I wasn’t even going to recap this today but I thought I should at least give you a bit of what sort of irked me about the whole thing. I’ve already deleted the show so I’ll just hit the highlights.
First of all Wendy and Siggy are quite fond of each other. I would say they are friends, but they are not. Wendy doesn’t have many friends. Just a couple here and there she has known all of her life. She is a lot like Kim Biermann in that way. Both of them are very tight with their families and don’t entertain guests and rarely go out with anyone except their husbands. However, this was the seventeenth time that Siggy has been on the show. It was her first time on the couch. Previously, she had been part of a panel or the “relationship expert.”
I really started out this season of RHONJ with an open mind when it came to the two new women. After watching the season I don’t see that either one brings a lot to the show. I do find Dolores likable. I can’t say the same for Siggy. I actually fast forward through her scenes when I am running behind. I don’t do that when recapping any other show.
Wendy told Siggy that she doesn’t think she is a good fit for reality TV. Siggy says that she is the best person ever to be on RHONJ. Oh, yes she did. She says that she doesn’t like that RHOBH gets to be classy (making it abundantly clear she doesn’t watch RHOBH) and that Jersey always has to be rolling in the gutter. She is the beacon of light. She is classy one. She is doing God’s work. I don’t remember her exact words but that was the gist of it. Oh and she seemed to be comparing herself to the ever so klassy Lisa Vanderpump. Then she said that the RHOBH could not afford the taxes in New Jersey.
Siggy went on and on about how she is the person who is not interested in fights from six years ago. She doesn’t want to rehash all of their issues from when she was not around. Except she does. She must have forgotten under the hot lights of the Wendy Williams set that she inserts herself in every altercation. Then she makes it about herself. Then she cries.
She’s annoying.
Yet on that Wendy couch she could not give herself enough accolades about how great she is on the show and how she (and sometimes she would include Dolores) were the best thing to ever happen to that show.
I say Siggy Flicker is too much, and I’m absolutely right.
Haha! Yes you are right dear.
That was a “too cute” moment. Like something an adorable little kid would say. Ahhhh! I love it!
Baaaaa!!!! NJ is a piece of ? compared to CA!!!
Bless her heart. And I mean that as patronizing as I possibly can.
If she doesn’t think she’s a good fit for NJ, does that mean we won’t have to see her on the next season shrieking and giving her talking head psychoanalysis of everyone and every situation? That would be the best outcome for me.
She doesn’t seem to fit in to the group that is standing now. When Andy held out for Teresa’s return, he made the show all about Teresa and all her old, friends, and old storylines. There is nowhere for Siggy to fit in to that mix.
It is one thing to think you are the ‘best’ and profess those feelings to your husband, but to declare that she is the unilateral winner is delusional. These housewives think that they’re rockstars, big celebrities and don’t seem to get that they are pawns in Andy Cohen’s success. When the housewives finally sign off for good, what will most of these women do for income? Who will want to hire them?
thank you for already saying what i would have said .. This Siggy “thing” is beyond awful. Jesus, if ever there was a case of High self esteem, she’s got it in spades This woman believes, actually BELIEVES, that the sun, moon, stars, etc rise and set out of her perfect, plastic tuchus; and that none of us could exist or succeed without her. And she actually contributes precious little to the show. She is fake as F__ — and not just in the plastic surgery sense. I mean that her constant gushing about how she loves this one and adores that one is painfully and obviously phony. Argh — we SEE you !!! and you’re phony as hell. Who the hell did you pay off, bribe, blow, etc to get on the show ? cuz you ain’t making it on talent , looks or likeability, Lady. And, PS, you are tragically immature….. about the level of a 4 year old. Your crying, pouting, whining, yee gads, you are absolute torture to watch AND to listen to. I’m guessing you’re a cousin of Andy’s or something…..or else how in hell did you get on this show ? Well there IS the mobster angle. Wouldn’t surprise me if your husband is one. Just as with “mob wives”….. these cast members are linked to, married to, or in some cases actually ARE or were real mafiosi. We’re all supposed to wink and nudge about it — like it’s on the DL, but all of us in the NYC metro area KNOW. C’mon, Drita came right out with it….. same with that loser who ratted on everyone with his secret Watch-cam gizmo — what a piece of dog crap !! Anyway, siggy can’t get the heave ho quick enough. NO ONE LIKES THIS WOMAN. But it IS entertaining to watch her seethe with jealousy over Theresa and especially over Marge. Good Lord, you can feel her staring daggers at these ladies because they have everything Siggy does not and she can’t stand it !!! Maybe it’s petty, but i looovve to watch Ziggy writhe with jealousy. She believes that because she is “attractive” (in her view), younger and has a raucus personality, she will be the top dog on the show. But you can’t keep a real chick down !!! Marge beats the stuffing out of that fake b___ any day. Marge is genuine, has a terrific — NATURAL — personality, and a fantastic sense of humour. She is honest and truthful, a straight shooter and doesn’t take herself too seriously. Most importantly, she is a “girl’s girl” — she is great company and you can clearly see that all of the other women genuinely like her. They don’t put up with her, they WANT to be around her. This makes Siggy WILD with jealousy because, no matter what she fakes, how phony she acts or what plastic part she puts on her body, she can’t compete with Marge — Marge will always win; hands down, and Siggy hates that !! The lesson of “just be yourself” is totally lost on Siggy. Even with Marge’s silly hair-do’s, not so perfect fashion sense, and “curvy” (maybe a little thick) figure, she is what people want. Her husband worships her, the fans adore her, and the cast members do too. All of this sends Ziggy right over the edge….. the hate and jealousy that she feels toward Marge are palpable. Sadly, this causes Ziggy to lash out viciously at Marge. Luckily, i think Marge can take it AND dish it out. I hope she is not meek, but cuts Ziggy off at the knees — just as that bullying, vicious hag so deserves. I still have more to say, but will call it a wrap. What a pain in the ass that woman is !!! Nothing is her fault, she has an excuse for everything, Good God, she disgusts me. She’s got to go !!! Just one reason why (aside from the very unlikable traits listed above) is that, i’m basically “Joe, average viewer” …. meaning i give people a fair shot till they prove they don’t deserve it — i try to stay neutral. Now, if Ziggy has turned me off to this extent, and i’m a typical / average viewer, multiply me by 20 million other viewers and you’ve got one very disliked….. no, HATED, cast-member. Get her on board the next shuttle to the sun — she is repulsive. You know it’s bad when you try to think of ONE single likeable thing and you STILL come up empty. Even the mortifying way she behaves toward her children is beyond cringe-worthy. They will need therapy for life now. These unpleasant behaviours point very strongly to “siggy” being a narcissist. Every scene is all about her, all the time….. “me, me, me,” ” I, I, I…” Stop and pay attention, count the times she’s soley focused on herself — bet it’s all the time. And the stuff listed here are just her GOOD points !!! eek. If i’m forced to see her on the show anymore, i WILL refuse to watch until she is jettisoned. She doesn’t belong. NOBODY LIKES HER. No foolin.’
Puke.
I saw it. I was thinking, this yente really wants to come back next year. I disagree with Wendy about most everything, but she was right about this. Wendy is all about her abusive, philandering husband, and her son. I hear rumors about how no one is ever invited to her home, even people she has worked with for years. She is really stringent about dividing her family from friends and works. I was raised completely different. Friends are family, in some cases, more than blood relatives.
I agree with you LisaPat about Wendy, but I think it’s her husband who is controlling and has drawn that line in the sand to separate her. That’s what an abuser does, they isolate you, so you have no one but them.
You are probably right , but she goes along with it. We know people who are related to that loony Suzanne and Oy Vey, the stories !!
This is off topic, but when my son was little we were at Burger King and she came rolling up in a Bentley, sporting a huge fur coat, thigh high boots and a biggest Louis Vuitton Bag I’ve ever seen. She was with her son but he didn’t get much attention. I live outside NY and my town has a quite a few famous people but they’re all VERY low key and into their kids. This was really amusing, she was loud and clearly wanted people to look at her. I don’t think anybody knew who she was, it was mostly old people and a few exhausted moms. I just remember the flamboyance – look at me!!!!
The way you described Wendy puts the image of Cruella Deville in my head. Did Wendy’s coat have black spots by any chance?
I think they are the worst HW’s in RHONJ history – yes, worse than Amber & the twins – THE WORST!!!
Oh my lord. Worse than Amber? I didn’t think that was humanly possible.
I know, Minky – yet, I stand by my statement 🙂 At least, Amber brought some drama; versus the eternal snoozefest that is Siggy, Dolores & their respective families 😉
Wow!! I can’t stand Siggy but I’d still take her over Amber and/or those twins.
Dolores is alright.
Who is telling Siggy that she is so great? It damn sure isnt her kids, they tell her the truth about herself. Shes an annoying delusional loudmouth.
obviously “sig” is telling HERself that she’s the best and most talented human being on the planet. Jesus, this chick’s self esteem is TOO high. What an egomaniac. And the scene during her speaking engagement when she says “i’m sure you all think everything’s so easy for me cuz look at me, i look like a sex toy….” NO, we aren’t thinking that. We’re thinking you are so self-involved and such a horrible braggart that it’s sickening. PUH-leeze send this woman back into obscurity. She’s addicted to the limelight she’s getting and it has created an intolerable monster. She really believes she’s Angelina Jolie, Barbra streisand and Ann Landers all in one.. She’s awful. Nobody else exists in her mind except her. Go away Siggy Flicker. And the way she fawns all over people for no good reason, laying it on wayyy too thick….. Good Lord, i can’t remember when i’ve seen a bigger phony. Good job if you’re trying to send viewers away in droves, because that’s what she’s making ME do..
She said RHOB can’t afford New Jersey taxes?……..either can the Guidices!!!! Hee hee, just joking to end this dreadful week commenting. Xo
And the Gorgas and the Lauritas…I think they’ve all had back taxes issues.
I think she and Wendy bond about husband and children above all else regardless of what anyone else says. Wendy is extremely private about her husband and rarely mentions him when talking about events she attends. He really manages her both personally and professionally and she loves it! Siggy seems to agree with her. Strange relationship are around!
Nobody else has said this, so I will: Where the fuck is Victoria Gotti?!!! I want to watch what would happen if Teresa pissed off Victoria. That would tickle me. Yes. I am a bitch. But so what?
From your mouth, Minky, to the ear of John Gotti’s ghost … if only this could happen. A girl can dream.
YAAAAASSSS!
another thing that people seem to avoid saying is that these people ARE mob affiliated. When you do the research, you find pretty unsavory things, i.e. “tiny” manzo. They should at least be more honest about their relatives and their pasts. To hear that Holier than thou Caroline insult the heck out of Danielle for HER past when the manzo’s clearly have questionable things in THEIR closets; her hypocrisy is GROSS. You aren’t fooling us Caroline. And you’re “lady Godfather” act is really ridiculous. Maybe you should dial down the testosterone, girl, cuz it’s not flattering at ALL when you act all manly and tough. I happen to think she’s a loving and wonderful mom, but her “tough guy” gangster act is just laughable.
I don’t enjoy Siggy. She tries way too hard and the scenes with her children are so fake and forced.
Ditto, iv!
I don’t mind Siggy. Dolores is boring.
Nails on a chalkboard voice, TMI w her kids, who the hell is she kidding??? She will be back if they renew this shit show but wait until it’s her turn to be thrown under the bus, outed for tax evasion, or hawking faux beauty cream on HSN. With our luck she will discover her long lost dream of being a singer, its about time for another housewife to have a single drop. To this day I still hum don’t be tardy!
I was annoyed that she said, this is what 50 looks like. Then she started talking about her facelift. I don’t care if she got one, but most 50 year old women cannot afford a facelift. That is not something most women in America in their 50’s can afford to do. She looks great, but she is not a common representation of the average women at 50.
she does NOT look great !!! she looks very “worked on.” the hair is fake, the face pulled, injected, full of fillers and probably a chin implant, etc…..Tons of make up, lip enlargement, etc. I wish you could be in my room right now….. i’ve had nothing done, just taking vitamins and doing the best i can for myself with exercise / food, etc…. My version of 55 really DOES look like 35 and this is natural. I can take credit for looking good. Siggy has money and a glam squad, plastic surgeon, hair extensions, etc….. i can’t really say that she deserves credit for her look. It’s manufactured, plastic, fake as F___. Even with all of that said, i don’t find this woman pretty. sorry.I’d rather look at Dolores….. and i think she’s had less phony/ plastic stuff done to her.. I’ll drop out now before i mention Danielle, Theresa, etc. I can say though that Marge really is a delight, has probably had the least amount of fake stuff done, and yet really comes off very sexy and pretty in her own way….. this comes from being happy and liking herself…… also, as some wise person once said “her personality makes her prettier.” Amen
Jesus, how do you people not realise how Klassy she is? Mostly, when I meet a Lady or a Baroness, they look like a Muppet.
That said, Dolores’ son is ridiculously HAWT. 100% LEGAL IN the UK, honest. *small drool*
yeah, this is NOT P.C., but i’m gonna put it out there. I doubt very much that Dolores’s son will be shown seriously dating ANY girl/ female / woman. I really believe he’s gay. And NO, there’s nothing wrong with that, but all the women wanting him will have to stay in fantasy-land. It’s just the vibe that comes across and i believe i’m right. Time will tell.
I, also, am Klassy. Klearly. I’m sorry. *hangs head in shame*
Looks like Siggy is believing her own Twitter hype. She retweets ‘dolores and siggy are the best thing to ever happen to rhonj’ all day.
Miss relationship expert introduced her son at a party as the guy who came out of her “cookie” and then went on to say how long he breast fed. Oh no, he won’t be messed up.
Ewwww!
As long as she’s keeping it classy.
She clearly doesn’t watch BH or is too dumb to only observe it at surface level. LVP is the queen manipulator. If she wants to be LVP, she needs to work a bit harder at being devious. and she needs to drop the BS relationship expert stuff.
I agree with every single thing you said, TT. I am so glad you took the time to post this because I was so irritated by her arrogance. I also fast fwd through all of her scenes. I hope bravo dumps her.
Victoria Gotti would be a good addition along with Danielle. Both very messy and entertaining!
Publc opinion poll, who’s the best housewife ever? You may choose only one.
Ummm yeah, may take a minute or 60 to figure that out 🙂
Oh god. That’s a tough one. Sometimes I feel like I’m the president of the Team Twirl Fan Club, but I wouldn’t pick Kenya. She gets the silver medal. And I’ll say Brandi Glanville gets bronze.
It’s got to be LVP for the gold. Don’t ask me why. I just think she’s has earned it. She can think circles around most of these other bitches in BH. Cold as ice and sharp as a tack.
Yeah, Minky, I agree, putting 5minutes into it probably won’t change if I put an hour into. I think Kyle is maybe a close second.
I think legit wealth wins above all!
Up the ante, whose’s the worst? Again, pick only one. Nice to be a devil at halloween.
Okay TD, I definitely need time for this, only one? Jeez, tough one. 🙂
Can we do categories? There are just too many 🙂
Most obnoxious has to be the twins or Soggy. Just my opinion.
Cateogries? The good, the bad and the ugly to the bone. Now there are three choices.
Take all the time needed. Just names.
I’m gonna say Carlton, most unnecessary housewife. Along with Quinn.
Sorry T D great question, I just can’t narrow down, FAIL on my part. 🙁
I disagree, I think “most unnecessary house wife” should be shared amongt Dana Wilkey (RHOBH) and Cindy Barshop (RHONY). Those two werent even memorable.
Double, double toil and trouble it’s fun to stir the cauldron. Far better to be treated than tricked.
So you’re all gonna stick with Siggy, like holding eleven in blackjack?
no one wants that screeching egomaniac. Dump her. Stat. Not kidding. She is loathsome to see OR hear. Margaret is far funnier, way more real, much more entertaining. That is what Siggy can’t stand…… that Margaret is much more fun to watch….. Siggy’s jealous. Too bad. Keep Margaret, send the other hag back to Boca where she can continue to scream in restaurants at the top of her lungs and insist that that is “normal” behavior because it’s “her town.” Good God, give to me a break.
She also said, EVERYONE needs a Siggy in their lives… No, We don’t…
BLECH!