Just to let you guys know, Tamaratattles.com is doing a bit of restructuring. We’re in the middle of a web design overhaul, a site hosting change, and hiring all kinds of people for ad support in addition to the usual legal team and financial team. It’s a lot. I’ve been personally looking into dozens of hosting sites today, and as it turns out, I’m WAY to big for several of them. That gave me a big head, and the same small pocket book I’ve always had for hosting fees. So I am taking a leap of faith here.
I’ve enlisted many of you for help and input with graphics and design ideas and I really want to make sure all of your opinions are considered. I’m even considering coming out from behind the mask. Aw WTF…. I added a photo of me above. Sort of…. 🙂 I’m under construction.
As with the site…. I’m a bit of a mess at the moment…
Thanks for bearing with me and reading older posts. I know some of you feel like it is too late to comment on old posts, but it is not… It actually helps the site and you can look to the right to see what everyone is talking about.
I really , really appreciate all the support. I’m very camera shy.. so you know I love you if I am giving you some sort of a glimpse behind the curtain.
I will continue posting as usual tomorrow. I’ve just had lots of meetings today… Good meetings.
xoxo
tt
Can’t wait to see the new design!
Way to go Tamara! Looking forward to your new design as well! Congratulations!!!!
That wonderful Tamara! Very exciting.
Tamara … If you need a virtual assistant, I am willing and able 🙂 lol
Love!! Can’t wait!
I like green and purple me best. I think that is probably the colors I’ll go with. What do you want to see in the new site design?
Dear TT
love the smile and eyes on the panic attack one..but will love whichever way you decide to go
I LOVE the colors green and purple. But I love the black and red because it shows YOU! I have read for quite sometime and shopped around. I always come back here because you are funny, honest, and warm. Ok, done sucking up. Seriously would love anything but the black and red with your obscured face in green and purple. THIS.
I like all of them. I think they are representative of the various shade of Tamara.
You are beautiful!! I love this site!!
You look beautiful, for a little privacy green and blue is great. Gorgeous pic!
I agree. Stunning.
TT,
I Love the Green and dark blue you the best!!! You are soooooo pretty!!!! I love this! All of your hard work has paid off!!! BEST WISHES xoxo!!!!
Maybe add some yellow because it makes things pop with purple. Mac Donalds signs have the two most eye catching colors–red and yellow. Try it out.
The lower left one makes me feel very exposed. #panicattack
You look beautiful!
If you feel too vulnerable, take it slowly. Your loyal supporters will be here…shoulder-to-shoulder…virtually speaking. This is exciting! xo
Dont worry, you’re a pretty lady. It shows just enough to keep your anonymity!
Yes, I thought you were a fat old lady, now I really hate you….kidding..not.
Smart and pretty…bitch…
Oh I AM a fat old lady. I just really distorted the pictures. 🙂 Nothing to be jealous of AT ALL.
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 2:26 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Very attractive.
Distorted the pictures, my ass!
That’s the one I like best.
That’s my favorite one! Love the smile and the eyes. Congratulations, this is much deserved success. There’s a reason you’re blog is too big for some of the hosting sites, after all, this is the best blog on the web.
…changed my mind. Like lower left red, blue, black best. Very regal. …that’s definitely the one.
The lower left is the one I vote for, but the upper right keeps you mysterious.
The lower left is gorgeous. Beautiful eyes. If you ever need content editing I am more than willing to help. Lots of luck with the new design.
TT – YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL and BRILLIANT!!! Celebrate yourself!!!!
I suggest do what makes you feel uncomfortable, it’s worked for me to my surprise.
Today I introduced myself to my husbands girlfriend. I stood tall, proud, quiet and at ease. She asked how I was, I did not reply.
I did something I never felt comfortable doing or ever wanted to do. It happened by accident and I had been concerned about this for years.
My worry was for naught. I’m feeling peaceful. the worry was much worse.
So did you know your husband had a girlfriend? I could actually give a lot of insight into this situation if you are interested.
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Yes please, all insight welcomed. Her husband died about three years ago. I have known for about 4 years.
I’m sure my husband lied to her in the beginning but she had to know that also.
She is now attending my sons wedding in Bangkok this December, my son said he couldn’t tell his Dad no. He is old. I’m ticked off but she won’t be made to feel welcomed. My other two sons hate her.
it will be interesting.
my favorite.
Awesome! Congrats TT
Ohhh im so excited for you! Cant wait! You deserve it, youve come a long way since that first blog. You rightfully became the QueenofBloggers and we are your court. Jesters and all! Congrats
Oooh, Tamara, you’re preeetty (even under construction)! Congratulations on moving on up! Excited for you & really looking forward to what’s to come at TamaraTattles.com! Congrats! ♡
Exciting time for you (and us as readers)!
Even under construction you are beautiful. We need a virtual throw darts at the evil reality star of the week
The offer is still on the table.
Email me, Tamara.
Tamara is that you? You look beautiful! There’s still an air of mystery to it, so you don’t have to worry about it being too revealing. Good luck with the overhaul. Some new graphics would be great…I’m sure you’ll do a great job. Take your time…we’ll patiently await your return.
Way to go TT!!
You work your ass of to give us the tea,and we all appreciate it.
TT, no matter if people agree with your views or not, there is no denying you have a wonderful talent.
Love the pics, very pretty smile.
Can’t wait to see what all comes from this. You deserve it, we know it. Hopefully you believe it too.
I too, volunteer to be your virtual assistant. Is there a line for that? I’d like the new design to remain simple and easy to read with your newest posts at the top. (Because I stalk your site like a mofo.) Congrats!
I love you guys. Can I get a group hug?
I’ve bitched at you , mocked you, loved you, made great friends, and lost some friends defending you… but.. we are about to either soar or crash and burn.
so um HOLD ME!
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 8:34 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Awwwww, Tamara! I’m giving you a big ole Cyber hug right now! We’ve got your back, sis!
I love you just the way you are!
I’m sure whatever changes you make will be just perfect.
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Keep going, TT. We count on your wit, compassion and refreshing perspective. Congratulations for having the courage to put yourself out there in the Inter Tubes. Big hug.
add my hug to the group ..for you TT..
((hug))
And my hug, too!
Consider yourself held ; by all of us ! Truly happy & excited for you. Xoxo Marc
Pink & Purple. Big Squeeeeze
You are very special to me, TT. I found your site when I really needed a diversion, and you and pretty much everyone accepted me almost immediately. I thank you for that.
Sorry I haven’t been around much. I had to take a break and clear my head after that one argument in comments. I was too close to the topic, and it made me cross that line from snarky to mean.
I didn’t like that I did that. And I had no one to blame but myself. So, I’ve been revamping the way I do things.
I look forward to the new layout. I may not comment as often, but I will continue to support you and your site.
It really IS the only one worth reading.
Hugs and smooches. <3
Glad you are back Cat. You were not the only one who took a break after that. I’m glad people are starting to feel safe to come back. I’ve pretty much banned the topic entirely for now
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 1:50 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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There will be no crashing and burning. Only soaring. You deserve this and it is going to be awesome. You are true to you and as long as you are nothing but the best is going to happen.
We’re all here for you Tamara. We love you ( and your snarky sense of humor)!
Pfffft….no crash and burn for the Queen! So excited for you. Is it selfish to be excited for all of us, too? Group hugs a plenty.
Hanging on tight!! Not letting go ((Tamara)) = virtual hugs.
HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS Tamara! Can’t wait to see what you have in store for us! (from what I can see, you have NO reason to worry about your picture…lovely!) <3
Aim for moon & if you miss, you will still land on a star.
Lady, wishing you the best. You’ve been a great tolerant friend.
I also like the red, black and light blue. Pretty, beautiful lips.
Congratulations on your success, I cant wait to see what you come up with!
Good news and congratulations! Can’t wait to see what you have been up to!
YAY!!!! Love Love Love this!!! Congrats!!! You are gorgeous! I can’t wait to see what’s coming next – I’ll be right here with my pom poms cheering you on!!! Can I get a #Woo-Hoo Vicki G style!!!!
Sending more congratulations! 🙂 I’m in the middle of rebranding a site I started years ago for “fun” now that I’ve decided to take things a bit more seriously as well as launching a brand new site in the process. I think I’ve lost my mind. If you need someone to bounce ideas off of, I’m happy to listen. Your site is way bigger than mine but I’m happy to lend an ear or help out another way if you need anything. Wishing you all the best! I’ve learned that those leaps of faith can be amazing. I cannot wait to see you soar!
So happy for you Tamara. .. always felt that you were going on to bigger and better things. Can’t wait to see what’s coming… Congratulations!
I’m a fan of lower left TT. I’m excited for the restructure.
you just like lower left because it is the most revealing.
I’m so freaked out by this.
Not because people will tell me how ugly I am I get that a hundred times a day, but because I can recognize myself in there…
Ma’am I don’t see ugly ANYWHERE on this page. You are beautiful. And I’m not just saying it. You truly are <3
It wasn’t about being ugly, or pretty or whatever…. I just don’t like having my photo taken, especially against my will. It’s a trigger. Let’s let it at that.
And I still weigh a shitload so even though that is a relatively new, heavily photoshopped picture… I’m still HUGE, I don’t mean to mislead.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 9:32 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I totally get that. I avoid cameras all the time. Hate it.
Still….that is my fav.
I kind of like all 4 of them the way you have them here.
Omg what a fence sitter you are Cat. Pick already!
Well, if I HAVE to choose only one, it would be the green and purple. Those colors are nice, and easy on the eyes.
I’ve been consulting with the fabulous Chay Eday a lot and we are sort of leaning toward purple with green accents for the color scheme. I keep changing my mind a lot so she is soon to run out of patience. 🙂
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 11:06 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Yes, those are the colors that have a nice feel to it. The RED with the black, I didn’t think was a good scheme. Purple/lavender with green are very nice colors!!
I sent you an email on the psychology of color. Green and purple are a good combination, and the link I sent you will explain why. You can also look up the other colors, of course. But I vote for the green and purple.
Beautiful.
GOD I am soooo excited. The photos are way cool, hell use them all. I love the way they leave a little to the imagination, but gives us a good look at how beautiful you are, all at the same time. I had to giggle when you spoke of bitching at us, mocking, loving us and so on. We sound like puppies who will love you no matter what. Yep, we are your pets and we love our master unconditionally. Did I say congrats? And Love you back.
Always…:)
Thanks Riley… it’s been a long walk… We are either jumping off a pier or going somewhere great.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 9:21 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Oh also, I am going to be fiddling with the site a lot before moving. So it if looks weird, I haven’t been hijacked I’m just fucking around.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 9:32 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Way to go TT!!! I’m so happy for you that you’ve decided to take this big step! I also recently have been getting my ish together\making big changes and trying (getting) stuff done. There are many times when I want to close the curtains, lay on the couch and disappear but as hard as it is I keep moving forward and there are more happy than sad panic moments. You are brave you’re a bad bitch and you’ll get ish done! There I’ve written you a mantra! Can’t wait to see the new site and btw you are beautiful take your time so you feel comfortable.
Lower left is fab.
Congratulations on the upcoming changes! You know I’ll be here supporting you.
I love you X… so you have to say that.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 9:33 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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See. Not just me. I vote for lower left!
Lower left get’s my vote as well.
I agree lower left!
Lower left as well.
Congrats TT! I’mhappy for you. It’s all scary yes but this is a good and exciting scary and we’re all here for you!
TT how exciting!
Change is good.also I just want to let you know, why I choose to post here.
You are an intense person who pours your emotions and journalistic talent into your site, all for the purpose of letting us rant and rave…
Thank you
Thanks Samael. You have always been a big supporter and it means a lot.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 9:36 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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when you clearly point out what is acceptable..this site magically becomes our playground…
Hello Gorgeous! This is all very exciting.
Are you going to put Banjo anywhere?
hmmm I never thought about that. I can’t make my new cell work. I don’t know how to enter numbers into my password….
Shut up. My nephew will help me one day.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 9:59 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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My client DEMANDS equal face time. Nothing less than full disclosure of his Banjo likeness repeatedly posted will be accepted. Oh and you are FREAKEN AWESOME. We will be here whatever format your site is in.
Lower left is fav…as you said most revealing! Good on you to take the next step and I can promise I will be here for all that the future brings you
I love all of this! I can’t imagine how excited/nervous/stressed/scared/panic attack ready you are. But I love your site and your posts and your personality that comes through in all of this. I’m so excited for you and want nothing but the best! I’ll be here hanging around no matter what!!!!sending positive thoughts your way
I hope you can take the archives with you when you move.
Oh no fears…. it will all go.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:02 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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uh oh, do I have to remember my sign in/password when you change? soooo screeeeeewed if I do!
I dunno probably not. You should not notice the difference. I will move from wordpress.com to wordpress.org
I think we will all be okay. It won’t happen for a bit.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:05 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Wow this is a big step…and I always knew you were prettier than your bark. Good luck with the new direction & new attitude. Love ya xoxo UF
It’s a highly photoshopped photo, UF. But is you are not going to write for TT anymore, the least you can do is let me an Banjo move it..
xoxo
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:07 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I sure hope the remark on UF not posting anymore is not a matter of fact. He has to post for American Horror Story. I finally got over Jessica not returning. But if no one is going to post……..shit!!!
UF is having his own personal success these days and is too busy to be chained to the radiator anymore. 🙁 I will NOT be watching this new season. I’m a wimp. Maybe we can convince him to start a short post from time to time without all the work of a full cap so all your HORROR(ible) people can talk that gruesome stuff. 🙂
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 8:00 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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TY Riley I appreciate your comment….
I love AHS, and I especially love the interaction here with all you guys. Though TT is correct that my life is very busy w/ a new job as well as a pain in the ass & expensive home remodeling project, I have never said I wasn’t going to write again.
I don’t expect to be able to do full on recaps, but I would like to do something on a much smaller scale just so that WE all can have a place to discuss & freak out about AHS:Hotel.
For now it has to be a wait and see basis because I have many heavy obligations/priorities in life.. but I do want to do a little somethin’ somethin’ for AHS:Hotel… So Freaktards keep checking back, but now with the NEW season I need a different pet name for you guys… Hmmmm any ideas? It is a scurrry hotel theme this year…
For any new readers here who haven’t read any of my posts about AHS: Coven & AHS:FreakShow you can click on the links for the shows in the Categories section on TT’s homepage and look around. I’m sure TT would appreciate the clicks and have fun reading & commenting too.
xoxo UF
How about Little Monsters in homage to Lady Gaga?
Nah I don’t like that too much because Gaga’s fans are called Little Monsters, and I guarantee they are going to ruin the fun this season. Besides little monsters was used a lot last season by Elsa on Freak Show.
Hellions. Hotel Hellions. LOL.
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 3:11 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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You know how when you start to type things into Google it suggest the most popular searches and or recent searches you have done? I am having bloody mary’s way too late or early anywhooo… TT, you my dear are super popular as is the fact people are eager to see your beautiful face:) Photoshopped or not you are beautiful to all of us.
I hope you and Banjo are enjoying the weekend.
Fall is still coming this year, right? Sick of this humidity.
I vote that once your site is soaring (I highly doubt crashing and burnin is an option for you, TT) We all meet up in the Bahamas. Maybe at the Atlantis, I have enough comp for a awesome suite. I don’t care how many naked guys I wake up to either. Fun!! T T meet and greet! Omgoodness
Hmmm, Hellions… I kinda like that. Keep the ideas coming guys.
Gah – My heart rate went up for you! This is so fantastic and frankly, you could wear burlap, hair in a rag, still in your sweats AFTER noon, (remember that goal for Lent?), add zero pics and move to a new site… we’d still be there. Like the clingy elementary children you used to teach.
Very exciting. You deserve it! Please chat when you feel overwhelmed and we’ll give you some well deserved props. Don’t worry about us. We’ll invite a bunch of window lickers while you’re not looking, trash the WL’s Bus and harass TeeCee when she bestows a few “fuck you’s” on us.
Aw spk, you make me cry If I shun you tomorrow bookmark this and remind me.
I do need a ton of views while I am talking to the big wigs so make it happen.
xoox
tt
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:07 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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You’re evolving! You got sexy lips Tamara.
My exes called them blow job lips. Know anyone? 🙂 🙂 🙂
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:10 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I’ll send a few dicks your way. Don’t worry, they’re pretty. 😀
I’m so proud of you, TT. You are fearless! <3
Oh no, I am so fucking fearful. It’s been forever I needed to do this. I want everyone to know I am terrified. I’m leaving a free site for a very expensive site because I will probably make a WHOLE LOT MORE there.. or else… I won’t. I’ve had to pick a random suitor of many to … I can’t even say it. I like one guy more than the next. I am going to have to com comm commi.. you know make an agreement probably next week.
By the time I looked for a hosting site, half of them could not support me. Apparently, TT is WAY bigger than I thought.
I didn’t think the people I wrote about were reading. That makes me nervous.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:12 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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As Coach Taylor would say, “Clear eyes, full heart, can’t lose!”
Whatever you need please tell us what to do for you. I am not really up on what it takes for a blog to succeed, so please enlighten. You should not be nervous about anything because you speak the truth and from the heart. People sense that and that is why you are growing like a bonfire. Trust God in all things, you are being lead. I wish you success beyond measure you deserve it. EXCITING!!!!! CONGRATS!!!!
TT, am I reading this correct? Suitors? You like one more than the others?? I bet he likes your lips;) Please forgive me.You seem to be the type that doesn’t chase men,you replace them.Men love the damn chase,so you probably have more than you even know.
Of course the ppl you blog about are reading your post. Most reality stars seem to be terrified of falling out of some sorta spotlight,so they search their names on social media, Google etc.
My job can be marketing TT. I see Tshirts, mugs hell your own wine label and liquor line. You got this.
I think y’all are picking bottom left because it is the clearest view but I like top right because I am thinking purple and green on the next look.
Can you colour the bottom left picture purple and green? That way the best picture (and crowd favourite) of you is in your preferred colour scheme.
my reaction was STOP LOOKING AT ME! but um, yeah maybe. I have a whole pic I might use.
Fun fact: There is a story behind the picture above. nevermind
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:37 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I like the bottom right image — just murky enough to keep your privacy but still see the smirk. Your artwork on this site is great, very mood-specific so I’m sure you’ll want to feel good about your next brand “logo”. Big breath, pick what feels right 🙂
TT I would call top right green and pink, but the bottom right green and bluey-purple, so I am a bit confused! Anyway I like the bottom right colour the best, and if the black and red image makes you feel too exposed, I think the bottom right would be a good choice. It gives you an air of mystery.
The black and red is very becoming, even looks like you are wearing a crown. I know your new site will be a hit.
All I know is, this is the first place I go to after work to read and laugh and pretend I’m above all the housewives. I love and appreciate all you do.
Thanks Jejune. I appreciate it so much.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:18 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Your vulnerability is your strength. You inspire me.
Congrats to you, TT! And look how beautiful you are…even in pieces. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for Tamara Tattles!
Congratulations! I logged on today and was so excited to see your artsy photos and read the news. I’m so glad to read you are growing. We need smart entertainment bloggers. The idiots have no problem showing their faces, writing their unresearched b.s., using incorrect grammar, etc. I hate photos of myself, weight a shit ton too much, but finally came out of my introverted slumber & hiding. Next thing you know I’m appointed to a city’s zoning board, attending parties, getting my life. So glad to read you are not holding yourself back anymore!
thedish, you inspire me! I’m not there yet.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:19 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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GMTA…We both said said we are inspired. Ha
Oh Fuck.
I’m very excited and happy for you, but a word of caution:
I’ve seen a good many websites fail after the overhaul because the web designers get all excited and start adding so many bells and whistles that the original site is lost.
Tread carefully.
For me, this site is easy to use and that is the number one criterium. Once the flashing lights and hoopla get involved, I have to bow out.
Maybe I am overly cautious as I’ve seen blogger after blogger get caught up in the excitement and after all of the money spent, they ended up ruining their own websites (see: Crazy Days and Nights).
Good luck and don’t let anyone talk you into unnecessary crap. Your success came with simplicity and I wish you continued success with a simple and easy to navigate forum.
Well said, TheBeast. I second all of your post, especially the part about CDAN.
Please read the commeting rules. Discussing other sites will get you banned from here.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:39 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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PLEASE READ THE COMMENTING RULES
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:30 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Just keep the 4 picture montage. Andy Warhol would be proud. Congrats on the new site. I know it will be a smashing success. Just show that lovely smile.
Just to be clear. it won’t be any different for you guys. I’m not leaving you or going anywhere.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:41 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Congrats Tamara! Though I rarely comment, I have been a loyal follower of yours. Love your blog and appreciate all the hard work. Don’t worry about whether to show yourself. You could be the Sia of blogging! Best of luck and I can’t wait to see what’s next.
Thanks Meredith!
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:49 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Happy for you, and us weirdos, too. Take your time. I’ll visit the ol’ Sheree posts for shits and giggles
Thanks, Hot Toddy.
I am gonna crash for now. And deal with everything later. My brain hurts…. as soon ask I want to move, everyone wants me. I promise to chat with you all later. But it’s bed time
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 10:54 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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It looks like you are very attractive. Shallow shit aside, congrats. Its great to see someone find success on their own terms.
Congratulations! I look forward to the changes, even though I’m not a big fan of change. My curiosity always gets the best of me though.
I like the color scheme of the bottom right the most its bold and catchy. And just my opinion, but I think it is best to use the bottom left image, the others are so distorted it might not make any visual sense on its own. Also out of curiosity are you keeping the tag line? I like it but I know you expressed regret about using “tea”. Again congrats. I love this site. I’m more addicted to it than any show.
Congratulations on taking The Big Step!
Tamara Tattles..A Work in Progress!
Okay, my dear, am I blind or just tired? Where is your donate button on this site? I’d like to support your website redesign effort (and I’m sure there are a number of other loyal TT readers who would as well), but I can’t seem to find it. Put it where I can find it, please, and I promise you that I will slap it…hard. 🙂
UGH. It looks like when I smashed the wrong button all my custom stuff was deleted. I’ll have to figure out how to fix all of that this weekend.
On Fri, Aug 21, 2015 at 11:14 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Sorry for the interruption. Puravidacostarica2, I gave you some tips on your Disney/Universal trip. I don’t know if you saw them. Hope you have a great time.
Sorry, TT…Back to the topic at hand.
It’s fun to read the older posts and to see how often you’re right, Tamara.
Congratulations! I do like the bottom left as well although not sure if my vote counts I rarely comment but come here and read all the time, this is the best site to get the truth. Thanks for keeping us all informed and entertained!
So excited about your upcoming changes. Congratulations! Keep looking up.
Very exciting….looking forward to the next chapter!
Sounds exciting! Congrats!
Your lips are hot but I keep going to your eyes- they are beautiful!
Congratulations, I am so excited for you, I love watching your lil site grow!
Thanks for all the great tea!
Left, Right or Center, lower orUupper, you are as beautiful as I always knew you were. Of course, I’m old (as you never tire of telling me) with failing sight so take it for what it’s worth. xoxo
So proud of you TT!!
I’m a faithful reader but rare commenter and I share often on fb. No blog deserves this more than you. I’m a retired/disabled teacher so I spend many hours watching tv and reading up on said TV. Many times your summaries are better than the shows themselves!! Do what you’ve gotta do and we’ll hit up the archives. Can’t wait to see what you come up with!
As for the pictures, do what you’re comfortable with, but know that you’re beautiful to us no matter what. I vote bottom left!
♡♡
Excited for the updates but you don’t have to show yourself for us to love the site. I like the anonymity but that’s just me. I’d love it if your comments/replies stood out more than just the pale blue. If I’m late to the post and there’s a lot of comments I always scroll down looking for your comments – that’s usually what interests me.
Good luck, from the window licking section!
Hey TT I have a question. Does it count as a ‘view’ of I read a post but don’t leave a comment? I don’t comment often but if it helps you out I will (I just get nervous with my TBI my grammar is screwed) Please let me know I want to help support all your hard work and I love to read with my insomnia. Sorry if it’s a dumb question.
It’s not a dumb question at all. Comments don’t matter other than they encourage other people to click the post again and read all the interesting comments. Any time you open a page and read a post it’s a view! 🙂 What helps the site grow the most is sharing links with your friends, tweeting links on Twitter, and sharing links on Facebook.
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 2:39 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Is it ok to link back to you on another site? I read the rules but I didn’t see anything specifically pertaining to that. Correct me if I’m wrong though. I ask because I’m currently snarking on a show on another site that I supplement with other site’s info and insights and if it’s OK I will link back to you when appropriate.
Linking to TT is always appreciated if the site you are posting the link on allows links!
Sent you a rabid Atlanta fan a few weeks past, a man, too.
This was good to know for I thought I needed to comment. Live and learn.
thanks Melza, for asking a question I’ve been wondering about, but was to chicken/lazy to ask. : )))
I’m so excited for you, it’s a big step but you will be fine.
Congratulations on your sucess! I’m a daily reader and enjoy both the blog and the comments. I very rarely comment but some how still feel connected. It exciting seeing a business grow… Well done!
AWESOME. so proud of you and hit up the college students in Atlanta, I know in Tallahassee people have used grad students for design projects, it is amazing some of the stuff they do and the price is right. You go girl.
Interns! The Sonja route. LOL.
I am sending you every good thought and all positive energy your way. I simply love your blog and want it’s continued success because I’m selfish like that 🙂 There’s really no way you could know how much I enjoy you, and as long as you stay you, we be cool 🙂
I find I’m very partial to the bottom right picture. It distorts your eyes, which are the windows to the soul (and I wouldn’t want everybody peering into either) but girl, that mouth…well, it’s almost criminal to keep that light under the proverbial bushel. Plus, your really gorgeous mouth is kind of symbolic as your voice, which is your blog. Plus, plus, I would never be able to make you out in a police line-up, so it will really be a shame if you won’t allow the peeps to gaze on those lips every now and then.
Well, I’ve done my best to sway your thoughts my way (I know, I know, I’m selfish like that) but bottom line, I support you no matter what. You really are the best blogger around <3
Impressed and proud. As a woman stuck in her own way for over a year, I commend your actions, AND the fact that you shared your vulnerability.
TT is my go to place for so many reasons, and I watch for many followers comments/posts, although I don’t know any of them and do not share an online connection, regular banter, or relationship.
As far as The Wizzard of Oz coming out from behind the curtain, it is exciting! Yet it does change the brand. You know that, and will only make a well thought out decision. WE know that. Best to you.
If by “share my vulnerability” you mean have a few drinks and blather about being sad, or lonely or frustrated or just plain cranky… then yeah. I’m really good at that.
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 6:39 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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So happy for your success! Congrats, can’t wait to see the new design 🙂
Hooray for Tamara!
Congratulations! I’m sure this will be a very successful move.
All of the pictures are lovely. I like the lower right. Kind of can see you, kind of can’t.
Hey there! I think you are beautiful! You should do whatever you are comfortable with.
I think, start slow in revealing yourself. You can always reveal more later.
I made a mistake years ago shared, couldn’t take it back. It was an illness people know little about so I was judged mercilessly. I wish I had been more selective. You will do great!! I like the color on lower right
Tamara,
Congrats Tamara. The purple and green. It is the least revealing and so I like it best.
Will you still include most recent comments and top posts?
How exciting and kinda scary!!
You rock.
I know it must feel weird to know people you are writing about read this site. However, I hope you comtinue to just report and tell it like it is. I remember you had a tidbit about Brandi not being the great mom she claims to be and decided not to report it.
I love LVP but am right there with you whenever you reported less than flattering news. Dont change for the LVP fans or the brandiloons. Watch out for them. They like to befriend people to change their minds. When you dont, they dump you. Just my experiece with a few of them on twitter. Keep being you TT.
Thanks Josie. Sometimes deciding not to post something because it just doesn’t feel right can be the best decision. I struggle with decisions like that from time to time.
On a general note. I really appreciated everyone’s support. Sometimes things (things like me…) can get pretty hostile up in here. A big group hug like this is a nice reset.
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 9:14 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I am very excited for you! I like all four pictures, little peeks into the wonder that is you. I have gotten so much from following your site, just knowing there are lots of people out there who will follow you wherever your blog ends up…you go girl!
Off topic- You are also right about the Dukes on BLT’s. 😉
I always knew you were pretty! I like the bottom left, but of course you don’t have to show yourself at all if you are uncomfortable! Or what about an avatar that looks like you? Then you might not feel exposed or like you were “cheating” because you photoshopped yourself. They always look cute anyway.. Very excited to see the new changes coming! ☺️
I tried the outline drawing thing. That program just accentuated all my wrinkles. Unlike this version that just wipes them out. heh.
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 10:04 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Reading Beads, you somehow found me on practically day one… Thanks for hanging around through it all. I know I am high drama at times.
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 11:16 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Fantastic! Congratulations, Tamara! I am happy for you!
And I love seeing your beautiful face!!!
You really are incredibly pretty…that gorgeous mouth! Wow!
I like the Andy Warhol idea of using all the images. You will do a great job, and you’ll just continue building on the success you already have.
Y’all are scaring me with the whole pretty mouth stuff!!!!
http://youtu.be/lWqkVhlY-5A
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 10:49 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I have anxiety and depression. The very first thing I do in the morning is read what is posted on your sight. It helps set the tone for my day and gives me the encouragement to leave the house when I often don’t feel like I can. I thank you for that. It takes so much courage to reveal yourself like that. It makes you vulnerable and it’s a big step I applaud you for it. Thanks to you and everyone else for being my free therapists.
Morning Chey. I woke up this morning SUPER anxious about posting the pictures. We can both breathe through the morning anxiety together.
Just me, you and some Bob Marley….
http://youtu.be/mACqcZZwG0k
Everybody sing….
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 11:18 AM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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You the best….
Great news! Little Kyle has flowers! I am going to be a gramma–okay I am going to eat the babies…
OMG! I thought maybe Kyle was infertile it was taking her so long! Congrats!
On Sat, Aug 22, 2015 at 12:44 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Best of luck with your new endeavor!! I also love the bottom left. You are beautiful just like I always thought you were. I never believed your fat old lady stuff- nope! I actually had a dream that I did finally see a picture of you several months ago….keep up your great writing and take Banjo out for walks- I know it is cooling off there a bit. Still blazing hot here in South Texas!
WOW big news, if a little mysterious, just like the “pictures” you’ve posted of yourself. Can’t wait to see the changes and I hope it brings you enough money to support your hopes and dreams.
Beautiful photo! Good luck with this! I know it’s scary but you’ll make an assload of money!
So excited for you! What an accomplishment! You take you time… We’ll be here waiting when you’re ready 🙂
I love Bob Marley to what a great idea.
Nice lips. Best ‘o luck with amelioration, pal ‘o mine.
Just a quick note about reading older posts:
After I catch up on the new posts, I have developed a funny habit of going back exactly 1 year and reading that months archives.
Last August 2014 Caleb and Frankie were still in the Big Brother House, dear Kim Richards had a hospital stay and Dance Moms had different competitions and trials.
it offers a quirky perspective on how some things have changed and some things have remained constant. And it reminds me of where I was in life one year ago. With the arc and fall of my own story line in real life.
Shedding the old and re-setting the new can be refreshing and invigorating. I hope that is exactly how it feels for you Tamara.
You bring a lot of thoughtful and provocative joy to people. Thank you.
I vote to Andy Warhol it. Be in the same company as Jackie O and Marilyn.
I understand the whole anxiety and hatred of having your picture taken thing. Photoshopped or not, it took a lot of courage to post your pictures; more courage than I have. You are beautiful. I rarely post, but thought I would come out of hiding to let you know how much I appreciate you. Your blog is the only one I have bookmarked and I look forward to reading it everyday. It’s a nice distraction for me. Thank you for your efforts, honesty, humor, and dedication. Good luck on this big, scary, new chapter of your life! I will be here, as always, looking forward to the next post.
How exciting!! Congratulations TT!
I like the lower left pic. I view this site at least 10 times a day. (Im tethered to my phone.) I know anything worth knowing will be posted on your site, accurately. I also have a lot of time on my hands. My tomatoe plants are finally producing, even though I planted them late in the season.
Congratulations Tamara!!! You deserve every bit of good things and happiness that comes your way. You are a smart intelligent lady, and your site attracts other smart intelligent people. I’m glad we can all come with you on this new phase of your journey. Are we going to be able to keep the avatars we currently have? Just wondering. I like the lower left best, but it would be nice to have an image with you and Banjo together…….? Anyway I enjoy your site, the comments from the other commenters, and how everyone lifts everyone else up. Ok I’m gushing now so I will stop, but thank you for providing a nice place for us to come and share.
Wow! Good for you! How exciting! I love your site and have for a very long time. In order to get my TT fix I have to visit the site multiple times a day. It is going to be to a thrill watching how the site progresses, even though I love how it is currently. You are smart and talented, I have faith in you and know you will make the right decisions to get the site how you want it. Congratulations TT! XOXO
….don’t worry…bout a ting…cuz every little thing gonna be alllllriiiiiight!!!
Love love you! Can’t wait! 🙂
Very cool and very innovative. It reminds me of a Dali painting, Lincoln in Dalivision. At first glance, it appeared to be an abstract painting, but I clearly saw your face and features in the black and red. You have striking eyes and big lips, along with a perfectly formed nose.
Before my ex and I separated, he told me I was fat and ugly in every argument we had. When I got my mojo back, I realized his attack on my beauty or lack thereof said more about him than I. Me thinks you’re a very attractive woman, Tamara. Who we are in life is defined by our choices. I think you should forge forward and use the picture of yourself. You’re so confident on your site, sometimes it scares me…lol….so I’m surprised to think you wouldn’t want everyone to see the face attached to the name.
Best luck with this new endeavor.
Congrats! I love the lower left but with the green and purple. Although I know you hate showing yourself! I hate pictures of myself. I never look good. I have panic attacks and have been suffering a ton lately! I bought a new home and am trying to sell my current one. I love your site and check it daily! I will try to comment more.
I love the portrait just as it is, colorful and fragmented. It reminds me of the album cover of Lhasa de Sela’s CD, La Llorona; surreal, enigmatic and still representative of its subject. For business, I have no head, but how marvelous that you are pleased and excited. Your work is beautiful and brave and very funny and deep at the same time. May it be blessed by all the gods and goddesses who watch over artists.
Here’s a belated hug. I love your site! You’re beautiful, no need to hide.
I think you’re going with a purple and green color scheme, but my favorite color is the royal blue! Doesn’t matter. I’ll be reading you every day anyway.
Well done tamara love your site from oz. good luck with new direction
Ah you know, purple should be one of the theme colors to match the little purple pen (your trademark!). And the graphic designers should have your purple pen represented in some way in the design. Oh yes, I can see it. It’s so you!
Ooh ooh……I like this! representing the purple pen!
Nice idea, Kat!
Add my vote to that idea.:)
My best to you, T. Waitin in anticipation. Yea, you. Namaste (def.= spirit in me salutes spirit in you).
Tamara, I love you and everyone on this site. Your fans were so supportive when I drug my nasty history out, and the kind words helped me through a dark day. I have gained a lot of weight and hate my picture being taken too, just a reminder that I have no self control. I am proud of your strength in exposing yourself, you truly are beautiful. I am proud of you for your news and so excited for you!! Much love and many hugs!
Great! Can’t wait! As a small note: it would be helpful to see the date published once you click on the link and not just on the main page. I sometimes go from one link to another on your site that a point of reference would be nice. Congratulations!!!
Hmmm thanks Karla. I’ve never noticed that before. I hate when I Google a story and I can’t figure out when it was written.
TT,
Long time reader, first time commenter!
Congratulations on the reconstruction, all the designs are great! You are the only blog I read now, because of your integrity and purple pen wit!
Can’t wait to see the design you choose! Also, I agree with everyone else you are quite the beauty!
I really like it grouped together like you have it! It’s like an Andy Warhol. I am sure someone already said this above but there were a billion comment! I couldn’t get through them all. Great job!
I meant the OTHER bottom right pic…as in Left.
Tamara, this is awesome. You turned out to be the beautiful person on the outside that I’ve come to know on the inside. My personal favorite of course is the bottom left because for the first time I get to put a gorgeous face with a friend. I’m telling you the truth by the way because I wouldn’t lie even for you. You don’t have to worry about exposing too much of yourself because we all loved you before we saw it and that will remain the same.
I think the others are just the different sides of you and that you should use them all. It would be cool if you could change them depending on your mood. The pink and green one that you like the most is for the times when you’re feeling the need for a little space. The red, yellow and green one could work for when posters are working your last nerve, people are about to be sent to the window licker section or just as a overall stupidity warning. The blue and orange one would work for normal days at the office and finally the red and black one would be for the times when you are on a roll, feeling all warm and fuzzy inside (maybe from a little vino) and talking about your life, Banjo, your crazy gaybor, things like that there lol.
I’m proud of you T and the effort you are making. I know it’s hard to make changes sometimes but you’re doing it. From the number of responses here and all the kind words, looks like you’ve got all our support. Good luck lady.
Congratulations! Your pocketbook will catch up! Looking forward to what’s to come.
I gotta go with the bottom left. Love you lots, T!!!
My goodness, you are much better-looking than I had imagined! Very Talullah Bankhead-ish.
Congratulations, Tamara. I wish you great success with whatever direction you take with your blog. I rarely post anymore because by the time I get here someone else has said something similar to what I was thinking.
The scrambled photos reminded me so much of someone – I finally realized it is the great Ellen Burstyn at her loveliest.
Best wishes to you.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU! <3 <3
Thanks J.D. But me and you both know you are not the sharpest tool in the shed here….
xoxo
On Sun, Aug 23, 2015 at 7:45 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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Very excited for you!
Congratulations!.. it’s wonderful to see how this site has grown. I think you should stay anonymous…. it adds to the mystic. Maybe share more stories about youself to connect with everyone. . But I would keep my picture private
You are making it happen. Here’s to continued success and enough dough to take a spontaneous trip anytime the mood strikes! Oh, and to hire someone to torture next-door Norman Bates.
As for pics, I agree with others that all of them are cool, and should be used as a mood ring…
Hey,TT
Thanks for sticking around through thick and thin, Deco!
On Mon, Aug 24, 2015 at 9:57 PM, Tamara Tattles wrote:
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I’m definitely late to the party, but I just wanted to say congratulations you crazy fabulous bitch; can’t wait to see the face lift you unveil for this old gal that has brought me joy on many a sleepless night.
Curious if anyone else here that reads TT’s site directly through WordPress has noticed → not only are you no longer able to “like” specific comments, but you’re no longer able to respond to any & all comments. Instead you can only reply to comments that have a “reply” option.
About 6 months ago it took me a few days to figure out how to use these options & now they’re gone! 🙁