Yesterday I heard some news that I really did not want to believe. Kenya Moore and Matt Jordan have broken up. As you know I wanted to verify the situation and see what the actual facts are, and it has taken me some time to reach out to people who are closest with Kenya.
TamaraTattles can confirm that the relationship is over.
Last night Kenya took down all of the photos of Matt from her Instagram. Matt set his account to private and I believe that Kenya has now done so as well.
The information I have to share is that the couple returned from their tropical weekend get away and returned to Atlanta so that Kenya could return to her busy work schedule. Kenya had a short turn around time before she had to fly off to a job in NYC.
They say if you really want to get to know someone you should travel with them. And by all appearances on Instagram things appeared to be going well. But perhaps Kenya had some time to reflect on the relationship and how she saw her future and felt something was not as she wanted because when they returned, she was ready to break up with him.
I did speak with a source very close to Kenya who was unable to give me too many details. In fact, I didn’t really need or want to know the details of someone else’s breakup. I just wanted to know if Kenya was okay. I can assure you that Kenya is just fine and already hard at work on a new project in NYC, in addition to her duties on RHOA which begins filming next week. She will be working both projects at the same time for a short amount of overlap and will be running up her Delta Skymiles commuting between ATL and LGA. I am sure that she is standing strong in her decision and is doing what is right for her.
Matt has posted on his Instagram,
Looking back, I blame myself totally. I learned very late in the relationship that a woman will not trust a man fully if he seems irresponsible or not up to standard in areas of a relationship. If she doesn’t feel like she can put trust in a man emotionally, spiritually, financially, etc. That will cause a woman to feel resentment and most of all untrusting in her man. Because of what he lacks she doesn’t feel like she will be properly protected or served. So a woman will feel like she cannot give her all to a man that is unstable or irresponsible in areas of the relationship, causing her to go inward emotionally. I was in denial of my flaws until late in the relationship. It causes me to feel untrusting in her because I did not feel like I had her full love and attention. I didn’t realize I created my own circumstances. It’s crazy the way life can show you your own flaws, making you look at yourself in the mirror.
To the men out there, Brothers in particular, being a real man is a lot more than just being a strong physical dominating presence and opening doors for her.
In addition, just for the record, infidelity or cheating was never one of our problems.
It seems that both Kenya and Matt that perhaps he has some growing up to do before he can be effective in the role that she had considered him for. I would imagine that undergoing IVF is a difficult process and also on that makes you evaluate all aspects of your life and what you want for your future child.
After some effort was put into the relationship it just seems like Kenya decided that Matt was not yet ready to assume the responsibilities that a serious relationship brings. Matt himself makes it clear that he was not the mature, responsible partner that Kenya needs.
As for why Kenya took down all the photos of Matt from her site, Matt says that was at his request.
He again talks about his immaturity. Leading me to believe that was truly what was at the center of Kenya’s decision.
I know that some of you have been emailing me since last night asking about Kenya. While I haven’t spoken to her directly I have spoken to someone very close to her who assure us all not to worry. Kenya is fine and very busy and focused on her work and her life and staying healthy.
I didn’t get the first hint of any IVF news….
I will say that Kenya is a strong and brave woman for making the decision to end a relationship that she didn’t see working out. Especially, now, just before filming begins. You know those good Christian women will be trash talking her all over the place. But when it comes to our girl Kenya. Life Twirls On…