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You are here: Home / Entertainment News / Urethra Franklin Has Died

Urethra Franklin Has Died

January 5, 2017 by tamaratattles 163 Comments

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I’m sorry. I am not handling this very well.

UF passed away on January 3rd from a heart condition. Most of you know Urethra Franklin wrote all the AHS posts here and was someone very close to my heart.

The funeral is tomorrow. We are expecting snow here today and everything is on bizarro land schedule. I am trying to get there but it seems unlikely.

I just need this not to be true. Please.

 

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  1. @popcornandvodka says

    January 5, 2017 at 11:31 pm

    Seriously.

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  2. iloveearlgrey says

    January 5, 2017 at 11:37 pm

    I’m sorry, Tamara. That’s terrible, and my condolences.

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  3. Dragonchaser says

    January 5, 2017 at 11:39 pm

    So sorry for your loss, Tamara.

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  4. Janna says

    January 5, 2017 at 11:42 pm

    I am so sorry, Tamara.

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  5. Lisa says

    January 5, 2017 at 11:57 pm

    So very sorry to hear this. I have been there (I am still there, my loss happened 8 months ago and still feels surreal) and am sending you all my sympathies.

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  6. I.Just.Can't. says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:08 am

    Tamara, I am so very sorry for your loss. May your friend Rest In Peace. Sending supportive thoughts and prayers for you and other loved ones. xo

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  7. therealdeb says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:11 am

    Sending you a hug.

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  8. thetatumtalks says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:33 am

    My sincererest condolences..

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  9. SaraSally says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:42 am

    This is terribly sad. Having a steady online friendship is an amazing thing. Its solid in of itself. I’m sorry for your loss Tamara. Please take care of yourself. ((HUGS))

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  10. samael says

    January 6, 2017 at 1:17 am

    my friend, loss is loss. I completely understand and can relate. I have many friends on the internet and they have had my back when necessary. Internet has changed, we can share on instagram/twitter/facebook/snap chat and blogs..as time goes on and we each prove who we are, we start sharing, so it is not loserville to miss and have feelings about a human at the other end of the keyboard.

    loss is loss, take care

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  11. marla says

    January 6, 2017 at 1:45 am

    sometimes life sucks. If.this was someine thst posted here and received comments please let the family know he brought joy to your followrs.

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  12. Anastasia_Beave says

    January 6, 2017 at 1:57 am

    I’m so sorry.

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  13. Piper says

    January 6, 2017 at 2:08 am

    I’m sorry. I worry about you.

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  14. Miele says

    January 6, 2017 at 2:42 am

    I’m so very sorry, Tamara.

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  15. T D says

    January 6, 2017 at 3:02 am

    My thoughts are with you in your time of sorrow. Love you. Great big hug.

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  16. Opela88 says

    January 6, 2017 at 3:18 am

    I’m sorry for your loss

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  17. The Lady Cocotte says

    January 6, 2017 at 3:33 am

    So, so sad. I’m sending my love…

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  18. Ger says

    January 6, 2017 at 3:53 am

    First time poster. Thinking of you Tamara, you don’t have to explain your connection to anyone.

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  19. Mark T. says

    January 6, 2017 at 6:03 am

    Deepest condolences and hugs to you, TT.

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  20. Shellebelle says

    January 6, 2017 at 6:49 am

    So sad. He will be missed. My prayers go out to everyone that will affected by his loss. ❤️

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  21. Dee says

    January 6, 2017 at 6:59 am

    Terrible. So sorry

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  22. Smitters says

    January 6, 2017 at 7:31 am

    hugs and prayers to you. I had a death in the family this week, and my heart aches for you,
    Take care of you. We will be here when you are up to returning or want to talk things thru,
    I am sorry for the loss of your friend

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    • sundayhare3 says

      January 6, 2017 at 4:15 pm

      So sorry for your loss as well @Smitters. Hugs and blessings to you and the others who feel this loss.

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      • Smitters says

        January 6, 2017 at 10:04 pm

        ty,

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    • Dragonchaser says

      January 6, 2017 at 8:33 pm

      So sorry for your loss.

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      • Smitters says

        January 6, 2017 at 10:04 pm

        ty

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  23. Shae says

    January 6, 2017 at 7:43 am

    So sorry for your loss, Tamara. My deepest condolences 🙁

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  24. FarFromPerfekt says

    January 6, 2017 at 8:21 am

    Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.

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  25. Ingrid says

    January 6, 2017 at 8:28 am

    I am so sorry to hear of her passing, and of your pain in her loss, it is a terrible feeling, I know. I will miss her posts, too.

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  26. Karebear says

    January 6, 2017 at 8:34 am

    He will be deeply missed
    Always enjoyed reading his reviews AHS

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  27. JustJenn says

    January 6, 2017 at 8:41 am

    I’m so sorry, Tamara. UF seemed very kind and funny from his comments on here and on Twitter. I know you guys were close. Please take care of yourself during this difficult time. Xo

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  28. French says

    January 6, 2017 at 8:46 am

    Condolences Tamara

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  29. RealChicagoHousewife says

    January 6, 2017 at 8:49 am

    I’m so very sorry. Really enjoyed the posts and twitter banter. May the memory of UF be eternal.

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  30. tamaratattles says

    January 6, 2017 at 8:49 am

    UF was such a good friend to me. He was like an older brother. He always knew where I was. Because my personal info was all over the Internet, I never let you guys know when I went away to the cabin, or to Paris but UF always knew and always gave me his cell to call him from anywhere if I needed him. He had the kindest heart. I am devastated that his heart has failed him. I am beside myself with grief.

    Bsnjo is the cutest dog in the world. But he is mean and an attack dog. This makes it very difficult to go anywhere without him. I am still trying to manage to get to the funeral but it seems unlikely given the snow we are expecting her.

    I am not handling this news well. I first learned of this news in a tweet and wrote it off as just more vitriol from the basket of deplorables who send me horrible shit daily attacking me and my family.

    I am still trying to hold out hope that this really is not happening, but I have spoken to his sister several times now.

    He passed on January 3rd.

    Please pray for his soul.

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    • Shae says

      January 6, 2017 at 9:04 am

      I will, and for you in this horrible time. Grief is the worst. He was lucky to have had a friend like you.

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      • tamaratattles says

        January 6, 2017 at 9:12 am

        Oh you have that reversed. I was so lucky to have known him.

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    • Deedra says

      January 8, 2017 at 8:03 pm

      I am so very sorry. AHS is/was my favorite. Even though I seldom write, I am on your site everyday to read, laugh and sometimes cry. Urethra will be missed.

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  31. NAA says

    January 6, 2017 at 8:59 am

    awwww. Loved UF’s energy. Condolences,

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  32. I.Just.Can't. says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:05 am

    Omg did not know it was UF until this updated post. His posts will be missed. Tamara, I’m soooo sorry! You must be so torn up. Prayers for his peace, and also for you, his family and friends. Terribly sad news. My heart goes out to you. I do know this kind of pain too well and there really are no words. xo ?

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  33. T D says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:13 am

    Much love and respect for Urethra it’s heart breaking to know it was he who passed.

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  34. MyMelody says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:18 am

    I was hoping this was a nasty trick as well. Please let the family know we enjoyed his wit, and will miss him.

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  35. Kim Richards' Chicken Salad says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:38 am

    I’m so sorry to hear this 🙁

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  36. NAA says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:42 am

    No, you don’t understand. They are really really good people.

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    • jen says

      January 7, 2017 at 8:41 pm

      I thought she couldn’t afford cable? They are in so much pain with so many diseases to discuss to death how does she or them have time to harrass TT. It’s fucking gross to insult someone grieving for a friend. Who fucking cares how they met. People meet online and get marrued now in 2017 for goodness sake. I think the diseases they really have are called laziness and bitterness. I’m glad TT told them to burn. Assholes.

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  37. AKA Riley says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:48 am

    No.NO!! Not my AHS buddy. I’ve be coming here for 2-3 years. He was here before me and you can bet I noticed when he was not commenting as often. Dammit! I had a feeling something was wrong. I am so sorry, Tamara. I feel some of your pain on his one. Whenever I saw his comments, it was like seeing an old friend. GOD! I can’t see to type for the fucking tears. Love to his family and friends.

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  38. TAT says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:49 am

    Yes. Karma is a bitch. May she be swift in her dealing with you.

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  39. Marsha Marsha Marsha says

    January 6, 2017 at 10:04 am

    You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved friend. You are in my prayers during this sad time.

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  40. Liza says

    January 6, 2017 at 10:05 am

    So sorry to hear this

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  41. Kelly says

    January 6, 2017 at 10:10 am

    Love being sent and RIP UF xxxxx

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  42. Spunky2015 says

    January 6, 2017 at 10:23 am

    I’m so sorry TT. His recaps were great. Be careful out there with this southern storm we are getting. God’s speed UF.

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    • Margaret Shepard says

      January 6, 2017 at 10:45 am

      His clever name made me chuckle. My prayers go out to you and his family. May he rest in peace. I love this site and he was a big part of it. Biggest Hugs!!

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  43. pocketbooklover says

    January 6, 2017 at 10:39 am

    So sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and to his family.

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  44. Twilly says

    January 6, 2017 at 10:47 am

    Oh no! TT, I’m sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you, and all of UF’s loved ones.

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  45. chicken parm says

    January 6, 2017 at 10:51 am

    I am so very sorry to hear this! Long time lurker who always looked forward to and enjoyed Uretha’s comments.

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  46. eastjames says

    January 6, 2017 at 11:06 am

    I’m so sorry. Urethra was a great witty writer and always made me laugh in the blogs and comments. My deepest sympathies to you!

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  47. Nanaintn says

    January 6, 2017 at 11:25 am

    I’m so sorry to read this Tamara. Sending love to all and lost UF & prayers for peace & comfort.

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    • Nanaintn says

      January 6, 2017 at 11:32 am

      I’m so sorry to read this Tamara. Sending hugs to all who loved UF & prayers for peace & comfort.?

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  48. Nanaintn says

    January 6, 2017 at 11:27 am

    Sorry…’sending hugs to all who loved UF’ ^^^

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  49. Angie says

    January 6, 2017 at 11:31 am

    Oh nooooooo! This is terrible news and I am so sorry to hear it. I really enjoyed his posts and will miss the commentary too. I pray he had a speedy flight with his angels…?

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  50. Cheychey says

    January 6, 2017 at 11:45 am

    You have created such a wonderful place for people with like interests or who do not get out much socially to talk and vent. It’s hard to loose one of the family here. Thanks for your continued efforts to give us a place to feel safe to offer a laugh or opinion even when some feel the need to be rude and disrespectful to you for it.

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  51. Cheryl B. says

    January 6, 2017 at 11:45 am

    I’m so sorry Tamara, for your loss, and this was not a catalyst for the bigger picture to be seen, by those who need to. Xo

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  52. TheArtistFormerlyKnownAsYoya says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:04 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear this. UF’s comments and wit will be sorely mossed.

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    • TheArtistFormerlyKnownAsYoya says

      January 6, 2017 at 12:05 pm

      *missed

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  53. Cheryl B. says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:11 pm

    ATTA GIRL!!

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  54. Alcapurria says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:32 pm

    I’m saddened to hear about UF’s passing. I enjoyed all of his posts very much and always got a chuckle every time I saw his avatar and read his name. He will be missed. I am sorry for your loss Tamara.

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  55. I.Just.Can't. says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:36 pm

    TT,
    Your grief IS about you. Do NOT apologize. You have a right to grieve your friend, who by the way, was a revered part of this community that YOU created. No one has the right to treat you this way. The deplorables have flown waaaay over the cuckoos nest. Sorry for multiple posts but this has pissed me off to no end. They are like a group of blind bully cult members who have no self awareness that they are the actual unhinged ones. FFS, how long does this have to go on? Can they not take a day off out of respect for UF? They spent time here enjoying him too. They are NOT nice. They should be shut down as a hate/stalking blog for carrying this on for so long. Fucking sociopaths and cowards. Even if you pissed them off to start, two wrongs don’t make a right and this is not the time or place for any of that shit. SICK BITCHES! I hope in time you deal with them PERMANENTLY. In meantime, condolences. You are loved and appreciated, as was UF.
    That is all. ??

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    • NAA says

      January 6, 2017 at 7:05 pm

      This. Exactly.

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  56. Sam says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:41 pm

    Oh god, I am so very sorry to hear this. Prayers to his family, and deepest condolences to you. His comments were warm and funny. I know he’ll be deeply missed. Heartbreaking…

    ps – I wish I could fling every, single one of those gaping cunts directly into the sun.

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  57. Crywolf says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:47 pm

    I am sorry for your loss. It is never easy to say goodbye especially unexpectedly. This is a terrible way to begin the New Year but you are a strong woman that has endured so much. You and those here hurting will be in my prayers.

    Life is fragile people, use caution when handling the hearts of others. We never know how much time we have. This should be a great reminder for everyone to be kind when you can, it’s easier than suffering from regret.

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    • Lovie says

      January 6, 2017 at 3:23 pm

      Beautifully written, Crywolf. TT, my heart and prayers are with you.

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  58. Crywolf says

    January 6, 2017 at 12:48 pm

    I’m so sorry.

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  59. bravocueen says

    January 6, 2017 at 1:18 pm

    Since reading this, I keep coming back to your site to post something appropriately sympathetic and supportive. I feel how broken you are and I just have no words other than I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

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  60. Jerrilynn says

    January 6, 2017 at 1:18 pm

    I am so sorry, honey. Sending you tons of love.

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  61. gapeachinsc says

    January 6, 2017 at 1:24 pm

    I’m in shock and so sad to hear of his passing! My prayers are with him, his family, as well as Tamara.

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  62. AmberKnows says

    January 6, 2017 at 1:36 pm

    Sorry for your loss. UrethaFranklin’s comments and blogs were always a joy to read. Was he the one you kept chained to the radiator? Well now he’s free to roam and post anywhere in both worlds. He will be missed.

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  63. khaleesi says

    January 6, 2017 at 1:46 pm

    This is such a shock. I loved everything he wrote here.
    So intelligent and funny. He will be missed.
    I’m so sorry for your loss.
    For everyone’s loss.
    I can’t even find the right words.

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  64. Sherry says

    January 6, 2017 at 1:52 pm

    Sending you love and light. I will miss seeing his signature picture with each of his post. Very funny person! I am sorry you are going through this as well as insensitive people harassing you.

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    • Cara says

      January 6, 2017 at 8:19 pm

      I always loved Urethra Franklin’s avatar and insightful and witty comments. My condolences.

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  65. Jill says

    January 6, 2017 at 2:33 pm

    I’m so sorry, TT. Sending my thoughts and prayers your way. UF will be missed!

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  66. Rita says

    January 6, 2017 at 2:37 pm

    I will miss his posts and comments. Sorry for your pain.

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  67. amisteree says

    January 6, 2017 at 2:39 pm

    R.I.P., Urethra. I’m sorry for your loss, Tamara.

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  68. jellybelly says

    January 6, 2017 at 2:40 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss.

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  69. Heidi says

    January 6, 2017 at 2:41 pm

    I feel sadness for you.

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  70. Toddy says

    January 6, 2017 at 2:54 pm

    So sorry to hear this. I’ve missed his witty comments. Prayers for all his loved ones.

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  71. Flo says

    January 6, 2017 at 3:28 pm

    Sorry to hear. RIP Urethra.

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  72. Peachy Keen says

    January 6, 2017 at 3:31 pm

    The loss of a good friend takes a chunk out of your heart. Takes time to adjust, we never lose the memory.
    He was appreciated by those who enjoyed his smart comments.

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  73. Frosty says

    January 6, 2017 at 3:35 pm

    I always enjoyed UF’s comments and looked forwards to his recaps. He was a genuine and rare kind of friend to you, and I am so sorry to hear of his sudden death. Condolences to you, TT, and all his loved ones.

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  74. Lawstangel says

    January 6, 2017 at 3:48 pm

    TT…I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. I, for one, very much enjoyed UF’s take on things when he posted here. He was a member of this little community and will be greatly missed.

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    • Jane from State Farm says

      January 6, 2017 at 6:11 pm

      Beautifully said Laws, my thoughts exactly..Tamara, My prayers to you, UF was my friend thru your blog in my heart, after all these years in your community and I am officially grieving a friend. I will miss him dearly. Take care Tamara.

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    • Calipatti says

      January 6, 2017 at 11:27 pm

      TT what Lawstangel wrote.
      Urethra Franklin will be missed.
      You take care girl.

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  75. lavidaLinda says

    January 6, 2017 at 3:57 pm

    TT, I’m very sorry to hear this, and sad for your loss. Remember, good friends never truly leave us, they are with us forever.

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  76. sundayhare3 says

    January 6, 2017 at 4:19 pm

    So very sorry for your sadness. Loved his AHS recaps. It is so horrible to lose such a close friend and ali. Thinking of you and sending hugs and prayers for a speedy healing and that all those wonderful moments together will turn into beautiful, happy memories and overcome the grief.

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  77. Vickie says

    January 6, 2017 at 4:21 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are will all those who knew and loved UF

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  78. therealdeb says

    January 6, 2017 at 5:03 pm

    Are you fucking kidding me. What the fuck is wrong with you? Omg, I hope you die in a flaming ball of twisted metal

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  79. Amy says

    January 6, 2017 at 5:18 pm

    That is so sad. Sorry for the loss of your friend. Screw all those losers. Ignore them

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  80. Naike says

    January 6, 2017 at 5:20 pm

    My condolences, Tamara, sorry for your lost. ({})

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  81. Steve says

    January 6, 2017 at 5:28 pm

    Very sorry to hear about your loss TT 🙁

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  82. GildedLily says

    January 6, 2017 at 6:49 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed UrethraFranklin’s recaps and comments, he will be missed.

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  83. steve says

    January 6, 2017 at 6:57 pm

    Even the chains on the radiator are saddened tonight by this news. UF was one of my favorite people here and considered him a friend.

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  84. GildedLily says

    January 6, 2017 at 7:15 pm

    So sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how difficult this must be for you, I would be lost without my best friend to help guide me through this crazy life.

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  85. Lolita says

    January 6, 2017 at 7:25 pm

    So sad to hear this. I swear on my grandfather’s grave, I was thinking about UF just the other day. Very random, as I am not a “regular”, but loved UF comments. Sorry TT, and for loved ones.

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  86. Close Your Legs To Married Men says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:01 pm

    First time poster but long-term follower TT. So sorry for your loss…

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  87. Ellis Scarlett says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:09 pm

    I am absolutely crushed over this news. I got to “know” him through you and followed him on Twitter. He was hilarious and always commented back if you sent him a comment on AHS, or life in general. I loved his recaps so much that I actually waited for his recaps each week before I watched because it added to my enjoyment of the show. He also had hilarious tweets about his crushes on people. So funny and uplifting. I cried over this and I never even met him in person.

    Sorry if I freaked you out last night, I was just so sad and worried about you.

    Thanks for introducing him to my world, I can’t tell you how many times he brightened my day. Especially with his old twitter “photo”.

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  88. Lil Tex says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:23 pm

    So sorry to hear..

    Positive thoughts for you, UF and his family. Don’t let these haters get you down.

    RIP UF

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  89. Jen says

    January 6, 2017 at 9:44 pm

    I’m sorry for your loss.

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  90. Lindsay says

    January 6, 2017 at 10:42 pm

    oh urethra. you will be missed.

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  91. Moshu0220 says

    January 6, 2017 at 10:44 pm

    I will miss Uretha’s AHS recaps. I really loved them.

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  92. Marc says

    January 6, 2017 at 11:20 pm

    Urethra Franklin was one of a kind. His witty comments & overall delightful personality will be sorely missed not only here but in the world at large. So sad to hear of his untimely passing.

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  93. Yrakme says

    January 6, 2017 at 11:23 pm

    So sad! I rarely comment but I read here every day. UF was so witty and I could always see how much he cared about you. He was so clever and I enjoyed reading his comments and your banter back and forth. Take care. You are in my thoughts.
    I was relieved to have those overly sensitive, hypochondriac, chronic victims leave here. To see what they posted here today is truly deplorable. Cuntsatchel is too good of a name for the lot. Their saccharin sweet, Kum-ba-ya bullshit while clutching their mothers pearls over this site makes them the ultimate hypocrites. I wish them nothing but misery.

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  94. Caryll says

    January 6, 2017 at 11:59 pm

    I am absolutely crushed for you. I know he was a dear soul to you and I imagine many others. A person of wit, charm, eloquence and sarcasm has got to have had major love from far and wide.

    Even although my only knowledge of Uretha was through this blog I admired greatly from afar and loved to read his comments and also recaps.

    There is no God cos of there were he would not keep taking good peoples and leaving utter shit cunts in their place.

    I am so sorry Tamara my love. I have no words which will make anything better so I will leave you to grieve your friend. I know the horrible shocking feeling of loss – it cuts to the bone and actually made me feel devestated, angry and inconsolable, also a bit mental.

    I send you love from Manchester uk, as inadequate as that is but it’s all i have to offer. Life is a cruel fucking mistress.

    Yours, Caryll x

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  95. Amy Suter says

    January 7, 2017 at 12:32 am

    I have no words. I’m so deeply sorry and incredibly brokenhearted. When I see a post or blog from him, I knew I was in for something out of this world!

    Again, no words. My prayers to all of you, his family, friends and especially you, our dear Tamara!

    With love and deepest sympathies,

    Amy Suter
    MCAmster

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  96. Katherine 2.0 says

    January 7, 2017 at 1:39 am

    What a loss. I enjoyed his witty and clever take on just about any topic. TT, I know you had a special relationship with him. Take care and don’t let the nasty emails and comments distract you from honoring your friend. ❤️

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  97. Marzipan says

    January 7, 2017 at 3:04 am

    Perfectly said. Now I’m inspired to re read some AHS recaps.

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  98. Shut-in says

    January 7, 2017 at 7:46 am

    ❤?☘

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  99. SUR_Alley says

    January 7, 2017 at 9:57 am

    I’m honored to have shared a little bit of his spark through his presence online, and deeply sorry for your loss and the pain you’re going through. I know your soul hurts right now.

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  100. justanothermary says

    January 7, 2017 at 9:57 am

    Not now Jenn – please.

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    • JustJenn says

      January 7, 2017 at 10:18 am

      Sorry but people need to stop being hypocrites and leave TT alone. She can run her blog how she chooses and if people don’t like it then she has asked them to leave 100 times.

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    • RealE says

      January 7, 2017 at 5:13 pm

      Thanks Mary. I read your comments there and I ageeed with you. A shame of how you were treated because you were kind and just didn’t agree, as far as I could see. I didn’t read all comments. Just wanted you to know you are not alone ?

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  101. Sequoia says

    January 7, 2017 at 12:07 pm

    Wow, what a shock. I know you and he were close friends and I’m sorry for your, and out loss. He was a good man.

    I really liked UF. He was insightful, witty, and a bit naughty but never mean spirited or cruel. He will be missed. Perhaps a plaque on the radiator is in order.

    xoxo

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  102. Radchivk says

    January 7, 2017 at 2:19 pm

    Daily reader, first post. TT I’m sorry for the loss of your dear friend, UF. A loss of this magnitude is devastating, especially when it’s so unexpected. A great friend with a sweet soul is a treasure. We were all lucky to know him through his spot on comments.
    I’d like to add your site has immensely improved with the departure of the deplorables. Stopped reading there for awhile with all the ass kissery, health reports and over run comments by a cat. Be good to yourself and Banjo.

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  103. Jaded says

    January 7, 2017 at 2:19 pm

    OMG! So sad to hear this, sad and stunned.

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  104. Radchick says

    January 7, 2017 at 2:20 pm

    Daily reader, first post. TT I’m sorry for the loss of your dear friend, UF. A loss of this magnitude is devastating, especially when it’s so unexpected. A great friend with a sweet soul is a treasure. We were all lucky to know him through his spot on comments.
    I’d like to add your site has immensely improved with the departure of the deplorables. Stopped reading there for awhile with all the ass kissery, health reports and over run comments by a cat. Be good to yourself and Banjo.

    Reply
  105. Meredith says

    January 7, 2017 at 2:24 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. May you find some comfort in those here who support you.

    Reply
  106. housewifehater says

    January 7, 2017 at 4:13 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss TT.

    If it were not for UF’s recaps of AHS here, I would never have started watching a show that has given me a lot of entertainment. I purposely ignored all of the hype for a few seasons and I just didn’t get it until reading UF.

    And since I tend to doze-off while watching sometimes, Urethra never lost the plot and explained things in a perfectly understandable way. I guess I’ll miss him for every episode from now on.

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  107. tamaratattles says

    January 7, 2017 at 4:59 pm

    UF was laid to rest today. I wish I could have been there. I have a difficult time getting someone to feed Banjo, as cute as he looks, he is an attack dog. Plus we were iced in so even the folks that might have done it could not promise to get here.

    UF’s sister was disturbed by some of the comments here. That makes me sad. But i assured her that UF was here in spirit defending me against the deplorables. He always had my back.

    I had no idea he was unwell. We last mostly spoke about his father who was unwell. I loved him very much. Both UF and Xanadude and I talked during Christmas of 2015. I felt like the three of us were there together.

    When I die, a TOTALLY expect a big gay orgy afterwards, Nothing would make me happier.

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    • samael says

      January 7, 2017 at 5:11 pm

      The pain is real.

      Reply
    • Toddy says

      January 7, 2017 at 10:19 pm

      Friends of mine were stuck at the airport in Atlanta yesterday, due to the icy weather. You probably couldn’t have gotten out. I haven’t left my house today, as I can’t get down iced over driveway. Take care of yourself; praying in time that you’ll be comforted with good memories of him.

      Reply
  108. tamaratattles says

    January 7, 2017 at 4:59 pm

    UF was laid to rest today. I wish I could have been there. I have a difficult time getting someone to feed Banjo, as cute as he looks, he is an attack dog. Plus we were iced in so even the folks that might have done it could not promise to get here.

    UF’s sister was disturbed by some of the comments here. That makes me sad. But i assured her that UF was here in spirit defending me against the deplorables. He always had my back.

    I had no idea he was unwell. We last mostly spoke about his father who was unwell. I loved him very much. Both UF and Xanadude and I talked during Christmas of 2015. I felt like the three of us were there together.

    When I die, a TOTALLY expect a big gay orgy afterwards, Nothing would make me happier.

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    • rebecca says

      January 7, 2017 at 5:35 pm

      I’m sorry for your loss.

      Reply
  109. RealE says

    January 7, 2017 at 5:09 pm

    Jen – I’m not going to make his death about a stupid online war, that’s demeaning. I actually spoke out against people there. In fact I told one of them they were horrible. Sounds kiss ass to me! You are entirely wrong in your reading comprehension. I had not read TT site before going there and I have no idea who sent that to TT. But thank you Jen for telling me what I should and should not say and to whom I should say it.
    I think BOTH sites should not make someone’s death about an internet war. And TT looks like she has stepped away to deal with her pain which I for one think is healthy and I’m happy for her for that.
    this is real life Jen, a real person has been lost. Maybe you need to invest in real life more.

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    • JustJenn says

      January 7, 2017 at 7:26 pm

      You told TT to remove the comment then ended your comment with some nonsense about blog wars. I know this is real life which is why I responded to you coming here and telling TT what to do with her blog while she’s grieving a close friend.

      Reply
      • RealE says

        January 7, 2017 at 10:38 pm

        Haha ok, sure. That’s exactly what happened ?
        Wishing you well in your day Jenn.

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        • JustJenn says

          January 8, 2017 at 7:08 am

          Luckily your comments are up on both websites.

          Reply
  110. Yoly Storey says

    January 7, 2017 at 5:14 pm

    I’m sorry for your loss TT.

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  111. tamaratattles says

    January 7, 2017 at 5:28 pm

    My heart is broken.

    Lady C has graciously stepped in to help out. I appreciate her so much,

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    • I.Just.Can't. says

      January 7, 2017 at 7:55 pm

      I never took the time to thank UF for his recaps and witty comments. Damn. With that said, thank you to Erica, CJbomb, LimeBrain, Xanadude, Ben, and a ginormous thank you to The Lady C (and any others I missed) for their contributions to this site. And as always thanks to TT. All of y’alls time and effort put in to continue to bring us great recaps and a pretty cool online community is very much appreciated.

      Reply
    • JustJenn says

      January 7, 2017 at 8:06 pm

      I’m so sorry, TT. UF was such a sweet soul and he loved you. Take as much time as you need and thank you for sending Lady C our way. Please take care of yourself and Banjo ❤️❤️❤️

      Reply
    • The Lady Cocotte says

      January 7, 2017 at 8:28 pm

      I’m happy to help however I can. As heartbroken as I am, I can only imagine how hard it is for you, TT.

      And my deepest condolences to everyone who had the pleasure of reading UF’s witty words & loving snark. He brought so much joy to so many of us. The last exchange we had was him strongly suggesting I watch Downton Abbey. Needless to say, it’s amazing. I feel like it was his last gift to me. Be free, my friend. I hope George Michael is serenading you in heaven.

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      • StubbyG says

        January 7, 2017 at 11:56 pm

        Beautifully said.

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      • JustJenn says

        January 8, 2017 at 7:42 am

        I’m sorry for your loss, too, Lady C. Like UF you are a big presence here. ❤️

        Reply
    • SLM says

      January 9, 2017 at 10:29 am

      This is a terrible loss, he will be so missed. My heart goes out to you TT and all of his family and everyone who knew him. I always enjoyed reading his comments and recaps. He was talented and witty.

      Reply
  112. T D says

    January 7, 2017 at 5:34 pm

    A being as beautiful as urrnge lantana, so sweet and twice as colorful.

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  113. Oopsey! says

    January 7, 2017 at 6:52 pm

    RIP Ureatha.

    Reply
  114. Jrleaguer says

    January 7, 2017 at 7:34 pm

    I am so sorry and shocked. We followed each other on Twitter. I remembered a tweet from Dec. that he was taking a break for health reasons. I will miss the tweets, comments and recaps. May his memory always be a blessing.

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  115. Stella says

    January 7, 2017 at 7:34 pm

    Awwwww, dammit, I’m so sorry to hear this news, my condolences, Tamara. I got a real kick out of him, just the name made me giggle. 🙁

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  116. Calipatti says

    January 7, 2017 at 9:14 pm

    This person copied my “… ” fraud!
    Use your real name or what you called yourself before, coward.

    Reply
  117. Karen says

    January 7, 2017 at 10:03 pm

    Tamara, in my head, we have been friends for a while. I have even tried to muster up some courage here and there, to offer up some writing/recap coverage when I cold sense you were overwhelmed at times and sick of Bravo. But, you had Ureatha (if I’m remembering correct) to help you out with those cluterfuck shows (as well as others). Plus, I fear my skills may not be up to snuff.

    My point Being, It’s sucks that you lost your friend, and it’s going to suck for a while. If only God could whisper to us the date when things start to feel as though they are going to be a little less sucks-tier, boy that would be helpful. But, we mere humans must endure the wait, and try to use the sucks days to remember something funny our friend said or did. But as life has it, it’s still going to suck for a while….until the day it lessens.
    To quote someone great “Fairplay to those who dare to dream” RIP Ureatha, heal at your own pace Tamara

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  118. DarkThoughts says

    January 7, 2017 at 10:57 pm

    I CAN NOT believe that UF has died. I am including him in my prayers. He was an awesome soul and great AHS recapper.

    FUCK! When I read this title I gasped so hard because it felt like I got punched in the stomach. I got up off the couch and danced to “Tear You apart” by She wants revenge in his glorious memory of his AHS: Hotel discussions.

    UF, you will be missed — so dance the night way brother, say hi to Prince for me!

    TT, I am so sorry for your loss. UF was hilarious, insightful and a blast to read.

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  119. tamaratattles says

    January 8, 2017 at 2:19 am

    Someone has told me the deplorables have the nerve to discuss UF. One of the last conversations we had was about what sacks of shit they are.

    They seriously need to keep his name out of his mouth, His sister is not happy with them at all.

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  120. Skeeter says

    January 8, 2017 at 4:03 am

    Sorry TT, I know you are devastated :(. This little poem someone gave me and helped me a lot when I had to deal with a terrible loss. The author is unknown:

    The tide recedes but leaves behind
    bright sea shells on the sand.

    The sun goes down but gentle warmth
    still lingers on the land.

    The music stops but yet it echoes
    on in sweet refrains.

    For every joy that passes
    Something beautiful remains.

    TT I know I don’t have to tell you to cherish your memories of UE. I know you are.

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  121. Deb says

    January 8, 2017 at 9:51 am

    I am so sorry for the passing of UF. He made me laugh with his wit and I will miss reading his recaps and posts. My deepest sympathies to his family and to you Tamara on the loss of your friend.

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  122. teecee66 says

    January 8, 2017 at 1:17 pm

    Me. I knew.

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  123. Cheryl B. says

    January 8, 2017 at 1:21 pm

    Private message.
    Tamara, hoping today is a less painful day. Sadly, no one, or no way to help.
    Good thoughts.
    Xo

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  124. teecee66 says

    January 8, 2017 at 1:34 pm

    I’m pretty sure he is haunting Ginamaire by now. That would be his first order of business. I’m so so sorry that he is gone. Sorry for your loss TT.

    I had such fun with him on twitter from time to time. He was a great guy, and as you say, had a big dislike for bullshit drama the like in which the deplorable wallow. He has shared a few health issues but I had no idea anything this major.

    He leaves a great void.

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  125. Margarett says

    January 8, 2017 at 2:13 pm

    Such sad news. UFs clever, insightful comments will be missed. My condolences to all his family and friends.

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  126. Teresa says

    January 8, 2017 at 4:24 pm

    Condolences TT.

    Reply
  127. Gigi says

    January 8, 2017 at 9:39 pm

    Aww Tamar I’m so sorry to hear this. I know exactly what you mean when you say tell me it’s not true. Having just lost my daddy on Thanksgiving night and now his only living sibling (my aunt) is hospitalized and very low.It’s hard to accept. I pray for you to have strength, peace and light.

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  128. Virtually says

    January 9, 2017 at 1:29 pm

    Very sorry for your loss. Death never gets easier.

    Reply
  129. Lisa j says

    January 10, 2017 at 12:29 am

    Oh God I’m sorry.

    Reply
  130. Dramy says

    January 12, 2017 at 10:22 pm

    I’m very sorry for your loss Tamra. I’ll remember you in my prayers.

    Reply
  131. puravidacostarica says

    January 15, 2017 at 10:07 pm

    I have been completely out of touch for months now, and just learned about UF. His soul was kind and sweet, and nothing will ever change that. I am sorry Tamara. I know how much you cared for him.

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    • Calipatti says

      January 20, 2017 at 3:28 am

      I read this post and comments when it was first put up. I had nothing new to add and to repeat what has. already been expressed felt it was not good enough for UF.
      Did the longest time it was my desure to have UF respond to anything I wrote. It was a glory I wanted with a passion. When I finally got that response it felt I like I was annouted and good enough.

      To those people who think a post like this one or this one should be taken down because you find certain comments are disturbing is wrong.
      I read each comment and there is nothing here negative towards UF.
      Is it because the good wishes are sent to TT and not you?

      You should be crying tears of gratitude that UF had the respect of so many. So many people cared for him.
      What is wrong with you for not feeling the love in here for UF?

      Reply
  132. tamaratattles says

    December 1, 2017 at 6:41 am

    #MissYou

    Reply

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