I really am trying to get to WWHL. But I clicked on an email en route from some guy named Jon. Jon has questions. So let me help Jon out:
Why do you continue to blog?
You hate the shows. You hate the people on the shows
You hate your readers.
You hate your commenters.
Even though your reviews sucked
The commenters were worth reading
Until you ran off all the fun and interesting ones.
Just stop all ready.
Thanks for the question, Jon. I continue to blog because I enjoy it most of the time. I enjoy it despite fucktards like you who seem to think my site should conform to you for your reading pleasure. I enjoy it and I am learning to set boundaries. I enjoy it because I am my own boss and I do this site on my own terms.
I had the most fun recapping RHOBH tonight than I have had in MONTHS. Want to know why that is Jon? Because out of the hundreds of emails I have to sort through each day, including those lovely people like you who email to tell me that I suck, can’t spell, and am in generally functionally illiterate, there have been for some time a LARGE majority of people telling me about their magnesium levels, their suicidal idealizations, their issues with their mother, their husband who killed himself, the fire that burned their home down, a tornado, a flood, the rare disease their kid has, their brother who stole the rent money, and for the largest percent, the older women my age that are struggling because their diagnosis is depression, chronic fatigue, chronic lyme, fibromyalgia, or whatever their doctor pats them on the head and says they have. Those people emailed me twenty times a day because they relate to me. I tried to be supportive. It seems they all thought I was their only friend. So the emailed me 99 times a day.
IT WAS A LOT. No really. Like A LOT. You have no idea A LOT.
They relate to me because I don’t have a really strong support system either. And I don’t want to rely to strangers on line. Though I did. HARD this last week or so. And I was lucky to have that person. I would not have been able to have gotten the health care I needed without her.
But I do not want to be her best friend. I do not have it in me to be a best friend. That is my failure not hers. I thought I could help some people with some emails. THAT WAS A MISTAKE. I was overwhelmed. I found myself saying things like, “Oh sure, maybe I will come to your house for the holidays/ meet your mother/ stop by if I am in the neighborhood/etc” I will not do any of those things. I do not want to meet you, or anyone else. I was trying to be nice. Then the stalking started.
I thought I could do Internet. I like Internet. I can turn you on and off. Internet is good. Real life is bad.
What bothers me is that I befriended people within my abilities. I had surgery recently. The day before I went into surgery I was kinda of scared. Much like many people here, I don’t have a lot of people to talk to. I had been emailing with “the everso kind and wonderful Cat” for a bit. I really liked her. She and I seemed to be in similar situations.
Cat was a polarizing figure here. Which added to my email count. It was a mix of PLEASE BAN CAT she is always counting out her last bean and discussing how she can’t watch any shows and may die before her next welfare check because she opted to feed her cats instead. I loved Cat. Commenters asked me how can we send her money, food, a functioning tablet? I was the headmistress of the latter group. I recently spoke with Cat on the phone and pointed out her popularity (sort of) and mentioned that people really wanted to help her be able to eat all 31 days of the month and be online. I mentioned that ions ago I had offered to buy her a basic tablet to get online. She declined saying her disability would deduct it. I mentioned trying several ways to help her, she laughed and said she didn’t remember any of that. I remember feeling like I was dealing with someone who was um perhaps suffering from memory problems. But this was dear, sweet Cat. I mean what could go wrong?
Then there the cat rescue thing. suddenly she had a gofundme somewhere for that. I’d been trying to help her buy a tablet and, you know, eat for quite some time but that would fuck up her check. No worries about her disability with the cat rescue plan though. Since the “cat rescue” Cat has never “run out of money,”
Weird.
Around this time, TeeCee started talking shit about her. I should have listened. But I didn’t.
Actually, as I sit here today I see several times I should have listened to TeeCee and I didn’t. She’s actually a very good judge of character. But that is another life lesson I have learned in the past month or so. It’s been a difficult but enlightening month. On many personal levels.
If I drop dead tonight, I’d like my tombstone to read, ” I should have listened to TC.” But that is a whole nuther talk show.
Two days before I had my first surgery, I was scared. I drank a lot. I called Cat. She was kind. I felt better. I am pretty sure this was our first or second conversation. We had not spoken much. I had wanted to help her for a long time. I mentioned that I had offered to buy her a tablet, send her money whatever I could do and she claimed not to remember any of that. Weird. I offered once again to try and get her cable situation worked out. Like me, Cat lives alone ( I am not sure I even believe that anymore) and has survived cancer ( I am thankful that did not happen to me, but my sister died of breast cancer. My random mention of this will make sense later.) How could you not want to help her? I wanted to help. So the day before my surgery, I spent several hours with Time Warner, her cable company trying to find someone who might help me do a nice thing in the spirit of Christmas to get her back up and running. Time Warner people are ASSHOLES who told me that it would be around $600. No one wanted to help. I did notice that SPECTRUM who is my cable company seems to have purchased Time Warner. They were super cool from the beginning. They told me she could just reapply once their equipment got put in and the client was fully theirs. I don’t know if you have ever tried to talk to a cable company, but they are assholes and it is very time consuming. I think the last website related person I contacted was Cat saying I am sorry I could not get your shit turned back on but Time Warner is being bought out and if we wait, you can just sign up again.
The day before my surgery, I shot Cat, the ever so kind and lovable Cat an email, to let her know I was leaving, I was off to stay with another person who very kindly offered to put me up in her home for a couple nights, take me to surgery and care for me. A random person who rarely posts here. Without her, I would not have been able to have surgery. She also allowed me to bring my dog. She is a saint.
Cat was LITERALLY the last person I spoke too online before I left.
So off I went. Afraid, and pretty bitchy. As it turns out, she didn’t know my hostess did not know her own Wifi code. So I was offline for two days. I decided this was probably for the best. As it turns out, it was some sort of divine intervention.
I’m not sure what was happened next. I was not here. But from what it looks like to me Cat was playing hostess to every commenter. This pissed off TeeCee and some shit went down.
I would like to make it VERY clear here that dear, sweet, Cat, knew that I was in surgery and that Tee Cee is not me. Yet she inflamed some random thoughts by idiots that we might me. Cat fueled the flames.
Pandemonium broke out.
When I came home, all of the people who had been emailing me the temperature of their twats every day, all of the people who had been screaming things like “please love me! I am sure you have the same medical issue I do! I will not rest until you like me and you get your parathyroid checked, I will pay for the tests!. the person, who I confided that I was going to Paris for Christmas and that I was struggling with going after the mass shooting in November of 2015, who begged me to come to their house instead, all of the people I had invested time in, all of those people were the ones that sent 25 emails a day about their issues were pissed at me. And that included people I considered friends. And I called and spoke to on the phone. I can count on one hand people I have spoken to on the phone from this site.
So anyway, I come home from surgery to a shit ton of hate mail. But not the usual hate mail. The “how could you do this to Cat? Hate mail.
Which brings me back to Cat.
Dear sweet Cat. As soon as I was back home I reached out to her immediately. I told her that I thought TeeCee was probably reacting to the person who was trying to send me well wishes on my surgery. Apparently I was wrong. Cat’s response was to screech at me that she had blocked me. I am not really sure what she thought she blocked me from, but I just sent her an email like I normally would and she accused me of setting up a new… I don’t even remember what. I just emailed her.
I would like to point out, she knew I was going to be away for surgery, and I could not possibly have been TeeCee. Oh that dear sweet Cat. TeeCee had already done told me she was trouble.But I would not listen. Cat is counting out three beans and half a protein bar every month on my blog. Stop being such a bitch, I’d tell Tee Cee and the others. It’s hard being a lone female, I would defend her.
So I am about to send you all to a link. That lovely Calm chick, she is the lunatic who has LITERALLY been screaming at me for five fucking years to get my parathyroid checked, she will pay for it, she knows that is my issue and I will be healed like she is if I just let her do this. I am not kidding. It;s all aday every day. And then if you go back on this site, she disagrees with EVERYONE about EVERYTHING that wa ever her. She is the contrarian on EVERY FUCKING TOPIC.
Every1BeCalm has her wordpress in her login. Or did. This is some chick with some sort of parathyroid issue. I know this because she has been screaming at me to get my parathyroid checked since 2011. I am not kidding. I am not exaggerating. “IT IS YOUR PARATHYROID! HERE ARE MY MAGNESIUM LEVELS~ I LOVE YOU AND WANT TO FIX YOU! ” FOR FIVE YEARS. FIVE YEARS.
And yes, I have cried on the phone to Hannah Rose. I thought she was a nice lady too. In 2015 I went to Paris for Christmas. Just before that, there was a terrorist attack. I didn’t mention this on the site but I did speak to Hannah, dear sweet Hannah about it. So after talking to her while drinking about my tickets to Paris being nonrefundable, I said, I probably should just come to your house. Then the next day, she had practically set up a parade to her house as if she was hosting a celebrity in her home. I never asked to go to butt fuck Egypt to spend Christmas with people I did not know. I have family. I love my family. I do not want to spend Christmas with my family.I do not drive the 12 miles to my family’s Christmas. I had tickets to Paris. I did not ask spend Christmas with Hannah. I DID tell her she was being creepy and stalkerish but threaten to send her husband down to get me. She was scary.
Just before I left, I spoke with someone about making up with their mother before you don’t have one anymore to make up with. Emails were exchanged. Things went well. I was so happy to have helped.
SHE IS THERE.
Where? Well Every1Becalm or whatever had a link in her profile here for the past five years. I’ve deleted over 1.100 0f her comments here. I am not able to stay awake for a whole day yet. She is the one that will not shut the fuck up about her whatever health problem and how I need to get my parathyroid checked. It’s been years of PARATHYROID, PARATHYROID why don’t you check your PARATHYROID. YEARS. I have so many e-mails it will most definitely be in my book.
So those people. The people that sucked hours of my day every goddamn day of my goddamn life, are here, at a site I think should be called THE BASKET OF INSUFFERABLES.
If you would like to follow their health journeys, please, click on to that site. There you will find Cat, CAT!!!!!! That one chick everyone thought was so cool, the very last person I email on my way to surgery saying that she has dug up my sisters obituary, posting her full name, passing around a photo and making a comment about her “whiteness.” Minky, pretending like she isn’t Minky yet saying that she is mocking my surgery, and yes, once again my involvement in a police sting saying “no one had a gun to her head” which was basically what she said when I first attempted to share my experience on Daily Tea.
You will also find the woman who I have been talking through a reuniting with her mother, That she told me went well and thanked me for making he understand that once your mama dies, she’s dead,
And others. You can go look for yourselves.
I’m just telling you, Jon. I’m just a fat old lady with no one who tried to help other old ladies with no one. That was a fucking mistake. I went off to get surgery and came back to all of those old ladies pissing on my face.
So no Jon, I do not like my commenters. I do not want a relationship with them. I am thrilled I no longer have to get daily reports on their medical condititons. I hope Cat, Every1bcalm, and all the rest of them die in a fire.
And I will continue to blog because THAT IS WHAT I LIKE TO DO. What I will NOT do is try to help any of the fucktards here. EVER. Again.
Does this answer your question, Jon? Now run along, eat shit and die.
I don’t have the emotional fortitude to read this for editorial reasons, but it occurs to me I never mentioned what Cat , dear sweet Cat, did to me.
I guess you will see it there, but she ran around bragging on looking for things to attack me on.
Did I mention, the last person I spoke to online before I went under was, “dear sweet Cat?” well, at some point while I was having surgery and before I got home to my house, “dear sweet Cat had decided I was Tee Cee and that made it okay for her to hunt down everything she could find on me.
Know what you can find on me? my sisters obit. Which she has spent the last few days passing around.
I get it. I made a mistake trying to help, “dear sweet Cat.”
But let me just tell you ONE MORE TIME. I am an old lonely woman who went for my first surgery. I practically hired someone to come care about me. She was kind enough to let me bring my dog, who was BITTEN IN THE FUCKING FACE by her dog the previous night. There was driving on sidewalks and tons of fear. AND NO INTERNET ACCESS.
So I finally get home and EVERY FUCKING PERSON I HAVE BEEN CODDLING FOR AGES IS FURIOUS WITH ME FOR SOMETHING I SAID.
You know, while I was having surgery.
Dear sweet Cat needs to die in a fire.
You don’t go stomping through people’s dead relatives over perceived shit that happened when they were not even conscious.
I hope you die, dear, sweet Cat. I really do. Dragging my dead sister into this is the worst thing I’ve ever seen. And I’ve been in many online groups, many of them are mentioned at the link. And none of them are as low as you.
Please kill yourself so I can discuss the photo on your obituary you horribly disgusting piece of shit.
No wonder all my friends said there is a reason all your friends hate you. You suck.
And Jon,
I am sure you would like to to comment now. But I’d like to add here that what I sent you was
I’m not sure why you think you can email me, but here is your answer,
http://tamaratattles.com/2016/12/07/mail-bag-wtf-is-going-on-here-is-what-you-missed/
and you seem like a vile individual and I hope you die in a fire really soon.
It’s only fair I include that here. Because fuck off and die. Or don’t fuck off and stop by for a visit. I’m easy to find.
Nasty Cat, probably using Jon Doe alias. Either way both of them can sit in the corner crying like the Titanic is about to take their children.
OMG, you have been through it, Tamara. Lots of seriously crazy people hiding behind fake personas online. I had a similar, but comparatively minor experience with someone like that myself on Facebook yesterday in a post about the Oakland warehouse fire. I tried to help, to make sense of what she was saying, but I couldn’t and finally faced the craziness and gave up. So sorry for your experiences…I bet it makes you appreciate Banjo infinitely more than you already did! I promise to try to stay sane in your space!
Thanks.
I have no idea if these people were for real. I do know I spent a lot of time talking to them. That makes me stupid. I was literally IN SURGERY and .. the people whose hands I’d been holding were busy trashing me,. And not just me, but my dead sister. Who is :very white” or whatever.
These are the people I have or thought I had bonded with. The minute i got back online I emailed Cat and tried to tell her… oh fuck it I am not going to explain a thing. I am not ever interested in being around these people again. EVER.
I’m sorry you’ve had such a nasty time with horrible people. I rarely comment online, rarely post on social media because there are so many sick souls who say some evil shit that they’d never say in person. Most likely because they know they’d probably get a punch to the throat… Your recaps make me laugh and I’m very grateful for that. Hope the sooks fuck right off and leave you alone.
Thanks Nelly.
I say lots of evil shit. I would say it in person.
I didn’t expect to be that idiot on the Internet who was … what?
I really still don’t get it.
All of the people at that link are people I helped.
I just don’t get it.
I really don’t,
I am not a particularly nice person and now I have this big pile of shit on the top of my site.
There is a a lady there I tried to get ot make up with her mother. We talked a bit and she claimed everything worked out blah blah blah…. I don’t believe any of you.
NEVER AGAIN.
Dear Tamara,
After reading this incredibly genuine post, I was compelled to search your archives to gain insight into your personality. I find you to be a fascinating worthwhile loving person. I have enjoyed myself very much and my respect for you has grown tremendously. I promise not to overload you with bullshit suckup comments because that’s not how you nor I roll. I predict that someday you will compose a best-seller and I’ll be in line at (whatever that popular bookstore is called, I forget the name and am too lazy to look it up) to buy your book but I’ll be there. Keep being proud and kind to yourself. You are a survivor.
Sincerely, Pam
I have occasionally sent you emails just to let you know that I think you rock. I never wanted anything from you, not even a reply. I just saw this column, and I’m sick for you. I’m sure you don’t believe me either, but I don’t want anything from you except to say how badly I feel for you. To be betrayed so utterly by people you gave so much to, is something I have experienced too, but my experience didn’t happen on the Internet with people commenting on it. People fucking suck so hard sometimes.
I must say I have never really bothered to read the comments before but wow. Some people are really vile. Dragging your sister into this is just below low. SO disrespctful. Would be furious to. I´m so sorry for you. Not the best way to recover from surgery. I hope you get well soon and manage to keep up the writing. I love your witty, ironic humor!
Try to not bother about the mean comments. It could be one single person doing this. I´m sure the majority wants you to keep up the writing.
Take care!
I don’t watch many of the shows anymore but I do come here for recaps and comments! Thank you, Tamara. I appreciate your recaps and all the work and time you put in for us. I do wish you and your beloved, Banjo good health and sunny days. Blessing!
Ugh ugh ugh!
I am sorry that all this shit went down while you were dealing with your surgery.
For what it is worth, I can confirm some of the timeline to the potential window lickers – not with the bitchy complaint emails, because I have never ever done that here (or really, anywhere, perhaps once or twice on message boards I’ve been on for years). But I know that TT was going to be out of commission because she warned me ahead of time in terms of my Voice blog.
I do usually love the fact that you have a smaller number of commenters, so I don’t get overwhelmed following the conversations on a particular show. It was what initially attracted me to the site, after some of my favorite message boards finally died.
Message boards and comments in blogs do tend to attract passive aggressive douchebags like you describe – they get some to adore them, suck up, etc. and then BAM! turn on a dime. Kathy Griffin had a message board, and I still “know” people from there. It kind of imploded as her career took off (after the D-List) It was a nightmare for some of my online friends who volunteered to be moderators (they did it for free, but they got free meet and greet opportunities. Some took advantage, some did not.)
For personal reasons I hope that you don’t do away with the commenting permanently…. why should the assholes ruin it for the rest of us who don’t come here for health or spiritual guidance (I go to Oprah or Elizabeth Gilbert for that… ha).. I come here for fun and gossip about shows I love. I love Andy – oddly not a common sentiment for a site that focuses on a lot of Bravo shows. Ive said that before, and I’m not licking windows. When someone posts a comment that contradicts my opinion and is overly long…. I skim through it and MOVE ON.
But for those who claim they “can’t express their opinions because they are different from TTs” to quote my beloved Kathy Griffin? suck my dick. TT and I don’t agree on a lot of stuff – except for maybe our love and devotion of Caroline Manzo.
An online person insisting you come for Christmas, etc. – THAT IS FUCKING CRAZYPANTS. Trust your instincts. It might be that my grandmother and mother were overly cautious and paranoid, but there is no fucking way I would do that…. be the invitee or the invitor. If I ever come to Atlanta, I would have to really think about even letting you know because meeting in a public place for coffee would be about the extent of my comfort zone!!! (Ok, if the coffee shop was dog friendly – because I’d be more comfortable if Banjo was there)
Oh, also I don’t know what state Cat lives in (physically or mentally). But getting a tablet as a gift? It wouldn’t affect monthly benefits. Gifts of money? Yes. A cheap tablet? Highly doubtful!!! Frankly, how would social services know? THEY DON’T INSPECT SOMEONE’S HOUSE FOR GOD’S SAKE.
They barely have the manpower to do wellness checks on foster kids, etc. They aren’t going to search someone’s home to see if someone gave them a tablet. I call complete and total bullshit.
And I thought I would miss Cat….not so much now. Sorry Tamara. Live and learn. Huh?
Dearest TT, I am so sorry you went through all this.
Yes, I’d trust TC’s judgement in a serious conversation and I only know her through her comments. Might get a 2nd opinion but I would listen to her.
**The one woman I contacted through you sounds like Jon. She became mean to both of us. Tossing idea to you.
Cat was not one I’d had believed in here but you are much kinder than I am.
When people are honestly broke they have more pride than Cat showed.
Cat’s entire persona seemed shallow and fake.
Cat and the crew that kept up the poor Cat dialogue was turn off. I don’t have TC’s confidence to comment to Cat, TC said nothing wrong to Cat.
Yes I think I warned you about a person in here sharing your Paris trip, was a low life move.
Again Girl, sorry for all you’ve been through. Hope the surgery was helpful.
I really don’t have any animosity toward Cat. I’m just more confused. I haven’t been to the Basket of Insufferables site lately but I don’t know that she has even been there since the whole obituary incident. I have a feeling she knows she fucked up. The not so calm one however has never been my favorite person. She’s INSUFFERABLE.
Also, I have gently suggested to many people to not interact with TeeCee. Why? Because there were lots of people on the site that can’t fucking enjoy a good battle. TeeCee and I have probably hated each other more than we’ve like each other. But there is nothing we can say to each other than would send either of us into a frenzy. We’re both bitches. It is what it is.
I can’t believe you went through this. This is terrible. I hope things turn around for you and you get some sane commenters.
I enjoy reading your recaps and visit this site daily. What I did not enjoy was the frequent commenters who would go on and on about their personal lives. I looked at the blog that you mentioned and it is definitely a case of the pot calling the kettle black; it’s quite hateful. I believe Cat’s comment about your sister revealed her true self.
Ditto. I come here for recaps of shows that I can’t stand to watch anymore and the very few shows that I can stomach (Vanderpump Rules and Teen Mom). I would never go to a blog and expect that blogger to become my friend and help me out or take my advice. I’m a reader and a fan. Not looking for a new bestie. And I’m a lonely stay at home mom of 2 under 2, without many friends, but I would still never have that kind of expectation from a site I visit for entertainment and escape. People are fucking weird.
Yes Twilly. We come for mindless entertainment not looking for friends. Thanks TT for recapping shows I can no longer watch. And I appreciate the fast recaps, spelling errors and all. That doesn’t bother me. Keep them coming.
It appears I have missed something..
I just come here to read the funny recap and exclusives on the HWs..are other people coming here for something else? ?
Okay I’ve caught up a bit.
TT, I like to deal with my own problems myself, so I too get annoyed with people who are compelled to share all the grimey details of each papercut they get and need support from others for the same. It’s draining. I’ve seen you try to make nice PSAs several times over the past few months for commenters to please stop with depressing, suicidal comment thread hijacking. You probably should have deleted them as soon as they came in rather than politely letting people snowball.
It’s simply not that hard to understand that you make the rules here and you have decided that you don’t want an innocuous WWHL recap to turn into everyone’s personal therapy & validation season. It’s not their safe space. They have the entire rest of the internet for that. #entitled
This is why we cant have nice things. 🙁
HYSTERICAL!
HAHAHAHA! My mom used to say that; the most memorable time was when I dropped and broke a Hanna Barbera (??) jelly jar that we used as a juice glass. Does anyone remember those? They were FREE with the purchase of some grape jelly.
And Tamara, I am so sorry this happened to you. Please don’t let it stop you from blogging; I would miss your postings too much.
My mom used to say it, too. An extra bonus with Tamara’s blogs, other than the fun recaps, are the southern sayings she throws in there from time to time. Takes me back to my childhood.
That says it all lol
That pretty much sums it up, Mark !
Tamara, I was saddened when reading this post:
It’s awful that you were subjected to such abuse.you have been very nice to me and so I have no reason to think you weren’t the same way to others.
The things you went through were so outside the realm of decency that they are shocking. I am so very sorry that your privacy was violated in such a cruel way as to bring a family member into it.
Thank you for still being here. I love the special way that you “do you”!
Mark, my grandkids came running in here to see if I was okay, I couldn’t stop the giggles. Oh man, I needed those endorphins to come alive. It made me remember life is funny and it feels good. Thanks doll!
Sucks to get the “negative edit”. Your tag line could be “I blog for pleasure and the fucktards can all suck it.”
OMG, what an awful story. I’m glad you can block these crazy women. Please keep blogging. You have such a gift for humor and there are so many of us who enjoy the belly laughs. And yes — listen to TeeCee!
Wow. I had no idea you were experiencing so much BS. It’s like a prolonged episode of Catfish on steroids.
Was thinking the same thing Cake! As in “Cat”fish??? And it turns out the people on the other end many times are kinda, well you know – crazy.
I hate it that TT got sucked in by this gang of well…going to look for a definition of ‘group of catfish’.
hahahaha – just got this definition from google when I typed in ‘group of catfish’: “Catfish are a group of bottom-feeding fish…” I rest my case!
I really wish there was a “like” function on comments because I agree with so many of the supportive folks here.
I hope you heal properly and that poor Banjo is OK after his face-bite. I kind of understand your life from your posts and blog but would not assume to diagnose you, offer to house you or do anything beyond contributing to your PayPal account and hope my visits contribute to your bottom line.
I enjoy your recaps, especially since you post on shows I don’t watch anymore (RHOA) but like to get some scoop on – and Thanks for Southern Charm recaps, your commentary adds to my enjoyment of the show.
I hate that this shit happened to you and wish daily dumps of pigeon shit on the heads of the bitches who have crapped on you.
Remember, for every crazy bitch out here in the ether there are ten normal people who appreciate you.
Thanks. I think normal people are overrated. Outside of the whole WE ARE SCOURING THE INTERNET FOR SHIT TO EXPOSE ON YOU dead sister thing, it was kind of funny to come home to in a way. It would have been nothing but funny if I were not you know, on drugs and recovering from surgery I have a few more days before the whole recovery thing is done. It really was a blessing in disguise that I carried around this super heavy laptop that I hate to try to be online right afterward and my sweet hostess had no idea what her wifi password was. It could have been much worst than me waking up the next day driving home against doctors orders and the protestations of my sweet caretaker to find… well this.
I could not imagine what you have gone through and to be slammed in the face with such BS is unforgivable. I love what you do and those of us who value your presence come back for more. The Jon’s and Cat’s of the world can go back to their useless lives and sucked into a black hole.
I just ate an entire bag of haribo while reading the comments on that link.
“Raise your hand if you’ve ever been personally victimised by Regina George.”
Mark, I was also looking for something to stress eat while reading all that….I don’t even know what to call it…on the link TT put up and couldn’t find anything good fast enough. Why is everyone over there acting like they were kidnapped into Jonestown and barely escaped with their lives? This is an online BLOG, with voluntary comment participation, so no one was ever forced to read or comment or keep commenting. I’m SHOCKED. I’ve been reading here for ages and just never got into commenting until this year. I can’t believe all the commenters I saw post regularly who now seem like completely different people than I assumed they were. I’m speechless ??
I find it amusing the sheer magnitude of people who are simply HORRIFIED that someone would make a blog work for them as a BUSINESS.
I don’t do things out of the sheer goodness of my fucking heart either. A job’s a job. Its almost comical until someone’s dead sister starts getting thrown in the mix. These people need a hobby and some real life friends.
You know, everything public is fair game when you put yourself out there for all the world to see. EXCEPT family, unless they’ve opted in. Dragging a person’s deceased sibling through the mudslinging is just so beyond ugly, low class, hurtful, and despicable. I can’t imagine what goes through a person’s mind when they make a decision that is so not okay on any level.
Lol. Don’t be shocked by the number of names commenting. The number of names is not indicative of the number of people.
So true. Plus the handkes they use seem so temporary.
Posting this 7- 8 weeks after this was written. I’ve a idea this post might have annual rehash each year. Yo soon now to think that way but might be a good idea, someday.
Interacting with shitty people in person or online is part of life. You came out on the other side wiser and rid of unnecessary chaos. Some of us NEVER learn and remain in toxic relationships no matter how destructive.
Damn. I haven’t commented much, but I have continued to read regularly. I’m sad that they did this to you, but I’m not sad they are gone.
It’s the most, wonderful time…of the year!
That said, I can’t condone wishing that people die in a fire…
…if they have pets. Think of the chirrun.
Shut up, Tamara. We’re on to you.
Bwahahahahaha!
Ha. Oh right. Except I posted at 8:30 AM. The last time Tamara was up at 8:30 AM, Reagan was president and she was probably still out after some coke fueled party. Just saying…..
Morning sunshine. Aren’t you supposed to be off somewhere buying me everything I want? What I want now is Taco Bell. Get on it.
Oh and while I checked out the cuntsicles corner and read about NAA buying you everything someone brought up new theory that TT is also Cat.
Yes, the last I heard is that I am 99 percent of the people commenting here and you are all made up I really need to develop your character though,
I read it was 60%. I guess you have been busy and increased your output. I must say, you really make up creative user names. And each “person” has a unique perspective. It’s quite a production. Do you sleep?
FTR — I was “lurking” throughout this entire drama. I admit that I found the endless banter about absolutely nothing entertaining. But now I feel terrible, given what you were going through. I’m truly sorry they made a tough period even more difficult for you TT.
Having a gaggle of internet “friends” turn on you and spend days talking shit about you is really upsetting. And scary. You think “OMG, they are literally insane, and they know where i live” etc.
Remember though — most of them are projecting their own self-loathing and other issues onto you. It may sound trite, but it really isn’t about you. It’s about them. Because if they were healthy and balanced, and felt they had been wronged, they’d just walk away and find something else to do online right?
Again, I”m sorry you had a rough time.
Hmmmm….that might have been someone trying to feed the paranoia because they thought it would be fun. Just a guess. I have no actual way of knowing. I have an alibi for that time.
Simple solution is block and delete comments that apply to anything other than the topic at hand. And treat this as a business for yourself. That is – stay focused on why you blog and the information about the shows and commentary about them. Stay as a moderator and not social director. The posters are treated as clients or customers in your business and nothing more. If you want to be friends then keep that off site as this is not for your personal info nor for them to rant. Bloggers do this all the time – they have to or end up wrapped inside the cyberspace world where anyone can be anything at anytime. To keep your sanity keep your distance and remember we are all really just strangers.
Most excellent advice! We really are all strangers, and should prolly stay that way!
I agree with the comments about this being your business. It is your source of income and your place of safety. Slam the door on those nutjobs and do not allow them back in.
There’s a saying…Everyone has something. Most of us do! This is the only blog I read/frequent so I can get away from my ‘something’ which happens to be pretty significant. It’s actually so refreshing to not focus on life’s problems. The Debbie Downers ought to give it a try.
Alright, I know I just said I’m speechless, but here’s something I can manage to say: how do you know when you’ve lost your mind about something and gone too far on the Crazytrain?? I would HOPE it would be right BEFORE you gleefully participate in a conversation about googling around for the OBITUARY of someone’s deceased relative to see if you can find out what they or their family looks like, because holy crazy crap balls that is all kinds of nuts. I don’t care what you think they did to you. Have. Some. Fucking. Decorum.
Never expected to see such a turn out for the Kool Aid keg party. Here we’re served piss and vinegar straight up if you can take a shot. Make mine a double.
I am horrified that you had all this going on TT. But happy for you that you are grabbing yourself back and making some real healthy boundaries there.
All of this nonsense, plus you had a major website re-do too. Dang. Were you a successful cat-herder in a former life?
Count me in as one of your lonely older ladies here, trying to help is what we do sometimes, so here is my attempt, ADVICE. You didn’t ask for it, so I may get bit, but I’m taking that risk. (not in this order)–
1) Go on an email diet. Go on a commenter diet. What is this hellish thing you mentioned recently that you get pinged or dinged or somehow BOTHERED EVERY TIME THAT someone leaves a comment here? TURN THAT SHIT OFF. Mute it! And skim or browse your comments in chunks at your convenience.
2) Maybe put your email in auto respond or vacation mode with a link pointing back to this page? Have an email devoted to commenters or something so you don’t miss business queries. I still think you need an intern, that’s up to you but you can automate some stuff and fix it to limit your availability and tending to “urgent” demands on your attention.
3)CHECK YOUR PARATHYROID! haha just kidding. But maybe open up comments so we can give you advice once in awhile and you can browse, skim, or ignore?
that’s all I got. I have to go check up on my parathyroid. If I even have one.
keep being your badass self
Those people sound insane!! And Jon sounds like a dick. Who takes time out of their lives to send emails like that? Must be nice to have all that free time and energy. And to also assume people actually give a fuck what you think.
The same person who takes the time to read that crap then come back here and comment Twilly…much like you. All of this is crazy. I enjoy reading the recaps here because I can’t stomach the shows. Even started watching a few new shows. But I don’t and will never emotionally invest in people who sit behind a computer and spew hate, be it TT or those but jobs. Folks saying they need a life need to examine their’s too. Respond all you want. I do t care. Don’t know any of you so I could care less.
What the fuck is wrong with these people? To bring up someone’s relative into an argument is bad enough, but when that person is DECEASED?!?! You deserve to get your ass kicked! The fact that you’re still recovering from surgery and having to deal with this bullshit is ridiculous. I hope those jack asses have fun talking shit because it’s just a matter of time before they implode and turn on each other. I’m in shock.
That says it all. To create a hate blog about Tamara is pathetic. Nobody forced them to come to your sight. You owe them nothing. What BroMo said is exactly what will happen. “It’s just a matter of time before they implode and turn on each other.”
Hi Tamara, long time reader, rarely comment. Just wanted to say I appreciate your recaps and appreciate the logic you bring to RHOA. Other blogs are so hateful and blind to the truth, I feel like I am alone and verbally trashed when just talking about an episode. I appreciate our similar opinions and I hope you continue blogging.
Hope your recovery from surgery goes well, your puppy feels better and you move on from all the negative nellies in the world. Have a beautiful day 🙂
I’m sorry you’re going through all this TT.
Holy shitballs, Batman! Thanks for taking the time to explain all the cryptic behind-the-scenes drama. It sucks when you are vulnerable and psychos take advantage of a kind heart, then twist the knife more when they are exposed. The hardest part (for me) is not becoming jaded. I don’t suspect that everyone I meet is a conniving back-stabber with an agenda but I also don’t want to meet anyone either. ha
I’ve never even thought of emailing you. And now I’m going to have to google parathyroid. Nevah hoid of it.
What in tarnation?!?! While I will never understand Cat’s specific kind of crazy (or any of her ‘herd’), I do have to admire her total commitment to it. Dayum!
I’m sorry, TT..I had no idea. People suck and I’m happy that your surgery went well! And that you are back and as exicted for RHOBH that I am!!
tamara goddam! i hate fake fucks but LOVE reality shows that are recapped and discussed here. just wow on the hard slap of reality you just endured. glad to see your fiesty self picking yourself up and dusting yourself off. fug em!
This post adds a lot of clarity and context to my understanding. Why people write things they would not say face to face I do not understand. It is always easy to be a jerk, it takes a bit of effort to be a stand up human being.
That link is full of entitled, delusional, delicate little snowflakes! Good riddance, assholes!
Interesting read. I’m rather proud of you for saying what you think without fear of hurting someone’s feelings. Quite frankly I thought I was the only one was always what was always
uncomfortable with Cat. She just appeared to too needy and drepressing should be her middle name. Secretly I’m glad she’s taken to her tree and maybe will stay there until realizes she really not a cat but a lonely miserable human being. Tee Cee doesn’t do stupid very well so her tolerance level is rather low. Get well TT put this behind you and press on, you’re still the best damn blogger this side of the Mississippi.
Oh, and you’re clearly “just jealous” of Cat, TT! The go-to excuse for most mental midgets. Good Lord, the delusion.
Sorry for the typos but hopefully you get what I’m trying to say.
I am so sorry this has happened.
Do what you have to do Tamara. Cat should be ashamed of herself.
Siobhan, I agree. Cat was treated very well in here.
Thank you all for showing up for TT.
Not my place to say that but all of you are being awesome.
It’s better not to stoop to the level of wishing Cat would end up dying in a fire or have someone kill themselves.
NOT Professional TT.
Is that what you want? Childish much? Or just plain sicko?
Offended? Go spend time with those sweetie pies and try not to puke.
Oh, she’s over there. Posting away. I’m surprised she took time out of her busy Tamara bashing schedule to pop by.
Ugh. Why can’t they just stay there. Her is the funny thing. And I’ve seen it OVER AND IVER AND OVER. Those folks refugeeing from a common enemy? They will turn on each other and HARD. It will be a most spectacular shit show when it happens. In this case, I hope to be oblivious. But I guarantee it will be superlative. Know that. (Just channeling that nutty ecig sucking pal of Camille Grammar.
Lmao at channeling Camille’s nutty ecig sucking pal. I saw her instantly and clear as bell in my head. So funny.
Refugeeing….omg I laughed so hard.
TT, I am so sorry!! This has absolutely horrified me. What the hell is wrong with people???
TT,
Hear me…and Hear me good…FUCK EM ALL!!
You have a Gift. And it is a Profitable one for you. Your experience/education as a Teacher clearly speaks for itself in the way you disect and then deliver YOUR views of shows that WE, YOUR READERS, enjoy watching and then discussing.
YOU, in my opinion, are to Blogging…what WHOPPI is to THE VIEW.
Just because we read your reviews and follow what you ALLOW us to see of YOUR life journies, does not mean we KNOW you.
This is what CELEBS deal with all the time.
But you are a Person before anything. You OWE us NOTHING beyond a “Thanks for reading my Blog”….and even That is not morally required.
Again, if ANYONE has a problem with you….they need Therapy. You are NOT our Friend, Family, Savior…You are a Blogger with a Gift that draws us to your page.
Keep doing what YOU feel YOU want to do on YOUR site. I’m here for it!
With All my E-Love, Big Daddy Mike!
I agree . I stop by here from time to time because I love TT’s sense of humor. Every now and then I would comment on whatever the post was about at the time . I realize people have their own problems and I try not to bother anyone with mine. I also want say I enjoy this site!! TT don’t ever change!
I may regret posting because I’ve had prior issues with TT and TC. However, Cat and her gang remind me of a group of the worst kind of church ladies. They not only WANT to see photos of your children/grandchildren but are devastated that there is no way for vacation slides to be shown in comments. Sadly for them, they could not post copies of their medical records. They can’t get enough of each other’s miseries and wallowing in sympathy. Should your life have one iota of happiness, you have no place in that group – they would choke the life out of your joy. If any one of them mistakenly says something politically incorrect then there are 45 cautionary comments, 36 apologies and a group hug and loving tears follow. What the remaining readers actually need to be tested for is diabetes – all that sugar coated love is nauseating and hopefully not medically contagious. (And I’m in my 60’s so, by time spent on Earth, I should be one of them but my mind is still intact so ….. NO). I am thrilled they have left. Cat seemed to think this was HER website. Those wretched women are toxic. —- Now the question is, will this post make it through moderation since I am persona non grata? Doesn’t matter. Even with my history here, I do have standards. Congrats Tamara. I had begun to think you were like them since you kept allowing this to run as long as it did.
Yes yes yes. I’m in my 60’s and could not stand that sweet sick crap.
Yes this was turning into Cats site.
Minky surprised me, thought she was level headed.
Holy shitballs!
Wow, just wow.
Hey JoJo…that was exactly my reaction after reading said person blog.
Veuve … I have always pronounced it like Verb only with a v instead of a b. I had a SPpirits store back in the day and I sold quite a bit of Veuve Cliquot.
What happened to Xanadude? Did you run that person off too? How come people who blogged for you only did it for a short time? The problem seems to be you and you being a big fat cuntsuckle who I’m surprised hasn’t suffocated in her own fat.
Seems like you saying you Not Here for TT and how she operates….
Yet your comment suggest that you maintain PERFECT ATTENDANCE on HER Blog site.
The BLOGasphere is Huge…
And Traveling is Free
#ByeFelicia
I can like the site, like her writing, and even like her wit that doesn’t mean I like when she becomes unhinged and attacks commenters randomly for no reason. I didn’t realize that to like something I had to like 100% of it, I thought I was allowed to like parts and dislike parts. Also bye Felicia is the dumberst thing ever, go choke on your dad’s big fat cock
You seem unhinged. And like a giant twatwaffle, If you are waiting for me to be nice to you or agree with you opinion on Bethenny, you will have a long wait. Just shut the fuck up,
Lol this is what I’m talking about, unhinged, I used that as an example twatbag, I actually hate Bethany
I think weirdiskate is my favorite poster. Fine way with words!
Telling someone to choke on their dad’s fat cock is a wee bit psycho asshole, cupcake. You can’t play the delicate, offended innocent and then say that. You showed your ass, hunney.
I have NO IDEA….of the size of my father’s “Cock”….
Maybe that’s common knowledge in Your family…but Mine doesn’t flow like that.
God Bless you in your inbreeding endeavors. 🙂
When did I, I mean she, say she wasn’t a big fat cuntsicle?
Lol I don’t think she’s you or any of that bullshit. What I don’t understand is saying to go burn in a fire, as well as many of her main commenters have disappeared in the past few months, I think TT needs to look inward and figure out why so many people left in droves. I like this blog but it’s insane you can’t have an opinion without being ridiculed for it
Ha. Well, I’ve always thought getting ridiculed by TT was half the fun.
As for telling people to DIE IN A FIRE, well, I prefer more creative ways of telling people to eat shit and die, but, then again, nobody has passed around a copy of a dead relatives obituary. I might feel differently then. It also has the merit of being direct. But that might just be my parathyroid talking. 🙂
I’m glad she linked over there. If that’s my alternative, I’ll set the fire myself and self-immolate.
If you read them it’s actually quite funny, they’re a bunch of pussies. I just don’t like that TT will ridicule you if you have a different opinion. Just because I may like Bethany (example) doesn’t make me an abused twat sandwich, like that’s bullshit. But as far as the obituary goes fuck that I’d probably kill them
I think she can say whatever she wants. It’s HER blog. If it were mine, you wouldn’t have been a member long enough to make a second comment.
TEECEE STARTED THE EAT SHIT AND DIE THING. And I followed up with DIE IN A FIRE. You are old. You should know what “going old school” looks like, you cunt.
I obviously should of stolen from you and used cuntscicle instead of cuntsuckle, but I was referring to suckling the Cunt like a baby would suckle a teet
Oops I meant teat, got to learn to read before I post
Wow! Such hateful words. Did TT do something to you personally. If so tell us about it so the rest of us can decide if she is what you say she is. I don’t always agree with her, and quite frankly am shocked by some of things she says. But yet I keep coming back here because she entertains me. TT is transparent in my book and I relate to her because at some point
she feels what I feel. I love that she allows even you to spew your venom towards her and not send you off to the WLS. Looking forward to her being in rare form at least for the next few days. ?
I frankly don’t want to know what they THINK TT did to them. Reading that link was disturbing enough. Most of the time, in the past, I enjoyed posts by many of the people now spewing crazy shit and hatred over there and it’s disheartening. I always thought it was a bit like seeing amusing longtime regulars with their quirks and issues hanging out at the exact same spot in the neighborhood pub every day. I had no idea they all seemed to have some made up agenda running in their heads about what this site or TT ‘owed them’ or that they would completely all flip and start trashing and harassing a woman they swore undying allegiance to only a month ago in comments over and over. And now they are jumping up and down with glee talking about finding her sister’s obituary AND publishing her sister’s name, for heaven’s sake! That’s CRACKED.
I’ve emailed TT a few times to ask about celebrity news I’ve seen online and send a hello with encouragement when she wrote posts about having some issues, and she’s always written me back pleasantly and forthrightly. I assumed if people took the time to email her, they were doing so in similar ways that I did. I had little idea people were inundating her with emails of complaint, attack and constant demands for personal attention. That’s fucked up.
Wow, such vitriol.You need to get a life and remember whose blog it is! Don’t let the door hit you…
I had an almost visceral reaction reading your post and It pisses me off how quickly people turn on a dime when they don’t get what they want. The hypocrisy and lack of insight is astounding. I can see them all stomping their little feet. This is some really, really hurtful shit. I really appreciated the daily tea and the unusual forum it provided. I was bummed when people fucked it up. I missed a few days and was shocked when I came back. People were left to their own devises for a few days and it ended up in chaos and paranoia.
I have spoken a few times about having a hard time these past few months and I appreciated the support I was given here. I tried to be careful not to share too often about my difficulties as I realize everyone has their own problems: how often do they want to hear about mine? I’m one of those strangers that you helped TT. When I was really down and prepared to give in to my husband’s demands, you reached out to me and said to fight back. I took your advice, got off my sorry ass and fought for what is mine and my son’s. It hasn’t been easy and who knows if it’ll work but I can tell my son I went down fighting for us. I’ll always have that. Your words and encouragement meant a tremendous amount to me-they still do. I was this stranger you didn’t know from the internet. It touched me and made me feel less alone in the world. I’ve often thought of your words when it’s a challenging day.
Thank you. Truly.
Gobsmacked!
Wow, I hate people. Everyone thinks they are so important,when in reality they are just piles of maggot infested dogshit. You keep doing you and fuck all of these pieces of shit who think you are now great friends because you answered their fucking comments.
Side note Isn’t this why that Selena chick got murdered? Trusting some lowlife and bring them into her world?
I suppose this post is one way to ensure the calm one and the cat lady get the attention they crave.
Well this has been very exciting and interesting to read. That other place In The link is a bunch of lonely yes people. They feel the need to have their egos stroked and to stoke other who are just as insecure, this is a blog about reality tv not a fucking place to whine constantly. That’s why we have family and friends, to whine at. I will continue to come back and be abused because I love the punishment. Hahahahaha
Wow, this is all unbelievable. I don’t post here often but I feel like I have to address something you wrote about Tamara.
You indicated that Cat said she couldn’t accept a tablet because her disability would deduct it. That threw up red flags for me. I help people get Social Security Disability for a living so assuming that’s the kind of disability she talks about, something seems off to me.
There are 2 types of Social Security Disability. One is based on your wage record and what you paid in. It doesn’t matter what assets you have or anything like that. The other is Supplemental Security Income which is a need based benefit and does factor in any assets or income that the individual has. Here’s the thing though, I have never heard of them caring one bit about someone being given a tablet as a gift. Assuming it’s your general run of the mill tablet and not diamond encrusted or something, I don’t see how it would be a problem. But a GoFundMe campaign where people are sending you money? They would care about that a whole lot…
Something seems fishy here. I don’t know the particulars in this case, but I think it’s good that relationship is over now.
I was wondering also about the tablet.. Respect your post.
MaraJax. Totally concur. Was involved in an agency that had some dealings with SSI, and have a relative who is on it. He gets very little $ (as is typical) but is very paranoid about risking it because he needs the medical benefits desperately. We were able to give him things for sure, and even the occasional restaurant gift certificate, but regular cash payments? Big no no.
SSI and SSD, completely different rules.
Well Damn, I just came to hear the latest on the Phaedra/Apollo divorce/not divorced fiasco. Now I’m stressed out. I naively assumed that people came here for entertainment not friendship, Mental health or financial assistance. I had no idea what you dealt with behind the scenes.
I have only ever spoken to one blogger in my life. A nice guy in California. One conversation. We worked something out and that was the end of it. I understand you’re position TT. People are seeking entertainment online, hiding or escaping something. Some of them are suffering some very real personality disorders. I hope people learn from your experience TT. Every time I’ve been on line and have seen commenters being so sugary sweet, greeting everyone, taking ownership of a website in the comment section… I think to myself that the person has issues. When you follow it long enough, you see that the person is not nice at all. They always show themselves. They provoke bullying. They are passive aggressive and can be the most vindictive people you’ve ever met. I prefer people that show all sides of themselves. What’s being done to you is a smear campaign used classically by people with personality disorders. They want so badly to be liked. They love praise and look for ways to be validated or given supply. When you cut them off , they lose it completely and set out to destroy you. Even well meaning and good people can be drug into this if they are not familiar with these types of people. Boundaries are important and in this stage of life after surgery, you were totally within your best interests to cut the negativity . It’s your blog and no one gets to tell you how to run it. I hope you’re recovery is going well. I hope you find peace in spite of what these people are doing. Tc
Tamara,
I am truly sorry for all that you’ve invested in those that don’t deserve your kindness. Just know there are some of us that genuinely enjoy your site and would never think to invade in your private life. Your sisters obit? That’s disgusting! Please don’t change who you are! I know it’s difficult to not be cynical and hardened by those that betrayed you. You deserve happiness and hope 2017 is the best yet!!!!
I wish I’d known all this was going on, I could have warned you, as I had the same experience years ago with people in a blog/chat online.
You can’t get involved with people online that don’t live either next-door or down the street. People are fake and phony online, and some of the ones who seem the most real and needy are actually the biggest scammers and con artists.
Never send anyone online any money for any reason. If someone is needing assistance, they need to call on family friends church government etc. They don’t need to be asking you to give up your hard-earned money to support them.
Oh and by the way, sending her a laptop or tablet would have had zero effect on her disability. I’m a mental health provider and I do deal with people who are disabled.
These people who want to tell you everything are sick. They need professional help and don’t need to stress you out like you’re their confessor! They want attention and go about it in all the wrong ways.
Stay strong, get healthy, and don’t let these people into your head. Remember all you have to do is shut the Internet off and they go away!
Wishing you all the best!
Beth
All those commenters on the other link sound like the same person. Why do they all call her Sweet Cat? Like she’s a God, idk makes me think they are all the same person.
It’s a bit weird right?
I was thinking the same thing. Sounds like the same person with multiple aliases. If they are real individuals, they took their online “popularity” a little too serious and seem to think we all came here to read their novelesque replies instead of TT’s blogs.
Good god. I go off to have my baby and come back and everything here has gone to hell in a handbasket. TT that’s terrible you got burned the way you did. Some of the most “nice” seeming people are really hiding some nasty. Interestingly, many of the people chatting on that other site now are some that just irked me for reasons I couldn’t put my finger on. Some of them appeared to be really into kissing TT’s ass – I guess it wasn’t out of the kindness of their own hearts, in return they expected a support community here and TT’s unwavering approval.
Thing is, even if everything they’re saying about TT over there is true, that site is STILL vile!
I went through the posts and think I found the exchange between TeeCee and Cat and must say, I’m baffled. Cat seemed to hold her own. I don’t see how that started all this, why people are so upset. Someone upthread mentioned entitlement and though I may have enjoyed several of those posters in the past, I find it really odd that they do seem to feel entitled to post off topic items here about their personal lives, despite TT’s increasingly frequent hints.
I wondered where you went! I always enjoyed your commentary.
Congrats on the baby!!!
Thanks jakey 🙂
I am so sorry that you had to go through all of this. It is just unbelievable that there can be such vile people out there.
So, the bottom line is none of you happy asskissers are going to bring me Taco Bell and I have to go get i myself, is that what you are saying?
If I told you my stupid drain house is infected now, would that move you to grab me a burrito and a Dr. Pepper? No? Fine.
I’ll be right back. Try to behave while I am gone. I’ve notice shit seems to happen if I leave you unsupervised for too long. Go read some of the recaps from last night.
Oh, and thanks for all the nice shit you said.
Also the blog is called Tamara Tattles so entitled to write whatever Tamara Tattles wants to.. Like another poster said it’s a site and nobody is making them come here! Move on if they don’t like it .. Sorry but really im awe today over this! What a waste of energy talking to fake people! I am done now!
I just pissed my Last Adult-Diaper!!! Lol
Happpy ass kissers, I think not. These are just a few people who like and appreciate your work. Your foul mouth is just a little something extra to amuse some not all. Ain’t nobody trying to get anywhere near yo ass to bring you anything. Go get your own damn food, settle down a bit and then start writing. Get yourself a big ole spoon and stir up your gift. I’ll wait, but I won’t kiss your ass, it ain’t that crucial.
Bringing Taco Bell would just be creepy and stalkerish…the next thing you know you would want to be friends or something!??
LOL hilarious!
This happy ass kisser would gladly bring you taco Bell. But your one state away and currently grumpy and i don’t make online friends lol. But your sarcasm is fun and palpable , I just wish everyone could see your just being fresh.
If everyone could just see that Tamara just had SURGERY! If your all so compassionate, how do you withhold it from someone recovering? If your asking the rest of us to see how victimized you are, you may want to ask yourselves how you justify doing this to a woman fresh out of surgery. You want to justify that? Go ahead and tell me I’m next. I’ll take it. But don’t be a hypocrite. This was ruthless.
Yikes, this is why pets can be so much better than people. My cat Holly, aka Mrs. Fuzzy and my rescue Bear can be trusted with anything. They have never betrayed or lied to me. I sure hope Banjo is okay after the poor guy was bitten in the face.
It is your blog and your life, keep being fabulous you Tamara! Sending healing vibes your way that your health only improves with the new year. I really enjoy reading your blog for the comic relief that your style of writing adds to the reality show shallowness. I am happy to see you separate yourself from the needy comment crew. They were overly personal and a downer to pass over in the comment thread. No one was attacked, it was obvious to a lot of us that such people have a hard time dealing with real life. They are truly demented for taking it to take it to such a personal level with your family. Good riddance!
Eeeeeeesh! Sounds like a bad dream. Thanks for the explaination. Comments by the above mentioned folk(s) were always a little off and uncomfortable. Very Debbie Downerish. I’m glad they’re gone.
I’m a dog person and appreciate the Banjo mentions in your posts. I hope he is doing okay after the bite and I hope you are as well.
TT, Looks like you have a lot of people in your corner. Stay strong and continue doing your great work.
Wow Wow Wow! This is so bizarre to me as I just told “Cats” story to my friends last night after reading one post last week ! The one where she saved up for her meal.. I was heartbroken reading that thinking wow there are always worse off people.. I have a lot of medical issues as well (won’t bore w details) Cat telling her story after reading some of her posts made me sad & feel for her.. I actually brought it up to friends last night ?! I never talk about blogs as nobody cares.
Now I am so confused as to WTF is going on? Why do people have to take it to that crazy level acting all fake? Granted I don’t post often & have used diff name (only because I forgot other name I signed up w ) but just WOW!
Tamara so sorry what you deal with! Oh My! It’s really sad that you can never trust anyone online even if spoken to them!
Grabbing popcorn to go read “other link ” ..
I cannot imagine what comes into ur inbox on the daily! As if u need any stress now while dealing w health issues ! Hope goes well!
Just shocked due to fact I fell for it! Cat made me feel so bad to point I told others ..I actually was gonna email you re her.. I am disabled too but will help anyone who needs it!
Wow Wow Wow!
I hope the ugly rumor isn’t true that Cat has been forced to share the litter box with her cats because her water was turned off due to nonpayment.
Cats don’t generally care for water anyway. Cable, apparently so, but not water.
This is beyond sad.
LOL hilarious!
Sounds like you got “Catfished”!
I’m glad cat is gone. Never cared for her, or the other one. Her savior type comments always rubbed me wrong. And yeh the whining about life was annoying. Hard to hide that negative nancy lurking inside.
I had a feeling you were dealing with this type of behavoir-the emails, the intimate knowledge of people’s lives and all their baggage. I have clients that cross the line all the time. It’s draining, time consuming and for the most part all the effort you put into them never makes a difference. When you tell them the truth and they don’t want to hear it, you turn into the asshole and are considered the enemy. Very similar to the anthony Bourdain Rome show quote by Asia about idols. You are the fallen idol in their world.
LOL I realized my post kinda made me seem like some old cat lady- no pun intended. I talk to people as well, I even live with two.
Wow. I can’t believe what you’ve been threw with people on here..dont trust what you can’t see..lesson learned..sorry you learned the hard way
OK, I seriously had to read that a few times just to allow it all to sink in. That being said, I love reading your posts and recaps but I’ve never thought I could overstep my boundaries and make your site about me! I’m sorry you had to deal with this shitstorm on top of healing up from surgery. That’s not fair to you and anyone trying to “dig” up any personal information about you and your family is automatically in the wrong and that’s just plain scary shit. All these “adult” women should be ashamed of themselves for their behavior. I just hope you heal up without all the bullshit stress and drama. This is all just so not cool.
Ho Lee Sheet, mama. I don’t even know what to say. People are crazy. Myself included.
I got my own damn Taco Bell you sack of evil fucktards. And I nearly DIED in the drive thru. Then you would have been sorry.
Seriously, the drive thru is one of those where you can’t drive off when you are stuck there for ages. I hate those. They should be illegal. Someone go start a petition. And pass the Xanax.
I have a friend who lives with the mantra #xanaxandjesus
lol TT so fucking true and the panic gets worse the more cars I see behind me. I usually try & do drive thru when I’m first in line.
Did you get your fiesta? Mozzarella sticks?
TeeCee,
I didn’t know you were from Boone County!
We were at a drive-thru this summer at 11:30 on a Saturday, ‘Jack in the Box” and the guy in front of us, stoned out of his mind, was on foot, pretending he was driving a car. He’d shift gears, make vroom vroom noises,perform trot-like steps and move forward, This drive-thru always takes 10 -15 minutes to get through with only two or three cars so we loved the free entertainment. Obviously we are easily amused.
This cracked me the fuck up.
This all seems so 1997.
Why people just don’t let you do your job
is the question. No answer.
I have commented a handful of times over
the past few years. I was scolded by another commenter for giving my opinion on the topic being discussed. I said fuck this.
So instead of coming here daily, I backed off. Way off.
I had my throat slit to remove 90% of my parathyroid years ago. No one had a
clue, including me, as to what it was & I could have been educated right here. I
had no idea.
Merry Christmas & Peace if you so deserve.
And there, but for another few inches, we wouldn’t have been subjected to this stupidity.
Glad you got your Taco Bell Fix.. Living in California.. I have numerous better taco places. Taco Bell has lots on fillers.. but to each to thier own taste
Well La-Ti-Fricking-Da!
TT doesn’t live in CA so TB it is and BTW, Taco Bell is THE go to “restaurant” when you’re fucked up, high as a kite, drunk as a mofo, etc. I’m convinced it’s a physiological THING.
And TB drive-thru is a scheduled event, part of the itinerary, a bona-fide end of the night ritual for bachelor and bachelorette parties!
Holy canoli! I read all this then followed the link and read all that. Mind blown. I emailed you yesterday about a tip I was certain you knew and felt bad bothering you with it. I can’t imagine emailing you multiple times a day for non work related things. Regarding your sister, she was gorgeous and her list of accomplishments was amazing. Someone to be proud of. Yes, it’s all over there. That’s asshole behavior for sure.
I will continue to click every link you have (I always assumed you got paid per click) and visit daily (or more often) if commenting helps generate revenue, I will comment more often.
Wow! That was just WoW! You know I come here for the recaps – specifically for the shows that I can’t stomach sitting through anymore (thanks for taking those for the team, TT). But if I am being honest, the only reason I actually comment here is because no one gets all pearl clutch-y when I say things like cunt, or twat, or cock. So it’s a fun place for me. I am sorry that this shit went down, TT. Considering this is how you earn your living, you really shouldn’t have to put up with that kind of ridiculous bullshit from total strangers.
Jon FUCK OFF! Why do you give two shits that TT blogs? You must enjoy because you obviously are still reading from time to time. EAT SHIT!
And Tamara, this was too much for fuckhead Jon to read. You lost him after the first paragraph.
Keep doing you TT!
For Gods Sake ,anonymity makes people go crazy. I barely watch the shows, come here for the recaps and the snark. I did notice that the comments where changing and way off topic, ladies keep your shit close, stop sharing, must be a very sad existence if this is the only place you have to share.
TT-hang tough, your brand is you and if some don’t like it well they can leave. Women can be such B******.
Me included but never this bad.
I am fairly newbie to TT’s site…But TT is the Queen on this site and if she voices her opinions Her choice. I Love the guest s that are kind enough to watch the shows and recap also. Enjoy it all.. expect
nothing than honest feelings. Where else can you find the best laugh of your day!
Well it’s about time. You’ve always been a nasty cunt which is part of your appeal.
Finally you’ve grown a set of ball-nuts.
WARNING! May contain nuts or pieces of nut.
Wow first I want to tell you how sorry I am that you had to put up with all this bullshit and betrayals during a very stressful traumatic time for you. I rarely post however, I have read every blog and every comment for many years. I loved daily tea and would laugh so hard at TTs sharing of stories. Her neighbors, dogs, rats to standing on a chair yelling to get sudafed. It’s really sad that a bunch of cunts ruined it. I just read that link and was mortified not only by the content but some of the names I saw there commenting. OMFG did you know one of the latest theories is that you TT are also CAT among your other aliases.
TT I commend you for trying to reel some people in many times when the comments would get very dark and depressing. Here’s hoping it can only get better from here. For me it has already has gotten better since I don’t have to see Cat or others that posted a million comments. Thank you for all you do for the rest of us. Again sorry for the mother fucking bullshit you been through lately. Hope health wise you are recovering and feeling better.
I think your post said what I waned to say… We all might have issues.. but not here. If we want to talk about them hell go to another site.. SO no one has other friends they can talk to them about.. email honey. or actually phone them.. I am not in to vitriolic rants.. but at times I can be mean//but never on the internet.
TT
People suck. The only way I can deal is thru the internet. There are some good people out there but they are hard to find. Sometimes your blog pisses me off (not a Kenya lover) but at least you are real which most people are not. So in my book you don’t suck. Anyway, thanks for what you do and I sorry …
That link you posted is both terrifying and fascinating. How do people have SO MUCH time on their hands?
I used to run an entertainment blog/news site when I was in the UK full-time, and noticed the same kind of people popping up. Shut-ins who believe you can build real-life friendships in the comments section, and get annoyed when you don’t perform to their expectations. Fortunately my experience wasn’t as vicious as TT’s, and they weren’t trying to dig up information on my family, but there were some pretty outlandish claims on off-site message boards about who I was dating and why I wrote nice things about them that were no more than the weird fantasies of some loser I’d inadvertently irritated. I found it pretty funny, but my actual husband sure didn’t.
The funniest bit was how surprised they are that this website is a business for TT. As opposed to what? Grandma’s knitting circle? Of course it’s a business. Of course TT sometimes complains about her job, like we all do. It’s bad enough that they expect TT’s labor for free, but they also expect her emotional investment, and the fact they can’t get it on-demand has sent them into simultaneous meltdown. What do you call folie å deux when it’s more than 2 people?
Anyway, I hope this doesn’t discourage TT from blogging and recapping. Those haters will be great for business, because nobody watches you closer than your enemies. They’ll lap up every word and click on ads begrudgingly, so the joke’s on them in the long-term. Sorry for the short-term fallout though, especially the stuff they wrote about TT’s family. I think they’ve learned these dirty tricks by watching too much ‘Housewives’, and not enough real life.
So to be clear….. there were never any donuts? 😉
LOL, you are a thinker threading those two posts together.
Anyone else notice a few posters in here that were commenting over there?
I hope that you are recovering surrounded by Banjo’s licks and panting! Be well and stress free. Blessings
So sorry. I’ve lurked here for years and not commented but feel compelled to now. I love your site. Love your point of view. Don’t let the bastards get you down and remember, there’s a whole bunch of us that appreciate what you do. It’s a blog about reality shows, people. Have fun with it.
I don’t get that people don’t get that this is the fucking Internet and not real life and nobody knows anyone and nobody is really friends
Nobody is going to donate blood for you or give a rats ass about you they might agree with something you post or hate it , either way who gives a rats ass you have never met them and never will and that includes Tamara
I read her blogs because she has a good take on the shows I watch and some good scoops at times
WTF happened. Stay strong TT, you’re a rock star!
Whoa, Tamara. I had no idea of everything you were dealing with! I can’t say that I’ll miss the Daily Tea threads devolving into rounds of “whose lives suck more” that seemed to be happening more of late. I really enjoy talking (and reading) about gardening and what’s going well for folks on those threads. There are plenty of opportunities to find gloom and doom on the internet. Why corrupt a nice gardening thread to add to it?
I am glad to hear that you’ve had your surgery and are hopefully on the road to recovery. May this thread be the final step in putting that stressful mess behind you and allowing you to focus on getting well.
Thanks Rebecca. I think we will be able to have a Daily Tea again now.
Plus, that bitch TAFKAY has managed to spawn and I want to hear all about it! 🙂 Perhaps motherhood will give her better opinions.
Well, I thought about going in the last DT to talk about it but honestly I had been steering clear of them due to those basket people. So yay!
I still think Bethenny’s kind of ok. So don’t get your hopes up about my opinions…
So, What I learned from this boys and girls, is that are still people who are quite active on the Internet who have never been told to eat shit and die, or to die in a fire, probably the two most comment snarks from the last two decades. Has it even been two decades of Internet yet? Anyway, I’m amazed at the folks who seem to have never had anyone on the Internet say mean things. I’m still not sure I believe it.
Perhaps my Internet upbringing on sites with NAA, TC and other who occasionally post here has me jaundiced. But I’ve been me for the last five years calling everyone cunts and retards and twatwaffles and suggesting that they eat shit and die. This is not news. The more you tell me something offends you, the more I will say it. A simple peek at the commenting page makes this exceedingly obvious.
For those of you wondering what the hell happened, I am too to some extent. You see, when I was in the hospital, TeeCee stopped by and attempted a rather more straightforward approach to an ongoing issue here at TT. I had been mired in comments about the most depressing things. I had pleaded with the usual crew to lighten up their Daily Tea comments. Repeatedly. It was not only affecting my emotional state but I was receiving numerous emails about the abject misery of a group of commentators. As someone mentioned here I needed to grow a sack and just toss them all into the WLS, but I actually felt sorry for them, and liked them and I just couldn’t do it. And no amount of pleas to stop being so fucking depressing seemed to get through. There was, at some point a literal discussion between two commentators about how to properly commit suicide in what was supposed to be our fun place to chat, Daily Tea. These same commentators and I would talk often through email. As someone who suffers with anxiety and depression, I felt their sorrows. I enjoyed having the Daily Tea to pontificate about my daily life as well. Banjo really liked it because I didn’t have to tell him all my stories. This has been building up over time.
TeeCee had long ago stopped commenting, because of the pitiful nature of many of the comments. Pitiful is the best word to describe so much of this.
I came close to shutting down the site entirely after I posted about a frightening experience that I got caught in the middle of regarding an active shooter. A commentor I thought quite highly of quickly shut me down. Had I not like that person, I would have just sent them to WLS and been done with it and carried on my merry way. But I did care, so I had a little pity party for myself here on the couch and eventually got over it.
I then went in for surgery and TeeCee showed up. Since we are friends, she was completely aware of my dilemma. And while I don’t think she was trying to “wipe the board” of the sad sacks, she certainly managed to do it. She started snarking at Cat and well, it is all there in the last DT, I asked The Lady Cocotte if she perhaps deleted something and she did not.
Teecees high crimes were apparently telling her something like she was the worst commentor here, or some such and suggesting she eat shit and die.
This has resulted in the mass exodus of the basket of pitifuls. The very people I liked a bit too much to ban though their presence was hurting the site. So when I came home from surgery there was a very long time commenter whose emails to me had two major themes. “Why don’t you like me?” and “I think you have the same health issue I did.” They were usually accompanied with desires to pay for me to have the medical tests she was sure I needed. These went on off and on for years. Because, you know, she cares about me so much even though I would constantly tell her that her comments were stupid and ridiculous and to STFU.
My first response was to contact Cat directly by email. I explained that looking at how the comments fell, I thought TeeCee’s first comment was to someone who had posted that I was having surgery that I had removed. Since then, I’ve surmised that TeeCee was going for the head of the snake. And before I could even get home, Dear sweet Cat had rounded up a posse to scour the Internet for info on me, my friends and my family both living and dead. BTW, Cat, keep our eyes peeled I have a relative that could go at any moment whose photo you can add to your collection. Might want to put up a Google alert.
So that’s what happened in a not so small nutshell. And for those who remain, if you are the sensey, exhausting, depressing, oversharing type, please join your compadres.
If you like talking about TV shows, and can deal with lots of inappropriate snark, you are in the right place.
I’m tempted to close the commenting here, but I know there are still people who want to get stuff out. And of course, it’s great for ratings. I was informed that the pitifuls seem to think I make money by sending them to their staging site. Jesus Christ they are so clueless.
A HUGE shout out to The Lady Cocotte who has been invaluable to me as I recover from surgery with regard to managing the site. It’s been a lot for her to deal with.
And of course thanks to TeeCee who did what needed to be done even though I don’t think she really thought they would ever leave. In the end, I think everyone got what they wanted. I have a much less depressing site, and they have a place to despair. It’s a win win from my perspective.
Now all of you eat shit and die. Or die in a fire. Seriously. If this is your first time someone has said this to you on the Internet, you need to get out more. Or go find a safe space because this is not it,
Oh and RETARD. Just because I meant to use that word and it didn’t come up naturally in conversation.
Awwe! I am so glad you are back to normal! I really hope entire cats and 9 lives thing is also not true…
1. I’m hope you are recovering from your surgery and physically are doing well (I don’t understand why supposedly civilized folk don’t understand that people need both physical and mental time to recover).
2. I’m sorry you have to deal with all this shit that has gone down. I’ve enjoyed your blog immensely. I’ve never really gotten too involved with the other commenters life struggles. I mentally can’t deal and I’ve got 2 young kids who depend on me, so I can’t let myself get too bogged down in mental worry.
3. This is your blog, and if you tell someone to fuck off and die, they should look for another blog. I don’t understand the entitlement some people have….like go start your own fucking blog.
TT
My very favourite line is “eat shit and bark at the moon!”
I find it comes in handy for a variety of useful situations.
My personal favorite to use is, “Go die in a car fire.” I like the specificity.
“I hope you die in a complicated house fire. When you’ve just came out of the shower. So you burn slower.”
Is my version.
While that one has lovely descriptive imagery, it’s not something you could use on Twitter, and doesn’t lend itself to an acronym such as the age old DIAF.
Ah, simplicity.
Ok. Lol @ the retarded thing.
So I went to the other site. And couldn’t believe what I was reading. Or the names of the people who turned up over there. But the most disgusting thing to me was Cat’s absolute glee about having found Tamara’s sister’s obituary. I tried to post something that basically said, shame on all of you. And it did not show up.. I’m guessing “everyonebacunt” or whatever the fuck her name is is moderating comments. I’m so sorry you have to deal with all of this bullshit.
I asked them to remove the offensive references to TT’s sisters and that post went through. I’ve been away from my computer and will be again today, but I hope something was done.
Yes. She posted this horrific thing, and still they are falling all over themselves about “dear, sweet Cat”. Sick.
I know – it boggles the mind.
Fuck this shit. I don’t come here to read about some sad sack fucktard’s cats. I have my own cats, and I have my own sad sack story. Off topic, because we need it! I am a big Tony Bourdain fan; you must read his books! Anyway, that Asia Argento featured on the Rome episode is a hack! Do you know she was duped by JT LeRoy and exacerbated that whole scam? Even directed a movie based on the first book. She is talentless and lives off her father’s reputation. And I was exceptionally jealous as I watched her hanging with Tony. What a cunt.
OMG!!! SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP!
I LOVE HER! I don’t know who JT LeROY is and I refuse to believe anything you say!
Except um, could you go over to the Bourdain post and TELL ME EVERYTHING in excruciating detail as if I’m a retard.
Go on. Break my damn heart, bitch,
Seriously. I want to know EVERYTHING, Only I don’t,
SIGH,
Don’t Google! If you want to feel better about your situation, buy “The Heart Is Deceitful Above All Things” JT LeRoy. It’s a sliver of a book. Comment in Bourdain post when you’re done, and then we can discuss. P.S. Tony is single!
A) YOU DID NOT FOLLOW MY DICTATORIAL DIRECTIONS,
4) Anthony is kind of like a gay man to me. I mean that as a GREAT HONOR related to how I feel about gay men. I sometimes have a sexual attraction to the gay men in my life but not usually, They are safe. I can flirt all damn day with them and even be sexually inappropriate and it;s not going to ever be a thing. I mean okay sometimes it’s a drunken thing we regret the next day but generally non of that awkwardness is there.
My blinding love for Bourdain is sort of the same thing with me. I don’t really want him. It’s hard to explain. I think he is one of the coolest straight men on the planet, but he’s not the relationship type. At best he’d be a great BFF who I occasionally pass out nekkid with in the same bed in some odd country. But even then, I’m not up for that all the damn time. Clearly, I have spent too much time over thinking this.
A1) I don’t give a shit about directions.
17) I feel the same way re: Bourdain. I’d certainly like to travel and party with him though.
I’ll give you the story on the other post when I get a chance. Short story is this scam, along with James Frey, was the genesis of the backlash given to Augusten Burroughs.
OKAY LOOK, There was another Dee here that used to…. well, let;s just say I hope she finds the other site.
IF YOU FUCKING WANT TO HURT ME. THE DUMBASS SHITS COULD HAVE JUST MADE INSINUATIONS ABOUT AUGUSTEN BORROUGHS.
If he murdered someone I would testify as an eye witness that he was screwing me at the time.
Hmm oddly I do sort of want to have sex with AB but that is probably because I know it is kinda impossible.
I should probably set up some time with my shrink but is high season what with it me the most wonderful time of the year and all.
I kind of want to fly to wherever you are and take you out for drinks so you can ruin everything good in my life and then just die in a fire. ‘
You are the infiltrator that can push me over the edge.
Augusten? NOE, Please just stop, I give. Uncle. You win.
Is your blog the homepage of the browser at the local mental institution? Really though, I blame Yolanda and Brooks. All that disease talk opened the door to hell in the commenting section.
Well I also blame Vicki. I actually lost a good friend over the whole cancer thing, I felt as though she was alienating my myriad of cancer viewers, and stupidly, I just wanted not to accuse Vicki of shit not in evidence.
And yeah, the medical shit on Reality TV needs to stop. PUHLEASE. We all have our own shit to deal with. I just got off the phone a bit ago with the doctor on call who my clinician said needed to give me an antibiotic, He said, well, in order to prescribe you an antibiotic, I’d need you to go to ER and have culture done. Because you know that is much more reasonable than a six dollar script for penicillin. And if it turns out to be some sort of flesh eating bacteria that is resistant to antibiotics, perhaps we could do the whole culture grow out thing then.
Sorry. Apparently when you hit a certain age it is all about bowel movements and medical issues. I REALLY need this site to be about mocking “housewives” who have stumbled into big paychecks that causes them to sit around posting selfies all day. Because with each and every breath they become more annoying.
Oh my gosh, I am so sorry for what you went through. No I am not trying to be your friend, but many similarities with us. I guess it can happen to anybody. Can happen to the best of us. I wish you peace and a speedy recovery; your dog too.
Thanks Gigi. I get it. That was the problem. I needed to have better boundaries. Because despite all my bitching and whining I have a pretty good life. And for the past few months I can hear my mother saying “don’t borrow other people’s problems.” I never did listen to Mama that much.
She was right! Not whining, bitching nor complaining. I had breast cancer 4 years ago, scheduled for 6:30 am. Nobody could find the supervising surgeon. The AS came in, it was 2pm and I told her I felt unimportant as the Dr was nowhere to be found. Told my oldest sister what I said (out of fear, don’t know what they will find and also hungry) she told my other sister, whom told me b4 I went in that the Dr was going to cut me up real good for saying that. Sometimes T family and so called friends are actually jealous that you are getting the attention and not them! Sick and sad right?
This sister was 8 when I was born, invited me to her isolated condo where she told me she hated me, because I was born and she was no longer special! I left first thing in the am. It was an 8 hour drive. Don’t let the physco’s bother you. I can say it hurts more from family you have known all your life, other than a blogger. That’s just my opinion. Please continue to get well and doggie too. I am an animal lover?
It’s not the whining bitching and complaining about troubles that I abhor. It’s the bragging. So…
I had this one time in 2014 where I was nearly killed by a tumour on my bragging so I hate bragging probably more than you and George Clooney said my bragging was the best.
All due respect, you opened yourself up for these people. You can’t exactly cry menopause, shitty doctors, antidepressants, wrong diagnosis, wrong drugs/treatment, and narcolepsy mid-recap and expect to attract a perky crowd. Or open a forum for an outside discussion that typically opens with some awfully depressing recap of your tribulations.
Does that make me a cunt? Perhaps, but at least when I put nothing but negativity into the universe, I don’t expect a positive return. I get that it’s YOUR site and you can, for all intents and purposes, do whatever the fuck you want. But it might be ideal to post on nothing personal if you want to hear nothing personal. Otherwise, you will get what you give.
However, talking about your sister is fucked. That’s wrong. Also, I’m a godforsaken Yankee. I eat out of styrofoam containers, I cook on tinfoil, I call every form of stuffing, stuffing. And I suppose I’ll see how the WLS feels cause reading and not commenting wont kill me. I did it for years before I dared put my neck out here anyway.
It may surprise you to know I actually agree with you on the large majority of your comments. I don’t for a moment regret opening myself up. I’m all me all day and you can like it or lump it as my mama would say. That said, I made a lot of mistakes by trying to befriend the other loser misfits out of a sense of commonality, I did in fact bring A LOT of this on myself. But in the end, a lot of lonely sad people now have a group, and potentially a site where they can be sad and lonely together, Now this site can go back to the mocking, snarky piece of shit I envisioned and no one will be planning their death. So um, that’s a win right?
That said, your Yankee ways are atrocious. PLEASE STOP COOKING WITH ALUMINUM. I do not want your dementia posts here in ten years. If you would like to improve your life more, USE PLATES, China if you have it, WTF are you saving it for? For the love of God, even I have some sense of civilized behavior here in my ghetto shack where no one would ever know. Use a glass, not a solo cup. UP YOUR DAMN STANDARDS, JKR. Just because the world is going to hell in a handbasket is no reason not to be civilized. Do you really want your bones dug up next to a tin foil pan rather than a fine piece of museum quality bone china in 500 years. It’s never to late to develop some civility. Even for Yankees.
And finally, all the morons like you worrying about the WLS do not need to worry about the WLS. The people who end up there rarely know that is where they are headed.
I happen to have a beautiful set of china, passed on from my grandfather when he traveled in the service and sent it home in pieces. It sits in a cabinet with beautiful lighting, and I’m a lazy shit who doesn’t like to wash dishes. I am weird about silverware though.
One thing to be said for a Yankee? If you’re gonna use the word moron you might as well call me sweetheart. If anything at all offended me here, it was the assumption that I use solo cups in-house. Those are specifically for bonfires, and high school parties. Might have to go a bit further north than Boston for that trash.
Anyway…
Dear God. You are a Masshole?
I can’t fix that. Sorry. Unless you are really hot gay man with an expansive property on the water in P-town. This will never work. I had my bes /worst Christmas in Boston once. It was BEYOND beautiful. But for the record, I it’s probably not a good idea to spend Christmas with your lover who you met on an online sex site, his wife and the whole damn family.
I mean who knew?
That should be a whole chapter.
Alas, a single straight female Masshole. Pray for me, I know no other way.
P Town is a blast in the summer, but you’re better off taking the ferry than struggling to weave through tourists stopping on rotaries the whole way down the Cape. Down there in your country, they probably call them “roundabouts.” Bizarre.
His wife? I’d read that one. Did he at least have the decency to bring you to Faneuil Hall? Frog Pond skating at The Commons? Or did she, perhaps?
Oh god.
Thank you for saying intents and purposes, and not intensive purposes, or intense and purposes.
Carry on.
Well I like to fondly think of myself as not a complete idiot, but maybe that’s being generous.
You’re welcome.
Holy fuckin-O’ly. Dying in a fire after eating shit is much too nice of an ending for those disgusting excuses for humans. I’d tell them to suck a dick but even that’s being too kind to them. The best revenge though is to never speak of them again, people who are clearly insane love this catfish game to see their name in ‘lights’ because they only know darkness. TT, you’ve had a rough go of it lately between this shit, the surrounded by cop cars, and you SUPER DUPER REALLY REALLY GIGANTICALLY BIG UTERUS, I’m sorry.
LOL.
Big uterus. Still cracks me up.
Please do not offer a good dick to suck to a undeserving a-hole over there. Unfair to those of us that consider ourselves deserving.
BTW, THAT WAS NOT MY UTERUS! lol. My uterus is petite and delicate having never been stretched out by a baby. It was an overheard conversation that was not my business but nonetheless hysterical. ‘;’
And a lot of folks here miss THE REAL crazy shit I say on Twitter. Which is good. Because even though the most delicate snowflakes have retreated to their safe place… I’m learning there are a lot of people who don’t get my humor or appreciate my ramblings. Which is fine. I just had no idea I was hold so many hostages here.
I have know idea what my uterus looks like, but my vazsheen is gorge because I had labiaplasty in 2009 by Dr. Manders. My other PS suggested him because he is a pussy-artist. I had mine WAYYYY before Shannon Bedor had a clue she could get hers fixed! Mine wasn’t THAT bad before, because I’ve never had children, but my one ex was VERY well-endowed, like beyond the pale. It wasn’t fair to any newcomers in my life, especially not my ex-husband who is a needle-dick. Sorry for that TMI overshare.. carry on !
“I have know idea.” That’s what happens when you are still a tad drunk from the night before. sooo sorry
Also, I had my hymen re-attached and all the muscles tightened in my vagzsheen. I should release a song called “Patch the puss!”
Hmmmmm…abut that “one ex” any chance you’d share the name and contact information for anyone interested…not me….others.
I don’t want to annoy TT with details from our personal lives, at least not today. She is still recovering from surgery everyone forgets. (but I could tell you some storyyys! A Ginger, freckles, very Irish-looking, gorgeous masculine face. Them Gingers, whoo! Don’t get it twisted. I still have photos. ALL KINDS of photos!)
Photos…..sigh.
I apologize in advance for my immaturity/uncouth language
Those bitches are bitching and trashing right NOW. What a bunch of Jerk Offs!
Tamra you know I relate to this.
To shit on your compassion and understanding and listening to those boneheads
makes me angry, that the most they could do n return..is shit on your character!
Tamara don’t let them change who you are, and the site rocks without them! Thanks
to them, you have actual boundaries – because apparently, you need to protect yourself
from the dip shits that posted here!
initially, I did not understand Cat’s response, and I thought you guys were buds – and then the
curtain rose and the haters rose there glasses and now they are gone!
And as far as the Daily Tea, because they did not stick to the rules, the outcome is their
fault, not your fault for giving us a place to blab freely.
Makes me angry that you got jumped and trashed, and the best you can do, is exactly what you are doing
ignore the trash and you also threw out the trash
sorry for the ramble, this is the short version of what I feel.
Fuck them…and everyone says..no thanks
Aw thanks my friend. YOU ARE DOING SO MUCH BETTER WITH THE .., THING LOL. The biggest issue I have is for people who think I really don’t like the folks I email with. I DO! It is just that I can’t bear everyone’s burdens anymore.
And I REALLY appreciate you, Sam. You are a fantastic researcher and you know just how much or how little to email me stories I need to know about.
The people who read here have no idea how much you help keep me up to date with what is going on.
Much love to you and yours. xo
I don’t even know what the FUCK to say. Holy shit. We all have an online persona that we would most likely not share with our real life friends, but that’s scrapping the barrel low. For future reference, I know I’m far away and we’ve never emailed or spoken other than here, but I’ve had a really crappy last few months and if you pass along oh let’s say Cat’s phone number or email address…. I can probably guarantee you she/he/it would get a shit load of comments from me. Jesus Christ. I never thought I’d be glad to have MY problems until after reading that. Fuck you Cat, Jon and Every1becalm. Still sitting with my mouth wide open, people suck.
I would never do that. I used to really like Cat. As I said, she was the last person I spoke to before my surgery, Her mistaken belief that I had anything to do with TeeCee’s comments was wrong. I’ve know TeeCee FOR YEARS, some of them went by without either of us speaking to the other. I can assure you that while this incident makes me feel A LOT closer to her for reasons she doesn’t even know about, I have no control over TeeCee,
Cat and I are a lot alike. We can both alienate people in a blink of an eye and not care. Overall, her constant voice here is polarizing. And I can kill my sister 99 times but if you attempt to desecrate her memory, I’ll slit your throat. While I am prone to hyperbole, this is not one of those times. I get doing stupid shit and wanting to take it back, If she had just went on a tirade about how I was cunt of the year, I’d get over it, but digging up family obituaties and gleefully posting about them, that is where our similarities end.
Because as I’ve mentioned, I’ve was born and bred on the Internet talking shit about everyone. People have sent DFACS after the parent of a poster they didn;’t like, I mean all sorts of real life calling a husband to tell him his wife is a whore and who she is whoring with. Fake deaths, fake cancer, fake pretty much everything you can think of,
But I’ve never in all 15 years or more on that site seen someone randomly post an obituary of the sibling of someone they are mad at. That is a new low even for me. And I thought I had seen it all.
Oh and the little cunt who leaves that info up on her site is also about to find out how serious commenters posts are. She has no earthly knowledge about her legal liabilities. YET,
Ok you have more sane moments than I do but seriously??? Turn around is fair play. You’ve got way more loyal soldiers here than you think. I wouldn’t follow you off a cliff blindly and there’s lots of recaps where we disagree, but come on, Jesus Christ, we can help shut this down. Family is OFF LIMITS period. I can talk about MY family all I want, but don’t you dare. That’s a cardinal rule. No rush to be sent to the WLS but if I happen to see it posted you can bet I’ll be leaving my 2 cents worth.
So true. And that is why they have taken it all down today, apparently. well, way too late. More to come, TT.
Think they made it private. They did not like being observed there and spoken about in here.
TT,
I get your reference to your sister’s memory. For me it’s always been “I can call my mother a bitch, but nobody else better!”
What Cat did was highly inappropriate and disgusting behavior. I’m sure she eats shit and barks at the moon from her branch in that tree.
This is insane.
I hope you and your dog are ok. I’m sorry for the loss of your sister. I have lost a sibling and it is tragic. The pain never goes away you just learn to live with it. Take it easy and get better.
Banjo is fine. His bites have healed completely and he is still his stunning self. Hew was a perfect gentleman and didn’t retaliate which was great and unexpected. Lovers quarrel maybe? But it freaked me out. We knew going in both dogs were under socialized and a bit psychotic like their owners. I feel like Banjo is gay and really can’t be bothered with the bitches.
I was not as affected by my sister’s death as my siblings. I’ve made many a snarky comment here about her death. And shared some deep shit. However, I am allowed to do that. As others point out, I can talk about my family but you can’t.
I still don’t understand the chain of events to this day. I went off to have surgery and told Cat I was going. I was offline for two days. During that time TeeCee hurts Cat’s feelers, and Cat goes batshit and her first mission is to bring up my sister’s obituary? Really? It still doesn’t make sense to me, but I’ve been on the Internet forever, and this is definitely not the weirdest thing that has happened.
The craziest thing for me was on a site I’ve been at on and off for years where a “beloved member”died. It was my first fake Internet death experience. He showed back up in like a year or two. We actually had a couple more after that. Faking one’s real life death was actually a thing for awhile. That’s also the site where everyone spends all die telling people to fuck off and die. I’ve not been back a lot sense I started this site, but it remains a great stress reliever to just jump back into the arena and fuck with people. 🙂 It’s kind of a brutal place where people called CPS on people and like all sorts of out there shit. But this was usually warfare from enemy factions. This whole, “Good luck with your surgery, let me know if I can help in any way!”last contact with Cat and coming up to attacks on my dead sister, that might have been considered a new low, even for me and my scumbag friends solely based on the element of surprise. I truly never saw it coming. Well played. I do know that some of my scumbag friends and enemies from there have been posting here for years. Which was always interesting.
Every1bcalm didn’t surprise me at all. ALL of her emails were always about why I didn’t like her. I mean seriously, who does that? Go find someone who does like you! And now she has. Hopefully they will pull a site together soon, I think they will be very happy being miserable together. And it’s way less stress for me.
If you feel stifled, unsafe, if you can’t handle people calling you a retard, if you don’t can’t defend your opinion on a reality show because you fear me, if you’ve never heard the phrases Eat shit and die commonly just written ESAD or Die in a fire (DIAF), or whatever it is that you don’t like here, I suggest you find another place. There are plenty of great recap sites. Or start your own! One of my favorite recap sites is Reality Tea. When I showed up, that site has always been very helpful to me. StraightFromTheA is another good one. A lor of site really freaked out when I broke out and had success. RT helped me saying “There is room on the Internet for Everyone!” and SFTA has really helped a lot with all the business end aspects. She’s an incredible businesswoman who has never failed to help me figure out the business end of things.
As I say in my commenting rules, the Internet is huge and wondrous place. There is a site for you out there, This one may not be for you. And if it isn’t, please for the love of God get your ass up out of here. While my money is made from people who come here, it is so not worth it do deal with people who are just unhappy, here, there or anywhere. This is my workplace. I don’t want to come in to work everyday and hear about how miserable, ill, sick etc you are. This place is supposed to be a refuge from all that. If you want to kill yourself, I believe in your right to choose. Just leave it out of my site.
I’m going to be me here, as I have always been. If you like me great. If you don’t eat shit and die, and more importantly eat shit and die somewhere else. Because I’m do not serve at your pleasure. You read here at mine.
My son was bit in the face recently at school. He forgave the other kid too because he drew him a picture and said sorry. I understand everything you are saying. I have bullshit in my life right now also. I like reading recaps. Nice little relaxing time.
I commented on Nene, and mentioned to pray for Gatlinburg.
Tamara emailed me saying i was out of place to mention it and that she was,tired of me being “needy.
I emailed back saying even though i didnt comment it but our Vacation home in Gatlinburg burnt to the ground, our home in Ocoee Tn was destroyed by the tornado and my beloved Outpost where i worked took a direct hit. So its me whos shes referring to!.
After telling her this she emailed me to say i was sent to the WLS.
How do you respond to that?????
Sounds like you are homeless than maybe focus on your real physical life right now? Not being snarky just a suggestion. Good luck.
Friends have loaned us their cabin until we settle with insurance. The river community is like that. Thanks for your thoughts!
Um, ZenJen, you were sadly collateral damage. Under normal circumstances I would have offered my condolences. Unfortunately for you, I had just been bitten in the face by people I had been kind to before and could not allow any more sad stories. I do truly wish the best for you, but this is no longer the site where we can be suppository of each other, You are NOT in the WLS, but I think you might be happier with the sad people, That choice is yours,
Tamara, im not sad, im very happy and grateful. The love that is shown is very heartwarming! Its gave me renewed fate in mankind. I do wish you a speedy recovery and thats sincere not asskissing.
Today is Bodhi Day, so wish you a Happy Bodhi Day! With Festivus and Winter Solstice i have much to celebrate ???
Tamara, I am a long time reader. I come here EVERYDAY. More accurately multiple times a day. I rarely post but read every comment. You have some very witty commentators. I enjoy your recaps and insider information filled with wit and snark. I have always found the “complimenters” and “doomsday responders” annoying but that was part of the package. I don’t want to be considered a complimenter but I cannot let this day go by (this post has been on the back of my mind all day) without saying no one deserves what that hateful group former posters have been writing about you. I read it all. It was jaw dropping awful. I recognized those names… shame on them. I’m glad their gone. I can only imagine what a whine fest their new blog will be. Thank you for what you do. Thank you for leaving us in good hands when you have to take care of yourself. This is YOUR SITE and I love it. #teamTT
Thanks for being an asskisser, TImmy!
Kidding.
I know this whole thing is very strange. And then there is me, if you are nice to me I freak out, If you are rude to me I insult you. It’s a narrow path. xo.
You stated no asskissing comments and thats all i see is repetive Im sorrys and Poor Tamara, sorry youre having to go through this……and you seem to be soaking it up.
I missed the whole Cat drama, i came in when YOU emailed me!!!! I simply respondex
I get it ZenJen. I really wasn’t trying to be a cunt with you. It was just to the point where I could not comisserate with anyone because it turned in to a whole ration of depression,
I am devasted about Gatlinburg and so furious that it was apparenlty two little pieces of shit kids. It’s AWFUL. But my point was, I am not longer doing AWFUL here.
Well hell… You just never know who you are dealing with online. They were all probably old men from Nigeria, looking for someone with a bank account…joking, but you just don’t know who is behind the keyboard. It’s scary what some people will do for attention. I’m sorry your sister that passed away was brought into this.
I’ve always loved reading your recaps and will continue to do so
Damn I keep getting moderated
Not sure of parameters of what makes that happen but hope that long comment I just made makes it Through ?
The probably will, There are a lot of restricted words trip moderation that were put in place to filter out the doom and gloom comments from a few weeks ago.
Nope never did.
But that’s okay. Time to move on. I told those lil ladies the same. They need to get a real life, stop and move on.
Hope you are feeling better. On bright side, they brought you almost 300 comments here ?
Hmmm.. not “they” so much as this situation and their drama.
Forgive me,
It’s 2am here and I’m taking a break from trying to figure out what the F this elf on the shelf is and how to start this with the kids tomorrow. I think by Xmas I will want to cut the elf into little pieces.
I saw a cute on on IG recently, Heather Dubrow maybe. Make a fishing pole from a straw sit it on the sink and drop a few goldfish in. Easy, peasy, done. Good night.
Elf on a Shelf is an evil bastard that creeps the fuck out of me. I think its weird serial killer smile on his plastic face.
But there are lots of ideas on Pinterest. Including some more NSFW, not safe for kid ideas that crack me the fuck up. My friend has the adorable Maccabee on the Mantle for her kids – she has some fun with it. Her older two confessed that they knew it was her and they’ve come up with some ideas.
She made muffins or something for breakfast after the kids went to bed one time, and had the Maccabee make a snow angel on flour left on the kitchen counter.
The bright side is none of the comments were them. I’d rather have ten intelligent comments on a recap than 300 about this bullshit. I’ve been filtering out doomy gloomy words for weeks to make LESS comments.
True! Well I wrote one little comment at the other board on my thoughts and I guess I am forever blocked. And I had my kitten gloves on too (pun intentened). There was so much vitriol and hate spewed there that the hypocrisy was stark. I am truly glad their misery has found company.
Tamara if I have to make a fishing pole and make my god damn elf fish.. kill me! But I realize that’s where this is headed. My kids are going to suck me into this damn thing. Damn kids! Haha
You just tie a string to a straw and stick it in the elfs hands and sit it on the edge of the sink and drop a few gold fish snacks in the sink. Google elf on a shelf ideas, it’s not supposed to drive you around the bend. It’s supposed to be fun and cute.
You could always have the elf die in a fire, if you really want an out. 🙂
Actually, that is a great way to get out of it. The poor elf was looking up the chimney for Santa when he should have been asleep and died in the fire. The end.
Here is what I have taken from all these shenanigans:
Can someone start ME up a goFund me page??? I’m not disabled or on benifts or anything.
However I AM poor and lazy and I like money.
Okay! Now these are the kinds of comments I love to read. Almost choked on my breakfast bagel laughing.
Put the coin on the dresser before yo’ leave.
TT, if you allow me to make this comment, I promise I will not comment ever again. You’ve already given me leeway after tossing me out long ago.
I was on the internet when my connection was established via 800 baud dial up. That’s like prehistoric times on the tech clock. That was the heyday of AOL and the wild west. I went to fabulous chats – some intended for hackers only. Nope I’m not a hacker but they tolerated me and educated me about safety and smarts. To this day I owe them a lot.
For purposes of the topic at hand, you do not KNOW who you are talking to on the internet. For example (and what originally got me into trouble on this site) you don’t really even know who TT is. I only know three things for sure. TT is a person, is quirky and writes a blog. Is anything else TT says about herself (himself?) true? I don’t know but I take nothing at face value. And, if every commenter here assured me they had reason to know with certainty that everything TT says about herself (himself?) is absolutely true, why would I believe even that because I don’t KNOW any of you either.
Now the real purpose of this post. All those naïve women went running off to a place where they believe will be their own little love and truth site. How hilarious! These women are like fish in a barrel waiting to be shot by people much smarter than them – and those scam artists are already among them and even now the scam artists have sniffed out their targets. I don’t have to tell you smart folks here what easy marks they are. It’s hard to believe they are adults because they haven’t learned even the simple lessons of survival in life or on the internet.
Please let me give you an example. If I was looking for someone with money to fleece, I would sweetly ask if anyone else also buys seed to feed the birds because I so love birds and all God’s creatures. I sound so nice don’t I? But, did you know that credit companies use that as a measure of risk? Apparently people who buy birdseed are more likely to pay outstanding debts on time and in full. Why? I don’t know but if they use that as a measure, a con artist would too.
All those oversharing, caring, whining, politically correct, loving ladies are fodder on the internet. I feel sorry for them. Oh and I agree with TT about fire, shit and die. They are already headed in that direction while whistling a happy tune.
If you had s gofundme account you wouldn’t have to say who it was for. It’s already custom.
Can someone link or prove to me Cat had a GOFUND page because i simply dont believe it.
More than likely Tamara has made this up about Cat after the horrible way Cat was treated as an excuse to blame someone else than looking in the mirror. TeeCee is Tamaras alter ego so it was Tamara herself under the guise of TC who tore into Cat.
Now Tamara seems to regret it since alot of her regulars has left and wrote this scathing blog trying to garner sympathy.
Cat NEVER had a GOFUND Tamara and you know it….
Hi. ZenJen: Do you buy birdseed to feed God’s little creatures. You seem like such a nice person.
Hi ZenJen. Remember up top when Tamara suggested you’d be happier on the other page? I’m not sure why you wouldn’t take her advice.
They’ll be nice to you. We’ll just point out that you are a special kind of stupid. And you are.
Shut up, Tamara.
I’m sorry. I can’t help it. Its funny its not true, its funnier if it is.
Speaking of, I can’t understand why people would be mad at a blogger for garnering for clicks. I mean, unless there’s something going on where my clicks are connected to my bank account directly. If not, and its amusing me, who gives a fuck? Have some dollah for keeping me entertained when I’m sad enough to procrastinate on random blogs in my free time watching bitchy comments instead of speaking to actual people.
Is there someway I can connect my site to your bank account? I’m asking for a friend.
My blurry eyes read clicks as dicks. You can we how that might happen and appreciate the hilarity, right?
Garnering for dicks sounds like a Saturday night.
We could start a new Gofundme for it….only WHAT could we call it…hmmmm…??
NAA she is all over the other site. She’s fishing here.
You are not very Zen at all. No disrespect but let it go! Let it go! Sing it with me…leeettt iitt goooooooooo
Wow you changed your Zen-like tune. Tamara apologized for you getting caught up in the mess. Actually, it sounds like Cat did benefit from a go fund me account, it was just her friend set it up as I understand it.
Cat did In fact have a gofundme on Facebook. She did it supposedly to adopt cats & couldn’t afford to transfer them to her home. So glad she can afford to feed these cats, but constantly reminds everyone she can’t afford to eat. The gofundme might still be there .,,,,
She could be a 17 yr old just playing in here too.
Whatever is real in her life it is not the crap she has been spouting around here.
And for God’s sake TT, put a “Go To Top” button on the bottom of these pages and save us all the horrendous scrolling. 🙂
Okay I lied about “last time”. I’m done with Housewives and have been for about a year. Since the idiots are gone, how about reviewing some more cerebral shows. Good Behavior? Falling Water? Maybe some books? DON’T read Girl On A Train… or whatever…. it is mind numbing and annoying and best suited for those silly women who have gone to “greener pastures”. Are you willing to take this to the next level since the room temperature IQs have gone?
Have you been watching Rectify, it is a show I keep checking when will it be back? It is a show you dwell on, truly amazing.
shouldn’t there be one on your device? Y’all know I am laptop only but I just hit home and end and it works great for me. 🙂
Android phone here.
Are you ever going to go back to posting at Frappe like a normal person, because I talk to myself enough without talking to Me as well.
Was that my screenname? So long ago I don’t even remember. And I can’t do Frappe anymore. Old woman, digestive issues… want to see my medical records and suggest tests?
Why on earth would anyone need to see your medical records? Clearly it’s your parathyroid.
What I am telling you is that ME is a retarded nic that leads people to say things like, “Hey me, Eat shit and die.” and well that seems self abusive.
And therein lies my genius. You clever girl for discerning it.
Can I still post my random Clemson #allin shit here, I live in Tallahassee. I only do it on big days. I realize it is not topical but it beats screaming “fuck you bitches, who owns the ACC now?” in public places.
Go Cocks!
Usually I go on from my phone but when there is a few articles I want to read I switch to tablet or laptop. This site isn’t the most phone friendly but I wouldn’t say its bad by far.
I’ve been away for several weeks. Dropped my phone and insurance didn’t send new one until the day I was leaving town for Thanksgiving. I opted to leave it in the box and stay off-line while I was away. Went on a RARE hiking trip to the mountains (Floridian). My point, it was the most relaxing weekend I’ve had in ages. Deactivated my Facebook yesterday. I missed all this. I am truly saddened by what you have been through Tamara. As the old saying goes, “everything happens for a reason.”. It was meant for you to get the negative energy out of your life and heal. I pray you are getting better and relaxed. I so enjoy your blog. You are a brilliant and funny writer, who brightens my day many times a week. Thanks for all you do. As our southern Moms would say. “This to shall pass.” Peace be with you Tamara
NAA, since i was mentioned in the blog, i simply was setting the record straight. Tamara emailed me, i did not email her.
I dont know about some other site that you mentioned so i guess it takes a special kind of stupid to know a special kindcof stupid.
Wheres that link about Cats GOFUND, NAA???And when i leave i will quitely go read other blogs per the “rule” lol
Jen the GoFund me page was set up to fly/drive/somehow relocate two rescue cats from some other state to Cat’s, It was not to my knowledge anything nefarious. People from her donated through her Facebook page.
The only point in mention that at all was I found it odd that she would not accept help for herself because it would violate he disability, and yet the go fund me didn’t seem to concern her in that regard. I found it an odd inconsistency.
I do have a question – now that I just noticed this post. Are there parts of this country where cats are near extinction such that they have to be acquired from faraway places – maybe with the hope of breeding them (they are so loathe to breed) and repopulating? Are they on the protected species list because they are so rare? I honestly don’t get it (and I own cats so it’s not as if I am heartless to those creatures). There are so many good reasons for gofundme that I cannot imagine this is one.
If I recall correctly, she knew the person who died who was the owner of the cats, No one wherever the cats were could care for them. The human Cat felt bad and said she would take them, but she had no way to get them to her. So a GoFundMe was set up to get the cats to her.
My point was never that she was fleecing cat ladies everywhere over the cat shipment stuff. But that I had tried to help the HUMAN Cat previously and she said she could not acccept any help do to her disability check. It was at that point I started to have questions.
Pretty much every month, toward the end of the month, people would contact me to try to get cash and food to the human Cat, and I have explained her refusal to accept help on a monthly basis pretty much since she was here to other readers. Now, can you please drop this. I feel like those of us who have commented have said our piece. In the meantime, I am leaving this up for people who don’t come here all day ever day and will be asking on their next visit.
Grassy ass.
I’m still at a loss to understand how someone who just lost House and home in a tragedy is on the internet arguing about pathetic cat ladies who deceive people on the internet. Don’t you have some like…I don’t know..,insurance paperwork or salvaging of charred remains to be doing? Dear god if nothing else go volunteer at the red fucking cross. I’m starting to think firecwws gid punishing you for being a shit person.
I thought the same thing…like there should be more important things to be dealing with right now but instead you’re here. It just doesn’t make good sense.
I thought the same thing…like there should be more important things to be dealing with right now but instead you’re here. It just doesn’t make good sense. Kind of explains a lot, actually.
I enjoy ya recaps! In the illustrious words of Kevin G (a la’ Mean Girls) “Don’t let the haters stop you from doing ya thang!”
KaCling and Tamaras making the coins today by all these hits! She plays a good game! Deflect to Cat
Cat is doing all the Katching since you are all falling for her sad stories and sending her money. Do you NEVER learn?
Is English your first language? Do you think that you could type in actual complete sentences that have some meaning instead of a wall of word diarrhea? You weren’t mentioned in the blog by name. You decided to out yourself in the comments. Seriously. Click the link, go to that site. You will be happier and we will not have so many brain cells voluntarily commit suicide rather than read your posts. And since you’ve apparently lost two homes, you undoubtedly have way better things to do than inflict yourself on us.
Hey NAA – they are coping & pasting comments on both sites, someone else has to see this!
ZenJen, no disrespect meant because I have no intention of causing an argument; however, why do you have issues with TT receiving revenue from the clicks? I’m having trouble understanding why it’s problematic for Tamara to earn a living from her blog. Isn’t this her job? My question is authentic and I gladly welcome your response. Thank you.
ZenJen. I read your comments over there, two-timing girl you. TT has been extremely kind explaining “all” to you yet you snark on.
Shut up, pretty please.
So what? This is Tamera’s JOB. She puts in time and effort to have a free blog for my entertainment. Why shouldn’t she be allowed to make her money? People giving her shit for making coin are the stupidest of stupid. I’m looking at you “Zen”Jen.
Holy shitballz. Unfuckingbelievable. I just got internet schooled. What in the actual fuck? People really do suck, myself included. I am shocked at what and who I read “over there” after clicking link. I have an uncanny gift of stepping in shit unknowingly & only understanding it AFTER I have put my foot in my mouth. I think I will just go back to lurking/reader mode. TT, just wanted you to know I’m here. Get well soon.
PS- the dead sister thing SO not cool & actually have newfound repect for TC. (Yep, I said that!)
Hey girl. You have created something unique and entertaining and it’s bound to draw the crazies out of the woodwork. I hope you can take what you learned and apply it to future weirdos. Sounds like you are doin. Something right. And I’d be proud of you if you were my sister. Just satin’…
If you are so invested in a reality show blog that you need to form a support group to air your grievances with the blogger, maybe you need to dig a little deeper and figure out the real issues in your life.
I am a message board neophyte, but knew enough to generally steer clear of controversy. A few weeks ago, I snapped. I am not proud of it, and thinking back I realized that it happened right before Thanksgiving. Stressful time, lots to do, old shit resurfacing.
When I find myself posting or lurking too much, or getting unreasonably pissed off at a name on a screen, it’s a red flag to me that all is not right in my world and it’s time to address it. Glad that Tamara has drawn her line in the sand and acknowledged her own mistakes. This place needed an airing out.
You said what I tried to but did it better. It is a blog. Not real life. A blog about tv shows. Does Tamara sometimes get nasty w the commenters – yes- so what – you don’t have to eat dinner with her just ignore it if it is you becuase it does not change the fact that she writes a really good blog.
I don’t understand that other groups obsession to know everything about Tamara. I think that is why they dug into her sisters obituary. I think and I could be wrong they are trying to find out what she looks like – why I don’t know. Why that is important to them – I don’t know. She writes words on a screen she is not a movie star but the obsession is real and it seems odd.
They seem to want to “tell their side” of things and I guess maybe if I saw a blog where I was mentioned I might have that reaction for a fleeting moment but then I would realize nobody really knows who I am in the real world and I would just move on.
i look forward to the recaps and the purple pen
Support Group. Love it. I agree with you about all of it.
Tamara, I had no idea of the drama infused shit show that you have been dealing with behind the scenes! I find it sad that you have opened up and shared personal feelings/info on your blog and that others in turn, use it to hurt you. It is all too easy for people to hide behind the anonymity of the internet. I really enjoy your recaps and hope this does not deter you from continuing!
Wow. Women are the worst to trust as friends. I wish I would have known sooner, like single digits age, that I should only befriend and love animals. Animals don’t fuck you over. I mean, I guess one can bite you, but a round of antibiotics and some boo oo cream, maybe, stitches, is better than what women will do to you. In my life I would rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies and I treat my circle as the same. I keep it small, and I never, ever tell anyone anything that I wouldn’t want the world to know or that can be used against me later. The end result….I am 10 times happier than the other mothers at the school, sports games/practices. I may be the weird, over the top animal activist/lover chick that refuses to conform to cliques in a adult life…but I am happy. My kids are happy. My dogs are happy. Life is good.
Sorry that happened to you TT. Some people suck worse than others but animals with cuddle you when you cry, entertain you just to see you laugh and only ask for food and place at your side. Except cats. Cats don’t give a shit. Real cats, not people who name themselves after them.
Dear god. Now I gotta read all these comments?
I am sorry you are defending yourself and explaining. You don’t need to. You’re not like them. You’re not a deluded freak. You just pretend to be sometimes because it’s EASY. Suck it up.
I’m going to second Teecee here. Tamara, YOU DO NOT OWE ANYBODY ANYTHING. Never did, don’t now and won’t in the future. Not any of us still here, not any commenters/readers from the past and not anyone from over there. You don’t owe anything. You write a blog. A very, very good blog, where you have always been very clear about your personality from year dot. You are not a social worker. You are not a psychiatrist. You are not running a charity. You really enjoy what you do (professional writer/blogger/observer) but this is also a BUSINESS. Anyone over there crying about how they can’t believe you made money “off them” because they viewed your ads is stupid and delusional and a leech. They read all your original content and had fun commenting FOR FREE and all they had to do was get past a few ads? Wow, how can they stand the trauma? I might add these were the same “loyal” commenters expounding on how much they just LOVED clicking, viewing and visiting Tamara Tattles and ALL your ads because it was such a small thing to do for all they got from being here. And in my opinion, it is and was worth it, but I think it’s REALLY interesting that they only seemed to want your BUSINESS to earn a profit if it meant they got everything they wanted plus a pound of your flesh and soul to boot. If they were so grossly unhappy and mistreated, why did they all not quietly leave and form a new forum to discuss whatever the hell they wanted before now?? They seem to have been able to get it together pretty quickly, so it would have been easily done at any time. It’s because they WANTED to be HERE. When you reminded them this is a BUSINESS with your rules and you are a PERSON who didn’t want to be the trashcan for their emotional garbage anymore, THEN they got pissed and decided to publicly and disgustingly trash and humiliate you. If you’d still been playing their “game” they’d be right now screaming down anyone else who was acting in a similar fashion.
You are right. They found another place to be and they should stay there and start discussing THEMSELVES and stop discussing YOU.
Again, you have a great blog, it’s fun to read comments, it’s fun to be able to comment, but you owe none of us anything.
No one is obligated to read anything here. You reading all these comments will probably be ill advised. We should put this down as ATCV and move on.
Two thoughts, I had a beautiful set of wedding China I never used. My Mother passed 2 years ago and I inherited 2 more gorgeous sets. After reading these posts, gonna start using them!! Also AnthonyBourdain was soo hot in his twenties. Omg that long , wavy jet black hair. Still good looking now but red hot then. Finally got my smart water and it’s all I drink now. Hope Banjo is fine after his ordeal.
Are you asking me to leave?
Not until you vacuum up after the mess you made. 🙂
If this drama is for a big WordPress advertiser rating sweep more power to you. If not, am sorry you got your feelers hurt by the crazy train.
Please carry on like nothing happened.
No this was all planned while anesthetized. TT has feelings insects have feelers. Which do you have?
Soooo, there’s this new blog I heard about. Actually I heard all about it here. Out of curiosity I checked it out. One day it’s open – ONE DAY and I’m already not welcome. Heavy sigh – can I come back here?
As far as I’m concerned you never left. But you are welcome to go wherever you feel comfortable. There are lots of great sites on the Internet. It’s not a choice of one or the other.
I never did leave. I was trying to bring some reason over there and it back fired all over my ass. I guess it was to be expected. I was making a poor attempt at humor.
Hi justmary, I was the other who suggested they reconsider – now I can’t find the website so I may have been eliminated as well. Or they got TT’s message about keeping incendiary language that is libelous off the internet. Just a guess. Still know it was meant to be helpful to them as well as TT and suggest they reconsider and use some logic, and wisdom/kindness/integrity.
If they are unable to read opposing points of view the blog will be short lived. I don’t want anything to do with them in the first place but I really thought the crap about pointing the way to TT’s sister’s obit was far beyond the pale. It really pissed me off.
Morbid curiosity pushed me to take a peek at the insufferables site. The level of hatred and pure meanness is outrageous. The comments I read go far beyond insults. Horrible people. Good riddance!
You need a support group, web md, kool aid and bird seed. I don’t understand people asking permission to be on the internet??
Like I said – poor attempt at humor – thanks for pointing it out. It won’t happen again.
This is so crazy!
That is some fucked shit. Sorry you had to deal with that, being doxed by a crazed, vindictive twat.
Change your locks.
Whoa… . I read the blogs but rarely the comments because I have the attention span of a goldfish. Who knew there was so much pathos going on.
I used to twitter, till I realized 20percent of the population was ill or angry and most of them seemed to be on my feed..
Enjoy your blog, don’t sweat the assholes.
Well, I was so stunned by your post that I forgot the manners that my Southern mama taught me.
I hope you are resting and recovering. Surgery is taxing in mind, body, and emotions. Bless Mr. Banjo’s heart. His poor little face. You get well soon, too Sweet Boy. I’m sure you are both happy to be back home.
Finally, good for TeeCee.I am grateful that she has been able to help you clear things up here. It’s wonderful to have that kind of friend. The kind who’s there when the going isn’t easy.
I will eat shit and die all day long! If anyone ever brought up a deceased sibling- a thousand knives of fire would rage thru my veins!
I come here religiously. This website is my sunshine. I enjoy the sass. Please do not ever take the sunshine away.
I will eat shit and die all day long! If anyone ever brought up a deceased sibling- a thousand knives of fire would rage thru my veins!
I come here religiously. This website is my sunshine. I enjoy the sass. Please do not ever take the sunshine away.
Jeanna and Ladysking must be Siamese twins that share a brain. ?❤️?
I am just an idiot that forgot her log in
Well Ladysking, Kinslady, Jeanna, et all. you need to pick one and an email addy otherwise it makes you look like the morons trying to get back into comments. IJS.
Maybe you should contact Nev and Max.
XOXO
Sequoia & UF, the ladies at the link are looking for you two on Twitter.
Said .. IDK something about being funny and finding you two.
Calipatti, I always thought Sequoia and UF individually had a higher IQ than the combined IQ of all who left so I kind of doubt they would be interested unless a look through the new site would amuse them. Hard to find that much stupid in one place so it would be a curiosity.
I’m a twitter superstar! I’m easy to find for recruitment…
They never found me funny before so I can’t imagine what would make them find me funny now. I never bought their ‘butter wouldn’t melt’ attitude but they were like posting gnats with their obsequious, incessant replies. Good iridescence.
Oh, and I’M BACK BITCHES!
YAY! This makes me infinitely happy. You aren’t the only one who is back. I’ve received a lot of email from returnees asking what took me so long to thin the herd and get things back to normal. And my favorite most often asked questions, in all of their time here did they never ONCE bother to read the commenting rules?
Fun fact about my commenting rules. Tee Cee at the time I ran them past her said they might have been a bit too much. lolololololololol. I think they are perfect and quite straightforward.
Party like it’s 1999 and you want to dance at Studio 54 and you’re driving a DeLorean.
YAY! This makes me infinitely happy. You aren’t the only one who is back. I’ve received a lot of email from returnees asking what took me so long to thin the herd and get things back to normal. And my favorite most often asked questions, in all of their time here did they never ONCE bother to read the commenting rules?
Fun fact about my commenting rules. Tee Cee at the time I ran them past her said they might have been a bit too much. lolololololololol. I think they are perfect and quite straightforward.
She’s really really excited!
She’s really really excited!
Marching around the house with pot lid cymbals to John Philip Sousa songs happy?
I feel like you two fucks are mocking me. But IDGI.
grrrrrrrr
Please choose my response from the following options.
1) LOL
2) ESAD
3) WTF?
4) DIAF
No No. It’s an entirely different thing altogether.
Lol. You don’t read the comments in order ever, do you?
I have come here twice to read them in order. Apparently, I’m just dumb.
And very very excited.
I am trying to figure out how to eliminate basketballs from the world before Banjo and I both have coronaries. So I have a lot of important shit on my mind.
You don’t see that your “Yay I’m infinateky hapoy…” post appears twice? Silly woman.
Whatevia. I’ll just go with “/pouts”
Infinite happiness can be so fleeting.
TT, Dayum girl! It appears you are now vying for the 3,000 Faces of Eve. You have so many different names and now you’ve even started impersonating people on other social sites. Apparently you never sleep and have a staff of hundreds! There is rank PARANOIA going on at the other site. They’re setting each others hair on fire. Soon they will be suspect of their neighbors, the checkout woman at the grocery store and if you squint a bit, that banker looks just like TC who, of course, is really you. Comedy Central has nothing on this. SNL is probably doing screenshots for dialogue.
I know, I don’t bother with them and don’t go there. IF THEY WOULD READ MY COMMENTING RULES they would know that I am all about people starting their own sites.. I ENCOURAGE IT.
As the lovely ladies from Reality Tea would say, “There is room for all of us on the Internet.”
This is not the first offshoot of this site. And it won’t be last. But it will probably be the shortest. I can’t wait for the whole “How hard can it be to run a blog?” question gets answered
If ever a new site needed lawyers, this one is it, the first thing they will need is a lawyer or six. They have set up a hate site. FEDERAL CRIME. Every1becalm will be the fall person. I hope she stays calm. Not because of me, unless they keep libeling me, I’m not interested going to court with them. I have warned them many times that COMMENTERS have been taken to court, but they don’t seem to understand legal liability so they will have to deal with that. I do have the screenshots and IPs of the hate site should I be so inclined.
Then they will use photos, they are not allowed to use. Again. Lawyers for that. They are going to need a really big tip jar.
What they need is a little forum on one of those message boards sites I grew up on where they can talk about their aches and pains and lung clots and parathyroids in a little private area. It’s free. But they are dumb. They have no idea how to even communicate properly on the Internet. Are there still listserv type things? That would also be good. If only one of them was free from traumatic brain injury, this would be an easy fix. Which makes me a bit curious how so many people on one site have traumatic brain injury. It’s like they are the same person…
They commit federal online crimes every day without knowing it based on the screen shots I’ve been sent.
And by the way, please stop doing that. The beauty of all of this is they are not my problem anymore. I’m running a corporation. Whatever they are doing does not interest me unless they get arrested. Which I DO want to know about, because it will be HYSTERICAL.
Other than that, I’m so ready to move on from this.
Did anyone notice they now seem to have ads over there on the Unsufferables thread?
Sure were quick to get another reality tv blog up there. And with several posts too. Hmmm.
Pack of crazy hypocrites.
WOW TT!!!! I’m sorry you had to go through this. I really am. WOW!!! I’m dealing with family drama here and haven’t seen this until now. When I get home tonight I am coming back to read the comments, I don’t have time now, my cellphone is already blowing up and I gotta run!!
I hope your surgery went well and that you feel better and heal without any complications. My best to you. You are right to eliminate stressful factors when and where possible. Stay strong in your convictions and gentle in your heart. I am not an azz kisser, I am just tender hearted.
Holy shit! I never go to the daily tea posts because I have no interest in getting all buddy buddy with random people on the Internet, and that was always where you told people to go for that sort of stuff. This is exactly why. TT, years ago you and I emailed a few times, and since then, every now and then I send you a show related link, etc. I can’t imagine having to deal with all of those people’s problems 24/7. Years back I commented on here a lot, but over the past year or so I rarely have because it became so “clicky”, and too personal for my comfort. Anyway, I hope now things go back to the way it used to be. Also, I think that maybe they deleted stuff, or I don’t know, but when I click the link you gave I don’t see anything but one comment. Maybe it’s me or my phone. IDK. Who cares.
This was all probably a blessing in disguise. Onward and upward.
And P.S. – The one and only blurb I can see when I clicked that link was in the “about” section, where she talks about how all of your regulars don’t stay around. As someone who has been here since almost the very beginning (long before some of them), you, Tamara, are not the reason this “regular” hasn’t been commenting much, and I’m still here.
lori: The door to that rubber room was apparently slammed shut and locked so the inmates can’t escape and all that is left is the moaning and screams of the people echoing around the internet.
No one can get in? How can they have a new blog no one can see? The only thing I could see was the fairytale post. Which, I might add, is fucking creepy. Be careful who you trust? What in the world..
I agree.. total Creepiness!
I bet they have a flamingo party…I’m going to peek in the windows and have my moo moo on ready to sulk in self hatred and disease just in case they open the padded room’s doors.
Welcome to Bedlam feel free to run amok. Corinthian leather padded walls help to soften the snowflakes self inflicted blows as they believe in the unreal.
TT: I left a comment on one of their reality show posts and have since been moderated out of the site. LOL I suspect that I am now being imagined as just another one of your plethora of aliases. If so, I have to alert you that Banjo isn’t in my house so I’m concerned he has run away to greener pastures. I’m so confused. Am I you?
I know I said I was just going to stay in reader mode, and that is still my plan. I need to step back because I know I haven’t been my best self in comments lately. But, I just re-read this post by TT and it is really disheartening. I just can’t imagine what it must feel like on a human level. We all make mistakes and all feel fear, pain, etc. IMO, betrayal is one of the worst emotions. (Especially when you are in a vulnerable state) TT, glad you are taking your power back & hope you are on the mend.
A wise woman once told me “It’s just comments on the internet. It’s not that serious.”
Here’s to everyone pressing the reset button! 2016 can eat shit and die in a fire!
Happy whatever freaking holiday you celebrate & FFS bring on 2017!
So I just went over to that link… there are no real posts and zero comments, are the “not cool,not crazy stalkers” not allowed to see their unhinged shit?
Nope, my TT spies indicate that someone named redscorpiio or something is starting their own site. Because how hard can it be? And they have spent two weeks trying to pull one together, and by tomorrow they hope to figure out how to allow comments.
I have a feeling that Every1BeCalm knows she has harbored a hate site and just shut shit down. Or so I’m told. I had so many folks sending me screenshots, which is how I found out about it in the first place, that it’s kind of too late for her. She must be feeling like Abby Lee Miller at this moment wondering, Will I get prison time or won’t I?
Wait.. Two weeks? Didn’t this just happen a few days ago?
I was away from the afternoon of the 28th until mid day on the 30th. My surgery was on the 29th. I think I checked on the site during preop but maybe not. When I got home on the 30th chaos was going on.
TT, I always have thought you wrote because it is a link to your passion of teaching, of greater knowledge. That was why you blog, and maybe why you left comments open, so you could learn as well.
TT, you hide your huge heart, that you try your best to hide. I know for a fact because the only time I ever did a Debbie Downer post on DT you contacted me, I will never forget it.
You are too awesome for bs.
I would like to delete my previous comment, although I did mean it. What I really want to say is FUCK YES! I see the great ones are back!! Hi Calpatti! I love your comment about not giving them dick that others deserve. Lisa! UF! Sequoia! Maybe yall have been around, but I just did not see you.
TT this is probably the best thing that could happen. Let them copy and paste comments. If they want to expose who someone really is, they can watch me and take notes. I can find anyone, and actually I know about one of the “exposers” in the Guess my Ailment group. I know from experience that sometimes I bite back too hard but this is way too fucked up.
Hey, thank you and I am so sorry all this garbage happened at the worst possible time. My impression is a little different, though still fraught with epic level narcissism. I think most successful businesses experiences some kind of “inside job” attempted take down at some point. These nuts were triggered by some perceived “loss of status” and launched into a full blown attack on you personally and professionally. Of course a new site would emerge! The next step will be taking credit for the success of your site! Apparently one of the ring leaders quickly realized she was outclassed and in some murky legal waters. That’s a mercy because she’s likely scared and will cut this crap out. Prob worried that someone will do recon on her the way they did you. So, meh. Losers. They are weak and jealous. So congratulations on reaching this hallmark level of success! Lol. Something similar happened to us, we were stunned and then used the op to reexamine our biz because we had moved from start up to established. IMO it is not a coincidence this garbage started in earnest after your (sweet!) web redesign. You’ve got a great niche, perspective and style TT. To the leaders go the arrows. Thanks for all the entertainment.
May I make a suggestion? If you are all true in what you say — glad to be rid of that pathetic, HUMORLESS element and happy to have a place where every comments section does not devolve into Debbie downer’s diary, let it go. Read the new blog posts here and comment and go back to normal. Stop bringing TT more misery. Let her forget this exists and go on enjoying her job. Trust that these people will NEVER be happy with themselves.
You’re right. But did I mention my bunions?
Thank you! Let’s all let it, and alla them, GO! I posted twice over there, and got nonsensical responses. BORING! I like it here. TT hasn’t even been THAT mean to me…yet. While I’m not inviting that meanness, I can take it! I love this blog, and have been addicted to it since I discovered it, later than most of you. That. is. all.
Agree it’s time to move on. When I was a kid, swinging on a swing set & it was time to stop swinging we would just stop actively swinging and let the swinging motion stop itself slowly. The phrase my parents/grandparents used was “Just let the cat die”.
Sorry, couldn’t resist sharing that one.
Can we please just get back to “normal”? Lol
Listen – you’re a giant CUNT. We are all still here because we know that, we love you and we accept you. Everyone else can step in front of a train. I am, though, sorry if anything the pathetics did in any way hurt you. I however will celebrate (because I’m a selfish bitch) that I can come back and start commenting again. I just couldn’t take the turn that the comments had taken. And NO POST was safe! They. Were. Everywhere.
So, FiveCatsOwnMe is blocked. She then comes back with a new nic. Also blocked. And now she is trying to log into the admin forum. Is she seriously trying to hack me, or is she just drunk and trying to comment again?
A user with IP address 107.140.136.14 has been locked out from the signing in or using the password recovery form for the following reason: Used an invalid username ‘fivecatsownme’ to try to sign in.
User IP: 107.140.136.14
User hostname: 107-140-136-14.lightspeed.elpstx.sbcglobal.net
User location: El Paso, United States
These bitches are crazy. Shouldn’t they be as happy to be away from me as I am that they are gone? This obsession is very unsettling. Time to notify the police?
They are obsessed, and they don’t get that they are being as mean and vicious about you as they have accused you of being. I’m here for the blogs, not the comments anyway. I enjoy yours.
A user with IP address 107.140.136.14 has been locked out from the signing in or using the password recovery form for the following reason: Used an invalid username ‘Fivecats’ to try to sign in.
User IP: 107.140.136.14
User hostname: 107-140-136-14.lightspeed.elpstx.sbcglobal.net
User location: El Paso, United States
This is such a creepy obsession.
Can you email me the new site where they are all talking about you? Or rather, could you email it to TeeCee or to yourself. We’re curious.
No can do. People send me stuff frantically, but I just delete it. I didn’t want to read the doom and gloom here, I’m certainly not going to seek it out. Ask that other identity of ours.
“The more I learn about people, the better side like my dog.” – Mark Twain
“The more I learn about people, the better I like my dog.” -Mark Twain