone can get through to her.
I don’t know if it’s editing on the show, but I agree she is to consumed about who Thomas is and has hooked up with and I believe that is what is causing her to relaspse. She needs to let the idea of one big happy family go and work on herself.
I think the saddest thing is that Kensie must have been there and saw it all. No matter our feelings about Kathryn, that’s her mother and it must’ve been devastating for her. The poor little girl.
I agree.
This is so very sad! Hopefully, Kathryn will get herself together so she can be an effective mother to her children. Drugs are destroying our country.
Sad situation on so many levels.
So sad. Maybe jail is exactly what she needs. I hope she is able to find sobriety & regain access to her kids. Substance Use Disorder is a terrible disease.
Jail is full of abuse and just makes people worse. She needs truly effective therapy and treatment and compassion, kindness and support. Addiction is a disease – and is highly compulsive — it is not a character flaw, not can it be turned around with a mere effort of one’s solitary will — except in the rarest of cases. Addicts belong in treatment programs that have proven track records of success — not jail!
The jail thing is for contempt of court.
Sad her kids had to see her like that. I’m glad they have one parent that seems functional- but did anyone think it was strange how in the first episode this season that TRav keeps the kids in a guest house so as not to make the house messy? Just bizarre.
I absolutely detest Thomas, but if everything in that house is super expensive, 20k rugs and such, I don’t think I’d have my infant and toddler all over the place there either lol (if I had another home right nearby). Kids mess and kids destroy, not their fault, it’s just a messy business when they’re super young.
House is basically a high end museum lol
All that being said, this is exactly what addiction does, makes you behave in ways you never would normally, leave your kids, make a spectacle, etc. Kathryn is in the throes of it, no question. I just hope she decides for herself to accept help before too much more damage is done.
It is clear this girl has some serious mental health issues going on. This is beyond drugs at this point, and clearly in the territory of bipolar disorder, schitzophrenia, borderline personality disorder, etc. Very sad.
Totally agree with you on this.
Totally agree with you on this. It’s unfortunate that she continues to be involved with this show. imo, Bravo will use her for ratings, and right now she’s ratings gold. smh
I feel so bad for her kids.
My thoughts as well. She’s in that age range when those types of conditions start to surface. I’m guessing she started with the drugs to self medicate. She needs long term inpatient treatment to be to the bottom of what’s going on.
I keep thinking she needs a healthy diet, exercise and intense mental work to help her pull back to reality. She can only leave the addictions once she feels better and her body says “Nope, don’t need it”.
Never underestimate the effect of probiotic and whole foods on mental health. I am living proof of that. I see so many of my female relatives in Kathryn’s behavior. My mother has carried on like that in public, at a school recital.
Those children need their mother and she needs to find some lasting peace so she can parent them.
I pray she finds someone who can guide and nurture her through this horrible time.
That’s great that diet and exercise has helped you, but many people need meds, psychotherapy, etc. Not everyone gets “cured” by Probiotics and it’s insensitive to assume that of they just changed up their diet all would be well.
Twilly, I would have reacted the same way had I not personally experienced the vast difference that probiotics and clean eating makes. and drinking LOTS of water.
I understand that this is a not a panacea for all mental issues, and I agree that Kathryn may have some mental conditions that respond well to medication. I will agree with KD about treating depression and anxiety with probiotics, WATER, and clean eating. It has been very effective for me. It’s also much harder to keep up with than popping a pill, but if you stick too it and feed your body properly things tend to run much better.
Fair enough!
I am surprised no one has brought up postpartum depression. It can be absolutely debilitating. I went through a mild case of it and I could barely get out of bed.
This is truly heartbreaking. I hope TRav considers counseling for himself and his kids. ASAP.
I keep getting the Facebook pop ups often too. It seems more like some type of malware, but I really don’t know what I’m talking about. It is quite annoying though. I have to close out and reload site every time it happens.
Me too! It’s really annoying.
This is so sad. Some things you can’t ever get back. Poor kids.
First time commentator, hi everyone! Spent last weekend marathoning SC trying to stay away from “real news” cause it’s making me so upset. Dennis was a whole lot of crazy from day one. Manipulative, materialistic, always “victimized”. Ravenel is a pretty smart guy believe it or not. When these 2 got together it was the perfect storm. Sad, sad about the kids. He was warned numerous times but chose to ignore & mired himself deeper & deeper.
I don’t know if she has it in her to make it back to stable. It takes an absolute commitment and a willingness to endure tremendous emotional pain until you can get your mind right again. It takes some years of unremitting effort and discipline. I say this as a woman in recovery who had a very low bottom herself. Then again, not too many people would have imagined I would turn my life around. I certainly didn’t believe myself capable. So as long as someone is still breathing, you never know. But I just don’t think she’s gonna pull out of this in time. This poor kid, I mean Katherine, and her children too. Addiction is such a horrible disease.
Addiction is a horrible monester that exacerbates any mental health issues or vulnerabilities (which no one of us is without) .. which in turn worsens the addiction and on and on.. but with the right therapy, treatment and compassionate support.. I do believe anyone can break that cycle..and there is always hope, of course there is.. Many people in worse condition than Kathryn seems to be right now — have taken the road to recovery, restoration and happiness. And Kathryn will as well, God willing. She just needs help and our prayers… and to forget about T-Rav, imo. She deserves someone so much better than him and so she should not be concerned about what he is doing. Truly supportive therapy will help her connect to the real Kathryn and her innate potential and restore her self confidence. She needs to untangle all the trauma the has endured and truly compassionate and wise one-on-one therapy can be a great assist. Prince Harry recently spoke out on this subject and how therapy and boxing helped him.
Gotta say, she certainly is getting attention. Perhaps she feels any attention is good attention. Wouldn’t be the first. (I looked at her Twitter, she seems to not have a clue)
This sounds like a tale from a horribly depressing Southern Gothic novel. I feel so badly for those poor kids.
It is getting kind of Flannery O’Connor…
I cringe so much reading this, and I don’t want to deflect… but I’m curious, as I’m not Protestant, is it normal to have a baptism as part of a public Easter service? It seems odd to me, and I wish Thomas could keep these events private. Maybe then Kathryn would not have been able to attend at all, but she also would not have felt like an entire congregation was watching while she was uninvolved in her own sons’s christening. I would imagine that thought process contributed to her drug use/mental break on that day.
I attend an Anglican church and we do baptisms at the Easter vigil the night before, but Easter would be an acceptable day for baptism but we don’t do it because service is usually longer because the crowd is larger.
In Southern Baptist churches the baptisms are done as part of a regular Sunday Service, though often times we do them on the night service so that it’s not as crowded. Easter Sunday service is all about the hats and dresses and bitchy reviews of the attire of our enemies in Christ.
My son had to go through rehab twice before it stuck and I truly believe it stuck because the rehab told us he could not come back to where he used. He had to cut that and everyone associated with it out of his life. He had to give up everything, move to where he wasn’t known and start over. He was 16 at the time and thankfully his father lived where we could help him do this. As an addict, I believe Kathryn will have to leave Charleston and not be around or talk to anyone associated with her use whether it be her dealers or her enablers. Addicts are not in their addictions alone. There are tons of enablers. I speak from experience as I’m also a recovering addict.
I feel so bad for her. Her biggest mistake was letting the courts in on their business then again she probably wouldn’t have started getting help. I do feel that she held those kids back from their dad because she was hurt by him. This may be an unpopular opinion but I think he had to lead her on to see his kids, he was playing with her and she did what she had to do to try and keep him
Last season it did seem like he could not see his kids unless he saw her. I don’t know if it was editing and it made her look bad or if he was leading her on and or provoking her. I hate to see any mom lose their kids and I hope she gets herself together.
No she kept the kids from him holding child support over him. For like three months.
Oh dear, how sad.
So sad. Just so sad.
I pray she does find some hope and a way out before permenit brain damage sets in.
Those children are precious. I hated reading people diagnose Saint from photos. The poor child could read that one day. I hope they are happy. My heart breaks for them so little not being with Mommy at all. She is making very poor choices and I really hope this situation gets better.
For now the kids have one functioning parent. Kathryn will have to find her way back to the kids. Making excuses for her or hating on Thomas will not help. Until Kathryn takes the step to realize she has zero say in Thomas’ love life. She should be working at trying to get back to a place of civility. Like al addicts she needs encouragement from all to get the help she needs and does not need people justifying her behavior.
I agree with you. One thing I don’t think is healthy is Craig keeping her updated on what is going on in Thomas’s life. If he is her friend he should support her and that’s it. We all know Thomas and Landon is a trigger and he needs to stop bringing them up. But again it’s a show so who knows if he was encouraged to mention them or not.
We are all rooting for KD as a young mom who’s obviously made bad choices. WE ALL HAVE made different kinds of mistakes in our own lives. Maybe not drugs but things we wish we could take back or do over. Her obsession with TR has likely destroyed a part of her but she can turn it around. He is such a piece of work-not worth any time. She just needs to fight for those babies. This whole situation with him denying her time and putting on big events that she’s an outsider just shows what a completely horrible person he is. She is the mother of his children and they wouldn’t be here without her so show some respect. He seems to know how to push her buttons to get a reaction out of her. His age over hers is an unfair advantage-he uses some pretty low tactics. Maybe TR could speak about his mistakes in his interviews. All the while BRAVO footage showing him bar hopping, pool parties with people half his age, getting wasted, hitting on young girls, leaving his kids in the backhouse with a nanny isn’t exactly being there for your child. When you are a parent, your life is all about the child’s-it’s a selfless job with millions of perks. Although tough times and a lot of work those are the best years of my life, my kids now both in college. It just shows that he has money to have others take care of his possessions as he uses them as props on social media. When things are shallow, it’s easy to see through. Lets not even get started on his hypocritical jail time for drugs is. Does the court system not care about his past and or his bad choices? He is so creepy. The right partner will enhance your life not try to destroy you. KD-get your priorities straight, no more excuses and put some shoes on. You got this.
So perfectly said. Thomas may look, from time to time, like a good functioning parent. I am glad that they have someone to care for them. However, he is a cad. Plain and simple. It is so obvious that he took so much heat for the way he treated Katheryn and others. Now he is “trying” to look good. But his immaturity and lack of accountability are still evident. I am not excusing Kathryn, because although she is young and immature herself, she made choices. She had a child and decided to have another. She is an addict and that is horribly sad. It is an epidemic in this country especially people her age. But there are long term consequences to addiction that can hamper her life and those children’t lives. I pray she gets help and that those babies end up getting the love and care they need from present parents in their lives.
Kathryn is no match for T-Rav. We see that now. She thought she gained leverage when she automatically got full custody of the children per SC law for couples not married….but she abused that privilege and was keeping the kids away from Thomas. She even admitted it on the show. HOWEVER. T-Rav was drunk a lot and not working with her for visitation the way he should have. I believe he only values HIS time. So….T-rav being more clever and smarter and more well connected than KAthryn ….flipped the script and had her drug tested while taking her to court. I do not believe Kathryn is a full fledged addict. She is being totally excluded from her children’s lives and that will make any woman crazy. Going forward I hope she wises up and not let this set up really set her up for life! She loves those children and looks like a beautiful mother. T-Rav will never rise to the occasion of Ms. Kathryn Dennis. She can do SO much better! Not to mention…..there is some talk about him being somewhat gay in Charleston.
I really think neither parent is good for the Ravenal Kids. I naturally feel sorry for them and wonder if the baby has alcohol syndrome?