Well, that didn’t take long. Scheana and Mike Shay ‘s marriage has hit the skids. Was it something she said? It seems that just two months after Katie and Tom got married in the woods, Mike has had enough and has taken off with no explanation.
According to TMZ’s sources, Mike never came home on Wednesday even thought Scheana was home alone mourning the death of a friend. So Scheana set aside her grief long enough to shut off all of their credit cards. Really? Why would you do that? Are the cards in her name only? Wouldn’t he be able to turn them right back on if they weren’t? Does this guy have a job? Then, allegedly, Mike cleaned out their bank accounts today.
Scheana is worried that Mike has gone back to his drinking and drugging ways. You think?

Last we heard, Matt was on the Scheana Shay Addiction Recovery Plan (SSARP). This plan includes a ton of criticism and shaming from Scheana as well as copious amounts of pot an alcohol. I wonder what happened to that lawsuit about the pot billowing out of their apartment? How could this possibly not work?
The couple married on July 27, 2014. I suspect he will be using the cash he withdrew to file for divorce.
UNLESS, this is all just drama for the show which I believe may still be doing some filming. Or perhaps filming has just ended and he is making his getaway.
Coincidentally, Vanderpump Rules premieres Monday at 9.
Thoughts?
Why am I entertained? What is wrong with me????
? omg I know.
You’re an awful person?
Run, Mike, RUN!!!
Shit, you beat me to it!!!
I met them in April at SUR. They were both really sweet people in person, so this drama makes me sad. Unless, it’s fake. Then, I’m just entertained. And they are doing their job. 😉
Oh I didn’t realize it was an actual, non-contractional relationship?
This is my shocked face ?
Can’t stand her. She is shallow ( more so than the rest), and I think we all saw the writing on the wall when she made his addiction problem all about her. The biggest problem? What is she going to hang on her apartment walls now?
So funny! That was the first thing I thought of after reading this. What in the world will she do with all the blank wall space?
Weren’t many of the wedding photos on the wAll just of her? She will prob keep those ones right where they are ?
She’ll probably just cut him out of them… .lol
I wonder who leaked this. If he is relapsed and is w/shady people this can cost him his life. Considering what happened to Kim Kardashian, there could be a chance he gets robbed if he cashed the money in their joint account.
I thought Kim’s crap was all a publicity stunt
Or he went home to his family like he did the last time he left her.
BWAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHHAH “Considering what happened to Kim Kardashian” made me laugh out loud. Because before Kim Kardashian came along no one was in danger of being robbed.
lol..howling with laughter!! I was cracking up at that too…lol
As if mike shay and Scheana are even remotely on the same level as Kim K. Hahahahaha
Exactly. “Cleaning out” their bank account was probably done in the bank drive-thru, took less than 10 minutes, and included the words, “Would you like this in a combination of $10s and $20s?”
She married a guy who she thought would be content to service her, then fade into the background. The fact that unlike the married stars she preferred he appeared to have no visible means of support which was supposed to make him want to put up with her shit.
Here’s hoping he finally came to his senses and realized his sanity was worth more than the crumbs of fame his self centered wife sent his way.
@Karen, perfectly said. I hope he is OK and has finally seen the light.
I know that this is not a surprise. I know they both have a lot of growing up to do. Everyone on that show does. Does anyone even think that anyones marriage or relationship is on solid ground from this show? Serious Peter Pan syndrome going on in La La land. Still, it’s sad. I hate to see anyones marriage end or be so troubled especially this soon.
I hope Mike is ok. He seems like a decent guy. I think he was probably good for her. I wish them well and healing.
There is quite enough nastiness going on in our country right now. I need my “reality tv” to get happy.
More baby news!!!!!!
So glad you put this up because I have a lot to say..lol This little girl drives me nuts! She lost all my respect when she told Andy (On the S2 reunion & WWHL) that women need to “Get over it & move on” in respect to talking about the affair she had with a pregnant Brandi’s husband! (who she didn’t know was famous or had a wife..because google didn’t exist back then..#EyeRoll). She then continued to make references to others cheating, treating them terribly > (Kristen) & acting like banging Eddie was just a transgression that never hurt anyone. Then on S4 she said OUT-LOUD the reason that Lala was not included in their “bitchy girl clique” was b/c she tried to make out with other girls boyfriends and/or husband..#WTF… Seriously she said that! I don’t wish break-ups on anyone, I was cheated on. I did move on & got over it but not because some little “mistress to the stars to get famous” told me too.
Maybe its her “I’m better then ev1” attitude or when I asked her POLITELY on twitter ( seriously I meant no harm) that maybe her husband should change the name of his “Twitter moms” song as it is very offensive to VPR fans that are moms. She called me stupid, more derogatory names & told me to get a life. She is very spoiled & treats Mike like a child. I guess he has had enough of trying to keep up with the Lisa wannabe. There is only one Lisa Vanderpump & she is the Queen! Love her!
I didn’t see any pics of Mike at the Vanderpump Crawl the other night in New York either. Scheana seemed to be solo & maybe that’s when Mike found it was a good time to run?
#Karma
lillibeth53,
I saw pics of Mike with Sheana at the NYC pub crawl and he didn’t look good at all. He was dressed in shorts and a t-shirt that looked kind of dirty. I thought he looked disheveled and was hoping he had not relapsed. How stupid of Sheana to even go to this at all never mind bringing her husband!! She doesn’t want to change her “lifestyle” at all to support her husband and then is shocked that he relapses. I truly hope he has not relapsed but if he has, he needs to see the light and get away from this hard partying crowd that includes his wife.
Wow I didn’t see that pic. I truly hope he makes out of this alright,Mike is like a minnow & these VPR kids are sharks. I’ve read they take all kinds of “enhancement drugs” allegedly & that would make it next to impossible for Mike to stay clean if that’s true. This could be why he ran away or he may be afraid of the publicity that comes with the show starting next week.If he does look that bad then we will figure it out & he won’t be able to hide it this time. He may be freaked out about it?
I’m just AWED by the millienial’s comment. I politely tweeted someone I don’t know on a TV show that here husband’s choice of title for his song kinda offended me and made me need to go to my safe space and seek counseling. Then that bitch called me a lot of words that also offended me. And then she blocked me and I could not see her offensive comments anymore. SHE thinks SHE is better than everyone…Wahhhhhh!
Jesus CHRIST. WTF is up with these whiners that are offended when they give unsolicited advice on Twitter and get blocked? PLEASE READ THE COMMENTING RULES ABOUT PEOPLE BEING OFFENDED over words. I block a large number of OFFENDED people all day long on my Twitter who seem incapable of not following people they find offensive. The only person who cares about what offends you is YOU. No one needs your “polite advice” on how not to offend you. It’s ridiculous that you think you are owed something by someone you watch on TV. Would you pick up the phone and offer them the same unsolicited advice? Show up on their doorstep all crazy lady deranged? That is what Twitter is today and she has every right to stop you for pestering her. JUST STOP.
Oh, TT, I love how you don’t mince words. Brava. ::golf clap::
I mean how fucking hard is it not to follow people you don’t like? I block people all day everyday on Twitter, on my site , everywhere. Why do people think I would care if they don’t like me? Or that I want tons of comments from illiterate people? There is a crazy woman from “the dome” whose comments here, emails to and Twitter I have blocked. Yet she still thinks I want to hear her crazy. What is next? Drive bys? Phone calls? Mailing mysterious packages?
TT, people don’t get it. Rock on.
TT just ignore her. You blog because you are reputable and loved. Ignore hate.
That’s me told…lol I wasn’t offended by the song title , it was the song lyrics & I wasn’t the only one. In fact Andy made the Shay’s take it down it was so offensive. I won’t make the same mistake again & I do apologize if I broke any rules. Sorry TT ….Much respect XO
I’m going to my safe space now to read the rules again, your a scary lady when your mad..lol
Let me know how the whole “safe space” works out for you.
Not mad at you, just hate all the rampant offended people. You can be as offended as you would like to be, but trying to contact reality show participants to tell them to stop doing something because you don’t like it is a destination on the crazy train I have yet to reach, and hope I never do.
I am so over the “she cheated w a married man” whine. 1) she wasn’t married and she didn’t take vows, he did. You don’t know what all he told her of his status. 2) it was so many years ago? Ancient history? Lots more has happened that’s far more relevant.
She seems terminally selfish. I hope he hasn’t relapsed, if so, I hope he makes it thru.
I found her excuses that she was unaware of Eddies fame or marriage disingenuous and didn’t care for the way she pulled out the victim card.
What bothered me more was her behavior afterwards-judging other women harshly for indulging in the same type of behavior and trying to ostracize them from the group.
As a recovering alcoholic, I was pretty repulsed by her insensitive attitude towards Mike’s addiction, constantly turning the conversation back to how it affected her and how she wasn’t going to stop partying because SHE didn’t have a problem. Just clueless. I remember the expressions on her cast mate’s faces-priceless.
At the end of the day, it doesn’t sound as if he was ever, “sober”. He may have stopped the pills (which is a great step) but he was still drinking and smoking pot. When people continue to use like that, they usually find their way back to their drug of choice, especially if they hit a bump in the road.
Yes to everything Slice said!!!
Sad. Even though Schena is so self absorbed and I had major issues with how she treated his addiction, it’s still a relationship. Hope he’s ok.
I really like Mike. I think he’s probably the most gentle soul on any of the reality shows, and I can’t get enough of him on TV. I hope for him he makes good on his escape, and he doesn’t go back to drugs, or her for his own sake.
I tweeted it earlier & I’ll say it here: she thought she could *cure* him with Tom’s breakfast scramble and a Capri Sun. I feel horrible for Mike. He needs serious help. Opioid addiction is the nastiest of monsters and to think he possibly got zero medical intervention to help him is horrific. I truly hope he’s okay. The last thing she should be doing is talking to the press, but it’s Scheanna so…
Scheana is the worst. The. Worst. That’s all I got.
She’s a horrible person. She made her bed, she can lie in it now.
I thought that they both love each other . Scheana is just immature and he’s too much of a teddy bear to do the work that would be neede in order for her to grow up. I picture her walking all over him ? But I have seen some very touching moments between the two. Hopefully he is ok .
I’m sending good vibes their way. Sad story. Why, how, when, where doesn’t really matter. I only hope they find the way to healing, to love.
His addiction has always been an inconvenience to her and her love of partying. His well being was never a concern of hers. I hope he ditched her but I suspect far worse for him.
I fear that is exactly what happened. He’s like my ex-ex, not my ex, the one before him. He would run home to his family because they enabled him, especially his Mama. I hate to say it, but I knew Shayne would not stay sober when I heard Scheana say he wasn’t going to meetings, he had no sponsor, didn’t need rehab, was “doing it on his own” and “using her love for strength.” It was just a matter of time.
I looked at his instagram page and he has lost a lot of weight. They are both skinny now
I looked at his instagram page and he has lost a lot of weight. They are both skinny now
I thought Sheena’s whole reaction to finding out about Mike’s drug issues was weird, and the way they handeled it on the show, as well. She threw a huge fit and screaming why did you marry me? Not supportive at all, and he looked so depressed and everyone acted so shaming and disapointed in him, LVP too. I felt like giving the poor guy a hug. He comes clean and admits hes got a problem and this is what he gets. I dont think Sheena makes him happy either. Mike probably thought he had landed this great gorgeous girl, a real catch, and got caught up in that. When I think he’d be happier with a nicer regular girl with more substance and less narcassism. I could be totally off base but that’s my impression from what I’ve seen.
I recall TT commenting on how Scheena looked off and extremely skinny at the reunion as we all saw. Maybe she’s blowing all the money, if you get my drift, and Mike took it away from her.
It really made me angry when this addiction storyline appeared last season. I have lost friends because of opiate addiction. Meaning I have had friends that died because of their addiction to pills. I thought this was just a storyline so that they are on the show more, OR this is something very serious that was swept under the rug for now. I really hope this is just for publicity and not a real issue for Mike.
I’m really sorry for your loss. It’s hard when you’ve been touched by addiction to find these story lines entertaining. I always had a hard time with Kim Richards. Even though she would drive me crazy and acted horribly, as a recovering alcoholic, I still had empathy for her. I didn’t like her but I respect that this is a terrible disease and the majority who suffer from it don’t, “recover”.
Great comments on this, Slice. I too had a hard time watching Kim Richard’s life implode on TV. What was even worse to find out was when I watched that special on RHBH which revealed Kyle and her family tried to keep Kim’s alcoholism a secret. I am not condemning her as my own family did the same in reference to my mom. Secrets and cover-ups make people sick, keep them from addressing the problem, and can lead to suicide and sometimes, death.
Can you blame him?
No, can’t blame Mike for taking action if she is blowing the money but I can see Scheena retaliating by going crazy and cancelling credit cards. Even if the credit cards are jointly held, one partner has authority to cancel a card if you check the right box on the application. I’m sure she just had Mike sign. Maybe like Tre and Juicy.
That marriage was doomed from the start! Hopefully Mike will see the light and find his own happiness.
There’s hope for him if he never goes back. She was sucking all the air out of the room and suffocating him.
I defitnely think it’s manufactured drama like you question. Most of this show is manufactured though I still tune in as a guilty pleasure. I don’t buy the original drug addiction which is why I think he still drank etc. I think it was her poor explanation on a storyline.” Oh yeah he’s an addict with pills, but the reason he is still drinking on camera is because that’s different”… just a poor excuse because it was fake. I’m totally guessing this though.
However My “friend’s” (clearly not me) spouse worked on promos with some of the cast including Sheena and they were all friends and getting along just fine (at a time publicly they were not). And allegedly they like extra curricular activities. So I don’t think she is caring about him using a few pills.
Seems like pure publicity.
Any updates ? Hoping Mike Shay has been found safe and sound.
I’m waiting for updates, too. Hope he is well and this is all for “story.”
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!! Scheana’s just pissed because he left her and she can’t bear for the public to think one ounce of their relationship issues are her fault. She planted this story when she realized he was gone so she could get the first word out and make herself look like the victim. Good for him for leaving, better of him for taking the money from the bank after she cut off all his credit cards. He was probably sick of what little money they had going to fund her Botox & clothes/shoes/purses that she felt she had to buy to impress the public even though they were out of her price range. I always felt bad for him. Especially after she said she found out he was an addict and said (on national tv!!) that she could never be with a sober person. She’s awful.
Thank goodness for TT’s purple pen and past links she posts in the story. Cause, dayum I missed the lawsuit pot story, looks like I’m a slacker ? What came of it??
I’ve been waiting for months for Pump Rules to come back on ! So happy about that part, but this story is sad. Not unexpected, but still sad.
I hope Shay is okay and that he finds his way to a peaceful life somewhere where he can be healthy and happy. As much as I love L.A., I think the temptation there is too great and he needs to go back to where he grew up, at least for awhile.
I’ll be praying for him.
I really felt he was doomed the minute I saw how she responded to the addiction situation. She seemed clueless and didn’t seem like she was seeking to educate herself. Recovery is hard enough when all parties are informed and willing, nearly impossible, nevermind when one half of the couple is clueless and the other can’t or won’t speak up for or help himself. I feel terribly for him, less so for her.
Anyone called Glanville? We all know how she loves the revenge!
In this game all categories the are Sheana.