This week’s Bravo Blogs with the exception of Lizzie’s are all attacks on Vicki. And out latest Jesus Freak’s blog is not exception. He long was incredibly long this week so I have spared you all the baptism stuff about how she is a better person now and get straight to the part where she calls her BBF a liar and a bad friend. The friendship contract has been ripped up. Somehow I find this to be good news for Vicki.
When Rhonda brought up David’s affair that was a LOW BLOW. Clearly she heard it from Vicki and knew it would get Shannon upset. All season we listen to Vicki claiming that Shannon was NOT a good friend, which none of us could understand. Shannon was the LAST one to think that Brooks was lying and never really said anything more than “why didn’t he go to my doctor?” and “why didn’t they show her his scan?” Which are normal questions…right? No. No those are not normal questions. They are meddling questions that Vicki does not have to answer. Also, Shannon didn’t just ask to questions. She relentlessly went on and on about Brooks’ cancer treatment even after Vicki begged to please give it a rest. That is not a good friend.
Vicki claims that she is most hurt by Shannon because she was closest to Shannon. Hmmm, so why did Vicki choose me to look at Brooks’ scan? Oh that’s right because…”Tamra is closest to me” (her words), which one is it Vicki? This may be the most ridiculous comment Tamra has ever made.
I’m starting to think that Vicki just says what’s good at the moment. So many contradictions! Kind of like you do?
So let’s get one thing straight, all season long Vicki knew about David’s affair because Shannon confirmed it to her. The rest of the ladies heard rumors BUT NO ONE KNEW FOR SURE. It wasn’t until right before my Baptism that Shannon told Heather and me. So I found it weird that Vicki said she told Rhonda because Shannon was telling people. That is not what Vicki said. She said she told Billy and Rhonda what everyone’s storyline was this season so they would know the details of the scene they were walking into. David’s affair and Brooks cancer were the two main storylines of the season. It’s hardly classified information at the point Billy and Rhonda showed up. That is simply not true. I didn’t tell Vicki that I knew until after the night of my baptism when she called me to talk about what happened. So she called you and the two of you sorted things out.
By the time of my baptism no one cared if Brooks was lying about cancer or not. Are you insane? That is all anyone cared about this season. Even Vicki’s mother dying didn’t slow down everyone’s investigation into Brooks’ cancer treatment. What was on everyone’s mind was, “If Brooks is lying then Vicki knows and our friend Vicki is lying to us.” IT WASN’T ABOUT BROOKS ANYMORE, IT WAS ABOUT VICKI!
Now I have so many mixed feelings about this.
I have kept it NO secret that I did NOT like Brooks, he’s been caught in so many lies and I never trusted him. Most of her own family didn’t trust him. One thing that I have is good intuition and I can read someone like a book, just ask my husband and Heather. Your current husband who may or may not be gay? Or the abusive one you married before this one. Which one can attest to your good judgment again? I have also learned that you can’t force someone to see what you see, it will happen in due time. The more you try to expose someone for their lies the more you look bad (take note Meghan). So I told Vicki that I would accept the fact that they were together and if she was happy, I was happy for her. So, I gave up the fight. Actually, you set up a birthday party for him at CUT with the sole purpose of grilling him about his treatment plan.
What really upsets me is that Vicki made it her job the past three years to try to make ME out to be the bad guy because I didn’t trust Brooks. Vicki doesn’t need to make you look like the bad guy. You are the bad guy. There are actually a lot of bad guys this season so you really needed to up your game.She warned every new Housewife to watch out for me and that I was a backstabber and a bad friend. That is because you are a backstabber and a bad friend. After being warned the ladies would ask me why I didn’t like Brooks and I would simple say “I think there is someone better for her”, I am NOT a backstabber and I always look out for my friends. In the past if I knew you were lying or a fake I would expose you like a bad pair of shoes. Now a days I have learned that the truth always comes out and it’s not my job to prove it. When exactly did that transition happen? Because it seems that you are still trying to expose the truth right now in this blog!
As far as I am concerned I am not the backstabber or the bad friend Vicki, YOU ARE! There is nothing worse than covering for a man that is lying about something as serious as cancer and especially to the extent it was taken too. Are you sure there is nothing worse? Would making false claims about someone faking cancer be worse? I know you guys didn’t hear all the inconsistent stories that we heard, but you did get to hear this doozy: “Brooks was so sick after chemo that Vicki called Terry Dubrow and he sent over a doctor to administer an IV.” She told that to Briana and to Shannon back in October before we even started filming. So does that mean Vicki knew Brooks was lying about having cancer before we even started filming? Are they both in on it? You will have to wait until the three-part reunion for those answers. And we won’t get any answers because despite you guys trying to prove the guy isn’t sick, you have no way of proving that!
I think the worst part is Vicki tossed her own daughter under the bus and called her a sh** stirrer for a lie Vicki clearly told. Brianna is a shit stirrer.
All year I was there to support Vicki, even though I thought in the back of mind something didn’t add up. I constantly called and texted checking up on her, even following the filming of the reunion a few weeks ago. But after everything that’’s happened and hearing her say on WWHL Monday night that “none of us were there for her” for the second time, I have decided to cut Vicki from my life. Yes, that is clearly a reason to dump a friend because they said no of you were there for her. Maybe that is the way that she felt? I just can’t do this anymore, it’s emotionally exhausting and I don’t trust her. All I wanted was to be there for her and everyone in my life warned me (even my husband) that Vicki is out for one person and one person only and that is…VICKI GUNVALSON! This must be shocking news to you! I mean self-absorbed people in Orange County must be rare as hen’s teeth!
I wish her a blessed life, I just don’t choose to be in her life right now. This can only be a good thing, for Vicki.