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Alexis Bellino has apologized to Tamra Judge for coming across as judgmental in her email to Tamra (Via Andy) on the reunion. (SEE ABOVE VIDEO) She posted the following to her Instagram.
“I can see how my email might have come came across judgmental last night on RHOC, and I’m sorry about that, that was not my heart. @tamrajudge I’m sorry for sounding judgmental. Andy did not read this part of my email, ‘I truly hope Tamra has found the Lord because He will be the most invaluable precious thing she will ever have in life.’ THAT is my heart. God is a God of miracles, so I was hopeful and praying He would call the person who criticized me the most for my faith to His Kingdom one day. I was not trying to judge Tamra, I just wanted to make sure this was all coming from a good place, so please do not judge me. The Bible is clear that we are to hold each other accountable as sisters in Christ. I am imperfect and human, but I am steadfast in my faith and the Lord laid this conviction on my heart.”
It seems the art of an apology has been lost. The entire comment appears to be in reaction to others judging her judgmental behavior. Then she denies being judgmental herself, blames Andy Cohen, declares her our virtue in forgiving the person who criticized her, and then demands that people stop judging her. She then ends the whole thing by saying that the Bible says that Christians must hold each other accountable. Is that how apologies are supposed to go these days?
I haven’t seen Tamra do the Christian thing and accept her apology. I believe she is busy doing interviews condemning her former BFF to hell along with her BFF’s former boyfriend. More on that in a moment…
Onward Christian soldiers I suppose….
UPDATED:
Shorty after this was posted I was informed that , Tamra shared the text she allegedly sent Alexis during the filming with Bravo’s The Dish today.
But what they didn’t see was a text exchange Tamra and Alexis had during the taping. “I wanted to reach out to her as a fellow Christian and just say to her, well I’ll tell you what I said,” Tamra shared of her decision to contact Alexis during the taping. “I said, ‘As a Christian, I’m confused on your judgement. I would think you would be uplifting and encouraging of my decision. I have also learned that just because you’re a Christian doesn’t mean that you are perfect, so I forgive you. As you know, as a new Christian, it’s an amazing journey and I now see what you were so excited to share on the show…. I’m sorry for any pain that I caused you and I truly wish you nothing but a blessed life. Maybe one day we could sit down and talk.’ And then I put Luke 6:37, basically, ‘Thou shall not judge.'”
Anyone who thinks Tamra texted that during the reunion filming is quite gullible indeed.
I always found Alexis fun to watch( & so much like the infamous Heathers Dubrow as of late ) it’s frighteningly familiar behavior & I am not surprised about her non apologetic apology! I have absolute faith & yet even I laughed out loud at the JESUS JUGS slur!
Lol. Onward Christian Soldiers….now that tune is stuck in my head from Bible School days!!!! I actually found Alwxis tolerable if not silly and overly sensitive. I do find it mildly amusing that she seems to have forgotten the portions of the Bible that deal with modesty, excess, and humility.
Lol exactly! It’s pick and choose Christianity which I’m personally in favor of, but touché!
Onward Christian Soldiers…perfect!
Or…Onward Spiritual Gangsters. Same difference.
Onward Spiritual Gangsters–love it!
tamara can dish it out; but she surely cannot take it. alexis, is a beautiful person.
tamara was always jealous of everything about her. she looked like the trailer
trash that she still is today, when filming w/alexis.
You mean Tamra can’t take it. Our dear Tamara can take as well as she gives. You need to take advantage of your shift key.
Grammar and capitalization police is in full force I see. LOL
I think Tamra said plenty with her comment on the reunion about Alexis being the kind of person, or maybe it was the kind of Christian, that gives Christians a bad name. I bet her “pasture” regrets doing her baptism on that shit show.
Tamra will never stop being competetive. Being Christian for a minute, she thinks she is an authority. Tamra will only end this argument to boost her appearance of (fake) goodness. #Barf
I recommend Meghan put that “#” on a necklace. She is taking orders.
She should have picket an obscure religion rather than Christianity. That way when she pulls stunts and makes shit up about her new fund faith it would be harder for people to notice. Maybe if she had become a Rastafarian? Hmm?
*found faith. Sorry.
*picked. Double sorry.
Those two horrifying me.
Like attracts like. Amen.
Over the years my son who is now 16 has ended up watching endless hours of the bravo shit shows. He has never liked Tamra, calling her evil to the core, nasty bitch and other things. When she has her baptism, he was horrified. My son is newer in his faith, and I am very proud of him and how he chose this on his own. His impression was that Alexis “roasted” the witch. He has watched almost as much of this as I have and he is sad that Tamra is using faith as weapon and a way to make herself look better. I agree.
Alexis is so tiresome. I miss her not one bit. I thought Lydia was good though, she provided good balance for the crazy.
Alexis does not understand the definition of the word “apology.”. Maybe it was not on her vocabulary list from Jim this week.
Oh, vomit. Why not call or text Tamra privately and say, “I’m sorry, I wish you well.” Because Jugs has designs on coming back in some capacity? I’m guessing that’s why she contacted Andy.
Being the Christian that Alexis claims to be, she shouldn’t have emailed the comment to Tamra. However, maybe she felt Tamra was being a bit hypocritical after calling her Jesus Jugs. Yet we’re all sinners even if we are saved lol. This sounds judgy on my part but I find it funny that Tamra doesn’t know the difference between “pastor” and “pasture” and now all of a sudden she’s a spiritual gangsta. Her choice to hold her baptism at a hotel swimming pool and her statement to those who questioned her to “suck it” were also firsts for me. I mean everyone has their own experience when asking God into their heart and life. I’ve just never heard of anyone inviting Him to a cocktail party afterwards to celebrate. Who am I to question her relationship with God? No one. That is between Tamra and Him and for her sake I hope it is real. In the same tone who was she to question Vicki and as a Christian not be there for her when she was going through her mother’s death? No one.
All of you are a bunch of misguided, narcissistic women who have no idea AT ALL of what it truly means to follow Christ. You flaunt your money/possesions/cars/houses and diamonds as well as your physical assets (boobs and butts) on T.V. as you cut down and compete with each other and say and do the most UNCHRISTIAN things to one another. Alexis, Tamra, NEITHER ONE of you know what it means to be a true Christian.
Thank GOD you have arrived. We all need another judgmental Christian to join the chorus of finger pointing and screaming that the other is doing religion wrong.
Alexis is an idiot, but Tamra is just so gross.
Leave it to Andy to read what he wanted to read.
Fighting over Jesus. Just shut up both of you.
It would be nice if those who are always talking about their Christianity practiced more of what Jesus preached.
Having said that, I am sure there are many people of all faiths scratching their heads at Tamra’s conversion. No matter what you think of Alexis I never doubted her sincerity.
I personally knew from day one that Tamra was a flake. She had her Baptism before she really even showed her Christian side. That was the first mess up. It seemed like she had no story line until the Jesus bid. Secondly, a pasture? ? I thought those were like fields. Didn’t know they did baptisms. The whole baptism seemed like a wedding. Although we’re not perfect, we shouldn’t go around acting like our old selves then saying oh, I’m a work in progress…nobody’s perfect…that’s where you messed up. Pretty much it seems like Someone gave Tamra a script and said act like a Christian and she tried to be the best Christian she could think of.
It seems like some one gave Tamra a role as a Christian and tried the best way she could…all she did was make a mockery of those religious Christians, not spiritual Christians. She made me so mad I had to pray to God to hold her accountable if she is lying. Last time I checked, there were no Jesus Lovers in hollyweird. Last I checked when you make a deal to be rich and famous you lose the biggest relationship which is with God because these reality broads are built to deceive the masses. If this is real, Tamra won’t be on the show next season. If she is, it is a mockery. Satan doesn’t like when you make a deal with him and then changed your mind. He will make you pay.
Seriously? No Jesus lovers in Hollywood since last time you checked? How exactly does one go about checking millions of people to see if they really love Jesus or not? You’re bizarre and your grammar is attrocious.