Shannon and David Beador have taken the girls on a last minute vacation to Hawaii with the girls before school starts!
Shannon’s Instagram is full of pictures of their trip. Check out a sample above.
Is it me or do David’s eyes look weird? He seems to have lost a lot of weight and seems unhealthy.
David’s hair is a bit more gray. Gray hair makes anyone look like crap, that’s what it does. That’s why dye is such a big seller.
Thats true. I like David’s hair with the highlights and just a bit of grey showing. But hes gorgious all the same. His body looks awesome and I love his eyes. Hes got bedroom eyes to me. Shannon looks great in her bikini and looks to be having a great time and isnt self consience looking. That’s great. I agree with the other poster about having to forget about an affair. The wronged person haa to eventually practice amnesia. Get some anger out. But dont let it swallow you up, and create new good memories to replace it with. This crisis could definatly make them better, if theres enough love left. Sometimes the bonds of marriage are much stronger than we know. They needed some shake uo for sure. Kids grow up and the husband and wife are the ones who need to not neglect one another.
Tamara, David’s eyes do look unusual. I wonder if there’s a thyroid problem, as is frequently the case when the eyes begin to bulge. Hope he is all right.
Yes- his eyes have always been buggy to me. I bet he has lost weight after going through this public spectacle. I am in the minority probably but I think these two are going to make it. There was NO WAY I could have publicly documented my ex husbands infidelity but I do know it takes longer than a few episodes to “get over it”. I hope they can work it out then help those girls with the fallout of the publicity. My opinion only.
That’s my opinion as well, Riverset.
Riverset, I so agree with you. I don’t know how anyone can expect Shannon to simply “get over it” nor do I agree with those who believe she’s “punishing him.” I’ve even read comments saying Shannon enjoys being miserable. I can’t imagine Shannon wouldn’t love to forgive and forget and I also don’t believe her intent is to punish David. I have a friend whose husband had a year long affair. He did come back on his own accord and their marriage became stronger than ever. The one golden rule she learned in therapy if she wanted the marriage to work, she was to never bring up the affair. To act as it never happened. If she wanted it in the past, she had to leave it in the past. She admitted it was incredibly hard but she mastered that one rule and they’ve been happily reunited for over twenty five years.
Shannon’s therapist did her no favors by giving her “two years” to get over it. Where the woman came up with two years, I haven’t a clue, but it’s enabling Shannon to feel she has “the right” to NOT get over it yet. It’s not helping her or her marriage. I’m so sad for Shannon. I only wish she had received the advice my friend did. Maybe it would be the incentive she needs to stop regurgitating thoughts of the affair. I’m afraid David won’t wait two years for the torment to stop before he runs back to the other or some other woman. I really do like Shannon but I don’t think David is going to take any more responsibility for fixing the marriage than he already has so she really does need to adjust her attitude if she wants it to work out between them. No one wants to live in misery even though some say Shannon does. smh
Sometimes it really helps to mentally block painful memories ,or the trauma from really getting hurt. It helps take its power away. Ive had to do that before, to get through something ,and move beyond it somehow. When nothing can be done to fix it or change what happened, it gives you a reprieve to repress and mentally block it, so it doesnt kill your joy.
Thank God there wasn’t a camera crew documenting my ex-husbands infidelities (especially when I found out about the 1st one). After the divorce I moved out of the area but I’m sure the neighbors still talk about that Saturday morning when I was screaming like a wild banshee & tossed 2 patio tables, 12 chairs, & several flower planters off the deck onto the embankment below. Later that night (after a ½ bottle of vodka) I flung a dish service for 20 off the deck like Frisbees. (I was enjoying hearing each piece break on the rocks). Oh fun times! 😉
Haha! Sounds like my divorce! I commend her for letting people see her real life pain, but it has all felt rather contrived to me. I would prefer to see her pull a scene like this then her quiet “I forgive him, really” statements followed by her tearful comments to him about his cheating.
Shannon needs to send the kids away for the weekend & break a few things around the house. It sure helped me to feel better. 😉
Perhaps a minor eye lift? He hasn’t looked quite right so far this season, but it’s hard to put a finger on it. Definitely grayish though. Hopefully there isn’t some sort of health issue going on with him.
You can’t get much further away from the NY tabloids then Hawaii. I just hope we don’t have Kristin boo hooing about her husband’s infidelity all next season on RHONY like Shannon did all season on OC.
That would ruin RHONY. Plus I don’t think Kristen’s husband would go along with it like poor David.
Didn’t TT say they didn’t offer Kristen a contract? Or just my wishful thinking?
She wasn’t supposed to get one. Don’t know if the Ashley Madison thing changed that.
They sure make pretty babies. I can’t help but hope they make it. I agree about the eyes–could it be that some of the pics are selfies? I know that while the younger generation can take them with their eyes closed and they look great, I can’t. And sometimes I have kind of a weird eye when I try to take one with a friend–I’m not always sure how to snap the pic and look at the right place? I know, I’m 45–old people issues.
Could be hyperthyroidism/ Gray hair/ depressed not eating.
Yeah, I could have passed on the one of them in bed together…
My comment disappeared!
Anyway, I said I could have done without the bedroom pic.
I need a beach vacay! Looks like they enjoyed it…
Shannon looks GREAT with no makeup. She looks so young and hot. her daughters are gorg.
I thought the same thing. The no make up takes YEARS off her face!!! Wow
Maybe he was dying the hair and he stopped. He always looked like a bug to me. At least they all look happy.
He is very gray now which ages you. Also, he tends to open his eyes when taking pics which gives him a bug eyed look.
I am rooting for them. Beautiful couple and family. Love Shannon.
I never thought David was handsome. I am just going to say it. Have always thought this. His eyes remind me of Ted Bundy.
Agreed. I never thought David was hot or sexy. His eyes are a pretty blue, but very buggy and creepy. Plus, I’m not a fan of that greased back hairstyle.
“I never thought David was handsome. I am just going to say it. Have always thought this. His eyes remind me of Ted Bundy.”
With you 100%, Erica. He always looks like a bug to me. And his voice is weird.
Creeper voice.
I wish Shannon liked herself enough to dump this guy.
Agree. Being cheated on can even make the most confident, self-assured person question themselves. Of course, that wasn’t Shannon to begin with. It’s worse that Shannon wasn’t just deceived by David. She was also played by his fling. That’s really crappy. On top of it, David is giving her unnecessary information. Such as: “I slept with ‘her’ on your b-day after I screwed you.” Yeah, he did that in more ways than one. He’s really pouring salt in her open wounds. That would really mess with anyone’s head. I still agree with you.
Details are a terrible idea., it gives a visual and thats not good. Living in honesty is enough. He came clean, a basic outlune of what wenr down and the feelings behind it and then moving forward should be the plan. I have a Shannon tyoe of brain too, where Im thinking all the time, so you definatly dont want to give me too many details to obsess over and torture myself with. But I think that goes with all of us when it comes to love.
I love no-makeup Shannon. She looks at least 10 years younger without all the warpaint. Beautiful family.
He’s got Ramona eyes.
Side note- the mobile site looks fantastic.
OMG. Thanks for letting me know. I mashed some buttons last night trying to fix it and I of course have no idea how it looks. #Luddite. I DID get a phone, I just can’t log in on it. Long story…. Other more important issues to deal with.
It looks great. Whatever buttons you mashed together worked.
Must go now and check out the mobile site! I haven’t been able to get it to work. Thanks ?
The guy is probably trying to blink a “Help me” message with his eyes. No matter what he does, or how much therapy they go to, she will never get over the affair. Don’t get me wrong, I would not get over it either but I would leave the marriage and not continue to throw my kids under a bus by staying on TV.
I agree, he wears a nervous look like he’s getting caught or afraid to say the wrong thing, trying to hard to be perfect. I understand how Shannon feels, but I think you do yourself a disservice when you get too many details about the affair, or if he confesses too much. Her birthday, and it seems every interaction is fraught with memories, allowing the other woman to be a third party to every moment of your life.
If that’s the way they want to get through it, maybe, but it definitely sounds like their poor girls would not like to be reminded by the ghosts haunting Shannon so often. Hope they pull through, and his “foot stuck in a bear trap” nervous smile relaxes to genuine happiness soon too.
Imagine being the owner of a major highway construction firm in the OC area and having every sordid detail of your marriage and affair broadcast on TV. Then the little spousal unit continues to pull the victim card at EVERY opportunity, drilling in the guilt endlessly, no matter how many times or how much you humiliate yourself trying to make it up to her and the children.
The embarrassment alone. Who wouldn’t be grayer and bug-eyed? She is punishing to the point of ruining him and turning him into an insipid little yes man lap dog. I’m no fan of cheating, but Shannon needs to either shit or get off the pot and get over it already or move on and let him do the same.
“probably trying to blink a Help Me message”. I’m dying here. 🙂
Maybe he quit overdosing on the highlights. He’s always looked a bit “different” to me.
She will never completely get over his affair. Poor woman.
I hope this was a time of happiness and healing for this family.
I just want to say again, Tamara, that I think you and Chay have done a wonderful job! I love the clean, modern look of the site!
We rent a condo in Maui every year for two months over the summer- it’s right up the road from, “The Four Seasons” in Wailea. (Less expensive & triple the size of a hotel room) It is absolutely heaven on earth-I’ve been so depressed since we got back on Wednesday.
PS. I always thought David’s eyes looked strange- he never blinks either.
I really hope the marriage works out but I wish they wouldn’t include the girls in their journey-I”m afraid it’s really going to fuck them up.
Shannon & her daughters look so happy; hope she can manage to work thru the difficulties she has experienced in her marriage.Shannon puts the REAL in real housewives & I admire her fortitude.
I did think David was attractive last year. This year, not so much. Now I know I’m not the only one. Wasn’t sure if it was just my opinion of him now that changed the way I see him this year.
Anyone else thinks he kind of looks like Simon Barney? There’s a similar “look” for sure!
I really hope the whole family is in therapy, as she overstated alot and especially to the kids. I also think whatever the outcome someday they will regret putting this personal shit on TV. With all these shows I hope they’re receiving real therapy where they can be totally open & honest if your on TV no matter what, you are going to censor yourself.