Tonight we get to see what the fight was about that Matt and Kenya and Kenya’s father got into outside an Atlanta restaurant. Check out the real time filming info on that here. Actually, that post is quite long and full of Matt tantrums both in Atlanta and Charlotte. It should give you perspective about what was going on in real time.
Phaedra
We start at Phaedra’s house tonight where all the nannies and baby sitters have been shoved in a closet somewhere so she can play mommy for the cameras. In cast you missed it, Phaedra is moving into a new, very price home is the Sandy Springs/ Mount Paran area. Oh she is not going to play mama, Porsha is. Porsha is there to babysit so that she can get used to being around kids or something. Porsha just needs a storyline, so babysitter it is. Porsha decides she might need a man to help her raise kids. So she will be pursuing her deadbeat baby Daddy with even more intensisty.
Sheree
Since she is desperate for a storyline that isn’t about her unfinished house, Sheree decides to pimp out Kairo for some construction cash. Bob jumps in on the camera time too. Sheree says several times that she is the momager. She thinks she is Kris Jenner now. Heaven help us all.
Later Sheree and Kairo meet up with Cynthia to talk about his modeling and her divorce. Sheree thinks Kairo is ready for New York Fashion Week.
Kenya
Speaking of the need for divine intervention. It’s time for the sad Kenya scenes. Her story starts with shots of the damage Matt did to her beloved house. This is just one of the times Matt vandalized her house. I wonder if they will show the rest. Despite her never calling the police, Matt was still arrested four time this year for other things. Kenya calls her dad to talk about Matt. Her daddy says to put him on a plane as soon as possible. He is worried that Matt’s violent behavior will escalate.
When Kenya’s dad shows up, he gives an academy award winning performance over the broken garage windows. Kenya continues to defend Matt. She has been doing this for months. I think now, in real time Kenya may finally be done. I hope so.
Next we find Kenya and her daddy in a cigar lounge waiting on Matt. He’s late because he is having yet another meltdown and production is just trying to get him there. Kenya has 17 messages from Matt who is refusing to show up. Her dad tries calling him. The phone call doesn’t go well. Then he seems to sort of pop up out of nowhere. The overall mood of the scene is now glum. Kenya’s dad basically holds a therapy session. This is some real shit here. I’ve heard about her having this conversation with several people. Not just her father. I wish she had not taken to long to free herself from this situation.
Matt is whiny. He says that Kenya puts hims to work around the house. Newsflash. He was living there. He sounds like a teenager that doesn’t want to clean his room. His smartass mouth escalates the conversation to the point that Kenya says she’s ready to go. Outside, filming continues. Kenya’s dad tells Matt, if this is the real thing, you need to find a way to make it work; if it’s not go get in your truck and don’t look back. Sadly, there are months and months of the same old shit ahead.
Cynthia
Cynthia’s offer on the lake house was accepted. This my exclusive from when she put her house on the market and bought the lake house.
Kandi
There will probably be more Kandi photos than necessary in this post because Kandi makes some great faces this episode.
Kandi meets with her office staff to discuss the restaurant. Phaedra’s assistant calls to schedule a lunch with Phaedra and Kandi. Kandi tells the story from last week when Phaedra tried to say that Drama was just trying to drop off some CDs for her and the Kandi and the entire staff laugh at the absurdity of that lie.
While Kandi and her crew are laughing, we get dueloing scenes between them laughing and Drama’s mother, Hester, showing up at Phaedra’s office. This should be good. First Phaedra says she knows it was all just a misunderstanding about the bomb threat. But in the next breath she is pissed off at Mama Joyce and Kandi for Mama Joyce saying that Drama wanted to blow her the fuck up because “it was such a serious situation.” Also she didn’t look like she thought it must be a misunderstanding when she first heard the news. Hester and Phaedra hug it out.
Back with Kandi she says she doesn’t get why Phaedra is making up stories covering for Drama and yet right after it happened she was walking around telling people this guy with her was her bodyguard. Kandi says it’s either one of two things, it was her bodyguard or it was her boyfriend. Don Juan says that was Mr. Chocolate. Kandi says, that was not Chocolate. She knows who Chocolate is and that was not him. Kandi says that Phaedra tells some of them the bomb threat was a misunderstanding and others that she is scared and she hired security.
Kandi and Phaedra go to dinner. Phaedra wants to tell Kandi she is pissed at her over Mama Joyce’s comments. Kandi is over her friendship with Phaedra and she’s just there for the paycheck. Phaedra starts off talking about her crusade to help black men. Or at least all the ones who aren’t in prison. Whatever she did to help them, didn’t seem to take. Kandi is not having any of that bullshit either. Kandi points out that Phaedra said she was not concerned at all and yet she is walking around with a bodyguard. Quick as a rabbit, Phaedra has a lie for that too. She said her parents got her a bodyguard because they were concerned.
Both Phaedra and Kandi confront the other for talking behind each others back. Kandi implies that we haven’t heard a fraction of what she has on Phaedra. Phaedra tries to shift to a victim stance. Phaedra is just a single mother who is the victim of circumstances beyond her control. Kandi is not hearing that either. She says Phaedra was counting down the days with glee until she would be free from Apollo. Kandi says Phaedra was planning to marry one of the guys she was seeing by the new year. Phaedra is pissed. Kandi says around everyone else, Phaedra was having a pity party, but when she was with her she was happy as a clam and on to her next conquest. Phaedra denies the pity party. She says that when she sat there and cried to “fucking Nene” for attention, that’s a pity party. Kandi said she didn’t cry to Nene about her husband.
Phaedra says that maybe she loved Kandi more than her husband. Kandi laughs. In her talking head Kandi says Phaedra had Chocolate melting in her mouth and not in her hands, long before Apollo went off to prison. These two are AFTER each other. Kandi leaves. Phaedra sits there looking at the menu preparing her large to go order she is notorious for making after a restaurant shoot. After all, Bravo is paying.
Next Week: There is more drama about Kandi letting the cat out of the bag about Phaedra’s dating life. I don’t know why the rest of the cast is acting all brand new about that. It was brought up last season. It looks like sides will form. Sadly, Kenya will eventually befriend Phaedra. At least temporarily.
I’m not sure how I feel about Kandi’s revelation tonight. I know we already knew everything that she said but I don’t think it should have been Kandi to reveal it.
Good episode tonight, old tired ass storylines with women who should have been gone seasons ago but good episode.
Revamp the show. All if RHOBH are actually married housewives, most if RHONJ, RHOD, and RHOC are married. Was Lena that boring that she couldn’t even get a friend of the show spot? At least she is married now
*of & *of
What are the ratings of RHONJ, RHOD, and RHOC that has mostly married housewives? Exactly.
Real Housewives of Atlanta is the most highly rated of the entire franchise. Their formula works
I liked that Kandi let her have it. Phaedra has been getting away with too much and it annoys me how righteous she is, all while being a lying, thieving, cheating scoundrel.
I LOVED Kandi letting her have it too. I cannot stand Phaedra fake BS —also it pissed me off that she was saying that Kandi was fat—-Kandi is no bigger than Phaedra’s fat ass.
Phaedra is so shady. Pokes the bear then throws the stick. I knew Kandi would get fed up and tired of her mess someday.
Kandi is getting DRAGGED on Twitter right now. Lots of Phaedra fans on there tonight.
Now you know if Phaedra aired out Kandi’s dirty laundry (Porsha will do that dirty work.) like Kandi’s did tonight #TeamKandi would be roasting Phrick
I guess but the people defending Phaedra seem to be vouching for her character and her involvement in “helping the black community” and such. I find it bizarre.
I need the age demographic of these Phaedra fans. How can grown adults be so blind to her behaviour.
It’s quite bizarre. I can see the point of view that Kandi should not air Phaedra’s dirty laundry. Even though these two have been coming at each other for a while.
But the people are dragging Kandi in a “Phaedra is a great person who does so much for the black community and how could you treat her badly! She’s perfect in every way” kind of dragging. It’s scary. Just do a search on the word Kandi in the Twitter box. It’s like they are being paid…
I’m annoyed but have already come to the conclusion that people are dumb. Years of watching ratchet tv has in some way destroyed what little common sense they had.
You can literally look at Phaedra and see the bullshit. So she throws out BLM and all these fools go running like she’s some type of saviour! If they are looking to her as a leader of the community then they are sadly misinformed.
Every time Phaedra talks, makes me wanna sneeze or cough “BULLSHIT”!! 🙂
I think that Phaedra sincerely wants to make things right with Kandi and really misses the close friendship they once had-Im usually team Kandi but she seems to have become less compassionate now that she feels she’s got it all.Kandi didn’t give Phaedra much of a chance tonight..
I find Kandi very judgemental for someone who was sleeping with a married man and had a child with said married man. No one believes she didn’t know, let’s face it, Mama Joyce has been a busy body for years. She knows everyone else business.The both of them are not addressing that. I have no respect for Kandi or her mother. I feel sorry for Riley. She has a mother focused on Todd and Ace, and a Grandmother focused on money and becoming the next reality tv star. Kandi and her family and friends are coming at Phaedra left and right. We don’t see Phaedra family and friends behaving in the same manner…Every talking head Kandi is bashing Phaedra. We got it Kandi you hate Phaedra..
Ahhh, reading your comment – this occurred to me:
Picture this as a potential fake reality show:
A has-been singer who is trying to deal with her raunchy music producer baby daddy and whose loud-mouthed mother tells everything she knows and hears “in the streets” and aunts are being launched into a restaurant by her gold-digging with little business-sense husband with whom she just had a baby and is trying to launch a new line of baby products as June Cleaver, while presiding over her sex-toy empire from her life before getting married and settling down to the Leave It To Beaver lifestyle. Sounds like just the show for Bravo.
Renee, Kandi wasn’t judging Phaedra’s dating while married. She was pointing out Phaedra’s hypocrisy of crying on camera to Nene and whoever else would listen about how her husband has tricked her and is going to prison and now she is going to be a single mother when all the while, she had he next man picked out.
I don’t think Kandi cares about who was sleeping with whom. Just Phaedra’s fake bullshit.
Thanks TT. Why is this simple concept so difficult for many. Also, I don’t think it is fair to say Kandi doesn’t care about Riley. I think she adores that little girl but I get the impression that Riley isn’t interested in being on tv. She’s at the age where she can make those decisions.
I appreciate that Kandi doesn’t hide from Twitter even when the kitchen gets hot, unlike many other housewives.
Scary to think that so may Twitterers support shady Phaedra. Can’t believe they can’t see it. Poor fools.
Good for Kandi. Phaedra looked *PISSED* that she was being put on blast. With all that squirming and head jerking and was doing throughout that scene, it looked like it was taking everything inside her not to dive across that table lol.
I agree… you could tell that she was not expecting Kandi to tell the WORLD her business. I’m kind of glad it came out, because Phaedra is always taking jabs at others in her side confessionals. She tries to portray herself to be so innocent, but she had it coming tonight.
Phaedra should have met with Mama Joyce rather than KandI for clarification on why the statements were made. KandI is not responsible for her mother’s actions!
Kandi was mean and rude. Her mother is mean and ruse. Todd and Kandi both have arrogant demeanors this season and last. Phaedra didn’t deserve that. Kandi needs to explain why Block dislikes her so much his distance himself from his child. Kandi welcomes convo to indirectly talk about Phaedra. That’s not cool , it’s very ugly and Kandi who has been lacking romance for years and desires of her heart should not treat a person like that. Very ugly, very rude her and her mama.
So you want to blame Kandi because a grown man chose not to take care of his kid?!! ??
“Kandi needs to explain why Block dislikes her so much his distance himself from his child.”
Wow. That has to be single-handedly the most ignorant thing I have ever read in the comment thread to this blog.
I second that.
Make that three of-a-kind. There is no acceptable explanation for abandoning (withholding love and finances) your child, absolutely none.
imo ~ the critical payback to Phaedra was long overdue and deserved. if not for anything else but her hypocrisy. She intentionally tried to hurt Kandi and gain sympathy from the other mean bitches a couple of seasons ago. That said, I liked the old Kandi much more. Todd’s influence does not look pretty on Kandi. She comes off too harsh and is unapologetically about it. She inherited the mean spirit from her mama.
Wow, Stephanie!! Everyone has a right to their own opinion but in MY opinion, Kandi could have come a lot harder. I believe you may not know who Phaedra truly is, but I guaran-damn-ty you, eventually you will. She is going to play herself out for all the world to see. Apollo didn’t fill her pinata with condoms for nothing. She is truly shady boots, but you’ll see for yourself.
Kandi needs to explain why Block is a deadbeat dad? HE is a POS posing as a man, simple enough for you?
Kenya verbally attacks and belittle with her words and aChina then play victim when people want to get physical with her. She’s not a physical fighter she is a verbal , manipulator of words. Never would I say fighting solves anything but words fmdo hurt. Kenya does to Matt what she does to everyone push them to the point that of physicality. She did/does to Matt the same thing she did to Porsha when she dragged her ass on the stage at the reunion. It’s not ok, it’s wrong to treat people like that.
Wait one second there. Kenya fan or not, do NOT blame her for the abuse she suffered from him. As a MAN, if he does not like how he is treated, he walks away, he does not use his hands in anyway. You are ignorant.
I get why people can’t stand Kenya, but saying she deserves to be physically abused is abridge too far for me.
I highly believe Kenya did not do any of the things people keeps accusing her of doing to Matt. That boy just do stupid things and blames it on him being a young guy. He is clearly lost and immature and she needs to cut her losses with this fool. Which it seems she did. He was a lost cause that she wanted to save. I am sure she is regretting the decision because it is cringing to see a woman of her caliber crying over a little boy
Are you dense?
To whom, exactly, are you addressing that question?
Stephhanie
Oh duh, sorry. :). Hard to read all the letters when I’m seeing red.
Because that’s what grownups with a brain do. They fight with their words and not their fists. If you dont have the intellect to engage, remove yourself from the situation.
Jesus fucking Christ.
Oh please.
mental lightweights should not get into the the ring with a heavyweight. Seriously you want intelligent women to dumb down so they can save dumb people from the necessity of physical transgressions?
I like Cynthia this season , happiness looks good on her. Her daughter is a doll. Cynthia was negative towards Sheree simply seeking advice. Cynthia was also eyeing Cairo and that’s was awkard to watch and quite gross from an adult female standpoint
Most of the things you say are gross coming from an adult female, actually.
I thought Cynthia handled it well. Sheree is just seeing dollar signs with her son modeling. Here he has never walked a runway and Sheree expects NY fashion week! Cynthia wasn’t eyeing him. IMO he’s nothing special anyway.
He’s got a pretty face. But he is actually too tall for the runway, as Cynthia was trying ever so delicately to explain. She also said he was off to a good start, bodywise. Which meant he needs to get on those crunches.
He would do best to focus on TV commercials or soap opera acting.
So funny how Sheree kept saying “momager” likes it’s a good thing. 🙂
OH GOOD GOD TT WHY DO YOU LET THIS ONE THROUGH?! I can’t take much more…
I do believe Mama Joyce is right about Todd. At first I didn’t see it , but Todd’s demeanor has changed! Before so humble , now straight Savage! I believe Kandi see it but don’the care because she has a man now instead of toys. Mama Joyce is your typical ATL old school mom, but they are not rude and messy even when defending their kids, they are straight and to the point and believe you create your own karma bad or good. Kandi’s aunts don’t act like that. If it’s editing, whatever, however, speaking on what’s aired. Mama Joyce will make someone who forget she is an elder because her mouth and actions are reckless like a messy female her daughter’s age.
The thing that irritates me about Kandi is that she never takes responsibility for anything. She always views herself as being attacked and never takes the time to listen to what is being said. Of course Phaedra is very fake at times, but she did have a good point. Instead of being disrespectful and going to Mama Joyce herself, she set Kandi down to address the issue first. Mama Joyce is very disrespectful and ignorant. Kandi never sets her mother straight but is always ready to set somebody else straight even when it is not warranted. I admire Kandi’s work ethic, but I do not like her personality. She never sees anything that she needs to improve upon.
What happened to the post where it’s one letter per line? I don’t care for Phaedra but Kandi must REALLY be mad about her making Todd look bad over money to throw her under the bus like that. I don’t tell people shit and this is exactly why. Those two were BFF and now it’s who can tell the most secrets. Pity. Kandi you looked better with your mama doing all the dirty work. No one is going to mess with mama Joyce.
Poor Kenya. I’ve got to fast forward her scenes because they trigger too much realness. I wish you the best!
Not sure what post you mean….
Sorry it’s in the comments and it’s one letter per line. I refreshed several times. Could be I’m just my phone if you’re not seeing it. Question, please tell us is Kenya really done with this guy? She deserves SO much better than Matt.
TT, your post from 11:55 pm is one letter per line for some reason.
I didn’t get a chance to watch tonight so thanks for the recap. I will watch it tomorrow. Family from out of town just arrived for Christmas. Yay!
Weird. It doesn’t look like that to me. Are you on an iPad? iPad users are having trouble with the new format.
Weird. It doesn’t look like that to me. Are you on an iPad? iPad users are having trouble with the new format.
I could be wrong but I think Kandi must be mad about more than just Phaedras comments about Todd. I feel like there mustve been something else behind the scenes because Kandi has never put an ex friends business out there and she seems loyal even when shes on the out with someone. I feel bad for Kenya, she could do better than Matt. No one deserves to be treated like that. Andy should give Mama Joyce her own show or segment called “Word on the Street” ! Her and the OLG should have a show where they find prospective dates for Kenya, Porsha, Sheree and Phaedra, maybe bring Vlaudia back for that as well.
I meant Claudia
I can’t with viewers turning on Kandi and supporting Phaedra. Is Phaedra becoming the LVP of Atlanta? Y’all should be thanking Kandi for spilling some real tea, some truth, in a season where three if not four of the other cast members are blatantly faking storylines and being fake on camera – Phaedra and Porsha are at the top of that list !
My thoughts exactly. Phaedra is no victim and is a frequent liar. You can’t lie to someone that knows the real story. Kudos to Kandi!
People are brainwashed. Phaedra is a complete fraud who should be locked up. She’s evil.
I am still waiting for the day when it ALL comes to light and I am going to relish every second of it.
Me too. We have been waiting for the truth about Phaedra to be out forever- and we continue to wait.
And I am tired of each of these low-life ladies making up stores to spin for a season, and to be forgiven as they don’t work out, because it’s “for the show.”
Sheree’s addition just heightens the problem- I don’t believe a word she says, any more than I do Kenya , Phaedra or Porsha. It is getting old- same stories, same lies, different men, always buying new homes that are filled with emptiness. Really, the same is true with Cynthia. Phaedra has done NOTHING for the black community- it has been for herself, and it has all been obnoxious. And frankly Mama Joyce is being trotted out with her ugliness and stupidity because there isn’t anyone with real stories to tell. Kandi isn’t writing music ;with her love of all things sex and all these rumors there must be a story there. Todd is MIA and does seem arrogant and lazy now. Sadly, there is no real content here worthy of discussion, or that the women will allow to be shared. Kandi may have been strong, but I do think she has held back the negatives she could share about Phaedra for a long time, while Phaedra has done her best to make them look badly, too. And every word that Kandi said was true, from what we have seen as viewers.
It feels like we are waiting for something to burst, whether it is Apollo from prison. the fake divorce, Peter’s real financial and personal story , whatever- the lies here
abound, none of it felt real save the last five minutes with Kandi; enough already. No wonder I rarely watch and then with half an ear. It deserves lass than that.
Meant to post this last week, but Bob sweating so damn much on camera BUT refusing to wipe it off….big ewwwwwww. Carry a towel man.
I am Team Khandi! Don’t believe Phaedra at all. How is she is a lawyer and comes up with these dumb stories of ‘bomb cds’ that an ordinary shmuck can poke holes in? Enjoyed how Khandi shut her down real quick.
Kandi is the Worst! !!!….since her husband and baby, she has now become STANK!!!!!…Careful Sweetie, what go up WILL come down!
I don’t dislike Kandi but I don’t care for the shade gang she surrounds herself with. She may not like Phaedra anymore but there really is no need to sit around and make fun of her with that pack of leeches she surrounds herself with. People always agree with you when you pay their bills
I agree 100%
I’m loving Phaedra getting exposed like this!
Oy.
On the one hand, sometimes guys do punch things when they’re pisssed and it doesn’t mean they’ll hit a woman. On the other hand when he does it 50 times (hyperbole, or not?), they need to part ways. Kenya is passive aggressive. He is not cut out for the relationship. Done.
On the one hand, Phaedra’s constant interjection of herself into political matters as if her position as a Real Housewife makes her a role model is dumb. On the other hand, Kandi, you’re a bullshit friend, if you give up what someone confided, so shamelessly. What is Kandi pissed about, some comments about Todd that no one cares about? Phaedra did not confront Joyce, she went to Kandi and was very non-combative about the whole thing. Kandi was loaded for bear….but she ALWAYS defends her mothers nasty behavior, so what’s new?
Phaedra aside, Kandi used to be my favorite of all the franchises, but her defense of her mother’s shit behavior has caused her to plummet in my ranks. Not that she cares. I did see that she was annoyed by her mother constantly talking about the $50K/Block thing. It was annoying. Your daughter’s in pain and you’re over there bitching about money.
On the one hand, Mama Joyce is very stylish. On the other hand, her bahavior makes her so very ugly. She’s like Peter, or Simon of Simon & Alex fame, on steroids. Peaches make her h-angry I guess.
Kandi and her mother talking about Phaedra. Mama Joyce talking about Phaedra should be sharing a cell next to Apollo, Mama Joyce needs to be sharing the third cell. Let’s not forget Kandi said Mama Joyce opened credit cards in her new. Just because Kandi is her daughter that doesn’t mean it’s not criminal..
I know it’s a small thing but Sheree making her damn noises is so annoying at this point. The “uh-unhhh”s and other incoherent noises make me want to put a damn muzzle on her myself.
Right? Someone on production obviously liked all the gif action they scored on Twitter from Sheree’s head swivel in the first ep when Porsha came in at Kenya’s party, and now they’ve got her going “uhuhhhh” at the most inappropriate moments at least a dozen times an episode. It’s so irritating!
Phaedra meet her match with Kandi. Kandi came in the meeting locked and loaded. I enjoyed that scene. Team Kandi!
Seeing Kandi and Phaedra reminds me of the saying , you can’t bullshit a bullshiter. I like that Kandi spilled a cupful of Phaedra’s gallon of tea. Kandi’s voice and exaggerated facial expressions get on my nerves however. I did really like the scene with Cynthia and her daughter. I love not seeing Uncle Ben- peter, this season with Cynthia. I actually can enjoy Cynthia now, where as before she bored me for the most part. Kenya’s house is so gorgeous, just sad she can’t share that happiness. Sad about how awful Matt is. I was rooting for them . The scene with Porsha and her family was soo fake, just like Porsha.
Bob sweating: my first thought was serious heart condition if he doesn’t have a lifelong issue with it.
Sheree: Her son needs a new manager immediately if he wants to be taken seriously. But good thing she’s team Phaedra because I don’t like that team anyway.
I like Kandi and Kenya and both of them need support this season. Kandi is getting back at Phaedra for sending the FBI to her house, talking about her husband and going Team Nene. Now Porsha and the sex dungeon comments about Kandi makes sense now. I don’t see Kandi not embracing various sexual proclivities with her Kandi Koated nights and adult toy line. I hope her answer will be— what I do with or without my husband is not for public consumption. As for Kenya, her Dad is worth his weight in gold. He dad is proof of what I would like all these single women to realize, men are better at fixing men than women are so stop trying to them. A man that is ready for change worships the woman he loves, so if she is not treated right, feels disrespected…tell her to RUN!
Wow, interesting recap. Good job Kandi..
I can’t comprehend some of the stuff written by Phaedra’s fans. Enslavement of the mind is real.
Lord knows, I’m all up for watching grown women make fools of themselves on tv by their own volition. But this Kenya/Matt stuff is a bit much. It’s hard to watch. I want to cringe at my housewives not be worried for their physical and mental safety. Shes got to be made of stern stuff to take the amount of shit she has and not be a crazy!!!
That’s said, PRAISE GAWD for Kandi. She was everything this episode, and as Porsha would say, she gave me LIFE.
I used to like Phaedra, but she’s really gone downhill the past few seasons. And her attempt to revive her persona by getting involved in politics and then, imo, her attempt to bury the bomb threat under the BLM movement is just wrong.
Kenya’s true colors are starting to show through again. I can see what the commenter who said Kenya drives Matt to destruction is talking about. I’m in NO way condoning destructive behavior, but we’ve also seen Kenya in action. Like at the reunion with the bullhorn egging Porsha on. Or the sceptor that she was using to “touch” the other ladies with to irritate them. I have no doubt she does that kind of shit to Matt too. Trying to get a rise out of him for a storyline so she can say poor, pitiful me. Again, NEVER is it okay to lay a finger on another human being. But it’s not okay to intentionally push another person’s buttons while getting in their face either.
Matt was VERY smart to stay in his vehicle and talk to her instead of getting out like she was imploring him to do. Just like when he opened the door, but stayed in the vehicle – she immediately pulled the door wide open and then totally gets up in his face pointing her finger almost shoving his nose while yelling at him. Not a smart thing to do with someone who allegedly has anger issues. Yet he held his composure. Then he tries to explain his position about wanting out of their relationship because she’s constantly poking him verbally disrespecting him. Just like we’ve seen her do to the other ladies. Matt said it all when he told Kenya, “You’re manipulative and fundamentally deceptive.” That is Kenya in a nutshell. You gotta ask yourself, what was Kenya trying to accomplish by trying to get Matt out of the car while yelling at him and shoving her finger in his face? Nothin’ good.
Again, I am NOT condoning any type of abusive behavior. Come to think of it – Kenya’s verbal bullying could also be seen as abusive. Just sayin’
Damn, enough said. Of course all this is totally my opinion.
smh When you have a cast that can make Sheree look decent, that’s pretty bad.
I find the fact you see Matt as VERY smart. Very disturbing. VERY.
And your attempt to rewrite history of the reunion in a way that Kenya touched anyone with her scepter is false.
As far as I know we still instill the concept of using your words and not your hands in small children. The fact that we have adults who missed that lesson is frightening. Now Kenya is a “verbal bully”?
Oh dear.
The only thing I said was “smart” about Matt was that he did NOT get out of the car when Kenya was imploring him to do so.
TT, I was very cautious in my description of the events with Matt & Kenya because I do not agree with Matt’s behavior. Nor do I agree with what Kenya is attempting to do either. She’s VERY clever in how she keeps putting her toe up to the edge.
Perhaps my recollection of the reunion is fuzzy, but I NEVER attempt to rewrite any history. Lord knows I don’t need to try and add any drama to these shows. If that’s how I’m perceived, then perhaps my time here is done…
Kenya does have a way about her that would make me crazy. If she doesn’t like what you have to say she simply raises her voice and talks over you. This is very disrespectful and would be difficult to be around for any amount of time. There is, however, NO excuse for a man hitting a woman, or even intimidating them physically but I don’t believe Kenya is intimidated by Matt.
She should be. As a female who has stood toe to toe with a few men, they are indeed stronger than most women and can pack a most powerful punch and one good one is all it would take, especially if she’s not expecting it. Their personalities bring out the worst in each other IMO.
Candy comes across as having the most intregrity, & steering clear of gossip & drama. (Equally Claudia Jordan, who brought total peace to the woman. Seems that can’t work for Bravo!)
I was thrilled that Candy blasted PHAEHDRA, with the utmost control & class, then politely walked out.
I missed that Mr Chocolate was real!
Did Phaekdra think she was going to manipulate Candy into either apologizing for Mama Joyce speaking about what was reported on news stations? Or more insane, for Candy to control what her Mom says? Candy hardly did that for Todd!
I think Candy did such a great job of not getting caught up in Phaekdra’s BS & just outing Phake’s with the on point bullet list!
GREAT JOB, Candy! Yay!
Please read the commenting rules, Wendy. We use people’s actual names here when talking about reality shows. Kandi, Phaedra, etc. Thanks.
Oh! Okay, I got you. Thank you.
Ugh Really? I spelled Candy for Kandy?
Yes i have a cognitive issue, mybad.
Let me guess? Traumatic brain injury?
I don’t know if you’re making fun of me or serious.
I don’t have a problem telling you, if you want to know the cause, but would you rather, that I email you?
I wouldn’t think you’d want it here.
I just get embarrassed, that my writing gets fouled up.
I was truly scared for Porsha to babysit. Those boys have real hair and I don’t want to see either one get dragged even if their mother is a freak.
I think Matt is a total douche. He really shows his need to be on tv by showing up on camera for a meeting about his abusive behavior. It’s my understanding but I may be wrong that the men aren’t paid so why would your dumb ass continue to be on camera after doing criminal activities like destroying peoples property. Kenya on the other hand I don’t trust at all. She outed another of her fakeries last night. She was just on that cooking show recently of celebrities that can’t cook yet she just cooked for her dad as well as telling her dad she cooked for Matt 5 days a week.
Wait so Kenya dashed your assumption that the people on Worst Cooks really don’t know how to feed themselves?
Wait til you figure out she wanted to go out first to get home and handle her business. All of your reality cooking show illusions will be dashed.
I gotta say, Phaedra is looking DAMN good in the face, but Kandi made her look like a fool at that sit down. She didn’t have to get loud or ridiculous and she put her in her place so nicely. Atta girl, Kandi! I nearly fell out of my seat when she said that bit about “Chocolate.”
Kandi has been waiting to let that tea bag drop for sometime now. Let’s not forget she warned Phaedra at the last reunion that she didn’t want her to start talking. Those are clear signs of someone knowing some shit about you and can’t wait till you fuck up to let it out. I’m no team Phaedra or team Kandi, but regardless of their falling out that shouldn’t be her thought process. That’s why you should do your dirt alone. That way can’t nobody come bringing your mess when they get mad at you. Say whatever you want, but Kandi was dead wrong and they both have some amount of dirt on each other and that’s why she stopped herself.
The thing I don’t get about all of this Kandi vilification is that she didn’t say anything Apollo didn’t say on the last season he was on. Before that Apollo mentioned it on the all cast trip when he gave Phaedra a pinata of condoms for her birthday when PHAEDRA’S second child was born. Then he went to jail talking about Mr. Chocolate. This is not anything that hasn’t been said for years.
To me Kandi basically just told her to cut the fake shit with her and reminded her that she knows and lived the real story.
Someone really doesn’t like Kandi. Why does she put up with it?
They set her up with her babydaddy’s current bed-mate; they set her up by filming scenes with her mother at the lawyer’s office (that Kandi insists she knew nothing about until she saw the episode); and they’re giving her a really bad edit making her look like the aggressor vs. poor old angelic Phaedra (they’re even dressing her in white in her talking heads to make their point). And, from what we’ve heard, there’s some really personal stuff about her sex life about to be exposed by Porsha (Phaedra is like the LVP to Porsha’s Brandi at this point, doing her sly bidding).
Kandi may have to choose between being right about Phaedra, and protecting her family and her brand. Because I don’t think this edit is doing her any favors at all.
It’s all in the can now for the most part.
But you are correct, production is coming for Kandi this season.
If you’re interested B. Scott has a fun interview with Kenya Moore on his Facebook page.
Karma will surely come for kandi, I think the whole thing has to do with the fact that Todd has Apollo’s back