“Move on,” says the woman who still calls herself a Countess more than a half-decade after her marriage ended. If she was going for comedy, I’d laugh. Really, I would. We’d all laugh, but she isn’t.
Wow, someone is really fixated on the Countess thing. What difference does it make to you if she calls herself the Queen of England?
“Moving on” is a concept invented by Housewives. Housewives who behave so appallingly all they can do is say they are moving on, preferably in a place where everyone can hear them.
Really? You think the housewives invented moving on? The large majority of people in therapy are there because they can’t move on. The loss of a loved one, childhood trauma, divorce, losing out on a big promotion, getting fired, whatever the issue is, the goal of therapy is to put a period to mark the end and move on.
To stay put and acknowledge that their actions have consequences and to accept responsibility is simply too painful for this particular brand of narcissist. And not only do they say they’ve moved on, they actually brag about it. They are proud of their ability to move on. “Look how evolved I am,” they seem to be saying, “I can simply move on without regrets.”
They should be proud. The ability to move on is a valuable life skill.
LOL. It’s Housewife speak for: I said something rude and don’t want to admit it by apologizing or even risk bringing it up again but I am obligated to see you so I’ll say I’ve moved on. The fans and viewers of the show are not stupid. Delusion and denial does not equal an apology.
You’re right, about that. Delusion and denial is not an apology but that is exactly what you do. You tweet mean things about LuAnn. You retweet mean things about LuAnn. And to this day you are still ranting on Twitter all the while calling yourself a class act. That seems a bit narcissistic to me.
But “The Housewife Narcissist” is committed to her superficiality. She banks on her ability to scratch her surface and see only more surface. THN doesn’t live in the past — for her there is no past because you are accountable for your past –- the good, the bad, and the ugly. For THN there is only, “What am I doing right now?”
Yes, dear. This is called “mindfulness” it’s all the rage in the therapy and self help realms. It’s the basis of meditation. It’s actually quite a difficult thing to accomplish. Most people, like you, wallow in the past angry about transgression from last year. Dwelling on how offended you are that someone said something to you that you did not like, LAST YEAR. Still others worry about what may offend them in the future. Living in the now, leaving the past in the past and not borrowing problems from the future is a great life skill.
I’m guessing you think of the Countess every time you take your little boytoy to bed. That must suck.
THN has a lifetime of experience running from one relationship to the next, one friend to another. Running from taking responsibility for what they do and what they say without ever looking back to witness the destruction they leave in their wake. They are always pointing their fingers toward someone else. Moving on.
Reality check, ladies. Your actions and your choices are yours alone.
Wow, you seem really butt hurt over Luann being pissed off that you started sleeping with her niece’s exboyfriend. She is allowed to feel however she wants to about that.
Who calls a friend a pedophile — after making light of her having no children -– who continues with a list of misogynistic bullshit and then moves on without a modicum of regret or apology? Who continued to trash-talk me, my boyfriend, and my business until the very day, eight months later, when the cameras were turned back on and suddenly THN was chasing me around a birthday party with a hula-hoop asking me to move on with her. Thing is, I had moved on, long ago. I didn’t need her apology but I couldn’t believe she didn’t give one. Unlike THN, I live in the real world where it’s impossible to accept an imaginary apology.
Wait? You have a business? Is it called Sitting Around Being Perpetually Offended, LLC? You are now offended that she didn’t give you an apology? How is it possible to be so immensely offended every second of the day?
To quote my mentor and idol, Taylor Swift, “Band-aids don’t fix bullet holes and she says sorry just for show.” Get it? Wink, Wink… #realgirlcode
This is a joke, right? If you’re going for comedy, I’d laugh. Really, I would. We’d all laugh.