Matt Jordan is completely off the rails. Yesterday and today, there was some sort of disagreement between Matt and his personal assistant, Jay Marie. I know what you are thinking. Why does Matt need a personal assistant? He doesn’t. It seems someone he has dated took it upon herself to give him a place to live and store his stuff, cook for him, wash his clothes and a litany of other things all for no pay. Then she had the nerve to misplace a $12 hoodie from Ross that belonged to Matt and he lost his mind. She is equally despondent that he return her thumb drive that has all of her music on it.
So at some point she took over his Instagram and started airing all of his dirty laundry. And Matt started threatening her. If you recall in his last meltdown, he suggested that Kenya called Straight From The A to give the site information on his multiple arrests. Kenya would never do that. SFTA does not share the same sentiments about Kenya as we do here. The posts about Kenya are not positive. But Atlien did reach out to Matt and offer to do a video interview with him. He demanded money. She does not pay for interviews and told him as much and he got very nasty with her in a way that seemed threatening. I’m sensing a pattern.
I’ll bullet point some of the highlights that the “assistant” revealed about Matt…
- Ratting out his friend to the police so he was sent to prison
- Telling one of his roommates’ girlfriends to get an abortion, and then sleeping with her
- Pawning that same roommates TV
- Asking the personal assistant if she could bring him a dollar so he could at least get a large fry or something from McDonalds
- The assistant says she “got [Matt] the plug for his addy addiction” which I assume means Matt is addicted to Adderall??? But it could be anything, I suppose.
- Matt’s been in jail more times that Kenya knows about and the “assistant” bailed him out.
- The assistant used to date Matt, but now he is “mixing his DNA with low vibration women” who are using him to try to get more followers on social media
- Matt has “fallen out with every person in his life”
- Matt at times lives in his truck
- Matt takes random women to the gym to take photos of him working out
- Matt has a journal where he has goals to get to a mentally healthy place. He is not achieving those goals.
- The assistant took over his Instagram for a bit but he seems to have that back under his control. The assistant still has control of his Twitter.
Here is what she posted on Twitter.
Shout out to all of the personal assistants who go above and beyond to make their boss’s job easier but get shitted on in the process. Shout to all of the personal assistants who stay quiet, take verbal or sometimes physical abuse(not me) Never appreciated. Looked at as what you do is nothing. You waking up at 5 am to comb through negative comments is nothing. You packing bags, washing dirty underwear is.
How dare you complain about cooking meals for the week without a thank you and staying at the gym to take video footage of them working out. You better not complain about having to call the county clerks office to find out the next court date to avoid a warrant for their arrest. You better clean up dog piss and pack away boxes for moving while they sit in jail.
Oh and dont you complain about that $20-$60 they give. Receiving $100 every 2 months for your services as a personal assistant/social media manager/chef/storage unit is what your worth isn’t it?Maybe my payment was received in a few cheap bottles of wine?Or perhaps it was received in knowing that I had the honor of being around them.
Never do a deal on a handshake with a snake. If this person was calling the police on their good friend when you met them, true character. Never try to mess up someones life with a lie, yours very well can be destroyed with the truth.Never do business with a close friend. They expect you to look out with free services while they get their finances in order.
If a person can’t have a discussion without getting angry with you…. That’s some deeper issue than you can fix alone. See it before it.
Shout to all the real ones that stay down from day . Your time is coming. God sees your efforts. You are the true angels. Be very careful of how you treat those closest to you. It’s still all love on my end.
Take legal action for what? Knowing I have children. I will be sure to let my girls know that uncle Matt is the reason you can’t see mom. He decided to lie to his lawyer & the judge to bury me. All because his secrets of how angry he really is are revealed to the world #anger management.
At some point yesterday, Matt showed up at the assistant’s apartment kicking at her door. It seems she threw his shit over the balcony. She filmed some of this, he seemed to be peeking in her car. Police arrived to talk to Matt. At some prior point, Matt texted the following to the assistant.
I want you to try me and play games like I’m one of these pussies out here, I have nothing to lose. if you so much as do one devious thing to me trust me I will try my hardest to get rid of you. think I care?? Log out of every social media and email account that has anything to do with me cease and desist from any contact with anybody that has anything to do with me. I promise you if you play games with me you have to hide for the rest of your life. play like I’m lying ..violate me or use my ssn or any information of mine that u have. I promise you will have no futher doubts in your mind that i am purly evil. Try me…. Im actually daring you to violate or disrespect my name or my business. This is the wrong time to play strobg black woman. I promise on everything you will lose. Return tonight my credit card my compact flash drive the black one. And dont do a single thing else.
There was more, but I have wasted enough time on this trainwreck for now.
Not only do I not see this “potential” that Kenya Moore sees in Matt. I see someone who appears to be a danger to himself and others. He needs to go home to his mama and ask for help.
EDITED TO ADD: IN OTHER NEWS TODAY IS KENYA’S BIRTHDAY.
He needs help NOW before he hurts someone.
Yes, I am worried for Kenya, the assistant and anyone he has contact with. And also for him. He’s obviously not well.
RUN KENYA RUN, and never look back HOLY SHIT. What a psycho!!
Sounds like a punk ass bitch to me. Tough guy vs windows. Tough guy on Twitter. Tough guy vs woman.
Punk ass bitch.
Agreed
Just last week, I told my friend that I am very worried he may kill Kenya.
I actually got chills reading this
So Kenya is afraid of Porsha’s temper but was making excuses for this guy?
This isn’t really the time where we all stop to explain the difference between Porsha on a reality show and Matt in real life. It’s been explained 99 times to the Porshtards in other posts. This is a serious situation,
I’m by no means a Porsha fan but with the ladies saying they are concerned about her temper I would be more concerned about this man. I hope that she is safe and I would hope that Bravo would cut some scenes involving him. There’s no need to add any more fuel to the fire. Someone’s safety is more important than ratings.
I don’t see it as an either or situation. Porsha is an abuser, like Matt in that she feels entitled to assault people.
I agree. Porsha is exactly like Matt, IMO.
And what makes you think she is not concerned about him? She was in love with this man remember? And she’s had enough and tossed him. You can’t compare the two.
Thank you Tamara, my head was gonna spin if comparisons started.
Kenya’s ego really might be the death of her if she can’t just let go of the idea that she is the one that can change him, and just walk away while she still can.
In other news, today is Kenya’s birthday.
Hope Kenya has a great day, no stress, full of fun.
I think she deserves it.
I don’t understand why Kenya won’t get an OFP. Any judge in the land won’t grant her one with all of the shit he’s pulled so far. It sounds as if the assistant needs one, too.
Very dangerous situation. I hope Kenya understands that when she tries to leave an abuser (and Matt most certainly is an abuser) that she is in the most danger. He is not mentally ill and I highly doubt therapy will help. He is a narcissistic abuser and he is losing control of Kenya. He will do just about anything to re-establish that control. Its a pattern abusive men display all the time. He does what he does because he believes he can gets away with it, and, indeed, feels he is entitled to get away with it because he is the perpetual “victim.”
^^^^ THIS x1000
That guy makes me seriously sad and seriously disturbed at the same time. I hope anyone he comes in contact with remains safe until he can get the help he needs.
If Kenya is being authentic in saying he is redeemable at this point, then she needs some deep therapy, too. She’s not his mom – she doesn’t need to make excuses for how he turned out.
Wow. Scary situation.
Happy Birthday to Kenya. Here’s hoping she has a long, peaceful and productive life.
This is extremely disturbing. I don’t like Kenya or Matt and I have very little interest in them as a couple with potential but today’s shenanigans are more than enough evidence for Kenya and this personal assistant to WAKE UP, smell the coffee, divest, move along and never look back. Matt is BAD NEWS. It’s hard to recognise Matt as an adult while he conducts himself in this despicable way. If this assistant has some male relatives or friends, they should handle Matt in the special way that men relate to other errant men. Violence and threats not necessary.
There is a clear pattern of behaviour here and it seems to be coming from within his dysfunctional psyche. The threats are not the most chilling thing to me, it’s the fact that he falls out with everyone. (After a promising start.)
Matt, if your gigantic ego has brought you to TT’s brilliant blog, here’s my advice, forget about having a relationship, take a year off and seek professional help. You should probably delete all of your social media accounts too. It looks like you’re on the brink of destruction, save yourself. This is the time to surround yourself with family (not new friends) who genuinely care about you. Get off social media Matt.
This is really sad. Hope someone intervenes in a position to help.
I feel bad for Kenya. He is becoming unhinged.
Becoming?
Someone should call his parents and have Matt placed under a 5150. This guy is a time bomb. Hope Kenya has hired security guards. All this is giving me a bad feeling.
Happy Birthday Kenya!! ?? Maybe she and the assistant should get together and form an alliance. I hate reading this stuff. Brings back memories of living in fear but also made me a whole lot stronger and wiser. Yeah… the two of them need to get together and bury him the best way they can. Eventually he’ll stop. Pay him no mind and he’ll go away, but all this bs needs to be documented with lawyers and the authorities. Build a case.
One of the characteristic traits in an aquarius is to help those that need it but this man child needs more than her help and she needs to let that go asap!
Wow, I don’t like the fact that he knows kenyas neighborhood and home so well. I hope she has some really good security for her home! She should get a really big attack dog like Kingsley !
Okay so Kenya needs to stay the fuck away but what about this assistant? The fact she basically admitted she will put up with his sorry ass For no reasonAND not be able to be with her children because of him? While reading this, before getting to the part about her children, all that kept running through my mind was all her complaining and she was just like Matt, riding coat tails to get a name, but if she took him in and let him stay after it caused a problem with seeing her children well the hood rat deserves him.
Well actually the part about her children was saying that Matt was threatening to take legal action towards her for throwing out his belongings which in turn would keep her from her children.
I presume, if he is begging for a dollar to buy a large french fry from “his assistant” you know he is asking Kenya for $5 for the full happy meal.
Nobody finds it odd that Kenya has been giving Matt money? TT didn’t post that part that the assistant revealed, why is she giving this grown man money? There’s more to this story.
I don’t find it odd at all. Wrong maybe, but not odd.
Laaaawd Jesus take the wheel!! If Kenya doesn’t run away FROM this …it iwill not going to be good…a relationship like this is not worth the sacrifice of health and happiness. Kenya..you gotta do better babe. As you said before…people say who they are but ultimately…they show you WHO they are. If you stay with THIS Guy right here…BABY GIRL..something is wrong with who YOU ARE. Please put yourself first. There are no legacies to pass on to children, no husband to carry his name. Do you honey and demand the respect and love you deserve. Stop SETTLING FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!! DONT DO THIS FOR FREAKIN TV SHEOOOW!
I can’t believe his sister thought Kenya was the problem. She needs to get her brother and get him help.
Word girl: I believe it was her way of trying to scare Kenya away. She knows her brother is a mess and Kenya didn’t realize she was truly dealing with fire.
After all these posts about Matt I would hope that Kenya has taken better security measures.
I imagine that security companies have devised an immediate alert to the police or the security monitoring when cameras are suddenly blacked out.
I’d rather pay alarm fines for false alarms than have anyone come onto my property and block out monitoring.
Twirl your way over to a judge for a protection order, Kenya!
I hope Kenya had a very happy birthday, that her order of protection is in full force, and that she is not staying alone at Moore Manor, but rather is in a public hotel with someone with her at all times, for now.
She is not safe alone until he is in treatment, in a lock down facility, preferably. .
TT, please forgive the next comments. But I am bothered- I know you believe Kenya truly cares for Matt, thought she was in love with him, and has tried very hard to make this work. But this is a lady who has spent so much on-air time pretending to care for men she said she loved and wanted to have children with,
that I now sincerely doubt whether she even knows what love is, and how serious this relationship ever was, on a personal level.
If it was close and they did truly care about each other, she would have come to know him well enough to realize how deep and all consuming these wounds/anger issues/emotional control problems are. Matt is truly in need of serious mental and psychological guidance and treatment,and, from the content of this posting, would have been very close to incapable of caring for someone else and controlling these rage issues, narcissism , and immaturity. He appears to think, sound and behave like a hormone raging 18 year old child, and even if Kenya has never truly been in love before, and even if she was blinded by ” love”, it would be close to impossible to avoid picking up at least some of these signs/concerns. Especially if she hired a guy without direction or jobs an assistant- did the young woman never tell her anything about her experience?
None of it makes sense, or feels truthful. Either she was keeping a story going and did not have a clue who he really was, or she has had no close relationship with men before , did not reality check this at all, and completely misunderstood/mishandled the situation. I do understand having one’s ego hurt when falling “in like/love” without real experience, but even that is overcome when personal safety is threatened.
Kenya is either equally immature, and so desperate to be loved/or appear to be loved. that she will take any male, regardless of any sign that he/ they are unable to mature and behave like an adult, or she is so very used to pretending to live a life she is not living , that she has allowed this to be so completely out of control .
I sincerely wish her well, but she too now requires therapy and a new focus- if in fact she is affected by any of this. If it is and has only been for show, t hen she should be fine and the situation with Matt will have zero impact on her emotionally. Why is it it doesn’t seem that is completely true? For her sake, I hope it is- that she is playing for the camera only. But if that is true, she has played with someone who was not capable of handling it- and is responsible for some of his issues. . That would be ugly, if true.
In all cases, she needs to change her storylines, and wait for one real relationship to come along. What she has been doing is reckless, dangerous, and deeply unkind.
Sorry, I had a hard time following all that. It seems to boil down to you don’t know the nature of Kenya and Matt’s relationship, or that you do and you are judging both of them, or that you don’t and still know what is best for all involved.
Generally, not helpful or particularly kind to either party involved.
I’m very sorry if it didn’t seem helpful – I walked through that thinking because I truly don’t always know who the real Kenya is- and I think that is by design, on her part.
My two scenarios articulated the options as I see them. I don’t mean to be judgmental, but rather to evaluate how they got to this point , and what is needed going forward, depending on where they each are now.
I think Kenya has evolved a good deal over the past couple of years, and is both more relaxed and real now than she was early on. And I believe she truly wants to fall in love, be married and have children, but almost doesn’t know how. It’s clear this story has been hard on her, no matter how involved she was with him, emotionally . I gather you believe they were quite involved, and she was seriously trying. If true, I hope she can see how she got to where she is, and learn from it- as we all do in romance.
And frankly, TT, maybe that’s what I was trying to say. Kenya has been this mixture of a beautiful girl who yearns for life ,love and family, but also a bright woman with a career who determined she needed to act a certain role- that included men and serious relationships- whether she had them or not-on the RH show. Several men have slipped into the role over the seasons, some leaving more hurt than others. Some seemed to feel they were more used , than Kenya would acknowledge .
I guess that was what I was trying to address. I hope that makes sense to you. She seemed to want to pretend she had a serious relationship on screen, until she had one in real life. But human lives are messier than that- you can start with an intellectual agreement, but roles evolve as people spend more time together, and emotions may become involved. Whatever way it started, it appears some version of that evolved here.
And it hurt them both, til they reached this point.
I know we all learn with each romance, if we stop and think them through. As a result we grow and handle the next one better. My discussion was meant to reflect some of that analysis, not an indictment, though it may have sounded that way. I remember, after my first romance, thinking- I may never love as hard, but I will love better- meaning with more thought ,from experience. That was what I meant to provide-
I hope they both learn and grow from it, that Matt gets the help he needs, and that each have better relationships going forward, that bring joy.
Wow. This is terrifying. I too am worried for Kenya and anyone else he is pointing guys anger at. Does he threaten/bully/scare men too, or only women?
*pointing HIS anger at
Not a fan of Kenya’s or any RHOA, except Kandi, she’s legit. I feel bad for Kenya, but can’t help thinking…careful what you wish for…Kenya needs to cut her losses. If that means no more RHOA, so be it. She doesn’t need a man to prove her worth and her worth is far beyond a reality show. Kenya, let it go and let the chips fall where they may.